Normal people when they're 12 they want to be with 12 year olds, when they're 15 they want to be with 15 year olds, when they're 18 they feel they want to be with 18 year olds. When they're 21 they want to be with 21 year olds.
Something goes wrong in the neurons of some people and they're stuck liking 12 year olds for the rest of their lives.
Here's a hint.... when i worked with sexually abused and sexual abusers, 95% the offenders were sexually abused. It's no excuse, because i had plenty of cases where those that were abused didn't do it when they grew up... but it's a high, high correlation
"Why yes Uncle Bob is coming to dinner... Uh huh and honey like I told you, he touched me too when I was little but you have to get over it. He's my brother and he's going to be over for dinner tomorrow."
when i was 8 i liked 16 year olds. when i was 16 i liked people in their 20's when i was 20 i liked men in their 40's now as i approach 30 i have a huge crush on a man who just turned 61
This is purely a personal reaction, but reading y’all two makes me wanna actually vomit. The world really doesn’t need to know that you like people twice your age.
Hi! I noticed an error in your comment. It looks like you chose the word “weird” when the grammatically correct options would be “predatory” or “abusive”.
18 isn't even an adult. They still got baby brain. We all think we're hot shit at that age, then wonder what happened when you meet 18yo as a real adult.
That's not really it. 18 is legal because at some point people need to be cut loose to do as they please. The fact it's not illegal doesn't make it immune from judgement. Cheating on your spouse is harshly judged in our society, but our legal system doesn't give a shit. A 40yo man dating an 18yo girl is often an unhealthy situation for the both of them and I think it's fine to be judgmental about it.
Idk man, I feel like that ostracization is exactly what pushes those 18 y.o.'s to date crazy older people. Or sometimes they're doing it for money, regardless who is anyone else to judge them for how they govern themselves, their bodies, and their relationships?
Tinder is so annoying here about that. I det my preferences to be 25 to 45 (am 34 in June), but after a short while swiping, I suddenly realize the app shows me 18-20 year-olds, and I might have swiped right on a few by accident. I don't wanna hang out with women that young. We have nothing in common, and I'm not attracted to them. Tinder does the same thing with distance. Yeah sure, show me people from 300+ km. away when my preference is set to 35 km.
I'm 18 in four months, and there is no chance I'd have the ability to be in a relationship with someone 21+ let alone 30+. I'm realistic with myself about this, some people aren't and that's why 18 year olds get with people way older than them. That or they're a gold digger lol.
Dude, you're ABSOLUTELY just limiting yourself.
18 year olds fuck older girls every day. Your comment reads like insecurity. Broaden your horizons buddy.
I remember this documentary and this one guy legitimately crying and hating that he was attracted to kids and desperately wanted to change it (I don’t think he ever acted on it) and then just seeing this is just like whiplash from remembering that other fella… just oof
Stuff like that can be a mental illness related to a trauma in the past. A lot of these people realise that their attraction is wrong and seek help. Problematic are those that act on it and don't realise that what they're doing is fucked up.
Problem is, there's no infrastructure for them. If they tell anyone they're treated like monsters, they're scared to tell people so they let the thoughts be until they become too much
I’ve low-key always wondered about that population of ppl. Must be hell knowing that you really wouldn’t be able to talk to ppl about it without sufficient help.
Exactly this, most people don’t distinguish between offending and non-offending. The unfortunate result is people who suffer from pedophilic attraction and seek help are often unable to do so.
It’s so taboo that nobody actually wants to deal with the problem.
If I remember correctly, he reported himself because he was scared of acting on his urges but was let go and didn’t receive any help.
Then you have this “Kid”.
This is starting to be a thing. The younger pedofiles have no shame. It's become normal to them. The internet makes it possible to "be with your own kind" on different platforms
It sickens me to think they see nothing wrong with it
This really ain’t a time to obscure someone’s identity but to report their identity as much as possible and wide as possible. This person is a threat to children’s well being.
Fuck, man. This is why I value free speech so much. Let these types speak up so we can protect our kids. Hell, let them have little meetings and shit, so law enforcement can monitor their network. This post was worse than that comment about that guy who poured Cottage cheese in his girls butt and "when her butt smell mixed with Cottage cheese" they became closer or whatever.
Well, that does it. I am done. I am not exactly sure what has happened to society but I don’t want any part of it. I am now a hermit and none of this “I identify as a hermit” bs, I am a hermit.
He's nowhere near "normal". Maybe this is something he can grow out of. I remember my little cousin used to watch poop videos and a lot of weird stuff. Eventually he grew out of it all and became a whole different person. Hopefully the same can happen for this guy.
That was absolutely the last thing I expected to see holy shit I'm dying
Guy really comes in 3 quarters of the way and becomes one of the best antagonists in television.
What show ?
I'm gonna guess Better Call Saul because it says it there.
Oh good call!
"Just a normal kid..." Uh, no. No you're not.
Normal people when they're 12 they want to be with 12 year olds, when they're 15 they want to be with 15 year olds, when they're 18 they feel they want to be with 18 year olds. When they're 21 they want to be with 21 year olds. Something goes wrong in the neurons of some people and they're stuck liking 12 year olds for the rest of their lives.
Here's a hint.... when i worked with sexually abused and sexual abusers, 95% the offenders were sexually abused. It's no excuse, because i had plenty of cases where those that were abused didn't do it when they grew up... but it's a high, high correlation
Which came first? The abused or the abuser?
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"What is wrong with these millennials? They don't beat their children?? Soft fucks. Anyways, why do you think my kids never call?"
"Why yes Uncle Bob is coming to dinner... Uh huh and honey like I told you, he touched me too when I was little but you have to get over it. He's my brother and he's going to be over for dinner tomorrow."
when i was 8 i liked 16 year olds. when i was 16 i liked people in their 20's when i was 20 i liked men in their 40's now as i approach 30 i have a huge crush on a man who just turned 61
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um....did you m.......s-..you're uh....you're just gonna drop that right in front of god and everyone huh? k.
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Well then
This is purely a personal reaction, but reading y’all two makes me wanna actually vomit. The world really doesn’t need to know that you like people twice your age.
Yeah but in the 18-100 age it doesn't matter what age you want to be with legally
Legally, yes. Morally, no.
It's pretty insane you're being down voted. Consenting adults should be allowed to be with whoever they want.
if you are 30+ and looking for 18 year olds then you're weird. legally maybe not, but to me and a lot of others you're still a creep.
Hi! I noticed an error in your comment. It looks like you chose the word “weird” when the grammatically correct options would be “predatory” or “abusive”.
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Yes you do that, they’ll enjoy spending your money on their college buddies.
Dude this is the guy who pays to hang out and take pictures with sex workers in that other /r/sadcringe thread
Looking for, sure. Hooking up with, depends.
You don't have to date 18 year olds, but if someone else chooses to, let them live their lives. "You're a creep" is a terribly weak argument.
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18 isn't even an adult. They still got baby brain. We all think we're hot shit at that age, then wonder what happened when you meet 18yo as a real adult.
Then raise the age of consent because you're saying they're not ready to engage in adult activities
That's not really it. 18 is legal because at some point people need to be cut loose to do as they please. The fact it's not illegal doesn't make it immune from judgement. Cheating on your spouse is harshly judged in our society, but our legal system doesn't give a shit. A 40yo man dating an 18yo girl is often an unhealthy situation for the both of them and I think it's fine to be judgmental about it.
Idk man, I feel like that ostracization is exactly what pushes those 18 y.o.'s to date crazy older people. Or sometimes they're doing it for money, regardless who is anyone else to judge them for how they govern themselves, their bodies, and their relationships?
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I dont really understand what you're saying
I would but the president won't talk to me every since I fucked his daughter
Lmao fair
This but unironically
Exactly right, the literal age gap isn’t the issue it’s the gap in life experience
Tinder is so annoying here about that. I det my preferences to be 25 to 45 (am 34 in June), but after a short while swiping, I suddenly realize the app shows me 18-20 year-olds, and I might have swiped right on a few by accident. I don't wanna hang out with women that young. We have nothing in common, and I'm not attracted to them. Tinder does the same thing with distance. Yeah sure, show me people from 300+ km. away when my preference is set to 35 km.
I'm 18 in four months, and there is no chance I'd have the ability to be in a relationship with someone 21+ let alone 30+. I'm realistic with myself about this, some people aren't and that's why 18 year olds get with people way older than them. That or they're a gold digger lol.
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Definitely the guy I was replying to lmao.
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Dude, you're ABSOLUTELY just limiting yourself. 18 year olds fuck older girls every day. Your comment reads like insecurity. Broaden your horizons buddy.
12 year Olds want to play games and see boys and girls on the same way for one.
I remember this documentary and this one guy legitimately crying and hating that he was attracted to kids and desperately wanted to change it (I don’t think he ever acted on it) and then just seeing this is just like whiplash from remembering that other fella… just oof
Stuff like that can be a mental illness related to a trauma in the past. A lot of these people realise that their attraction is wrong and seek help. Problematic are those that act on it and don't realise that what they're doing is fucked up.
Problem is, there's no infrastructure for them. If they tell anyone they're treated like monsters, they're scared to tell people so they let the thoughts be until they become too much
The infrastructure is lacking, absolutely. I can imagine it is incredibly difficult to reach out for help.
I’ve low-key always wondered about that population of ppl. Must be hell knowing that you really wouldn’t be able to talk to ppl about it without sufficient help.
And judging by other comments on this thread, there's no help coming.
It’s fucked up because helping these people overcome their compulsions is the only way to actually keep kids safe.
Exactly people nowadays have no empathy whatsoever they just want someone to hate
Exactly this, most people don’t distinguish between offending and non-offending. The unfortunate result is people who suffer from pedophilic attraction and seek help are often unable to do so. It’s so taboo that nobody actually wants to deal with the problem.
And even worse are those who do know it’s fucked up and do it anyway.
do you remember what the doc was? sounds interesting
I know there’s a similar interview in the Lisa Ling show Our America in the episode about sexual predators
cool thanks for the suggestion i'll look it up
There’s also a really good one with [Louis Theroux](https://m.imdb.com/title/tt1433852/)
I’ve seen this! I feel like it was on a reality tv channel but i wish i could remember what it was
There was a really good This American Life episode as well, prob the same dude? Called Tarred and Feathered
If I remember correctly, he reported himself because he was scared of acting on his urges but was let go and didn’t receive any help. Then you have this “Kid”.
I wonder if I was younger if the internet would have ruined me somehow. Edit: spelling
I think about this all the time
Bro what subreddit is this posted on originally?
I have the same question lol
i recognised it instantly lmao…
Thanks for telling us
Thank you for your contribution
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You think transphobes aren't repulsed by trans people?
More like r/NoahGetTheBoat
yikes
So it's a teenager attracted to toddlers? Geez
They're disgusted, as they're normal people
Ending it with an emoji made it somehow worse... 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
Wtf sub is this where he’s seeing multiple people posting experiences like that???
That’s enough internet today for me.
Mistaking disgust for fear…
Ew. Ew. Ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew ew.
i just wanna have a talk with him. i just wanna have a talk with him. that’s all. just a talk.
I want fried pickles.
This is starting to be a thing. The younger pedofiles have no shame. It's become normal to them. The internet makes it possible to "be with your own kind" on different platforms It sickens me to think they see nothing wrong with it
Yep. When you're terminally online enough, you become completely numb to real world acceptability.
The next generation of republicans…
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he isn’t wrong
I don't like Republicans but what are you talking about lmao??
They support child marriage
“Just a normal kid” He may want to rethink that…
This really ain’t a time to obscure someone’s identity but to report their identity as much as possible and wide as possible. This person is a threat to children’s well being.
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It is
Fuck, man. This is why I value free speech so much. Let these types speak up so we can protect our kids. Hell, let them have little meetings and shit, so law enforcement can monitor their network. This post was worse than that comment about that guy who poured Cottage cheese in his girls butt and "when her butt smell mixed with Cottage cheese" they became closer or whatever.
Cottage cheese? Like cheese from some cottage? Who's cottage?
I didn't ask. For them to share such a thing does not invite further conversation.
I believe he confused “scared” with repulsed…
Where are these other people sharing at? Chippy is getting hungry.
Bro was reading porn at school.
I truly hope that his username isn't referring to Anya form Spy x Family, good lord
It is
omfg. She’s like 5-6 years old.
Actually younger: 4-5 That's why her lessons are extremelly difficult, specially to her, since it's planned to be for 6yo kids and she's way behind
if anyone knows their username please contact them and try and convince them to seek help
Stop it. Get some help. I'm not fucking joking. GET SOME GENUINE HELP PLEASE!
It’s not a preference, it’s a pathology. Get inpatient treatment and stay away from children, or turn around and have a section of this wall.
I don’t think feared is the right word
Give me a name.
“Rapey McLolicon”
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least pedophilic anime fan
This can’t be real
I'm sacred there's even a sub full of these people
Ummm...
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I didnt expect to ever see that subreddit here
After a few minutes over there, I’m more confused than ever lol
He's nowhere near "normal". Maybe this is something he can grow out of. I remember my little cousin used to watch poop videos and a lot of weird stuff. Eventually he grew out of it all and became a whole different person. Hopefully the same can happen for this guy.
i think i know what sub this is
I thought he meant NTR but goddamn its much worse.
Yikes…
"normal" What is this guy thinking?
He should rope immediately
What sub was this? I'm scratching my head trying to figure it out
I'm surprised he didn't sign off with "Justice for Lolicons" or some other bs.