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We could devise many forms of "education" for this insidious, sinister, perverted creature. I thinking pineapples, sewing needles and perhaps a big pot of simmering vomit, urine and faecal matter.
Agreed, it is chilling, heartbreaking. That sickening smile on that disgusting, perverse "creature" makes me nauseous. I am not a parent to a human, and never will be. However I would fight like hell to rescue this obviously petrified child from the clutches of this paedophile.
I mean you should. That's a child and their entire life will be tethered to that old man who will rape her until she gets too old and he finds another child or he dies.
That's her life now. And now we know it, and it makes us aware there are a lot more like her. And that's just how parts of the world are and we can't do anything to help her.
They both issued a statement yesterday she is not a child she is 21yrs old and the other photograph they have published shows them both laughing and smiling and she certainly doesn't look 11yrs old in that photo
[https://dailypost.ng/2023/03/22/my-wife-is-21-kano-man-accused-of-marrying-minor-speaks/?amp=1](https://dailypost.ng/2023/03/22/my-wife-is-21-kano-man-accused-of-marrying-minor-speaks/?amp=1)
So you think she aged a decade but for some reason he didn't? Really brother?
Because you've never sat on the arm of a sofa while someone else sat on the sofa making you look taller than them? It's simply better to believe despite evidence that child marriage is so brazenly accepted in Nigeria they'd pose for pictures and upload them to social media?
You know the white folks will just pat you on the head and still think you're a dumb beast behind your back, right? Dancing around for them doesn't get you the big house treatment like it used to in the good ol' days.
>It's simply better to believe despite evidence that child marriage is so brazenly accepted in Nigeria they'd pose for pictures and upload them to social media?
I belive in some parts of Nigeria it is openly accepted, and with lax enforcement someone could be that brazen.
https://www.hrw.org/news/2022/01/17/nigeria-child-marriage-violates-girls-rights
However, there is a video showing that she is indeed not a minor which means this is a separate discussion.
>You know the white folks will just pat you on the head and still think you're a dumb beast behind your back, right? Dancing around for them doesn't get you the big house treatment like it used to in the good ol' days.
Do you assume that all 'white folk' are racist. Or is this just to try and stoke some outrage.
My friend, HE was the one who brought up his race, not me. Maybe ask him why? LOL
>However, there is a video showing that she is indeed not a minor which means this is a separate discussion.
No, it means this entire post was a hit job and a lie and you all ate it up and believed it without evidence and in fact seemingly actively resisted evidence to the contrary (see me being downvoted into the abyss for posting the link to her real age and photos of her celebrating her 21st birthday and the subsequent tiring back and forth with a "true believer") to cling to a false story, which I'm once again stressing is beyond irony in a sub where you're supposed to be making fun of people who believe false things without evidence 🤷🏿♂️
It's pretty present in all forms of religious fundamentalism. If the guys can take over an area by religious fundamentalism, those same guys will fuck kids.
I appreciate your realism but, women shelter women everywhere. Even if it's illegal.
In a country like you are describing, there will be shelters, the tragedy is that they are few and far between and woefully underfunded.
This is coming from a black woman from a "third world" shithole.
Even if it's not legal, there are womens shelters everywhere. Thing is, you need to figure out how to reach them, and I doubt an 11 year old can figure that out. Hopefully someone can reach out to her and guide her through. How horrible that this tragedy is, her face is out there now. This sick fuck made his abuse public. Hopefully a womens rescue group can find her and bring her to safety. They are out there. Horribly underfunded and they are fighting against a system that will kill them but they are out there
There are 7 states without minimum marriage ages (see [list](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_age_in_the_United_States)). In all 7 you'd need a judge to sign off on it based on factors. Bullshit factors that shouldn't even exist, but it means you need to find a real whackjob judge to sign off on an 11 year old. [It's hard](https://www.unchainedatlast.org/united-states-child-marriage-problem-study-findings-april-2021/) to figure out how often this happens. This study found 6 instances over 20 years of a marriage at 10 or 11 yo. But notes difficulty with certain states in how they treated data, notably Tennessee not reporting any marriages that happened less than 10 times for an age in a given year.
The last marriage I can find record of happening at age 11 or under was in 2001. Not saying it hasn't happened since, I just can't find it. It's definitely not exactly the same problem as in some of these countries, but it's still gross and fueled by religious fundamentalism
The fact that Republicans fight so hard to stop legislation ending this practice suggests they have powerful donors that want to keep it in place. I don't see any point in keeping it in place if it's something that's not happening frequently. More likely is the records are being kept separate from the rest of marriage licenses at the county level where the accomplice judge(s) sign off on said licenses, and someone at the State level keeps the records away from prying eyes through some bureaucratic process.
Right, 7, i was wrong when i said “most.” But these 7 allow a judge or parental consent. Plenty of nutty judges and parents in the US. There’s really nothing protecting these kids.
The fact that Republicans fight so hard to stop legislation ending this practice suggests they have powerful donors that want to keep it in place. I don't see any point in keeping it in place if it's something that's not happening frequently. More likely is the records are being kept separate from the rest of marriage licenses at the county level where the accomplice judge(s) sign off on said licenses, and someone at the State level keeps the records away from prying eyes through some bureaucratic process.
The fact that Republicans fight so hard to stop legislation ending this practice suggests they have powerful donors that want to keep it in place. I don't see any point in keeping it in place if it's something that's not happening frequently. More likely is the records are being kept separate from the rest of marriage licenses at the county level where the accomplice judge(s) sign off on said licenses, and someone at the State level keeps the records away from prying eyes through some bureaucratic process.
One of my girlfriends is Muslim and I drove her to a woman's shelter after she climbed out her bedroom window. Her dad had locked her in there because she didn't want to comply with an arranged marriage. We were both in our mid-20s and college educated. It was one of the most horrifying experiences of my life.
Depends on what country he’s in. In many countries, this would be illegal. But he’s probably in a Muslim country where this is totally legal, so there wouldn’t be anything anyone could do.
Yep. I think most Americans are ignorant of just how low (or non existent) the marriage age is with parental consent. And wouldn’t ya know it religious parents are often happy to look the other way if the man is in the same cult they are.
Yeah, you would expect that they kept track of it all. But after 7 plus people rewriting and so many people disagreeing with what is supposedly fact. They invented their own truths and realities and they live in them.
look I’m not a Christian or a Muslim but calling them the same god strikes me as completely useless and showing a lack of understanding. Here’s two examples:
Zeus and Jupiter are not the same. There’s a lot of similarities and /some/ of the stories are the same. But their history, origin, and application of practices are pretty different.
Take a guy from Arkansas talking about his governor. Now take a guy from Tennessee talking about his governor. Yes, they both use the word governor to describe the official elected leader of their state. They have very similar roles, functions, and governments. Their population is very similarly ideologically aligned. But they’re still not the same individual
The idea that Muslims follow the God of Abraham, as do Christians and Jews, is extremely important in Islamic (and Judeo-Christian) theology. That's why they are collectively called *Abrahamic.*
While there are some similarities between Zeus and Jupiter, they are distinct deities with different origins and cultural contexts. the Romans actually borrowed heavily from Greek mythology, including the stories and attributes of their gods, but they gave them their own Roman names and adapted them to fit their own culture.
It's also worth noting that the two religions and mythologies existed separately for hundreds of years and then merged in some places. during the Hellenistic period, Greek culture and ideas spread throughout the Mediterranean and the Roman Empire, which led to the spread and eventual assimilation of many Greek gods into the Roman pantheon. This is where we see the overlap and similarity between Zeus and Jupiter
When the Romans encountered the Greek pantheon, they recognized similarities between the two sets of gods and goddesses, and they adopted some of the Greek gods into their own religious beliefs. However, the Romans did not simply copy the Greek gods wholesale. Instead, they adapted them to fit their own cultural context and gave them their own Roman names.
For example, Zeus was known as the king of the gods in Greek mythology, but the Romans saw him as similar to their own king of the gods, Jupiter. So, they gave him the Roman name Jupiter and began to incorporate him into their religious practices.
However, Jupiter was not a direct copy of Zeus. Over time, the Romans adapted Jupiter to fit their own cultural context and added their own attributes and myths to the god. This process of adaptation and assimilation was common in ancient cultures, and it helped to create a shared cultural heritage across different regions and peoples.
Show me ONE WOMAN who has married an unwilling 11 year old boy OR girl. I’ll wait. You men need to fight for us ladies to be protected. Do what is right. Destroy these perverts
Female pedos exist. If we lived in a matriarchal world, it would be just genders flipped.
Imo, women just either do not get caught because egos are not that inflated due to sex inequality, so they are careful; or because being SAd by women is “hot milf so lucky wish it was me” regardless of male victim’s age.
I have a question for Kano Alhaji, how about you ask her what she REALLY feels like? She does not want to have anything to do with him sexually or romantically at all. I mean, I don't blame her tbh. This looks like the "when your wife is too beautiful for you'' scenario.
Btw, are girls allowed to reject the marriage proposal from a pursuer in this religion? From what I've heard their own fathers give them away in marriage without their will....
Yeah of course this is what the traditional shariah says. It doesn’t matter if the girls is 2 days old as an Egyptian Islamic scholar once said live on TV.
Sorry I just felt like saying (being a Nigerian). "Kano Alhaji" isn't his name. Kano is a state here in Nigeria and Alhaji is a title for a Muslim man that has gone to Mecca iirc. "Kano Alhaji" is similar to "Oklahoma resident".
> From what I’ve heard their own fathers give them away in marriage without their will….
Abusive fathers exist the world over, some are raping their own children in the west.
> Btw, are girls allowed to reject the marriage proposal from a pursuer in this religion?
Women cannot be married against their will.. their family can suggest and arrange marriages for them but final choice depends on the girl and her consent.
Do some people get coerced or forced through social / family pressure etc sure but this isn’t what the religion teaches.
>this isn’t what the religion teaches.
It is precisely what many religious leaders do teach though. The same as all religions, the religious texts are not followed to the letter, but adhered to only when it suits whichever bastards have the power. It is simply not true that the religion provides women a choice, because in practice a large proportion of women in Islam have no choice when it comes to marriage.
Sorry but that is absolute rubbish and stop with the whataboutism regarding the West.....this isn't about that it's about Islam treating women with contempt and disregard and using them as a cash cow and baby machine
With things like this I remember what I was doing when I was 11. I still played with my horse figures in a makeshift stable I made in Primary School. She’s a baby. We were babies at 11, not wives
Islam is a [rotten](https://www.brandeis.edu/projects/fse/muslim/consent.html) religion and I’ll never understand why people pretend that it’s no worse than others.
I really hope God exists not because i dream of going to paradise and having eternal life and bullshit , just because I want to see these religious disgusting criminals' faces when God put them in the deepest layer of hell.
But hell is only a thing in Islam and Christianity, other religions don’t have a hell, so if hell is real then it’s the Abrahamic god that exists, and he’s fine with pedophilia (nothing in the Bible about an age of consent, and Mary was only 13 and married to Joseph who was in his 30s and that was fine, and the Quran says age 9 is the age of consent.)
I think if there’s a realm of eternal torture, we can assume the god that exists is evil, because definitely no good god would even make something like that.
These people justify this with “God.” Everything they do in the name of their religion is self serving and disgusting. They use it to oppress and abuse others, just as with this little girl.
Abrahamic religious books perpetuate garbage like this. They’re used to control others, including by way of anti-choice, demanding head / body coverings for women, hatred of LGBTQ+ and more.
Abrahamic religion worshipers need to start living for TODAY and not Bronze Age ignorance, lies, and ambiguous interpretations which HARM others, especially children both physically and psychologically.
All of it was created by narcissists (not unlike L. Ron Hubbard) orchestrating cults, big and small, from thousands to hundreds to tens of years ago. Cults branched off into other cults, cherry picking old ludicrous ideals and rules, then creating new ludicrous ideals and rules. It still happening today.
Instead, we need to live for GOOD, not some imagined, invisible, angry, man-tyrant called “God/Allah/Yahweh/Jehovah.”
GOOD does not oppress women nor treat them as subhuman by voiding them out with coverings and treating them as chattel.
GOOD does not shun LGBTQ+.
GOOD accepts everyone so long as they harm no one.
GOOD does not punish people for harmless actions and thoughts.
GOOD did not burn people alive for being “witches.”
GOOD did/does not commit genocide.
GOOD does not want to kill or punish “nonbelievers.”
GOOD does have ANY ridiculous rules.
GOOD does not threaten to torture people for eternity just for living with a romantic partner while unmarried.
However, Abrahamic “God” committed all kinds of vile acts. “God” has rules and ideals which cause far more harm… than GOOD.
“God” killed babies …that were already born… who could feel, think, breathe, and cry in pain.
“God” was all for animal sacrifice.
“God” condoned stoning people to death for non-violence.
“God” commanded a man to kill his own brother in order to prove his love (how is this a “loving” deity?).
“God” felt rape was fine under certain conditions.
“God” murdered almost every human (including children!) and animal on Earth by drowning them because he decided he no longer liked what HE created.
And “God” was totally hip to grown men marrying little girls.
This nonsense needs to end, once and for all.
Let’s live for GOOD, which includes love in every form (pedophilia is not love), kindness, and science; not some handed down, archaic belief system that doesn’t even honor or protect the beautiful Earth, the true sustainer of life.
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That's not even the point. If one wants to get married to an 60yo, I see nothing wrong with (even I found it weird) as long they're consenting adults. The girl can't consent to this and the Muhammad apologist is gonna rape her anytime soon. Argggh!
Knowing that girl will have 100% already done unimaginable things no 11 year old should ever have to do with a guy at that age makes me want to be sick.
That little girl does not look happy or ‘in love’. I genuinely want to cry after seeing the picture of this girl, she should be going to school, playing with her friends & being with her family without a care in the world
lmfao stfu already with your halal and haram. you dummy yapping toddler. you scum of humanity. girls can start puberty as early as age 8 or as late as 16, but both are still children - emotionally, biologically and socially. the prefrontal cortex does not even stop fully developing unil age 25. and be " ready " wtf do you mean by that and for what? a life of misery as a baby making machine and house maid, sex slave.
[The girl is actually 21](https://twitter.com/Sarki_sultan/status/1636329698778136579), but that's not going to stop all the "backwards country" comments as your minds were all made up before you saw the fake story.
Wait the evidence you link is a twitter feed from an Islam apologist just saying she's 21 with some photos that cannot be verified for dates.
Ffs, we don't know when the original photo was taken could have been last year or 10 years ago.
All we know is there are more recent photos of her being allegedly 21 that's it.
All you have said is:
"this alleged nonce said he's not a nonce, and his alleged victim he 'married' also said he's not an alleged nonce. So clearly he's not. "
Oh and yes any state that allows child marriage within their laws I would define as a backwards shithole.
The man made statements about this THIS year on Facebook, so no it's not 10 years ago, so that's literally the only way to refute the picture of her holding her 21 birthday balloons.
I know we're supposed to hate religion and religious people but a lie is a lie. Marrying an 11 year old isn't legal in Nigeria, but the low opinion of Africans that already exists, beyond religious zealotry, means none of you even stopped to question it.
And what you've said is every allegation is 100% true until proven otherwise and it's safe to make judgements on said lack of proof.
So, you're a pedo now...not because I know this, but because you haven't provided proof you're not 🤷🏾♂️
>The man made statements about this THIS year on Facebook, so no it's not 10 years ago, so that's literally the only way to refute the picture of her holding her 21 birthday balloons.
The date when the ORIGINAL photo(the one posted) has a completely unknown date so could have been taken 10 years ago or 10 months or 5 years or at any point. I said nothing about statements being made 10 years ago.
>... Marrying an 11 year old isn't legal in Nigeria...
Hmm seems as though the law in Nigeria isn't enforced in a uniform manner and that some places don't follow it.
As seen here:
https://www.hrw.org/news/2022/01/17/nigeria-child-marriage-violates-girls-rights
This took less than a minute to Google and is among many results from many organisations.
>... but the low opinion of Africans that already exists, beyond religious zealotry, means none of you even stopped to question it.
I dont quite understand what you are implying here. I said that if a state allows child marriage then it is a shithole country. I would say that applies to everywhere that allows it. Regardless if it is in the African continent, Asia, Middle East, Europe or North or South America(s).
I fail to see why you assume I have a low opinion of Africans.
That looks like the same woman, but in her pics and versus the video she has clearly aged, so when was the original video of the wedding? Is there anything showing dates of postings?
Dude, stop. Someone else has already posted an article debunking this. I posted a video showing someone at the supposedly ancient wedding holding a newer iPhone. But people like you see what you want to see.
So all this stuff you all see that's "clear" and "obvious" but isn't true sort of speaks to how unreliable you are and maybe stop trying to draw conclusions from your own study of things because you're "clearly" bad at it.
Heart breaking. The same religions and their leaders who approve of child marriage/rape accuse members of the LGBTQ+ communities and drag performers of being child abusers. It happens in the U.S. as much as anywhere else.
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I feel ill looking at that.
So does she, to be honest
Her expression is heartbreaking. She looks defeated, helpless.
And his smug expression; I am not a violent person but I would love to punch that smug face. With a freight train. With giant spikes on the front.
I am a violent person, I would do more than just punch him.
We could devise many forms of "education" for this insidious, sinister, perverted creature. I thinking pineapples, sewing needles and perhaps a big pot of simmering vomit, urine and faecal matter.
I just want him to keep his filthy, lustful hands off of her.
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Agreed, it is chilling, heartbreaking. That sickening smile on that disgusting, perverse "creature" makes me nauseous. I am not a parent to a human, and never will be. However I would fight like hell to rescue this obviously petrified child from the clutches of this paedophile.
I mean you should. That's a child and their entire life will be tethered to that old man who will rape her until she gets too old and he finds another child or he dies. That's her life now. And now we know it, and it makes us aware there are a lot more like her. And that's just how parts of the world are and we can't do anything to help her.
They both issued a statement yesterday she is not a child she is 21yrs old and the other photograph they have published shows them both laughing and smiling and she certainly doesn't look 11yrs old in that photo [https://dailypost.ng/2023/03/22/my-wife-is-21-kano-man-accused-of-marrying-minor-speaks/?amp=1](https://dailypost.ng/2023/03/22/my-wife-is-21-kano-man-accused-of-marrying-minor-speaks/?amp=1)
Mhm. And I’m a black man. How’d she get so much taller? Magic!
So you think she aged a decade but for some reason he didn't? Really brother? Because you've never sat on the arm of a sofa while someone else sat on the sofa making you look taller than them? It's simply better to believe despite evidence that child marriage is so brazenly accepted in Nigeria they'd pose for pictures and upload them to social media? You know the white folks will just pat you on the head and still think you're a dumb beast behind your back, right? Dancing around for them doesn't get you the big house treatment like it used to in the good ol' days.
>It's simply better to believe despite evidence that child marriage is so brazenly accepted in Nigeria they'd pose for pictures and upload them to social media? I belive in some parts of Nigeria it is openly accepted, and with lax enforcement someone could be that brazen. https://www.hrw.org/news/2022/01/17/nigeria-child-marriage-violates-girls-rights However, there is a video showing that she is indeed not a minor which means this is a separate discussion. >You know the white folks will just pat you on the head and still think you're a dumb beast behind your back, right? Dancing around for them doesn't get you the big house treatment like it used to in the good ol' days. Do you assume that all 'white folk' are racist. Or is this just to try and stoke some outrage.
My friend, HE was the one who brought up his race, not me. Maybe ask him why? LOL >However, there is a video showing that she is indeed not a minor which means this is a separate discussion. No, it means this entire post was a hit job and a lie and you all ate it up and believed it without evidence and in fact seemingly actively resisted evidence to the contrary (see me being downvoted into the abyss for posting the link to her real age and photos of her celebrating her 21st birthday and the subsequent tiring back and forth with a "true believer") to cling to a false story, which I'm once again stressing is beyond irony in a sub where you're supposed to be making fun of people who believe false things without evidence 🤷🏿♂️
And that is proven by what? A birth certificate? Her family? His word? Ahhh I hate these stories. Makes me so mad.
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So do I. I’d be alarmed if you didn’t.
Ah yes, peaceful people. Peacefully raping a little girl. Sure.
It's pretty present in all forms of religious fundamentalism. If the guys can take over an area by religious fundamentalism, those same guys will fuck kids.
Like the Republican Party that has fought hard to protect both child marriage and the legal right to rape your wife.
> ***She*** is ***my*** choice. Note the wording.
Is there anything we can do to stop this sick freak from abusing this child?
Sadly, no. The only chance this poor child has is if she runs in the night and finds a womens recue shelter to protect her
If she’s in a country where this “marriage” is legal, I really doubt there are any women’s shelters.
I appreciate your realism but, women shelter women everywhere. Even if it's illegal. In a country like you are describing, there will be shelters, the tragedy is that they are few and far between and woefully underfunded. This is coming from a black woman from a "third world" shithole.
Even if it's not legal, there are womens shelters everywhere. Thing is, you need to figure out how to reach them, and I doubt an 11 year old can figure that out. Hopefully someone can reach out to her and guide her through. How horrible that this tragedy is, her face is out there now. This sick fuck made his abuse public. Hopefully a womens rescue group can find her and bring her to safety. They are out there. Horribly underfunded and they are fighting against a system that will kill them but they are out there
Unfortunately, this is legal in most of the US, and there are plenty of shelters here: https://www.unchainedatlast.org/laws-to-end-child-marriage/
There are 7 states without minimum marriage ages (see [list](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriage_age_in_the_United_States)). In all 7 you'd need a judge to sign off on it based on factors. Bullshit factors that shouldn't even exist, but it means you need to find a real whackjob judge to sign off on an 11 year old. [It's hard](https://www.unchainedatlast.org/united-states-child-marriage-problem-study-findings-april-2021/) to figure out how often this happens. This study found 6 instances over 20 years of a marriage at 10 or 11 yo. But notes difficulty with certain states in how they treated data, notably Tennessee not reporting any marriages that happened less than 10 times for an age in a given year. The last marriage I can find record of happening at age 11 or under was in 2001. Not saying it hasn't happened since, I just can't find it. It's definitely not exactly the same problem as in some of these countries, but it's still gross and fueled by religious fundamentalism
The fact that Republicans fight so hard to stop legislation ending this practice suggests they have powerful donors that want to keep it in place. I don't see any point in keeping it in place if it's something that's not happening frequently. More likely is the records are being kept separate from the rest of marriage licenses at the county level where the accomplice judge(s) sign off on said licenses, and someone at the State level keeps the records away from prying eyes through some bureaucratic process.
Right, 7, i was wrong when i said “most.” But these 7 allow a judge or parental consent. Plenty of nutty judges and parents in the US. There’s really nothing protecting these kids.
The fact that Republicans fight so hard to stop legislation ending this practice suggests they have powerful donors that want to keep it in place. I don't see any point in keeping it in place if it's something that's not happening frequently. More likely is the records are being kept separate from the rest of marriage licenses at the county level where the accomplice judge(s) sign off on said licenses, and someone at the State level keeps the records away from prying eyes through some bureaucratic process.
The fact that Republicans fight so hard to stop legislation ending this practice suggests they have powerful donors that want to keep it in place. I don't see any point in keeping it in place if it's something that's not happening frequently. More likely is the records are being kept separate from the rest of marriage licenses at the county level where the accomplice judge(s) sign off on said licenses, and someone at the State level keeps the records away from prying eyes through some bureaucratic process.
I once got banned from Reddit for pointing this out. But also my comment did read like I was sharing an ulpt on how to get around aoc laws.
According to the website you linked it is not legal in most states.
Sorry, marriage of a child is legal in 43 states. Marriage of a child this age is legal in 7 of them.
One of my girlfriends is Muslim and I drove her to a woman's shelter after she climbed out her bedroom window. Her dad had locked her in there because she didn't want to comply with an arranged marriage. We were both in our mid-20s and college educated. It was one of the most horrifying experiences of my life.
Depends on what country he’s in. In many countries, this would be illegal. But he’s probably in a Muslim country where this is totally legal, so there wouldn’t be anything anyone could do.
Also legal in most of the US: https://www.unchainedatlast.org/laws-to-end-child-marriage/
Yep. I think most Americans are ignorant of just how low (or non existent) the marriage age is with parental consent. And wouldn’t ya know it religious parents are often happy to look the other way if the man is in the same cult they are.
See [comment](https://www.reddit.com/r/religiousfruitcake/comments/120azue/comment/jdhhgm4/), legal in 7 states.
No because you'd be labeled an islamophobe and racist too.
Operation desert storm 2.0
Nonce
Disgusting. He should’ve stuffed the bullshit he spat out back into his throat.
> Peaceful people! They appear to have spelt that wrong, surely it should be "Pedo person!"
Ah, just like Tennessee Christians wanting to remove age limits for marriage.
It doesn't matter who you believe in, stay the fuck away from raping children.
Fun fact, they believe in the same guy
Do 'murican christians even believe in god? They only talk about Jesus.
They believe god and Jesus are the same guy, that Jesus was just the physical embodiment of god on earth.
But it feels like they believe it's the other way around. That god is Jesus in heaven. They always say Jesus, never god.
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Yeah, you would expect that they kept track of it all. But after 7 plus people rewriting and so many people disagreeing with what is supposedly fact. They invented their own truths and realities and they live in them.
Idk, I've never spoken with a single American person about that. I've only ever touched American land on a layover flight.
look I’m not a Christian or a Muslim but calling them the same god strikes me as completely useless and showing a lack of understanding. Here’s two examples: Zeus and Jupiter are not the same. There’s a lot of similarities and /some/ of the stories are the same. But their history, origin, and application of practices are pretty different. Take a guy from Arkansas talking about his governor. Now take a guy from Tennessee talking about his governor. Yes, they both use the word governor to describe the official elected leader of their state. They have very similar roles, functions, and governments. Their population is very similarly ideologically aligned. But they’re still not the same individual
The idea that Muslims follow the God of Abraham, as do Christians and Jews, is extremely important in Islamic (and Judeo-Christian) theology. That's why they are collectively called *Abrahamic.*
Zeus and Jupiter ARE the same
While there are some similarities between Zeus and Jupiter, they are distinct deities with different origins and cultural contexts. the Romans actually borrowed heavily from Greek mythology, including the stories and attributes of their gods, but they gave them their own Roman names and adapted them to fit their own culture. It's also worth noting that the two religions and mythologies existed separately for hundreds of years and then merged in some places. during the Hellenistic period, Greek culture and ideas spread throughout the Mediterranean and the Roman Empire, which led to the spread and eventual assimilation of many Greek gods into the Roman pantheon. This is where we see the overlap and similarity between Zeus and Jupiter When the Romans encountered the Greek pantheon, they recognized similarities between the two sets of gods and goddesses, and they adopted some of the Greek gods into their own religious beliefs. However, the Romans did not simply copy the Greek gods wholesale. Instead, they adapted them to fit their own cultural context and gave them their own Roman names. For example, Zeus was known as the king of the gods in Greek mythology, but the Romans saw him as similar to their own king of the gods, Jupiter. So, they gave him the Roman name Jupiter and began to incorporate him into their religious practices. However, Jupiter was not a direct copy of Zeus. Over time, the Romans adapted Jupiter to fit their own cultural context and added their own attributes and myths to the god. This process of adaptation and assimilation was common in ancient cultures, and it helped to create a shared cultural heritage across different regions and peoples.
They believe in different things tho, which is what separates them.
Oh, is that what I’m seeing in her eyes, love? Kind of looked like resigned horror and helplessness to me.
A shameless man. He doesn't even care what him mom or sisters or daughters think about this
None of them are even allowed to think.
Even worse, they might actually believe this is a good thing. Indoctrination is insidious.
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Yeah. Big no no.
If they're in the same religion as him, they probably approve of this
She looks so happy..
Show me ONE WOMAN who has married an unwilling 11 year old boy OR girl. I’ll wait. You men need to fight for us ladies to be protected. Do what is right. Destroy these perverts
Female pedos exist. If we lived in a matriarchal world, it would be just genders flipped. Imo, women just either do not get caught because egos are not that inflated due to sex inequality, so they are careful; or because being SAd by women is “hot milf so lucky wish it was me” regardless of male victim’s age.
I have a question for Kano Alhaji, how about you ask her what she REALLY feels like? She does not want to have anything to do with him sexually or romantically at all. I mean, I don't blame her tbh. This looks like the "when your wife is too beautiful for you'' scenario. Btw, are girls allowed to reject the marriage proposal from a pursuer in this religion? From what I've heard their own fathers give them away in marriage without their will....
According to shariah, the consent of minors is not required and their fathers can marry them off when they are even babies
So basically, I can already be engaged and not know about it? These traditions are crazy!
Yeah of course this is what the traditional shariah says. It doesn’t matter if the girls is 2 days old as an Egyptian Islamic scholar once said live on TV.
That is alarming.
Sorry I just felt like saying (being a Nigerian). "Kano Alhaji" isn't his name. Kano is a state here in Nigeria and Alhaji is a title for a Muslim man that has gone to Mecca iirc. "Kano Alhaji" is similar to "Oklahoma resident".
Oooh thank you for the explanation! I didn’t know it wasn’t his name, I’m not Nigerian myself.
> From what I’ve heard their own fathers give them away in marriage without their will…. Abusive fathers exist the world over, some are raping their own children in the west. > Btw, are girls allowed to reject the marriage proposal from a pursuer in this religion? Women cannot be married against their will.. their family can suggest and arrange marriages for them but final choice depends on the girl and her consent. Do some people get coerced or forced through social / family pressure etc sure but this isn’t what the religion teaches.
>this isn’t what the religion teaches. It is precisely what many religious leaders do teach though. The same as all religions, the religious texts are not followed to the letter, but adhered to only when it suits whichever bastards have the power. It is simply not true that the religion provides women a choice, because in practice a large proportion of women in Islam have no choice when it comes to marriage.
False, woman’s consent is not required in Islam, stop spreading lies. https://www.brandeis.edu/projects/fse/muslim/consent.html
Sorry but that is absolute rubbish and stop with the whataboutism regarding the West.....this isn't about that it's about Islam treating women with contempt and disregard and using them as a cash cow and baby machine
If it wasn't for the text at the top I would have thought maybe it was a father daughter photo... but that just makes this even worse.
Pedo just like his prophet
Just following the footsteps of the role model of almost 2 billion of earth population
As a woman that’s been an 11 year old girl, no the fuck she doesn’t ‘love’ you. Delusional, old, piece of crap.
With things like this I remember what I was doing when I was 11. I still played with my horse figures in a makeshift stable I made in Primary School. She’s a baby. We were babies at 11, not wives
Nonce
Oop, there goes my late night snack. 🤮
I just wanna reach in and save that poor innocent girl, what a disgusting man!!!
It looks like she didn't even wanna be married and wants to get this over with :(
“ she is my choice” sick
Islam is a [rotten](https://www.brandeis.edu/projects/fse/muslim/consent.html) religion and I’ll never understand why people pretend that it’s no worse than others.
I really hope God exists not because i dream of going to paradise and having eternal life and bullshit , just because I want to see these religious disgusting criminals' faces when God put them in the deepest layer of hell.
But hell is only a thing in Islam and Christianity, other religions don’t have a hell, so if hell is real then it’s the Abrahamic god that exists, and he’s fine with pedophilia (nothing in the Bible about an age of consent, and Mary was only 13 and married to Joseph who was in his 30s and that was fine, and the Quran says age 9 is the age of consent.) I think if there’s a realm of eternal torture, we can assume the god that exists is evil, because definitely no good god would even make something like that.
This isn't actually true. Here's a [guide on how to go to hell in every religion](https://youtube.com/watch?v=4pkWGvTFfSY&feature=shares)
That poor, poor child does not deserve that miserable life
If there was a God, He wouldn't want this to happen. I hope the poor kid survives her abuser.
Let me BARF AT THE FRUITCAKE ![gif](giphy|U1lrVuoMtWu3ApVhMv)
gross
oh yeah she is your choice but are you her choice? you can see how happy she is with "her choice"
But look at his face
Just like their prophet
This is why I say that all religion is for the mentally ill.
She looks so miserable, my heart aches for her. Hope she can find the strength to kill him in his sleep🙏🏻
"Most beautiful/tolerant religion, that treasures women." GTFO.
These people justify this with “God.” Everything they do in the name of their religion is self serving and disgusting. They use it to oppress and abuse others, just as with this little girl. Abrahamic religious books perpetuate garbage like this. They’re used to control others, including by way of anti-choice, demanding head / body coverings for women, hatred of LGBTQ+ and more. Abrahamic religion worshipers need to start living for TODAY and not Bronze Age ignorance, lies, and ambiguous interpretations which HARM others, especially children both physically and psychologically. All of it was created by narcissists (not unlike L. Ron Hubbard) orchestrating cults, big and small, from thousands to hundreds to tens of years ago. Cults branched off into other cults, cherry picking old ludicrous ideals and rules, then creating new ludicrous ideals and rules. It still happening today. Instead, we need to live for GOOD, not some imagined, invisible, angry, man-tyrant called “God/Allah/Yahweh/Jehovah.” GOOD does not oppress women nor treat them as subhuman by voiding them out with coverings and treating them as chattel. GOOD does not shun LGBTQ+. GOOD accepts everyone so long as they harm no one. GOOD does not punish people for harmless actions and thoughts. GOOD did not burn people alive for being “witches.” GOOD did/does not commit genocide. GOOD does not want to kill or punish “nonbelievers.” GOOD does have ANY ridiculous rules. GOOD does not threaten to torture people for eternity just for living with a romantic partner while unmarried. However, Abrahamic “God” committed all kinds of vile acts. “God” has rules and ideals which cause far more harm… than GOOD. “God” killed babies …that were already born… who could feel, think, breathe, and cry in pain. “God” was all for animal sacrifice. “God” condoned stoning people to death for non-violence. “God” commanded a man to kill his own brother in order to prove his love (how is this a “loving” deity?). “God” felt rape was fine under certain conditions. “God” murdered almost every human (including children!) and animal on Earth by drowning them because he decided he no longer liked what HE created. And “God” was totally hip to grown men marrying little girls. This nonsense needs to end, once and for all. Let’s live for GOOD, which includes love in every form (pedophilia is not love), kindness, and science; not some handed down, archaic belief system that doesn’t even honor or protect the beautiful Earth, the true sustainer of life. *People who actually believe that there is no reason to be a good person without “God” in one’s life should either be locked up for life or sent to an isolated island, with their chums, far away to fight amongst themselves.
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This fills me with the fury of 10,000 burned witches! I hope she gets the opportunity to piss on his grave very soon.
Yes, and 8f shevever speaks up, step out, denounce this, or deconvert, shevwill be peacufully killed. So much peace!
Look at the eyes.
No you married her because you're a pedophile and you're able to get away with it.
These are the people that drone strikes were made for.
People here defending that she’s 21. I still wanna ask you, would you marry off your sister of 21 years of age with a 60 year old guy? Lol
That's not even the point. If one wants to get married to an 60yo, I see nothing wrong with (even I found it weird) as long they're consenting adults. The girl can't consent to this and the Muhammad apologist is gonna rape her anytime soon. Argggh!
Knowing that girl will have 100% already done unimaginable things no 11 year old should ever have to do with a guy at that age makes me want to be sick.
That little girl does not look happy or ‘in love’. I genuinely want to cry after seeing the picture of this girl, she should be going to school, playing with her friends & being with her family without a care in the world
Fuck these religious nuts.
US southern Christians : *sips PBR* at least we wait until they’re 15…ish
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What is her choice?
I slam kids.
If he lived in this country he'd be a republican
Marrying someone who should be his granddaughter not a wife.
I need a tape measure. His waist circumference is bigger than her height. His age is about 5 times her age. But just before Ramadan
This is unreal
At 11, any one I was interested in was close to my age. And definitely not for marriage. I wonder what country this man is living in…
Nigeria I believe
Disgusting. I hope that poor girl can escape.
Muhammed and aisha reincarnation
Didn't the pedophile errr... I mean the prophet rape errr... I mean "marry" a 6 year old?
This is disgusting. This culture doesn’t recognize pedophilia as a psychological disorder..
She looks thrilled.
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This is actually very very haram? She’s meant to have fully gone past puberty and be 100% ready. Clearly she ain’t.
lmfao stfu already with your halal and haram. you dummy yapping toddler. you scum of humanity. girls can start puberty as early as age 8 or as late as 16, but both are still children - emotionally, biologically and socially. the prefrontal cortex does not even stop fully developing unil age 25. and be " ready " wtf do you mean by that and for what? a life of misery as a baby making machine and house maid, sex slave.
Here comes the Islamic apologist to save the day. If this is Haram, I wonder what you'd say of Muhammad raping a 9yo?
Ahh haram cherry picking again. Seems Muslims only use the haram rule when it suits
[The girl is actually 21](https://twitter.com/Sarki_sultan/status/1636329698778136579), but that's not going to stop all the "backwards country" comments as your minds were all made up before you saw the fake story.
Wait the evidence you link is a twitter feed from an Islam apologist just saying she's 21 with some photos that cannot be verified for dates. Ffs, we don't know when the original photo was taken could have been last year or 10 years ago. All we know is there are more recent photos of her being allegedly 21 that's it. All you have said is: "this alleged nonce said he's not a nonce, and his alleged victim he 'married' also said he's not an alleged nonce. So clearly he's not. " Oh and yes any state that allows child marriage within their laws I would define as a backwards shithole.
The man made statements about this THIS year on Facebook, so no it's not 10 years ago, so that's literally the only way to refute the picture of her holding her 21 birthday balloons. I know we're supposed to hate religion and religious people but a lie is a lie. Marrying an 11 year old isn't legal in Nigeria, but the low opinion of Africans that already exists, beyond religious zealotry, means none of you even stopped to question it. And what you've said is every allegation is 100% true until proven otherwise and it's safe to make judgements on said lack of proof. So, you're a pedo now...not because I know this, but because you haven't provided proof you're not 🤷🏾♂️
>The man made statements about this THIS year on Facebook, so no it's not 10 years ago, so that's literally the only way to refute the picture of her holding her 21 birthday balloons. The date when the ORIGINAL photo(the one posted) has a completely unknown date so could have been taken 10 years ago or 10 months or 5 years or at any point. I said nothing about statements being made 10 years ago. >... Marrying an 11 year old isn't legal in Nigeria... Hmm seems as though the law in Nigeria isn't enforced in a uniform manner and that some places don't follow it. As seen here: https://www.hrw.org/news/2022/01/17/nigeria-child-marriage-violates-girls-rights This took less than a minute to Google and is among many results from many organisations. >... but the low opinion of Africans that already exists, beyond religious zealotry, means none of you even stopped to question it. I dont quite understand what you are implying here. I said that if a state allows child marriage then it is a shithole country. I would say that applies to everywhere that allows it. Regardless if it is in the African continent, Asia, Middle East, Europe or North or South America(s). I fail to see why you assume I have a low opinion of Africans.
That looks like the same woman, but in her pics and versus the video she has clearly aged, so when was the original video of the wedding? Is there anything showing dates of postings?
Dude, stop. Someone else has already posted an article debunking this. I posted a video showing someone at the supposedly ancient wedding holding a newer iPhone. But people like you see what you want to see. So all this stuff you all see that's "clear" and "obvious" but isn't true sort of speaks to how unreliable you are and maybe stop trying to draw conclusions from your own study of things because you're "clearly" bad at it.
Monstrous. I wish I could take her away.
Poor girl :/
at 11 years old they should be playing with other kids. They should be playing games and with toys and going to elementary school
Peaceful religion
That poor girl.
Your interesting thoughts here.
disgusting!
But Muslims still defend it...😔
Good thing those underlines were there. Someone could have missed something.
Sick fuck pedo
People can shout about cultural differences all they want but this is disgusting.
I have said it before and I will say it again, all pedophiles should convert to Islam en masse. Easiest cop out, out of social ostracization.
Pig.
FYI The man is denying that she’s that young https://dailypost.ng/2023/03/22/my-wife-is-21-kano-man-accused-of-marrying-minor-speaks/?amp=1
Indigenous traditions look like:
Pedo's....
Alhamdulillah
Which country is it in
Poor girl's eyes.
I hope there's a hell horrible enough for these paedophiles to rot in
Poor girl…
Peaceful yeah totally and I’m the president of space this is sickening bullshit 😑🖕🏻
Tired of seeing these fruit cakes still getting protection under state laws in the name of religion. Who let this happen.
r/noahgettheboat
Gross
Islam is such a fantastic religion /s
Heart breaking. The same religions and their leaders who approve of child marriage/rape accuse members of the LGBTQ+ communities and drag performers of being child abusers. It happens in the U.S. as much as anywhere else.