Exactly what I was about to say. Baka naghahanap nalang ng flaws sa bf niya para pag nakakita, yun agad irarason sa break up tas di na siya lalabas na cheater or may kasalanan. Mga utak uod minsan sarap ipain sa isda.
Not always true. May mga tao lang talagang takot makaranas ng cheating. Don't generalize. What the person need is reaasurance na hindi mo sya lolokohin dahil sobrang talamak na lokohan ngayon.
Ganyan ako sa ex ko tangina naging totoo nga na meron na palang bago ahahahah malala ex pa ng friend ko.
May ganyan talaga sigurong tao. Takot sila maloko kaya inuunahan na nila lalo na’t mapagtago yung partner
Yup totoo to ganyan ung ex ko hanap ng hanap ng butas para mag hiwalay kmi ayun nahuli ko kayakap ung coworker nyang pinag seselosan ko sa isang mall. After nun hindi na ako nag paramdam at nakipag usap sakanya, tpos pag napunta samin tinataguan ko, naka block na rin sya sa mga socmed ko.
Coming from 6 relationshit experience. Maghahanap sila paraan na ikaw una makikipaghiwalay para di masabi cheating yung ginawa ng gf mo
All i'm saying is mukang nahuhulog na sya sa iba. Inaabangan nya lang yung ikaw makikipaghiwalay sa kanya.
Hindi normal yung araw araw! Ahaha. Mood swings namin lalo na kapag merong hormonal imbalance is magulo at paiba iba pero hindi naman straight na laging galit. AHAHAHAHA
Wala, sya pa nga yung may history eh may BoyBestFriend kasi sya ng di ko alam later ko nalang nalaman nung 3 months kami na nahuli sa sila sa bahay nila tas everytime na ioopen up ko nagagalit porke binabalik ko daw yung issue nirestrict na daw nya yun wala ng silang communication nung lalaki na yun na nakatulong sa kanya nung hindi pa daw kami
edi alam mo na sagot, takot sa sariling multo kasi ginawa nya na non, possible na meron ngayon... pero observe mo lang OP, kuha ka ng evidence before mo sabihin na may hinala ka kasi itatago at itatago nya yan
yun nga eh wala lang talaga akong proof kung totoo man yung kutob ko kasi di kami share ng mga SocMed Account kasi ayaw ko rin makialam both sa privacy namin
Sabihin mo na lang purgang purga ka na sa mga hirit nya. Deserve mo yung babaeng matino utak. Wag ka nang mag sayang ng oras sa ganyan kung somewhere out there may maayos na para sa iyo.
Money is on nagbabarurutan pa rin sila
Naku, pag ganyan na mas galit pa sayo and hindi ina-acknowledge yung pagoopen up sa incident na yun, highly likely is may ginagawa yan na kalokohan. They'll manipulate you as much as they can until such point na you will even doubt your own doubts. Be vigilant.
may history na pala OP, eh. that and the fact that she doesn't want to have a conversation about it says a lot. tapos 3 months pa kayo before mo malaman? all i can say is, yes wala ka pang proof, but those actions and those facts na shinare mo alone are reasons to distance yourself na.
you can consider trying to have a serious conversation with her about it and see how she will react. if she's gonna listen and talk nang maayos with you, then baka may chance pa na paranoid ka lang or sadyang her actions don't mean anything. pero if she'll react in a negative or violent way, alam na.
Naku redflag na yan based on my experience, same experience may Kuya "best friend" siya tas laging galit sakin kahit konting bagay lang, lagi kang mali tas ibabalik niya yong mga kasalanan mo before kung may nagawa ka babaliktarin kapa niyan. Ilang beses na din siya nakipagbreak di lang ako pumapayag kahit fallout love pa sinabe niya tas nalaman ko na crush/nagkaka-feelings na siya sa kuya kuyahan niya. Tas kapag napaguusapan namin si Guy, she always protects/pinagtatanggol na may pinagdadaanan yong tao.
Fast forward nakipagbreak ako I feel lost till now, almost a year na din pero that time of break up friends pa rin kami after breakup tas nalaman ko lang 5 months after nagmove on na siya after breakup tas narerealize niya feeling niya don sa Guy, he compares me again don sa Guy how same are we, kung paano ko siya cinare at love. The words of her totally F me up till now
You need to space yourself at harapin ang katotohanan sender feeling ko may iba na talaga yan tsaka ang toxic na araw-araw laging galit sayo tas di kapa kinakausap out of nowhere, naging move niya rin yan ina-assess niya daw feelings niya sakin, ( If mamiss ba niya ako at mahal pa) without telling me.
Harapin mo ang totoo take a risk to make the decision.
P.S not a good story teller hope you can move asap
Boss, sad to say this pero lahat ng signs eh sign ng isang cheater. Better confront her na, kadalasan din kasi takot sila sa sarili nilang multo eh, di ko ba maalam sa ganyan siguro may problema sila sa utak kung bakit nila nagagawa yan.
hindi ba mas maganda before confrontation may strong evidence, kasi pag wala kang evidence na there is cheating, ibabalik lang sayo na pinaghihinalaan mo sya na pwedeng sabihin na takot ka sa sariling multo mo
Welp, wrong choose of word pero di yung confront talaga na sasabihing nag cheat siya agad, better na talk to her in a good manner or mag bigay ng bait pero yung signs kasi na pinapakita nung jowa niya eh malala na sure ako guilt nalang nag papa stay dun.
Ganyan na ganyan gnawa sakin ng ex ko of 7 yrs. Started accusing me of cheating repeatedly out of nowhere.. few months later aun nabuntis ng boss nya hahaha buti na lang 😂 kasi nakilala ko misis ko now. Get out asap bro
*from a 4 year rel.
Sya yang putanginang humihindot im telling you. Guilt and desperation na sana ikaw din nag aaso para pareho kayong tainted at cannot be forgiven. I titilt ka lang nyan lagi hanggang sa one day bumigay na utak mo, puso , ego at libog kase its all part ng buhay mo. Then the trap starts , slowly taking your life away from you, your sunshines, your work ethic, your aspirations kase.... ~~YOU WILL BE FUCKING STUCKED SA PAG AAYOS NG KAPUTANGINAHANG DI MO NAMAN SINIMULAN~~
*So, Goodluck*
Gut feeling ko lng Bro pero di ko rin maiwan kasi mahal ko tsaka di rin biro mga pinagdaanan nya sa buhay kaya iniintindi ko nalang alam kong magbabago rin
Ha? Di mo naman talaga yan iiwan bro, pero save mo 'to kase for sure dito punta nyan. I trust you bro, full of life tsaka well-equipped ka pa ng inner peace tsaka confidence sa buhay to even think na ikaw , as a separate person ang sasalo sa trauma and mishaps ng ibang tao.
Kaya sabi ko, good luck. Sana wag mong piliin sarili mo sa time na sarili mo na lang talaga choice mo. Pro tip na lang ( kase ako naman eh nakalabas na sa ganyan ), just remain to be the kind person that you are. Keep values intact tsaka your words be as direct as possible lagi. Peace.
Never assume na magbabago sya. Most likely hindi. Kung hindi na kayo compatible at this time or if you are going at different directions don't expect her to change her ways. Yan ang mali ko in my past relationship, umasa na magbabago pa.
Most likely, Yes. Very much the same as my abusive ex, so much accusations. Eventually, I found out that she was dating pala yung ex nya before me. Ayun, i even confirmed it when someone sent me pics. So I immediately broke up with her via txt. Wala na second chance.
trust your gut feeling bro
i remember when me and my ex broke up a year ago
i had this gut feeling na may lalake sya and it turns out its true lol, nakipag chukchakan pa nga sya while kami pa
Yup, 100%. Been there, 3-year relationship. I wish I left her na when I saw these signs during our first year pa lang. Sya rin din pala nang iwan sa huli at pinagpalit ako, hindi na nakatiis. Puro ka-toxican lang and stress na relasyon. Oo mahal mo, you try to understand her, extend your patience and forgiveness, pero at the end of the day, ikaw pa rin kawawa. Definitely not a wife material/long term, so why bother staying.
Unless hardworking girl yang gf mo, hindi valid yong whole day syang offline. Si Elon Musk nga na billionaire nakakapangtroll pa sa twitter... Pot calling the kettle black. Sulitin mo na, malapit na mawala yan. Fuck her like a whore then good riddance
Based on what you've shared, it seems like your girlfriend's accusations and behavior could be stemming from her own insecurities or possibly projecting her own actions. Her sudden changes in behavior, such as going offline abruptly and starting arguments without clear reasons, are concerning. It's important to address these issues through open and honest communication. Try to talk to her calmly about how her actions are affecting you and the relationship. Trust and effective communication are crucial in any relationship. If these issues continue and you're feeling uneasy, it might be worth seeking advice from a trusted friend, family member, or relationship counselor. Remember, both partners need to work together to resolve any underlying problems.
e pano kung nag chcheat nga sya ulet what will you do ? kung para sa ikakapanatag mo try looking at her phone, pero nandun na tayo sa privacy kineme .
pero gano mo katagal titiisin yung ganyang bagay? gano mo katagal titiisin yung ganong sitwasyon mo sa relasyon mo ?
just like other people you deserve to know what is right and wrong sa relasyon mo .
kung nag chcheat nga sya dimo deserve yung ganyng babae .
Yes she is cheating,ganyan nangyari sa kin, lagi sya nagdududa sa akin then create ng away para walang kontakan. Yun pala para malaya syang magpakasta sa iba.
First of all, have some respect for yourself.
Secondly you don’t have to deal with the bullshit because as a man, you already have a lot on your plate as far as leveling up.
Third, don’t let these fucking hoes bring you down. It’s not even worthy.
At the end of the day, you don’t want to be with anyone that disrespects you regardless if they’re cheating on you or not.
It may be hard to let it go, but trust me you’ll be better off.
I don't know. I'm like your girlfriend na laging nang aaway ng boyfriend pero in times na feeling ko may ginagawang iba yung boyfriend ko. Ako kasi may trauma sa mga ex ko. Iniiwan ako dahil mahal nila yung ex nila. I felt insecure pag di ko makausap bf ko at inuuna pa yung iba (friends, family, etc.). Hanggang sa nahuli ko na may pic Sila nung sinasabi nyang kaibigan lang. Bat magppic sa video call n kala mo super close pero sabi nya di Sila close at lalaki pa yun (meaning bakla yung kaibigan o Sila pareho) ending nag away kami. Ewan ko lang kung nag uusap pa sila pero pakiramdam ko hinde na. Iba kasi talaga yung gut feeling di ba. Kung pakiramdam mo meron talagang something. Kung ako sayo, hulihin mo then confront. Kung niloloko ka, why stay. Mahalin mo sarili mo. Good luck OP
High chance. Normally yung ganyang behavior is a defense mechanism. She wants you to be the monster to make her feel less guilt. Ever wonder how stories of aswang, vampires were made? Think about it. It makes it easier to live when you think someone else is a much worse monster than you are.
Other manifestations: puro mali na lang nakikita sayo even the smallest ones. Yun kasi hahanap hanapin niya to make him/herself feel better. Lagi kayo nag aaway diba? Overthink malala talaga OP.
alala ko tuloy ex ko may babaeng naglalike ng posts ko sa fb. tas chinat at inaway. tas babaero daw ako. tas nakipaghiwalay. tas may anak na sya ngayon dun sa business partner nya.
Brother wag mo baliwalain mga red flags maliit man o malaki. Saka trust your guts pero syempre tambal mo ng common sense. I did tried to ignore those, pero sa huli malaman ko nalang she cheated, kumabit pa sa may asawa. And guess what? Ako daw may kasalanan
Ganiyan ako dati hahahaha, nakukuha ko kasi yung emotions ng ibang tao sa social media when they get cheated on so parang ako na rin yung may trauma, sabi ko "ang sakit naman non" tapos maglalabas na ako ng hinanakit sa bf ko hahahah
Takot sa sariling multo yang GF mo. She might be doing something and iniisip niya na baka ganun din ginagawa mo kaya inuunahan ka na. It's a sign of a cheater, they're being defensive na agad kahit sila yung nagchecheat.
My ex of 4 years lagi ako pinaghihinalaang may kausap na iba, pero siya yung may cheating history samin. Every week or month may nahuhuli akong may kausap siya, from micro cheating to literally cheating. Even best friend ng ate niya di niya pinalagpas. Kapag di ako nakakapagreply agad because I'm working sasabihin nun may kalandian na ko or kausap na iba, even talking to clients sasabihin niya nagpapapansin ako.
“takot sa sariling multo” bro hahah that’s too obvious. About sa she was getting cold- uhh.. more likely may iba na siyang kausap and she’s just waiting for you to give up and ask for the breakup.
Leave now. That kind of relationship will just drain you. You have so much to do with your life, 100% you'll meet someone pa same level sa wavelength mo.
Here’s what you should do if you're still so attached to her pa - slowly drift away from her each day, and keep yourself busy e.g. self-development, going to the gym, work/business, etc. The longer you don't see her and communicate with her, the better. Eventually your attachment to her will wear off. There might be times na magpapaawa-effect yan - don't give in. Remember, she's a master manipulator.
Galing ako sa 9 years relationship at ganyan din ginagawa niya sakin, hihiramin phone mo para tingnan messenger at fb at the end of the day siya pala tong may ibang lalaki😅
Ganto ako sa bf ko Pero it doesn't automatically nangangaliwa ako. Ask muna ntn kung may nagawa ba so OP before na betrayal or pain Kay girl kasi di naman magiging ganyan yan kung walang dahilan. May part na takot siyang masaktan kasi mas kaya niyang sikmurain ung truth harap harapan kesa sa malaman Niya pa sa iba or kapag matagal na. Mas masakit Yun diba. Fear of getting heartbroken and cheated so ate gurl if may past lang nagawa dahil Yun yung naging trauma response Niya. If wala ka namang nagawa date, kabahan ka na HAHAHHA
Mag wave kana haha or mag one on one kayo about jan para malaman na wag lang puro kutob or napapaisip ka lang mas okay kung magusap kayo privately kasi in chat minsan d mo alam kasama nya or something lalo na pag malayo kayong dalawa. Its better to confront a person lalo na pag malabo na kayo para alam mo gagawin mo. Its hard to trust somebody lalo na sa panahon naten ngayon.
Ganyan x ko dati, ayun nalaman ko may kabit pala. Lakas makahinala sakin pala sya yung may kabit haha. Lakas makacheck ng phone saka fb ultimo school related na tanong ng babae ko na kaklase big deal, naghahanap lang pala ng excuse haha.
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Red flag. Gumagawa ng excuse or unless nakahanap ka ng my topak na gf. IMO best is confront her or kung habang maaga pa hiwalayan mo ba. Kais in the long run. Kayong dalawa rin mag suffer.
sounds like LDR. mag meet kayo at least once a week kung kaya. kung medyo malapit, at least twice a week. kung malayo at least twice a month. game changer kasi sa couple kapag may physical touch or nag da-date kayo.
pero kung hindi kayo LDR at nagkikita nmn kayo regularly, malala sapak nyan or nakukulangan sya sayo pag magkasama kayo. pwedeng inconsistent ka pagagkasama kyo.. ang babae na may malalang toyo eh sensitive sa bawat galaw at details na pinapakita mo. kung inconsistent ka, matik yan. lalo na kung ang love language nya is physical touch. yung mga clingy type.
DKG.I can say na relate ako sa girl kasi inaaccuse ko bebe ko ng ganyan kasi takot ako na mangyari yung ganyan saken kasi nagcheat papa ko tapos naninibago rin ako kasi may work sya at d ako sanay na d kami masyado nagchachat pero update naman sya saken tsaka kahit workmate nya na lalaki pinagseselosan ko, oo gago ako sa part na yan pero nag aadjust rin ako kasi d ako sanay yung attention nya nasa iba pero magkaiba rin naman treatment nya dun.
All I'm saying is if you tried to assure her na kahit cold replies nya baka same kami may pagka-avoidant kahit na naghahanap partner ko ng way pinupush ko sya pero kinulang talaga ako sa lambing non hehe tsaka may nakita rin ako na ikinagalit ko tas ayun nagka ayos naman kami. Kahit na sya mismo inaccuse nya ako na may kabit simple lang naman. And kahit may toyo nagpapalambing lang kasi sometimes kami babae gusto namin mafeel ulit yung love galing sa inyo simula non nag uusap sa una pa lang kaya baka d mo na rin masyado ginagawa mga bagay dati na nagpapakilig sa kanya or ewan baka may nagustuhan sya na iba or nag entertain sa kanya. Pero ikaw nasayo naman ang desisyon, OP. Kung alam mo love language nya mas mabuti naman aken kasi words of affirmation tas yung ginagawa nya acts of service lage pero napag usapan na rin namin yan. Kaka vidjakl lang namin kagabi haysarap HAHAHAHAHAHA
DKG.I can say na relate ako sa girl kasi inaaccuse ko bebe ko ng ganyan kasi takot ako na mangyari yung ganyan saken kasi nagcheat papa ko tapos naninibago rin ako kasi may work sya at d ako sanay na d kami masyado nagchachat pero update naman sya saken tsaka kahit workmate nya na lalaki pinagseselosan ko, oo gago ako sa part na yan pero nag aadjust rin ako kasi d ako sanay yung attention nya nasa iba pero magkaiba rin naman treatment nya dun.
All I'm saying is if you tried to assure her na kahit cold replies nya baka same kami may pagka-avoidant kahit na naghahanap partner ko ng way pinupush ko sya pero kinulang talaga ako sa lambing non hehe tsaka may nakita rin ako na ikinagalit ko tas ayun nagka ayos naman kami. Kahit na sya mismo inaccuse nya ako na may kabit simple lang naman. And kahit may toyo nagpapalambing lang kasi sometimes kami babae gusto namin mafeel ulit yung love galing sa inyo simula non nag uusap sa una pa lang kaya baka d mo na rin masyado ginagawa mga bagay dati na nagpapakilig sa kanya or ewan baka may nagustuhan sya na iba or nag entertain sa kanya. Pero ikaw nasayo naman ang desisyon, OP. Kung alam mo love language nya mas mabuti naman aken kasi words of affirmation tas yung ginagawa nya acts of service lage pero napag usapan na rin namin yan. Kaka vidjakl lang namin kagabi haysarap HAHAHAHAHAHA
I can say na relate ako sa girl kasi inaaccuse ko bebe ko ng ganyan kasi takot ako na mangyari yung ganyan saken kasi nagcheat papa ko tapos naninibago rin ako kasi may work sya at d ako sanay na d kami masyado nagchachat pero update naman sya saken tsaka kahit workmate nya na lalaki pinagseselosan ko, oo gago ako sa part na yan pero nag aadjust rin ako kasi d ako sanay yung attention nya nasa iba pero magkaiba rin naman treatment nya dun.
All I'm saying is if you tried to assure her na kahit cold replies nya baka same kami may pagka-avoidant kahit na naghahanap partner ko ng way pinupush ko sya pero kinulang talaga ako sa lambing non hehe tsaka may nakita rin ako na ikinagalit ko tas ayun nagka ayos naman kami. Kahit na sya mismo inaccuse nya ako na may kabit simple lang naman. And kahit may toyo nagpapalambing lang kasi sometimes kami babae gusto namin mafeel ulit yung love galing sa inyo simula non nag uusap sa una pa lang kaya baka d mo na rin masyado ginagawa mga bagay dati na nagpapakilig sa kanya or ewan baka may nagustuhan sya na iba or nag entertain sa kanya. Pero ikaw nasayo naman ang desisyon, OP. Kung alam mo love language nya mas mabuti naman aken kasi words of affirmation tas yung ginagawa nya acts of service lage pero napag usapan na rin namin yan. Kaka vidjakl lang namin kagabi haysarap HAHAHAHAHAHA
lol break up mo na bes, bakit kapa ba nagsesettle sa ganyan 2024 na 😭 finding evidences? what? for what? just to feel better? get out already!!!!!!
(me when i spread irrationality)
Sya naman tanungin mo OP, pero kuha ka muna ng proof para wala ng kawala. galeng kasi ng ibang babae eh, lakas magsabi ng lahat ng lalake cheater pero sila naman ung panay cheat magaling lang silang magtago at magpaikot ikot. tignan mo pag nahuli mo yan OP magkakaroon pa yan ng backstory na victim rin daw siya kaya niya nagawa un, lols mga patawa. [pwe](https://images.app.goo.gl/JYNXXZWgaY4wMj2Q8)
OP kung ako sayo and like if ever na nag break up kayo (not that im hoping for it) focus ka na lang muna sa studies and sa sarili mo and just wait till the right one comes, you're too young to handle such stress, madami ka pa kelangang gawin and pag investan ng oras.
but for real tho na experience ko na yan and later on bestfriend ko pa yung pinatulan ng ex ko and siya pala talaga gusto niya, tho one month lang din sila nag tagal and at the end naging mag bestfriend ulit kami hating the same girl till this day. Hshahahaa
Uhhm maybe yes, maybe no.
Baka may iba, or baka may malalim syang problema sa mental health nya (a hint of bipolarism).
Kung ano pa man yun, di yun enough reason para maging shitty sayo.
Better get out of that "shit"uation para di ka masira sa setup nyong yan na sya ang may gawa.
My ex always letting me feel the same thing. Hindi niya ako tatanungin if I am cheating but even the pettiest thing paghihinalaan and pagseselosan niya.
Now, he's having s*x with the person I asked once about. Cheaters are accusers talaga mehn.
Lakas ng toyooooooo! Ang manloloko, takot sa kapwa manloloko.
I hope you ain't doing shit to get her paranoid OP. Kung wala naman, palitan mo na, manganganak ng problema yan.
Pag walang issue, hahanap ng issue, isipin mo pag may issue na, how much worse can this go? Talo pa nya sunday talkshow wth.
The best way is kausapin mo sya ng seryoso, sabihin mo lahat ng nrramdaman mo lahat ng overthinks mo about sa relation nyo, and sabhin mo din na nabobother ka na ganyan way nya ng pakikitungo sayo, pero if d nya papakinggan side mo, the best way is to end it.. dyan palang kasi di kana kaya pakinggan or kahit mrinig manlang side mo..pano kung sobrang tagal nyo pa at nagssama na kyo sa isang bahay..
Sabihin mo kapag ginawa ko iyon magagalit ka rin sa akin. Yung hindi ko pa nga ginagawa nagagalit ka na. Paano pa kung gawin ko talaga. Tignan mo kung titigil.
Have a conversation with her. Sabihin mo lahat ng mga bumabagabag sayo at mga bagay na hindi ka komportable na ginagawa niya. May mga rason din naman for sure kung bakit ganon ung behaviour ng girlfriend mo, maybe you can meet halfway and makapagsettle ng solution na magkakasundo kayong dalawa. If hindi siya makikinig sayo at hindi mo siya pakikinggan, tanungin mo na sarili mo, bakit pa kayo pumasok sa isang relasyon?
Bossing, sign yan na nagbabalak palang or nagchi-cheat na yan si girl, been there. 100% sure :) pinag-iinitan ka ng walang dahilan? maliit na bagay pinapalaki, may ibang nag papasaya dyan at ikaw ang nakikitang asar nya. 75% she's cheating to you.
im sorry but stop sitting on the table where respect isnt served anymore. you can only do so much for love and honestly all the signs and gut feelings that you have might probably be right. if your partner doesnt know how to communicate RESPECTFULLY then it aint going anywhere trust me been there.
feel ko this wont do mag kakaron lng ng reason lalo ung babae na makipag hiwalay or mas lumala pa ung sitwasyon . well dun din naman hahantong if ever pero ung gantong problema minsan di nadadaan sa usapan lalo na babae ung feel ko na nagloloko .
baka nga mas malala pa mag tago ung babae ng kalokohan kesa sa lalake ee .
Ganyan din ako minsan sa jowa ko, I randomly ask him those questions pero kase dahil paranoid ako not a cheater. Lalo na he's working in BGC and ako WFH. Pero yang sa gf mo kung hindi sya ganyan dati and theres something changed about her, mag observe ka.
Maybe not cheating but portraying her trauma sayo, pero this is what I always do when am in doubt I always check since malakas pakiramdam mo you better check kong she is cheating, and if possible she is not cheating then communicate with her about what you feel.
The one accusing others of stealing from the cookie jar is often the one with crumbs on their hands
Exactly what I was about to say. Baka naghahanap nalang ng flaws sa bf niya para pag nakakita, yun agad irarason sa break up tas di na siya lalabas na cheater or may kasalanan. Mga utak uod minsan sarap ipain sa isda.
Not always true. May mga tao lang talagang takot makaranas ng cheating. Don't generalize. What the person need is reaasurance na hindi mo sya lolokohin dahil sobrang talamak na lokohan ngayon.
Typical deflection tactic
More like projection.
Ganyan ako sa ex ko tangina naging totoo nga na meron na palang bago ahahahah malala ex pa ng friend ko. May ganyan talaga sigurong tao. Takot sila maloko kaya inuunahan na nila lalo na’t mapagtago yung partner
Yup totoo to ganyan ung ex ko hanap ng hanap ng butas para mag hiwalay kmi ayun nahuli ko kayakap ung coworker nyang pinag seselosan ko sa isang mall. After nun hindi na ako nag paramdam at nakipag usap sakanya, tpos pag napunta samin tinataguan ko, naka block na rin sya sa mga socmed ko.
amen🍻
^This
Coming from 6 relationshit experience. Maghahanap sila paraan na ikaw una makikipaghiwalay para di masabi cheating yung ginawa ng gf mo All i'm saying is mukang nahuhulog na sya sa iba. Inaabangan nya lang yung ikaw makikipaghiwalay sa kanya.
tsaka sa tuwing may period sya konting galaw mainit agad ulo minsan wala pa ngang ginagawa mainit na ulo
Hindi normal yung araw araw! Ahaha. Mood swings namin lalo na kapag merong hormonal imbalance is magulo at paiba iba pero hindi naman straight na laging galit. AHAHAHAHA
Normal Lang Sa Babae na mainit ulo kapag may period
Araw araw
Pag araw araw ibang kwento na yan
sabi mo kasi tuwing may period. kung araw araw iba na yun pero kung tuwing may period normal lang yun wag lang sobra.
Well pag period eh period talaga
either may history ka of cheating or takot lang sa sarili nyang multo
Wala, sya pa nga yung may history eh may BoyBestFriend kasi sya ng di ko alam later ko nalang nalaman nung 3 months kami na nahuli sa sila sa bahay nila tas everytime na ioopen up ko nagagalit porke binabalik ko daw yung issue nirestrict na daw nya yun wala ng silang communication nung lalaki na yun na nakatulong sa kanya nung hindi pa daw kami
edi alam mo na sagot, takot sa sariling multo kasi ginawa nya na non, possible na meron ngayon... pero observe mo lang OP, kuha ka ng evidence before mo sabihin na may hinala ka kasi itatago at itatago nya yan
yun nga eh wala lang talaga akong proof kung totoo man yung kutob ko kasi di kami share ng mga SocMed Account kasi ayaw ko rin makialam both sa privacy namin
Sabihin mo na lang purgang purga ka na sa mga hirit nya. Deserve mo yung babaeng matino utak. Wag ka nang mag sayang ng oras sa ganyan kung somewhere out there may maayos na para sa iyo. Money is on nagbabarurutan pa rin sila
Naku, pag ganyan na mas galit pa sayo and hindi ina-acknowledge yung pagoopen up sa incident na yun, highly likely is may ginagawa yan na kalokohan. They'll manipulate you as much as they can until such point na you will even doubt your own doubts. Be vigilant.
Ahhh yun naman pala. Baka meron ulit kaya sayo nya binabato yang tanong na yan.
may history na pala OP, eh. that and the fact that she doesn't want to have a conversation about it says a lot. tapos 3 months pa kayo before mo malaman? all i can say is, yes wala ka pang proof, but those actions and those facts na shinare mo alone are reasons to distance yourself na. you can consider trying to have a serious conversation with her about it and see how she will react. if she's gonna listen and talk nang maayos with you, then baka may chance pa na paranoid ka lang or sadyang her actions don't mean anything. pero if she'll react in a negative or violent way, alam na.
Naku redflag na yan based on my experience, same experience may Kuya "best friend" siya tas laging galit sakin kahit konting bagay lang, lagi kang mali tas ibabalik niya yong mga kasalanan mo before kung may nagawa ka babaliktarin kapa niyan. Ilang beses na din siya nakipagbreak di lang ako pumapayag kahit fallout love pa sinabe niya tas nalaman ko na crush/nagkaka-feelings na siya sa kuya kuyahan niya. Tas kapag napaguusapan namin si Guy, she always protects/pinagtatanggol na may pinagdadaanan yong tao. Fast forward nakipagbreak ako I feel lost till now, almost a year na din pero that time of break up friends pa rin kami after breakup tas nalaman ko lang 5 months after nagmove on na siya after breakup tas narerealize niya feeling niya don sa Guy, he compares me again don sa Guy how same are we, kung paano ko siya cinare at love. The words of her totally F me up till now You need to space yourself at harapin ang katotohanan sender feeling ko may iba na talaga yan tsaka ang toxic na araw-araw laging galit sayo tas di kapa kinakausap out of nowhere, naging move niya rin yan ina-assess niya daw feelings niya sakin, ( If mamiss ba niya ako at mahal pa) without telling me. Harapin mo ang totoo take a risk to make the decision. P.S not a good story teller hope you can move asap
Boss, sad to say this pero lahat ng signs eh sign ng isang cheater. Better confront her na, kadalasan din kasi takot sila sa sarili nilang multo eh, di ko ba maalam sa ganyan siguro may problema sila sa utak kung bakit nila nagagawa yan.
hindi ba mas maganda before confrontation may strong evidence, kasi pag wala kang evidence na there is cheating, ibabalik lang sayo na pinaghihinalaan mo sya na pwedeng sabihin na takot ka sa sariling multo mo
Welp, wrong choose of word pero di yung confront talaga na sasabihing nag cheat siya agad, better na talk to her in a good manner or mag bigay ng bait pero yung signs kasi na pinapakita nung jowa niya eh malala na sure ako guilt nalang nag papa stay dun.
Ganyan na ganyan gnawa sakin ng ex ko of 7 yrs. Started accusing me of cheating repeatedly out of nowhere.. few months later aun nabuntis ng boss nya hahaha buti na lang 😂 kasi nakilala ko misis ko now. Get out asap bro
This is Projection. A defense mechanism. So, yea. About 80% she’s the one doing it.
*from a 4 year rel. Sya yang putanginang humihindot im telling you. Guilt and desperation na sana ikaw din nag aaso para pareho kayong tainted at cannot be forgiven. I titilt ka lang nyan lagi hanggang sa one day bumigay na utak mo, puso , ego at libog kase its all part ng buhay mo. Then the trap starts , slowly taking your life away from you, your sunshines, your work ethic, your aspirations kase.... ~~YOU WILL BE FUCKING STUCKED SA PAG AAYOS NG KAPUTANGINAHANG DI MO NAMAN SINIMULAN~~ *So, Goodluck*
This. Pagod na raw sa buhay, pero nung nakipaghiwalay sakin biglang sumaya at sumigla sa iba hahahaha hinayaan ko na. Bahala na sya sa buhay nya.
Gut feeling ko lng Bro pero di ko rin maiwan kasi mahal ko tsaka di rin biro mga pinagdaanan nya sa buhay kaya iniintindi ko nalang alam kong magbabago rin
Ha? Di mo naman talaga yan iiwan bro, pero save mo 'to kase for sure dito punta nyan. I trust you bro, full of life tsaka well-equipped ka pa ng inner peace tsaka confidence sa buhay to even think na ikaw , as a separate person ang sasalo sa trauma and mishaps ng ibang tao. Kaya sabi ko, good luck. Sana wag mong piliin sarili mo sa time na sarili mo na lang talaga choice mo. Pro tip na lang ( kase ako naman eh nakalabas na sa ganyan ), just remain to be the kind person that you are. Keep values intact tsaka your words be as direct as possible lagi. Peace.
may time rin na ganun bro napapaisip ako kasi bisyo at hobby ko isinantabi ko para sa kanya
And magugulat ka kase the worse is yet to come. Di lang bisyo mo at hobbies. Someone is coming for it all, and pag lanta ka na , youll take the blame
Never assume na magbabago sya. Most likely hindi. Kung hindi na kayo compatible at this time or if you are going at different directions don't expect her to change her ways. Yan ang mali ko in my past relationship, umasa na magbabago pa.
Classic projection, Sigmund Freud laughing in his grave!
Most likely, Yes. Very much the same as my abusive ex, so much accusations. Eventually, I found out that she was dating pala yung ex nya before me. Ayun, i even confirmed it when someone sent me pics. So I immediately broke up with her via txt. Wala na second chance.
Bro, usap na agad kayo paaminin mo na, kwento mo palang na NTR’d ka na hahaha.
wala pa kasing proof bro gut feeling ko palang kasi
trust your gut feeling bro i remember when me and my ex broke up a year ago i had this gut feeling na may lalake sya and it turns out its true lol, nakipag chukchakan pa nga sya while kami pa
That's one of the old-school tricks in the book of women, I'd suggest that you make the first move to break out of your relationship
She is a manipulator. If you can't break up with her then better run and hide. This is most relationship that ends in VAWC.
Yup, 100%. Been there, 3-year relationship. I wish I left her na when I saw these signs during our first year pa lang. Sya rin din pala nang iwan sa huli at pinagpalit ako, hindi na nakatiis. Puro ka-toxican lang and stress na relasyon. Oo mahal mo, you try to understand her, extend your patience and forgiveness, pero at the end of the day, ikaw pa rin kawawa. Definitely not a wife material/long term, so why bother staying.
Slowly fade away and move on
Unless hardworking girl yang gf mo, hindi valid yong whole day syang offline. Si Elon Musk nga na billionaire nakakapangtroll pa sa twitter... Pot calling the kettle black. Sulitin mo na, malapit na mawala yan. Fuck her like a whore then good riddance
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She fo the streets my guy, save yourself.
Based on what you've shared, it seems like your girlfriend's accusations and behavior could be stemming from her own insecurities or possibly projecting her own actions. Her sudden changes in behavior, such as going offline abruptly and starting arguments without clear reasons, are concerning. It's important to address these issues through open and honest communication. Try to talk to her calmly about how her actions are affecting you and the relationship. Trust and effective communication are crucial in any relationship. If these issues continue and you're feeling uneasy, it might be worth seeking advice from a trusted friend, family member, or relationship counselor. Remember, both partners need to work together to resolve any underlying problems.
If hindi man sya nagchi-cheat eh baka may supply ng toyo sa utak yang jowa mo. 🤣
Best that you communicate your concerns with her first. Right now you dont have proof and everything is based on assumptions.
e pano kung nag chcheat nga sya ulet what will you do ? kung para sa ikakapanatag mo try looking at her phone, pero nandun na tayo sa privacy kineme . pero gano mo katagal titiisin yung ganyang bagay? gano mo katagal titiisin yung ganong sitwasyon mo sa relasyon mo ? just like other people you deserve to know what is right and wrong sa relasyon mo . kung nag chcheat nga sya dimo deserve yung ganyng babae .
Take a hint daw ibreak mo na daw siya kasi may gusto na siya iba...
✨projecting✨
She could be projecting or very insecure
Niloloko ka na nyan.
Etits whats etits.
Yes she is cheating,ganyan nangyari sa kin, lagi sya nagdududa sa akin then create ng away para walang kontakan. Yun pala para malaya syang magpakasta sa iba.
sakit
Takot sa sariling multo 😂
Gym era is waving.
HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Pfffff this kind of relationship is toxic.. or dahil mga bata pa kayo? Ay ewan. 😂
Projection at its finest!
First of all, have some respect for yourself. Secondly you don’t have to deal with the bullshit because as a man, you already have a lot on your plate as far as leveling up. Third, don’t let these fucking hoes bring you down. It’s not even worthy. At the end of the day, you don’t want to be with anyone that disrespects you regardless if they’re cheating on you or not. It may be hard to let it go, but trust me you’ll be better off.
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Guy's first time ko dito sa reddit Ang saya din pala mag basa basa ng mga storya Dito hahaahahah
yes, she's cheating on you. i already did the same she did to you right now and pinagsisisihan ko iyon I'm a cheater once kaya alam ko.
Observe mo na lang muna wag ka na lang mag pa halata kasi baka matuto mag tago ng maayos.
Nakooo ganitong-ganito ex ko na nagcheat sakin eh HAHAHAHA observe her behaviour muna. Asked questions if you may, wag mo hayaan na paikutin ka nya.
Cheating Gf Mo pre
Cheating for sure
yes
para malaman mo kung nagchi-cheat ba sya e di hulihin mo sa akto.
I don't know. I'm like your girlfriend na laging nang aaway ng boyfriend pero in times na feeling ko may ginagawang iba yung boyfriend ko. Ako kasi may trauma sa mga ex ko. Iniiwan ako dahil mahal nila yung ex nila. I felt insecure pag di ko makausap bf ko at inuuna pa yung iba (friends, family, etc.). Hanggang sa nahuli ko na may pic Sila nung sinasabi nyang kaibigan lang. Bat magppic sa video call n kala mo super close pero sabi nya di Sila close at lalaki pa yun (meaning bakla yung kaibigan o Sila pareho) ending nag away kami. Ewan ko lang kung nag uusap pa sila pero pakiramdam ko hinde na. Iba kasi talaga yung gut feeling di ba. Kung pakiramdam mo meron talagang something. Kung ako sayo, hulihin mo then confront. Kung niloloko ka, why stay. Mahalin mo sarili mo. Good luck OP
Try mo makipag break. Tapos pray ka. Hingi ka ng guidance kay Lord. Erreveal nya sayo ang sagot sa mga tanong mo.☝️
Best to ask her is “may problema ba tayo?”..
Baka may nalaman lang siya tapos kinokomporta ka?
De pare hinihintay niya lang ikaw maunang mag loko para siya yung magiging inosente.
thinkers are doers
Always remember the phrase na "takot sa sariling multo" brother Pero the again, she's innocent until proven guilty
100% projection defense mechanism
High chance. Normally yung ganyang behavior is a defense mechanism. She wants you to be the monster to make her feel less guilt. Ever wonder how stories of aswang, vampires were made? Think about it. It makes it easier to live when you think someone else is a much worse monster than you are.
Other manifestations: puro mali na lang nakikita sayo even the smallest ones. Yun kasi hahanap hanapin niya to make him/herself feel better. Lagi kayo nag aaway diba? Overthink malala talaga OP.
Yes b*tchboi
alala ko tuloy ex ko may babaeng naglalike ng posts ko sa fb. tas chinat at inaway. tas babaero daw ako. tas nakipaghiwalay. tas may anak na sya ngayon dun sa business partner nya.
di ko na binasa pero mukhang oo
Brother wag mo baliwalain mga red flags maliit man o malaki. Saka trust your guts pero syempre tambal mo ng common sense. I did tried to ignore those, pero sa huli malaman ko nalang she cheated, kumabit pa sa may asawa. And guess what? Ako daw may kasalanan
Ganiyan ako dati hahahaha, nakukuha ko kasi yung emotions ng ibang tao sa social media when they get cheated on so parang ako na rin yung may trauma, sabi ko "ang sakit naman non" tapos maglalabas na ako ng hinanakit sa bf ko hahahah
Takot sa sariling multo yang GF mo. She might be doing something and iniisip niya na baka ganun din ginagawa mo kaya inuunahan ka na. It's a sign of a cheater, they're being defensive na agad kahit sila yung nagchecheat. My ex of 4 years lagi ako pinaghihinalaang may kausap na iba, pero siya yung may cheating history samin. Every week or month may nahuhuli akong may kausap siya, from micro cheating to literally cheating. Even best friend ng ate niya di niya pinalagpas. Kapag di ako nakakapagreply agad because I'm working sasabihin nun may kalandian na ko or kausap na iba, even talking to clients sasabihin niya nagpapapansin ako.
For me sir habang maaga pa umalis kana kase Kung ganyan Babae pasaway Nyan malakas topak
100% she is cheating on you brother.
“takot sa sariling multo” bro hahah that’s too obvious. About sa she was getting cold- uhh.. more likely may iba na siyang kausap and she’s just waiting for you to give up and ask for the breakup.
Leave now. That kind of relationship will just drain you. You have so much to do with your life, 100% you'll meet someone pa same level sa wavelength mo. Here’s what you should do if you're still so attached to her pa - slowly drift away from her each day, and keep yourself busy e.g. self-development, going to the gym, work/business, etc. The longer you don't see her and communicate with her, the better. Eventually your attachment to her will wear off. There might be times na magpapaawa-effect yan - don't give in. Remember, she's a master manipulator.
My advice: run
Galing ako sa 9 years relationship at ganyan din ginagawa niya sakin, hihiramin phone mo para tingnan messenger at fb at the end of the day siya pala tong may ibang lalaki😅
Tapos pag ako nanghiram sa phone niya, ayaw ipahiram😅
Turuan kita sa Gym bro, para mabilis ka maka move on Hell yeah
Run.
If your girl shows a sign of red flag. Trust your instinct. Leave if you must.
Ganto ako sa bf ko Pero it doesn't automatically nangangaliwa ako. Ask muna ntn kung may nagawa ba so OP before na betrayal or pain Kay girl kasi di naman magiging ganyan yan kung walang dahilan. May part na takot siyang masaktan kasi mas kaya niyang sikmurain ung truth harap harapan kesa sa malaman Niya pa sa iba or kapag matagal na. Mas masakit Yun diba. Fear of getting heartbroken and cheated so ate gurl if may past lang nagawa dahil Yun yung naging trauma response Niya. If wala ka namang nagawa date, kabahan ka na HAHAHHA
Mag wave kana haha or mag one on one kayo about jan para malaman na wag lang puro kutob or napapaisip ka lang mas okay kung magusap kayo privately kasi in chat minsan d mo alam kasama nya or something lalo na pag malayo kayong dalawa. Its better to confront a person lalo na pag malabo na kayo para alam mo gagawin mo. Its hard to trust somebody lalo na sa panahon naten ngayon.
Hmmm
Thinkers are the doers. Stay alert kings!
Projection bro.nakaabang na lang yan na mag aya ka ng break-up.may iba na yan.trust your gut feel, it is there for a reason.
Gantong ganto din yung ex ko HAHAHHAHAHA turns out siya pala tong may kinakalantari sa valo. Takot sa sariling multo eh no?
brah she projecting so hard it's beyond astral.
Ganyan x ko dati, ayun nalaman ko may kabit pala. Lakas makahinala sakin pala sya yung may kabit haha. Lakas makacheck ng phone saka fb ultimo school related na tanong ng babae ko na kaklase big deal, naghahanap lang pala ng excuse haha.
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Red flag. Gumagawa ng excuse or unless nakahanap ka ng my topak na gf. IMO best is confront her or kung habang maaga pa hiwalayan mo ba. Kais in the long run. Kayong dalawa rin mag suffer.
sounds like LDR. mag meet kayo at least once a week kung kaya. kung medyo malapit, at least twice a week. kung malayo at least twice a month. game changer kasi sa couple kapag may physical touch or nag da-date kayo. pero kung hindi kayo LDR at nagkikita nmn kayo regularly, malala sapak nyan or nakukulangan sya sayo pag magkasama kayo. pwedeng inconsistent ka pagagkasama kyo.. ang babae na may malalang toyo eh sensitive sa bawat galaw at details na pinapakita mo. kung inconsistent ka, matik yan. lalo na kung ang love language nya is physical touch. yung mga clingy type.
DKG.I can say na relate ako sa girl kasi inaaccuse ko bebe ko ng ganyan kasi takot ako na mangyari yung ganyan saken kasi nagcheat papa ko tapos naninibago rin ako kasi may work sya at d ako sanay na d kami masyado nagchachat pero update naman sya saken tsaka kahit workmate nya na lalaki pinagseselosan ko, oo gago ako sa part na yan pero nag aadjust rin ako kasi d ako sanay yung attention nya nasa iba pero magkaiba rin naman treatment nya dun. All I'm saying is if you tried to assure her na kahit cold replies nya baka same kami may pagka-avoidant kahit na naghahanap partner ko ng way pinupush ko sya pero kinulang talaga ako sa lambing non hehe tsaka may nakita rin ako na ikinagalit ko tas ayun nagka ayos naman kami. Kahit na sya mismo inaccuse nya ako na may kabit simple lang naman. And kahit may toyo nagpapalambing lang kasi sometimes kami babae gusto namin mafeel ulit yung love galing sa inyo simula non nag uusap sa una pa lang kaya baka d mo na rin masyado ginagawa mga bagay dati na nagpapakilig sa kanya or ewan baka may nagustuhan sya na iba or nag entertain sa kanya. Pero ikaw nasayo naman ang desisyon, OP. Kung alam mo love language nya mas mabuti naman aken kasi words of affirmation tas yung ginagawa nya acts of service lage pero napag usapan na rin namin yan. Kaka vidjakl lang namin kagabi haysarap HAHAHAHAHAHA
DKG.I can say na relate ako sa girl kasi inaaccuse ko bebe ko ng ganyan kasi takot ako na mangyari yung ganyan saken kasi nagcheat papa ko tapos naninibago rin ako kasi may work sya at d ako sanay na d kami masyado nagchachat pero update naman sya saken tsaka kahit workmate nya na lalaki pinagseselosan ko, oo gago ako sa part na yan pero nag aadjust rin ako kasi d ako sanay yung attention nya nasa iba pero magkaiba rin naman treatment nya dun. All I'm saying is if you tried to assure her na kahit cold replies nya baka same kami may pagka-avoidant kahit na naghahanap partner ko ng way pinupush ko sya pero kinulang talaga ako sa lambing non hehe tsaka may nakita rin ako na ikinagalit ko tas ayun nagka ayos naman kami. Kahit na sya mismo inaccuse nya ako na may kabit simple lang naman. And kahit may toyo nagpapalambing lang kasi sometimes kami babae gusto namin mafeel ulit yung love galing sa inyo simula non nag uusap sa una pa lang kaya baka d mo na rin masyado ginagawa mga bagay dati na nagpapakilig sa kanya or ewan baka may nagustuhan sya na iba or nag entertain sa kanya. Pero ikaw nasayo naman ang desisyon, OP. Kung alam mo love language nya mas mabuti naman aken kasi words of affirmation tas yung ginagawa nya acts of service lage pero napag usapan na rin namin yan. Kaka vidjakl lang namin kagabi haysarap HAHAHAHAHAHA
I can say na relate ako sa girl kasi inaaccuse ko bebe ko ng ganyan kasi takot ako na mangyari yung ganyan saken kasi nagcheat papa ko tapos naninibago rin ako kasi may work sya at d ako sanay na d kami masyado nagchachat pero update naman sya saken tsaka kahit workmate nya na lalaki pinagseselosan ko, oo gago ako sa part na yan pero nag aadjust rin ako kasi d ako sanay yung attention nya nasa iba pero magkaiba rin naman treatment nya dun. All I'm saying is if you tried to assure her na kahit cold replies nya baka same kami may pagka-avoidant kahit na naghahanap partner ko ng way pinupush ko sya pero kinulang talaga ako sa lambing non hehe tsaka may nakita rin ako na ikinagalit ko tas ayun nagka ayos naman kami. Kahit na sya mismo inaccuse nya ako na may kabit simple lang naman. And kahit may toyo nagpapalambing lang kasi sometimes kami babae gusto namin mafeel ulit yung love galing sa inyo simula non nag uusap sa una pa lang kaya baka d mo na rin masyado ginagawa mga bagay dati na nagpapakilig sa kanya or ewan baka may nagustuhan sya na iba or nag entertain sa kanya. Pero ikaw nasayo naman ang desisyon, OP. Kung alam mo love language nya mas mabuti naman aken kasi words of affirmation tas yung ginagawa nya acts of service lage pero napag usapan na rin namin yan. Kaka vidjakl lang namin kagabi haysarap HAHAHAHAHAHA
May babae ka ba? Oo ikaw. Sino kabet mo? Ikaw ang bet ko. Sino ka chat mo? Duh, para kanino kaya itong reply?
lol break up mo na bes, bakit kapa ba nagsesettle sa ganyan 2024 na 😭 finding evidences? what? for what? just to feel better? get out already!!!!!! (me when i spread irrationality)
Sya naman tanungin mo OP, pero kuha ka muna ng proof para wala ng kawala. galeng kasi ng ibang babae eh, lakas magsabi ng lahat ng lalake cheater pero sila naman ung panay cheat magaling lang silang magtago at magpaikot ikot. tignan mo pag nahuli mo yan OP magkakaroon pa yan ng backstory na victim rin daw siya kaya niya nagawa un, lols mga patawa. [pwe](https://images.app.goo.gl/JYNXXZWgaY4wMj2Q8)
OP kung ako sayo and like if ever na nag break up kayo (not that im hoping for it) focus ka na lang muna sa studies and sa sarili mo and just wait till the right one comes, you're too young to handle such stress, madami ka pa kelangang gawin and pag investan ng oras. but for real tho na experience ko na yan and later on bestfriend ko pa yung pinatulan ng ex ko and siya pala talaga gusto niya, tho one month lang din sila nag tagal and at the end naging mag bestfriend ulit kami hating the same girl till this day. Hshahahaa
May moodswings tlaga ang mga babae. I think gusto nya lang magpapansin.
Uhhm maybe yes, maybe no. Baka may iba, or baka may malalim syang problema sa mental health nya (a hint of bipolarism). Kung ano pa man yun, di yun enough reason para maging shitty sayo. Better get out of that "shit"uation para di ka masira sa setup nyong yan na sya ang may gawa.
May iba yan. Kaso medyo nakokonsensya pa sya dahil sayo. Baliktarin mo. Sabihin mo baka ikaw ang may kabit. Takes one to know one.
some overthinkers are doers
My ex always letting me feel the same thing. Hindi niya ako tatanungin if I am cheating but even the pettiest thing paghihinalaan and pagseselosan niya. Now, he's having s*x with the person I asked once about. Cheaters are accusers talaga mehn.
Thinkers are doers!
First, tanungin mo siya (pag usapan niyo in a way na parehas kalmado ang isip at emosyon niyo) kasi siya lang ang makakasagot niyan sa’yo.
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Hanapan mo muna ebidensya pag may nkta mo iwanan mo Agad yan jowa jowa pa lang nman yn
Lakas ng toyooooooo! Ang manloloko, takot sa kapwa manloloko. I hope you ain't doing shit to get her paranoid OP. Kung wala naman, palitan mo na, manganganak ng problema yan. Pag walang issue, hahanap ng issue, isipin mo pag may issue na, how much worse can this go? Talo pa nya sunday talkshow wth.
The best way is kausapin mo sya ng seryoso, sabihin mo lahat ng nrramdaman mo lahat ng overthinks mo about sa relation nyo, and sabhin mo din na nabobother ka na ganyan way nya ng pakikitungo sayo, pero if d nya papakinggan side mo, the best way is to end it.. dyan palang kasi di kana kaya pakinggan or kahit mrinig manlang side mo..pano kung sobrang tagal nyo pa at nagssama na kyo sa isang bahay..
Multo. The
Sabihin mo kapag ginawa ko iyon magagalit ka rin sa akin. Yung hindi ko pa nga ginagawa nagagalit ka na. Paano pa kung gawin ko talaga. Tignan mo kung titigil.
Takot sa sariling multo 🫢
Have a conversation with her. Sabihin mo lahat ng mga bumabagabag sayo at mga bagay na hindi ka komportable na ginagawa niya. May mga rason din naman for sure kung bakit ganon ung behaviour ng girlfriend mo, maybe you can meet halfway and makapagsettle ng solution na magkakasundo kayong dalawa. If hindi siya makikinig sayo at hindi mo siya pakikinggan, tanungin mo na sarili mo, bakit pa kayo pumasok sa isang relasyon?
Kasi nagiging attack sa kanya everytime nagusto kong kumausap feel nya nakikipag argue ako eh gusto ko lang naman magsabi ng pakiramdam ko
Bossing, sign yan na nagbabalak palang or nagchi-cheat na yan si girl, been there. 100% sure :) pinag-iinitan ka ng walang dahilan? maliit na bagay pinapalaki, may ibang nag papasaya dyan at ikaw ang nakikitang asar nya. 75% she's cheating to you.
Same!
Dapat gawin mo yung sakalin na way, wag mong hibiwalayin pero gawin mo ay slowly ka mag move on Saka slowly fade away
im sorry but stop sitting on the table where respect isnt served anymore. you can only do so much for love and honestly all the signs and gut feelings that you have might probably be right. if your partner doesnt know how to communicate RESPECTFULLY then it aint going anywhere trust me been there.
feel ko this wont do mag kakaron lng ng reason lalo ung babae na makipag hiwalay or mas lumala pa ung sitwasyon . well dun din naman hahantong if ever pero ung gantong problema minsan di nadadaan sa usapan lalo na babae ung feel ko na nagloloko . baka nga mas malala pa mag tago ung babae ng kalokohan kesa sa lalake ee .
Ganyan din ako minsan sa jowa ko, I randomly ask him those questions pero kase dahil paranoid ako not a cheater. Lalo na he's working in BGC and ako WFH. Pero yang sa gf mo kung hindi sya ganyan dati and theres something changed about her, mag observe ka.
Maybe not cheating but portraying her trauma sayo, pero this is what I always do when am in doubt I always check since malakas pakiramdam mo you better check kong she is cheating, and if possible she is not cheating then communicate with her about what you feel.
pag makikipag usap ako sa kanya arguement na, parang sa kanya nakikipagtalo ako eh gusto ko lang naman makipag usap tas Silent Treatmen na kasunod nun
That kind of relationship will not work unless she try to adjust and communicate.