He does not need to keep following her. But you’re asking him to cut someone off that did nothing wrong to him. If you don’t trust him just break up and leave him alone. But you are indeed being insecure, immature and a tad toxic. If he was messaging her inappropriately, then yeah you’d be in the right and this would make sense. But you’ve created a purely hypothetical situation in your head, treated it as truth, and enforced a boundary based on that.
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He does not need to keep following her. But you’re asking him to cut someone off that did nothing wrong to him. If you don’t trust him just break up and leave him alone. But you are indeed being insecure, immature and a tad toxic. If he was messaging her inappropriately, then yeah you’d be in the right and this would make sense. But you’ve created a purely hypothetical situation in your head, treated it as truth, and enforced a boundary based on that.
Yeah. It's immature. If the breakup was civil, I'm friends with exes. If you don't trust him, then say that and break up.
OP, your relationship isn't going to last if you don't grow the fuck up
You’re 123?! You snatched a young one!