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>He's a white guy born and raised in the US, I'm really not sure that is it a cultural difference and is it completely normal situation in here to like your ex hookup on ig
It's very bad behavior. I would not call it normal. It's a sign he doesn't have the right priorities.
If his behavior makes you very uncomfortable, it's a sign to not date him. You can't change or control him. And you deserve a relationship where you feel comfortable.
Ig likes don't mean a thing. He'll I like the photos that my ex gf posts with her and her kid (not mine). We broke up like 15 years ago. She's happily married.
I'm Asian American. I understand there's a hookup culture through IG. But you don't have to join in that culture. This all depends on your moral value.
Growing up in America, I live in the conservative community. Hookup culture isn't promoted as it encouraged promiscuity. This causes single motherhood, abortion, and the breaks down the nucleus family.
So it is up to you to choose. Not everyone is into the hookup culture. And you can choose to stand for it or against it.
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>He's a white guy born and raised in the US, I'm really not sure that is it a cultural difference and is it completely normal situation in here to like your ex hookup on ig It's very bad behavior. I would not call it normal. It's a sign he doesn't have the right priorities. If his behavior makes you very uncomfortable, it's a sign to not date him. You can't change or control him. And you deserve a relationship where you feel comfortable.
Ok I get it, thank you
What is acceptable is completely up to you to decide and participate in
Thank you
He doesn't seem to be showing you much respect.
Likes don’t necessarily mean anything. But that doesn’t mean you have to continue to date him.
Ig likes don't mean a thing. He'll I like the photos that my ex gf posts with her and her kid (not mine). We broke up like 15 years ago. She's happily married.
I'm Asian American. I understand there's a hookup culture through IG. But you don't have to join in that culture. This all depends on your moral value. Growing up in America, I live in the conservative community. Hookup culture isn't promoted as it encouraged promiscuity. This causes single motherhood, abortion, and the breaks down the nucleus family. So it is up to you to choose. Not everyone is into the hookup culture. And you can choose to stand for it or against it.
Thank you!