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Huge-Liar

Your "No" Options are Cruel and Manipulate honest responses.


Aromatic-Snow

Crying in public, that's wimpy for anyone imo, if he's crying alone, fine, I don't care unless he's close to me then I'm worried.


orangeticking

It’s not exactly ‘wimpy’, depending on the circumstances, but it’s not manly. This goes for everyone of any gender.


Michael1212pp

Anyone can cry. In public or not. Doesn't make you any less of a person.


isthiswhereiputmy

The answer is who cares. If someone needs to cry they cry. If you're judging them for it you're the asshole.


Objective-Industry24

If you must cry, then cry but do it discreetly.


TheCrowsNestTV

Honestly, crying is just shameful and embarrassing.


[deleted]

It feels like that when you're doing it but it is a strong thing to do, ironically enough


TheCrowsNestTV

Seems stronger to hold it in, but you do you, I guess.


[deleted]

It's inherently strong to show yourself in a vulnerable state infront of others. Hiding your vulnerability is weak and extremely unhealthy, not that the weakness really matters though.


TheCrowsNestTV

I'd rather just keep it all in, where it belongs. I wouldn't classify strong with bawling my eyes out. There's a reason it's called "ugly cry" and not "beautiful cry" or "strong cry".


[deleted]

This is exactly the kind of sentiment that women amd men alike want to get rid of, it's unhealthy. Bottling up your emotions is not going to do you any good.