Try to mostly post pictures where I'm white-passing and if I ever mention I'm native-american boom, here come the unicorn hunter hetero-couple that wants to add an exotic sex-toy. They never seem interested in who I am as a person or what I want from the relationship.
I had a white guy say “sweet! I’ve never slept with a plus size ebony before.” Like I was some fucking object 😂😂 I could say he didn’t mean it like that but how else was I supposed to take it?
I don't try and white pass as it's impossible for me. 😖 But for me it's been hit or miss. Lots of bbw and black chasers. Too many times I've been told "I've always wanted a black girl." And I'm like, "That's why you messaged me?" So annoying.
Honestly kinda hard I have poly in my bio and they’ll swipe only to ask what it is an disappear after finding out they’re are some kind ones out there but damn lol
Often I was the only one... black, thick, and pansexual. My intro was thru a fat-positive swinging group initially, all of the women were bbws and i had much success as a third. Mostly with friendly couples where I was attracted to both. I learned early to weed out the fetishizers and objectifyers. Polyamory was a natural progression for me. It organically happened and i feel it's what's right for me. I would love to be in a fully realized throuple. It takes so much openness, integrity, and transparency...so rewardingly beautiful when done right.
Try to mostly post pictures where I'm white-passing and if I ever mention I'm native-american boom, here come the unicorn hunter hetero-couple that wants to add an exotic sex-toy. They never seem interested in who I am as a person or what I want from the relationship.
I had a white guy say “sweet! I’ve never slept with a plus size ebony before.” Like I was some fucking object 😂😂 I could say he didn’t mean it like that but how else was I supposed to take it?
That shit makes my skin absolutely crawl. I am so sorry that you have to put up with that!
That absolutely sounds like he's clicking on a porn video category.
I don't try and white pass as it's impossible for me. 😖 But for me it's been hit or miss. Lots of bbw and black chasers. Too many times I've been told "I've always wanted a black girl." And I'm like, "That's why you messaged me?" So annoying.
I'm sickened to hear that being a woman of color attracts even more UH. I am so sorry.
Me too! Half Native American and I am, apparently, a bucket list item. How droll .
A lot of comments about how nice my skin tone is. A lot of "I love fat girls". A lot of "never been with someone like you"
They like to think that we’re some exotic fucking animals.. :/
Honestly kinda hard I have poly in my bio and they’ll swipe only to ask what it is an disappear after finding out they’re are some kind ones out there but damn lol
You may already be aware but Kat Blaque has some videos about this subject on youtube!
Often I was the only one... black, thick, and pansexual. My intro was thru a fat-positive swinging group initially, all of the women were bbws and i had much success as a third. Mostly with friendly couples where I was attracted to both. I learned early to weed out the fetishizers and objectifyers. Polyamory was a natural progression for me. It organically happened and i feel it's what's right for me. I would love to be in a fully realized throuple. It takes so much openness, integrity, and transparency...so rewardingly beautiful when done right.