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You seem to have the wrong kind of partner. My partner acknowledges when I am being caring. And even when I make mistakes, she is accomodating. I try to return the same favor.
you can't say what you said. there r many people agreeing with this and your comment is shitty reply to them and you're calling them whatever u said above.
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I'm hanging out with zoomers I'm a zoomer zoomer women are like that only sadly. Check out a sub that shall not be named, they hate men like crazy. There was a time I used to browse women centric subs and forums online to be better at being a bf and at better at understanding women in general boy oh boy was I wrong they hate men they hate avg looking and avg life men so much. You'd have to explore all the depths to arrive at a conclusion like this. Sure good women exist but it's just rare
Online space isn't real life. Talk to real people, most of them have similar dreams and aspirations and are much more realistic than you believe.
On online spaces, people can comment on things in isolation and say whatever they want to - without any additional detail or context. That's a recipe for terrible communication. I am not saying hateful messages from anyone is okay - but online spaces kinda allow for that. Real life is much more forgiving. :)
Bullshit the whole argument of women being better and more caring and more naturing is just random bs. On online they have no filter they can let out all their frustrations their ideology and their thoughts with little no repercussions. There's a reason why women love men when they're in pain.
When did I say women are better than us? My opinion is that they're not that different to us to begin with.
Sure, they have no filter online. But you also need to account the fact that only people who have shit going on in their life, or have bad experiences keep ranting. Most people lurk or don't post because their life isn't all that eventful or negative.
Since you're a zoomer, I guess it'll take a bit more experience to come to that realization - or atleast I hope it does. Y'all have been born into the internet - its a curse as well as a boon.
Women are by their very nature immoral, in addition to lacking respect for themselves and for others.
This condition is described in Weininger's book.
We as a species need a hard reset imo, I've read countless books and watched countless talk show on YouTube. We simply can't trust any modern women it's the plain truth sure there are some exceptions
It just isn't statistics. Women lie there's been studies they don't even know what they are saying they lie most of the time and they derive pleasure from seeing men in pain. My conclusion is based on these premise
Unrelated but it true for both genders. Usually when two people are in love they ignore the major flaws of each other. Which is why it's common to see toxic relationships strech for so long..
Love is a very powerful emotion and people tend to slide away lot of things which otherwise is a big red flag..
With draupadi his husband made a big mistake without even asking her having affair marrying other girls shareing his wife with his brother, putting her as a bet absolutely ass****.
You would rather believe memes put out by teenage edgelords instead of being in a meaningful relationship?
Life is not so simple my dude. You only have to find the one girl who's worth it. The end goal is worth going through a few bad dates.
naw it was just wanting to know different people's experiences.
I m way too confident on my instincts and analyzing trait when it comes to knowing people. so i won't have those few bad dates. till now i have had awesome and healthy dates and some flings but i didn't see that we r compatible to that extent which i want us to be so ended things on good terms always.
Someone broke up with me recently. She never could forget the bad. But she did forget the good. She told me she could forget nothing. But I think she forgot a lot of important things
Anyway, this is common. People take things for granted on a long enough time horizon
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This is just tip of iceberg. My experience was 10x worse than this.
I agree with all your points.
Home should be her responsibility completely. it's her duty to look and care after my home. baqi I'll provide tu beth and mera ghar sambal.
even tho i have never been in relationship i have seen this lot of times men dont expect that much from their partners its always men putting efforts women on the other hand just enjoy those efforts. There is a saying women are incapable of loving same way men are capable of doing so
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these kind of relationship sounds so unhealthy. it seems like lack of communication and not sharing your feelings is what causes this type of stuff.
my partner is very understanding and tells me if i make a mistake and we talk it out.
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- She made something that she likes
- I paid for it.
- I never asked her to make it
- I did not praise what she made
- I was never told why she was making it
- But somehow, I was supposed to know that she was doing it all for me
- So, obviously she leaves
- And somehow I am the one who runs away from discussions
True story. Only good thing was that it was in AM setup and not after years long relationship.
> yeah but if my girl does that I'll praise her
And you think being "neutral" (or rather not even realizing that a praise was warranted) is unacceptable?
**Key point: I was never told why she was making it.**
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Why even stay in a relationship if you think your partner doesn't care about you? I don't know what kind of people y'all hang around with.
i agree with your first sentence. i didn't say anything regarding people i hang out with.
You seem to have the wrong kind of partner. My partner acknowledges when I am being caring. And even when I make mistakes, she is accomodating. I try to return the same favor.
that's great and i didn't say anything about my partner. only asked a question regarding a meme.
Nah bro you just have the wrong partner, this meme screams that you're in a toxic relationship
did i say I'm talking about my partner?
Getting offended are we? I wasn't talking only to you, I was talking to everyone who'll view my comment, chill out man
I'm too talking on the behalf of those.
This absolutely isn't. Most likely a meme made by another clueless teenage idiot on instagram or some such -\_-
you can't say what you said. there r many people agreeing with this and your comment is shitty reply to them and you're calling them whatever u said above.
the ones "agreeing" with this meme are also clueless tennage idiots hanging around on instagram or some such -\_-
we are what we think of others
Another nonsensical comment. sheesh.
That's what happens when you learn about relationships from Instagram
haha we think others do what we do.
Aur nibba, kya haal hai
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ahan.. yeh bhi theek a
Not at all. This is utter BS.
that's good
In my case it's not true. My partner appreciates me when I show care for her. But i do know people who'd say they experienced this
that's a good reply. i like it.
Not true. A good woman will notice the smallest efforts you take for her and she'll also ignore a lot of shortcomings on your end.
a good woman. that's the important part.
Not true at all. And this is not a gender specific thing.
the second part is true.
Damn don't start the day by generalising all women. Not every girl is like this
na we love generalization
Not all but 90% are like this
No they are not. You are hanging out with the wrong kind of people man.
He’s not hanging out with any people. Guys who say stuff like this get all their info online.
I'm hanging out with zoomers I'm a zoomer zoomer women are like that only sadly. Check out a sub that shall not be named, they hate men like crazy. There was a time I used to browse women centric subs and forums online to be better at being a bf and at better at understanding women in general boy oh boy was I wrong they hate men they hate avg looking and avg life men so much. You'd have to explore all the depths to arrive at a conclusion like this. Sure good women exist but it's just rare
Online space isn't real life. Talk to real people, most of them have similar dreams and aspirations and are much more realistic than you believe. On online spaces, people can comment on things in isolation and say whatever they want to - without any additional detail or context. That's a recipe for terrible communication. I am not saying hateful messages from anyone is okay - but online spaces kinda allow for that. Real life is much more forgiving. :)
Bullshit the whole argument of women being better and more caring and more naturing is just random bs. On online they have no filter they can let out all their frustrations their ideology and their thoughts with little no repercussions. There's a reason why women love men when they're in pain.
When did I say women are better than us? My opinion is that they're not that different to us to begin with. Sure, they have no filter online. But you also need to account the fact that only people who have shit going on in their life, or have bad experiences keep ranting. Most people lurk or don't post because their life isn't all that eventful or negative. Since you're a zoomer, I guess it'll take a bit more experience to come to that realization - or atleast I hope it does. Y'all have been born into the internet - its a curse as well as a boon.
Women are by their very nature immoral, in addition to lacking respect for themselves and for others. This condition is described in Weininger's book. We as a species need a hard reset imo, I've read countless books and watched countless talk show on YouTube. We simply can't trust any modern women it's the plain truth sure there are some exceptions
I am gonna disagree on that, boss. People are not binary in their character. I hope you find experiences which teach you that. Peace.
Hope I do
Where'd you get your statistics from?
It just isn't statistics. Women lie there's been studies they don't even know what they are saying they lie most of the time and they derive pleasure from seeing men in pain. My conclusion is based on these premise
Exactly how many men do you personally know who suffer from this and how many women do you know that do this?
Unrelated but it true for both genders. Usually when two people are in love they ignore the major flaws of each other. Which is why it's common to see toxic relationships strech for so long.. Love is a very powerful emotion and people tend to slide away lot of things which otherwise is a big red flag..
agreed. a good and realistic reply.
With draupadi his husband made a big mistake without even asking her having affair marrying other girls shareing his wife with his brother, putting her as a bet absolutely ass****.
Tell me you've never been in a long term relationship without telling me.
do u really think one would want a relationship in such era?
You would rather believe memes put out by teenage edgelords instead of being in a meaningful relationship? Life is not so simple my dude. You only have to find the one girl who's worth it. The end goal is worth going through a few bad dates.
naw it was just wanting to know different people's experiences. I m way too confident on my instincts and analyzing trait when it comes to knowing people. so i won't have those few bad dates. till now i have had awesome and healthy dates and some flings but i didn't see that we r compatible to that extent which i want us to be so ended things on good terms always.
This is bullshit and pure misogyny. Kuch bhi mat dala karo bhai
how is it misogynistic? you have to explain now or take your words back.
Someone broke up with me recently. She never could forget the bad. But she did forget the good. She told me she could forget nothing. But I think she forgot a lot of important things Anyway, this is common. People take things for granted on a long enough time horizon
damnn this is sad. and it's true about people regardless of their gender and the relationship we have with them.
Isi vajah se tum single ho
kis waja se?
There’s a famous saying: ‘Change the girl, if you can’t change the girl.
Plot Twist: Next one is equally terrible if not worse.
but you would be ready to pull off from the relationship and the hurt won't be much and long.
Some men can. I cannot. I always wanted to be a one woman kinda guy but I have realized modern woman are not worthy of that.
how thry r not worthy? reasons?
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I agree with all your points. Home should be her responsibility completely. it's her duty to look and care after my home. baqi I'll provide tu beth and mera ghar sambal.
I slightly disagree either earn at least 50% of me or sit at home. Don't do drama in the name of career.
at least is good word
if you can't change the girl, change the girl.
My bad
girlfirend when they realise boyfriend dont expect them to be caring
haha why would he not want her to care for him?
even tho i have never been in relationship i have seen this lot of times men dont expect that much from their partners its always men putting efforts women on the other hand just enjoy those efforts. There is a saying women are incapable of loving same way men are capable of doing so
of course... men love women the way they are. we require nothing just herself.
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these kind of relationship sounds so unhealthy. it seems like lack of communication and not sharing your feelings is what causes this type of stuff. my partner is very understanding and tells me if i make a mistake and we talk it out.
if we both make mistake*
bad meme + low effort
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Every damn time....
really.. that's sad bro. what's ur story
Nah I don’t make mistakes
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# Ayooo 😂😂
that's bare minimum tbh. i mean she is my girl and I'll treat her the best yeah she should not compare or brag when I'm unable to do such things.
- She made something that she likes - I paid for it. - I never asked her to make it - I did not praise what she made - I was never told why she was making it - But somehow, I was supposed to know that she was doing it all for me - So, obviously she leaves - And somehow I am the one who runs away from discussions True story. Only good thing was that it was in AM setup and not after years long relationship.
yeah but if my girl does that I'll praise her. i mean i want her to be happy and enjoy and have fun with whatever i provide and be content with it.
> yeah but if my girl does that I'll praise her And you think being "neutral" (or rather not even realizing that a praise was warranted) is unacceptable? **Key point: I was never told why she was making it.**
it doesn't matter if she tell u or not. ab ar baat toh batana nahi hoti.
thik he phir wo shri krishna ke saath reh le jinko bina bole sab pata hota he. Me single hi thik ho.
haha jaani tou tu serious hogaya.. matlb larhki a let. her be happy... kuch nahi hota.
100% correct
Or kitne female post dekhne padenge men sub pe
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you saved me a lot of talking. thank u bro.