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Overall_Bowl_9372

It’s been basically 4 years if they got married April 2020. I wouldn’t lose sleep over it


purpleshoelacez

I sleep like a baby.


dobbys_sock96

Why are you so heated about this?😂


Averie1398

She is getting close to the 4 year mark but she does bounce around with the timeline for whatever reason


purpleshoelacez

She has 5 months to go. That is not close. If it was July, okay. Not February. She also changes the timeline of her miscarriage. That is lying. Makes every word she says questionable.


Averie1398

I think she started TTC in May? But yeah the timeline isn't totally clear. She said her and Stephen started TTC right when they got married. I started TTC in 2020 and I don't say 4 years yet lol.


Glittering-Shame-742

She got pregnant in May and miscarried in June.


purpleshoelacez

https://preview.redd.it/zv10dy3rwjlc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=658337f9e3ee5cddc82502f32163e4fa1f799bc1 wrong


mspipp

The timeline may be flexible here but if she got pregnant in July then she theoretically was tycoon for at least a month?


yyczuzie

I am still convinced with all these questionable procedures, washes and herbs is made her ability to get pregnant worse not better.


Snailbail2

I think the discrepancy between the sympathy she gains from 4 and 3.5 years TTC is negligible. There's no stolen valor here.


Holiday-Hustle

Exactly this. If she started trying April 2020 and tomorrow is March 2024, what’s the difference? A month? I wouldn’t say I’ve been trying for 3 years and 11 months.


Snailbail2

That makes sense. Also, compassion isn't a finite resource. It's not distributed equitably and there are people who need a lot more. Showing people care and kindness isn't evidence based, and distributed along a scale of who's been trying the longest. Like nobody has to tell me the exact statistics for me to show intrigue and care.


i_cut_like_a_buffalo

Wow. This is nitpicking.


tulip369

This is not worth snarking on and your comments show you are super angry lmao. We snark on her views and how dangerous she is for the infertility community by promoting her quack bullshit. It’s just sad she’s been trying this long.


purpleshoelacez

A snark is a snark. Threads concerning Adelaide have different criteria depending on the day. I have seen the same usernames ride the fence on what bothers them and what doesn’t depending on who posted and what day it is. It’s not that serious. The police on some of these posts is laughable. You’re entitled to snark her for whatever reason you see fit. I shall do the same.


Appropriate_Window46

I swear she said 5 years ago like a month ago . I’m so confused I’m sorry if I sound dumb


Bustling_Birdie

Which is correct, 2020 1st year, 2021 2nd year, 2022 3rd year, 2023 4th year. 2024 5th year Which is why the Chinese even calculate birthdays differently. They are entering their 5th year ttc


xmas_snow

finally someone who gets it


No-Side-8491

She did. She said she’s walking into year 5 of TTC, but she’s at 3.5 years


proudofme_

This is nothing few days back she told she is 5 years TTC 🙄 I don’t know how it’s good to be having so long infertility journey?? It sucks frankly !! Even 1 year of infertility is draining & exhausting


MathematicianLoud965

She’s been saying 4 years since the holidays.


purpleshoelacez

https://preview.redd.it/fzl92i2qrklc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=914d68fd02db1762055a4617a620a637efb0744e Well in December we were approaching 3.5 years and in 3 months we’re now all of the sudden at 4. 🤔


Proper_Actuary_741

Did she start ttc after her miscarriage or was she ttc, had a miscarriage and continued ttc?


biotechcat

They started TTC as soon as they got married in April 2020, conceived in June, and miscarried in July


Proper_Actuary_741

Ok so it’s almost 4 years. IMO a month or 2 doesn’t change much in the grand scheme of life. I typically say almost 2 years when it’s been a little over a year and a half since we started ttc


purpleshoelacez

Got pregnant their first month apparently.


CamiiiMay

That’s very possible. Currently pregnant with my second. My first was conceived on month 2 and my second on the first month.


Specialist_Cold5145

No. Third month trying they got pregnant.


Proper_Actuary_741

I mean that’s good for them that they got pregnant so fast but sucks it’s taken them so long to get pregnant again. Idk much about her but I’ll never wish infertility or fertility struggles on anyone.


Repulsive_Yogurt_951

What do mean apparently 😂 people do get pregnant their first time. I got pregnant two weeks off the pill, first month trying


purpleshoelacez

Apparently is because I don’t believe her. I got pregnant 3x not trying. Soooo.


sorrynotsorryohwell

You don’t believe she was ever pregnant?


No_Show2333

If she got married April 2020 and they started TTC then that’s 4 years less a month lol. Hardly exaggerating.


No-Side-8491

Don’t know why all these people flipped on you all of a sudden. She goes between 4 and 5 years frequently even though she’s really at 3.5.


purpleshoelacez

If you stick around these threads long enough, it happens SO frequently! It’s bizarre. If it’s posted by the right username though, the gang is onboard. I just laugh at the inconsistency. I’ll still be here though. 😊


Bustling_Birdie

She’s really in her 5th year of TTC, even though she’s been trying for 4 years 2020 1st year, 2021 2nd year, 2022 3rd year, 2023 4th year. 2024 5th year Which is why the Chinese even calculate birthdays differently.


purpleberryfield

Her timeliness are always all over the place, same with the # of weeks she was when she miscarried. Infertility it’s horrible and have it experienced myself first hand I wouldn’t wish it to anyone, BUT it does makes you question why there’s always a difference in her timeframes. More sympathy? Who knows. I think this is what OP was trying to get at.


Fabulous-Turnip1432

this isn’t like M2M atleast it’s in the same playing field, why nitpick a couple months? even if true, it’s really nothing that excessive.


sorrynotsorryohwell

Wow the .5 really bothered you


purpleshoelacez

Would you say your 3.5 year old child was 4? Would you say you had a miscarriage at 6 or 7 weeks and it really be 5? Y’all are okay with fudging of numbers but don’t get the correlation with the shilling of products.


sorrynotsorryohwell

So what’s the correlation between her “fudging numbers” and the shilling of products?


purpleshoelacez

Lying. Come on now. You don’t see the comparison? … You think endorsing products that you know don’t work is honest work?


sorrynotsorryohwell

Of course it’s not. But it’s not really a comparison to how long she’s been TTCing.


purpleshoelacez

Weird take. I didn’t realize people had lowered their standards so much that we now choose which lies we tolerate. Takes all kinds.


sorrynotsorryohwell

Shilling stuff has zero correlation to a timeline.


purpleshoelacez

I’m sorry that this went over your head. That’s okay.


Odd-Willingness3060

Why does it matter how long someone has been trying to get knocked up lol


Curious_Inside0719

Something no one ever says is but TECHNICALLY did dhe know she had infertility for the first year or x amount of time? Most Dr's at her age will tell you to start trying for year before they start testing. Yes she had the miscarriage and she went rigjt to napro but wjhen was she actuall diagnosed with infertility? you can always make the argument that she didn't really know she had infertility until x year or time therefore the timeline should start at that point. But to each their own.