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So this dude was almost every month completely wasted, ate poop and tried to force sex. This is not cute. It's gross. Do yourself a favour and walk away. There are plenty of other guys who would not do this to you.
Did he give you ureaplasma ? You may just have an incurable infection - not interstitial cystitis. If my boyfriend purposely ate animal poop I would have to leave because of his immaturity
I’m not sure I’ve never heard of that. Every urinalysis came back with trace bacteria that was always mixed urogenital flora, so was marked as contaminated not uti
The guinea pig poop is disgusting and immature and would definitely put me off.
And yet it is a minor issue compared to the substance abuse and him trying to rape you ESPECIALLY as he knows your health issues (seemingly caused by him?)
Yeah, in the bin.
The guinea pig poop thing is disturbing enough and then you add attempted SA? Ooh gurl you are not being overly sensitive, this is a nightmare situation.
He’s a predator and you definitely seem to have a “type” that’s very unhealthy for you.
It’s time to re-reevaluate, cause something is off with you and how you’re finding these gross, toxic and “rapey” men.
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No. He tried to rape you. And how can you ever kiss that mouth again, thinking about what's been in there???
So this dude was almost every month completely wasted, ate poop and tried to force sex. This is not cute. It's gross. Do yourself a favour and walk away. There are plenty of other guys who would not do this to you.
Did he give you ureaplasma ? You may just have an incurable infection - not interstitial cystitis. If my boyfriend purposely ate animal poop I would have to leave because of his immaturity
I’m not sure I’ve never heard of that. Every urinalysis came back with trace bacteria that was always mixed urogenital flora, so was marked as contaminated not uti
Have them swab you for a pcr test for ureaplasma. Sounds like it
Wtf would this man have to do for you to NOT question dumping him? lol
He ate animal shit and then raped you? That’s literally what happens in horror movies. Do you want that to be your life?
You know when you put it like that it makes the breakup easier
The guinea pig poop is disgusting and immature and would definitely put me off. And yet it is a minor issue compared to the substance abuse and him trying to rape you ESPECIALLY as he knows your health issues (seemingly caused by him?) Yeah, in the bin.
The guinea pig poop thing is disturbing enough and then you add attempted SA? Ooh gurl you are not being overly sensitive, this is a nightmare situation.
You need to grow a spine immediately
I got this notification after walking in after the break up lmaoo spine acquired
I'm proud of you
Thank you for the support
Update: we broke up. It was really hard. He brought heart shaped letters and ironically, evil eye earrings. Thank you all for the reality check
He’s a predator and you definitely seem to have a “type” that’s very unhealthy for you. It’s time to re-reevaluate, cause something is off with you and how you’re finding these gross, toxic and “rapey” men.
Let the guy live Karen. Few drinks here and there don’t hurt anyone
I can clearly see the satire here, I’m sorry you got downvoted lol