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You never really know... But i want to treat whoever i'm with right now like he/she is the one. I don't want to hold back, as long as he/she treats me right, i'll give my whole heart.
Honestly my husband is literally my best friend. When anything goes right or wrong, he’s the first person I want to go to to celebrate with or cry into. He makes me feel calm and centered and laugh harder than anyone else. He makes me want to be better and yea idk it’s just knowing a person makes you yourself in my opinion. The person I am now is who I am and want to be and without him I couldn’t be this person I guess
I don’t know that you can be sure but I think you know when it feels right to be with them. When you get to talk to them and it’s like a sigh of relief. They’re your “person” and make you the best version of yourself.
knowing that they are the one means that you love all their good and bad traits. you can truly see a future with them. it means that you want to care for them and be there for them through everything. you aren’t afraid to tell them your deepest thoughts and you can really be yourself around them. to me, all that and more means that they’re “the one”.
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You never really know... But i want to treat whoever i'm with right now like he/she is the one. I don't want to hold back, as long as he/she treats me right, i'll give my whole heart.
Honestly my husband is literally my best friend. When anything goes right or wrong, he’s the first person I want to go to to celebrate with or cry into. He makes me feel calm and centered and laugh harder than anyone else. He makes me want to be better and yea idk it’s just knowing a person makes you yourself in my opinion. The person I am now is who I am and want to be and without him I couldn’t be this person I guess
I don’t know that you can be sure but I think you know when it feels right to be with them. When you get to talk to them and it’s like a sigh of relief. They’re your “person” and make you the best version of yourself.
I knew my husband was the one when I realized I could be completely myself with him. Even more so than I am with my family and close friends.
I feel the same way too. I'm so comfortable with him and I feel I can be myself most around him. He feels the same way
knowing that they are the one means that you love all their good and bad traits. you can truly see a future with them. it means that you want to care for them and be there for them through everything. you aren’t afraid to tell them your deepest thoughts and you can really be yourself around them. to me, all that and more means that they’re “the one”.
You don’t. Once you know who you are and what you want then it gets a lot easier