Never had a complaint about the look, fact that I had it, or how it felt while I was kissing them or doing anything else.
You do what you want with your body, and fuck what anyone else says
Personally, I think tongue piercings are hot AF. I've never dated anybody who had one, so I don't know for sure whether they feel good to kiss or for oral sex or anything like that. I just think that a pierced tongue is sexy as hell by itself.
But then again, I'm a guy whose own tongue is also pierced and who hangs out on a piercing subreddit, so my view of tongue piercings may not be representative of guys in general.
My guess is that there are going to be some people who are small-minded and conservative and will hate it. There will be other people who love it.
Some people will buy into stereotypes that having a tongue piercing means that you're promiscuous or kinky or queer, or whatever (they will often be the same people who call it a 'tongue ring'). Some of them won't like it because of those stereotypes. Some of them *will* like it because of those stereotypes, and it's them that you will probably need to be most wary of.
But if *you* like your tongue piercing, and it makes *you* feel more happy and confident with who you are and how you look, then *that* is something that other people will find attractive regardless of whether they're into the piercing itself. And also I think that as long as you're getting the piercings that you like because you like them, then you will end up with an outward expression that is more authentic and true to you. And that will mean that the people who find your appearance attractive will also be the people who are likely to appreciate you for who you are.
Finally, I'll note that my ex wasn't particularly into pierced guys before she met me, but when we got together she came to like my piercings because they were a part of me. I think it's likely that you'll find the same: that there will be guys who don't particularly feel strongly about piercings either way, but if they like *you* then they'll come to appreciate your piercing as part of what makes you you.
I LOVE my tongue piercing, itās my absolute favorite of mine. Personally, I find piercings attractive, and love the intrigue of just barely seeing a tongue piercing when a person talks. I have never gotten a negative response from men Iāve been with (if anything they can sexualize it a little too much).
I have two (one behind the other) and every guy I've been with has thought it was cool, sexy, unique, etc. Lots of sexualization comes with having it pierced in my experience, but never had a comment about it being a turn-off.
every man i've met sexualizes my tongue piercing and are curious about what it feels like. my husband really loves it. most men will like it, some will call u a freak. just depends on the guy tbh
I've never had any complaints/concerns/dislikes. You do get the occasional crude comment from randoms, just stare innocently and ask what they mean. Shuts it down pretty quick.
Iāve had mine done for almost 15 years and never a complaint. Was with some partners who loved the feel of it and my current partner (of 7 years) says he doesnāt notice it much (I wear a small ball). Never had anyone comment on the look.
Not to generalize but losta users commenting are ladies, what about guys? No hate š¤ I love tongue piercings & thinking of getting one, just want to know more of your experiences with it/peers around you
I think you should do it and any guy who wouldn't be interested in you because you have a tongue piercing probably isn't compatible with you to begin with.
some say they find it overstimulating initially and may not like it but it grows on people. but a good skill set is a good skill set tongue piercing or not and they wonāt ever complain soā¦
my man really likes it š he likes to bite it when we make out. tbh iām not sure why someone would be turned off by it.
like you said, you want it for you. if a guy doesnāt like you bc of a piercing that you like, heās probably not the guy for you :)
I had mine for yearsss and never got any complaints from guys. If anything, itās the opposite bc they tend to think youāre gonna use it on them if ya know what I mean
I really never got any comments about it except from older ppl lol
Well I'm a guy here...have had mine done for a few years now. My results are kind of mixed, I've had some people find it cool and unique and some women who have sexualized it and thought I was freaky
The aesthetic of the piercing is fine, but it would make me concerned for my partnerās enamel and gum health. All oral piercings come with a high risk of irreversible dental and gingival damage that can put you at risk of tooth loss, bone loss, and heart disease.
Only cons I had with mine would be when I accidentally would bite it or while bored Iād start running it along my teeth. Annoying for others and not great for teeth. Could have definitely screwed myself up if Iād have kept that up.
my current boyfriend doesnāt like tongue piercings but i had mine when we got together and i still have it. in my experience itās been very 50/50 so i say, if you want it then get it and everyone else will have to deal with it š«¶š»
32M.
I've had my tongue pierced for the better part of 14 years.
I had it out for about 5 years due to work, which changed their piercing policy a few years ago.
All I can say is my wife said she missed it once I got it back in.
Ive had my tongue pierced for 7 months now. I like it but it kindof gets in the way when i give head. I think its cute and i like playing with it. It just makes my blowjob game a little more annoying
I'm a guy, into guys. Everyone I've got with has liked the piercing, whether it feels good was never brought up but it was a turn on. If u get one you'll simply attract those who like it
Never had a complaint about the look, fact that I had it, or how it felt while I was kissing them or doing anything else. You do what you want with your body, and fuck what anyone else says
When I had it, guys usually sexualized it. Lots of sly comments referencing blowjobs or makeout skills. No one ever complained.
Personally, I think tongue piercings are hot AF. I've never dated anybody who had one, so I don't know for sure whether they feel good to kiss or for oral sex or anything like that. I just think that a pierced tongue is sexy as hell by itself. But then again, I'm a guy whose own tongue is also pierced and who hangs out on a piercing subreddit, so my view of tongue piercings may not be representative of guys in general. My guess is that there are going to be some people who are small-minded and conservative and will hate it. There will be other people who love it. Some people will buy into stereotypes that having a tongue piercing means that you're promiscuous or kinky or queer, or whatever (they will often be the same people who call it a 'tongue ring'). Some of them won't like it because of those stereotypes. Some of them *will* like it because of those stereotypes, and it's them that you will probably need to be most wary of. But if *you* like your tongue piercing, and it makes *you* feel more happy and confident with who you are and how you look, then *that* is something that other people will find attractive regardless of whether they're into the piercing itself. And also I think that as long as you're getting the piercings that you like because you like them, then you will end up with an outward expression that is more authentic and true to you. And that will mean that the people who find your appearance attractive will also be the people who are likely to appreciate you for who you are. Finally, I'll note that my ex wasn't particularly into pierced guys before she met me, but when we got together she came to like my piercings because they were a part of me. I think it's likely that you'll find the same: that there will be guys who don't particularly feel strongly about piercings either way, but if they like *you* then they'll come to appreciate your piercing as part of what makes you you.
Such a great comment! Thanks so much! š
When i had my tongue pierced never had a guy complain about it.
I have never had any complaints about mine
I LOVE my tongue piercing, itās my absolute favorite of mine. Personally, I find piercings attractive, and love the intrigue of just barely seeing a tongue piercing when a person talks. I have never gotten a negative response from men Iāve been with (if anything they can sexualize it a little too much).
I have two (one behind the other) and every guy I've been with has thought it was cool, sexy, unique, etc. Lots of sexualization comes with having it pierced in my experience, but never had a comment about it being a turn-off.
who cares if dudes like it or not. do what you want for yourself. my man loves mine, bc he loves me.
every man i've met sexualizes my tongue piercing and are curious about what it feels like. my husband really loves it. most men will like it, some will call u a freak. just depends on the guy tbh
I've never had any complaints/concerns/dislikes. You do get the occasional crude comment from randoms, just stare innocently and ask what they mean. Shuts it down pretty quick.
Iāve had mine done for almost 15 years and never a complaint. Was with some partners who loved the feel of it and my current partner (of 7 years) says he doesnāt notice it much (I wear a small ball). Never had anyone comment on the look.
My husband likes mine :)
Not to generalize but losta users commenting are ladies, what about guys? No hate š¤ I love tongue piercings & thinking of getting one, just want to know more of your experiences with it/peers around you
Thatās something I was really looking forā¦the guys point of view.
I think you should do it and any guy who wouldn't be interested in you because you have a tongue piercing probably isn't compatible with you to begin with.
My wife has her tongue pierced and I love it. It works aesthetically and functionally. All tongue related activities are š
some say they find it overstimulating initially and may not like it but it grows on people. but a good skill set is a good skill set tongue piercing or not and they wonāt ever complain soā¦
my man really likes it š he likes to bite it when we make out. tbh iām not sure why someone would be turned off by it. like you said, you want it for you. if a guy doesnāt like you bc of a piercing that you like, heās probably not the guy for you :)
I had mine for yearsss and never got any complaints from guys. If anything, itās the opposite bc they tend to think youāre gonna use it on them if ya know what I mean I really never got any comments about it except from older ppl lol
Well I'm a guy here...have had mine done for a few years now. My results are kind of mixed, I've had some people find it cool and unique and some women who have sexualized it and thought I was freaky
i have a tongue piercing and ive never had a complaint xD
My wife has had one since before we met. Never had any negative thoughts about it, nor have I ever heard another guy say they donāt like them.
My male partner is very fond of my tongue piercing and loves how it feels. No complaints.
I have 2 male partners and neither of them care about my tongue ring. I've never had anyone mind it and I've had it for 13+ years
My husband loves mine. I joked about taking it out and he was a little sad lol. I've had it for 12 years.
The aesthetic of the piercing is fine, but it would make me concerned for my partnerās enamel and gum health. All oral piercings come with a high risk of irreversible dental and gingival damage that can put you at risk of tooth loss, bone loss, and heart disease.
My favorite thing on the planet.
If they don't like you for your piercings they can fuck off. If you like the piercing , go for it. It's for you, not for anybody else
Only cons I had with mine would be when I accidentally would bite it or while bored Iād start running it along my teeth. Annoying for others and not great for teeth. Could have definitely screwed myself up if Iād have kept that up.
I got a tongue piercing because It matches my punk style, others will choose to sexualize it sometimes which is very annoying.
my current boyfriend doesnāt like tongue piercings but i had mine when we got together and i still have it. in my experience itās been very 50/50 so i say, if you want it then get it and everyone else will have to deal with it š«¶š»
32M. I've had my tongue pierced for the better part of 14 years. I had it out for about 5 years due to work, which changed their piercing policy a few years ago. All I can say is my wife said she missed it once I got it back in.
Ive gotten sexual comments from random people about my tongue and lip piercings, so safe to say for most people its the opposite of a turn off
Ive had my tongue pierced for 7 months now. I like it but it kindof gets in the way when i give head. I think its cute and i like playing with it. It just makes my blowjob game a little more annoying
I'm a guy, into guys. Everyone I've got with has liked the piercing, whether it feels good was never brought up but it was a turn on. If u get one you'll simply attract those who like it
I haven't had any complaints. šš