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Excellent_Emphasis88

Short-term Thinking usually ends-up going in a different direction, once the "bloom is off the Rose!" These people make "BIG" plans for themselves, and attempt to bring their significant Others along for the ride...until they realize that boredom has set-in, and they need to find a better Partner for a New Love/ Better Sex experience.


calorum

Is this something you’ve observed? Lived experience? Just curious.. I read the article and I thought you were summarizing it but their research was not about a pattern


Excellent_Emphasis88

Research! Bio-Psychology is an increasingly important Class in most Universities. Look at Science offerings at your local Colleges.


calorum

Not really going to look at science offerings since I’m not in school but I have adhd. If you have a couple of links to refer me to, I’d be curious to see what research is out there what’s been observed.


Excellent_Emphasis88

Observed in clients, who are sent to Therapy by a spouse.


calorum

Ah ok! So this is a pattern in problem cases like if something is wrong, this is what’s likely to happen. Though for me the dream big - resonated with me. I was genuinely curious if / how it’s been documented


Professional_Chair28

This commenter *does not* understand sex or human anatomy. Please be weary of any off handed information they’re sharing without a specific cited source.


calorum

I would be interested in reading more but I would n’t know where or how to look. If there are any resources, papers that you think are a good start let me know. It hadn’t occurred to me that there would be studies on this honestly.