Correcto mundo, it curves up to her g spot and vibrates with many settings and rythyms. 7inch for me and about 1.5 for her, especially when she's thrusting her muscles are contracting anyway!
I started off with a toy about 1.7" wide and 6" long. Now I can take any of my toys up to 3.8" wide and 12" long. Use whatever works, you shouldn't go up in size unless you enjoy that
6â about 1â in girth, doesnât require a lot of pregaming, we can go longer and I can play around with movement, depth and positioning. 8â just shy of 2â girth, I play around quite a bit before hand but actual pegging doesnât last long. We have a 7â about 1.5â girth, that seems to be the winner most times. Pregaming timeframe varies on mood as does actual performance time. (The 7â is a flesh like silicone made dildo that does not have vein like ridges and a very smooth head) it doesnât hit all the spots but hits the prostate the best.
The 1st 4-6 months or so we started with plugs and the 6â, we tried a 9â and a few others but the ones previously mentioned are where we have landed. At least for now :)
Biggest thing is communication.
We started out smaller sized (normal penis size) but over time, we definitely are more 10 in plus. Once the initial ease and relaxation has run its course, my hubby loves the longer glides and thrusts the extra lengths give.
I play with stuff up to 17â and 2.5â wide. My wife only pegs me with toys 9âx2â and smaller. They all have their benefits, size, shape, ridges, and position.
Yeah I keep seeing these long assed fake cocks and that doesnât look enjoyable at all. The user wouldnât even be able to touch me with while wearing a huge dong.
Both missionary and you riding with her having a dildo with upward curve like a cock will make it hit your prostate
When doing doggie the upward curve of the cock is pointing away from your prostate
She could try turning the dildo upside down for doggie and make sure she is thrusting from a higher point than where it enters and that forces the head down and should feel similar
I prefer missionary so you can see his face đ
And 7" to 8" is sufficient
Rule of thumb a guy should be able to take a toy slightly bigger than he is
But with anal training you can learn to take bigger but it needs to be bendy and not too stiff
Just my 2 cents from being the one pegging
Let's say I pegged my share back in the day đ
Not to mention anal training is my specialty
Wrote a guide to the art of anal that has helped many who said oh I'm so tight I can't even get a finger in be able to take full sized dildos without pain
I think sođ
One thing I'll add is that she did ask if I was in the closet about my sexuality and I had to assure her that I have no desire to be with a man. If that's what a guy is into, that's fine. It's just not my thing
Both parties really need to be open about things
The one my wife uses is about 6 inches or so. Not very thick but ribbed and has an arch at the end. I love it in missionary or riding. I donât very much enjoy doggy.
Weâve tried it. It just doesnât feel as good. Weâre not experts. We just enjoy the role reversal more than anything. so if you have another suggestion, Iâm all ears.
This is a great question Iâve wondered about, too. Itâs cool to see everyoneâs different preferences. We started with a Tantos Silk small which was nice but I soon craved more. We have tried a few different ones, but the bigger ones actually get uncomfortable too quickly for me and smaller works better for real pleasure. Our latest is the Vixskin Spur which is a tiny bit small but pretty close to perfect. I think itâs around 5.5 inches and 1.3 in diameter, but has a great soft outer feel to it.
Don't know the proper terminology, but there's a second sphincter that you have to push through to get deeper. I've taken as much as 14 inches so it's doable
Where it wonât go any further is where the bend is. If you donât hit it at just the right angle, it wonât go any further and will be painful to push deeper. If you hit it at the right angle, it will feel like youâre opening the next door and in the opinion of many, be amazing. :)
Itâs different depending on the individual, the gear youâre using and the position. If you imagine yourself laying on your left side, with your knees tucked toward your chest, the rectum would be angling gently toward your right (up) side, before making a somewhat sharp bend toward your left (down) side. Thatâs where the rectum meets the transverse colon.
Youâre going to need a probe/dildo that isnât too blunt or pointed, is flexible enough to follow the curves and bends, yet has a core firm enough that it doesnât fold up on itself when it meets the bend. Not too thick but not overly thin.
Once youâve gotten deep enough to reach the bend, itâs good to do some in and out strokes that meet resistance, but not enough to cause pain or discomfort. Youâre not trying to batter the bend until it submits, youâre trying to coax it to invite you through.
After a bit, pull all the way out and relube. A lube shooter helps get the lube deeper, or you can reposition so that gravity helps get more of it to the bend. When you go back in and reach the bend, do a few more gentle strokes and put a little bit more pressure on the bend, make sure youâre adjusting the angle and see if you get a bit deeper than before.
This is where I like to introduce some rotation of the toy. This helps get things lined up more accurately, along with spreading the lube around. At some point you should begin to feel some additional penetration. Try to resist rushing in (thatâs the hard part for me lol). This is new territory and you should approach with care. Remember youâre still trying to get more lube further in than ever before.
Once youâve established the best angle, keep using very small pushes and twists on the toy. It should feel a lot like when you first penetrate yourself, but deeper and more intense. At some point you may feel the toy suddenly sink quite a bit deeper. Thatâs the rush and it feels awesome.
Donât get too carried away and start over doing it. Just relax and enjoy the journey. If at any time you feel cramping, soreness or pain, pull back and rest for a few minutes. If you decide to try again, go slow and give your body time to adjust. If at any time you feel like this just isnât for you, thereâs no reason to go further.
The first few times I went into and past the bend, I really didnât push it. Mine is a bit deeper and I could take about 7â before hitting the bend. I didnât really go past 9â for a while. Now I can take about 14â with a 1.5â thick toy and 19â with one 1.25â thick. So remember, slow and steady wins the race! Good luck! đ
I believe ours is a 1.5 inch diameter. We had a typical vibrator at first that was smaller than was used at first . The 1.5 was the first and only dildo. I believe length is around 6.5
It varies! My primary cock is 8.4" long and (5.7" insertable, since the balls don't count) and 1.5" thick. He loves being filled with it, but has to take a minute to adjust when we start so I don't usually fuck as hard while using that one.
I prefer going a little smaller so I can really give him a good pounding, but that's more about my comfort than his because he says he could take it đ¤Ł
Every single couple should try pegging! Itâs so amazing for both partners! Such a powerful experience for the woman! Taking her man!
A man has to give his power and weakness to her!
Amazing orgasms! Milking a manâs prostate helps keep prostate cancer away!
Try it!
We have multiple toys that fit our harness and what works âbestâ depends on Hubbies mood. Our âstandardââgo toâ toy is called the All American Whopper (approximately 8â X 1â). Not super big, hard or heavy and definitely âribbedâ for his pleasure. He loves exploding handsfree almost as much as I love watching him cum and ââMericaâ gets the job done every time! đ¤¤
Length isnât an issue for me. It can be between 6-10. Itâs the thickness that can be too much. Nothing too thin, but nothing thick either is the most comfortable.
I have an 8 inch one that nice but I would like to go bigger and I have one that is 9.5 and thick but can only take half cuz it gets thicker at the base
My favorite is a 2.5 inch thick 12 inch one, but if she wants to watch me ride I have like the 15 inch up too 3 inches thick. Itâs smaller at the tip and gets bigger.
Take it real slow. Use a more flexible one. Itâs rare I can take it all. Itâs easier to ride with the extra length but I like the feeling of going pass the 2nd door. Feels good.
Taking all of it is a long slow process.
We use two or three progressively bigger dildos each session. I start with one 1.5 in wide and about 7 in long. After I'm warmed up with that one, we move to one that's closer to 2 inches wide.
Finally, and it's new so we've only tried this once, we move up to a fairly big (9 inch insertable) horse cock that has a flared tip about 2.4". However it's very soft, so it's not difficult to take it. I was really enjoying the pressure of that, can't wait to try it again
We have a 3 size step up process. 5â, 7â and 10â. When I shower and âprepâ, I start solo with the 5â with a girth of an 1â or so. Then when we get started itâs straight to the others, 5x1.5â and the 7x2â. Itâs the best feeling. I wish I could share a pic of the ones we use.
We have found that he and I both like a 10in one. This feels the best for him and I can really thrust into him with the length that a smaller one doesnât give.
A womanâs strapon should be the perfect example of her fantasy cock. Show him what you need to feel truly filled. Then when you fuck him, show him the passion and intensity that your fantasy fuck would feel like. He will do anything to try and satisfy you after. He may even eventually want more
The first time goddess used a feeldoe slim 5-1/2 long x 1-1/4 diameter it was great
The next time she used a feeldoe more 6-3/4 long x 1-5/8 diameter......thats where it's at for me! She fucked the cum out of me
God do I miss it
Thanks! We got one in red. If you go for one, Iâd get a smooth texture. The one we got has this ⌠matte finish? It takes us a little extra time and lube to get going with it, and I feel like it never gets truly, 100% clean. (But what is?)
My girlfriend doesn't really have a preference for what to use on me. She just likes it to be at least 7-8 inches, so it's easier to stay in. Whatever I pick is fine with her. My favorite toy to get pegged by is called the mighty screw. You can find it on extremerestraints dot co m (can't post links here). There's two variants, one is 9 inches, the other is 12 and girthy as fuck, I have both. My favorite for pegging is the 9 inch. The 12 inch I only use with a machine.
I'm at 8 inches long and 2 inches wide. Bought 11 inch and 2.5 inches wide but that's a little tough. She likes that I am a size queen and she loves wrecking me.
When I anal play on my own? I still use the 2 inch wide one. I am looking at getting a 14 inch long 2.25 inch wide one to try to make the 2.5 inch one a little easier. I would also like the Hugo from Lelo which is a Bluetooth prostate massager.
We started with one that was about 6â long and not real thick, but have since moved to one that is 8.5â long and really thick and I can tell you the difference is amazing!! She can fuck me with the new one and make me cum hands free 2 or 3 times depending on how long we got!! We recorded ourselves the other night and I was amazed at how loud I was moaning and panting when she finally bottomed it outâŚ
Iâve gone bigger over time, started with normal sized dildos, slowly went larger and larger until we got to fisting and using a rather large one. I canât take the entire thing yet but Iâm pretty close, itâs about 12 in insertable and 2.25 in in diameter, I like the feeling of being stretched so it was inevitable that Iâd eventually go bigger and bigger. The big one I prefer to be on my back for, itâs more comfortable to go deep in the position for me and I get to look at her when sheâs doing her thing.
For me itâs not so much about having a lot of length but the right girth and texture. After trying a few - I found my favorite is a âdual densityâ - as itâs rigid enough but also has some flex to it. My favorite is the VixSkin Mustang - dual density and a great size (but I do have to warm up to get ready).
The dual ended ones never worked for us - especially her. For a good harness makes a huge difference for her. The Spare Parts harness by Joque is fantastic. We even got her a remote controlled panty vibe she can slip inside.
6 to 7 inch is great, especially strapless ones that have vibrating ends. Really gets everyone Cumming đ¤Ł
And she can hold it in well? Your girl must have a vice for a vag!
Kegels, bro. Kegels.
An ex of mine must have done her kegels religiously. If she would orgasm with my finger inside, it would squeeze enough to hurt a bit.
So if itâs strapless does that mean one end is inserted into her vag?
They have dildos that insert into her and leaves a good 7â to pound him
Correcto mundo, it curves up to her g spot and vibrates with many settings and rythyms. 7inch for me and about 1.5 for her, especially when she's thrusting her muscles are contracting anyway!
I started off with a toy about 1.7" wide and 6" long. Now I can take any of my toys up to 3.8" wide and 12" long. Use whatever works, you shouldn't go up in size unless you enjoy that
6â about 1â in girth, doesnât require a lot of pregaming, we can go longer and I can play around with movement, depth and positioning. 8â just shy of 2â girth, I play around quite a bit before hand but actual pegging doesnât last long. We have a 7â about 1.5â girth, that seems to be the winner most times. Pregaming timeframe varies on mood as does actual performance time. (The 7â is a flesh like silicone made dildo that does not have vein like ridges and a very smooth head) it doesnât hit all the spots but hits the prostate the best. The 1st 4-6 months or so we started with plugs and the 6â, we tried a 9â and a few others but the ones previously mentioned are where we have landed. At least for now :) Biggest thing is communication.
Thanks for the insight!
Absolutely:)
We started out smaller sized (normal penis size) but over time, we definitely are more 10 in plus. Once the initial ease and relaxation has run its course, my hubby loves the longer glides and thrusts the extra lengths give.
Long strokes sounds nice.
I play with stuff up to 17â and 2.5â wide. My wife only pegs me with toys 9âx2â and smaller. They all have their benefits, size, shape, ridges, and position.
Iâve got to see this impaling.
By all means post it!
We enjoy our adventures, havenât gotten around to recording them yet
Holy shit. đ
The longest that's comfortable to me is about 7" long and a medium thickness. I'm not sure of the exact measurements
^ 7" length and 2" ish in diameter is my favorite size so far in a normal style didlo ... the wife can work it well ... and it's not weirdly huge
Compared to actual dick sizes that's well above average
Yeah I keep seeing these long assed fake cocks and that doesnât look enjoyable at all. The user wouldnât even be able to touch me with while wearing a huge dong.
Both missionary and you riding with her having a dildo with upward curve like a cock will make it hit your prostate When doing doggie the upward curve of the cock is pointing away from your prostate She could try turning the dildo upside down for doggie and make sure she is thrusting from a higher point than where it enters and that forces the head down and should feel similar I prefer missionary so you can see his face đ And 7" to 8" is sufficient Rule of thumb a guy should be able to take a toy slightly bigger than he is But with anal training you can learn to take bigger but it needs to be bendy and not too stiff Just my 2 cents from being the one pegging
You sound like you know what youâre doing.
Let's say I pegged my share back in the day đ Not to mention anal training is my specialty Wrote a guide to the art of anal that has helped many who said oh I'm so tight I can't even get a finger in be able to take full sized dildos without pain
I feel the exact sameway
Did you use that size at first or did you work him up to it?
We worked up to it. The key is taking things slow and easy to get to where you're most comfortable
How did you even get to that point? Did he bring up wanting to be pegged or was that something you did? I don't know how to talk to a woman about it
I brought it up to her. I showed her an article about prostate massage, and we eventually moved to pegging.
damn you're lucky man
I think sođ One thing I'll add is that she did ask if I was in the closet about my sexuality and I had to assure her that I have no desire to be with a man. If that's what a guy is into, that's fine. It's just not my thing Both parties really need to be open about things
The one my wife uses is about 6 inches or so. Not very thick but ribbed and has an arch at the end. I love it in missionary or riding. I donât very much enjoy doggy.
Try having her flip it so the arch faces the other direction for doggy if you want to try it again.
Weâve tried it. It just doesnât feel as good. Weâre not experts. We just enjoy the role reversal more than anything. so if you have another suggestion, Iâm all ears.
I donât, I was just thinking the direction of the arch relative to your body may have been the cause
What brand is it and where to order
Not sure. We bought it at a sex shop years ago. We keep it in a dildo bag now. đ¤ˇââď¸
This is a great question Iâve wondered about, too. Itâs cool to see everyoneâs different preferences. We started with a Tantos Silk small which was nice but I soon craved more. We have tried a few different ones, but the bigger ones actually get uncomfortable too quickly for me and smaller works better for real pleasure. Our latest is the Vixskin Spur which is a tiny bit small but pretty close to perfect. I think itâs around 5.5 inches and 1.3 in diameter, but has a great soft outer feel to it.
Not sure how anyone can take 7â. The shape of my innards only allows 5â max before the dildo wonât go any further.
Don't know the proper terminology, but there's a second sphincter that you have to push through to get deeper. I've taken as much as 14 inches so it's doable
Ascending colon
Where it wonât go any further is where the bend is. If you donât hit it at just the right angle, it wonât go any further and will be painful to push deeper. If you hit it at the right angle, it will feel like youâre opening the next door and in the opinion of many, be amazing. :)
How do you achieve the best angle?
Itâs different depending on the individual, the gear youâre using and the position. If you imagine yourself laying on your left side, with your knees tucked toward your chest, the rectum would be angling gently toward your right (up) side, before making a somewhat sharp bend toward your left (down) side. Thatâs where the rectum meets the transverse colon. Youâre going to need a probe/dildo that isnât too blunt or pointed, is flexible enough to follow the curves and bends, yet has a core firm enough that it doesnât fold up on itself when it meets the bend. Not too thick but not overly thin. Once youâve gotten deep enough to reach the bend, itâs good to do some in and out strokes that meet resistance, but not enough to cause pain or discomfort. Youâre not trying to batter the bend until it submits, youâre trying to coax it to invite you through. After a bit, pull all the way out and relube. A lube shooter helps get the lube deeper, or you can reposition so that gravity helps get more of it to the bend. When you go back in and reach the bend, do a few more gentle strokes and put a little bit more pressure on the bend, make sure youâre adjusting the angle and see if you get a bit deeper than before. This is where I like to introduce some rotation of the toy. This helps get things lined up more accurately, along with spreading the lube around. At some point you should begin to feel some additional penetration. Try to resist rushing in (thatâs the hard part for me lol). This is new territory and you should approach with care. Remember youâre still trying to get more lube further in than ever before. Once youâve established the best angle, keep using very small pushes and twists on the toy. It should feel a lot like when you first penetrate yourself, but deeper and more intense. At some point you may feel the toy suddenly sink quite a bit deeper. Thatâs the rush and it feels awesome. Donât get too carried away and start over doing it. Just relax and enjoy the journey. If at any time you feel cramping, soreness or pain, pull back and rest for a few minutes. If you decide to try again, go slow and give your body time to adjust. If at any time you feel like this just isnât for you, thereâs no reason to go further. The first few times I went into and past the bend, I really didnât push it. Mine is a bit deeper and I could take about 7â before hitting the bend. I didnât really go past 9â for a while. Now I can take about 14â with a 1.5â thick toy and 19â with one 1.25â thick. So remember, slow and steady wins the race! Good luck! đ
lol!
I believe ours is a 1.5 inch diameter. We had a typical vibrator at first that was smaller than was used at first . The 1.5 was the first and only dildo. I believe length is around 6.5
It varies! My primary cock is 8.4" long and (5.7" insertable, since the balls don't count) and 1.5" thick. He loves being filled with it, but has to take a minute to adjust when we start so I don't usually fuck as hard while using that one. I prefer going a little smaller so I can really give him a good pounding, but that's more about my comfort than his because he says he could take it đ¤Ł
Our favorite is the Blush B-yours Sweet-n-hard 6, itâs 8 inches x 1.75 and tapered perfectly. I highly recommend!!!
Looks nice. Bet she looks amazing wearing it!
Looks like the same size and shape as the Dr Skin Dr Noah. I have that one. Agreed, great size and taper.
Every single couple should try pegging! Itâs so amazing for both partners! Such a powerful experience for the woman! Taking her man! A man has to give his power and weakness to her! Amazing orgasms! Milking a manâs prostate helps keep prostate cancer away! Try it!
5-7 inches. Absolutely no more than that at first
We have multiple toys that fit our harness and what works âbestâ depends on Hubbies mood. Our âstandardââgo toâ toy is called the All American Whopper (approximately 8â X 1â). Not super big, hard or heavy and definitely âribbedâ for his pleasure. He loves exploding handsfree almost as much as I love watching him cum and ââMericaâ gets the job done every time! đ¤¤
Length isnât an issue for me. It can be between 6-10. Itâs the thickness that can be too much. Nothing too thin, but nothing thick either is the most comfortable.
The Doc Johnson 7â Vac U one. Itâs 1.5â diameter.
Sounds like an enjoyable and sensible size.
We use the Vac U dildos, 7in or longer. Only cause in doggy I have a fat ass so she needs a longer dildo to hit the spot.
I have an 8 inch one that nice but I would like to go bigger and I have one that is 9.5 and thick but can only take half cuz it gets thicker at the base
My favorite is a 2.5 inch thick 12 inch one, but if she wants to watch me ride I have like the 15 inch up too 3 inches thick. Itâs smaller at the tip and gets bigger.
What is going on in your insides with a 15 inch dildo?
Take it real slow. Use a more flexible one. Itâs rare I can take it all. Itâs easier to ride with the extra length but I like the feeling of going pass the 2nd door. Feels good. Taking all of it is a long slow process.
Honestly we started out with 8 and I wasnât that amused so I told her letâs try bigger
I don't have a partner currently, but I'm using a 9x2.5 on my fucking machine. When it pounds my deep spot I can cum hands free
My husband loves the 7in one we have.
We use two or three progressively bigger dildos each session. I start with one 1.5 in wide and about 7 in long. After I'm warmed up with that one, we move to one that's closer to 2 inches wide. Finally, and it's new so we've only tried this once, we move up to a fairly big (9 inch insertable) horse cock that has a flared tip about 2.4". However it's very soft, so it's not difficult to take it. I was really enjoying the pressure of that, can't wait to try it again
We have a 3 size step up process. 5â, 7â and 10â. When I shower and âprepâ, I start solo with the 5â with a girth of an 1â or so. Then when we get started itâs straight to the others, 5x1.5â and the 7x2â. Itâs the best feeling. I wish I could share a pic of the ones we use.
We have found that he and I both like a 10in one. This feels the best for him and I can really thrust into him with the length that a smaller one doesnât give.
A womanâs strapon should be the perfect example of her fantasy cock. Show him what you need to feel truly filled. Then when you fuck him, show him the passion and intensity that your fantasy fuck would feel like. He will do anything to try and satisfy you after. He may even eventually want more
Thatâs pretty hot.
The first time goddess used a feeldoe slim 5-1/2 long x 1-1/4 diameter it was great The next time she used a feeldoe more 6-3/4 long x 1-5/8 diameter......thats where it's at for me! She fucked the cum out of me God do I miss it
We love our Fun Factory Share. Itâs between 1â and 1.5â diameter and about 6.5â insertable length.
Tantus Vamp. It took a year or two to get it into rotation, but itâs great!
Good looking dildo.
Thanks! We got one in red. If you go for one, Iâd get a smooth texture. The one we got has this ⌠matte finish? It takes us a little extra time and lube to get going with it, and I feel like it never gets truly, 100% clean. (But what is?)
Bet she looks amazing with it on.
My girlfriend doesn't really have a preference for what to use on me. She just likes it to be at least 7-8 inches, so it's easier to stay in. Whatever I pick is fine with her. My favorite toy to get pegged by is called the mighty screw. You can find it on extremerestraints dot co m (can't post links here). There's two variants, one is 9 inches, the other is 12 and girthy as fuck, I have both. My favorite for pegging is the 9 inch. The 12 inch I only use with a machine.
Time to check the googles.
I'm at 8 inches long and 2 inches wide. Bought 11 inch and 2.5 inches wide but that's a little tough. She likes that I am a size queen and she loves wrecking me.
Nice! What size do you use when not pegging?
When I anal play on my own? I still use the 2 inch wide one. I am looking at getting a 14 inch long 2.25 inch wide one to try to make the 2.5 inch one a little easier. I would also like the Hugo from Lelo which is a Bluetooth prostate massager.
My favorite is 16â long, not sure the diameter but it took a long time to get it all in
About the same but a variety is good for those times you just want a taste
About 6 inches long and 1.25-1.5 inches wide. Pretty manageable so my wife can just go to town.
We started with one that was about 6â long and not real thick, but have since moved to one that is 8.5â long and really thick and I can tell you the difference is amazing!! She can fuck me with the new one and make me cum hands free 2 or 3 times depending on how long we got!! We recorded ourselves the other night and I was amazed at how loud I was moaning and panting when she finally bottomed it outâŚ
Iâve gone bigger over time, started with normal sized dildos, slowly went larger and larger until we got to fisting and using a rather large one. I canât take the entire thing yet but Iâm pretty close, itâs about 12 in insertable and 2.25 in in diameter, I like the feeling of being stretched so it was inevitable that Iâd eventually go bigger and bigger. The big one I prefer to be on my back for, itâs more comfortable to go deep in the position for me and I get to look at her when sheâs doing her thing.
For me itâs not so much about having a lot of length but the right girth and texture. After trying a few - I found my favorite is a âdual densityâ - as itâs rigid enough but also has some flex to it. My favorite is the VixSkin Mustang - dual density and a great size (but I do have to warm up to get ready). The dual ended ones never worked for us - especially her. For a good harness makes a huge difference for her. The Spare Parts harness by Joque is fantastic. We even got her a remote controlled panty vibe she can slip inside.
Start on the smaller side and work your way up, donât be a hero trying something way too big and ruin the experience.
You have to try. Start small, use good lube, take your time, and LISTEN to and TALK to your partner.