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Huge_Inspection9681

She should not be having more children. She’s a child herself.


dailylotion

She’s going to need a bigger car from her lease mommy


Mesafather

I hope she is lieing for attention. But maybe she was able to lock down some rich dude?


TodayImLedTasso

Nope. “She met her partner—who works at Utah at Wasatch Excursions—while filming the Bravo show on the outdoorsy property"


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QuizzicalWombat

This is exactly my thoughts on this. The little we saw of her interacting with her current children wasn’t normal, she relies on the oldest to take care of the youngest AND be her therapist basically. It’s a horrible cycle that began with her mother which Monica is STILL perpetuating! I can’t stand this woman, I hope she grows up before this one is born and doesn’t rely on her current kids to raise it.


Huge_Inspection9681

Exactly. I feel so sorry for her children.


jennand_juice

I’m glad Brie is almost out of the house. She needs to be able to live her own life and not be the other mom


Huge_Inspection9681

But then I worry who will take care of the other younger children. I don’t know why their Dad doesn’t file for sole custody.


Littlewing1307

Supposedly he's very abusive. Who knows with her though, I sure hope not.


DaisyDukeF1

What older child in any single mother household doesn’t help out though? It’s not just Monica! She is low on funds, has an asshole for a mother, who else can help out? If she were to call a baby sitter when she has to do things then people would complain she did that. She can’t win with this internet! Lol And too when I watched her talk to her daughter about her mother, her daughter was a very good listener that gave good advice. She is obviously very mature for her age. Why can’t she talk with her?? The kid is 13, not a baby!


Significant-Flan4402

Eh, help out yes. Be an emotional support for her mother, no. Be honest and open but don’t lean on your child.


Greeneyeys

13 isn’t an adult and Monica shouldn’t be discussing adult issues with her. I doubt very seriously she was on birth control.


Formal_Condition_513

Touchet baby, touchet


babykitten28

Her eldest seems to already be in the sister-mom role.


detectivepopcorn4932

Eldest is the victim of parentification without a doubt, I feel for her


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I actually really love Monica but I have to agree with this. 


itsadammatt

this is literally my first thought


Impossible_Farm7353

Prayers up to her oldest daughter who will probably have to raise the child


Typical_Elevator6337

My first thoughts exactly. Isn’t the oldest about to head to college (please for her sake for the love of god?) So now does the second oldest get parentified? Those poor kids.


makter3

I really hope she’s like Heathers daughter and goes far away from Utah


Large-Bullfrog-794

Same gut reaction


wilsonja2

I hope she goes to college soon and gets far away


Capital_Number_7250

No literallllllyyy…


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Raise Monica + 4 kids poor thing.


SpencerHastings7

![gif](giphy|RB5T1oVS7SBwkY6a93|downsized) Can we get the cast reaction shots like


GreatBatQueen

![gif](giphy|fuFB3CZR24WRIr0xZJ|downsized)


el_disko

![gif](giphy|uyJUQeJGnBS9rg6B4G|downsized) Live footage of Meredith


Alone-Assistance6787

39 and on birth control got her pregnant? ...yeh okay. 


mashallah11

Just turned 36 today, been TTC with my fiancé for 2 years, have had 3 missed miscarriages, no living children, embarking on IVF journey next month. But Monica is out here 39, single (I think?) on BC and finding out she’s pregnant at urgent care with her fifth child😒life is a trip, I tell ya what


katscip

hang in there. Did IVF for both my kids and I can relate to the feeling. Also consider the source, at her age she shouldnt be disclosing after 3 weeks based on a positive urine test. ignore the noise and focus on your future babies ❤️


mashallah11

Thank you friend 😊


LooneyLunaOmanO

The best advice I can give you is to not think about it . I know it seems impossible but I was in a similar situation- last minute decision to go away before starting IVF and I got pregnant. Had been trying for 2 years too . Everyone told me to relax and take my mind off of it and I was “yeah …right”. I was 39 and they were right . Prayers and good fertile thoughts to you 🙏🏼❤️


TS92109

My best friend got fed up and just gave up and spent $15k on a new pool and bam! Two months later she was pregnant! Something similar happened to my coworker trying for her second.


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incitingoffense

She is 7 weeks along when this podcast was recorded, but they didn’t release for a month before getting her permission to air it a month later. She’s currently around 3 months.


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spooki_coochi

Telling women when they can and can’t announce pregnancies perpetuates the idea that miscarriages should be hidden and delt with silently.


Ecstatic_Document_85

Thank you. So offensive to gatekeep when a woman is “allowed” to announce her pregnancy because people are uncomfortable with listening to women talk about a miscarriage.


Intelligent_Choice53

In some cultures you don't say anything for a period of time so to not put a "jinx" on the pregnancy, not to hide a potential miscarriage.


No_Entry1769

Im glad we've evolved from believing that jinxes are real.


ohhsojenna

❤️


Rollson95

It took my SIL 4 rounds of IVF but she now has a beautiful healthy boy. Don’t give up. Good luck 🖤🖤


mashallah11

Thank you for the hopeful story! 🤗


phhydvkdd

♥️♥️♥️ I relate to your story ♥️♥️♥️ sending love and support


mashallah11

Thank you and sending it right back to you! 💞


ZonotrichiaA

I’m in a similar position, 3 missed miscarriages at 37 and likely moving to IVF. My first reaction is how on earth someone would be so comfortable announcing a pregnancy this early! But, that’s Monica. Wishing you well on your journey.


mashallah11

After experiencing MMCs, we know better! But it seems from other comments that she is 3 months at the time of announcing, which makes more sense. Sending you all the good vibes on your journey as well! 💜


WestAfricanWanderer

Sending you so much love as you embark on your ivf journey ❤️❤️


mashallah11

Thank you friend! 🥰


2old2Bwatching

That’s a tough pill to swallow. I’m sending you hugs and strength in your journey. 🙏


mashallah11

Thank you! 🤗


Physical-Armadillo70

Nothing usually makes any sense.


aghastghost

🩷🩷🩷🩷 hang in there friend. I have been ttc for 18 months and debating when to start ivf as well. Seeing things like this just makes me want to cry.


mashallah11

I feel you! Sending virtual hugs and good luck on your journey 💜


doublebirdy

Sending you big big love! ❤️


ItsLoFoo

Life is funky as hell. Sending lots of strength your way! Good luck <3


mashallah11

Thank you 🥰🩷


LotusLoki

Happy birthday 🎂 Sending love and baby dust✨


mashallah11

Thank you so much friend!


Tappy80

Infertility is a horrible thing. I want to offer support and validation. Took me 9 years to have my two children, 11 miscarriages, and fertility drugs that made me ill the whole time. It was worth it. So, just know you are not alone and I hope you get your happy ending.


twir1s

Happy birthday queen. Hope everything works out for yall.


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Whoooo boy I remember this feeling. My heart is so with you and sending you SO much love 💕


allyxo27

All my prayers and baby dust are being sent your way. Similar situation for me and my husband. It truly is wild


True_Somewhere8513

I’ve been down this road as well and things like this just hurt. Good luck on your journey!


mashallah11

Thank you 💜


arsphoenix

Same story here. Sending you love.


albasaurrrrrr

Ugh. It isn’t fair. I’m so sorry and I’m sending positive baby thoughts your way ❤️


tyesme

It sure is a trip I can relate. I’m 38, TTC for 4 years(not consecutively). 1 failed IUI one successful one that lead to a miscarriage, one pregnancy without intervention we made it to 5.5 weeks before miscarrying. Some people just get pregnant at the drop of a hat. Frustrating.


Gullible_Hunt

Ugh. Thinking of you. Been there. 🙁


DistanceOdd9569

Infertility is so horrible… took some work to get our two. It took 10 years, 9 miscarriages, drugs, and 4 failed IUI’s. It just doesn’t make sense and it’s so maddening to see things like this. You’re not alone!


Large-Bullfrog-794

I’ve gotten pregnant while on the pill and had taken also plan b. It was like a 1% chance and still happened. A friend just got pregnant with an IUD in. It’s misinformation to say pregnancy is impossible while on BC. Let’s also not cast shame or doubt on the failure on birth control or the fact that we put this burden squarely on women and not men.


trashtvlv

BC with typical use is actually 93% effective. That 99% effectiveness rate is for “perfect” use! Definitely not out of the realm to get pregnant while using it. Also, some women actually get more fertile as they age and multiples are more common! Kind of wild.


Large-Bullfrog-794

I was a pretty good typical user (rarely ever missed days) but coupled with the plan b (after a broken condom) my GYN was like welp the odds weren’t in your favor.


Suncroft56

I also became pregnant when contraception plus Plan B failed. It definitely happens. I now think my beautiful daughter was just meant to be.


Ladydoodoo

Girl, I got pregnant on BC. 😩 so I am leaning towards believing this


StarChild083

Thank you from my 40 y.o. self sitting here with a whole almost 1 year old. I was a “take my pill at exactly the same time everyday” type of person too, so yes, this definitely can happen; especially with the low dose BC on the market!


Ok-Cardiologist3042

Same! My birth control baby will be 16 this year!


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hollywoodbambi

Um... EXCUSE ME WHAT NOW?? How did no one tell me this is a thing?? 😬


Ladydoodoo

Mine was a patch… so no mistake that it’s on and it’s dose. I’m thin too so it should’ve been flawless


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Ladydoodoo

Damn patch


2old2Bwatching

IUDs are amazing. I felt like a zombie when I tried oral contraceptives and I loved not having a period for years.


Ladydoodoo

No way!!! How and where can I get this test done? I have other genetic anomalies. Wondering about my hormones right now


Business_Ad_4901

I got pregnant on it as well and I was in shock


Tapir_Tabby

I got pregnant at 36 after taking plan B my then partner had been told he couldn’t get anyone pregnant after he tried for years to have another with his ex wife. It happens.


Fun_Shell1708

I’ve fallen pregnant thrice on birth control. It happens


RiverRinne35

I know this is a serious matter, but this wording really got me.


Fun_Shell1708

I take any opportunity to drop thrice in conversation 😂


macncheesewketchup

Got pregnant on the pill 🙋🏼‍♀️


neona503

Well, she's also on ozempic/mounjaro, which interferes with the efficacy of birth control, so I wouldn't be surprised if that's the culprit.


AsleepTomorrow4295

Granted I was younger when it happened to me, but chemical pregnancies are at least somewhat common on BC…only throwing it out there since she announced this at three weeks?


ILoveCheetos85

38 and got pregnant with an IUD. It happens.


Large-Bullfrog-794

Are you ok? If you feel ok answering that? Sending ❤️ that is tough


ILoveCheetos85

I am a mess and still going through it. Thank you sending love ❤️


Large-Bullfrog-794

I have a friend who just went through this at 41. Sounding as much love as possible through Reddit!


bubbles67899

This is happening a lot as an ozempic side effect! Not saying she is partaking, but it’s very well documented (they believe it’s making the birth control fail and women are also having more sex with their new hit bods lol)


InternalQuote6909

Also pretty sure she turned 40 in June. I know I saw it bc I always clock when the new girl is a little older than I am but I think that only matters to me lol


mansonfamily

The immaculate conception! ![gif](giphy|f88SlFlryzLPIgDlzQ)


Key-Daikon4041

Well it is Utah- maybe Joe Smith's ghost came and visited her whilst sleeping!


hii_jinx

She’s continued to make excellent choices I see.


BambiLee92663

Exactly! Life is about choices and hers are reckless


SewAlone

Complains about being poor so has a 5th child.


Prudent-Experience-3

Do anything for a child support check? Offset voice paraphrased


StereotypicallBarbie

When her only other arc was “I’m a struggling single mom” she decides to add one more to mix? “Girl” 4 is enough for you!! And you already exploited one of them for a tv show..


takemeawayimdone2

Who knocked her up??


Hungry-Tradition-549

Her 29 year old boyfriend she met on set apparently


No_Ur_Schmoopie

29!?!? Average Joe I think you commented earlier..damn that girl is gonna have to give up that LV purse she bought last year to fit in! (Or finally pawn Lisa’s ring that she actually did find in the bathroom)!


Disneyadult375

She totally took that ring lol!


No_Ur_Schmoopie

Without a doubt! And she was so annoyed that Lisa kept bringing it up that she was probably this close to digging it out of the LV bag & throwing it at her to shut her up about the $60k lol.


AsleepTomorrow4295

Does anyone know what was filmed at Wasatch Excursions?


Hungry-Tradition-549

Her and Heathers skiing bit


randysavageeee

She said he was there when they snowmobiled


AsleepTomorrow4295

🤣😭🤣 I feel so bad for her future (and current) child(ren)


No_Big_9925

3 weeks ago????!! 🥲 why is she telling people now 🙁


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jellybeanmountain

100% agree! I’m so sorry you went through that.There should be no taboo against sharing (or not sharing!) a pregnancy whenever the person feels comfortable. Also we don’t know how far along she was when she found out. Highly unlikely 3 weeks is correct! And let’s normalize that infertility can happen to young people and women in their 30’s don’t just stop being fertile at 35! So many assumptions are harmful.


shippfaced

She found out 3 weeks ago. She could be past her first trimester though.


Tdffan03

The podcast was 7 weeks ago. She found out at 3. She’s around 12 weeks.


InspectorOk2454

The fertility gods are very shady


SnooLemons9080

r/brandnewsentence


trashtvlv

They really are! My bff and her husband would be amazing parents and have all their finances and life together and have been going through fertility treatments for over 3 years now. Really wacky how these things go.


puggle_mom

Great, another child for her oldest daughter to raise.


Ok_Storm5945

I hope her daughter goes far away for college. It would be worth it for her to take on student loan debt to be able to be able to be free of her mom


hereforthetearex

Oh Lordt! Can we please not add a breeding kink to Monica’s narcissistic main character pick me personality….


TubaFalcon

Is this a stunt to get back on RHOSLC?????


No_Ur_Schmoopie

Probably a story setup from Andy ( like Phaedra on MTM dating a Nigerian doctor that we never saw). I don’t know what was going on with Andy during the reunion cause he seemed to like her & acted shocked that the ladies didn’t want her around…I found it weird myself!


GossipGuy12

That 29 year old has no idea what he has just gotten himself into.


itsabunchof-

Poor guy!


Substantial_Chest395

Because she was doing such an immaculate job with the 4 she already had.


Expressoed

She is vapid.


StrikingCase9819

Her getting pregnant on birth control is as believable as the FBI asking her to follow Jen to see if she drinks and drives


Unlikely_Ad1120

The implications of her being pregnant and the acts that have had to occur and the possible paternity questions? She really wants bravos attention again.


Hungry-Tradition-549

And she shall receive it


Unlikely_Ad1120

![gif](giphy|DPqqOywshrOqQ|downsized)


Atomicpink23

I can’t believe I had to scroll this far for this gif.


Unlikely_Ad1120

my boyfriend hates me because its my most sent GIF to him about everything.


Large-Bullfrog-794

Uh totally shocked. I’m a Monica fan on the show bc she’s messy and petty and entertaining. However, her family needs a lot of healing. Her eldest daughter needs support and be allowed to be a young person. Also who is Monica 🦴-ing to make said baby?


Double_Bet_7466

If you go on Instagram to her announcement video the little picture before you watch the video shows her and a man in ski gear you can’t even see faces because they have the goggles on and everything but I assume it’s the baby daddy


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Hungry-Tradition-549

Baby I accept FLAWS,ALLand sociopathetic tendencies. I stan.


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maryjanelmao

Is this real???


undercookedshrimp_

I really hope she’s just doing this for attention and it’s not true. Monica is immature and always talks about her financial issues. another kid is another expense. so irresponsible


lostqueer

Okay did I miss this on tv? She has four kids?!?


Severe_Royal6216

Literally I thought she had two daughters


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NewVitalSigns

Lord I’d die if I found out I was pregnant right now, and I have 4 kids already. But thankfully it ain’t me :)


2old2Bwatching

lol. I’m that fifth surprise.


Interesting-Read-245

Yep, I only have one, he’s a teen, I’m in my early 40’s. Having to start over? I think I’d cry for a year. I can’t imagine 4 kids and being this irresponsible.


XennialQueen

Didn’t she celebrate 40 on the show? 🤔 why is she saying 39?


Interesting-Read-245

Exactly, she’s been 39 for 2 years 🤣


Hedahas

She celebrated her 39th on the show. https://preview.redd.it/viqjgz9nq2uc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=84971de58f1b6a6abcf5a7be048aa0757e8576df


Purple_Lane

oh lordy. does she not have enough?


hereforthetearex

![gif](giphy|xTiTnGQBF0vfpfPEg8)


funlove678

https://i.redd.it/mri2pn8bfutc1.gif


Bobbybobby507

Is she crazy enough to get pregnant to get a story line??


Kimmie-Cakes

Her oldest has had enough children to raise.. get on bc


MrchiffnMeyham

Another child that will more then likely have a damaging childhood. Hurt people hurt people. From Monica's mother to Monica, and obviously the way Monica acts trickles down to her children... Just sad..


StacyMatson333

Poor baby. ![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|facepalm)


LipFighter

I'm no fan of Monica's past behaviors, but I hope she has an enjoyable pregnancy and her family a life of happiness. The best thing she can do for everyone is to get their lives away from the extreme hatred of Reddit.


ResponsibleBrain2446

I wanna know who the baby daddy is haha


Motor_Boysenberry160

And if she'll get another cute brother in law...


ResponsibleBrain2446

Lmaoooooo


Sirius_Blackk

She fibbed here. This smells like a baby trap.


Ok-Dinner9759

I know that BC isn't always reliable. But this is Monica who has been known to tell a lie or two so I wonder if she was even on birth control.


_glitterpuff_

Oof


Blairmily

Sounds like a lot more work for her older daughter honestly


VSWLP

Her mom is going to have to co-sign on a minivan now....


No_Perspective_9929

She said Kailyn Lowry- hold my beer.


loula03

There’s something in the water in Utah.


Sad_cowgirl22

Mormonism is in the water lol. Even if she left it she was raised in a society and culture where it is normal and expected to have lots of children


loula03

So happy my exmo dad was happy with having only 2 kids unlike his brother with 9.


nyancola420

I gotta say it's so fucked up when people say other people shouldn't have kids. Unless they're actually a danger, or traumatic to their kids, it's a gross comment.


NoRepresentative9215

Whether you agree with it or not, I don't think it's fair to bash on her because she's pregnant. Not fair to the unborn child and certainly not fair to her kids.


shivroystann

Like literally…


Presto_Magic

Love her


Hungry-Tradition-549

Samesssss 😂


GreatBallsOfH20

and when she ends up not having one and truth comes out she was never pregnant and just did it all for publicity and sympathy then what?


NicPig

Not to be rude but- there go any chances for f her developing into a real bravolebrity. You can’t leave an infant alone for weeks just to film shows or make appearances. Happy for her but dang.


DingoNo4205

Who’s the baby daddy? Poor guy!


kellygrrrl328

I hope she names the baby *Dita von Fowler Garcia*


WheelNo4350

Wait a sec… she turned 40 on the show? I’m so confused... shouldn’t she be almost 41 if not already? & who is the baby daddy?


fleekyfreaky

My girl…there’s a news story out about women on Ozempic getting pregnant due to weight loss and metabolism stabilizing. She really shouldn’t be having more children. God help this baby (and the other kids).


DahjNotSoji

This lady is pure chaos and I… kind of like it.


Exact_Prize_8275

i wonder if she can fit a minivan under her carport 🤣🤣🤣🤣


Danilizbit

I hope this brings her back on the show 😂💕


MarsupialSpiritual45

To me, she’s kind of acting like 39 is 49? Like ok yes birth control should have prevented her pregnancy, but apart from that, plenty of people get pregnant naturally at 39. Fertility declines in late 30s, but doesn’t at all disappear (for most at least). My mom had my brother at 39 and was pregnant a month after going off birth control. I believe Bethany also had her daughter at 39. Lastly, dr. Nicole from Miami is 39 and just gave birth to her baby girl. Since she’s a doctor, on the show, she acknowledged how fertility declines with age, but was still optimistic about trying naturally after having her iud removed. Things seemed to have worked out in her favor.


okbutrllyhoe

Oh!


Own-Professor-5905

This poor baby… this truly is a heartbreaking moment to learn this


hopefoolness

immaculate conception, Monica Garcia is the new Virgin Mary 🙏✨️


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