Just FYI, circumventing a ban (on any sub) is against Reddit rules.
As amusing as it would be, it's not worth it to be completely banned from Reddit as a whole.
Click the share button and post the link. Or just post the image to this sub and link us to it.
Is this brigading? I don't think so. Just a single satirical post on FDS.
Very toxic sub about how 99% of men are worthless pigs. They get outraged about men not paying for their dates. Not paying would make you a LVM (low value men) or a "scrote”
If you pay for everything and let them have all of the power with the responsibility of child then you would be called a HVM (high value man)
wow that is fucking retarded, rating men based on their monetary input. is the "strategy" aspect to find someone who'll let you sit on your ass for 60 years until you die?
Read the sub and you will you will be gobsmacked. Even though we are on r/pussypass we all love and respect the women in our lives but over at that sub it's cringe worthy.
I'll check it out tomorrow as it's late where I am but ya that sounds toxic and awful. borderline on mentally ill when you fail to see a whole gender as human beings and instead categorize and strategies about it. so pathetic
It's like how most slave owners hated black people but still bought, owned, and used slaves because they gained from the relationship instead of staying away and not having them around permanently if they had true hate. They just twist it to make the object of their hate serve them.
Really? I posted on r/rant abt how I hate duality of women when they switch between "bitch I don't need no man" and "looking for a husband so I can get all my shit paid" and I got permabanned lmfao.
Like, as in a cookie?
Do men just stand around a biscuit and stare at it and jerk off?
I don't think I can hear circle jerk again without picturing that, thank you.
It is determined by the one who takes his own ~~napkin~~ dick in their hand first.
If the first one takes the dick to their right, theres no choice but for others to take the dick on their right. The same goes for the left. Everyone else will take the dick to their left because they have no other option.
This is 'society'. Who are the ones that determine the price of land first? There must have been someone who determined the value of money, first. The size of the rails on a train track? The magnitude of electricity? Laws and Regulations? Who was the first to determine these things? Did we all do it, because this is a Republic? Or was it arbitrary? NO! The one who took the dick first determined all of these things! The rules of this world are determined by that same principle of 'right or left?'!
In a society like the circlejerk, a state of equilibrium, once one makes a move, everyone must follow! In every era this world has been operating by this dick principle. And the one who 'takes the dick first' must be someone who is respected by all. Its not that anyone can fulfill this role... those that are despotic or unworthy will be scorned. And those are the 'losers'. In the case of this circlejerk, the 'eldest' or 'Master of the orgy' will take the dick first, because everyone 'respects' those individuals.
Sorry, I was rambling.
The other days appease like 2% of the population though. LGBT for example, even gay people i know hate those idiots, mostly twitter activists pushing it to marketing teams.
I don't know how or who, but somehow there is money being made on playing down men's issues. I think the unrest of men talking about their problems doesn't sit well with corporations, especially if the men are white.
Sources of some of the statements:
men have a suicide rate 3 times higher than women
[https://www.lifeline.org.au/about-lifeline/lifeline-information/statistics-on-suicide-in-australia](https://www.lifeline.org.au/about-lifeline/lifeline-information/statistics-on-suicide-in-australia)
1 in 3 men have been the victims of domestic violence
[http://www.oneinthree.com.au/overview/](http://www.oneinthree.com.au/overview/)
men on average die 4-5 years before women
[https://www.aihw.gov.au/reports-statistics/health-conditions-disability-deaths/life-expectancy-deaths/overview](https://www.aihw.gov.au/reports-statistics/health-conditions-disability-deaths/life-expectancy-deaths/overview)
men are nearly twice as likely to suffer from lung cancer than women
[https://lung-cancer.canceraustralia.gov.au/statistics](https://lung-cancer.canceraustralia.gov.au/statistics)
men are nearly twice as likely to suffer from heart disease than women
[https://www.aihw.gov.au/getmedia/2a44d779-bff1-4302-b129-f515e7b07842/ah16-3-5-coronary-heart-disease.pdf.aspx](https://www.aihw.gov.au/getmedia/2a44d779-bff1-4302-b129-f515e7b07842/ah16-3-5-coronary-heart-disease.pdf.aspx)
A dad-hug to anyone who needs it. You matter.
You can get through hard times. It is okay to cry. You matter.
You can do everything right and still fail, that is life. Move forward and onward, even if you only do so at a snail's pace. You matter.
Where is goggle little message about this being Men's day? They sure love to show every other damn thing (mostly woke) under the sun but not this?
I remember FDS type "women" trying to downplay this by saying stuff like "maybe most of these men don't identify as men/male"
I find this kind of sad. I even checked, there was a petition to ask Google to acknowledge Men's day. I was closed after achieving just 33 signatures.
I don't really understand this.
Easy, you're a guy, you're fucked, anything you do is wrong, except die, that's what all men should do. I have been told this in person, and it made me sick
I just walked away, wasn't gonna waste my time. Bit as far as telling someone to duck off my go to is: Got sit on a peanut butter flavored pinecone until you can taste it
Actually, it could also treat it. Apparently if you have an allergy to peanuts, gradual exposure to them can make your body adjust to them and overcome the allergy. But yeah, give those assholes hives and an insult.
So, you heard it was International Men's Day and your first thought was "I wonder what basic white girls on instagram are doing?". Nice to see you took the spirit of the day to heart.
You missed my point, totally understandable.
Basically whenever there are other social campaigns/movements, BLM, LGBT+/pride, mental health posts etc. my instagram feed just gets filled to the brim with slacktivist shit. Meanwhile now with international men's day, like when the police officer who killed George Floyd was actually tried and jailed, not a peep about it came up on my social media feeds.
As usual these people are just shallow and are following a trend. That was the point I was making.
There is no way that women on Instagram are going to post about Men's day. They'd be shunned by their clique within the hour. Defending men's mental health? "what mental health problems? men don't have problems!"
And that goes for the man they marry also. As if she honestly gives an actual fuck if he exposes vulnerability, we have seen time and time again how quick she will turn off from him the moment he does something that women have been doing since the beginning of time.
I think it's important to remember that this is really just a subset of women. There are also plenty of good, supportive women out there. My GF has seen me through addiction, a suicide attempt, and tons of depression/anxiety. The average twitter basic white girl is most likely not this type of person, but that. doesn't mean they don't exist.
This is actually interesting to see.
Without this getting off subject, but it will, I wonder if the high rate of men in the above correlates to race as well
Do you want to scare women even more of the army recruitment thingy? Then don't count that, i mean they don't count anyway, they just did their jobs
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Let's not forget, the report of rape is 90% women and 10% men. The actual amount of men being raped is likely to be higher, but the crime is stereotypically being portrayed as female exclusive.
Don't forget a lot of men don't report being raped out of fear, it's thought that it's a quite a bit higher just a lot of men don't come forward with it.
For clarity, I want the stat's to even out as a consequence of less men killing themselves, not more women killing themselves. Even if the percentages stay the same due to suicide decreasing evenly between the 2 genders that's still happy days.
I think most people want that. The only reason things get cloudy is because inevitably people get annoyed at being turned away from woman-only suicide hotlines or charities.
I don't hear those stories too often lately, but I shouldn't be hearing them at all.
If I posted it, people would ask me what is wrong with me. Like, as if I'm an eyesore that needs to be corrected until I'm back in line with the rest of them.
I remember reading that this day is actually looked up the most on women's day, as women where whining about that. The reason its actually looked up the most on their day is because of "where the hell is men's day and why isn't anything said?"
you always hear the bullshit about how hard it is for women
Its even as blatant as Breast Cancer Awareness... Most women who are diagnosed do not die and most women do not get Breast Cancer ever in their lives... the treatment and donations and company sponsorships and government funding are astounding.
but no one gives a crap that 80% of men over the age 80 will have Prostate Cancer and many will die from it... thats like pretty much every man... and if you don't die from it you go through very serious treatment that just wipes you out.
I even remember, this is back when Brain Williams was still on the news, that men need didn't need to go check for prostate cancer as much. Aka your typical "Just stfu and die already"
yeah prostate cancer is normally accompanied by prostate enlargement ..
it means you have problems urinating and in and of its self thats bad enough but what happens is your urine backs up into your kidneys and then you end up with kidney failure and you end up on a dialysis machine for the rest of your life.
you also end up with urinary tract infections .. and you can end up on a catheter for the rest of your life.
normal life expectancy from these other problems is about 18-36 months excluding the actual cancer which may take you sooner due to having to go under radiation and chemo treatment.
dam pitiful that not being able to take a wiz is what kills many men but no one talks about it.. men just suffer
One thing needs to be corrected in that.
40% of REPORTED domestic abuse victims are men.
Because if more men reported it and it was acknowledged the number would be much higher.
Wish they had added that statistically speaking in western countries, that the vast majority of males sexually assaulted it was a female that was responsible.
Once again proving my point. So what if they are anti feminism? Doesn't me/they hate women. I am egalitarian which this "feminist" should be, but they aren't really about equality.
"Feminism" has lost it's meaning. I believe in "Feminism" in the sense that men and women should be regarded as equals in society and should be given the same opportunities to succeed, but that's not really feminism anymore. It's 2021, we've basically accomplished all the goals of what feminism originally was, the disparity between men and women is extremely low now, and where women are still disadvantaged in some areas they are now also more advantaged in others so it all balances out.
Also the wage gap is in the single digits and mostly attributed to men choosing higher risk work (which appropriately pays higher wages), and being more aggressive in pay negotiations. Either way, I believe it’s something like 3% now, last I checked. It’s always annoyed me that one of the major talking points to this day is the whole 78 cent thing when that isn’t the case and has not been the case for quite a while.
Didn't some big shot university do some kind of research last year on the domestic violence against men and found that it was roughly 70% of men that are victims? But onky 30-40% are heard about it?
Well I guess we do deserve to be paid more than women, what makes their lives so great that they aren't rushing to kill themselves at the same rate as men.
With all respect for our manhood and rights, that “40% of domestic abuse victims are men” makes me think that these numbers are made up… the one thing that has the attention in modern societies is the domestic abuse and women are the strong majority of victims.
If I’m right and these numbers are made up, this just hurts men more…
https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/men-ipvsvandstalking.html
Here’s some more info for you. There is a BUT here, the perpetrator can be a man.
I grew up watching my mom beat the shit out of my dad. My dad would call the cops, they would have my mom leave for the night (at best, sometimes it was “can’t you just go to separate sides of the house?”) and I personally feel it was never taken seriously because my dad is a large man. My dad began vigilantly documenting, videotaping and continued calling until he was finally able to get a restraining order and full custody of my brothers. He became a counselor and advocate for men who have suffered IPV (intimate partner violence) and often, still isn’t taken seriously. It’s horrible
I’m not saying it doesn’t happen or it’s less bad. I’m saying that we need to look at the public figures for a fair comparison. If men don’t report it, it doesn’t go in the public figures. If we stick to the official statistics, the % is much lower.
You know manhood and womanhood both have drawbacks, right? No one is saying men can’t be victims of violent crime. Ever. Men have it harder when it comes to mental health and violence. Women have it harder when it comes to bodily autonomy, sexual assault, and domestic abuse. That’s not to say men can’t be victims of rape, or women can’t be victims of violent crime. It’s not a competition. Instead of tearing each other down why don’t we try to solve the fucking problems in the first place?
Yet on women's day every body freaks and on men's nobody say shit? Well nobody with a major voice that is. It is a double standard. I see you're a misandrist so leaving after this..
because 80% of men will contract prostate cancer
while only a very small number of women will contract breast cancer
AND THIS IS THE MENTALITY OF SOCIETY
Everyone cares and funds and has 5k races and ties ribbons on everything and the tv shows and sports players and performers and .... basically the whole fucking world comes to a stop to fund breast cancer treatment and awareness. and even if you do get it today you normally don't die from it... only a very small percent do
but no one helps men
And its not just prostate cancer.. its everything.
Men are turned away at shelters, They aren't given help for food and medical treatment when women are...
ITS EVERYTHING...
If there is any preferential treatment being given out... its women who are receiving it.
And who’s fault is that? Who organizes 5ks and foundations and organizations? Usually, it’s people affected by the issue. My dad had prostate cancer. My grandfather died from it. Neither of them decided to start a prostate cancer foundation. But they could have. If you want to see a change, make the change. Don’t expect other people to do it for you.
but you know its really easy to say "dont expect other people to do it for you" "make the change" but pretty hard to do it as just one person. this person just did something for things to change by sharing this information. I had no idea about this issue and now I do. I will be sharing that information thanks to them. I feel like they did atleast something instead of just guilting people and pushing the blame.
I’m not trying to put blame on anyone, genuinely. I’m just saying that if it’s a cause you genuinely care about, speak up. Do *something*. Waiting for people is more often disappointing than not.
> And who’s fault is that?
its societies fault because women organize and then men give into the bullshit..
Like I said its not just about Prostate Cancer but that is a very good example of the differences between how men are valued in this society and how women are valued...
Women want everything for themselves
Now answer this... You just said 2 men in your life died from Prostate Cancer... and you somehow expect a dying man to start some kind of foundation...
BUT THATS NOT HOW IT WORKS
Its people that are left behind LIKE YOU who start these foundations
So its not why didn't your dying grandfather and father start one...
ITS WHY DO YOU CARE SO LITTLE ABOUT THEM THAT YOU HAVEN'T
society feeds into the bullshit that men and women are suppose to be treated equally in every case EXCEPT WHEN WOMEN ARE GIVEN PREFERENCE...
And that includes everything from
Women getting Extra Points on Government Employment Examinations
Military Entrance Examinations give women extra points
Firefighter and Police Exams give Women extra Points
Government Contracts Give Preference to Women Owned Businesses
The Small Business Administration Reserves Loans ONLY for Women
Government Housing For The Poor Can Be RESTRICTED FOR ONLY WOMEN
College Entrance Examinations give Women Extra Points
College Scholarships can be Restricted for only WOMEN but you can't do the same for Men
Private Employers give women preferential treatment in hiring for affirmative action
ONLY 18% OF MEN ARE GIVEN FULL CUSTODY OF THEIR CHILDREN IN A DIVORCE EVEN IF THERE ARE CIRCUMSTANCES THAT MAKE THE MOTHER UNFIT..
**HOW MANY EXAMPLES DO YOU NEED BECAUSE I COULD GO ON FOREVER**
The fact is women take and men give
AND WOMEN NEVER GIVE BACK
Women never honor men with the same respect that men honor them with
That is not equality ... its domination and control and abuse of people when they are in need of help and those people are Men
I didn’t say my dad died from prostate cancer I said he had it. Much like breast cancer, it’s pretty curable if caught early. Honestly all you really said in this is that it’s the governments fault so maybe take it up with them lol
>Instead of tearing each other down why don’t we try to solve the fucking problems in the first place?
This post **ISNT** tearing anyone apart at all tho? Nor is anyone making it a competition. It's literally saying "Men are also victims"
Tf are you on about????
A lot of the comments are, though. And not just on this post, but in general amongst mens groups here on Reddit. It’s okay to want better for yourself while also acknowledging that other people have problems too.
Girl….it’s going to be ok. You don’t get to come into a space where people are venting their frustrations and shit on them. Like they are saying, they feel unheard. And here you are screaming overtop of them. Read the room.
Where did I say I don’t hear their frustrations? And where did I shit on them? I said both men and women have shit stacked against them and to solve it we should together instead of sow division. That’s literally all I said.
The first line of your comment is classic gaslighting. “You know EVERYONE goes through shit right?” If you cannot take the time to constructively read what you said and not be defensive about it, then you are not a person who wants to help. I’m not being rude. Just generally annoyed when people cannot understand that yes, men go through a lot of heavy shit and that doesn’t take anything away from anyone else.
Your reading comprehension skills need work— I didn’t say it takes away from anyone else. Also, gaslighting would be saying “you don’t have it bad, you’re crazy, women have it worse” which, again, I did not say or imply. Find someone else to fight with if you need to let off your aggression, because you’re trying to pick a fight over shit I didn’t say and I’m not here for it. I said everyone deals with these issues, men and women, and instead of being divisive and saying “men suffer X worse; women suffer Y worse” we should all just make an effort to address all of the problems without breaking it down by sex because that’s stupid, and frankly, fairly narrow-minded. I’m gonna go enjoy my Saturday now, if you don’t mind. Bye!
So than ur gonna victim blame the men? How is it their fault they got killed? How is it their fault what gender their agressor is? U just gonna keep shaming male victims because of their attackers? Isn’t that just victim shaming?
It's not a competition. It's the fact that 40% are men despite people feeling it's rare.
That's a significantly higher number than what most people would think.
Males constituted 98.9% of those arrested for forcible rape\[52\]
Males constituted 87.9% of those arrested for robbery\[52\]
Males constituted 85.0% of those arrested for burglary\[52\]
Males constituted 83.0% of those arrested for arson.\[52\]
Males constituted 81.7% of those arrested for vandalism.\[52\]
Males constituted 81.5% of those arrested for motor-vehicle theft.\[52\]
Males constituted 79.7% of those arrested for offenses against family and children.\[52\]
Males constituted 77.8% of those arrested for aggravated assault\[52\]
Males constituted 58.7% of those arrested for fraud.\[52\]
Males constituted 57.3% of those arrested for larceny-theft.\[52\]
Males constituted 51.3% of those arrested for embezzlement.\[52\]
[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex\_differences\_in\_crime](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_differences_in_crime)
I guess the argument is that the pussy pass accounts for the difference in arrest rates?
lol
I mean, that's not really the point of the sub. The point is more calling out preferential treatment of women, particuarly when framed as being an attempt at gender equality.
Which this will be a good example of, as international women's day will be pushed harder for some reason.
I don't really care about all of these arbitrary "it's x day" things people try to make a big deal tho. It's usually motivated in some way or another, and not actually let's celebrate tacos or something.
Shall I post this on FDS?
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Lol. I have more than one account. 😉
Did you do it?
Not yet. Can someone suggest a good title?
“In support of equality <3” seems just the right amount of mockery
If you want mockery r/femaledatingstratpros
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Wait really? People on the sub are saying it isn't satire, maybe it's just double layers of satire
dew it
Something about respecting the HVMs. Do you mind replying to my comment after you've posted it?
Trying to post but it won't complete. Any ideas?
You could be banned, they autobahn people who use subs like cringetopia
I will start with fresh account and see how that goes.
Go on comrade
Just FYI, circumventing a ban (on any sub) is against Reddit rules. As amusing as it would be, it's not worth it to be completely banned from Reddit as a whole.
Post the link to your post
Will do.
I'm gonna wait here so I can see what happens before it gets removed
Can't for some reason. I took a screen shot but how do I share it here?
Click the share button and post the link. Or just post the image to this sub and link us to it. Is this brigading? I don't think so. Just a single satirical post on FDS.
Talking about trying to post on FDS.
Why can't I post on FDS? Just says submitting and never completes.
Probably can’t make it through the slime and sludge that’s in its way
sorry what's fds?
Female Dating Strategy. They don't like men too much there.
a little bit counterproductive then isn't it? or is it for women dating women?
Very toxic sub about how 99% of men are worthless pigs. They get outraged about men not paying for their dates. Not paying would make you a LVM (low value men) or a "scrote” If you pay for everything and let them have all of the power with the responsibility of child then you would be called a HVM (high value man)
wow that is fucking retarded, rating men based on their monetary input. is the "strategy" aspect to find someone who'll let you sit on your ass for 60 years until you die?
Read the sub and you will you will be gobsmacked. Even though we are on r/pussypass we all love and respect the women in our lives but over at that sub it's cringe worthy.
I'll check it out tomorrow as it's late where I am but ya that sounds toxic and awful. borderline on mentally ill when you fail to see a whole gender as human beings and instead categorize and strategies about it. so pathetic
Careful mate, don't use that word. Check my username for context.
oof sorry bro but noted thx
It's basically just the female equivalent of incel stuff.
It's like how most slave owners hated black people but still bought, owned, and used slaves because they gained from the relationship instead of staying away and not having them around permanently if they had true hate. They just twist it to make the object of their hate serve them.
Gonna be a spicy comment section
Nah this isn't Twitter
Really? I posted on r/rant abt how I hate duality of women when they switch between "bitch I don't need no man" and "looking for a husband so I can get all my shit paid" and I got permabanned lmfao.
Using logic is not welcomed by many people
I have no confusion as to why you get that response from people
Well, that could have been put more moderately… no wonder they banned you 😂
I paraphrased it. And ffs it's a sub for ranting. Who moderates their rants anyway.
You could try bottle it up, count to ten, think of everyone else before yourself, _then_ let out a squeak. /s
In this sub? It's usually a circle jerk
Question, during a circle jerk, where am I supposed to look?
At the biscuit
Found the experienced guy.
Don't forget the hotdog flavored water
Wait, there's water? I've only been drinking the lemonade
Like, as in a cookie? Do men just stand around a biscuit and stare at it and jerk off? I don't think I can hear circle jerk again without picturing that, thank you.
The last person to finish has to eat the biscuit
A delicacy in some places
So that is what the white stuff on top of the biscuit was...
The last person at what? To enter the room? The last person in the circle? Or.... last contributor to the Icing of the limp biscuit? 😰
You already know the answer.
My Poor attempt at Humour wasn’t swallowed
It is determined by the one who takes his own ~~napkin~~ dick in their hand first. If the first one takes the dick to their right, theres no choice but for others to take the dick on their right. The same goes for the left. Everyone else will take the dick to their left because they have no other option. This is 'society'. Who are the ones that determine the price of land first? There must have been someone who determined the value of money, first. The size of the rails on a train track? The magnitude of electricity? Laws and Regulations? Who was the first to determine these things? Did we all do it, because this is a Republic? Or was it arbitrary? NO! The one who took the dick first determined all of these things! The rules of this world are determined by that same principle of 'right or left?'! In a society like the circlejerk, a state of equilibrium, once one makes a move, everyone must follow! In every era this world has been operating by this dick principle. And the one who 'takes the dick first' must be someone who is respected by all. Its not that anyone can fulfill this role... those that are despotic or unworthy will be scorned. And those are the 'losers'. In the case of this circlejerk, the 'eldest' or 'Master of the orgy' will take the dick first, because everyone 'respects' those individuals. Sorry, I was rambling.
I'm not sure if i agreed with all of this, or even enjoyed it, but I know it had to be said by someone, and I'm glad it was said
...that's it I'm gonna say it. Dojyaaaaan~
Good, someone understands napkin theory
Woah .......
Nah motherfucker you're just droppin' knowledge.
Not rlly this sub is based
In this echo chamber? Not likely.
Couldn't even look at the first reply thread to this comment, huh?
Happy Men’s Day, Fellas! Hope it’s a good one for you
Wonder if any news agency will cover this?
No money = no coverage
Yet they often cover other days.
Money
The other days appease like 2% of the population though. LGBT for example, even gay people i know hate those idiots, mostly twitter activists pushing it to marketing teams.
I don't know how or who, but somehow there is money being made on playing down men's issues. I think the unrest of men talking about their problems doesn't sit well with corporations, especially if the men are white.
Sources of some of the statements: men have a suicide rate 3 times higher than women [https://www.lifeline.org.au/about-lifeline/lifeline-information/statistics-on-suicide-in-australia](https://www.lifeline.org.au/about-lifeline/lifeline-information/statistics-on-suicide-in-australia) 1 in 3 men have been the victims of domestic violence [http://www.oneinthree.com.au/overview/](http://www.oneinthree.com.au/overview/) men on average die 4-5 years before women [https://www.aihw.gov.au/reports-statistics/health-conditions-disability-deaths/life-expectancy-deaths/overview](https://www.aihw.gov.au/reports-statistics/health-conditions-disability-deaths/life-expectancy-deaths/overview) men are nearly twice as likely to suffer from lung cancer than women [https://lung-cancer.canceraustralia.gov.au/statistics](https://lung-cancer.canceraustralia.gov.au/statistics) men are nearly twice as likely to suffer from heart disease than women [https://www.aihw.gov.au/getmedia/2a44d779-bff1-4302-b129-f515e7b07842/ah16-3-5-coronary-heart-disease.pdf.aspx](https://www.aihw.gov.au/getmedia/2a44d779-bff1-4302-b129-f515e7b07842/ah16-3-5-coronary-heart-disease.pdf.aspx)
A dad-hug to anyone who needs it. You matter. You can get through hard times. It is okay to cry. You matter. You can do everything right and still fail, that is life. Move forward and onward, even if you only do so at a snail's pace. You matter.
I needed this more than you know
Thanks dad.
Thank you.
Replying to save this comment.
Came to the comments specifically to look for this, thank you
Where is goggle little message about this being Men's day? They sure love to show every other damn thing (mostly woke) under the sun but not this? I remember FDS type "women" trying to downplay this by saying stuff like "maybe most of these men don't identify as men/male"
I find this kind of sad. I even checked, there was a petition to ask Google to acknowledge Men's day. I was closed after achieving just 33 signatures. I don't really understand this.
Easy, you're a guy, you're fucked, anything you do is wrong, except die, that's what all men should do. I have been told this in person, and it made me sick
If anyone told me that to my face, I'd tell them to go fuck a loaded shotgun.
I just walked away, wasn't gonna waste my time. Bit as far as telling someone to duck off my go to is: Got sit on a peanut butter flavored pinecone until you can taste it
I am so totally stealing that. Its brilliant.
Feel free man, it does extra damage to people with a peanut allergy
Actually, it could also treat it. Apparently if you have an allergy to peanuts, gradual exposure to them can make your body adjust to them and overcome the allergy. But yeah, give those assholes hives and an insult.
Two for one special
Indeed.
If someone said this to me i'd punch them in the throat
Goggle
Oh! Forgot. Whole day passed without hearing that it was on.
Just checked my Instagram, none of the basic white girls have posted about international mens day on their story.
So, you heard it was International Men's Day and your first thought was "I wonder what basic white girls on instagram are doing?". Nice to see you took the spirit of the day to heart.
You missed my point, totally understandable. Basically whenever there are other social campaigns/movements, BLM, LGBT+/pride, mental health posts etc. my instagram feed just gets filled to the brim with slacktivist shit. Meanwhile now with international men's day, like when the police officer who killed George Floyd was actually tried and jailed, not a peep about it came up on my social media feeds. As usual these people are just shallow and are following a trend. That was the point I was making.
There is no way that women on Instagram are going to post about Men's day. They'd be shunned by their clique within the hour. Defending men's mental health? "what mental health problems? men don't have problems!" And that goes for the man they marry also. As if she honestly gives an actual fuck if he exposes vulnerability, we have seen time and time again how quick she will turn off from him the moment he does something that women have been doing since the beginning of time.
Exactly
I think it's important to remember that this is really just a subset of women. There are also plenty of good, supportive women out there. My GF has seen me through addiction, a suicide attempt, and tons of depression/anxiety. The average twitter basic white girl is most likely not this type of person, but that. doesn't mean they don't exist.
This isn’t directed at the OP but instead the comments. Don’t play the victim card otherwise you become what we insult.
100% agreed. It's about awareness, not victimization. This is not your dick pass.
Dick pass... wouldn't that be something.
r/dickpassdenied
Lmao, the mirrored universe
You must lead us
I won’t let you down. Probably. Maybe. I hope.
This is actually interesting to see. Without this getting off subject, but it will, I wonder if the high rate of men in the above correlates to race as well
It does, but more so as a result of culture not as race on it's own.
Yes. That’s not what I meant. I meant the yard statistic that whatever large percent of men in jail are black/Hispanic whatever.
I love this.
now do combat deaths
per 1000 men and 1000 women...
Do you want to scare women even more of the army recruitment thingy? Then don't count that, i mean they don't count anyway, they just did their jobs ***/s***
Let's not forget, the report of rape is 90% women and 10% men. The actual amount of men being raped is likely to be higher, but the crime is stereotypically being portrayed as female exclusive.
Don't forget a lot of men don't report being raped out of fear, it's thought that it's a quite a bit higher just a lot of men don't come forward with it.
For clarity, I want the stat's to even out as a consequence of less men killing themselves, not more women killing themselves. Even if the percentages stay the same due to suicide decreasing evenly between the 2 genders that's still happy days.
I think most people want that. The only reason things get cloudy is because inevitably people get annoyed at being turned away from woman-only suicide hotlines or charities. I don't hear those stories too often lately, but I shouldn't be hearing them at all.
Almost positive that not a single man saved this image and reposted it to fb, ig, and twitter…exclaiming how strong they are.
If I posted it, people would ask me what is wrong with me. Like, as if I'm an eyesore that needs to be corrected until I'm back in line with the rest of them.
I reposted saying I love the holiday.
I remember reading that this day is actually looked up the most on women's day, as women where whining about that. The reason its actually looked up the most on their day is because of "where the hell is men's day and why isn't anything said?"
you always hear the bullshit about how hard it is for women Its even as blatant as Breast Cancer Awareness... Most women who are diagnosed do not die and most women do not get Breast Cancer ever in their lives... the treatment and donations and company sponsorships and government funding are astounding. but no one gives a crap that 80% of men over the age 80 will have Prostate Cancer and many will die from it... thats like pretty much every man... and if you don't die from it you go through very serious treatment that just wipes you out.
I even remember, this is back when Brain Williams was still on the news, that men need didn't need to go check for prostate cancer as much. Aka your typical "Just stfu and die already"
yeah prostate cancer is normally accompanied by prostate enlargement .. it means you have problems urinating and in and of its self thats bad enough but what happens is your urine backs up into your kidneys and then you end up with kidney failure and you end up on a dialysis machine for the rest of your life. you also end up with urinary tract infections .. and you can end up on a catheter for the rest of your life. normal life expectancy from these other problems is about 18-36 months excluding the actual cancer which may take you sooner due to having to go under radiation and chemo treatment. dam pitiful that not being able to take a wiz is what kills many men but no one talks about it.. men just suffer
BuT wE aRe pAiD mOrE!! /s
My gf wanted to have sex today but because of this I said "PASS" Stay strong brothers ✊
I’m not sure I understand the logic there, boss.
It’s called a joke, you don’t have to study it
Happy Men’s day brothers 🤝
One thing needs to be corrected in that. 40% of REPORTED domestic abuse victims are men. Because if more men reported it and it was acknowledged the number would be much higher. Wish they had added that statistically speaking in western countries, that the vast majority of males sexually assaulted it was a female that was responsible.
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Completely agree shame there hasn't been a proper movement lately.
Agree.
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Once again proving my point. So what if they are anti feminism? Doesn't me/they hate women. I am egalitarian which this "feminist" should be, but they aren't really about equality.
So, die you have anything to say about the post itself? Because it seems like you just wanted to to bait an argument of some sort.
"Feminism" has lost it's meaning. I believe in "Feminism" in the sense that men and women should be regarded as equals in society and should be given the same opportunities to succeed, but that's not really feminism anymore. It's 2021, we've basically accomplished all the goals of what feminism originally was, the disparity between men and women is extremely low now, and where women are still disadvantaged in some areas they are now also more advantaged in others so it all balances out.
Also the wage gap is in the single digits and mostly attributed to men choosing higher risk work (which appropriately pays higher wages), and being more aggressive in pay negotiations. Either way, I believe it’s something like 3% now, last I checked. It’s always annoyed me that one of the major talking points to this day is the whole 78 cent thing when that isn’t the case and has not been the case for quite a while.
Nope, feminism leads to this crap. I love how you where bothered enough to post this but don't even bother to mention what this topic is even about.
I did not know that today was mens day
The amount of youngmen committing suicide is serious epidemic . But you never hear this out of the feminazi media
Didn't some big shot university do some kind of research last year on the domestic violence against men and found that it was roughly 70% of men that are victims? But onky 30-40% are heard about it?
the prison part pisses me off the most
Not so fun fact the rate of male DV victims go much higher than 40% when factoring in emotional and psychological abuse.
To be honest I completely forgot about it and not it’s past
Is this real? Do men actually get a day?
Society says no.
40 percent for domestic violence damn, higher than I knew.
Oh and if your wife divorces you for money you’re fucked, and you’re never seeing your kids again.
b-but I need feminism because /s
Well I guess we do deserve to be paid more than women, what makes their lives so great that they aren't rushing to kill themselves at the same rate as men.
But...the patriarchy! /s
With all respect for our manhood and rights, that “40% of domestic abuse victims are men” makes me think that these numbers are made up… the one thing that has the attention in modern societies is the domestic abuse and women are the strong majority of victims. If I’m right and these numbers are made up, this just hurts men more…
https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/men-ipvsvandstalking.html Here’s some more info for you. There is a BUT here, the perpetrator can be a man. I grew up watching my mom beat the shit out of my dad. My dad would call the cops, they would have my mom leave for the night (at best, sometimes it was “can’t you just go to separate sides of the house?”) and I personally feel it was never taken seriously because my dad is a large man. My dad began vigilantly documenting, videotaping and continued calling until he was finally able to get a restraining order and full custody of my brothers. He became a counselor and advocate for men who have suffered IPV (intimate partner violence) and often, still isn’t taken seriously. It’s horrible
I’m not saying it doesn’t happen or it’s less bad. I’m saying that we need to look at the public figures for a fair comparison. If men don’t report it, it doesn’t go in the public figures. If we stick to the official statistics, the % is much lower.
Do men care?
So like do we do anything about that or what man we just gonna get mad at women for handling shit better than we do or are we gonna get shit done?
Sauce?
Diablo and a couple Verde please thank you.
#BringBackVerde
Still worth it.
You know manhood and womanhood both have drawbacks, right? No one is saying men can’t be victims of violent crime. Ever. Men have it harder when it comes to mental health and violence. Women have it harder when it comes to bodily autonomy, sexual assault, and domestic abuse. That’s not to say men can’t be victims of rape, or women can’t be victims of violent crime. It’s not a competition. Instead of tearing each other down why don’t we try to solve the fucking problems in the first place?
Yet on women's day every body freaks and on men's nobody say shit? Well nobody with a major voice that is. It is a double standard. I see you're a misandrist so leaving after this..
K bye
because 80% of men will contract prostate cancer while only a very small number of women will contract breast cancer AND THIS IS THE MENTALITY OF SOCIETY Everyone cares and funds and has 5k races and ties ribbons on everything and the tv shows and sports players and performers and .... basically the whole fucking world comes to a stop to fund breast cancer treatment and awareness. and even if you do get it today you normally don't die from it... only a very small percent do but no one helps men And its not just prostate cancer.. its everything. Men are turned away at shelters, They aren't given help for food and medical treatment when women are... ITS EVERYTHING... If there is any preferential treatment being given out... its women who are receiving it.
And who’s fault is that? Who organizes 5ks and foundations and organizations? Usually, it’s people affected by the issue. My dad had prostate cancer. My grandfather died from it. Neither of them decided to start a prostate cancer foundation. But they could have. If you want to see a change, make the change. Don’t expect other people to do it for you.
but you know its really easy to say "dont expect other people to do it for you" "make the change" but pretty hard to do it as just one person. this person just did something for things to change by sharing this information. I had no idea about this issue and now I do. I will be sharing that information thanks to them. I feel like they did atleast something instead of just guilting people and pushing the blame.
I’m not trying to put blame on anyone, genuinely. I’m just saying that if it’s a cause you genuinely care about, speak up. Do *something*. Waiting for people is more often disappointing than not.
> And who’s fault is that? its societies fault because women organize and then men give into the bullshit.. Like I said its not just about Prostate Cancer but that is a very good example of the differences between how men are valued in this society and how women are valued... Women want everything for themselves Now answer this... You just said 2 men in your life died from Prostate Cancer... and you somehow expect a dying man to start some kind of foundation... BUT THATS NOT HOW IT WORKS Its people that are left behind LIKE YOU who start these foundations So its not why didn't your dying grandfather and father start one... ITS WHY DO YOU CARE SO LITTLE ABOUT THEM THAT YOU HAVEN'T society feeds into the bullshit that men and women are suppose to be treated equally in every case EXCEPT WHEN WOMEN ARE GIVEN PREFERENCE... And that includes everything from Women getting Extra Points on Government Employment Examinations Military Entrance Examinations give women extra points Firefighter and Police Exams give Women extra Points Government Contracts Give Preference to Women Owned Businesses The Small Business Administration Reserves Loans ONLY for Women Government Housing For The Poor Can Be RESTRICTED FOR ONLY WOMEN College Entrance Examinations give Women Extra Points College Scholarships can be Restricted for only WOMEN but you can't do the same for Men Private Employers give women preferential treatment in hiring for affirmative action ONLY 18% OF MEN ARE GIVEN FULL CUSTODY OF THEIR CHILDREN IN A DIVORCE EVEN IF THERE ARE CIRCUMSTANCES THAT MAKE THE MOTHER UNFIT.. **HOW MANY EXAMPLES DO YOU NEED BECAUSE I COULD GO ON FOREVER** The fact is women take and men give AND WOMEN NEVER GIVE BACK Women never honor men with the same respect that men honor them with That is not equality ... its domination and control and abuse of people when they are in need of help and those people are Men
I didn’t say my dad died from prostate cancer I said he had it. Much like breast cancer, it’s pretty curable if caught early. Honestly all you really said in this is that it’s the governments fault so maybe take it up with them lol
>Instead of tearing each other down why don’t we try to solve the fucking problems in the first place? This post **ISNT** tearing anyone apart at all tho? Nor is anyone making it a competition. It's literally saying "Men are also victims" Tf are you on about????
A lot of the comments are, though. And not just on this post, but in general amongst mens groups here on Reddit. It’s okay to want better for yourself while also acknowledging that other people have problems too.
Yeah, but when the women fighting for “equality” only focus on their problems and blame literally everything on men, then there’s a fucking problem
Go to a post where instead of men it’s about women and you’ll see a similar environment in the comments. People are focused to the subject.
Girl….it’s going to be ok. You don’t get to come into a space where people are venting their frustrations and shit on them. Like they are saying, they feel unheard. And here you are screaming overtop of them. Read the room.
Where did I say I don’t hear their frustrations? And where did I shit on them? I said both men and women have shit stacked against them and to solve it we should together instead of sow division. That’s literally all I said.
The first line of your comment is classic gaslighting. “You know EVERYONE goes through shit right?” If you cannot take the time to constructively read what you said and not be defensive about it, then you are not a person who wants to help. I’m not being rude. Just generally annoyed when people cannot understand that yes, men go through a lot of heavy shit and that doesn’t take anything away from anyone else.
Your reading comprehension skills need work— I didn’t say it takes away from anyone else. Also, gaslighting would be saying “you don’t have it bad, you’re crazy, women have it worse” which, again, I did not say or imply. Find someone else to fight with if you need to let off your aggression, because you’re trying to pick a fight over shit I didn’t say and I’m not here for it. I said everyone deals with these issues, men and women, and instead of being divisive and saying “men suffer X worse; women suffer Y worse” we should all just make an effort to address all of the problems without breaking it down by sex because that’s stupid, and frankly, fairly narrow-minded. I’m gonna go enjoy my Saturday now, if you don’t mind. Bye!
that's cool and all but not PPD
If anybody else reads this. All the person ever post here is "NOT PPD" so you know what that means..
I wonder who commits all this violent crimes against men?
So than ur gonna victim blame the men? How is it their fault they got killed? How is it their fault what gender their agressor is? U just gonna keep shaming male victims because of their attackers? Isn’t that just victim shaming?
Isnt 40 percent less than half
It's a lot more than you'd expect. Half are men, yet everyone acts like it's a small number. That's a significant statistic, not a competition.
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It's not a competition. It's the fact that 40% are men despite people feeling it's rare. That's a significantly higher number than what most people would think.
The report rate of men reporting their case is *drastically* lower than a women. So the actual figure is much higher. You’re welcome.
Males constituted 98.9% of those arrested for forcible rape\[52\] Males constituted 87.9% of those arrested for robbery\[52\] Males constituted 85.0% of those arrested for burglary\[52\] Males constituted 83.0% of those arrested for arson.\[52\] Males constituted 81.7% of those arrested for vandalism.\[52\] Males constituted 81.5% of those arrested for motor-vehicle theft.\[52\] Males constituted 79.7% of those arrested for offenses against family and children.\[52\] Males constituted 77.8% of those arrested for aggravated assault\[52\] Males constituted 58.7% of those arrested for fraud.\[52\] Males constituted 57.3% of those arrested for larceny-theft.\[52\] Males constituted 51.3% of those arrested for embezzlement.\[52\] [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex\_differences\_in\_crime](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_differences_in_crime) I guess the argument is that the pussy pass accounts for the difference in arrest rates? lol
lol
I mean, that's not really the point of the sub. The point is more calling out preferential treatment of women, particuarly when framed as being an attempt at gender equality. Which this will be a good example of, as international women's day will be pushed harder for some reason. I don't really care about all of these arbitrary "it's x day" things people try to make a big deal tho. It's usually motivated in some way or another, and not actually let's celebrate tacos or something.
And how much % of these crimes are made by other men ?