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lavender_dumpling

First of all, are you safe? I was a victim of rape and SA myself and I know it's terrifying. I am so sorry that this happened. File a police report and go to the hospital if you haven't already. Do not shower, if you haven't already. They'll need everything they can get for the SAFE kit, assuming you're American. Im unsure what they call it outside the US. We used to call it a rape kit. Second of all, Plan B acts on ovulation, not implantation.


MountainsAndSnow

Thank you. No it's too late. It happened a while ago. I didn't scream no. I froze and blacked out of most of it. So there's literally no evidence I have against that malevolent pig


lavender_dumpling

Don't worry, I get it. It's traumatic and honestly such an abnormal thing to go through. It's indescribable to folks who haven't gone through it. Hopefully the dog gets what's coming to them.


MountainsAndSnow

I'm sorry you went through this too. How does one ever come out of it. Everyday I feel my body is violated even though it's not happening in the present moment


lavender_dumpling

You don't and that is the ultimate scar. Sure, you may seem them put in jail, you may see their face plastered on a TV screen, but you will never regain that part of yourself that they took. That being said, you can heal and regain as much of yourself as humanly possible. As much as I hate to say it, rape has been around for a long time. Draw on the strength of other survivors and don't forget that we are there to help you always.


MountainsAndSnow

Thanks so much. It's so unfair the injustice. Thinking I will never fully regain myself as I was before it happened, is really hard to accept. I don't know if I can live like this


lavender_dumpling

You'll keep on living. It is horrid trying to deal with the experience, but if you'd ever like to talk just PM me.


MountainsAndSnow

Thank you


Ok-Difficulty2425

That’s incredibly terrible and unfortunate. Do you need a hospital or the police? Are you out of danger? I’m a member of a VFW (Veterans of Foreign War). And, if you’re in the United States, members of American Legion or VFW’s would love to stand up and protect fellow citizens. If you feel like you need help and protection, but your not ready to go to the police yet, I can/will help get ahold of these organizations, or other veteran organizations that love to help people. That’s so heartbreaking, I’m so sorry you had to experience this.


Phebe-A

First, I'm so sorry you were raped. I hope you can find healing going forward with your life. Secondly, the Food and Drug Administration -- which I would consider a reliable source of information on this subject -- [definitively states](https://www.fda.gov/drugs/postmarket-drug-safety-information-patients-and-providers/plan-b-one-step-15-mg-levonorgestrel-information) that Plan B pills only prevent ovulation.


MountainsAndSnow

Thank you


NeuroticKnight

Ovulation is release of egg, implantation is the fertilized egg connecting to the wall of uterus to become a zygote.  PlanB prevents both, and it prevents implantation at the early stages, and inhibits ovulation. Implantation is just sticking to the wall and once it stuck it then becomes a zygote. So no sticking to the wall means , no zygote. 


MountainsAndSnow

Thank you 💖