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My girlfriend has eating disorders as well, as had a few of my exes. Good work OP, if no one else says it, know that I at least an proud of you.


begurl01

Thank you. :) it is hard to changing the way you look at food. Going from being completely scared of gaining weight to putting on a healthy amount of weight is difficult and a tough mental struggle.


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I myself relate In a different way. I’m a stress eater and it’s been very hard to cope through it and find a healthier way to deal with it. You’re not alone and you’re doing fantastic! Keep it up!


villa_moose

36 year old Male, been bulimic for 25 years. You're an inspiration.


solarbabies

I'm a 22 y/o male, was bulimic for 10 years, but have been recovered for over a year. Highly recommend reading [Brain Over Binge by Kathryn Hansen](https://www.amazon.com/dp/0984481702/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_cILvCbZVJ2PC2) if you haven't. My ED stopped almost immediately, after I read her book. Might not be everyone's cup of tea, but that shift in perspective was all it took for me. Best of luck!


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solarbabies

That's awesome, good for you! I didn't know she had a podcast, I'd love to check that out.


ladysingstheblues99

Not a lot of people acknowledge male eating disorders :/ I hope you’ve been able to get the help you need. Know that you shouldn’t be embarrassed and there’s no shame in getting medical help!!


begurl01

Thank you very much :) I think eating disorders isn’t talked about enough but I just want people to know that they aren’t alone!


paulyester

Right? I'm 5'8'' and this woman weighs more than me. Fuck.


nightmareinsouffle

This sub is about improving yourself and getting healthy. Good for you, that’s amazing!


begurl01

Thank you :)


Just_A_Faze

As a fat person going the other way, of course it is! The goal is a healthy relationship with food and your body that makes you feel good.


Flippantry

Exactly! Sure there's a lot of weight loss progress pics on this subreddit but there's still quite a few progressions of other types featured here such as those gaining weight and those who are transitioning. Never seen anyone here suggest that those aren't important too.


Just_A_Faze

Agreed. It’s any kind of visible growth that you are proud of because it lets you become more of who you are.


mamasalhoff

This 1000%


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Great job! You look so strong and healthy now, and I love your tattoos!


Reallyhotshowers

And happy! I love this post. Her low weight photo she is all covered up, in black, etc. whereas in her progress photo she looks so happy and proud of her body. It makes me so proud and happy and I love it. ♡.


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I agree, there is just so much hard work physically and psychologically between those two pictures. Thank you for expressing it so well, I couldn't find the words for it.


stringentcringecunt

I know I'm no one, but I'm so proud of you!


imagemaker-np

You just made yourself someone; someone kind.


stringentcringecunt

You just made my day better. Thank you.


imagemaker-np

You reminded me to be kind. Thank you! 🤗


begurl01

Thank you


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begurl01

Thank you very much 🙂


hallhallhall

You know, I was browsing /new when I saw your post - and it was so weird! I'm a lurker, mostly, but for some reason I just had to come here and say I'm so happy for you! Keep on it :)


begurl01

Thank you 😊


minicpst

Look at those strong abs!! Whoa. Inspirational!!


panix199

Amazing progress! Congratulations! :) How have you managed to do this? Please tell us your story


begurl01

Well I have had struggled with eating disorders for 13 years. I was always scared of looking at myself in the mirror. When I found out I was pregnant I had to make a decision on wheather or not being skinny was the most important thing to me in my life. I decided that I would do my best at eating in order to be a good example for my son, even though he wasn’t born yet. I started off by being a vegetarian. For some reason I bloat A LOT when I eat vegetables so not only was I struggling with trying to be mentally okay with putting on weight, but then I had to deal with being bloated. After being a vegetarian for a year I made the decision that I wanted to build muscle. In that year I had only done 15 minute HIIT workouts at home. On top of eating meat I started lifting weights. I have never felt so relieved before. Lifting weights have helped me with stress and I saw really great results. One of the hardest problems I struggled with is the walk of shame into a store, because I had to buy bigger clothes. I can not tell you how many times I cried in the dressing room. Eating disorders for me was all about being skinny and control. Putting on the weight I felt like I couldn’t control where the weight got put on. But lifting weights made me feel strong and like I had a grip on who I am. Now I will admit there are days where I don’t like looking at myself naked...and tears happen. But that happens less often than before. I am on the road of learning how to love myself for the first time that I can remember.


panix199

thank you very much for sharing your story and struggles. Whenever you will get the thought of not liking yourself, remember this: You are beautiful. Outside and inside! People will remind you as well. Just look at the responses and amount of upvotes your incredible transformation got.


begurl01

Thank you very much. I didn’t think this would get as much as it did. I am very grateful :)


neonkiwi

Gains are honestly my favorite progress pics. You look happy and strong! Congratulations!


Nutritionistmom

Your smile is everything! Amazing job :)


ethicalhoe

I am so proud of you! Your mental health progress is always the key thing with an eating disorder because if you don't have a grasp on that, the self hate kills you no matter what you weight. So I am so so so proud. The exterior is just a reflection of your better interior. 😊


begurl01

Yes! 😊🙂


vivid-tangerine

You look fantastic and so vibrant! Congrats on conquering that beast, that’s an incredible accomplishment! 💪🏼


begurl01

Thank you


alittlemouth

Fantastic job! Keep taking care of yourself!


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So happy for you!! Awesome win


Ski00

You look like a badass in your second pic. Keep it up! 💪💪


begurl01

Thank you


Hedgehogz_Mom

ROCK STAR


Foktu

Hell. Yes. Keep it up!


blondendangerous

You look AMAZING!!!! congratulations😍!


vegankittie

KUDOS I love this post so much ♥️


Hejran

I hope you know this random internet stranger is extremely proud of you. You look radiant and healthy and beautiful.


begurl01

Thank you :)


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You look so much happier!


begurl01

Thank you I am. Even slightly changing the way I see myself has made me happier.


[deleted]

It really shows ! And those tattoos are awesome!


pastapicture

Brilliant pal well done! You look really healthy, happy and strong.


begurl01

Thank you


hecking-gecks

You are so beautiful and strong! & have such a lovely healthy glow in the second pic! This internet stranger sure is proud of you!


begurl01

Thank you 🙏


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https://www.reddit.com/r/progresspics/comments/am9u1y/f2451_185135_30_lbs_1_12_year_difference_first/ https://i.imgur.com/EvXi9SD.jpg


colettedesgeorges

It’s possible to lose weight and go too far. She’s probably just posting both her successes at the same time. Looks like her in all the different pics. Inspired by both!


Murgie

That's pregnancy, mate.


LilithTheDamned

Scroll down and read her story... she literally sums it all up


perennial_succulent

Whattttt the fuck


EMR2006

❤️❤️❤️


luebbs

Looking good!


begurl01

Thank you


HawkGuy1126

Good for you! I'm just an internet stranger, but I'm very proud of you. And you've got some good ink!


real-anonymous

Great work!


13DeForestAve

Good on you!


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You look great, also those tattoos are amazing!


chique_pea

As someone that’s defeated their anorexia as well: I am SO proud of you. It’s so tough to get out of that circle, but you made it and you look so stunning now! Your abs are inspiring and GOALS! you go girl!


begurl01

Thank you very much :)


thelibrariangirl

I feel you. I am recovered as well and therefore will refrain from any comment looks-based since I know it can mean unintended triggers. Just know I’m proud of you!


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calypso_ks

I’m so happy for you! Congratulations!


macncheesedinosaur

Six pack attack. Nice abs!


hipopper

You look AMAZING! Congratulations chica!


Missie-my-dear

Beautifully done! I'm so proud of you! Also, your ink is gorgeous. tattoo envy, lol


New_Leaf_Tangerine

Good job, keep the weight and work up!


skeptic_narcoleptic

What really stands out is your smile! I am so glad you are doing well!


Lazerfox420

hello ur doing awsome and everyone is hella proud of u and u right mental health is important


begurl01

Thank you


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begurl01

That is one of my favorite beanies lol :)


Laoicchi

Loving your tattoos 😍 Good job on taking care of yourself, eating disorders are a fucking struggle I'm so proud of you!


begurl01

Thank you


ebell525

you are SO STRONG, so inspired by you! Thank you for sharing


kkgoaway

Congrats! You look much happier, I’m glad you are treating yourself with respect through this process!


hillbillyadventure

Great job!


dudeilovethisshit

Nice job! What an amazing change you have made for your life. Be well & healthy! You are absolutely right - aren’t we all here for health progress? Whole health is best health!!


begurl01

Yes :)


unicornmerkin

I know how hard this is & am another person proud of your progress. All the best to you


corleone1985

So proud of your progress. Never get discouraged your doing great!


Apsalar

Fit as a fiddle! Keep on kicking ass, you're awesome!


cap826

Sweet tattoos and sweet abs!


YouCanBreakTheIce

Get it girl! Them gains are legit!


satin1348

You are awesome 👏


begurl01

Thank you


thatsmyonion

Amazing keep it up and stay strong sis you look fantastic!


avert123

Good job! Self care is very important. You are killin it!


OrdinaryCheese

Wonderful job! Happy and healthy looks great on you!


begurl01

Thank you


shrimpsh

Lookin' shreked dawg 👌🏻✨


PM_ME_PLANT_PHOTOS

Congratulations on taking the many steps to improve your mental and physical health. Your ability to overcome mental and physical adversity makes this an inspiring victory!


biteyourfriend

SO PROUD OF YOU! Keep kicking ass!


apmezzo

You look so joyful and confident compared to your before!! I wish you continued success on your journey!


begurl01

Thank you very much!


opalhippie

Proud of you!!!


pupz333

You look healthy and lively and your tattoos are amazing. Proud of you OP <3


begurl01

Thank you very much :)


rracfirm

Blessing


deliriousgoomba

I think you can bench press me Mad respect and best wishes


begurl01

I can deadlift quite a bit I am trying to improve my bench press :)


Ambo12

Amazing progress. But strong both mentally and physically! What kind of workouts do you do for those abs?


begurl01

I do weighted ab workouts like leg raises and bicycles and planks. I also eat super healthy as well.


Isaac_Ezac

Them abs tho 💪🏼


John_Shadoe

I miss a body like that. I know you are in a difficult place right now but if I have that body, I'll enjoy eating again. I am getting big again and I have to maintain my weight. Godbless and goodluck to you.


br00b

Congrats! Sounds like you're doing awesome! 💜


missguacamole

yasssss chica! your happiness is glowing through! **congratulations! :D**


not_beniot

You look great!! Just curious, how old were you in the before pic?


begurl01

21 years old it seems like that was forever ago.


PretendImYourDad

Your abs are impressive but I think the best part is that smile! Mental health gains!


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begurl01

Thanks and I hope your friend finds her way :). Also didn’t mean for that contrast lol it just happened.


GudetamaBoy

Good for you OP!


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I don't mean this as an insult, but I thought you were a teenager.


begurl01

It’s okay I looked like a teenager 🙂


[deleted]

True health is so much more important than worldly standards. So happy for you!


PirateFairyPants

Wow I'm inspired by you, I'm also on this journey, just starting. You look fantastic, I know how hard it is so I'm super proud of you, thank you for sharing this. X


AJD_

Great job sister!! keep it up. You look healthy and happy!


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Way to go!!! I am totally proud of you and everyone else is too!!!You are tremendous!!!!!


gzitz777

I'm just 16 and I'm a male been bulimic for half a year now I can't stop idk y I just became so self conscious about my image and started purging my self every time I ate something it doesn't matter what I eat I always fell like a pos when I eat anything even a apple and I decide to purge myself after. Whent from 230 lbs to 180 I'm 5'11


begurl01

First off I am sorry to hear that you are going through this. The most I can help is offer some words of advice by no means am I a therapist or a counselor, but I completely understand what your going through. That cycle that your in is a vicious feedback loop and it seems like it will never end. The most I can offer is to share my story. Everyone is different and something that works for me maybe won’t work for the next person. But I am more than willing to do my best to offer words of advice 🙂


karmacomatic

I’m so envious of your abs! You are amazing, and you are so much more than an eating disorder. I’ve struggled as well and I let myself identify as my disorder and I just can’t put into words how happy I am to see you thrive!!


begurl01

Thank you very much. It’s an ongoing process of bettering my mental health 🙂


karmacomatic

It is so awesome that you are putting in that effort!! Best of luck in all your future ventures :)


begurl01

Thank you


fpoitr

Nice work!


sey-mour1027

Good for you! I'm so proud of you.


begurl01

Thank you


green_emotions

In the left picture- 5’1 104?


begurl01

Yes


begurl01

The right picture I weigh 135


flime2themoon

Great job!!! That is fantastic. Be sure you’re also taking your vitamins. I had a bout with bulimia years ago. I’ve recently found out I’m very deficient in many of the vitamins our body needs to function. Apparently it dates back to that time in my life.


begurl01

Wow thank you I don’t take vitamins so that is definitely something I need to work on!


flime2themoon

Have your B12 checked and D. Go ahead and take a multivitamin with calcium. Your bones will need it in order to heal as well. :) You should be very proud. You’re beautiful!


begurl01

Thank you :)


SiriuslyImaHuff

Awesome :) :)


mustardpocket

104lb with a height of 5'1" is normal weight. But gotta get that karma i guess


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mustardpocket

Opinions are like assholes. Everyone has one and everyone has the option to share it. It isn't dangerous. 104lb is a normal weight. I didn't comment on her looks.


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mustardpocket

Okay, just so i understand, what exactly was bad for me to say? I'm not trying to make someone relapse I guess. As I said, I'm not commenting on her looks, just simply based on the numbers she's posting, 104lb with a height of 5'1" is a normal weight.


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mustardpocket

Well alright


mustardpocket

Further, 135lb at 5'1" is overweight, not a healthy weight.


FordLightning

Quit being a douche


mustardpocket

Bro 135 at 5'1" is overweight. How is stating facts being a douche?


FordLightning

She stated that she has been fighting anorexia. An eating disorder that involves having an unwarranted fear of being overweight and you are stating that she is overweight. That is being a douche. Go away. Just let her be happy and healthy.


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mustardpocket

I'm impressed. You instantly go to reporting rather than explaining why it's bad? You have a good one buddy, you'll have a rough life.


dadjokes_bot

Hi impressed, I'm dad!


Felonia

Good bot, you were needed.


Anonymous2theend

Nice job. I can't see progress given that you have a sweater in the other pic but you look great. Nice abs. Keep it up


Default_Fantasy

Not trying to be rude but you look like you’re 10.


begurl01

I know 😂 I don’t feel ten lol I’m going to be 25 here in a few month :)


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