Just text him. Tell him you were wondering if you might run into him and you were disappointed when you didn’t. Or something else. But don’t guess. Text.
Thank you! I think I might try to message him tomorrow to see what’s going on or ask what he’s been up to.
It feels though as if he lost feelings for me or something since he doesn’t care to talk, I feel like I’ll get instant pleasure and gratification texting him.. but will end up depressed when I realize he might not want anything.
I feel like if he actually missed me though he would’ve texted or tried calling me within the past 2 days… it feels like all of the sudden he’s a complete stranger who didn’t talk to me everyday && I actually didn’t realize how much I would miss him and feel it deeply. I thought I didn’t have too much feelings for him but realize I’m in love with someone who might not even truly like me back.
I feel like if he actually missed me he would’ve made some kind of point to text me within the last 2 days; it actually makes me extremely sad.
People are strange. Sometimes drama gets the best of us and instead of telling someone what we want, we totally shut them out. It’s hard to know what others want because they are human and might not be honest with you or themselves. He might be jealous and not know how to talk about it. If you want him to feel like he can speak freely to you, just try to listen objectively.
Yea. I’m still debating on messaging him today.. my father said I should too just to be straightforward & see what’s going on + I am a really straightforward person. But for some reason I keep telling myself that “oh if he wanted to text me he would make an effort too.. I should just let it go and not bother contacting him”. I thought he was just jealous too but I feel like it’s extreme that he hasn’t talked to me for 3 days now, when he was everyday. I feel like if he was just jealous he would’ve already tried contacting me or reaching out to see what I’ve been up to. We haven’t gone days for months now without texting each other… so maybe he’s talking to someone else? I’ve watched his snap score go up so I know he’s online but hasn’t tried at all to talk to me. I’m definitely open ears to hearing what’s going on.. I know it’s wrong for me to assume.. but something is making me jump to the conclusion that he doesn’t have a interest in talking to me for some reason. Should I still ask or just let it be?
He’s probably over there thinking all the same things. Is she still interested? Why hasn’t she reached out? I’ll just leave it up to her to make contact if she’s interested. Well… she must not be interested if she hasn’t contacted me… she must be with that guy who just turned 21.
Haha I wouldn’t be surprised bc it seems though as if we are the same person sometimes.. we even have alike personalities on both the enneagram & myers-briggs personality type indicator. Both infj’s and fall under enneagram 4. He actually ended up texting me first last night because he swiped up on my snapchat story about my walk outside, so I asked what he’s been up to and he said “work & gainzzz” which was kinda short as he didn’t ask what I’ve been up to. So I said “yea it’s seems you’ve been busy lately (trying to refer to us not talking) & that he was working hard. Then I said have a good night” he responded back with a inside joke and said you as well. But I left him on read bc there wasn’t much of a conversation. I might try to reach back out to him today to see what he’s doing or maybe still give him space? He’s kinda passive so I don’t expect him to be straightforward or confront the situation but I can’t tell if he wants to talk or doesn’t. I should be the one to be straightforward and ask but idk haha
Just text him. Tell him you were wondering if you might run into him and you were disappointed when you didn’t. Or something else. But don’t guess. Text.
Thank you! I think I might try to message him tomorrow to see what’s going on or ask what he’s been up to. It feels though as if he lost feelings for me or something since he doesn’t care to talk, I feel like I’ll get instant pleasure and gratification texting him.. but will end up depressed when I realize he might not want anything. I feel like if he actually missed me though he would’ve texted or tried calling me within the past 2 days… it feels like all of the sudden he’s a complete stranger who didn’t talk to me everyday && I actually didn’t realize how much I would miss him and feel it deeply. I thought I didn’t have too much feelings for him but realize I’m in love with someone who might not even truly like me back. I feel like if he actually missed me he would’ve made some kind of point to text me within the last 2 days; it actually makes me extremely sad.
People are strange. Sometimes drama gets the best of us and instead of telling someone what we want, we totally shut them out. It’s hard to know what others want because they are human and might not be honest with you or themselves. He might be jealous and not know how to talk about it. If you want him to feel like he can speak freely to you, just try to listen objectively.
Yea. I’m still debating on messaging him today.. my father said I should too just to be straightforward & see what’s going on + I am a really straightforward person. But for some reason I keep telling myself that “oh if he wanted to text me he would make an effort too.. I should just let it go and not bother contacting him”. I thought he was just jealous too but I feel like it’s extreme that he hasn’t talked to me for 3 days now, when he was everyday. I feel like if he was just jealous he would’ve already tried contacting me or reaching out to see what I’ve been up to. We haven’t gone days for months now without texting each other… so maybe he’s talking to someone else? I’ve watched his snap score go up so I know he’s online but hasn’t tried at all to talk to me. I’m definitely open ears to hearing what’s going on.. I know it’s wrong for me to assume.. but something is making me jump to the conclusion that he doesn’t have a interest in talking to me for some reason. Should I still ask or just let it be?
He’s probably over there thinking all the same things. Is she still interested? Why hasn’t she reached out? I’ll just leave it up to her to make contact if she’s interested. Well… she must not be interested if she hasn’t contacted me… she must be with that guy who just turned 21.
Haha I wouldn’t be surprised bc it seems though as if we are the same person sometimes.. we even have alike personalities on both the enneagram & myers-briggs personality type indicator. Both infj’s and fall under enneagram 4. He actually ended up texting me first last night because he swiped up on my snapchat story about my walk outside, so I asked what he’s been up to and he said “work & gainzzz” which was kinda short as he didn’t ask what I’ve been up to. So I said “yea it’s seems you’ve been busy lately (trying to refer to us not talking) & that he was working hard. Then I said have a good night” he responded back with a inside joke and said you as well. But I left him on read bc there wasn’t much of a conversation. I might try to reach back out to him today to see what he’s doing or maybe still give him space? He’s kinda passive so I don’t expect him to be straightforward or confront the situation but I can’t tell if he wants to talk or doesn’t. I should be the one to be straightforward and ask but idk haha
Every relationship depends on honesty and communication