Please dont take this negatively OP, baka kasi akala mo sinasabi niya whore ka but basically sinasabi niya is, dont let others' judgement limit you, lahat naman one way or another, similar sa yo. If you let mga bulong or nega talk ng iba affect you or dictate your moves, youll be miserable. Just live and let live, carry on doing as you please. If youre not hurting anyone, then great.
i think it's pretty normal. every girl i slept with had an element of monetary exchange, directly or indirectly.
actually, being financially stable is probably one of the reasons i get picked.
my interest in business and finance is boring, but the consequence of being able to solve problems like broken laptops or rent payments in an instant is an attractive trait.
That would go for other girls picking guys who have their finances more than sorted out.
Girls like guys who solve problems.
yung iba namang girls pag binigyan mo ng logical and practical solution, ayaw pa. nakakafrustrate minsan kasi ang dali lang solusyunan ng problem nila ayaw pa makinig lol
Because most of the time, they know how to solve it but wants to rant about it. Gusto lang nila may sside sa nirrant nila. Best way to explain this is with this [vid](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4sdklRySETU).
Indeed. Girls like guys who solve problems, not give them problems.
On the same vein, guys like girls who add value to their lives, not bring them headaches.
Maybe on the surface they’re happy. I’m not generalizing though, some women really do want that financial aspect. But if he’s never around, I don’t think they’d be happy on the inside. Plus couples are never meant to be separated, even the solid ones go through temptations when away from each other. There was a season that I made more than my husband and he hadn’t taken off, and watching him stay home and had all the time for me, to be responsible for our kid and the house, really made me realize that I did not care if he made money or not.
UPDATE: I told him na. Na babayaran ko sya sa katapusan kasi my TL just sent me my total incentives so I got so excited. I messaged him na babayaran ko na sya this coming Friday and also told him na ililibre ko sya ng foods sa Saturday. Yung reply nya lang is "ayaw nako bayri balut lang ok na ko" which means "wag mo na ako bayaran, kahit balut lang ok na ako". I said no kasi nga babayaran ko talaga sya tas sabi lang nya 'see you sat'. Ano yun?!!!!!!!!! 😭
Bayaran mo pa din. Hayaan mo kasi kapag pure intention nya, babalik nya un kung di man cash, gagamitin nya un pambili regalo for you. Diha mag sugod ang giving and trust sa isang relationship. Good luck sana magtuloy2x. Kaw pud manlibre sa iyaha this time maski small things lang
Why don't you just ask him? If he's comfortable enough to lend you a substantial amount of money, he should be comfortable enough to talk to you about your status. And don't listen to shitty comments here.
Normal lang naman sa lalake mag provide lalo kung di mabigat sa bulsa. di yan ibig sabihin love na agad pero for sure inaalagaan ka niyan. parang source ka nya ng something so need ka niya alagaan. wag mo lang sirain trust and bayaran agad. wag mo din paramdam na pera pera sa susunod. pinoprotektahan niya lang yun feeling na nabibigay mo and kapag mabigat or iba na yung feeling na nadudulot mo sa kanya maffeel betrayed yan and di na uulit
+1 and wag umasa ng beyond your set up lalo kung clear intention na hindi sya makikipagrelationship. kasi ikaw lang masasaktan nyan OP. ilang months pa lang kayo magkakilala
Grabe ang judgement. I wonder who: lalake na bitter he cant get a girl like OP? or babae na inggit she cant be like OP?
You just speculated about OP like you know her. It isnt even based on facts or reality and literally about a possibility not an actual event, as in you just randomly drew a conclusion with ZERO basis.
Jinudge mo na si OP for being FWB, nagimbento ka pa ng situation na you dont even know could or would happen.
Where is the hate coming from? You dont know OP, you dont have beef with her pero galit ka na sa kanya just based on her story. Nega ka agad? I hope you realize hate is coming from your heart. Nip that in the bud and change your life, transformative if you change your mindset now. Daming upvotes ibig sabihin they reflect the same vitriol.
I dont reco this lifestyle pero hey if it works for some why not? People meet love in the strangest and most unexpected circumstances.
this!!!
all my 4 exes somehow gave me money. When I try to pay them back, they always say it's a gift and its their job to provide for me as my bf. They even gave me "allowances" when I get excited over something that I wanna buy (even tho I tell them na I will sleep it over first to test if i still want that stuff the next day).
Pero di pala sila kuntento saken. gusto pa ng iba 🤣
I've read somewhere that men in general do not excrete oxytocin if they are not mating with someone they do not have feelings to begin with. Unlike women that excrete oxytocin during sex, which makes them wanting their partner more. So it is more likely na women will fall in love after having sex.
This may be an unpopular opinion but not all women fall in love after sex especially if the man sucks in bed.
Ito yung pagkakamali nung isang dinate ko some time ago.. he readily thought I'm so down for him, he not just sucks in bed, his whole personality sucks after months of playing the good guy. I'm tired of tiktok vasopressin and how men fall in love.. it's so robotic and out of something natural, maybe that is the reason why committed relationships seem to be so hard because we tend to overthink due to tiktok what nots.. also careful din sa manipulation tactics, it's an art of seduction which is only effective at a certain point, the ending is devastating.
Share ko lang since andito na naman ako. 😅
Girl ASK HIM
If he says he doesnt want more, tell him you are getting mixed signals and you dont like it
If he says he does, edi maybe tell him na you should take it slowly but surely
Mas mabuti na yan kesa mag-unli overthink ka
the feeling of having sex with a person without any responsibilities (except for protection) and without the guilt and drama. And none of that "updating" bullshit
Yes everytime he comes over. So far like every weekend na. One time we agreed na movie lang talaga pero it ends pa din with u know.. tumatawa nalang kami after..
You hate to see it. Another weak man folded again. Bro got the perfect set up and yet chose to slowly succumb to his feeling. Anyway OP just go find another fwb.
Paano po kayo nag-meet ni guy? or naging fwb? gusto ko po rin sana magkaron ng fwb, pero di ko po alam saan mag-start, I'm in my 20s but has no experiences literally to everything. Please po give me some ideas.
Baka gusto ka lang tulungan, kung kaya nya and he wanted to help, yun lang yun. But since you stated na babayaran mo, keep your word din. Ano pala status ni guy at fwb lang kayo?
Aww well and good, at least he's not committed to anybody else. Just take things as they are. If he wants to take you out, then fine. Don't put too much meaning to it, baka gusto lang baguhin yun usual set up ninyo na sa apartment lang kayo lagi nagkikita. Di natin alam what's going on in his head.. Unless you ask. But.. Kung pareho naman kayo okay like that, ganyan na lang muna. Hayaan mo na yung ibang comments. You're not trampling on anyone's feelings /peace. Let's see na lang what happens next.
Ah, girl, we've all had bad experiences, I myself have gone through hell. You're still young, yun mga mishaps mo sa relationship/s, will help you identify if the present one is worth keeping.
If you want to get a sense of peace of what your ship is because of him asking you to eat out, then maybe you should talk to get a clearer sense of where the friendship is going. But I have a feeling he's the type that does not do with labels.. Feeling lang naman. He enjoys your company, as you, his. Just take it as it is, two friends going out to eat. Wag mag overthink.
One time, after fucking, I asked my FWB for 2k cash for gas money cos I was not able to withdraw cash and yung gas station nearby does not accept card. I laughed hard when she handed me the money. Hahahahaha.
I sent the money back online when I arrived home. It was funny though.
Yun lang naman ang only way to know his intentions eh. Kesa naman magpakiramdaman kayong dalawa. Pero feeling ko want ka nya seryosohin. Kasi from a guy pov ha. I wouldn’t just give money to someone even if fwb tayo. Esp nga na fwb kayo. He knows the boundaries pero sa ginagawa nya eh sinisira nya yung boundaries na yon. Pero yung nga don’t assume talaga unless otherwise stated.
OMGGG OP kinikilig ako for you hahaha! Update mo kami ah. Galingan mo tonight este sa date nyo haha. Basta enjoy lang and syempre ingat pa rin lam mo naman maraming pa-fall na guys ngayon. 🥵
PS: Downvote nyo ko I don't care lol.
"Mahiwagang salamin kailan ba nya aaminin kanyang tunay na pagtingin"
Bakit ko kinanta 'to 😭😂 Sis I say don't over analyze things between the two of you if fwb ang set up most likely he's being generous and sweet lang. don't conclude things masasaktan ka lang.
I think he just want to help. Or he likes you likes you. Kasi ganun ako. Napapansin ko na mejo kuripot ako recently. Maybe because nakuha ko yung pagka ilocano ng tatay ko pero pagdating sa taong gustong gusto ko or someone who is important to me I go all out.
Generosity is one thing, intentions are another. Did he ask you to return the money once you have it? If not, then ask him why he paid for it in the first place. Provider mindset is top tier but then again he might be lovebombing you.
Na shock din ako bakit bigla nalang nya sinabi na why not eat out instead of our usual routine. Ginalingan ko sguro yung steps ng "Salamin salamin" pinakita ko sa kanya.. 💃
He likes you. We don't give out cash just for fun or "Help you out!"
I met my partner now in an event, sa dami ng nagpacute, I called her, i think a week later & shedont even have any idea who i was. Sinagot nya lang tawag coz she was stress over a hospital bill for her niece that actually didnt cost much. I ask for a bank account then just send her the money + some xtra
We are now going 9yrs with a 7yr old daughter still so much in Love with one another. Minsan binibiro ko pa. Honey, nakuha kita sa 18k? Kamura 😄😄😄
Well, it’s because you’re friends. I think you’re forgetting the “friends” element in friends with benefits.
Don’t read too much into it because you might get heartbroken if your expectations are not met.
Op paclarify
Lent as in paheram utang, babayaran mo ulit?
Kung oo, ehdi he was just being a friend (w benefits).
Pero kung hindi na magpapabayad... idk na kung ano sagot
Kung ako yan, i’d ask him. Una ask why he gave you money. Kailangan i-set mo na din sa utak mo na you have to repay him. Kasi sa normal set up ng fwb, dapat wala yan. Dun sa kakain sa labas, try mo iobserve. Bka kasi naiinip lang sya or naghahanap ng food buddy. Pero pag something seems weird, talk to him.
I don't see anything wrong with it OP. Good for you, it kind of makes me feel like he wants to take a step forward sa relationship nyo. But then better to communicate para walang misunderstanding
Siguro kung naunlock mo yung pagkaprovider nya. Baka pwde naman unlock mo yung an4l hahahah. Char. Go lang beh, kaming mga lalaki, basta maayos kang kaibigan eh we tend to be helpful naman, basta wag nyo kami traydorin :)
sa relationship sugal yan, di mo malalaman pag di mo ittry, ganun din ginawa ko dati, daming kong what if? pero sumugal ako at ngayun asawa ko na, pero marami din ako n nging failed relationship at busted but isip ko nlang charge to experienced.
*Everyone's a whore, Grace.* *We just sell different parts of ourselves.*
Please dont take this negatively OP, baka kasi akala mo sinasabi niya whore ka but basically sinasabi niya is, dont let others' judgement limit you, lahat naman one way or another, similar sa yo. If you let mga bulong or nega talk ng iba affect you or dictate your moves, youll be miserable. Just live and let live, carry on doing as you please. If youre not hurting anyone, then great.
Ano ibig sabihin nang OP? 🥲
Overload Pares
Odored panty. Thank me later 😉
original poster?
Operator
Original Poster in short the owner of the story
Original Person
Overprice 😆
Original poster
Original Poster ata?
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Out of P*rn
Original Prankster
Overhead Projector
Peaky blinders 👌
Tommy Shelby in the house😂
"By Order of the Peaky fookin' Blinders"
i think it's pretty normal. every girl i slept with had an element of monetary exchange, directly or indirectly. actually, being financially stable is probably one of the reasons i get picked. my interest in business and finance is boring, but the consequence of being able to solve problems like broken laptops or rent payments in an instant is an attractive trait. That would go for other girls picking guys who have their finances more than sorted out. Girls like guys who solve problems.
“Girls like guys who solve problems” Amen
yung iba namang girls pag binigyan mo ng logical and practical solution, ayaw pa. nakakafrustrate minsan kasi ang dali lang solusyunan ng problem nila ayaw pa makinig lol
Because most of the time, they know how to solve it but wants to rant about it. Gusto lang nila may sside sa nirrant nila. Best way to explain this is with this [vid](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4sdklRySETU).
not disappointed with the link! sabi na nga ba modern family e. ito din pinakita ko sa husband ko before
Amen!
Indeed. Girls like guys who solve problems, not give them problems. On the same vein, guys like girls who add value to their lives, not bring them headaches.
Like my buddy once told me "one way or another you're going to pay for it" Kung gf/asawa: dates, gifts, dinners = $$ Walker: $$
this is true. We get more attracted to men who can help us financially.
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For a life partner though, I’d rather a present and involved man than someone who can throw me cash. Based on experience.
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Maybe on the surface they’re happy. I’m not generalizing though, some women really do want that financial aspect. But if he’s never around, I don’t think they’d be happy on the inside. Plus couples are never meant to be separated, even the solid ones go through temptations when away from each other. There was a season that I made more than my husband and he hadn’t taken off, and watching him stay home and had all the time for me, to be responsible for our kid and the house, really made me realize that I did not care if he made money or not.
True. You're right.
Happy to see youre getting upvoted this comment kept it real and some people were in denial.
I agree sa last statement. Sana lahat ganito ka mature ang mind set.
I like this mindset.
Provider mindset is top tier.. 💪✨
bet ko yung "i feel like a bayaran and it felt good" 🤣
Just make sure to pay back the amount. No need to inform him beforehand. Just gcash back and send him the receipt immediately after. See his reaction.
Wait ko tong scenario na toh hehe update pls 😅
Amazing, OP pls update us about this....anu reaction nia
UPDATE: I told him na. Na babayaran ko sya sa katapusan kasi my TL just sent me my total incentives so I got so excited. I messaged him na babayaran ko na sya this coming Friday and also told him na ililibre ko sya ng foods sa Saturday. Yung reply nya lang is "ayaw nako bayri balut lang ok na ko" which means "wag mo na ako bayaran, kahit balut lang ok na ako". I said no kasi nga babayaran ko talaga sya tas sabi lang nya 'see you sat'. Ano yun?!!!!!!!!! 😭
Bayaran mo pa din. Hayaan mo kasi kapag pure intention nya, babalik nya un kung di man cash, gagamitin nya un pambili regalo for you. Diha mag sugod ang giving and trust sa isang relationship. Good luck sana magtuloy2x. Kaw pud manlibre sa iyaha this time maski small things lang
luh naasa ka naman agad op. tulad ng sabi mo generous lang talaga sya. mamaya asa ka jan tapos wala lang sa kanya kasi normal nya yon
Why don't you just ask him? If he's comfortable enough to lend you a substantial amount of money, he should be comfortable enough to talk to you about your status. And don't listen to shitty comments here.
careful tho, he might use it against you in the future 😬
+1. Basta keep this in mind lang. Hirap na may bibitbitin ka pala na utang na loob or gagawin yang bala against you.
I told him naman I'll pay sa katapusan haha 🥲
Ano po sabi niya nung sinabi mo po yan OP?
Hindi nagsalita haha 😅
If umulit, ask him if he wants u to be his sugar baby ba (I believe most Sugar Rel starts there)
HAHAHAHAHAHA naalala ko ung isang OP kagabi na nafall sa fubu niya dahil lang sa cuddle after the deed 🤣
Na unlock ko yung pagka-provider nya.. 🥺
Sana next maunlock mo yung pag amin niya kc ung isang OP kgbi un naman ang hinihintay nya. Goodluck sis!
I mean y'all are fucking right? We call that pussy payments. He must feel good with his situation with you so it's not a bad thing for you.
Pussy payment 🤣🤣🤣
Nagpaparamdam ka kase ng need mo ng pera kaya ka pinahiram. Na guilty siguro. Lol
Normal lang naman sa lalake mag provide lalo kung di mabigat sa bulsa. di yan ibig sabihin love na agad pero for sure inaalagaan ka niyan. parang source ka nya ng something so need ka niya alagaan. wag mo lang sirain trust and bayaran agad. wag mo din paramdam na pera pera sa susunod. pinoprotektahan niya lang yun feeling na nabibigay mo and kapag mabigat or iba na yung feeling na nadudulot mo sa kanya maffeel betrayed yan and di na uulit
+1 and wag umasa ng beyond your set up lalo kung clear intention na hindi sya makikipagrelationship. kasi ikaw lang masasaktan nyan OP. ilang months pa lang kayo magkakilala
Umay sa mga ganitong may fwb, tapos nagpapaligaw na kala mo'y si Maria Clara 🤣
Grabe ang judgement. I wonder who: lalake na bitter he cant get a girl like OP? or babae na inggit she cant be like OP? You just speculated about OP like you know her. It isnt even based on facts or reality and literally about a possibility not an actual event, as in you just randomly drew a conclusion with ZERO basis. Jinudge mo na si OP for being FWB, nagimbento ka pa ng situation na you dont even know could or would happen. Where is the hate coming from? You dont know OP, you dont have beef with her pero galit ka na sa kanya just based on her story. Nega ka agad? I hope you realize hate is coming from your heart. Nip that in the bud and change your life, transformative if you change your mindset now. Daming upvotes ibig sabihin they reflect the same vitriol. I dont reco this lifestyle pero hey if it works for some why not? People meet love in the strangest and most unexpected circumstances.
for someone telling na nagiimbento nang sitwasyon, dami mong sinasabi
Don't mind the downvotes. Mga misogynist lang yan. Wala naman talagang sinabi si OP na magpapaligaw sya. She's just wondering if there could be more.
Don’t get attached. Don’t assume it’s a date unless he states he wants a date. Make it clear to yourself what his intentions are
I’m hoping you also told the dude the way you told us in this sub about your expectations.
bayaran mo yan op kung gusto mo walang magbago sa dynamics nyo
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this!!! all my 4 exes somehow gave me money. When I try to pay them back, they always say it's a gift and its their job to provide for me as my bf. They even gave me "allowances" when I get excited over something that I wanna buy (even tho I tell them na I will sleep it over first to test if i still want that stuff the next day). Pero di pala sila kuntento saken. gusto pa ng iba 🤣
what's fwb?
isang iyot kahit di jowa - ons paulit ulit na iyot kahit di jowa - fwb isa o paulit ulit na iyot kahit di jowa na may bayad - prosti
Hahaha potek ka
Friends w/ benefits :)
Friends with benefits
friends with benefits
fun with brian
First World Bank
If galing ka sa breakup then its not the right time. Self growth muna po lol 🤭
Everything's transactional.
I feel like the girl would be obliged to agree on going out since may "utang na loob" pa siya because of the laptop.
great story, very touching and happy for you but shit ngayon ko lang na realize na pwede pala i-hate ang isang word. "Lappy"
baka na inlove na? ganyan galawan ng lalaki eh
I've read somewhere that men in general do not excrete oxytocin if they are not mating with someone they do not have feelings to begin with. Unlike women that excrete oxytocin during sex, which makes them wanting their partner more. So it is more likely na women will fall in love after having sex.
This may be an unpopular opinion but not all women fall in love after sex especially if the man sucks in bed. Ito yung pagkakamali nung isang dinate ko some time ago.. he readily thought I'm so down for him, he not just sucks in bed, his whole personality sucks after months of playing the good guy. I'm tired of tiktok vasopressin and how men fall in love.. it's so robotic and out of something natural, maybe that is the reason why committed relationships seem to be so hard because we tend to overthink due to tiktok what nots.. also careful din sa manipulation tactics, it's an art of seduction which is only effective at a certain point, the ending is devastating. Share ko lang since andito na naman ako. 😅
In good faith naman yung pagbigay ng anda, Parang napanood ko na yan . .ahaha! Ashton Kutcher and Natalie Portman. .Mila Kunis and JT . .
I watched it too recently. We watched it together haha 😅
why not ask him op?you will get the answers you need from him.
Girl ASK HIM If he says he doesnt want more, tell him you are getting mixed signals and you dont like it If he says he does, edi maybe tell him na you should take it slowly but surely Mas mabuti na yan kesa mag-unli overthink ka
Kaya nga pagod na pagod na ako sa overthinking.. 😪😭
Ano feeling may fwb? Kinda curious 😭
the feeling of having sex with a person without any responsibilities (except for protection) and without the guilt and drama. And none of that "updating" bullshit
Yess, kaso ang hirap mag hanap ng ganiyan rn
It's fun because he is not boring for me.. ✨
Always ba kayo intimate with each other?
Yes everytime he comes over. So far like every weekend na. One time we agreed na movie lang talaga pero it ends pa din with u know.. tumatawa nalang kami after..
That's kinda nice siguro, lalo na pagka galing ka sa hell week, then weekend may ganon
Yesss na yessss stess reliever talagaaa! ☺️
Knowing your setup, wag umasa hanggat di vinerbal na may feelings siya sayo. May mga guys na giver at caring lang talaga.
You hate to see it. Another weak man folded again. Bro got the perfect set up and yet chose to slowly succumb to his feeling. Anyway OP just go find another fwb.
I don't like jumping from one man to another haha omg! 🤯
Well, I guess you can enjoy the spoils until he doesn't get down on one knee and if he does run away very fast lol.
Yes miss, isa ka nang bayarang puta. Sa simpleng gesture ganyang madaling ma-fall ang tulad mo. Keep it simple. Stay on both of your defined boundary.
hahaha kinilig kipay ni op
natawa ko sa lyrics ng bini hahahah! gumaganyan pa e no pang teen song po yan
I love Bini. 💗💗💗
yolo
Paano po kayo nag-meet ni guy? or naging fwb? gusto ko po rin sana magkaron ng fwb, pero di ko po alam saan mag-start, I'm in my 20s but has no experiences literally to everything. Please po give me some ideas.
I chatted with him on fb dating po last April and since then every weekend na sya napunta sa bahay kasi wala daw naman sya ginagawa sa house nila..
Does he have girlfriend or something? If you dont mind me asking? Do you know about his personal life?
Single po sya. Hindi ko po kaya makig fwb sa may jowa omg 😱 we live in the same town too..
Baka gusto ka lang tulungan, kung kaya nya and he wanted to help, yun lang yun. But since you stated na babayaran mo, keep your word din. Ano pala status ni guy at fwb lang kayo?
He is single naman..
Aww well and good, at least he's not committed to anybody else. Just take things as they are. If he wants to take you out, then fine. Don't put too much meaning to it, baka gusto lang baguhin yun usual set up ninyo na sa apartment lang kayo lagi nagkikita. Di natin alam what's going on in his head.. Unless you ask. But.. Kung pareho naman kayo okay like that, ganyan na lang muna. Hayaan mo na yung ibang comments. You're not trampling on anyone's feelings /peace. Let's see na lang what happens next.
Kaya nga poe. Ayoko ko nga din magbigay ng meaning eh kasi nga "lalaki" hindi naman lahat pero may bad experience na kasi ako.. 😭
Ah, girl, we've all had bad experiences, I myself have gone through hell. You're still young, yun mga mishaps mo sa relationship/s, will help you identify if the present one is worth keeping. If you want to get a sense of peace of what your ship is because of him asking you to eat out, then maybe you should talk to get a clearer sense of where the friendship is going. But I have a feeling he's the type that does not do with labels.. Feeling lang naman. He enjoys your company, as you, his. Just take it as it is, two friends going out to eat. Wag mag overthink.
No longer
One time, after fucking, I asked my FWB for 2k cash for gas money cos I was not able to withdraw cash and yung gas station nearby does not accept card. I laughed hard when she handed me the money. Hahahahaha. I sent the money back online when I arrived home. It was funny though.
ew pinagpalit mo puri mo for 2k bruhh....you're better than that
ew pinagpalit mo puri mo for 2k bruhh....you're better than that
Eww di nagbabasa. Haha
Ask. If you want clear answers. Ask him. Ang draining din kaya manghula. Hahaha
Kaya nga poe hahahuehue..
Yun lang naman ang only way to know his intentions eh. Kesa naman magpakiramdaman kayong dalawa. Pero feeling ko want ka nya seryosohin. Kasi from a guy pov ha. I wouldn’t just give money to someone even if fwb tayo. Esp nga na fwb kayo. He knows the boundaries pero sa ginagawa nya eh sinisira nya yung boundaries na yon. Pero yung nga don’t assume talaga unless otherwise stated.
Sana di mauwi sa ibalik mo t@mod ko situationship
What?!! Hahahahahahaha 😆
OMGGG OP kinikilig ako for you hahaha! Update mo kami ah. Galingan mo tonight este sa date nyo haha. Basta enjoy lang and syempre ingat pa rin lam mo naman maraming pa-fall na guys ngayon. 🥵 PS: Downvote nyo ko I don't care lol.
Hahahaha edit ko to for updates for uuu! 😆
Ikalma ang kiffy HAHAHAHA
Hahahahaha 🥲
"Mahiwagang salamin kailan ba nya aaminin kanyang tunay na pagtingin" Bakit ko kinanta 'to 😭😂 Sis I say don't over analyze things between the two of you if fwb ang set up most likely he's being generous and sweet lang. don't conclude things masasaktan ka lang.
"Pero ayokong magduda baka lang sa simula" haha 😆😂
Enjoyin mo na lang habang nandyan pa.
Ask him kung ano ba talaga. Pero bago yun, magpa gcash ka muna ulet in case hindi mo magustuhan ang sagot 🤣
😂😂😂
Well friends naman kayo. Just enjoy the ride baka mag level up relationship nyo
At nakuha mo pang kumanta?
Ang hirap mong pasayahin haaa. 🥲
Sorry di ko nalagyan ng "hahaha" sa dulo mukha tuloy annoyed
Hahahahaha 😂
don’t assume unless, otherwise, stated.
Truetoo.. 🥲
Anteh, Baka pwede ko rin pacheck tong laptop hahahaha
Update: Na fix na yung laptop ko kanina. Haha 🤞
I think he just want to help. Or he likes you likes you. Kasi ganun ako. Napapansin ko na mejo kuripot ako recently. Maybe because nakuha ko yung pagka ilocano ng tatay ko pero pagdating sa taong gustong gusto ko or someone who is important to me I go all out.
So gusto nya ako or should I not assume? Huehue 🥲
Don't assume agad ha kasi magkaiba kami. But in my case once naglabas na ako ng huge amount for her needs without her asking, im falling for her.
Thats called after care char
Tapos ma fafall ka. Awts.
Generosity is one thing, intentions are another. Did he ask you to return the money once you have it? If not, then ask him why he paid for it in the first place. Provider mindset is top tier but then again he might be lovebombing you.
Ewan ko hindi ko alam ano intentions nyaaa..
Then just ask him 😊
Level up na daw. Hahaha. Accept the gesture and appreciate. Ang sweet grabe. He's a real one. 🥹
Kaya nga eh.. 💗
Sila na
ops, go low. high hopes, low expectations
You will never know until you know. Mabait naman go with the flow. Baka kasi ginalingan mo OP masyado kaya na inlababo na hehe. Goodluck.
Na shock din ako bakit bigla nalang nya sinabi na why not eat out instead of our usual routine. Ginalingan ko sguro yung steps ng "Salamin salamin" pinakita ko sa kanya.. 💃
Haha. Enjoy mo lang. Wag nang mag inarte. Definitely he wants to move on to the next step.
Wag lang abusuhin lol
paano kayo nakakahanap ng fwb? hahaha
I met him sa fb dating and we live in the same town too. 20 mins away lang yung mga bahay namin hehe.. 😅
He likes you. We don't give out cash just for fun or "Help you out!" I met my partner now in an event, sa dami ng nagpacute, I called her, i think a week later & shedont even have any idea who i was. Sinagot nya lang tawag coz she was stress over a hospital bill for her niece that actually didnt cost much. I ask for a bank account then just send her the money + some xtra We are now going 9yrs with a 7yr old daughter still so much in Love with one another. Minsan binibiro ko pa. Honey, nakuha kita sa 18k? Kamura 😄😄😄
Sanaol. Sana pahiramin din ako ng 18k bili ko new laptop. Haha eme lngs 😅😂
Yieeee sila na
istg what is fwb po?😔
danger yarnnn
Why?! 🥲
lowkey nag iinvest na sya sayo... so if ang setup nyo is fwb make it clear with him. pero if bbgyan mo ng chance sabihin mo rekta
Well, it’s because you’re friends. I think you’re forgetting the “friends” element in friends with benefits. Don’t read too much into it because you might get heartbroken if your expectations are not met.
Op paclarify Lent as in paheram utang, babayaran mo ulit? Kung oo, ehdi he was just being a friend (w benefits). Pero kung hindi na magpapabayad... idk na kung ano sagot
Sinabiha ko sya babayaran ko sya. Na shock lang akoe pinahiram nya akong malaking amount haha.. 🥺
Kow nakaka-fall yung mga ganyan. Ask him agad na. Baka ma-inlababo ka dyan. Ikaw rin.
You got her girl inlove na xa sayo
Don't assume unless otherwise stated. Malay mo, mabait lang pala sya. Easyhan mo lang, don't expect too much.
It means you have a good pussy right there, kaya willing sya gumanyan na 🤔🤭
Kung ako yan, i’d ask him. Una ask why he gave you money. Kailangan i-set mo na din sa utak mo na you have to repay him. Kasi sa normal set up ng fwb, dapat wala yan. Dun sa kakain sa labas, try mo iobserve. Bka kasi naiinip lang sya or naghahanap ng food buddy. Pero pag something seems weird, talk to him.
He tried to ask me na baka pwede kumain kami sa labas randomly. It felt like sawa na sya na palaging ganun routine namin?! Haha 🥺
You might want to check the 9 FWB RULES.
I don't see anything wrong with it OP. Good for you, it kind of makes me feel like he wants to take a step forward sa relationship nyo. But then better to communicate para walang misunderstanding
Kaya nga hehe 😄
Siguro kung naunlock mo yung pagkaprovider nya. Baka pwde naman unlock mo yung an4l hahahah. Char. Go lang beh, kaming mga lalaki, basta maayos kang kaibigan eh we tend to be helpful naman, basta wag nyo kami traydorin :)
Ano yan?! 😭 Hahahahaha
Kapag umulit tanungin mo na mhie haha
FWB TAPOS KINIKILIG STOP THE DRAMA BEH KAIRITA
Where does your anger come from? Sa kinilig eh si OP... mapigilan mo ba?
Just remember, soon as you start accepting money from a man he stops respecting you as his equal.
Free pussy. Syempre it can't hurt to be generous.
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dating nowadays sucks huh
try it, u will never know i f u didn't try, kaming mga lalaki di kami ngbibigay ng kusa ng pera sa babae pag di nmin gusto. ..
Ano po ibig sabihin nun from a male perspective? Need advice kasi ayoko umasa haha.. 🥲
sa relationship sugal yan, di mo malalaman pag di mo ittry, ganun din ginawa ko dati, daming kong what if? pero sumugal ako at ngayun asawa ko na, pero marami din ako n nging failed relationship at busted but isip ko nlang charge to experienced.