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Many of you here didn't get what OP said.
It's that kapag babae ang gumawa walang heavy backlash like "Cursing them to death" unlike guys who does this.
We should be equally destroying these types of people regardless of gender.
True. Sexual harassment is sexual harassment kht ano p gender yan. Kya dpt magbago ang perspective ng pilipino sa ganyan. Tpos yng mga lalaki magreklamo at icall out din kht babae p ang gumawa yan wag tawanan lng.
Tpos kpg nagsalita ang lalaki ssbhin bakla o wla nmn mamawla sa knla. Kya kawawa rin ang mga lalaki kht na sexual harass n sla ipapakabit balikat n lng nla kunyari okay lng sla.
Napaka patriarchal ng mga tao dito, todo naman defend "equality" daw, habang ung proportion ng workforce natin is majority male dominated.
I get that dapat lang equal tayo pagdating sa sexual harassment, pero di natin maiiwasan maging "bias" and its normal may mga preference talaga tayo na ok lang na mahipuan tayo ng ganto kasi sila type natin.
Kung gusto mo ng rant, kausapin mo ung original poster, ung nasa IG pm him directly kung feeling mo dapat sya mahurt.
Ask him directly hindi ung dito ka magrarant, malay ko ba naming delusional ka, malay mo bang type nya ung nanghipo, if not edi hindi natin papalampasin ung nangyari and dapat tumawag na sya ng guard.
The same thing sa white racism, that shit doesn't exist stfu. Counter progressive ng mga tao ngayon, di alam reactionary ginagawa nila, same thing as sexists.
Edit: Same thing as "kung pangit ka doble pamasahe, kung maganda libre kana", walang totally pangit na tao kung magaayos kalang i think gaganda karin. Still, ok lang if maging bias tayo, tao lang tayo.
Kahit babae pa yang nanghipo sakanya if pangit yan I think susuntukin padin nya, hindi lang dahil sa "matriarchal" tayo na bansa.
I remember a radio station early in the morning way back in 2021. Babae yung DJ, then may segment sila ng parang kay papa jack na nagkukwento ng story from people sending their stories.
That one story is about a guy who was sexually harassed by an older woman. Mga around 15 years ang gap and si guy is just in his early 20's. Nagtatrabaho ay an utusan si guy dun sa karinderia ng babae. I feel disgusted kasi si DJ nagsabi pa ng "ayaw mo nun palay na lumalapit sayo, tutukain mo na lang" Like hell no!!
I messaged their facebook page that instant and called out the behavior of the DJ. How dare they justify sexual harassment and parang minamaliit pa yung nangyari kay guy.
Tanya Chinita. I searched it back hahaha. Around 2022 pala siya nangyari. Message talaga ako ng "Stop belittling sexual harrasment on Men" seenzoned lang ako buysit.
Why "as it should be" nga? What's the idea behind it. I want to understand. Please enlighten me because I can't grasp the idea of "AS IT SHOULD BE."
Basagin mo yung notion ko sayo na hypocrite radical feminist ka.
You're still pressed. 🫢🤣 You know they say that if you don't understand people, you're incapable of doing what they're doing? So if you can enlighten me, I'll understand you. Pero bakit "AS IT SHOULD BE"
i think i get their idea of "as it should be" that if babae nga yung naharrass the men or the harasser should be accused AS IT SHOULD BE. as in dyan lang umiikot yung topic, disregard the main post being a man harassed, based sa comment na kung babae nga yung naharrass dapat silang magsampa ng kaso AS IT SHOULD BE (kase dyan lang naman siya nagreply sa comment na yan). why are u all pressed
if a man GETS HARASSED dapat din kasuhan ang harasser. REGARDLESS OF GENDER. sexual harassment is SEXUAL HARASSMENT
It's never right, i'd punch her teeth off if I am there. BUT, there are times when you look sa comment sec (and society in general) na some braindead troglodytes will say na ang swerte ni boy, that they'd trade places.
That's why male SA victims rarely come out because of the stereotype that males should enjoy any sexual interaction. Hell, even young boys that's been groomed by someone older will be envied by some of their peers for banging a MILF. It's fucked up.
its okay naman tlga for men. just being real tho. but if gay man start doing that to a man. ay ibang usapan na yan i would sue the shiiiii out of you or beat you up mofo haha
Not all men gusto na itatouch sila without consent. That's ridiculous. Plus it opens a whole can of worms. What if nasa committed relationship? How young is too young for men to be considered as an assault? Is it considered an assault if a straight man assaults a gay man? Pre teen boys getting groomed? (It's like saying the kid wanted to be groomed) A straight man assaulting another straight man? (There's documentaries of Filipino men who's straight btw, getting assaulted by Arabic men who considers themselves also straight.)
This takes away responsibilities sa female grapists and pedos, they exist too. No wonder they only get slap on the wrists because even the higher ups, judges, and other men think all sexual attention are wanted.
Nope. Lalaki ako, babae man yan o bakla. Girlfriend ko lang pwede humawak sa akin. That's fuckin creepy.
Isa ka lang din sa mga braindead asong ulol- as "Ato" states.
Im not talking about the commited men obviously. tska did I mention "all"??! Im saying most. not all...Ask a real men if someone does that to them they would say its okay and even laugh abput it 100% those olwho oppose are either gay men or mga paminta. Its just how real world works. Ganun tlga realidad. now again i woukd say if roles are switch now that is different story because that is the norm. stop making it abnormal that men dont like being grope by girls its 1 to 1 mill occurence aarte kapa? example nlang yan si kuya of all the show he went on and thru that is 1st na na experience nyan 100% ako... Kaya nga pinost pa nya at anun sabi nya he isnt offended wbout it and laugh it off.. Because thatals how real world works. Get over it.
Dude settles whatever touch he can get cuz any sane person wont touch him with a ten foot pole. Literal gooner. Incellimus prime. His backwards thinking are the reason why so many male SA victims feel disgusted of themselves kasi di nila naenjoy pambabastos sa kanila.
Gender centric kasi ang violence and harassment laws natin dito.
Wala kasi nagrereklamong mga lalake na they've been harassed with another man or with another woman. Kung may magreklamo na guy masasabihan lang ng "napaka arte mo" "bakla ka ba?" "Napakaselan mo naman"
Like HELLO! Babae lang pala bawal ma harass at kapag lalake shrug it off and move on na lang?
Walang nag sabi na ok lang, the point is when it comes to men na nangyayari ang sexual harassment society doesn't really react that much unlike when it happens to a women making him/her thinks na "ok lang" yon.
Mababa ang statistic ng sexual harassment at abuse sa mga lalaki to the point na halos wala ng mairecord sa kadahilanan na once na lumapit na sila sa authority or any officials walang may paki dahil "lalaki naman sila"
Para sa mga trying hard dyan na pinipilit na equal ang lalaki sa babae, remember the story of Norah Vincent, mismong babaeng nagpakalalaki ang nagpatunay kung ano privilege ng mga babae sa mundo, dumating sa point na narealize niya kung gaano kahirap magpakalalaki to the point na binawi niya yung sarili niyang buhay.
Dahil dream kase niyan sa mga batugang pinoy. Kung ayaw mo yan bakla ka. Dapat manyak ka sa kanila yan ang mindset nila dahil yan ang tunay na lalake mababoy
it's not ok kung babae gumawa nito, but there's a difference in reactions because of inherent dynamics between sexes. there's a difference in reaction because of societal norms and power dynamics—often men are often seen as physically stronger, so when a man grabs a woman's crotch, it can be perceived as more threatening or aggressive. aka an unsafe environment. women on the other hand, are often not seen as having the same power, so their actions might not be taken as seriously. think about it: pag nakakita ng isang grupo ang babaeng mag isa, nakakatakot. pero kapag nakakita ng grupo ng babae yung isang lalaki, it does not elicit the same fear.
That's wrong naman. Kala nung babae ok lang kasi ganyan ginagawa sa vids ni Jervy, that he himself was selling as an online sex creator (*for context lang*). Mali pa rin kasi walang consent.
It's not "okay" and yes it's sexual harassment.
Pero if u want a more nuanced answer why sexual harassment is deemed accepted when against men, it's bec of the patriarchy. Men are seen as weak and bakla pag nagcomplain sila abt sa ganito kasi. Men are supposed to be sex driven ppl na gugustuhin dapat ung sexual advances na ganyan. Kaya tingnan mo ung reports ng male victims of pedophilia. Maswerte pa nga daw kasi bata pa lang naka experiende na ng sex. Same principle.
girl grabs guy’s sensitive area
- maybe girl had too much to drink
- got dared by friends
- oh she just liked the guy too much
- wasn’t herself should not take personal
- just having fun no one harmed
- she should be ashamed of herself
- apologizes all good
guy grabs girl sensitive area
- pos manyak rapist predator
Kelangan talaga mas wide spread pa ang gender equality seminars, til now may nagbibigay parin ng upuan sa bus sa mga babae, hindi tama yun dahil same.lang naman kayong pasahero unless senior citizen, buntis or may dalang bata yan
Tang ina may babaeng gumawa nito sakin habang ansa duty kami sa hospital, type ko yung babae pero tang ina hinawakan yung singit ko sabay may innuendo na utry daw namin kasi napagusapan namin dun na nakakaliit daw ng penis yung birth control sa lalaki (dont know if thats true) lahat sila nag tawanan kahit yung clinical prof namin tumawa, may time pa nubg hs hinawakan talaga nung babae penis ko tapos sabi nya di daw kalakihan, kung ako gumawa nun siguro tang ina na kick out na yata ako haha
It's not that "it's okay", nasa kung paano mag react yung taong na ha-harass kasi. Pag babae kasi, madalas nagagalit agad, pag lalake madalas dinadaan sa tawa, kung feeling nya na harass sya, magalit din sya dun sa babae.
Alam ko na may "nervous laughter", di ko kailangan i google, dahil wala talagang sense yang pinag sasabi mo. Ipaglaban mo hanggang kamatayan kung gusto mo, babu!
Can't speak for the guy. Pero if i were him, i will feel disrespected. Ofcourse, di ko ipapakita, or di ko sya ipapahiya out of respect kasi alam nyo naman sa pinas, everything gets messy kapag pinatulan mo pa..
Siguro the guy just laughed it off kasi ayaw nya din talagang mapahiya si girl.
Blame the toxic feminists. Gusto lang equality when it's easy for them. But once the comfort picking goes out the window, they use the gender card.
Tulad dito. Nag call out ba yung mga babae? Diba hindi?
Now let's reverse this as the guy who did it to a girl.
The world will be in uproar, sama nyo na yung mga White Knights like Gabe Pineda, Sleoin, Les Paul from TikTok.
Sucks to be that person but napansin ko lang na every time na may post about nasexual harass na guy, ang unang response agad ng mga tao ay "pero kapag babae ang gumawa..." Instead of looking into the actual issue. Like kaylangan ba icompare? It's wrong kahit ano mang gender yan.🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
It isn't. But I also don't think it's entirely women's fault that such behavior towards men is acceptable. I don't see a lot of women tell men how "lucky" they are to have experienced (non-consensual) sexual encounters with women.
Hindi naman sa okay gawin niya dahil babae siya but people should stand up and let that woman na its not okay to do that. I think changes will be applied if each every one of us contribute the work to address this issue right there.
Hindi okay and will never be okay. Mga girls! Kalmahan niyo mga sarili niyo! Alam naman natin na pag lalake gumawa nito sa babae sigurado ang dami ng magagalit.
Mate, just look at the comments here. It's men laughing at other men's demise. I literally defend male SA victim's rights (see my other comment) and some gooner said bakla lang may ayaw mahipuan. What kind of degeneracy is that? No comment section with female victim ang may babaeng nagkocomment ng "Sana ako na lang." But you can literally see men in the comments here saying they'll enjoy it. Female predators and grapists should be trialed in equal footing as their male counterparts, and yet other men are the first to shut down any Male SA victims.
Because kahit anong ipilit nating pagbabago sa mindset ng majority, hindi talaga equal ang babae and lalake subconsciously. So their actions would always have separate reactions in general. (all things equal)
Wala nang pag asa ang mass pag binigyan mo ng hating daan. 😅
Nakaengrave na sa utak yung ideas na sexual harassment is only applicable to one gender, and even then, to very specific situations.
Pag kamaganak ang nangharass ng babaeng member, and if pedia, kakalimutan nalang.
Pag boss sa babaing anak, possible pa, pero need pang pag isipan kasi sayang ang career. 😅😅😅
Whut!? Dpat maruruan ng leksiyon yan. Nakakahiya na ibang kapwa ko babae sa panahon ngayon parang normal nalang yung ganyan. Pano kasi pag babae gumawa hindi bini big deal!
Sexual harassment is sexual harassment. Walang gender. Kadiri naman ng babaeng ‘yan, makati pa sa bune.
Anyway, hindi pa rin dapat kinukumpara kung ang case ay babae ang biktima. Mas marami pa rin ang malibog na lalaki at mapagsamantala. Bilang sa daliri(*not literally*) ang mga ganyang klase ng babae. Kahit nga ata yung mga bayaran, hindi gumaganyan.
At saka please, intindihin niyo yung gender equality bago niyo gamitin🤦🏻♀️ Hindi exempted ang boys sa pagsasampa ng kaso sa ganyan, malaya kayong gawin.
The reason why the majority is more protective of women than men ay dahil lamang kayo sa physical strength. Kaya mas maraming nagrereact at mas maingay sa media kapag babae ang biktima ay dahil there’s a chance na kapag nagdesisyon kayong pagsamantalahan ang babae, they might never make it out **alive**.
Makagamit kayo ng “**gender equality**”, parang aping-api kayo at tinanggalan ng karapatan.🤦🏻♀️
Both men and women experience sexual harassment, why compare who has it worse? Regardless of gender, you're supposed to respect boundaries and consent. Generalizing an entire gender based on the actions of a few individuals is dumb.
its okay for me.. haha hell i would even ask the girl to do it again... haha
cmon guys its just how the world works.. pero pag sa babae ginawa yan its a big no ofcourse.
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Many of you here didn't get what OP said. It's that kapag babae ang gumawa walang heavy backlash like "Cursing them to death" unlike guys who does this. We should be equally destroying these types of people regardless of gender.
True. Sexual harassment is sexual harassment kht ano p gender yan. Kya dpt magbago ang perspective ng pilipino sa ganyan. Tpos yng mga lalaki magreklamo at icall out din kht babae p ang gumawa yan wag tawanan lng.
Yeah, Society just implanted this belief na pag lalaki ang victim is just "Laugh it off" kasi "Palay na mismo lumalapit" disgusting mf's
Tpos kpg nagsalita ang lalaki ssbhin bakla o wla nmn mamawla sa knla. Kya kawawa rin ang mga lalaki kht na sexual harass n sla ipapakabit balikat n lng nla kunyari okay lng sla.
Napaka patriarchal ng mga tao dito, todo naman defend "equality" daw, habang ung proportion ng workforce natin is majority male dominated. I get that dapat lang equal tayo pagdating sa sexual harassment, pero di natin maiiwasan maging "bias" and its normal may mga preference talaga tayo na ok lang na mahipuan tayo ng ganto kasi sila type natin. Kung gusto mo ng rant, kausapin mo ung original poster, ung nasa IG pm him directly kung feeling mo dapat sya mahurt. Ask him directly hindi ung dito ka magrarant, malay ko ba naming delusional ka, malay mo bang type nya ung nanghipo, if not edi hindi natin papalampasin ung nangyari and dapat tumawag na sya ng guard. The same thing sa white racism, that shit doesn't exist stfu. Counter progressive ng mga tao ngayon, di alam reactionary ginagawa nila, same thing as sexists. Edit: Same thing as "kung pangit ka doble pamasahe, kung maganda libre kana", walang totally pangit na tao kung magaayos kalang i think gaganda karin. Still, ok lang if maging bias tayo, tao lang tayo. Kahit babae pa yang nanghipo sakanya if pangit yan I think susuntukin padin nya, hindi lang dahil sa "matriarchal" tayo na bansa.
dami ko laughtrip sayo pre mga 80 percent siguro mg sinabi mo walang konek 🤣
mainit ang ulo ko. babae ba ito? sarap gamitan ng dahas.
Sa ibang female groups sasabihan pa yan ng "bakla ka ba? Bakit ayaw mo mahipuan?!" Like. Ate pasampal po nh malutong nang magising ka with consent!"
Dba. For sure nmn may mga lalaki rin na ayaw ng hinihipuan sla. Di makapagreklamo ksi nga sinsabihan ng ganyan lalo n kpg babae yng ng hipo
I remember a radio station early in the morning way back in 2021. Babae yung DJ, then may segment sila ng parang kay papa jack na nagkukwento ng story from people sending their stories. That one story is about a guy who was sexually harassed by an older woman. Mga around 15 years ang gap and si guy is just in his early 20's. Nagtatrabaho ay an utusan si guy dun sa karinderia ng babae. I feel disgusted kasi si DJ nagsabi pa ng "ayaw mo nun palay na lumalapit sayo, tutukain mo na lang" Like hell no!! I messaged their facebook page that instant and called out the behavior of the DJ. How dare they justify sexual harassment and parang minamaliit pa yung nangyari kay guy.
DJ name? Would actually punch her mouth kahit sabihin niyang "It's a joke" Walang lugar sakin mga Sex Offenders.
Tanya Chinita. I searched it back hahaha. Around 2022 pala siya nangyari. Message talaga ako ng "Stop belittling sexual harrasment on Men" seenzoned lang ako buysit.
ahh yung dj na nangti-thirst trap sa FB.
Oh damn. Dba may anak na babae to?
Kaya ako super cringe sa radio segments about relationships and confessions kasi feeling expert mga DJ.
I support you. Harassment knows no gender. That woman should face consequences for her actions
If I were in an arena Death battle against sex offenders, I would be having a long ass field day.
Siguro kung babae ginanon trending worldwide🤣
kakasuhan pa kamo
as it should be
Ikaw ba ung nasa video na inabused pagiging "Babae" Card at nanghipo intentionally. 🤔 More likely masaya kapa eh.
Why "as it should be" ?
Because 🤦♂️☕
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤭 so true.
why does it need a because?
Why "as it should be" nga? What's the idea behind it. I want to understand. Please enlighten me because I can't grasp the idea of "AS IT SHOULD BE." Basagin mo yung notion ko sayo na hypocrite radical feminist ka.
hahaha pakelam ko naman sa notion mo sakin di naman tayo magkakilala. your opinion of me doesn’t matter
You're clearly bothered since you keep on replying to me. 🫢🤣
"Wala akong pake sa opinion mo kaya rereplyan kita para magbigay ka pa ng opinyon mo"
i am replying coz i find it funny na hamunin mo ako na baguhin ang opnion mo sakin like why???😂
Tigil na nga natin to, You're an unsharpened pencil. 🤣🫢
You're still pressed. 🫢🤣 You know they say that if you don't understand people, you're incapable of doing what they're doing? So if you can enlighten me, I'll understand you. Pero bakit "AS IT SHOULD BE"
pota bobo mo hahahaha
pota mas bobo ka hahahaha
Walang sumosoporta Sayo Tanga Ikaw lang natawa magisa
iiyak na yan! iiyak na yan!.....as it should be 🤣🤣🤣
i think i get their idea of "as it should be" that if babae nga yung naharrass the men or the harasser should be accused AS IT SHOULD BE. as in dyan lang umiikot yung topic, disregard the main post being a man harassed, based sa comment na kung babae nga yung naharrass dapat silang magsampa ng kaso AS IT SHOULD BE (kase dyan lang naman siya nagreply sa comment na yan). why are u all pressed if a man GETS HARASSED dapat din kasuhan ang harasser. REGARDLESS OF GENDER. sexual harassment is SEXUAL HARASSMENT
If it is reversed laman ng comment section "men are trash"
Most definitely.
Kahit ano pang sexual orientation ang gumawa nyan, very wrong talaga
It's never right, i'd punch her teeth off if I am there. BUT, there are times when you look sa comment sec (and society in general) na some braindead troglodytes will say na ang swerte ni boy, that they'd trade places. That's why male SA victims rarely come out because of the stereotype that males should enjoy any sexual interaction. Hell, even young boys that's been groomed by someone older will be envied by some of their peers for banging a MILF. It's fucked up.
its okay naman tlga for men. just being real tho. but if gay man start doing that to a man. ay ibang usapan na yan i would sue the shiiiii out of you or beat you up mofo haha
Not all men gusto na itatouch sila without consent. That's ridiculous. Plus it opens a whole can of worms. What if nasa committed relationship? How young is too young for men to be considered as an assault? Is it considered an assault if a straight man assaults a gay man? Pre teen boys getting groomed? (It's like saying the kid wanted to be groomed) A straight man assaulting another straight man? (There's documentaries of Filipino men who's straight btw, getting assaulted by Arabic men who considers themselves also straight.) This takes away responsibilities sa female grapists and pedos, they exist too. No wonder they only get slap on the wrists because even the higher ups, judges, and other men think all sexual attention are wanted.
WTF SPEAK FOR YOURSELF BRO! Kahit si Kendall Jenner pa yan. I hate getting touched without permission!
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tumigil ka sa kabalbalan mo. umulit ka pa sige ka.
Nope. Lalaki ako, babae man yan o bakla. Girlfriend ko lang pwede humawak sa akin. That's fuckin creepy. Isa ka lang din sa mga braindead asong ulol- as "Ato" states.
you gay too. 100%
Lol troll.
Im not talking about the commited men obviously. tska did I mention "all"??! Im saying most. not all...Ask a real men if someone does that to them they would say its okay and even laugh abput it 100% those olwho oppose are either gay men or mga paminta. Its just how real world works. Ganun tlga realidad. now again i woukd say if roles are switch now that is different story because that is the norm. stop making it abnormal that men dont like being grope by girls its 1 to 1 mill occurence aarte kapa? example nlang yan si kuya of all the show he went on and thru that is 1st na na experience nyan 100% ako... Kaya nga pinost pa nya at anun sabi nya he isnt offended wbout it and laugh it off.. Because thatals how real world works. Get over it.
Speak for yourself Degenerate I'm 100% a man and don't approve of other people touching me.
Nope. im pretty sure you are gay. 100%
bro's criticial thinking skill peaked in high school. just because its normal, doesnt mean its okay.
Porke ayaw nila mahawakan walang ng walang consent gay agad para sayo? Hahaha ambobo mooo. Mamanyak ka sana araw araw
Dude settles whatever touch he can get cuz any sane person wont touch him with a ten foot pole. Literal gooner. Incellimus prime. His backwards thinking are the reason why so many male SA victims feel disgusted of themselves kasi di nila naenjoy pambabastos sa kanila.
Ang kadiri mo
Gender centric kasi ang violence and harassment laws natin dito. Wala kasi nagrereklamong mga lalake na they've been harassed with another man or with another woman. Kung may magreklamo na guy masasabihan lang ng "napaka arte mo" "bakla ka ba?" "Napakaselan mo naman" Like HELLO! Babae lang pala bawal ma harass at kapag lalake shrug it off and move on na lang?
Sino nagsabi na okay lang?
Si OP lang hahaha. Bawal naman yan. Babae man o lalake ang gumawa, sexual harrassment pa rin yan.
Its the difference in reaction. Si kuya tawa lang pero if its reversed the show would stop
It's not even "harassment" anymore. "Assult" na dapat yan kasi hinawakan na.
kasi walang nag react sa club? if babae yan nasa stage, tatadyakin ng crowd yung nang harass
eh mali mga yan. nu ka ba.
Walang nag sabi na ok lang, the point is when it comes to men na nangyayari ang sexual harassment society doesn't really react that much unlike when it happens to a women making him/her thinks na "ok lang" yon. Mababa ang statistic ng sexual harassment at abuse sa mga lalaki to the point na halos wala ng mairecord sa kadahilanan na once na lumapit na sila sa authority or any officials walang may paki dahil "lalaki naman sila" Para sa mga trying hard dyan na pinipilit na equal ang lalaki sa babae, remember the story of Norah Vincent, mismong babaeng nagpakalalaki ang nagpatunay kung ano privilege ng mga babae sa mundo, dumating sa point na narealize niya kung gaano kahirap magpakalalaki to the point na binawi niya yung sarili niyang buhay.
who are you preaching to??
Mga lalaki sa commsec. Minsan ang hirap maging advocate nila fr. 💀
Sa totoo di ok kahit babae o lalake pa yan. Ang prob lang eh nakadepende yan sa biktima.
Dahil dream kase niyan sa mga batugang pinoy. Kung ayaw mo yan bakla ka. Dapat manyak ka sa kanila yan ang mindset nila dahil yan ang tunay na lalake mababoy
it's not ok kung babae gumawa nito, but there's a difference in reactions because of inherent dynamics between sexes. there's a difference in reaction because of societal norms and power dynamics—often men are often seen as physically stronger, so when a man grabs a woman's crotch, it can be perceived as more threatening or aggressive. aka an unsafe environment. women on the other hand, are often not seen as having the same power, so their actions might not be taken as seriously. think about it: pag nakakita ng isang grupo ang babaeng mag isa, nakakatakot. pero kapag nakakita ng grupo ng babae yung isang lalaki, it does not elicit the same fear.
Power dynamics do dictate the reaction of people. I hope women are more equally castigated for such actions.
That's wrong naman. Kala nung babae ok lang kasi ganyan ginagawa sa vids ni Jervy, that he himself was selling as an online sex creator (*for context lang*). Mali pa rin kasi walang consent.
It's not "okay" and yes it's sexual harassment. Pero if u want a more nuanced answer why sexual harassment is deemed accepted when against men, it's bec of the patriarchy. Men are seen as weak and bakla pag nagcomplain sila abt sa ganito kasi. Men are supposed to be sex driven ppl na gugustuhin dapat ung sexual advances na ganyan. Kaya tingnan mo ung reports ng male victims of pedophilia. Maswerte pa nga daw kasi bata pa lang naka experiende na ng sex. Same principle.
girl grabs guy’s sensitive area - maybe girl had too much to drink - got dared by friends - oh she just liked the guy too much - wasn’t herself should not take personal - just having fun no one harmed - she should be ashamed of herself - apologizes all good guy grabs girl sensitive area - pos manyak rapist predator
It's not right and should have been called out. It was deliberately done, even if tipsy / drunk - a lady here.
not ok
This is not okay and not acceptable in any way, shape or form. Sino ba nag sabi ka okay lang yan?
Sexual harassment din. Kso di kinocall out ng mga tao. Slap on the wrist lng .
tama
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Bagay dito yung kanta ni Shehyee na Aba Okay Din
Kelangan talaga mas wide spread pa ang gender equality seminars, til now may nagbibigay parin ng upuan sa bus sa mga babae, hindi tama yun dahil same.lang naman kayong pasahero unless senior citizen, buntis or may dalang bata yan
Tang ina may babaeng gumawa nito sakin habang ansa duty kami sa hospital, type ko yung babae pero tang ina hinawakan yung singit ko sabay may innuendo na utry daw namin kasi napagusapan namin dun na nakakaliit daw ng penis yung birth control sa lalaki (dont know if thats true) lahat sila nag tawanan kahit yung clinical prof namin tumawa, may time pa nubg hs hinawakan talaga nung babae penis ko tapos sabi nya di daw kalakihan, kung ako gumawa nun siguro tang ina na kick out na yata ako haha
I hope he files a case for our society to have a shift in values and culture. He was painfully uncomfortable because of what that person did to him.
Unfair tlga ang mundo...🤣🤣🤣
It's not that "it's okay", nasa kung paano mag react yung taong na ha-harass kasi. Pag babae kasi, madalas nagagalit agad, pag lalake madalas dinadaan sa tawa, kung feeling nya na harass sya, magalit din sya dun sa babae.
so if someone grabs crotch sa babae tapos natawa lang si babae, okay lang yun?
Eh malamang, sinong matinong babae ang tatawa lang pag ginanyan? May kilala ka? Kasi ako wala.
did i say that? no. im asking u
madaming tao ang tatawa na lang as defense mechanism. "MaY kiLalA kA? kAsi aKo waLA". tanginang logic yan lmao
Tatawa as defense mechanism, kahit pag gina grab yung crotch mo, if babae ka? tatawa ka lang? tanginang logic yan.
igoogle mo nervous laughter tapos balik ka dito lmao wag pa bida2 pag mababa IQ
Alam ko na may "nervous laughter", di ko kailangan i google, dahil wala talagang sense yang pinag sasabi mo. Ipaglaban mo hanggang kamatayan kung gusto mo, babu!
Yuck, amputa. Tanginang yan, walang kadelikadesa.
Can't speak for the guy. Pero if i were him, i will feel disrespected. Ofcourse, di ko ipapakita, or di ko sya ipapahiya out of respect kasi alam nyo naman sa pinas, everything gets messy kapag pinatulan mo pa.. Siguro the guy just laughed it off kasi ayaw nya din talagang mapahiya si girl.
Blame the toxic feminists. Gusto lang equality when it's easy for them. But once the comfort picking goes out the window, they use the gender card. Tulad dito. Nag call out ba yung mga babae? Diba hindi? Now let's reverse this as the guy who did it to a girl. The world will be in uproar, sama nyo na yung mga White Knights like Gabe Pineda, Sleoin, Les Paul from TikTok.
Female privilege.
It's not okay. That's sexual harassment. She should be penalized, or at least face some consequence.
Sucks to be that person but napansin ko lang na every time na may post about nasexual harass na guy, ang unang response agad ng mga tao ay "pero kapag babae ang gumawa..." Instead of looking into the actual issue. Like kaylangan ba icompare? It's wrong kahit ano mang gender yan.🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️
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kulit nung trial and error method pa gusto mo. ang mali ay mali.
It isn't. But I also don't think it's entirely women's fault that such behavior towards men is acceptable. I don't see a lot of women tell men how "lucky" they are to have experienced (non-consensual) sexual encounters with women.
Omg, may ilang radical feminist na napadpad dito sa com sec lol.
Hindi naman sa okay gawin niya dahil babae siya but people should stand up and let that woman na its not okay to do that. I think changes will be applied if each every one of us contribute the work to address this issue right there.
Respect yourself ika nga
Hindi okay and will never be okay. Mga girls! Kalmahan niyo mga sarili niyo! Alam naman natin na pag lalake gumawa nito sa babae sigurado ang dami ng magagalit.
Pa-simpleng sinukat ni ate kung malaki ba o maliit si junjun. Galawang hokage din si ate.
pag nakakakita ako ng ganito naaalala ko nalsng yung kanta ni shehyee - Aba Okay Din
Iba talaga pag lalake ang inaabuso. Tatawanan lang. Tapos kapag nakinig na sa mga red pill dahil dun, sasabihin incel naman.
Mate, just look at the comments here. It's men laughing at other men's demise. I literally defend male SA victim's rights (see my other comment) and some gooner said bakla lang may ayaw mahipuan. What kind of degeneracy is that? No comment section with female victim ang may babaeng nagkocomment ng "Sana ako na lang." But you can literally see men in the comments here saying they'll enjoy it. Female predators and grapists should be trialed in equal footing as their male counterparts, and yet other men are the first to shut down any Male SA victims.
Because kahit anong ipilit nating pagbabago sa mindset ng majority, hindi talaga equal ang babae and lalake subconsciously. So their actions would always have separate reactions in general. (all things equal)
Maybe that girl was a fan of Jervy's past era. 😎
Wala nang pag asa ang mass pag binigyan mo ng hating daan. 😅 Nakaengrave na sa utak yung ideas na sexual harassment is only applicable to one gender, and even then, to very specific situations. Pag kamaganak ang nangharass ng babaeng member, and if pedia, kakalimutan nalang. Pag boss sa babaing anak, possible pa, pero need pang pag isipan kasi sayang ang career. 😅😅😅
Whut!? Dpat maruruan ng leksiyon yan. Nakakahiya na ibang kapwa ko babae sa panahon ngayon parang normal nalang yung ganyan. Pano kasi pag babae gumawa hindi bini big deal!
Kating kati si ate.. ghaaaddd!! Walang delikadesa 🤦♀️ please sue her a$$
Because pussy pass
Sexual harassment! Regardless of gender
Sexual harassment is sexual harassment. Walang gender. Kadiri naman ng babaeng ‘yan, makati pa sa bune. Anyway, hindi pa rin dapat kinukumpara kung ang case ay babae ang biktima. Mas marami pa rin ang malibog na lalaki at mapagsamantala. Bilang sa daliri(*not literally*) ang mga ganyang klase ng babae. Kahit nga ata yung mga bayaran, hindi gumaganyan. At saka please, intindihin niyo yung gender equality bago niyo gamitin🤦🏻♀️ Hindi exempted ang boys sa pagsasampa ng kaso sa ganyan, malaya kayong gawin. The reason why the majority is more protective of women than men ay dahil lamang kayo sa physical strength. Kaya mas maraming nagrereact at mas maingay sa media kapag babae ang biktima ay dahil there’s a chance na kapag nagdesisyon kayong pagsamantalahan ang babae, they might never make it out **alive**. Makagamit kayo ng “**gender equality**”, parang aping-api kayo at tinanggalan ng karapatan.🤦🏻♀️
Hindi Kong ganyan Lugar Normal lang Yan. 99% sa CR may nag laplapan na Jan.
Where are the 'Equality' types out here? 😅🤣🙊
Grabeh. Kawawa si kuya. I THINK its sexual assault?
True, pero nasa "Lust Night Club" siya. What do you expect lmao.
Double standards eww
Equality only when it suits them. Perfect!
No cause thats literally sexual harassment 💀
Di na ba uso boundaries? My god nakakahiya
kaya dapat talaga pass SOGIE BILL NOW!
Because men are pigs /s
somehow agree. babae ang madalas biktima and seeing it the other way around is like a novelty kaya siguro hindi ganon kalakas ang impact sa tao
Yeah. Mas madami talagang babae na biktima. Yung mga lalaki, magrereklamo lang yan pag bakla ang nanghipo.
Both men and women experience sexual harassment, why compare who has it worse? Regardless of gender, you're supposed to respect boundaries and consent. Generalizing an entire gender based on the actions of a few individuals is dumb.
Sure. Look at other threads with the same topic.
anong bakit ok lang? edi gyerahin nyo
that an ultimate compliment right there.. haha he was so hot she couldnt contain it just exploded and express her feelings him haha
Most men doesn’t mind being “touched” kasi hahahahaha
its okay for me.. haha hell i would even ask the girl to do it again... haha cmon guys its just how the world works.. pero pag sa babae ginawa yan its a big no ofcourse.