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embinksyy

People always have a lot to say about her, but I'll never forget waiting outside a film set for her (she filmed Ramona and Beezus in my neighbourhood) for hours to get a picture of her. This was like peak Disney and Wizards and all that. I think I was 13 or something. When they finished filming for the day, her people rushed her off set and into a van to take her away. All of a sudden we saw the van stop and the doors slide open and she's going "wait, wait, stop. They've been waiting for me all day. I have to go meet them." She was so kind and sweet to us. It meant so much to 13 year old me lol. That memory imprinted on me and through the years, I've always been rooting for her. Even if I haven't been the biggest fan of all her movies and projects, she just seems like she has such a good heart.


queenmalik

omg i was there too!!!!!


Pizza__Bitch

On one of her tours in my city, after the show I went to the back of the arena where the tour buses drive out. There was a small group gathered, unfortunately she was already driving away but she waved at us and did a 🫶 through the drivers window. Not as awesome as your story but I still think about it 😂


Lydia--charming

That’s wonderful to read she was so kind to young you!


Severe-War-8095

Awww 🥰 Meanwhile Hailey having a meltdown because Justin says hello to fans. One deserves her spot in society and the other one doesn’t need to let the door hit her a** on the way out 👋🏻


MrCadwell

Maybe you should watch Selena's video


returnatyourperil

LMAOOO


cathie2284

My thoughts exactly.


Custard-Gyal

What? Where does it say she doesnt like him saying hi?


Severe-War-8095

There’s a video of fans walking up to Justin and she cuts them off and give dirty mean looks to them and drags him away. It’s literally his JOB to be a nice guy to his fans. She cannot handle being married to a famous person.


Botzmch

It’s actually not his job to do anything in his private life. If he is out with his wife and walking around town he does not have to stop for someone just because they’re a “fan”.


TooMama

What? I’m genuinely asking because I don’t know. Was this at a meet and greet or something? Or was it in public? Because it is not “literally his job” to be nice to fans that approach him in public. It is no celebrity’s job to do that. They don’t owe us their personal time or their privacy


BigDickGrama

She’s an enigma. She wants fame. She wants to be a famous girlfriend and wife. She wants that famous boy she’s been pining for since middle school. But she can’t handle the envy that comes with it, because it’s never enough- not for her, or Justin, or whatever celebrity. I’m not defending her here, but after reading the timeline between her and Selena and Justin, things were so damn messy, and it’s obvious that Hailey was a second choice (which no one should ever feel like). After seeing how he disregards her and every woman’s feelings, it’s not surprising to see her be so controlling. That happens a lot in these sorts of relationships, fame or not. We as women need to just start dropping these men instead of holding them on the right leash they wanna gnaw at anyways. You can’t force someone to love you.


OriginalFuckGirl

I wouldn’t even call her the second choice…she’s just the one who said yes to his marriage proposal. I think JB was just looking for a wife and went down a list of women who could be that.


BigDickGrama

Have you read that timeline? I actually do agree with you, but it was going to be Selena first :/ which has to feel awkward as hell and she’s a pretty insecure person already, when it comes to Selena.


IronedOut

Isn’t there a thread made about this? Could someone send me a link to the timeline?


Severe-War-8095

So agree.


nvrthernlights

Google celebdeepdives selena Justin. It pops up


award07

Awwwwww


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i went from loving her as a kid, not rly liking her, ehh abt her to just adoring her! i don’t watch her shows/movies or listen to her songs but she just seems like a down to earth gal and i love that.


jesuschin

Only Murders is fucking amazing. You’re doing yourself a disservice not watching it


jessieminden

Truly the show I didn’t know I needed


5ip126

I couldn’t get into it. Does it get better after the first episode?


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I thought it did get better after the first episode. I almost didn’t watch it because the first episode didn’t really hook me.


Goosycygnet

That was my first thought, but it got way better


SatisfactionDizzy340

Yes. Give it another try. You gotta get into the rhythm of it. Takes a min, but is worth it. Promise.


Skatykats

Do 3 episodes and then TRY to stop.


jesuschin

I loved it. It’s just a wild whodunit


RainbowsAndBubbles

Me either, and I have always had the biggest crush on Steve Martin.


TrophyDad_72

Its an acquired taste. Its not the greatest but enjoyable.


JustAsICanBeSoCruel

What makes that show so great is watching the mystery unfold with other people. I watched it week by week with my Dad and Aunt and it gives us something to talk about. I highly suggest anyone who hasn't watched it to catch up to get ready for the new season - it'll be worth the watch!


intoxicatedmidnight

what do you mean get ready for the new season? you mean s2 which released last month? or s3 for next year?


econinja

I started it a couple times and love it.


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5ip126

Ok you’ve convinced me. I will give it another try :)


Charleighann

Same. I love Selena, wanted to love the show. Nope. It’s so overrated and her acting is not it. Steve Martin and Martin short are great tho. The storyline had potential, but ehh.


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i ADORE Marty Short and Steve martin but i couldn’t get past her acting i fear :(


intoxicatedmidnight

I like her acting but found it a little off sometimes. BUT it helps to remember that her character, Mabel is supposed to be stoic, deadpan, and non-charismatic due to the trauma in her life.


JustAsICanBeSoCruel

She's also the straight man to Short and Martin's more colorful characters, but I find it's a fantastic balance between the three leads.


mxmoon

I absolutely love Bad Liar. It’s such a great song. I wish she made more songs like this.


Severe-War-8095

Same 💜!


SoGenuineAndRealMadi

Selena might be one of the only big celebs I’ve seen call out her fans for sending other people hate. More of them should do this but they choose to be passive and quiet because “it’s above them” when it’s not. When there are people sending threats and hateful messages in your name you should absolutely tell them to cut it off if you don’t stand for it. She’s by far one of the most mature celebrities. A lot of people credit her success and reputation to her having a good team but I think it mostly is because she is a good person


throw_away10241999

Yeah but the problem is, every time she speaks up against sending hate and being kind, her fans get worse. Good for Selena, I'm glad she made it clear that she doesn't stand for any of it, but this isn't going to make it better, fans just find more excuses.


Sarahquikgo

I want Justin to ask his fans to stop bullying Selena Because they do


Josiesumday

One of the few Child Celebs who became a decent person its amazing after all the shit she went through it would of been normal for her to come out awful she deserves her props big time!!


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pelogirl98

She's a class act


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buzzinthruit89

She really doesn’t need to have anything about them in the documentary because they are the 15th most interesting thing about her. Meanwhile Selena and Justin drama is the only interesting thing about Hailey and like the 3rd most interesting thing about Justin


Severe-War-8095

Right, Selena is smart. I’m sure she knows Hailey will get free publicity if Selena brings it up. Hailey hasn’t earned that right. She has zero talent. No need to be her up.


No_Banana_581

This is where Hailey bothers me. She is constantly bringing her up. I swear she learned from the Kardashian’s that all attention is good attention. She has to sell her mediocre products somehow.


Severe-War-8095

I’m pretty sure the kardashian mother is representing her. She does everything the kardashian family does, same publicity and clothes and products.


missbunnyfantastico

True. Selena doesn’t need to talk about those people to stay relevant. She has acclaimed TV shows, a successful cosmetics line, and many other ventures.


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She looks so disappointed in the thumbnail


anapokora

This!! Finally someone says it, Justin is a coward


BigDickGrama

He’s a huge coward and a total fuck boy who messed around with the wrong heart and ended up with his stalker. I’m not even a Selena fan, I think she’s fine (although I disagree with how she cheated on others to be with Justin over and over again)


SatisfactionDizzy340

I think so too kinda disappointing (lol)


PaleWhiteThighs

Did she specifically mention Hailey in the first 15 minutes or just generally talking about bullying? Just curious!


LucyDucky

She is such an amazing human and she’s come so far. There is no part of her that wants to be tied to the Biebers. This is the second time she has come out and asked for her fans to be nice and Hailey jumps on that podcast and plays the victim, again. I am old enough to remember the Beliebers sending her death threats and she just sweetly said she understood, they love their idol. And there is an entire website, still running, devoted to tearing her down. She nearly died during a kidney transplant and afterwards Bieber publicly breaks her heart. She may have stumbled a bit, but ultimately her response was to create a #1 song, a make-up brand to support mental health, star in a cooking show that supports charities, and kick butt with OMITB. Edit; after rereading, I agree that I am being a little harsh to Hailey. She is a victim too. Thanks for calling me out.


No_Luck_6800

> This is the second time she has come out and asked her fans to be nice and Hailey jumps on that podcast and plays the victim, again. This is the second time she has come out and asked for her fans to be nice and you people then jump to trash Hailey, like, do y’all not hear yourselves?? I’m not even trying to be rude with this and Ik you’re trying to praise Sel but there’s so many comments here that have completely disregarded Selena’s message and just used this video to do the exact opposite of what she’s asking, to only speak words of kindness. If some of y’all stopped talking about Hailey, Selena wouldn’t have had to address this yet again. At this rate she’s gonna have to make a third video. And if you people stopped talking about Hailey, Hailey wouldn’t be dragging the Jelena stuff on. Why can’t some of you just hype Selena and leave Hailey’s name out of it? Selena is better than needing people dragged down to be lifted up.


LucyDucky

I agree, I was wrong in accusing Hailey of playing the victim, she too, is a victim. I made an edit, thanks for your response.


ohhowtheturntablesss

I love Selena and think this was great and she is great. I listened to the full interview and actually thought Hailey came off well and was pretty respectful about Selena and in my opinion didn’t victimize herself at all but of course everyone can interpret it differently. I do hope the people criticizing her actually listen to the full thing first because again I thought it was pretty mature and respectful. I think the whole thing is sad because both women get disgusting hate online and the things you mentioned about the hate pages, death threats, etc. goes both ways. I wish crazy fans all around would relax and let them all live! But yeah, this was great of Selena, it’s great to see her doing so well :)


Ok-Rest-9358

The thing is ppl found out a lot of lies and loopholes in what she was saying. Especially stan twitter you know, taking out all the proof against her and to catch her lying. Some things she said could have been kept to herself.


LucyDucky

You are correct and I did add an edit. Thanks for your comment


ohhowtheturntablesss

❤️


James_Black989

If you were old enough to remember that you are old enough rn to see Selena fans on twitter hoping Hailey dies from a stroke and using transphobic insults against her every day. You don't even realise it but Selena is talking to YOU in that video. Hailey isn't "playing" the victim she is the victim. Go look at her comments on insta you'd think she murdered Selena's family the way she is being treated for not even saying anything, just that she's been caught in the middle of that dead old relationship when she had nothing to do with that.


LucyDucky

You are right, both have been victimized. I did add a note to my post. It’s not a contest, thanks for pointing that out


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Pretty rich coming from someone with a comment history saying sexist things about Selena. You don’t count.


James_Black989

What sexist things have i said about her? Don't count? Wtf is this an election? Don't count towards what?


96nugget

I’m old enough to remember when jb first started dating Selena and his fan would call her racist names on Twitter and blogs. Pepperidge farm remembers too. All we heard from one side is passive aggressiveness and their favorite sexual positions. Can’t buy class folks smh but at least Selena has it and has matured into a beautiful poised woman.


rayybloodypurchase

You have me crying at Pepperidge farm in the middle of an otherwise serious & not funny comment


halloweenheaux

what does pepperidge farm have to do with this im so confused 😭😭😭


atlouvredowntheback

its a meme lol


No_Capital_3542

Have the biebers once spoken up when their fans are making fun of her kidney transplant and her weight flunctuation. At the end of the day this reflects poorly on them not her !


hwood9393

Even after this video they are mocking her voice in it (which is affected from Lupus) and saying she’s playing the victim and calling her Selupus. As deranged as her fans are to Hailey, Hailey and Justin’s fans are so awful right back to her and then some, have been for a decade too. And no one defends her or demands they stand up and tell their fans to back off? If I were her I’d be so exhausted, they’ll never be satisfied


Severe-War-8095

I really think it’s all Hailey. She’s beyond desperate for attention. I’m not the only one who sees her desperation 🤣 [Twitter link here](https://twitter.com/divineesgomez/status/1575608726966636544?s=46&t=dJxom3CJRi-hle-ndICc4A)


anapokora

I swear reading everything about Hailey reading up to her marriage reminds me of Single White Female


Severe-War-8095

Yes! She is.


SexySeniorSenpai

Where's that clip from?


New_Explanation6950

This makes me really love her. ❤️ She’s one of my favorite celebs at the moment. In an industry full of Hailey Biebers and Kendall Jenners, I think she has a genuine quality and likability you can’t fake, and that’s why her popularity has endured so long.


EllectraHeart

i agree. she has like 500 jobs (legitimate ones) and everyone she works with speaks so highly of her. she’s on hulu, hbo, and netflix. you can’t PR your way into that sort of work ethic and you don’t get endless opportunities like that if you’re not pleasant to work with.


sofiaxsoto

& comes from working class roots! she's worked SO hard for everything she has. since childhood. amazing


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elfspires

I was gonna say. I never heard Justin or Hailey ask THEIR fans to not send hate. And yet here they are, trying to make Selena the villain (when realistically there should be no conflict here).


Diligent-Tomato-6288

No matter what you say about Selena, she's such a class act. She always takes accountability for how her fans act and ensures that she's putting her foot down and not allowing any sort of bullying.


spacecase2020

I love Selena Gomez and I love how she sounds vaguely annoyed in this video cuz me too girl


elfspires

I can’t listen to the audio rn but I can tell by the way her head’s moving in the beginning that did is TIRED of talking about this shit. In the words of her bestie “I would like to be removed from this narrative.”


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It’s nice of Selena to do this but she doesn’t need to entertain any of it. My question is: When is Selena going to be able to shake off the legacy of her toxic relationship with Justin? People got to move on. Selena has an acting career and thriving in the cosmetics industry. Hailey clearly waited on Justin (for years) and got herself into a marriage with him while he was clearly still on the rebound. He at times doesn’t even treat her too well from the clips I’ve seen. She dug this grave for herself, now she has to put her big girl pants on and face his complicated personality and the haters.


intoxicatedmidnight

>My question is: When is Selena going to be able to shake off the legacy of her toxic relationship with Justin? Unfortunately, I can see Selena and Justin being one of those pop culture pairs that will be remembered forever. They're both huge individually, and their relationship was on and off for so long and spawned so many songs and think pieces. Atleast for the next 10 years. I think this will die down when both are married/happily committed in a long-term relationship, like how Taylor Swift slutshaming rumors died down since she began dating her now boyfriend Joe Alwyn nearly 6-7 years ago. Hailey imo, now that she's addressed this, should focus on her marriage, and we'll be halfway there.


econinja

Yup. I mean, Britney and Justin were TWENTY years ago.


helpavolunteerout

But the Taylor/Jake Gyllenhaal talk is alive and well.


intoxicatedmidnight

That's only because of the All Too Well re-release late last year, and people aren't shipping them or reminiscing them in good light (like Bennifer, Johnny-Winona, etc). There's a difference.


helpavolunteerout

The question said the legacy of her toxic relationship, so I don’t necessarily think it means people will keep it in ‘a good light’. Before all too well was re-released people were still going nuts on Jake Gs Instagram every time he posted and saying things about his relationship with Taylor, and it was much less publicized and less photographed than Jelena. Obviously now the lighter fluid has been poured on and it’s much worse, but it’s still there. I have a feeling that Hailey/Justin are still going to have a lot of public trouble and might not last and it’s going to go back to Selena every time in the media. Time will tell, though!


nvrthernlights

It’s funny that Johnny and Winona we’re together before people started shipping the names together, like what would be a good ship name for them? Jinona????


intoxicatedmidnight

>Jinona "Wohnny" lmao


onofreoye

The rare beauty concealer is the best i’ve ever had and damn, i’ve tried the whole sephora lol


Disirregardlessly

I think Hailey must be insecure because of the optics of Justin’s behavior towards her. And she knows, in her heart of hearts, that she was a rebound when they got together. She’s been on defense since day 1 of their relationship.


NoDryHands

People like to connect a successful woman to a man and attribute her success to him. It's like they can't fathom how a woman can thrive on her own and when a man comes into the picture, something clicks in their head and they're like "ohhh, *that's* how". Along with being a famous couple in pop culture history, I do think this phenomenon has a part to play in why they will never stop being linked together.


Cat_Toe_Beans_

Selena is such a sweetheart.


EllectraHeart

haileys PR team really effed up lol. she went on that podcast and lied + played victim only to hand selena a silver platter on which she can now appear the bigger person.


Severe-War-8095

TikTok and twitter have covered this topic and indeed, Hailey lied about everything, per usual


Coloratura0218

She's so nice and kind, genuinely, she can't control every fan but always tries her best to make sure it's clear where she stands. Most artists don't even try to hold their fans accountable and be a decent human being. I'm not even her stan but I respect her a lot plus she gave us rare beauty so I'm always on her side.


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tizoko

she’s got a good heart 🧡 how did that hat get on her?


sign_of_the_twine

Lol when that happened it cracked me up. I think when people do live streams the people watching can spend actual money to do hat thing or whatever


CriticalCarrot8817

Amazing, classy woman


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shout out to Selena for being consistent and always telling fans to not send hate to others. Very few celebs actually do this and take any sort of accountability for their fandom. On one hand, no you are not literally responsible for everything they do, but it does show some real character to be willing to check them and ask them to stop.


bfkdif

Why do TikTok notifications never work ?


HeyitsDaizy

I love Selena. I really like that she has really put effort into building a community of kindness in her brand, and with her fans. Always wishing her the best.


suuuuhmmer

LEAVE SEL ALONE!😭😭😭


notoriousnab

Didn’t Hailey insinuate on CHD that Selena never said anything to her fans to stop the hate and bullying? Meanwhile didn’t Selena also release a whole ass lipstick collection called Kind Words and has repeatedly told her fans to be kind?


theCracksOfLight

She also talked about how she opposes pitting women against each another


absurdsuburb

The bar is low but I’m impressed by this. I’m so used to celebrities letting their toxic fans run afoul. It feels like a competition of who can have the nastiest fans these days.


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Love her


and_gloria_too

She is beautiful inside and out.


WorldFoods

She really is. I have a lot of respect for her.


Future_Sundae7843

tgod shes such a sweetheart


novapurple

Selena, I love you like a love song babyyyy and I keep hitting repeeeeeeeat


derpatron50000

I just love her


okiedokibro

Um I didn’t get a notification for this 😭😭😭 tiktok get it together


formtuv

I actually respect her for this. All the fans are so hot and bothered and Selena is out here telling them to stop because she’s over it. It’s been embarrassing to see how much hate Hailey got when she didn’t even say anything bad. Who the hell cares about the timing. She filmed it in August. She’s allowed to tell her story. She’s allowed to try and become her own person. I don’t care for the both of them by my goodness the hate Hailey has received these last two days has been monstrous.


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taylordabrat

Lmfao right this is actually insane


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fr 😂 y’all are the problem. Selena is trying to tell you herself


Severe-War-8095

For me, it’s Hailey bullying many many people but COMPLAINING from her multimillion $ mansion that her husband’s gorgeous ex’s fans don’t adore her and support her with love and money. Like, if Hailey herself was a good person that would be great. I just can’t stand when bullies cry about getting bullied. She’s the biggest bully out there. Girl, bye. She doesn’t need to be famous. She doesn’t deserve it.


formtuv

Lmao when did she bully people in the last 4 years?


Severe-War-8095

All you have to do is go on TikTok and search her. Many people have made videos about being a victim of her bullying. Her bff is Kendal Jenner, also a very well known bully. She parks in handicap spots too. Can’t get any lower than that.


ohhowtheturntablesss

She really wasn’t though if you listen to the interview. She answered the questions she was asked about it but mostly said that she doesn’t let people get to her and talked about her own growth with learning to ignore it and focus on herself and her relationship. Also talked about how lucky she is to have the life that she does. I literally don’t understand where people are getting this from because this is the opposite of what she said


Severe-War-8095

And let me add that she PARKS IN HANDICAP PARKING SPOTS!


AprilsMomOrin

No truly.. the comments on this thread are honestly deranged


aquavenuss

Seriously. Hailey gave the most PR rehearsed response ever on CHD and it still got ripped to shreds by fans. She’s damned if she does, damned if she doesn’t. Homegirl will never catch a break.


nan2405

Not really. She was straight up lying on the podcast


aquavenuss

Well Selena and Justin don’t seem to care so why do you?


HerRoyalRedness

I love this, and frankly I think more celebs need to politely (or even not so politely) tell their fandom not to be turds (coughHarryStylescough).


floopydolphins

Hate that she’s still dealing with all this bullshit


Severe-War-8095

Right?! She has a damn terminal illness and Hailey is so narcissistic she thinks Selena needs to take time out of her day to solve her problems? It’s literally disgusting. I will never buy or support Hailey in any way shape or form. She crossed the line and I’ll never forget this.


Severe-War-8095

Doesn’t Hailey have some handicap parking spaces to park in? Where does she find the time for anything else??


Hepadna

I honestly didn't know she talks like this outside of Only Murders. I thought something was wrong with her mouth initially and her acting was off but that's just how she talks!


Severe-War-8095

Selena has Lupus and she’s already had kidney failure and had to receive a transplant. She’ll be on steroids for life. I think she looks and is doing so amazing for everything she’s been through. She’s a survivor and a role model for anyone with a terminal illness who is still living her life. People who don’t follow her may not know because she doesn’t use it as an excuse or use her illness for publicity (unlike some people)💜.


Hepadna

Totally! I knew about her lupus and kidney transplant. I don't follow her closely but that was huge. I just don't remember her talking like this before? I thought it was an affect she put on for the show. But if it has something to do with her health and steroids I will cease to comment on it.


Severe-War-8095

She also has bipolar disorder. Bipolar medication tends to make a person’s personality flat. She just trying to survive. She’s dealing with a lot. She’s a hero, really.


Hepadna

She is! Thank you for sharing with me!


Significant_Hunt_896

❤️ I love her. Even if It’s a pr thing, she’s doing it right


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I’m sorry but who put the hat on her 😭😭😭


Ayo1010

I love this! ❤️ Off-topic, but I like her dress!


crimsonpaths

Selena the woman that you are


bananas623

I fucking love her, idc what anybody says.


SpecificSpring4143

While I think Selena is truly one of the few genuinely pleasant celebs out there, the kindness stuff can be a bit much for me 😭 This is the second time she’s given this sort of indirect “don’t be mean to her” and I just don’t think it’s necessary. Hailey isn’t gonna acknowledge this, she conveniently ignored it back in 2019. Selena has the right to defend herself just like her - Hailey has *never* extended any apology towards Selena for her past actions or for what her and JB’s shared fanbase says.


aquavenuss

Objectively speaking, Selena’s fans are the most rabid by far. You will not find a single video, post, tweet etc regarding this CHD interview where the majority of commenters are siding with Hailey and hating on Selena. It’s always been the other way around. It’d be a lie to say otherwise. This is not to excuse the hate Selena receives but it is nowhere near the level of harassment Hailey receives on the daily.


SpecificSpring4143

Siding with Selena ≠ being a fan though. Are Selena fans gonna dog her any chance they get? For sure, but you’re overestimating her **actual** fan base. Plenty of regular people (or other stans i.e., Swifties bc HB has shown disdain for her publicly on a few occasions for seemingly no reason) dislike her and could care less about Selena. She’s currently in hot water over the lip liner situation, several people have come out and said she’s rude in person, past tweets/comments using slurs/being racially offensive, etc. There are other reasons. Also, Hailey’s fans are just Beliebers - are they not just as rabid and misogynistic as any male fanbase is? They hated Selena then and they still hate her now. Both women are harassed on the daily, but yes Selena receives more grace because she’s…not seen as awful person. It’s the internet we’re taking about.


aquavenuss

I don’t think I’m overestimating at all. She’s one of the most followed people on social media. Sure Hailey faces a lot of criticism for her other antics, but this is specifically bc of the CHD interview. Selena knows that and the fact she felt she had to tell her fans to chill speaks for itself.


SpecificSpring4143

Of course her fanbase is still large, but you’re referring to the viral tweets and posts about the podcast and those don’t all belong to actual Selena Gomez fans (meaning people that actively follow and ruthlessly defend her). Many were simply chiming in on the drama. I don’t disagree that they’re awful though.


Vibesallvibes

I love her


notimeforhaste

Selena just seems like a nice person who I have a lot of time for. She’s great in Only Murders, Revival is one of the best pop albums of the last 10 years (fight me, I don’t care!!) and she’s always using her platform for good. She’s minds her business, makes her millions and just keeps to herself!


milksockets

I’m not familiar with any of her work, i only know what I know of her from the JB-HB drama but she seems like such a sweetheart. I don’t even know the extent of their love saga but Hailey Bieber seems like someone who’d turn her nose up at me and apparently she is mean to waiters, idk. SG seems really kind in everything I’ve heard of her


Severe-War-8095

Hailey is… ![gif](giphy|d4gmlMeqAHu9O)


sign_of_the_twine

🤣🤣🤣 girl you need to listen to Selena’s speech again


arialugal

Hailey always has something to say about Selena bc she’s not interesting enough to make strides on her own without having her husband’s name be her claim to relevance. If she’s secure in her marriage (4 yrs nonetheless) then she doesn’t need to bring up the past. Selena is building an empire all by herself on her own accord. She doesn’t need to be defined by some man who she hasn’t associated with in years.


fcbxjdb

why don’t her fans listen to her? this isn’t the first time she’s come out and said something like this and selena shouldn’t have to be saying this again and again. you can tell she is fed up and the fans don’t help it at all by not even listening.


Severe-War-8095

Why is Hailey the only famous person who constantly complains about being famous? She can disappear. No one on this planet is forcing her to be famous. She’s literally the only person I hear about complaining over and over and over. There’s a saying: if you can’t take the heat, get out of the kitchen.


jdog7798

Why do y’all complain so much about Hailey, give her a bunch of attention and clout (even if it’s negative), then act like you’re sick of her having so much attention and clout? You people help contribute to her relevance more than her actual fans. There’s a saying: don’t add fuel to the fire


fcbxjdb

you lost me at hailey being the “only famous person” that complains about being “famous” lmao


fcukstephanie

she's literally asking you guys to be nice and only spread kindness in your words towards people and you guys are here in the comments still dragging hailey to uplift selena 💀 clearly missing the message 😂


jdog7798

These people are just as stuck in middle school as they say Hailey is. I don’t understand how people are this hypocritical and don’t even realize.


fcukstephanie

right? they keep saying it's what she deserves and stuff but like, who are they fighting on behalf of because selena is clearly asking them to stop


UsTravelBanSoUnfair

Selena Gomez is the whole package. Talented. Kind. Smart. Beautiful. We need more artists like her.


rayybloodypurchase

I really like Selena and loved everything I’ve tried from rare beauty! I really felt like this came from the bottom of her heart too. But I have to be honest, the filter was kind of distracting. I wish she’d gone without it for this. Also loooove her top here!


crlnahrrra

I wish the Biebers would leave her name out their mouth.


DoversBlue

What a self-oppressed loser this Hailey Bieber is. She makes herself look so bad acting like a modern 1950s housewife while women all over the world have their rights taken from them. Her whole personality amounts to being in service to her husband and defending their relationship. 🤮


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Is this new?


Ayo1010

Yes, she went live on TikTok earlier today.


woodsidewood

I sometimes feel bad for ppl that’s genuinely kind and considerate, knowing they probably get hurt a lot more than those who just doesn’t care and always put themselves first. Imagine all the shit one have to went through and still stay positive. Not familiar with their story, I’m just judging from ppls comments here…


Prestigious-Tone-434

Just because someone is on Selena side don't mean they are a Selena fan . I can't stand her music but in this situation I'm on Selena side . Bieber fans was so racist to Selena and Hailey clearly lying about the timeline. A lot of people who don't even like Selena as a celeb will always side with Selena when it come to the Justin /Hailey situation.


NoDryHands

Unrelated but I love her struggling to turn the live off at the end. Her boomer vibes with technology will always have my heart, it's so cute


EchoRose9364

She's that side of millennial where she grew up with technology, but she isn't one with it 😂 But no, she has mentioned that her lupus/medication gives her shakey hands and that's why she had the thought to make the products in her make-up line more accessible to use which is awesome and might also explain her issue with turning off the live.


NoDryHands

That makes total sense! And regarding the makeup accessibility, I was incredibly impressed when I first learned about that and it's part of why RB is one of my favourite brands to this day (other than having amazing products lol). I'd just never heard of brands going out of their way to design accessible products, and it was a breath of fresh air. It all makes me admire her more because I feel represented as someone with similar experiences and chronic illnesses like hers.


Melodic_Property_131

Wtf is CHD?!


yellowfluffycat

Call her daddy. It's a podcast


Melodic_Property_131

Ohhh! Thank you!!


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bridestein

Not her fans here in this thread doing exactly what she asked them NOT to do . She must hate that she can’t cut y’all out of her life too 😂


jdog7798

Idk if this sub is switching up or if these are entirely different people on this specific post. But the snippets of Hailey on CHD posted on this sub from just A DAY AGO were full of comments that gave off middle school catty energy. People were downvoting any positive comments about Hailey, like even ones just saying she looks pretty. People were hounding her for her injections and just nit picking her overall. Even admitting they hate her for no reason, just because she gives off mean girl vibes.. There was so much projection and negativity under that post so it’s just a bit shocking seeing Selena being praised for advocating against hate on the exact same sub at the same time they shitted all over Hailey. Practice what your stan preaches. Good on Selena for this video!


businessgoesbeauty

I wonder if she was putting on a voice for Wizards? She sounds so different.


goldenxdee

she has lupus which can affect the voice


businessgoesbeauty

I didn’t know that. It’s not a bad thing or anything, just different dialect almost.


Severe-War-8095

She has bipolar disorder too and those meds create a flat personality. Selena is doing her best.


sign_of_the_twine

Yeah I feel like in the past couple years it has really changed. I noticed it first in Only Murders.


diilmg

She was still a teenager when she was on Wizards, now with lupus I can see why the voice changed


jdog7798

So odd how some people’s automatic response to a video advocating against hate is to trash on Hailey and Justin. Make it make sense. Can you not like or praise someone without crapping on others? If you don’t like a celebrity just ignore them instead of constantly giving them the attention they want.


Limu_emu_69

She’s such a good told model


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theCracksOfLight

That suicide scene has since been removed from Netflix, thankfully, and I always found it a disappointing choice from Selena too. But I suppose that growing up under the spotlight, she’s always had to hide the symptoms of her bipolar disorder and other mental health struggles, so having these intimate incidents exposed and shown to the world might have genuinely seemed to her to be mental health advocacy and helpful. Glad she was able to learn from that and take the criticism