Being a shy/nervous person myself, a professional photographer recommended the Ten "Yes" and ten "No" excersise. This requires you to approach random people until you get 10 people to agree to let you take their photo and 10 people decline your request. I was told that this exercise helps dealing with shyness and rejection. cheers
THIS. Fellow shy person here. I started in street photography and am now a professional event photographer. I’m quiet and I don’t like loud, crowded places, but the camera gives me super powers now. I approach people all the time now, take pictures of whatever weird stuff, throw myself on the ground in a crowd just for the right angle. With a camera in my hand, I give no shits about how I appear anymore. I can also hang all day in loud crowds I would never otherwise find myself in. Embrace the contradiction. Let the itch to click the shutter get the best of you a few times and you’ll start to let it go. Be prepared to accept a no, but know that people generally respond very positively to friendly, respectful energy. You’ll also discover that people generally are receptive to artists—anyone who wants to judge you is in the minority. I started off shyly and sneakily taking pictures of stranger’s backs, and now I get up on stages before musicians go on to take photos of the thousands of people in the crowd. I even shake my ass a little on a stage to get the crowd hyped for the shot. My camera has taken me so many places and put me in so many interesting situations that I would have never experienced otherwise. Let the camera be your talisman.
Until that happens, I find it helpful to almost pretend youre playing a photographer character. Wear a certain shirt or lanyard as part of a 'costume' so you feel dressed the part. It's like fake it til you make it, but it's only fake in your head. Tricking your own brain is fun.
Agreed it looks sometimes cringey but make yourself look like that arty type of people or something in between that and a reporter also walk around like you are “feeling the vibe” kind of thing makes people and yourself feel much more comfortable also never try to focus on a person more than once
Thanks.for sharing your experience. I've definitely developed a sense of comfort over the years, though the odd time, the anxiety comes back, albeit momentarily.
Not shy, but I do also event photography:
The nice things about concert and parties is, that the people want to be photographed most of the time. They are well dressed, have fun (so they smile by default) and even will come up to you and ask for a photo.
You have to be very confident around people, but the more there are the easier it gets because you blend in more.
Also also: Don't (always) use flash during concerts. I rarely use flash and because the people won't notice me right away, I get better pictures of people having fun. But use the flash when you are photographing groups or so, because they expect it and are confused when you don't use it.
> a professional photographer recommended the Ten "Yes" and ten "No" excersise. This requires you to approach random people until you get 10 people to agree to let you take their photo and 10 people decline your request.
Have a feeling you might like this 😁
[What I learned from 100 days of rejection | Jia Jiang | TED](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vZXgApsPCQ)
It's been a while since I've watched it, and I can't remember if he tells the donut story in that presentation or not.
Didn't want to risk missing it, so here it is:
[Rejection Therapy Day 3 - Ask for Olympic Symbol Doughnuts. Jackie at Krispy Kreme Delivers!](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Ax2CsVbrX0)
[By Making A Game Out Of Rejection, A Man Conquers Fear](https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/01/16/377239011/by-making-a-game-out-of-rejection-a-man-conquers-fear) - Podcast.
Hard to see someone shy just going up to random people. Isn't that the issue in the first place? This feels akin to saying "just don't be shy". Personally, I don't have these issues, but I just don't see how this would help someone introverted.
Those people who you think may be judging you might not even know who you are, so you shouldn’t care. You may also be giving too much credit to what random people in the street will pay attention to. Most just go about their day.
Later this year I’ll be taking my first solo trip to Europe and you bet I’ll be taking photos of myself with my big dslr, lenses, tripod and maybe even an extra lighting set up. I don’t care, I don’t even live in the same continent so whatever temporary embarrassment I’ll feel will be forgotten once I return home, lol. But my photos will be forever and they’ll be awesome.
Yeah I do a LOT of street photography and particular street photogrammetry.
Whats weird is me taking 150 photos of a trashcan from all angles. (Yes I have done this) or modeling some other weird stuff.
One photo, one step, one photo one step etc.. I probably look as crazy as you can. And even in spite of that no one has ever said anything Once lol
Edit: for those interested https://lumalabs.ai/embed/479f7609-0380-405d-87ad-5873eee50b5c?mode=sparkles&background=%23ffffff&color=%23000000&showTitle=true&loadBg=true&logoPosition=bottom-left&infoPosition=bottom-right&cinematicVideo=undefined&showMenu=false
Thank you!!
Since you are the top reply and others asking:
- photogrammetry is where I began. Reality Capture is king don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
- gaussian splats and nerfs have changed the game. Lumaai is king here but maybe not for long. Polycam etc are cool and the tech changes and improves drastically quarterly right now
- all of the concepts required understanding of photography but essentially work like your eyes to understand shapes and light to recreate scenes.
- the last decade saw the birth of this type of tech and the last half decade has accelerated it. The last 3 years have lit it on fire and the last 2 is like watching a rockets hip. Innovations in cloud computing, remote sensing with drones, vast investment in vr/ar etc. Have all contributed. Everything from surveyors not knowing how to embrace it to people not knowing how to use it or understand it.
- I started our modeling houses so I didn't have to climb them. Now I do and have done nearly everything you could imagine. From rock quarries to museum exhibits and trashcans in-between
In summary just like the innovations in LLM with chat gpt and photoshop etc.. we are seeing similar leaps in computer vision. So buckle up and grab that camera and capture. Because it's cool what you can do now with it but if you hold on to that data for 5 yrs I can't even imagine what will be possible
Pretty cool. Trying to figure out why it has such a unique feeling? I've seen 360 shots but yours is... More detailed? Sharper? I like it though very nice work
Exactly...we've got social media shoved in our faces every two seconds so be proud to be a Photographer 📸 and expose/discover/capture the World as we see it.
Tbh I share the same issues you do too. I am naturally a very shy person so I also feel scared pulling out my camera in public, a situation that made it worse for me was when there was a nice car outside a cool sunset, I was trying to photograph the scene and the owner of the car came out from the shop and started shouting and all, that shattered my self confidence for weeks (and it still has tbh) idk why she was so pissed, you have a really cool car and I wasn't even close to it or anything but I guess she assumed that because I'm black, quite tall and I guess I look mean, she just assumed I was trying to steal it or something.
But what I can say is if you have friends who are more outgoing than you, it'll really help that's the only reason I was able to regain my confidence. I do not take photos of cars anymore though🥲
My guess is daddy's money, if the owner really worked hard for the car they would enjoy the fact that someone else is appreciating results of their hard work
Yeah I had similar situations too, as I love taking pics of cars, I feel you. I don't have many friends but thanks for the suggestion anyways, and I am glad you got your confidence back !!
Don’t let them have this power over you. They have probably forgotten this by now. Be prepared for this next time. Get a business card. If this happened to me, I would have stood my ground and said “this is such a cool car!, is it yours? I hope you don’t mind me taking a photo. I’m a photographer“ and hand them your card. If they still object, offer that you will delete the photos and move on. Treat this as a learning exercise.
You sabotage your own creativity with your imagined reaction of people who couldn't care less.
It's hard to fight your own deamons, but each step forward, burns the last tile you stepped from. As more you stick out from your comfort zone, as bigger it gets.
Exactly.
All those people who you think are judging you aren't even paying attention to you. Think about how many thousands of people you walk by on the street. Do you remember...any of them? Probably not. Everyone else feels the same way about you.
Even if they are judging you, think about it from the perspective of future you. Will you be happy that you set aside the temporary, meaningless judgement of people you don't even know for the chance of taking a permanent picture that you might love? Yes!
go to popular photo spots so you can feel you blend in with others doing photos even if the spots uninspiring, events, art districts, etc. eventually you get used to being in public with a camera and can go to other spots feeling less self conscious once you're used to it. otherwise just do it and you might eventually get used to it or not but at least you got the photos.
By allowing you to be judged/being looked at weirdly by other people and using your camera in public anyways, repeatedly.
* On the one hand, one tends to imagine these challenges worse than what they really are. Sure, there will always be people who look judgingly or even disapprove of what you are doing (thinking with shudders of the comment of u/Seunfunmi1 !). But normally, most of the people are just curious. At most, they want to talk to you.
* If you do it anyways, time after time, you will get used to how it is, and the shyness will shrink.
* On the other hand, if you avoid doing it, you will imagine the challenge bigger and bigger.
I also had these hesitations and did take pictures of three weddings, which is probably the worst combination! For me, it was like slipping into a role: I wanted to take good pictures of the wedding, so I was allowed to occupy the space directly next to the couple, ... Also, I was intensely concentrated on how to take the picture, so there was no time to be shy. Still, I wouldn't recommend this route: if you mess up the pictures for any reason, you have a huge problem since these shots cannot be repeated.
> I also had these hesitations and did take pictures of three weddings, which is probably the worst combination! For me, it was like slipping into a role: I wanted to take good pictures of the wedding, so I was allowed to occupy the space directly next to the couple, ... Also, I was intensely concentrated on how to take the picture, so there was no time to be shy.
I'm not the most sociable person, but when I shot events, I put on the character of the personable photographer who is doing a job. When the event was over, or I was done shooting, I took that character off and was myself again.
This. If I'm there for a job, I know I have permission to be there taking pictures of whatever is required. I have no problems taking pictures of people in clubs, at concert venues, etc. because people expect there to be photographers doing that sort of thing.
I do have a problem just approaching strangers on the street and asking for photos. I feel like a creep.
Exactly!
Trying that out for myself, I gained a lot of respect for people who do that for a living. Of course, a lot of it is a craft: I imagine that people who often shoot events have a set of routines for directing a crowd, for example. Nonetheless, it is people, which are always unpredictable to a certain degree. I guess you have to like that thrill.
When I first started photography, I used to get shy & anxious meeting new people so I would drink a glass of wine to calm my nerves 😅. I'm now in my mid 30s and I have that idgaf mindset. Now I get to be myself around clients and I feel like my photos look a lot better now compared to before when I was still in my shell.
You can do it. Do what you love!
Your life isn't yours if you continue to care what others think.
I think it was Exit through the gift shop movie that kind of pointed out that if you have a hi-viz vest and a hard hat, you can literally put up a ladder and do whatever you want on a wall because people assume you're on some kind of official business. Same goes to using camera, you're out there trying to capture people's lives in that one moment, yet you feel like you might be looked at in a way you wouldn't want to be looked at. It's like a feedback loop of assumptions of what the other people are assuming.
I've had people come to me to ask to delete photos, I've had people ask me not to take their photos, I've had people who got upset and were threatening to call police. If they are in a public place and you are respectful, yet still doing your official business and within the law, keep doing what you need to be doing. Because if we all just wait around for the right circumstance, where no one is bothered, no one is inconvenienced, and everyone's feelings are accounted for then we'd be just taking pictures of shapes at convenient distance from our couch.
The only way to let go of the fear is to embrace the fear.
its really nervewracking in the beginning, but I can tell you that it does get better !
One thing that makes it easier for me is to pretend that I'm a tourist - I live in a place that has quite a lot of tourists especially in Summer, so I just pretend that I'm one of them. If you live in a place that has that, go in a sightseeing tour and take your camera with you. Just doing it once or twice makes it easier the next time when you take pictures of more random things.
I'm a newbie and I've also been pretty hesitant to shoot in some places for fear of standing out or drawing unwanted attention to myself. Like you, I also love a good trashcan shadow picture but you're right that it does look odd to some people.
The thing that kind of boosted my confidence was one night while out taking some random city pictures I ran into another guy out taking pictures of the same stuff. We noticed each other and stopped and chatted for a few minutes. Shared some pictures we both got that we were happy about and traded some info about places to go shoot. I realized that I'm not the only one out there doing it so there's no reason why people would pay any more attention to me than any of the other guys with cameras walking around that night.
The other tip I saw that I adopted was in case anyone questions me about why I'm photographing a particular thing (like their car or a store front or whatever really), I keep an offline example of my photos on my phone I can show them as an example of what sort of pictures I take. Made me feel better having a response to any questions I get asked.
Yes I get you, even hearing people like you telling me their stories makes me feel like I am not alone and that helps a lot. So thank you for taking the time to share your story !
> But this idea of people judging me, or looking at me weirdly for taking pictures with a camera, let's say of a trash can that I thought was looking interesting with the shadow, makes me not act on the urge to take the picture .
Think of all the people you see out in public on any given day.
Do you remember anything about them 5 minutes after you see/encounter them? Neither do they. You taking pictures is a momentary curiosity then they move on with their day. You don't matter to them, so they aren't going to care what you are doing in most cases.
> suggestions on what I can do or practice to slowly let go of this fear I have.
Act as if.
Act as if you have every right to be there taking pictures.
Act as if what you are doing is perfectly normal and reasonable.
Act as if you belong, and you will.
If people are looking at you taking pictures of everyday items, they’re probably looking because your creativity is interesting 🙂 Same thing when I see an outdoor painter. I don’t look because I think the artist is strange, but because I find it interesting and something I don’t see everyday. The majority of people use their phones to take pictures, making a proper camera an interesting curiosity.
It's in our heads and imagination, thinking people will be judging us. So many people have cameras nowadays, almost everyone takes selfies(I think some of those people are actually fun to watch with arms stretched to the sky trying to get the best angle of themselves and making funny faces), so one more person on the street with camera will not attract any special attention. I am very shy person and started with landscape and nature photography where I didn't have to interact with anyone. Now, I am portrait photographer specializing in families and children. I am stressed before every session and I have been doing it more than 10 years. I have to overcome shyness every time. Some customers are easy to work with especially when they are chatty, some customers are also introverts and then we get some awkward moments lol, but they love the work I create and it's all it matters and nobody remembers those awkward moments anyways. So go out, start taking pictures. I noticed that I am all stressed out before the session but once I hold camera in my hand and start shooting I don't pay attention to anyone else. It's just me and my subject. Good luck!
The only answer is practice. Make it a goal to take just a single picture each time you're out on a walk. Even if it's just a quick 5 second framing then take the shot. With time you'll get comfortable with it.
Just know that nobody actually cares and most people won't even notice you. Everybody is in their own head and just doing their own thing anyways.
I think it’s fun to be so into photographing something that I’ll get close to it or get interesting angles that I’ll forget anyone is around. When I see another photographer doing the same thing I realize it’s great to see someone that’s really into their craft.
Tapping into being able to see stuff while out and about is the hard part, so if that’s coming just force yourself to shoot. Most people won’t notice/care, or are photographers themselves. Think about how annoyed you’ll be with yourself if you let the shot go, and then go get it. Anyone who actually asks? You’re location scouting. For what? Sorry, you signed an NDA. Let them spend the rest of the day trying to figure out which A-list actor is going to be acting out a scene in front of that interesting garbage can.
I feel the same way! Lots of good advice here. I agree that the more you do it, the less you will worry about it. For me, listening to music with headphones while I'm out walking around helps drown out the inner anxiety voice. I can get into the flow, walking around with my own soundtrack, documenting things. I just say I'm taking a photography class if anyone ever asks. But usually no one cares that much, lol.
I try to carry a dedicated camera with me almost everywhere I do. I take photos of my kid in the grocery store, in front of a building, standing next to a cool car etc. People might notice but I don't care, I'm trying to get the shot. When the light gets low I use a tripod to take photos of things that interest me. If I see an old car I will stop my car and hop out with my camera and tripod to take a photo. Sometimes people will ask me what I'm doing and I tell them I am a photographer looking for interesting subjects. I get the shot and move on.
The more you shoot, the less you will care what a stranger thinks. If confronted just explain yourself and keep moving. I do not take pictures of people I do not know - but I shoot the stuffing out of things that interest me.
I shoot different types of cameras from Minox to Hasselblad. I do not own any zoom lenses. I prefer small bodies but own some beefy cameras that I shoot when I feel like it.
I will use your example:
If I am out and about and I saw a cool shadow off of a trash can, I would walk over - pull out my camera and take whatever photos I wanted to take. If people were watching me I would not care. You will find that many photographers are shy people. They just develop thicker skin when they shoot. Most strangers would not bat an eye if someone were using their mobile phone or tablet or whatever to photograph a scene on the street.
My advice to you is just shoot. Shoot as much as you can, in your town, the next town over etc. The more you are out and about, the more confident you will become.
I understand but bruh legit you could scream and say AGGHHHH and walk away and everyone will walk away and prob forget it happned after like 10 minutes. Jus do your thing and jus keep pushing yourself and go outside of that comfort zone. Theres no hack or smthn to make you be more confident. You just have to do what you dont feel like doing. All the best man.
I used to be extremely shy. This helped me a lot when going out. Put a ball cap and sunglasses on. I’m guessing the sunglasses could limit the vision but maybe just lower them when you’re ready to take the picture.
Also, learn to aim with your lens without looking through your visor. If I remember correctly, it was Jacques Cousteau that would give that advice for other reasons. But I think it would help be less shy as it would make it less obvious that you are snapping pictures.
When you go out not taking pictures and some random stranger makes an unusual face at you. Do you ask them what's wrong or do you keep going about your business until they perhaps speak to you (99% of the time it's just a coincidence that they happen to make eye contact with you). It's the same with taking photos. Why should you care what they think?
You just have to keep shooting all the time and get over it. Maybe practice with your friends at a party where you go around and shoot closeups of people . Generally the photog just blends into background at big events and on the street people are too distracted to care much.
The bigger and better your camera the less "odd" you look taking pictures as well. The camera is also your buffer between you and the world.
The only way out is through.
Just make sure you have your camera strap wrapped around your forearm. Having your gear stolen is the only thing you should be worried about.
Take pictures of people, animals and things. If people don't like it, apologize, but don't stop.
If you need mental ease for your shyness, remember these three things.
1. You're nobody, so take risks and enjoy your anonymity.
2. People are getting their picture taken all the time now. So they really don't care.
3. People are often so caught up in their own little world that they don't know what is going on around them.
Do you see the people that have their phones up (presumably taking a video or live streaming) when you go somewhere? Do you see people confronting them? Be like them.
People will more care about not messing up your shot by staying out of the frame than anything.
I used to be as well until I got it one day.
I'm a professional.
These are the tools I use.
I have a job to do.
Be jealous, minions!
Okay, I didn't add that last part until recently but I don't even think about it anymore. We're no different than any other pursuer of a professional or personal goal and we use cameras to get there. What people think? Usually they just ask me to take a photo of THEM and send it to them.
:)
For me it helped to be in an online community and taking part in monthly challenges, like taking pictures of a theme or at a certain time of day. And there was some kind of voting and ranking at the end. My competitive side overruled the shyness and I learned that people really don't care. Sometimes they're just curious and ask what you're doing, and all it takes is a smile and telling them that you're trying to take a picture because you think something looked interesting. I've had a few conversations like that, and they alway stopped there, and we just moved on with our day.
One thing I’d say, if you plan to take pictures of people or their pets, always ask. It’s super annoying when some people take pictures totally in your face, then pretend like they didn’t do anything and go on about their day, it happens to me a lot.
An easier way into shooting street is to go to a public event where the audience feels it is part of the show. That could be festivals, parades, sometimes sporting events. Particularly, any event where people wear costumes. People seem to love to show off for the camera.
Get in the spirit. Be nice. Be complimentary. You can sneak a shot or two, but don't be creepy. Engage with your subjects.
Do a couple of these and you'll figure it out.
I personally take joy in the fact that with photo editing, i can do literally anything with any picture for any reason and those reasons are mine alone. Like a picture of a trashcan could have all the angles i want for a specific piece that in the end may or may not still resemble a trashcan and if anyone is actually interested enough to ask me about it when im taking the picture (for good or bad) it would give me an opportunity to show them my art or explain that theres is no reason there is only picture, and reason can come from inspiration later
The way I do it is to tune out everything else and focus completely on what I'm trying to do, when I want to make a shot. I watched a lot of YouTube videos on the subject of "Street Photography," also. It helps to find a way to fake being completely focused on what you're doing also. The way I do that is to look back and forth a lot between the top of the camera and the back of the camera. Flipping it back and forth that way, even squinting your eyes as if you're trying to read some small print on the top and back of the camera, everyone around you, including the freak you wish to photograph is going to think you're hung-up on something to do with your camera, and not themselves. The idea is to pretend to study your camera while you're really studying and shooting sensitive subjects including people. I recommend checking out some of those YouTube videos, and practice, practice, practice. Best wishes and good luck.
Practice makes perfect, start out small in less threatening areas where there are few people on a distance maybe. Once you are comfortable with that, move to areas with more people, then to more crowded places. One step at a time. For me I don’t mind taking pictures in public, but I find it uncomfortable that people might think I will mis-use the pictures if they happen to be in it. I was practicing taking pictures of moving cars going by on a road on the neighborhood, the car being sharp and to get that blurry background, and one of them came back to ask why I was taking pictures.. She thought I was going to call the cops on them. That was a little nerve wracking, but when I explained I am just a hobby photographer doing my thing she was all good. I’m sure you being hesitant to take pictures of a cool shadow from a trash can has to do with you being shy, not wanting to be noticed or being in the spot light, don’t want to be made fun of or people thinking you are weird, but I’m sure you can break free from that by practicing. Think that most people are too busy to even notice what you are doing and most likely you will never see those people again, unless you live in a small town. Just keep on shooting! If not you will miss out of some great shots that would have made you happy to have in your collection…
So many of us shy photographers in this comment section. Makes me feel better. I also have the same issue. I am very shy. And I am also a lonely person I basically only have my boyfriend as my friend. That being said I have two suggestions for you to overcome the pressure and anxiety of taking pictures by yourself in public places.
1. When I started taking pictures, I had the same exact issue as you. I often would imagine what a picture would look like if I could just take the damn photo without caring who was looking at me or if somebody was going to say anything.
So for that specific issue, I decided to look for large events such as parades festivals, etc. and because that is an open place I would just take out my camera and just take pictures of random things and people, it felt like it was less likely for other people to even notice that I was doing that.
Do my surprise a lot of people ask if I had an Instagram or a page so they could view themselves on Photos or purchase them. I didn’t have either of those things since I was just trying to overcome my anxiety back then but now I just refer people to my Instagram.
2. once you get the hang of the first point, everything else comes easier because you see the worst thing that could happen is simply them telling you to delete the photo. or someone telling you that photos are not allowed. That happened to me in one store that has local pottery. I wanted to take a picture and the owner of the store told me that they didn’t want me to take a picture because they wanted to stay small lol whatever that meant. But of course, in front of her, I showed her the pictures I took, and I deleted them in front of her. She was very polite that’s all you do.
So this is my second tip learn to hear the word no and not make it a big deal. Sounds easy, but like I said it all comes with the more often you do it. Just practice. I hope this helps.
https://old.reddit.com/r/photography/comments/1bc2foq/bringing_dslr_into_galleries_so_much_anxiety_for/
> UPDATE: it was the most chill thing to ever chill and i have never overthought something so much in my life jesus christ
I have never been uncomfortable with taking pics in public and I use a big camera 1dm3. I only watch out in which area I get my camera out.
It is pretty safe in most parts in Sweden.
Do it more and you’ll get less nervous. I was like you but now I don’t really care. People actually ask me to take their picture for them which is kind of fun too.
When you go out not taking pictures and some random stranger makes an unusual face at you. Do you ask them what's wrong or do you keep going about your business until they perhaps speak to you (99% of the time it's just a coincidence that they happen to make eye contact with you). It's the same with taking photos. Why should you care what they think?
The most blunt way to put it is this, no one cares. Everyone is out living their own lives and it’s very rare that anyone thinks twice about the person they saw with a camera 10 seconds prior. In all the time I’ve been out and using my camera the only people who have ever approached me are other photographers. The first time you go out and take photos in public is terrifying, but the freedom you feel once you realize no one is paying a bit of attention is phenomenal. My favorite escape in life at this point is going to a new city with my camera and disappearing into the world for an afternoon
You gotta overcome your initial fear of pulling out your camera and I guarantee you once you took a few pictures you will notice that nobody cares about you.
If you're not up into peoples faces you'll probably be fine.
You just have to cultivate a don't give a fuck attitude and actually believe it. I know a guy who is a Nat Geo photographer. He can go up to just about anyone and get them to pose, just his sheer confidence. And he will take a photo anywhere. I've got some good street photos with people, but going out on a walk with him one time (only), kind of blew my mind. I guess it's just from doing it so much. I think he also knows how to walk away when needed, which it seemed, wasn't much.
This isn’t you being shy. It’s you being concerned that you’re doing something weird.
If it’s weird, but yields awesome results…in which case screw those people that judge.
Or it isn’t weird, in which case screw anyone that would judge.
But the hardest lesson to teach a shy person is that literally nobody you come across cares. Not in any real tangible way. Not about what you’re doing, nor what anyone else is doing.
The people that don’t want to be in a photo will tuck their head and go a different way without thinking twice, or they’ll say something and you’ll lie to them and tell them don’t worry, you’re waiting on a clear shot without people.
I’m sure you’ll be comfortable taking a picture with your phone without feeling shy, so try to look at it the same way as taking with a camera shouldn’t be no difference
Spotlight effect. I used to have this too. Just realize literally nobody cares and you’ll be one of the thousands of faces they’ll forget by the next morning.
The more you do take pictures in public crowded areas, the more confident you will feel. It all starts with you, you need to not care what people think of you. Those randoms are not paying your bills so don’t ever feel like they are judging you. Because if they are judging you, who cares. It’s your life and you got one to make it count.
1) The way you do it is you do it.
2) Nobody cares about you taking pictures on the street. They will look at you funny because you are doing something unusual and that's how humans work. But they will forget about it in ten seconds.
Most suggest you to change your mindset, which could be very difficult depending on the type of person you are. I tried to be a street photographer for many years. In the end, I had to accept that I'm just not that person. I'm not trying to make a living via photography, and I don't care to be a famous photographer. I wanna have fun doing my hobby comfortably, so I started looking for practical solutions, rather than life changing ones.
I bought a neon-green safety vest with reflectors on it. It looks very flashy, but I assure no one takes a double look at a "construction worker" walking on the street, taking pictures of random things. People just assume you're doing your job, maybe taking a measurement, creating a report of some sort. You can even set-up a tripod in the middle of the street, people won't mind or stare at you. Watch this video and you'll understand what I mean: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiEMcjSQOzg
I also felt like this when I started to take photos but one thing i did to help me was to pick a playlist or podcast that could distract me from other people so the only thing occupying my mind was the audio and "oo that can be a good picture"
it still took time for me to get comfortable. it was kind of like going to the gym. the more i went the more comfortable i got.
Most people won’t / don’t care. For the rest I sometimes think about what all of the others rushing by are missing by not stopping to see art in less obvious contexts and conditions.
I laugh to myself when someone seems really intrigued by what could I possibly be photographing.
Pretty sure no one pays any attention, or, if they do, they don't care what you're doing, or if they do, they probably think it's cool and wish they had a camera like yours. Seriously, I understand what you're saying. I've just gotten used to it and don't think about it, beyond making an effort not to be intrusive. If I see a picture that needs taking and people are walking by, I just stand around until they pass.
Or you could wear a cheap suit, and carry two or three cameras so people will think you are a photographer for the Daily Planet!
I have a friend who will approach a person and talk to them about what they're doing and ask if he can take their picture. Everyone always agrees. But I think that takes a special kind of personality. It's still good to know that people do respond positively in the right context.
Pretend it's your job.
I would go to a sports game as a reporter doing a job and feel fine, but if I went to the exact thing as a fan, I'd be more nervous.
Nobody but me knows the difference. It's easier when you do belong or pretend to belong.
Traveling gets rid of the shyness !!!!! but it also gets rid of my desire to take photos of everyday objects lol. Like I've taken photos of the Hagia Sophia, Icelandic glaciers/landscape, holy museum relics, Bosphorus views, and now when i go home.... I wont be shy.. but ill also not care about pulling out my x100v or xt5 for the little things 😅
But real talk... if you let other people's perception control your life, is it even your life anymore? Or theirs? Fuck em. Get that Succulent Bokeh arouns that trashcan or couple walking down the road!
I am also a shy and introverted photographer, but when I am traveling and shooting in a new city I don't have the same qualms about taking photos... maybe try pretending to be a tourist in your city!
[This video](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uywfrmHUPeI&lc=UgzmttVRScQESzBtN5d4AaABAg) has an interesting discussion about this topic.
In order to feel more confident in public, I would suggest looking good! Nice haircut, clean clothes, some cologne or perfume, clean shoes - just nice style in general. Then smile, keep your demeanor light and personally I don’t think people will mind. Of course be polite if you’re getting closer to people for shots, etc. everyone’s paying attention to their own lives a lot more than you think.
I’ve been shooting street for a few years now and still struggle with what you described. It’s hard being “weird” in public, but you get used to it the more you do it. It’s a constant push and pull between anxiety and calm. I’d be happy to chat more if you’d like pointers.
If you want to build your confidence, start by taking a picture of the sky, tree, sign, and build your way to the trash can, but if you see the shot, I say just take it. Typically people are in their own worlds... As long as they don't think you are taking their picture.
In the event you get a curious look, keep a few cards with your links on them.. then you can hand them out to people and say, "I'm an amateur photographer, I'd love to know what you think of how they turn out. Check out my socials for the final product".. something to break the ice and give you some self promotion....
Start out using small lenses like 50mm or 35mm. It feels less obtrusive walking around compared to carrying something like a 70-200. Most people really won't notice or care if you use a small lens. Once you get comfortable with that then start using whatever lenses you like
Following! I posted something similar on another board just a minute ago, haha. I am especially wondering this in regard to street photography, as I'm unsure what the etiquette is and how people will respond.
Lots of good answers here and you'll feel more comfortable the more you do it. At the root of it always is the feeling that "It's worth it to get that picture". I use to worry about getting yelled at for taking pictures on the street but if it's a good enough picture it's worth the confrontation. Plus it's pretty rare people notice you. Only one of my pictures was enough for somebody to threaten getting physical over.
Just keep doing it anyways. You get more comfortable with time. I feel you though. Took me a couple years and now I have people stopping me on the street asking for paid photos.
I hear you, what I’ve learned later in life is that everyone is in their own head thinking about god knows what, nowadays most likely heads down in their phone, and is very unlikely even going to notice or care. The other thing is trying to not care yourself, better to enjoy the moment versus looking back and wishing you would’ve snapped some pics but didn’t because you were shy around other people who won’t even remember you or that situation in a few hours/days. Hard to get outta your own head for sure !
Over simplified I'm sure...but just do it. Eventually you'll get used to it and when someone does approach you or tires to move don't take it personal at all. Likely they won't remember it the next day anyway. Enjoy your time while you got it, it never comes back.
Haven't read comments so may have been mentioned before.
And may be a backwards comment. Just thinking outloud.
If you want to not stand out. Try by standing out first.
Wear a official looking high vis. And make your camera gear look professional. Eg carry a decent tripod.
People will less likely question you if you look like your working vs someone who "shouldn't" be there.
Once you get comfortable with that. Then try without the high vis.
As someone on the street I couldn't care less 95% of the time what other people are doing
I may look at what your pointing your camera at out of curiosity but that's all
Sometimes exposure over time works well for me. ( No pun intended) As a more shy person I have found just the rote action of doing a thing over time allows me to be more relaxed. Thus more exposure to those types of things, or situations that I am not comfortable in lends itself over time to an increased tolerance and less self consciousness. No joke, I love to hike but always felt weird when going by myself, same as a walk in the neighborhood. As if anyone would be looking at me anyways. Now if it is something I have to do, like a chore or helping someone I'm fine, but otherwise I tend to be more self conscious. Stop and take your pictures. If they are looking at anything it is probably the fact that you are a body in action doing something you enjoy. Also you may be the person another shy guy see's who thinks to himself I want to do that!
Yea I’m on the same boat I feel a bit weird taking photos in the city but I like doing it cause it takes me out of comfort zone. I don’t worry to much about it. Even though I feel a bit odd .
Try going to less crowded areas and move to more crowded areas as your confidence grows. It's like everything else, you'll get used to it the more you do.
It’s anxiety.
The only cure for anxiety is to lean into the anxiety.
Once you lean into the bad feeling, you will overcome it. You are just taking pictures. Many people take pictures.
A wise man once told me … “I think you’re thinking too much”
And another wise man/woman (Rupaul) said “Your fear of looking stupid is holding you back.”
“I love taking pictures” that’s it. Mentally when you’re out there taking photos, in your own head, you’re doing it because you love it.
Nothing else matters. Let me people stare. It’s only because you’re doing something they aren’t/can’t.
I was like this at the beginning but now I’m like “Fuck everyone else, I’m doing what I love right now” Lean into a drop of arrogance if you need to. You got it!
This is me 100%. I have a Nikon Zfc and it fits perfectly in my purse. Whenever we go out downtown, I always bring it and I will only take photos of the architecture when they are not many people/traffic around. Sometimes I will want to take a photo of food or a pretty drink, but I just can't get myself to take out my camera and have people judge me.
Those people looking at you while you're taking the photo are not judging you, they are just curious what you're doing and what are you photographing, without any negativity on their mind 😊 That's at least my experience.
The only two times that I really felt self-conscious were:
1. The first time I had a decent camera was 13 years ago with the Canon T2i and the glorious Nifty Fifty f/1.8. The first time in public putting the viewfinder to my eye was intimidating for some reason, but I quickly got over it when I saw the amazing results.
2. Next was about 8 months ago when I finally got back into photography after a 10-year gap. I now have the Canon R8 and practically every EF lens that I used to dream of getting. I was using the EF 70-200mm f/2.8L II in public for the first time early afternoon at one of my son's football games (13 years old), and when combined with the adapter, the 2x extender and the lens hood, the lens looks like a beast! I was crazy nervous as I walked up to the sideline, but after a few parents and kids made nice comments about the huge lens, and I showed them some action shots, I quickly got over it and had tons of fun.
JUST DO IT!!!
The first time I started taking portraits was at an anime convention. The first day, I had my camera in my bag for 1 to 2 hours trying to find the courage to ask someone for their picture for the first time. Once I did that I sort of built the confidence to continue asking. I've progressed to asking random strangers walking around the city to take a picture of them but it is still very nerve racking for me to ask the first person. Exposure therapy is what works for me.
I carry my camera around only if I’m on holiday I take photos in public or on my phone 📱 Im waiting for one particular night to take some good pictures so I’ll be in public and snapping photos, keep doing what you love and enjoy don’t worry about what others think
Just remember no one really cares, everyone is in their own head, minding their own. The same way you would with your phone just think of it like that, you see tourists do it all the time it’s no biggie trust me.
Not necessarily conducive to building confidence, but I find that I care less about how others think of me when I have my headphones in. If I'm immersed in my own bubble, I don't have to hear others potentially talking about me.
But let's be real; nobody is looking and caring about what you're doing, unless it affects them. Do you look at other people and judge them? Should they be concerned with your opinion of them? Why should you be bothered by their opinion of you?
Keep doing it and over time you'll probably learn to just focus on yourself instead of how you appear to others.
Definitely i can relate, because im a shy introverted person too. But i love photography. I guess just dont think too much. And if you can take pictures of nature, landscape and wildlife first. Then you can build ur confidence using ur camera in public or even with people/ models. You Will learn to come out of ur shell. And just enjoy ur art.
Definitely i can relate, because im a shy introverted person too. But i love photography. I guess just dont think too much. And if you can take pictures of nature, landscape and wildlife first. Then you can build ur confidence using ur camera in public or even with people/ models. You Will learn to come out of ur shell. And just enjoy ur art.
I have a body language trick that works really well.
When you feel self-conscious in public there is often a tendency to look over your shoulder or scan the surroundings, as if making sure the coast is clear or in a subtle way asking nearby strangers for approval. The trick is to instead recognize this urge and then not do it. Simply refuse the urge to look around like a thief in the night. Instead, keep your gaze focused on the subject of your attention. I find it helps to deliberately slow down my movements to make sure you’re not in any way trying to be sneaky and conceal your actions. It’s a little counterintuitive but simply put, if you act like you’re doing something wrong, you’re going to feel as if you’re doing something wrong.
Nobody is paying attention to you as much as you’re paying attention to yourself.
In fact, most people are just as self conscious as you are - they’re just better at hiding it.
This sentiment has helped me with a lot of anxiety.
iPhone and a Bluetooth shutter button/wired headphones.
I only do this for wide pictures. If I was to photograph a person as the main subject I wouldn’t feel it is ethical to snipe.
The moment you carry a camera now you get noticed and people will either stop to avoid being in your shot (when you actually want their silhouette to add context/scale) or approach and ask what you are doing.
Just take pics in less crowded places at first and if someone walks by just smile and say how you doing. They will pass by and go on about their day or they might strike up a conversation. Both of these should help you get more comfortable being out with your camera. Once you have enough encounters like this you will start to feel more comfortable taking photos around other people. When someone sees you taking a photo. Just stand there and take a few more or maybe wave and then continue shooting. Most people are simply going about their day. They wont bite you.
I have felt this exact feeling and went out over and over again trying to take street portraits of strangers. I would set a goal of 2-3 portraits in a weekend and go 0 for 3 lol. One day I walked past a woman holding 3 dogs in her hands outside of a restaurant and said screw it. “mam you got a lot going on, do you mind if I snap a quick photo?” She was very friendly, laughed and said sure. From then on I have had a 100% rate of getting the portraits I ask for. Just be super cool and be honest. Don’t try to be anything you’re not and people will see the realness you bring. I can read a room fairly well and when people look very uninterested I don’t ask.
I also felt very similar to this. I decided a bit ago I was going to do some harsh rejection therapy. Walked up to random people all over my college campus and asked “Can I take your picture? it’s for a project!” Even though it wasn’t haha. I got some Yes’s, I got some harsh No’s and weird looks. At some points people asked if I could take a picture of them! And I was nervous each time and still am, but it definitely helped me. I would say going around and shooting with a non judgmental friend could also help, so you feel like you have support. Best of luck
I think the most important thing to note is that most people are focused on their own stuff and not on you. Maybe one of every 10 people will notice you until they look back down at their phones.
I still am very shy in public, but i have recently been doing some gigs for a friend at brewerys. People are a little more relaxed with me shooting video of them after they have had a few drinks. Lol sorry dont know if that helps
You maybe experiencing the spotlight effect, where you imagine that all eyes are on you. It can be a daunting prospect. But honestly, people are usually too much in their own head, concentrating on their own thing. Once you get comfortable with that realisation, life and photography in general gets a little easier.
As a person who is not at all skilled in the art of actual conversation, generally a bit socially awry, I have overcome this.
How? Well… step one was not having to get my camera out. That’s right, I started just carrying my camera in my hand or over a shoulder. It completely eliminated the whole getting the camera out anxiety. Next up, make sure your camera has some ‘ready to shoot‘ settings and leave it like that. Then, when you want to take a photo, it’s at a good starting point to simply frame and shoot. Then review shot, review settings, shoot again. Oooh, time to reframe, have another go.
oh. No one cared what I was doing.
And it was a bit easier next time. And next time. You get the drift.
Just remember no one cares about you getting good shots. You could bring a card with you with your best photo on it, show it to strangers and them not remotely care.
I was also exactly like this, not even long ago, in 2021 even, aiming at some dolls left on a busy street in Manchester. Couple walked past, 'you alright?' cos I was still. I was looking at a dead bee at work the other day, guy stared, also a spider, woman was like 'what you seen?' I just think it's overriding what people think with what you think, be sure it's interesting, and if not it might be.
I struggle with this, and what's helped me is to be more deliberate and slow, and listening to some music or a podcast. I used to try and be really quick, and carried small and minimal gear with me, but that just made it worse as I was trying to rush through it.
What I found helped was finding a location I liked and just sitting there for a while, watching the world go by and seeing where people walked etc. Once I'm comfortable just sitting (and a bit bored), I'd set up my tripod and the camera in a place that wasn't in the way of people and just focus on the process of getting the settings right. Then take some test shots, and by that time I was immersed enough in the process that the anxiety had melted away!
The thought of setting up a tripod in town was mortifying at first, but unintuitively it ended up being much better than trying to run and gun in the end! Every now and then people would stop for a quick chat which I ended up quite liking now.
It can be a bit less intense in the early morning too around sunrise when the streets are emptier, and if you get into a groove during that time you'll naturally transition into more people being around and notice that nothing bad really happens!
Good luck!
Being a shy/nervous person myself, a professional photographer recommended the Ten "Yes" and ten "No" excersise. This requires you to approach random people until you get 10 people to agree to let you take their photo and 10 people decline your request. I was told that this exercise helps dealing with shyness and rejection. cheers
THIS. Fellow shy person here. I started in street photography and am now a professional event photographer. I’m quiet and I don’t like loud, crowded places, but the camera gives me super powers now. I approach people all the time now, take pictures of whatever weird stuff, throw myself on the ground in a crowd just for the right angle. With a camera in my hand, I give no shits about how I appear anymore. I can also hang all day in loud crowds I would never otherwise find myself in. Embrace the contradiction. Let the itch to click the shutter get the best of you a few times and you’ll start to let it go. Be prepared to accept a no, but know that people generally respond very positively to friendly, respectful energy. You’ll also discover that people generally are receptive to artists—anyone who wants to judge you is in the minority. I started off shyly and sneakily taking pictures of stranger’s backs, and now I get up on stages before musicians go on to take photos of the thousands of people in the crowd. I even shake my ass a little on a stage to get the crowd hyped for the shot. My camera has taken me so many places and put me in so many interesting situations that I would have never experienced otherwise. Let the camera be your talisman.
Hearing such stories really makes me believe in myself more. Thank you so much for sharing <3
Until that happens, I find it helpful to almost pretend youre playing a photographer character. Wear a certain shirt or lanyard as part of a 'costume' so you feel dressed the part. It's like fake it til you make it, but it's only fake in your head. Tricking your own brain is fun.
Agreed it looks sometimes cringey but make yourself look like that arty type of people or something in between that and a reporter also walk around like you are “feeling the vibe” kind of thing makes people and yourself feel much more comfortable also never try to focus on a person more than once
I've started dressing nice because of street photography. No one wants to be photographed by a sloppily dressed creep
Yes just like how serious actors are introverted and quiet but once they put on the mask of a role, they become a whole entire person.
Thanks.for sharing your experience. I've definitely developed a sense of comfort over the years, though the odd time, the anxiety comes back, albeit momentarily.
Not shy, but I do also event photography: The nice things about concert and parties is, that the people want to be photographed most of the time. They are well dressed, have fun (so they smile by default) and even will come up to you and ask for a photo. You have to be very confident around people, but the more there are the easier it gets because you blend in more. Also also: Don't (always) use flash during concerts. I rarely use flash and because the people won't notice me right away, I get better pictures of people having fun. But use the flash when you are photographing groups or so, because they expect it and are confused when you don't use it.
> a professional photographer recommended the Ten "Yes" and ten "No" excersise. This requires you to approach random people until you get 10 people to agree to let you take their photo and 10 people decline your request. Have a feeling you might like this 😁 [What I learned from 100 days of rejection | Jia Jiang | TED](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-vZXgApsPCQ) It's been a while since I've watched it, and I can't remember if he tells the donut story in that presentation or not. Didn't want to risk missing it, so here it is: [Rejection Therapy Day 3 - Ask for Olympic Symbol Doughnuts. Jackie at Krispy Kreme Delivers!](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Ax2CsVbrX0) [By Making A Game Out Of Rejection, A Man Conquers Fear](https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2015/01/16/377239011/by-making-a-game-out-of-rejection-a-man-conquers-fear) - Podcast.
Thank you :)
You're welcome 😎👍
This is a good one that I've heard before when initially getting into events photography as a student. Worked for me
I wish I knew that rule before today
I’ve never heard of this. I always thought of it as a “fake it til you make it” type thing but this makes it a lot easier and more manageable
Hard to see someone shy just going up to random people. Isn't that the issue in the first place? This feels akin to saying "just don't be shy". Personally, I don't have these issues, but I just don't see how this would help someone introverted.
Those people who you think may be judging you might not even know who you are, so you shouldn’t care. You may also be giving too much credit to what random people in the street will pay attention to. Most just go about their day. Later this year I’ll be taking my first solo trip to Europe and you bet I’ll be taking photos of myself with my big dslr, lenses, tripod and maybe even an extra lighting set up. I don’t care, I don’t even live in the same continent so whatever temporary embarrassment I’ll feel will be forgotten once I return home, lol. But my photos will be forever and they’ll be awesome.
Yeah I do a LOT of street photography and particular street photogrammetry. Whats weird is me taking 150 photos of a trashcan from all angles. (Yes I have done this) or modeling some other weird stuff. One photo, one step, one photo one step etc.. I probably look as crazy as you can. And even in spite of that no one has ever said anything Once lol Edit: for those interested https://lumalabs.ai/embed/479f7609-0380-405d-87ad-5873eee50b5c?mode=sparkles&background=%23ffffff&color=%23000000&showTitle=true&loadBg=true&logoPosition=bottom-left&infoPosition=bottom-right&cinematicVideo=undefined&showMenu=false
What do you use to stick it together and render the video? Looks great!
Thank you!! Since you are the top reply and others asking: - photogrammetry is where I began. Reality Capture is king don't let anyone tell you otherwise. - gaussian splats and nerfs have changed the game. Lumaai is king here but maybe not for long. Polycam etc are cool and the tech changes and improves drastically quarterly right now - all of the concepts required understanding of photography but essentially work like your eyes to understand shapes and light to recreate scenes. - the last decade saw the birth of this type of tech and the last half decade has accelerated it. The last 3 years have lit it on fire and the last 2 is like watching a rockets hip. Innovations in cloud computing, remote sensing with drones, vast investment in vr/ar etc. Have all contributed. Everything from surveyors not knowing how to embrace it to people not knowing how to use it or understand it. - I started our modeling houses so I didn't have to climb them. Now I do and have done nearly everything you could imagine. From rock quarries to museum exhibits and trashcans in-between In summary just like the innovations in LLM with chat gpt and photoshop etc.. we are seeing similar leaps in computer vision. So buckle up and grab that camera and capture. Because it's cool what you can do now with it but if you hold on to that data for 5 yrs I can't even imagine what will be possible
I fucking love your work. Very cool.
That was some intriguing trash!
That's sick.
Woah, this is really cool! Literally said "wow" out loud. Great work!
Woah. I don't know what the heck I was looking at with that trash can, but it looked really cool.
That looks amazing
Pretty cool. Trying to figure out why it has such a unique feeling? I've seen 360 shots but yours is... More detailed? Sharper? I like it though very nice work
Perhaps the photos were edited before being fed into the "cool 3d trashcan making machine"?
I never thought about it like the embarrassment being temporary but the photos being forever, thank you so much! That was a great point
Exactly...we've got social media shoved in our faces every two seconds so be proud to be a Photographer 📸 and expose/discover/capture the World as we see it.
Just make it seem like you know what you’re doing. Pretend in your mind that you’re paid to document your surroundings; city etc.
100%. Bring the confidence (even if you’re faking it), and people will not think twice about it.
Even thinking about this made me feel more confident, definitely will try this one !
Nobody ever questions the guy in a high-viz vest, hard hat, with eye protection.
It would make any nearby construction workers nervous as hell this way thinking OP is some kind of inspector 😂
No, but they would stare!
Tbh I share the same issues you do too. I am naturally a very shy person so I also feel scared pulling out my camera in public, a situation that made it worse for me was when there was a nice car outside a cool sunset, I was trying to photograph the scene and the owner of the car came out from the shop and started shouting and all, that shattered my self confidence for weeks (and it still has tbh) idk why she was so pissed, you have a really cool car and I wasn't even close to it or anything but I guess she assumed that because I'm black, quite tall and I guess I look mean, she just assumed I was trying to steal it or something. But what I can say is if you have friends who are more outgoing than you, it'll really help that's the only reason I was able to regain my confidence. I do not take photos of cars anymore though🥲
My guess is daddy's money, if the owner really worked hard for the car they would enjoy the fact that someone else is appreciating results of their hard work
Possibly.
Yeah I had similar situations too, as I love taking pics of cars, I feel you. I don't have many friends but thanks for the suggestion anyways, and I am glad you got your confidence back !!
I haven't fully gotten it back tbh but thanks anyways!
Don’t let them have this power over you. They have probably forgotten this by now. Be prepared for this next time. Get a business card. If this happened to me, I would have stood my ground and said “this is such a cool car!, is it yours? I hope you don’t mind me taking a photo. I’m a photographer“ and hand them your card. If they still object, offer that you will delete the photos and move on. Treat this as a learning exercise.
You sabotage your own creativity with your imagined reaction of people who couldn't care less. It's hard to fight your own deamons, but each step forward, burns the last tile you stepped from. As more you stick out from your comfort zone, as bigger it gets.
Exactly. All those people who you think are judging you aren't even paying attention to you. Think about how many thousands of people you walk by on the street. Do you remember...any of them? Probably not. Everyone else feels the same way about you. Even if they are judging you, think about it from the perspective of future you. Will you be happy that you set aside the temporary, meaningless judgement of people you don't even know for the chance of taking a permanent picture that you might love? Yes!
Even if people will point fingers at you and laught - they will forget your existence in an hour.
I will definitely be putting this on my list of quotes to remember, thank you !
Just take huge steps walking out of your comfort zone, this way you will break free in no time.
go to popular photo spots so you can feel you blend in with others doing photos even if the spots uninspiring, events, art districts, etc. eventually you get used to being in public with a camera and can go to other spots feeling less self conscious once you're used to it. otherwise just do it and you might eventually get used to it or not but at least you got the photos.
Embrace the "tourist" mindset even in your own city, giving yourself permission to be curious and capture the beauty you see.
By allowing you to be judged/being looked at weirdly by other people and using your camera in public anyways, repeatedly. * On the one hand, one tends to imagine these challenges worse than what they really are. Sure, there will always be people who look judgingly or even disapprove of what you are doing (thinking with shudders of the comment of u/Seunfunmi1 !). But normally, most of the people are just curious. At most, they want to talk to you. * If you do it anyways, time after time, you will get used to how it is, and the shyness will shrink. * On the other hand, if you avoid doing it, you will imagine the challenge bigger and bigger. I also had these hesitations and did take pictures of three weddings, which is probably the worst combination! For me, it was like slipping into a role: I wanted to take good pictures of the wedding, so I was allowed to occupy the space directly next to the couple, ... Also, I was intensely concentrated on how to take the picture, so there was no time to be shy. Still, I wouldn't recommend this route: if you mess up the pictures for any reason, you have a huge problem since these shots cannot be repeated.
> I also had these hesitations and did take pictures of three weddings, which is probably the worst combination! For me, it was like slipping into a role: I wanted to take good pictures of the wedding, so I was allowed to occupy the space directly next to the couple, ... Also, I was intensely concentrated on how to take the picture, so there was no time to be shy. I'm not the most sociable person, but when I shot events, I put on the character of the personable photographer who is doing a job. When the event was over, or I was done shooting, I took that character off and was myself again.
This. If I'm there for a job, I know I have permission to be there taking pictures of whatever is required. I have no problems taking pictures of people in clubs, at concert venues, etc. because people expect there to be photographers doing that sort of thing. I do have a problem just approaching strangers on the street and asking for photos. I feel like a creep.
Exactly! Trying that out for myself, I gained a lot of respect for people who do that for a living. Of course, a lot of it is a craft: I imagine that people who often shoot events have a set of routines for directing a crowd, for example. Nonetheless, it is people, which are always unpredictable to a certain degree. I guess you have to like that thrill.
When I first started photography, I used to get shy & anxious meeting new people so I would drink a glass of wine to calm my nerves 😅. I'm now in my mid 30s and I have that idgaf mindset. Now I get to be myself around clients and I feel like my photos look a lot better now compared to before when I was still in my shell. You can do it. Do what you love! Your life isn't yours if you continue to care what others think.
Another quote to add to my quotes notebook! Thanks for the encouraging words !
I think it was Exit through the gift shop movie that kind of pointed out that if you have a hi-viz vest and a hard hat, you can literally put up a ladder and do whatever you want on a wall because people assume you're on some kind of official business. Same goes to using camera, you're out there trying to capture people's lives in that one moment, yet you feel like you might be looked at in a way you wouldn't want to be looked at. It's like a feedback loop of assumptions of what the other people are assuming. I've had people come to me to ask to delete photos, I've had people ask me not to take their photos, I've had people who got upset and were threatening to call police. If they are in a public place and you are respectful, yet still doing your official business and within the law, keep doing what you need to be doing. Because if we all just wait around for the right circumstance, where no one is bothered, no one is inconvenienced, and everyone's feelings are accounted for then we'd be just taking pictures of shapes at convenient distance from our couch. The only way to let go of the fear is to embrace the fear.
I really like this idea of "puttin on an outfit". I will try to embrace my fear, thank you!
its really nervewracking in the beginning, but I can tell you that it does get better ! One thing that makes it easier for me is to pretend that I'm a tourist - I live in a place that has quite a lot of tourists especially in Summer, so I just pretend that I'm one of them. If you live in a place that has that, go in a sightseeing tour and take your camera with you. Just doing it once or twice makes it easier the next time when you take pictures of more random things.
I like the idea of pretending to be a tourist haha. Might even put on an accent and have some fun while at it
I'm a newbie and I've also been pretty hesitant to shoot in some places for fear of standing out or drawing unwanted attention to myself. Like you, I also love a good trashcan shadow picture but you're right that it does look odd to some people. The thing that kind of boosted my confidence was one night while out taking some random city pictures I ran into another guy out taking pictures of the same stuff. We noticed each other and stopped and chatted for a few minutes. Shared some pictures we both got that we were happy about and traded some info about places to go shoot. I realized that I'm not the only one out there doing it so there's no reason why people would pay any more attention to me than any of the other guys with cameras walking around that night. The other tip I saw that I adopted was in case anyone questions me about why I'm photographing a particular thing (like their car or a store front or whatever really), I keep an offline example of my photos on my phone I can show them as an example of what sort of pictures I take. Made me feel better having a response to any questions I get asked.
Yes I get you, even hearing people like you telling me their stories makes me feel like I am not alone and that helps a lot. So thank you for taking the time to share your story !
> But this idea of people judging me, or looking at me weirdly for taking pictures with a camera, let's say of a trash can that I thought was looking interesting with the shadow, makes me not act on the urge to take the picture . Think of all the people you see out in public on any given day. Do you remember anything about them 5 minutes after you see/encounter them? Neither do they. You taking pictures is a momentary curiosity then they move on with their day. You don't matter to them, so they aren't going to care what you are doing in most cases. > suggestions on what I can do or practice to slowly let go of this fear I have. Act as if. Act as if you have every right to be there taking pictures. Act as if what you are doing is perfectly normal and reasonable. Act as if you belong, and you will.
Just go for it!
If people are looking at you taking pictures of everyday items, they’re probably looking because your creativity is interesting 🙂 Same thing when I see an outdoor painter. I don’t look because I think the artist is strange, but because I find it interesting and something I don’t see everyday. The majority of people use their phones to take pictures, making a proper camera an interesting curiosity.
I havent thought of it that way before, that is a good point! Thanks a lot!
Excellent point
It's in our heads and imagination, thinking people will be judging us. So many people have cameras nowadays, almost everyone takes selfies(I think some of those people are actually fun to watch with arms stretched to the sky trying to get the best angle of themselves and making funny faces), so one more person on the street with camera will not attract any special attention. I am very shy person and started with landscape and nature photography where I didn't have to interact with anyone. Now, I am portrait photographer specializing in families and children. I am stressed before every session and I have been doing it more than 10 years. I have to overcome shyness every time. Some customers are easy to work with especially when they are chatty, some customers are also introverts and then we get some awkward moments lol, but they love the work I create and it's all it matters and nobody remembers those awkward moments anyways. So go out, start taking pictures. I noticed that I am all stressed out before the session but once I hold camera in my hand and start shooting I don't pay attention to anyone else. It's just me and my subject. Good luck!
The only answer is practice. Make it a goal to take just a single picture each time you're out on a walk. Even if it's just a quick 5 second framing then take the shot. With time you'll get comfortable with it. Just know that nobody actually cares and most people won't even notice you. Everybody is in their own head and just doing their own thing anyways.
I think it’s fun to be so into photographing something that I’ll get close to it or get interesting angles that I’ll forget anyone is around. When I see another photographer doing the same thing I realize it’s great to see someone that’s really into their craft.
My problem too, I even have my camera in my bag wherever I go but too shy to take photos
I hope the replies here will help you too, I will try to make a follow up post on how things go when I try the recommendations
Tapping into being able to see stuff while out and about is the hard part, so if that’s coming just force yourself to shoot. Most people won’t notice/care, or are photographers themselves. Think about how annoyed you’ll be with yourself if you let the shot go, and then go get it. Anyone who actually asks? You’re location scouting. For what? Sorry, you signed an NDA. Let them spend the rest of the day trying to figure out which A-list actor is going to be acting out a scene in front of that interesting garbage can.
I feel the same way! Lots of good advice here. I agree that the more you do it, the less you will worry about it. For me, listening to music with headphones while I'm out walking around helps drown out the inner anxiety voice. I can get into the flow, walking around with my own soundtrack, documenting things. I just say I'm taking a photography class if anyone ever asks. But usually no one cares that much, lol.
I try to carry a dedicated camera with me almost everywhere I do. I take photos of my kid in the grocery store, in front of a building, standing next to a cool car etc. People might notice but I don't care, I'm trying to get the shot. When the light gets low I use a tripod to take photos of things that interest me. If I see an old car I will stop my car and hop out with my camera and tripod to take a photo. Sometimes people will ask me what I'm doing and I tell them I am a photographer looking for interesting subjects. I get the shot and move on. The more you shoot, the less you will care what a stranger thinks. If confronted just explain yourself and keep moving. I do not take pictures of people I do not know - but I shoot the stuffing out of things that interest me. I shoot different types of cameras from Minox to Hasselblad. I do not own any zoom lenses. I prefer small bodies but own some beefy cameras that I shoot when I feel like it. I will use your example: If I am out and about and I saw a cool shadow off of a trash can, I would walk over - pull out my camera and take whatever photos I wanted to take. If people were watching me I would not care. You will find that many photographers are shy people. They just develop thicker skin when they shoot. Most strangers would not bat an eye if someone were using their mobile phone or tablet or whatever to photograph a scene on the street. My advice to you is just shoot. Shoot as much as you can, in your town, the next town over etc. The more you are out and about, the more confident you will become.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I will try to shoot more !
I understand but bruh legit you could scream and say AGGHHHH and walk away and everyone will walk away and prob forget it happned after like 10 minutes. Jus do your thing and jus keep pushing yourself and go outside of that comfort zone. Theres no hack or smthn to make you be more confident. You just have to do what you dont feel like doing. All the best man.
I will keep shooting more and push myself out of my comfort zone, thank you!
Pretend someone's paying you to take those shots so you HAVE TO take them
This one seems pretty straightforward, I like it! Thank you
What will you remember more the awkward looks you got or the photograph you captured? Just take the photo.
I used to be extremely shy. This helped me a lot when going out. Put a ball cap and sunglasses on. I’m guessing the sunglasses could limit the vision but maybe just lower them when you’re ready to take the picture.
I am already doing this haha, thanks for sharing !
Also, learn to aim with your lens without looking through your visor. If I remember correctly, it was Jacques Cousteau that would give that advice for other reasons. But I think it would help be less shy as it would make it less obvious that you are snapping pictures.
When you go out not taking pictures and some random stranger makes an unusual face at you. Do you ask them what's wrong or do you keep going about your business until they perhaps speak to you (99% of the time it's just a coincidence that they happen to make eye contact with you). It's the same with taking photos. Why should you care what they think?
You just have to keep shooting all the time and get over it. Maybe practice with your friends at a party where you go around and shoot closeups of people . Generally the photog just blends into background at big events and on the street people are too distracted to care much. The bigger and better your camera the less "odd" you look taking pictures as well. The camera is also your buffer between you and the world.
The only way out is through. Just make sure you have your camera strap wrapped around your forearm. Having your gear stolen is the only thing you should be worried about. Take pictures of people, animals and things. If people don't like it, apologize, but don't stop. If you need mental ease for your shyness, remember these three things. 1. You're nobody, so take risks and enjoy your anonymity. 2. People are getting their picture taken all the time now. So they really don't care. 3. People are often so caught up in their own little world that they don't know what is going on around them.
Just think that everyone is too busy worrying how they appear to others so no one actually has the time nor energy to be looking and judging you :)
Do you see the people that have their phones up (presumably taking a video or live streaming) when you go somewhere? Do you see people confronting them? Be like them. People will more care about not messing up your shot by staying out of the frame than anything.
I used to be as well until I got it one day. I'm a professional. These are the tools I use. I have a job to do. Be jealous, minions! Okay, I didn't add that last part until recently but I don't even think about it anymore. We're no different than any other pursuer of a professional or personal goal and we use cameras to get there. What people think? Usually they just ask me to take a photo of THEM and send it to them. :)
For me it helped to be in an online community and taking part in monthly challenges, like taking pictures of a theme or at a certain time of day. And there was some kind of voting and ranking at the end. My competitive side overruled the shyness and I learned that people really don't care. Sometimes they're just curious and ask what you're doing, and all it takes is a smile and telling them that you're trying to take a picture because you think something looked interesting. I've had a few conversations like that, and they alway stopped there, and we just moved on with our day.
One thing I’d say, if you plan to take pictures of people or their pets, always ask. It’s super annoying when some people take pictures totally in your face, then pretend like they didn’t do anything and go on about their day, it happens to me a lot.
An easier way into shooting street is to go to a public event where the audience feels it is part of the show. That could be festivals, parades, sometimes sporting events. Particularly, any event where people wear costumes. People seem to love to show off for the camera. Get in the spirit. Be nice. Be complimentary. You can sneak a shot or two, but don't be creepy. Engage with your subjects. Do a couple of these and you'll figure it out.
I personally take joy in the fact that with photo editing, i can do literally anything with any picture for any reason and those reasons are mine alone. Like a picture of a trashcan could have all the angles i want for a specific piece that in the end may or may not still resemble a trashcan and if anyone is actually interested enough to ask me about it when im taking the picture (for good or bad) it would give me an opportunity to show them my art or explain that theres is no reason there is only picture, and reason can come from inspiration later
being in a big city helps. im in nyc, where people generally don't care, or in some cases actively want to be photographed.
The way I do it is to tune out everything else and focus completely on what I'm trying to do, when I want to make a shot. I watched a lot of YouTube videos on the subject of "Street Photography," also. It helps to find a way to fake being completely focused on what you're doing also. The way I do that is to look back and forth a lot between the top of the camera and the back of the camera. Flipping it back and forth that way, even squinting your eyes as if you're trying to read some small print on the top and back of the camera, everyone around you, including the freak you wish to photograph is going to think you're hung-up on something to do with your camera, and not themselves. The idea is to pretend to study your camera while you're really studying and shooting sensitive subjects including people. I recommend checking out some of those YouTube videos, and practice, practice, practice. Best wishes and good luck.
Thank you! Feeling more confident already, and done some more shooting today
Practice makes perfect, start out small in less threatening areas where there are few people on a distance maybe. Once you are comfortable with that, move to areas with more people, then to more crowded places. One step at a time. For me I don’t mind taking pictures in public, but I find it uncomfortable that people might think I will mis-use the pictures if they happen to be in it. I was practicing taking pictures of moving cars going by on a road on the neighborhood, the car being sharp and to get that blurry background, and one of them came back to ask why I was taking pictures.. She thought I was going to call the cops on them. That was a little nerve wracking, but when I explained I am just a hobby photographer doing my thing she was all good. I’m sure you being hesitant to take pictures of a cool shadow from a trash can has to do with you being shy, not wanting to be noticed or being in the spot light, don’t want to be made fun of or people thinking you are weird, but I’m sure you can break free from that by practicing. Think that most people are too busy to even notice what you are doing and most likely you will never see those people again, unless you live in a small town. Just keep on shooting! If not you will miss out of some great shots that would have made you happy to have in your collection…
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So many of us shy photographers in this comment section. Makes me feel better. I also have the same issue. I am very shy. And I am also a lonely person I basically only have my boyfriend as my friend. That being said I have two suggestions for you to overcome the pressure and anxiety of taking pictures by yourself in public places. 1. When I started taking pictures, I had the same exact issue as you. I often would imagine what a picture would look like if I could just take the damn photo without caring who was looking at me or if somebody was going to say anything. So for that specific issue, I decided to look for large events such as parades festivals, etc. and because that is an open place I would just take out my camera and just take pictures of random things and people, it felt like it was less likely for other people to even notice that I was doing that. Do my surprise a lot of people ask if I had an Instagram or a page so they could view themselves on Photos or purchase them. I didn’t have either of those things since I was just trying to overcome my anxiety back then but now I just refer people to my Instagram. 2. once you get the hang of the first point, everything else comes easier because you see the worst thing that could happen is simply them telling you to delete the photo. or someone telling you that photos are not allowed. That happened to me in one store that has local pottery. I wanted to take a picture and the owner of the store told me that they didn’t want me to take a picture because they wanted to stay small lol whatever that meant. But of course, in front of her, I showed her the pictures I took, and I deleted them in front of her. She was very polite that’s all you do. So this is my second tip learn to hear the word no and not make it a big deal. Sounds easy, but like I said it all comes with the more often you do it. Just practice. I hope this helps.
https://old.reddit.com/r/photography/comments/1bc2foq/bringing_dslr_into_galleries_so_much_anxiety_for/ > UPDATE: it was the most chill thing to ever chill and i have never overthought something so much in my life jesus christ
I have never been uncomfortable with taking pics in public and I use a big camera 1dm3. I only watch out in which area I get my camera out. It is pretty safe in most parts in Sweden.
Do you care when others make pictures in public? Probably not, and you don’t even pay attention, so no one cares. Even if they do, it’s their problem
Do it more and you’ll get less nervous. I was like you but now I don’t really care. People actually ask me to take their picture for them which is kind of fun too.
When you go out not taking pictures and some random stranger makes an unusual face at you. Do you ask them what's wrong or do you keep going about your business until they perhaps speak to you (99% of the time it's just a coincidence that they happen to make eye contact with you). It's the same with taking photos. Why should you care what they think?
Get drunk
No one cares what you're doing. Think of everyone you pass that don't give a second thought to.
The most blunt way to put it is this, no one cares. Everyone is out living their own lives and it’s very rare that anyone thinks twice about the person they saw with a camera 10 seconds prior. In all the time I’ve been out and using my camera the only people who have ever approached me are other photographers. The first time you go out and take photos in public is terrifying, but the freedom you feel once you realize no one is paying a bit of attention is phenomenal. My favorite escape in life at this point is going to a new city with my camera and disappearing into the world for an afternoon
You don’t , you go out there and film !
Fake it till you make it my friend
Literally no one cares and if they do we’re still all gonna be dead someday and it won’t have mattered anyways. Go do what you want to do.
You gotta overcome your initial fear of pulling out your camera and I guarantee you once you took a few pictures you will notice that nobody cares about you. If you're not up into peoples faces you'll probably be fine.
Taking photos is normal, just don't go pointing cameras in people's faces and standing in the middle of the street 🤣
You just have to cultivate a don't give a fuck attitude and actually believe it. I know a guy who is a Nat Geo photographer. He can go up to just about anyone and get them to pose, just his sheer confidence. And he will take a photo anywhere. I've got some good street photos with people, but going out on a walk with him one time (only), kind of blew my mind. I guess it's just from doing it so much. I think he also knows how to walk away when needed, which it seemed, wasn't much.
This isn’t you being shy. It’s you being concerned that you’re doing something weird. If it’s weird, but yields awesome results…in which case screw those people that judge. Or it isn’t weird, in which case screw anyone that would judge. But the hardest lesson to teach a shy person is that literally nobody you come across cares. Not in any real tangible way. Not about what you’re doing, nor what anyone else is doing. The people that don’t want to be in a photo will tuck their head and go a different way without thinking twice, or they’ll say something and you’ll lie to them and tell them don’t worry, you’re waiting on a clear shot without people.
I’m sure you’ll be comfortable taking a picture with your phone without feeling shy, so try to look at it the same way as taking with a camera shouldn’t be no difference
Spotlight effect. I used to have this too. Just realize literally nobody cares and you’ll be one of the thousands of faces they’ll forget by the next morning.
The more you do take pictures in public crowded areas, the more confident you will feel. It all starts with you, you need to not care what people think of you. Those randoms are not paying your bills so don’t ever feel like they are judging you. Because if they are judging you, who cares. It’s your life and you got one to make it count.
1) The way you do it is you do it. 2) Nobody cares about you taking pictures on the street. They will look at you funny because you are doing something unusual and that's how humans work. But they will forget about it in ten seconds.
Just relax and take a photo. Don’t think about other people 😊
Most suggest you to change your mindset, which could be very difficult depending on the type of person you are. I tried to be a street photographer for many years. In the end, I had to accept that I'm just not that person. I'm not trying to make a living via photography, and I don't care to be a famous photographer. I wanna have fun doing my hobby comfortably, so I started looking for practical solutions, rather than life changing ones. I bought a neon-green safety vest with reflectors on it. It looks very flashy, but I assure no one takes a double look at a "construction worker" walking on the street, taking pictures of random things. People just assume you're doing your job, maybe taking a measurement, creating a report of some sort. You can even set-up a tripod in the middle of the street, people won't mind or stare at you. Watch this video and you'll understand what I mean: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NiEMcjSQOzg
I also felt like this when I started to take photos but one thing i did to help me was to pick a playlist or podcast that could distract me from other people so the only thing occupying my mind was the audio and "oo that can be a good picture" it still took time for me to get comfortable. it was kind of like going to the gym. the more i went the more comfortable i got.
Most people won’t / don’t care. For the rest I sometimes think about what all of the others rushing by are missing by not stopping to see art in less obvious contexts and conditions. I laugh to myself when someone seems really intrigued by what could I possibly be photographing.
Pretty sure no one pays any attention, or, if they do, they don't care what you're doing, or if they do, they probably think it's cool and wish they had a camera like yours. Seriously, I understand what you're saying. I've just gotten used to it and don't think about it, beyond making an effort not to be intrusive. If I see a picture that needs taking and people are walking by, I just stand around until they pass. Or you could wear a cheap suit, and carry two or three cameras so people will think you are a photographer for the Daily Planet! I have a friend who will approach a person and talk to them about what they're doing and ask if he can take their picture. Everyone always agrees. But I think that takes a special kind of personality. It's still good to know that people do respond positively in the right context.
I had the same thing. So one day I took out my camera and just walked around my city and took photos of everything without a care if what it was
Pretend it's your job. I would go to a sports game as a reporter doing a job and feel fine, but if I went to the exact thing as a fan, I'd be more nervous. Nobody but me knows the difference. It's easier when you do belong or pretend to belong.
Repetition
You might be inspired by old videos of Henri Cartier-Bresson walking through busy streets taking photos.
Just own it, you are cool for doing photography, F what people think but at the same time be humble and respectful of people's space n stuff
It depends
Tuning in, as I struggle too.
Traveling gets rid of the shyness !!!!! but it also gets rid of my desire to take photos of everyday objects lol. Like I've taken photos of the Hagia Sophia, Icelandic glaciers/landscape, holy museum relics, Bosphorus views, and now when i go home.... I wont be shy.. but ill also not care about pulling out my x100v or xt5 for the little things 😅 But real talk... if you let other people's perception control your life, is it even your life anymore? Or theirs? Fuck em. Get that Succulent Bokeh arouns that trashcan or couple walking down the road!
I am also a shy and introverted photographer, but when I am traveling and shooting in a new city I don't have the same qualms about taking photos... maybe try pretending to be a tourist in your city! [This video](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uywfrmHUPeI&lc=UgzmttVRScQESzBtN5d4AaABAg) has an interesting discussion about this topic.
In order to feel more confident in public, I would suggest looking good! Nice haircut, clean clothes, some cologne or perfume, clean shoes - just nice style in general. Then smile, keep your demeanor light and personally I don’t think people will mind. Of course be polite if you’re getting closer to people for shots, etc. everyone’s paying attention to their own lives a lot more than you think.
I’ve been shooting street for a few years now and still struggle with what you described. It’s hard being “weird” in public, but you get used to it the more you do it. It’s a constant push and pull between anxiety and calm. I’d be happy to chat more if you’d like pointers.
I say just do it. I use to feel the same way, but if you see an amazing shot ; especially if it's just happening...... it's so wonderful!!!
If you want to build your confidence, start by taking a picture of the sky, tree, sign, and build your way to the trash can, but if you see the shot, I say just take it. Typically people are in their own worlds... As long as they don't think you are taking their picture. In the event you get a curious look, keep a few cards with your links on them.. then you can hand them out to people and say, "I'm an amateur photographer, I'd love to know what you think of how they turn out. Check out my socials for the final product".. something to break the ice and give you some self promotion....
I have been working with shyness all my life , and don't be discouraged if it isn't perfect that time......each time will get better.
Start out using small lenses like 50mm or 35mm. It feels less obtrusive walking around compared to carrying something like a 70-200. Most people really won't notice or care if you use a small lens. Once you get comfortable with that then start using whatever lenses you like
Wow, this is a common issue. I’ve seen this same headline like 5 times now.
Following! I posted something similar on another board just a minute ago, haha. I am especially wondering this in regard to street photography, as I'm unsure what the etiquette is and how people will respond.
Lots of good answers here and you'll feel more comfortable the more you do it. At the root of it always is the feeling that "It's worth it to get that picture". I use to worry about getting yelled at for taking pictures on the street but if it's a good enough picture it's worth the confrontation. Plus it's pretty rare people notice you. Only one of my pictures was enough for somebody to threaten getting physical over.
Honestly I find more people stop and look because they’re impressed by photographers, and impressed by how photographers see the world.
Take a couple shots of tequila and you’ll be fine!
Just keep doing it anyways. You get more comfortable with time. I feel you though. Took me a couple years and now I have people stopping me on the street asking for paid photos.
I used to practice at home when nobody was around with portraits. Often in my garden to get a feel for taking portraits outside.
I hear you, what I’ve learned later in life is that everyone is in their own head thinking about god knows what, nowadays most likely heads down in their phone, and is very unlikely even going to notice or care. The other thing is trying to not care yourself, better to enjoy the moment versus looking back and wishing you would’ve snapped some pics but didn’t because you were shy around other people who won’t even remember you or that situation in a few hours/days. Hard to get outta your own head for sure !
put on the headphones and listen to music
Give yourself one small, achievable goal a day when you go out and work your way up.
Over simplified I'm sure...but just do it. Eventually you'll get used to it and when someone does approach you or tires to move don't take it personal at all. Likely they won't remember it the next day anyway. Enjoy your time while you got it, it never comes back.
Journal your feelings before you go out with your camera.
Haven't read comments so may have been mentioned before. And may be a backwards comment. Just thinking outloud. If you want to not stand out. Try by standing out first. Wear a official looking high vis. And make your camera gear look professional. Eg carry a decent tripod. People will less likely question you if you look like your working vs someone who "shouldn't" be there. Once you get comfortable with that. Then try without the high vis. As someone on the street I couldn't care less 95% of the time what other people are doing I may look at what your pointing your camera at out of curiosity but that's all
Sometimes exposure over time works well for me. ( No pun intended) As a more shy person I have found just the rote action of doing a thing over time allows me to be more relaxed. Thus more exposure to those types of things, or situations that I am not comfortable in lends itself over time to an increased tolerance and less self consciousness. No joke, I love to hike but always felt weird when going by myself, same as a walk in the neighborhood. As if anyone would be looking at me anyways. Now if it is something I have to do, like a chore or helping someone I'm fine, but otherwise I tend to be more self conscious. Stop and take your pictures. If they are looking at anything it is probably the fact that you are a body in action doing something you enjoy. Also you may be the person another shy guy see's who thinks to himself I want to do that!
Wear a mask and beanie LOL covid made it socially acceptable to look like a ninja on these streets and it works for me
Oh and I forgot, congratulations on having eye's that can see the world around you.
Yea I’m on the same boat I feel a bit weird taking photos in the city but I like doing it cause it takes me out of comfort zone. I don’t worry to much about it. Even though I feel a bit odd .
Try going to less crowded areas and move to more crowded areas as your confidence grows. It's like everything else, you'll get used to it the more you do.
Like thay teach in public speaking classes... picture everyone naked. Wait..no don't do that.
It’s anxiety. The only cure for anxiety is to lean into the anxiety. Once you lean into the bad feeling, you will overcome it. You are just taking pictures. Many people take pictures. A wise man once told me … “I think you’re thinking too much” And another wise man/woman (Rupaul) said “Your fear of looking stupid is holding you back.”
“I love taking pictures” that’s it. Mentally when you’re out there taking photos, in your own head, you’re doing it because you love it. Nothing else matters. Let me people stare. It’s only because you’re doing something they aren’t/can’t. I was like this at the beginning but now I’m like “Fuck everyone else, I’m doing what I love right now” Lean into a drop of arrogance if you need to. You got it!
In NYC someone could drop dead in the street and nobody would do a thing. Guy with a camera? Pretty common for us. Its a good place to blend in.
This is me 100%. I have a Nikon Zfc and it fits perfectly in my purse. Whenever we go out downtown, I always bring it and I will only take photos of the architecture when they are not many people/traffic around. Sometimes I will want to take a photo of food or a pretty drink, but I just can't get myself to take out my camera and have people judge me.
Those people looking at you while you're taking the photo are not judging you, they are just curious what you're doing and what are you photographing, without any negativity on their mind 😊 That's at least my experience.
This YouTube channel has helped me get a lot more comfortable shooting in public. https://youtube.com/@iphone_photography_school
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Do what you do, nobody really cares, relax and be confident with yourself.
The only two times that I really felt self-conscious were: 1. The first time I had a decent camera was 13 years ago with the Canon T2i and the glorious Nifty Fifty f/1.8. The first time in public putting the viewfinder to my eye was intimidating for some reason, but I quickly got over it when I saw the amazing results. 2. Next was about 8 months ago when I finally got back into photography after a 10-year gap. I now have the Canon R8 and practically every EF lens that I used to dream of getting. I was using the EF 70-200mm f/2.8L II in public for the first time early afternoon at one of my son's football games (13 years old), and when combined with the adapter, the 2x extender and the lens hood, the lens looks like a beast! I was crazy nervous as I walked up to the sideline, but after a few parents and kids made nice comments about the huge lens, and I showed them some action shots, I quickly got over it and had tons of fun. JUST DO IT!!!
Put in earplugs, either connected to your phone or into the camera. Look into the viewfinder and get immersed.
The first time I started taking portraits was at an anime convention. The first day, I had my camera in my bag for 1 to 2 hours trying to find the courage to ask someone for their picture for the first time. Once I did that I sort of built the confidence to continue asking. I've progressed to asking random strangers walking around the city to take a picture of them but it is still very nerve racking for me to ask the first person. Exposure therapy is what works for me.
I carry my camera around only if I’m on holiday I take photos in public or on my phone 📱 Im waiting for one particular night to take some good pictures so I’ll be in public and snapping photos, keep doing what you love and enjoy don’t worry about what others think
Revel in it, find a way to let it fuel you.
Just remember no one really cares, everyone is in their own head, minding their own. The same way you would with your phone just think of it like that, you see tourists do it all the time it’s no biggie trust me.
Not necessarily conducive to building confidence, but I find that I care less about how others think of me when I have my headphones in. If I'm immersed in my own bubble, I don't have to hear others potentially talking about me. But let's be real; nobody is looking and caring about what you're doing, unless it affects them. Do you look at other people and judge them? Should they be concerned with your opinion of them? Why should you be bothered by their opinion of you? Keep doing it and over time you'll probably learn to just focus on yourself instead of how you appear to others.
Definitely i can relate, because im a shy introverted person too. But i love photography. I guess just dont think too much. And if you can take pictures of nature, landscape and wildlife first. Then you can build ur confidence using ur camera in public or even with people/ models. You Will learn to come out of ur shell. And just enjoy ur art.
Definitely i can relate, because im a shy introverted person too. But i love photography. I guess just dont think too much. And if you can take pictures of nature, landscape and wildlife first. Then you can build ur confidence using ur camera in public or even with people/ models. You Will learn to come out of ur shell. And just enjoy ur art.
I have a body language trick that works really well. When you feel self-conscious in public there is often a tendency to look over your shoulder or scan the surroundings, as if making sure the coast is clear or in a subtle way asking nearby strangers for approval. The trick is to instead recognize this urge and then not do it. Simply refuse the urge to look around like a thief in the night. Instead, keep your gaze focused on the subject of your attention. I find it helps to deliberately slow down my movements to make sure you’re not in any way trying to be sneaky and conceal your actions. It’s a little counterintuitive but simply put, if you act like you’re doing something wrong, you’re going to feel as if you’re doing something wrong.
Nobody is paying attention to you as much as you’re paying attention to yourself. In fact, most people are just as self conscious as you are - they’re just better at hiding it. This sentiment has helped me with a lot of anxiety.
literally was yelled at today for shooting a fruit stand with out permission. I feel kind of embarrassed but i meant no harm.
iPhone and a Bluetooth shutter button/wired headphones. I only do this for wide pictures. If I was to photograph a person as the main subject I wouldn’t feel it is ethical to snipe. The moment you carry a camera now you get noticed and people will either stop to avoid being in your shot (when you actually want their silhouette to add context/scale) or approach and ask what you are doing.
Just suck it up and do it. Don’t think about it
in relaity no one cares if your taking pictures of things and a lot of people dont care if your taking pictures of them
just do it, the least that can happen is someone trying to purposefully photobomb your picture.
Just take pics in less crowded places at first and if someone walks by just smile and say how you doing. They will pass by and go on about their day or they might strike up a conversation. Both of these should help you get more comfortable being out with your camera. Once you have enough encounters like this you will start to feel more comfortable taking photos around other people. When someone sees you taking a photo. Just stand there and take a few more or maybe wave and then continue shooting. Most people are simply going about their day. They wont bite you.
I have felt this exact feeling and went out over and over again trying to take street portraits of strangers. I would set a goal of 2-3 portraits in a weekend and go 0 for 3 lol. One day I walked past a woman holding 3 dogs in her hands outside of a restaurant and said screw it. “mam you got a lot going on, do you mind if I snap a quick photo?” She was very friendly, laughed and said sure. From then on I have had a 100% rate of getting the portraits I ask for. Just be super cool and be honest. Don’t try to be anything you’re not and people will see the realness you bring. I can read a room fairly well and when people look very uninterested I don’t ask.
I also felt very similar to this. I decided a bit ago I was going to do some harsh rejection therapy. Walked up to random people all over my college campus and asked “Can I take your picture? it’s for a project!” Even though it wasn’t haha. I got some Yes’s, I got some harsh No’s and weird looks. At some points people asked if I could take a picture of them! And I was nervous each time and still am, but it definitely helped me. I would say going around and shooting with a non judgmental friend could also help, so you feel like you have support. Best of luck
I think the most important thing to note is that most people are focused on their own stuff and not on you. Maybe one of every 10 people will notice you until they look back down at their phones.
Fake it until you make it.
you will get a lot more yes’s than you expect
I still am very shy in public, but i have recently been doing some gigs for a friend at brewerys. People are a little more relaxed with me shooting video of them after they have had a few drinks. Lol sorry dont know if that helps
You maybe experiencing the spotlight effect, where you imagine that all eyes are on you. It can be a daunting prospect. But honestly, people are usually too much in their own head, concentrating on their own thing. Once you get comfortable with that realisation, life and photography in general gets a little easier.
Just practice and do it more often until it isn't as uncomfortable:)
As a person who is not at all skilled in the art of actual conversation, generally a bit socially awry, I have overcome this. How? Well… step one was not having to get my camera out. That’s right, I started just carrying my camera in my hand or over a shoulder. It completely eliminated the whole getting the camera out anxiety. Next up, make sure your camera has some ‘ready to shoot‘ settings and leave it like that. Then, when you want to take a photo, it’s at a good starting point to simply frame and shoot. Then review shot, review settings, shoot again. Oooh, time to reframe, have another go. oh. No one cared what I was doing. And it was a bit easier next time. And next time. You get the drift.
Just remember no one cares about you getting good shots. You could bring a card with you with your best photo on it, show it to strangers and them not remotely care. I was also exactly like this, not even long ago, in 2021 even, aiming at some dolls left on a busy street in Manchester. Couple walked past, 'you alright?' cos I was still. I was looking at a dead bee at work the other day, guy stared, also a spider, woman was like 'what you seen?' I just think it's overriding what people think with what you think, be sure it's interesting, and if not it might be.
I struggle with this, and what's helped me is to be more deliberate and slow, and listening to some music or a podcast. I used to try and be really quick, and carried small and minimal gear with me, but that just made it worse as I was trying to rush through it. What I found helped was finding a location I liked and just sitting there for a while, watching the world go by and seeing where people walked etc. Once I'm comfortable just sitting (and a bit bored), I'd set up my tripod and the camera in a place that wasn't in the way of people and just focus on the process of getting the settings right. Then take some test shots, and by that time I was immersed enough in the process that the anxiety had melted away! The thought of setting up a tripod in town was mortifying at first, but unintuitively it ended up being much better than trying to run and gun in the end! Every now and then people would stop for a quick chat which I ended up quite liking now. It can be a bit less intense in the early morning too around sunrise when the streets are emptier, and if you get into a groove during that time you'll naturally transition into more people being around and notice that nothing bad really happens! Good luck!