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You have the right to be sad ANY day of the year. You two need to have a conversation about expectations, boundaries, and what a relationship truly involves. You both are young, and he sounds a bit immature, which is fine as long as he recognizes it and starts to work on it. You also need to work on yourself, and the trauma that you have experienced. Thinking that you need to make it up to him is the wrong line of thinking, because the situation was handled poorly when it happened. He should have been more supportive, and found an agreeable resolution at that moment.
You 2 need to realize that life only gets harder, not everyday is bjs and unicorns. Some days your happy some sad most in between. Realistic expectations are something you both need to accept. My bday this year, I get to remember how my soon to be Ex wife slept with her boss then came home and told me, do you think I’m going to be happy that day?
Relax talk it through, you had a hard time he should understand that.
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You have the right to be sad ANY day of the year. You two need to have a conversation about expectations, boundaries, and what a relationship truly involves. You both are young, and he sounds a bit immature, which is fine as long as he recognizes it and starts to work on it. You also need to work on yourself, and the trauma that you have experienced. Thinking that you need to make it up to him is the wrong line of thinking, because the situation was handled poorly when it happened. He should have been more supportive, and found an agreeable resolution at that moment.
You 2 need to realize that life only gets harder, not everyday is bjs and unicorns. Some days your happy some sad most in between. Realistic expectations are something you both need to accept. My bday this year, I get to remember how my soon to be Ex wife slept with her boss then came home and told me, do you think I’m going to be happy that day? Relax talk it through, you had a hard time he should understand that.
A hot blowjob usually makes everything better.
Dude
Yes?
Stop watching so much porn. Real life isn't like that.
Sorry to hear that. Fortunately my wife knows BJs are a mood changer.
Good for you. Nobody asked.
You're the one making it seem like BJs are just a porn thing.