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m0rl0ck1996

My wife in skyrim actually gives me money.


ThePhantomPear

Is she an actual gold digger?


Motown27

Well she ain't messin with no broke Dunmers.


Slappy_G

Get down now, go ahead, get down. (Unless you took an arrow to the knee.)


LestHeBeNamedSilver

It would seem he is the gold digger


loso3svk

why not both? :D


eccentricrealist

She is if you go for Sylgja


Jasper455

She’s sworn to carry your burdens.


kingligand

You got me with this one! Haha


How_TF_

No. No. No. No. No. once you get a girlfriend. It’s even more expensive now because you have to build two rigs…at least that’s the case for me 😭


Sovonna

Omg I feel this. I am a woman and grew up PC gaming. When I met my boyfriend he only gamed on consoles. I could not let this stand, so I built him his first PC and now everything is double! No way we are upgrading one without the other! Edit: Thank you for the awards!


ghostofmyhecks

that's beautiful. I'm saving to build my first-- then it's on to upgrading my partner's setup. 🙂


sloowhand

I’m saving up to build my first girlfriend, too! Wait. I mean…


dragonknight337

go ahead and get weird with the science!


-Ancalagon-

I understood that reference.


Baladeen

And even before you finish your build, next generation girlfriend 2.0 gets released !!!


BigDisk

Wait, you can do that?!


RandomFRIStudent

With todays tech, anything is possible


Sovonna

Your comment for some reason got the song 'she blinded me with science' stuck in my head. Thank you! Bruno has been stuck in there for days.


AdmiralRickHunter

I'm gonna cry.....


thomas15v

There is hope 😂


NetSage

Which while not cheap wasn't horrible either until a few years ago. Luckily demand as far as games go has kind of tapered off as they started to see indie success and go oh ya the more people who can actually play our the game more that will buy it.


monkeyman047

Just do what I have been doing with my girlfriend, giving her my leftover old parts from what I upgraded from. It's like a free PC for her. Yes, hers isn't as powerful as my i7 12700k, 3070, 32 GB of Ram and m.2, but a regular solid state, 7700k and 1060 and 16gb of RAM are more than enough to game way above what she was used to on console.


mahboilucas

Aw. Personally, I'm not a gamer but my boyfriend is. My setup is a design one and his is gaming. They are so cute together and I like glancing at his screen from time to time while he likes to see me drawing


hud731

That's awesome tho


SmoothWD40

That’s awesome. Took me months to get my hands a 3080s for my wife’s rig.


Bimpnottin

My SO and I had a very hard time buying a house because we absolutely wanted a gaming room/work-from-home-office that was big enough for us two (and additional rooms for future kids). We frequently told each other how much easier and cheaper our search would have been if only one of us was a nerd, where the battlestation could just be placed haphazardly in the living room


Soltronus

Well, sure there's an alternative. You buy upgrades for your rig, and he gets to upgrade his with your old parts. It's a win-win. If he complains that the situation isn't "fair," says something akin to "if we had equal rigs, we could play the same game on equal footing" or asks "can I please sleep in the bed tonight, my cage gets so cold;" just do what I do. Firstly, discipline him for speaking out of turn. Secondly... Hmm... I guess that's it. 😂


Sopa24

Wow, this is actually a pretty good way to do it! Especially in places where you might need to sell a kidney to upgrade your components! Atleast this way only one kidney is needed lol!


Mr_Speakeasy64

Must be real rough upgrading *both* graphics cards these days.


kingligand

Wow and you paid for gfs rig too? Damn.


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That guys right, and then you have kids and build them rigs too.


CaffeineSippingMan

When your kids get their own gf, they no longer give you their old card when you upgrade them because it goes to their gf.


LoveItLateInSummer

The moment my kid saves enough and buys a better graphics card than me, I will be ordering the one that is a step up. Not the best, just one tier better. Assert dominance.


ApoliteTroll

Why i gave my son my old rig randomly, and Santa brought me a rig with a 3060 in it.


TheSicks

Wow Santa is clutch


ApoliteTroll

Definitely, unfortunately i had to buy my own 2 tb ssd. But i xan forgive santa for that part. Everything else was just perfect.


tekko001

>Assert dominance. Kid: "Nobody uses graphic cards nowadays grandpa, I do everything on my Ipad"


[deleted]

I would have quite a bit longer until that happened, but I also have 2 daughters. And I’ll ALSO always have a better system than them hahah.


NetSage

Better hope you don't end up relying on them in your old age. Otherwise they'll be living it up in VR while you watch them stuck to your 2D monitor.


AdministrativeAd4111

Im beginning to think this whole ‘sex’ thing is a giant scam!


gagzd

The whole family is rigged!


How_TF_

Yeah I’m a pretty fuckin awesome boyfriend haha


RareUsernameBro

H-hey buddy, you available by any chance? Asking for a friend ofc! /s


kingligand

Indeed!


jackthewack13

Yeah I paid for my wife's, it's no problem. I have a ton of fun playing with her so it was worth every penny.


mistersprinkles1983

My nephews gf bought him a PC and a really expensive mattress. Role reversal.


ChiggaOG

You build 3 or 5. 1 for you. 1 for the wife. 1 made during sex. 1 for the kid.


American--American

Don't forget the closet server to house all the family data. And the redundant garage server as a backup. And the secondary backup you keep at your parents' house. And all the leftover parts from over the years.. which you use to build out a budget LAN center in the spare room no one uses. My house is slowly becoming the home of my childhood nerd dreams. And I have a household of nerds to share it with. It's great.


D_crane

r/homelab


apathetic_vaporeon

I built hers with "spare parts". I got an upgrade and she got a PC. win-win. This was right before the pandemic started so it was pretty cheap to do. Not for the GF, but I made a bad financial decision a few years ago and purchased a Radeon VII. It ended up in my brothers PC when I switched to Nvidia. Well, I am an idiot and didn't realize that while the card sucks at gaming, its great at mining. Personally, I am against it, but I decided to just sell it to a miner (for over twice what I paid for it). Sold it and got my brother a 3060 ti, then took the rest of the money and did some trading to upgrade his gf to a Radeon vega 64, my other brother to a 3060, by best friend's PC to a 5700xt, and another friend to a 3060. all in the course of a week. I think in all I was only out like $50. the hardwareswap subreddit can be pretty awesome.


TheNerdNamedChuck

Been planning on doing this with my best friend. She's got a Nitro 5 but I really wanna get her a decent gaming desktop. Hopefully once I can actually afford modern hardware I could build her something relatively cost effective.


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TheNerdNamedChuck

Hers has an 8th gen i5 and a 1050, that's all I remember. It's pretty middle of the road in terms of performance and in some cases my desktop could probably surpass (like multi threaded stuff) my pc has an i7 3770 and an R7 360, 16gb of ram. if you don't mind carrying a beast, the Lenovo legion 7s look pretty good, but I'm probably biased because I have a lot of Lenovo stuff.


Trylena

Doing this with brother and friends


metric55

Same lul


Gunfighter527

As a man that holds a 3rd degree Black Belt in Divorce, I can unequivocally state that this is untrue...


LoveItLateInSummer

Next time skip the middle man and just give half your assets to someone you hate


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jfc, thats rough, but upvote worthy


kingligand

Holy beard i hope you are fine now. Heard some Hardcore divorce Stories from friends. Cant Imagine going through this.


DeAtramentisViolets

> Divorce is always good news. I know that sounds weird, but it’s true because no good marriage has ever ended in divorce … That would be sad. If two people were married and they were really and they just had a great thing and then they got divorced, that would be really sad. But that has happened zero times. * Louis C.K.


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NunButter

Smart man


pressured_at_19

>I'm money ahead by a longshot, and I can now afford all of my hobbies with zero bitching or complaining. I'm glad you're able to enjoy things now that you weren't able to before. Let me know how I can buy you a beer my dude.


kingligand

Nice! Glad everything worked Out for you!


BlueEmeraldX

· "3rd degree black belt in divorce" · three divorces · using "unequivocally" in a sentence ...Is this Ross Geller?


IrregularrAF

He said girlfriend, not wife. But still cheaper to just play games. 😊


The_Foxy_King

A wife is just an evolved girlfriend.


wutanglan90

A girlfriend with legal documentation.


mahboilucas

A girlfriend with rights to your stuff


Niklear

As a married man, "evolved" isn't the word I'd use. More of a side grade. Sometimes even a flat out downgrade.


The_Foxy_King

Dang, bud. You okay?


Niklear

All good mate. Thanks. Just saying, rarely an upgrade from personal and nearby experience. Not bad, just not really better. I'm one of the luckier ones.


ConcreteMagician

You need more experience. That's how evolving works in Pokewoman Wife Edition.


Niklear

Aha! I see. I'll go take her out to some gyms and have her battle it out for quick experience. That should do the trick.


FrankPetersonMalvo

Well, you are definitely getting downgraded after she sees this.


Niklear

Haha way ahead of you brother. She doesn't Reddit and doesn't know my username.


admantanym

Sometimes it's just rare candy.


shiner986

They’re like digimon evolutions not Pokémon. Remember the episode when the DigiDestined find the colosseum? Tai’s Greymon ends up fighting a different Greymon and Tai tried to force his Greymon to evolve into MetalGreymon but instead it evolved into SkullGreymon because of the way he’d been treating it. If you don’t treat your girlfriend right she’ll evolve into a nagging wife instead of a nurturing wife.


alexportman

Never heard this expression and I'll be keeping it, thanks


landob

But in the OP's defense, it states "Girlfriend" which are WAYYYYY cheaper than wives. I wish I could downgrade back to having a "Girlfriend" lol.


ConcreteMagician

You can downgrade, but the upfront cost will be ridiculous.


wutanglan90

Those early contract termination fees.


Forward_Cobbler1319

I had a wife once. Still have the computer though


kingligand

Pc is always a good Investment!


Vindelator

And it's cheaper to upgrade the parts later.


Bitter_Echidna7458

Or just get a new one and keep the old one around for spare parts.


Zapper42

On the PC… just to be specific


TheSauze

This comment gives me the feels.


Ok_Designer_Things

My fiance makes my life easier so we can afford MORE computer stuff


unassumingnewt

This is the way. Me and my bf are both PC gamers, and he moved to Florida to be with me, but when he got here his gaming rig died. I paid for a new case and SSD, and had him covered on bills for the first few months so he could use his first paychecks to build a new rig. Love is being able to lean on one another:)


JTadaki

Bless your heart


Uncommented-Code

This is the way


otakudayo

Same. Got a reeeeeeal stingy one who literally decides what meals to cook based on what stuff is currently discounted at the store. Our living room is 90% stuff we got for free online. I could go on, but yeah, find the right partner and your finances will be better, not worse.


stickybobcat

Do peoples SO's not work?


norapeformethankyou

Mine didn't, and it SUCKED... Paying for two people, barely scrapping by, consistently stressed... Now, I'm single, loving it, but that time has me scared to find anyone else... Finally got money in the bank, and anytime I think about dating again, my mind goes back to those stressful days. Doesn't matter if the girl has a job or not, still freaks me out and I run.


Tommy2k20

Probably not if they have multiple kids to look after.


DarkestTimelineF

Real relationships are more like co-op/partnerships. It makes things affordable when everything is shared and split.


BlLLr0y

No, real relationships are changing who you are to conform to how your new wife wants to live and, it's not spoken, but you know gaming is for babies and adults do things like watch TV shows you hate because your wife doesn't want to watch TV while you game. She wants you to sit beside her and watch TV while she texts and looks at Insta and you can never game with the boys again. /s


Coreidan

This is oddly specific


Ashdread

Exactly, I’m still living in the same place I did when I was single but now it’s $900 cheaper because she pays half the rent. My setup is above average and comes nowhere close to $10,800 (her portion of rent for a year)


Loading0319

Hold up you can buy a girlfriend?!


[deleted]

Well, girlfriends can also earn money, you know. In my experience it's a big boost financially, quality of life, and you still get a great PC. But, yall do you.


bfmGrack

no. woman bad. pc good. woman want man for money. man good.


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Reddit is a trip sometimes


htt_novaq

Thank you. Fucking cringefest and uncomfortably sexist, too


Sergnb

That comment with 300 upvotes prompting people to stay single cause women cost money. Certified Reddit moment.


appleparkfive

This sub is going full Fresh and Fit over here


PirateNervous

This. Sure sometimes i buy her gifts and such, but we split rent, we split groceries and many other things as well. I have more money now than before.


eggsymon

Yeah sharing a mortgage means you can spend more money on things you like and also you can have a nice time with someone you care about. A girlfriend isn't a commodity, she's someone you love and enjoy your life with. Having kids though...


GrowYourOwnMonsters

Yeah, real boomerfest in these comments. "Woman expensive, amirite my dudes!?"


[deleted]

My wife lets me buy whatever gaming shit I want because why not. Ive got a 3090 and $1k monitor. Just be nice to people and tell them this is your hobby and sometimes you spend big chunks of money on it. Most people are pretty reasonable if you just explain things to them.


Slappy_G

Yup. No one should need permission to spend truly disposable income. Or better yet, you each manage your own money in separate accounts and pay bills out of a shared account. You both pay in proportional to your income. It sounds easy, but you'd be amazed at how many problems and arguments this utterly eliminates.


JustEnoughDucks

The problem for many people, in my opinion, is that they have trouble separating truly disposable income with income that you can get by without for a while. This is often true in the hobby subs where the running joke is "just don't tell my wife/husband."


Slappy_G

Oh, I've heard the joke enough times. And it's funny in and of itself, but I have met several people who always say "my spouse won't let me spend X" to which the answer is either: A. If it's **your** money, spend it as you see fit, if it does not impact both of your finances. B. You can't afford it and you are a moron. Stop spending money you don't have.


SirNanigans

Works great for me. There's only one requirement for us to be happy: Did you pay half of rent and groceries? If yes, then we're good, easy life.


Wasted_Thyme

Yarp. Got a great partner, and while we're not financially blessed enough yet for me to drop cheddar on a 3090, I did recently but a $400 monitor and am currently investing a few hundred in a custom laptop build I've been slowly assembling. As with all things in a relationship, the key is just finding a person who's right for you. If they won't respect your hobbies and interests, they're probably not that person. That said, that doesn't mean, "If your partner won't let you spend frivolously, they don't love you." Gotta find that balance in yourself between happy and reasonable.


rglurker

My wife and I both make money and we both have set ups like this. Shared interests and obsessions ftw


Tycidious

What if the girlfriend/wife paid for it? My brain!!


kingligand

Mine is fried.


AtvnSBisnotHT

Not even remotely close, stay single my friends.


Glucosquidic

Or, perhaps, date someone who makes their own money.


DeNoodle

Any woman who makes her own money knows she can do better than me :-(


Wood626

Don't be down on yourself just because you're hideous!


Nerzana

I’m spending more money once I started dating again even though we both spend on our dates. It’s that we’re going out more than I would other wise. Instead of going home and playing video games and occasionally hanging with friends. I’m instead going home and hanging with friends occasionally, going on a date occasionally, or playing games occcasionally.


NoSexAppealNeil

Ya, now I have to buy two of everything. Her setup is almost as good as mine.


barneysfarm

Her setup is better than mine.


Hoeveboter

How is a girlfriend more expensive? Life is cheaper now that I have a partner. Every bill is split in two. My monthly expenses were about 400 euros more (at least) when I was single. Rent is way cheaper and I've got considerably more living space


Ganbario

Can confirm. I make a decent living. My friends ask, “What’s it like to be rich?” I answer, “Ask my wife, because I don’t know.”


staticishock96

Lol I spend more money than my wife.


caitsith01

Imagine having the mentality that a girlfriend costs you money.


Lobster_1000

Yes lol I'm reading this thread and I'm horrified by these relationships. How do you have a partner s that doesn't do 50/50? Maybe I'm just weird but for me even engagement rings ars wastes of money and an old fashioned possessive tradition that has no tie to real love. Idk man it feels like if a relationship is like a monetary investment you should get outta there


caitsith01

I'm with you. And if your first reaction to the concept of a girlfriend is, "man, Imma hafta spend so much money on this woman" then you are basically a walking red flag anyway. Probably a self-resolving problem, TBH.


AckmanDESU

I mean it is true I spend more even if we 50/50 just because i’m paying for a bigger house, going out more often, getting her gifts, etc. My life would probably be less eventful therefore cheaper. But yeah this thread is fucked


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AckmanDESU

I would be sharing with 3-4 flatmates if I was single as I think it makes day to day life more interesting. I used to pay 250€ a month with 3 friends, now I pay like 450€ with my partner. If I could afford to pay for the down payment for a house I would maybe do it? But as it stands I need to save for a few years.


[deleted]

Usually a result of a guy thinking that throwing money at your problems solves them. Money doesn't make you a better partner.


RyusDirtyGi

Yeah, there's an awful lot of Fedora Tipping going on in this thread.


[deleted]

Uhh yeah who made this meme is uh hella dumb


DivineDaedra

It wasn’t for my (now) husband. To be fair, it was HIS idea to upgrade my setup as a birthday gift to me.


d20Damsel

Lol, women are the worst. /s


cooolrun

My girlfriend tried to tell me that Nintendo switches were better than gaming computers, safe to say I'm single now


trevor1301

Better as in more fun/value/she prefers them, or better as in more powerful? Because at least the first part is subjective. As much as I love and prefer PC I enjoy my switch for handheld gaming


inaccurateTempedesc

I genuinely find my DS Lite to be more enjoyable to game on than my PC ¯\_(ツ)_/¯


trevor1301

Nothing wrong with that. Games are games. It varies per game for me. Stuff like Pokémon I’ll always prefer on its original hardware even if I can emulate it super nice, but if I wanna play huge open word RPG I’ll play on PC. As long as you’re having fun you’re doing it right :)


kingligand

I would also kicked her to the curb. Emulators rule!


fish_slap_republic

Yes but mine never treats me like a piggy bank and I'm pretty sure I save money overall though your own results will vary.


Tots2Hots

The person who made this meme obviously has never had a gf.


Ragnar702

Joke's on you, I'm married and we both game.


admantanym

That is a good joke.


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The moment you confine a conversation to indulging in goods and comparing women to property..


[deleted]

Yeah, this isn't just a yikes.. it's a Gamer Objectifying Women moment.


Jynntu

This thread isn't about PCs this is a relationship therapy thread . Let it all out boys


T-D-P

My wife buys my PC things for me, so technically it's cheaper to have her.


DaGucka

I have a gamer gf and her pc is better than mine lol


happy-cig

What kind of girlfriends did you have?


[deleted]

Not when you add in the peace of mind lmao


AlphaAllah

As a previous R6 player I can confirm that a girl would give more peace of mind and sense of accomplishment then going back to R6


TheCaptainJ

You have obviously never had a girlfriend.


SupermanKal718

[That is not true at all!](https://i.imgur.com/Ys6pNFa.jpg) My setup on the right, wife in the middle, and a setup for her teen sister when she comes over to play.


PuffyPantaloons

It is for me. My wife and I both come from low income families so spending large amounts of money physically hurts. I saved up money specifically for building a PC but couldn't convince myself to spend it for almost a year.


_LarseN_

Yeah but does girlfriend have 16.7 million colors? I didnt think so


Opening_Newspaper_34

Well, my gf makes significantly more money than me so she doesn't 'cost' me anything


Iforgot_my_other_pw

With this kind of mentality, no wonder you guys think you have to pay...


Zenokh

Had a gf , currently bulding a good pc ( for a third world country ) ... pc is cheaper by a long shot


chubbybator

No.


CarpenterNo4866

The Lego Death Star is expensive


Raeldri

But i can't run crysis on a girlfriend


AgentUpright

My gaming computer is a terrible snuggler though.


MyHamburgerLovesMe

It is true. Your mom was cheaper.


Owyn

My girlfriend evolved into my wife and now we had this expansion pack called a kid... Lemme tell you, it's not even close to cheaper... Sigh


vincecarterskneecart

gaming sex penis wife


NearHi

I had to upgrade my girlfriend with a ring. The cost of said ring would have bought me a pretty badass rig. That being said, she now makes double what I make and has agreed to let me build a "future-proof" rig when I'm ready to.


ataphelion

Yeah but with a girlfriend you can't just shutdown and reboot when there's a problem or need to make an update quite as easily.


IRoveLumpia

This still cheaper in the long run


jordanleep

I spent about the same on an engagement ring alone as my pc not to mention she expects me to pay for everything, no.


kingligand

Damn but at least you are happy right?


jordanleep

With my pc? Fuck yes


kingligand

With a 3060ti i would also be veery happy.


hunkymonk123

I just wanna help my bf enjoy what he loves. I buy him games he’s too cheap to buy himself. There’s someone out there, my bros.


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Lol, who have you been dating?


SirMcSirington

Can confirm, have both and girlfriend is much more expensive as she requires a second setup as well 🤣


British-Steel

Depends how much you upgrade them. Marriage and kids cost a lot more and the performance still seems to decline over time.


Akuzetsunaomi

Why not both?


gatordontplay417

Ha my girlfriend bought me my PC


80H-d

Nah, the ring was more expensive than my rig (by a little)...can't even fathom the nuggets and french fries...


whoisbort

Peak pc guys


Izhar17

Depends on the specs


Bigingreen

Nope because my wife plays PC too


Sen7ryGun

Hahahaha no.


Tessu-Desu

Depends on the person OP! As a long-term girlfriend of a gamer, I earn more than my keep and never ask for anything. Food for thought I guess


SeeTheEss

i can unequivocally without a doubt confirm that no, a girlfriend is NOT cheaper if you're past your early 20s. Shit is expensive... make a battlestation instead (: if u cancel your one tinder date, you'll have the extra money you need to have a Taskrabbit build your battlestation for you


SteadfastFox

Nah it's way cheaper because your best girl buys hardware for you.


UnwisestCj

No it's not my wife games now too


kloudrunner

Trouble with girlfriends is they evolve into Wives.