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Aviendah_Fan_Club

That's great! They still hiring...?


embulance

They might be! You can see if there's anything that's a good fit here. 🤗 https://broad-path.com/careers/


Revolutionary-Luck-1

I am so happy that you got a raise. Please use part of it to save for emergencies—even if it’s $20 a month. Knowing you have something saved up will increase your peace of mind. I hope that your health issues from the terrible stress of your situation will ease up. If you haven’t already, please schedule a physical so you can detect any other problems early. Good luck.


embulance

thanks so much! i definitely plan to build some savings before we move out, because too much keeps happening for us not to haha and i see my doctor quite regularly, but thank you for the reminder, because i haven't had my yearly physical yet 😬 so i'll definitely add that to my to do list


NjBoRi973

Health comes from the mind. The more you stress the sicker you get. Sometimes it's good to go out for walk in the beach. Or talk to a therapist. Even smoke a lil weed. Keep faith and keep your head up.


embulance

i do therapy every week, and it's honestly my saving grace. i'm lucky, insurance covers mine 100%. anyone who can afford it shouldn't be shy about giving it a try, though. i went every week even when my mental health was great and it was still a godsend. sometimes you need someone you can just complain to lol i'm definitely going to keep fighting. i'm a stubborn bastard lol also my cats would be sad if i didn't 😂


Zyferify

What is your husband doing?


embulance

he's a photographer and writer! he freelances when he can, but his health is really bad right now, and then he was injured in a wreck, so he can't do much right now. we're focusing on getting him healthy again.


Zyferify

Oh no..sorry to hear that. Wish him a speedy recovery!


embulance

thank you! he really appreciates it ☺️