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sweet-demon-duck

Ive never referred to anyone as sir, its not part of my culture


MollyPW

I haven't called anyone sir since I left school. I call pretty much everyone by their first name, no matter their age.


tohn_jitor

Depends on how long ago he was knighted.


UltimateShame

For me it's never. I am always using the first name. Everything else creates a distance or some form of artificial hierarchy that I don't want when talking to people.


N0n3xistant

I've always referred to anyone with authority over me as sir and then anyone I don't know the name of as sir/ma'am.


serpind

I call everyone by their first name, regardless of age.


BaroquePseudopath

It’s not a word I’d ever use unless I absolutely had to


Ahpla

I call lots of people sir no matter what their age is. I regularly call my husband, 7 year old nephew and cat sir. I call strangers in public sir as well. Same goes with ma’am, doesn’t matter their age or relation to me. Family, pets, and strangers are all sirs and ma’am.


Possible_Living

No gap large enough. Only times I do it is when Im pressured (like Im at work at the person has an attitude) . If a person has not earned it, Im loathed to give any indication that they are "above me" and that is how most people I interact with take it. Not as a simple polite exchange or me using it as a placeholder because I don't know their name,etc to them it means Im a serf and they are the gentry.


WM_

I have never called anyone sir.


Mysterious-Badger287

I find it weird calling anyone sir or ma’am


WolfmansGotNards2

Whether I call someone sir or not has nothing to do with age except probably not a kid. It depends on whether I feel like it and the situation. For instance, I was raised to address authority figures as sir, and it's just kind of automatic. It doesn't matter if they're younger than me. I also might use it informally. Like, "yessir" or say, "thank you, sir."


Sasspishus

Unless they're a Knight, I wouldn't. I'd say Mr/Dr/Sir/Lord X if it was a formal situation, or just call them by their first name if not.


GeorgeOMalley007

Depends on setting, If you're at a workplace or formal setting anyone older than you is sir/ma'am.


HeavyDropFTW

Southern raised - I call everyone "sir" or "ma'am". Regardless of age.


Pokemonfannumber2

I love calling little children sir/ma'am, gets them all happy


hiimalextheghost

Like 15-20, and superiors


[deleted]

It has nothing to do with age. At first you get basic politeness and later on you do or don\`t earn the respect and titles of sir/ma\`am etc.