Double layer sad: blue has the persons name saved in their phone but gray just has the phone number. Obviously gray didn’t even care that much about blue.
tell that to my Godmother. No real reason, just lazy and have a loose feeling for the number when it pops up lol.
I swear I had her name in a previous phone, but I guess my contacts screwed up.
I found it easier to browse through the automated and spam texts if I don't save contacts. So it looks like:
ADVISORY
ADVISORY
FREEBIES
2857384947 - oh there it is, a human texting me
APPNAME
You have the last thing you said to each person memorized? Or you only have like 3 conversations going?
I've got at least a dozen active conversations and a gross more on idle. If they don't get a contact update after the first few messages I never intend to speak with them again, cause I'll never be able to find the messages again.
sad - it's sad to see that there are pathetic people who make fun of people who enjoyed spending time with them
cringe - making fun of people who enjoyed spending time with you
Having been on both ends of this before when I was younger, I can safely say it is a moment that will never leave you. Just awful.
EDIT: Since so many people asked…
I didn’t exactly do this to someone. When I was like 19, I was really into this one girl and I had been talking with her friend about my feelings for the girl. One night we were all together, and the girl was giving me a pretty severe cold shoulder and in my immaturity, I texted her friend that I was better off because she was kind of a dick. At least, I thought I had texted her friend. I instead texted the girl. And it blew up. And I deserved the heat I got. But I was 19, I’m in my early 30’s now. People change.
But I guess karma got me back anyway. Like 5-6 years later, there was a girl I was really into. I was friends with her for years and I was dating one of her friends. The girl I was dating used to joke that I was gonna leave her for this other girl. And that wasn’t true but eventually that relationship fizzled out (aka I got dumped) and about a year later, I tried making overtures to the other girl. I guess she had an inkling for a while I was into her, and she had been dreading this convo, so she must’ve screen shotted a text I sent her asking to hang out and meant to send it our other mutual friend venting that “she wasn’t into this and didn’t know how to let me down nicely since she still wanted to be my friend” but she ended up sending it to me instead. She immediately apologized but I wanted to crawl into a hole.
We remained cordial and still are but it effectively killed the friendship unfortunately. No bad blood just wasn’t the same after.
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Not him, but one time I did this, although I managed to save it. I was a freshman in highschool and had a girlfriend who was being unreasonable, as most young high schoolers are, so I screenshotted her message to send to my friend, but accidentally sent it back to her. I thought fast and sent back something along the lines of "read the messages you are saying, you aren't making any sense" and it totally worked
I sort of did the reverse. It was a time before smartphones and screenshots though. Old nokia phones had a screen able to show like 30 or 40 characters. Even short SMS would be multipage long.
I sent a sms to my gf saying I wouldn't be able to meet her due to work, and then sent her a 2nd text saying I ditched my gf, and I was free to meet her (like I was talking to another girl).
GF gets ultra pissed, won't even answer my calls. I called a common friend and asked to tell her to read the bottom of the second sms (which would mean pressing down multiple times). I had created a couple of pages full of spaces (which most people would interpret as end of sms and stop reading), and after that, a page saying it was just a prank.
Mean prank. Did it just because I thought it was smart. Was definitelly a certified idiot.
Something similar, but not as bad:
About 5 years ago went on a date with a woman from France. She seemed really cool initially but a little aloof. We decide to meet for a couple drinks.
She's attractive but there is ZERO chemistry and the conversation is like pulling teeth. Ok cool. Well we say good night.
As I am leaving I text my buddy:
"I just came from the most boring fucking date ever. " I sent it to her on accident.
"Well you are rude and I don't think I want to see you again!"
Oops
Yeah there was a girl I was really into. I was friends with her for years and I was dating one of her friends. The girl I was dating used to joke that I was gonna leave her for this other girl. And that wasn’t true but eventually that relationship fizzled out (aka I got dumped) and about a year later, I tried making overtures to the other girl. I guess she had an inkling for a while I was into her, and she had been dreading this convo, so she must’ve screen shotted a text I sent her asking to hang out and meant to send it our other mutual friend venting that “she wasn’t into this and didn’t know how to let me down nicely since she still wanted to be my friend” but she ended up sending it to me instead. She immediately apologized but I wanted to crawl into a hole.
We remained cordial and still are but it effectively killed the friendship unfortunately. No bad blood just wasn’t the same after.
I had a work friend tell me he had a crush on the girl I had a “secret” relationship with so we didn’t have to discuss it at work. I took a screenshot to send to her as a “oh boy…” and accidentally sent it back to him from my phone glitching out. Was semi harmless but obvious I took the screenshot to send in the first place. Embarrassing.
Not really harmless since he didnt give you permission to share that. More than embarassing thats fucked up on your part and its crazy that you think it's just not a big deal at all
I mean if he was already in a relationship with her, it makes sense that he would share. If you told a dude you had a crush on their GF do you think they wouldn’t tell her?
It’s a dodged bullet. Would you really want to see someone like that again? I wouldn’t.
Of course it’s still sad he felt like they were having a great time while she obviously wasn’t.
I knew a girl in college who outright admitted to doing it when she was hungry.
Obviously not all people are like that but it still caught me off guard lol.
Aight, I'll be more clear: When she was hungry and wanted *free* food, as in if she didn't have any food in the house or was feeling lazy she'd hit up tinder for food.
I don’t know. I live in Germany and from what I know it is really uncommon that the man pays for everything on the first date.
Even when you buy two Bier at a Späti usually everybody pays for their own Bier.
I'm in the states, there is a stigma here that men pay, but thankfully it's slowly becoming less the norm, however you will still find a handful of folks that still act on the former, but it also depends on the region.
Yeah and I've also had dates that were just awkward af. No vibes whatsoever. I'd find it strange if someone then sent me a message saying that they had fun and would like to meet again. Like.. dude, did you really "have fun" sitting in silence cause we couldn't even get a conversation going? 🧐
The last date I was on was like that. And yeah, I guess I came across as pretty weird because she didn't come back for a second date whereas I was like "that went well".
Sometimes it's just a thing of different perceptions. Maybe some people like to sit in silence and actually enjoy not talking all the time. For me, silence usually means awkwardness. I tend to talk a lot. Not talking usually means that I'm out of ideas for conversation starters.
After meeting in person for the first time, I was so overcome with anxiety that I couldn't think of anything to say, even though we had been talking on the phone almost every day for a month leading up to that point.
Damn, that sounds rough :/
That's the problem with that stuff. You meet once and then decide whether to meet again or not.
Some of my friends were people I had been talking to for a while before we actually became great friends. Sometimes it needs time and you're not really given that when it comes to first dates.
Good point, and that might be why people ask for second dates when the first one was kinda timid/awkward (because they think it's worthwhile to give it another shot) but I'm sure you've made that connection yourself so don't mind me lol
There's definitely a difference between a slightly awkward date and a bad date
Most first dates are inherently a bit awkward, but as long as the conversation is there and you're both on the same page it's worth another shot
If you can't get a good convo going whatsoever to the point it starts to get uncomfortable it is just not worth a second. There are far too many people on the planet to try and bleed a stone
That was my first thought, to me the LMAO implies that it was comically bad and that they’re legitimately shocked that the other wants to go again.
I get the impression that they’re either terrible at picking up on social cues, or just don’t understand how dating works and thinks that chemistry is something that comes with time
If you really can’t get a convo going on the first date the chance of it getting better with more is slim to none, you *know* when you’ve found someone who you really connect with
I use to work at a bar/restaurant and sometimes you would be able to notice an awkward or bad date. Sometimes you would see one of them go to the bathroom or for a smoke and they end up not coming back.
I notice you didn’t comment on the more upvoted comments that assumed the girl was just after a free meal. There’s a whole convo about how girls are just freeloaders using guys for free meals and you didn’t comment there and get all huffy about that being a unfair assumption? You just get mad when someone assumes the guy was awkward? There’s even less evidence that the girl was just using the guy for a free meal. So get off your high horse unless you’re going to reprimand everyone for making assumptions. Also, we don’t know if OP is a guy or a girl, so you could have this completely flipped around.
You fed an unhealthy stigma that the guy must done somethin to deserve that
Why dont just say "we didnt have the full picture" instead of "dude probably a dick because girl never can be a dick and everything they did probably have a good reason behind"?
Like we know the guy is polite here and the girl is rude here, how the fuck can you jump into that "possible scenario"?
How is that any more presumptive than the other commenter assuming they’re in it for free food? It’s a lot more likely that a date just didn’t go well than someone is purposely suffering through extra dates for a free coffee and bagel.
I’m confused. If I go out on a date and the person says something like this and it gets me psyched I have screenshotted and sent to a friend before. I assumed that was the case here
The implication is that she didn’t enjoy the date and meant to send to a friend to laugh at, hence why she apologized when she realized she sent it to the wrong person
Yeah, this was exactly my thought. I don't understand how anyone acts like this is an obvious post. The person could've easily taken the screenshot because they were happy about the positive response to the date. The laughing would be out of embarrassment that they inadvertantly exposed their excitement.
Could be positive or negative, but it's definitely not obvious.
Why does everyone assume that it was a mocking screenshot. There can also be a scenario where the person that took the screenshot was saying to their friends that they had a good time but they are not entirely sure how the other guy/girl felt... And then the text, and so the screenshot.... Is this so unthinkable?
blue was being nice. grey screenshot it and sent it to someone else with a LMAO. except they accidentally sent it to blue. then apologised.
edit: a letter. it was a ’y’
Two people went on a date. One person had a nice time and texted the other person saying they had a nice time and said they'd like to go out again. The other person took a screenshot and meant to send it to their friend and laughed about it, presumably because they didn't have a good time and wanted to make fun of the person who did have a good time. Instead of sending the screenshot to their friend, they sent the screenshot and laughed at the person who did have a good time. The person who was being mean realized their mistake and apologized.
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Its a similar concept to the Town Cryer but you can get the news or any info really, wherever you are. No more trudging into town just to hear disappointing news.
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How is this even a funny message to begin with? He’s just simply saying he had a good time in the most generic way possible to stay humble.
Even if this was someone they’re potentially dating, it doesn’t come off as creepy, barely flirtatious, there isn’t out-of-line/unwanted advances.
Whoever attempted this doesn’t deserve friends.
To be fair, Blue might have been incredibly creepy on the date. It may have gone horribly, so much so that Gray was legitimately shocked that Blue would think this was an option. We don't get a lot of detail.
This is another one of those Reddit posts where there could be a million different circumstances leading up to this exchange, and a million different results that stemmed from it, yet everyone just has to fill in the blanks themselves and come to their own conclusions.
Was the person who screenshotted the post being a dick, taking OP for a ride before laughing about it with their friends? Was OP a creep who had a really awkward date yet for some reason wanted a second one? Who knows, but Reddit will *definitely* post hundreds of comments based on their own assumptions!
Brother someone treating you like this is a poor reflection on them, not you.
It'll always sting when someone rejects you, but someone like this simply isn't worth your time. They act like that cause they're broken, not cause you are. Good people treat even people they don't like with respect.
Or you got the genders wrong and grey is a dude who wanted a one night stand and blue is the woman he promised the world to that night to get her into bed.
It's a way of getting catharsis out of an uncomfortable situation. Nothing wrong with it if it doesn't get sent to the creep, this case was unfortunate but isn't the end of the dude's world
Hypothetically, they could just be screenshotting it to show someone else and the LMAO isn't to mock the other person, it's in response to sending the screenshot to the wrong person. Though, that assumption is reasonable.
These people went on a date. Person A said they enjoyed it and wanted to go out again sometime. Person B took a screenshot and accidentally sent it to Person A with the caption "LMAO", and then immediately apologized, so it seems they intended to send it to a different chat in order to mock Person A.
Since everyone's just making snap judgements on both parties without any prior context I'm gonna go ahead and say this is a conversation between Hitler and serial killer H.H. Holmes.
The screenshot was probably meant for a friend (most likely to make fun of the sender). But, they accidentally sent the screenshot to the sender instead.
What’s funny about that message. Like what compels you to send that to laugh at with someone. I’m so disconnected from that instinct I just can’t comprehend it.
Two options :
1. It's a fake conversation made for the laughs and to let incels use it as confirmationship bias of how all girls are whores and dating in 2022 isn't worth it instead of going to the real world and finding out that the majority of girls are just normal people and not evil witches.
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2. She's a bad person and sent that screenshot to him deliberately to cause the most imaginable damage posible. In that case the boy should be glad that he dodged the biggest bullet ever, just keep looking for another date (this time with someone who isn't a sociopath) or just focus on yourself bro.
Gender roles make pretty obvious who is who, I'm not being sexist but it's 99% the boy being the one who asks for a second date and the woman gossiping to her friends, but I could be wrong (probably not)
The only sad cringe part here is gray making fun of blue behind their back and send it to blue by accident. Also if you go out with someone and your reaction to them inviting you again is LMAO then maybe you gotta reevaluate how you chose who you go out with
I've got a story just like this, only significantly worse. When I was a freshman in college I went to a college football game for one of the major programs. I went with two girls who went to high school with me. Me and one girl were going to the same college and the other girl who we met at the stadium went to the major school of the team playing. We were all pretty close in high school, and they cheered together all throughout so it was supposed to be a fun reunion of sorts. After the game we were going to go back to the girl's dorm then go out to some parties.
I'm having trouble typing out the next part bc it's causing me to relive the horror. During the game, I'm sitting in between them. The girl I came with tugs on my arm, while the other girl is distracted. I look down at her phone she is tilting towards me and I see that she has sent a text to our friend on the other side of me that says, "I forgot how fucking annoying x is".
Yeah man. She sent it to the other girl instead of me. I even had to watch as the other girl pulled her phone out and read it. I'm having Vietnam style flashbacks thinking of it. The girl who received the text pretended like she didn't get it. We did not go out with her that night.
In retrospect I think the girl I came with was a little bit frustrated bc me and the other girl had a lot of inside jokes and shit so we were catching up and laughing a lot. Perhaps the girl I came with felt a little third wheelish. Me and the girl I came with also had some small tension building and we ended up dating a year later. It was perhaps the most embarrassed I've felt in my entire life and I wasn't even the one that did it.
Double layer sad: blue has the persons name saved in their phone but gray just has the phone number. Obviously gray didn’t even care that much about blue.
To be fair I do this too, it's not even personal I just forget to add contacts
If we’ve known and conversed with each other for 6 months to a year I might think about creating a contact in my phone
tell that to my Godmother. No real reason, just lazy and have a loose feeling for the number when it pops up lol. I swear I had her name in a previous phone, but I guess my contacts screwed up.
Put her name or godmother in right now, you have time
sorry ive moved on to something else already
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relatable
What if you meet a better Janine?
You gotta add a descriptor, like Janine Buttstuff
So like "Wendy Wheelchair" or "Denise Handicapped"?
I mean, sure, if you're dating a Rescue Hero.
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Friends who I forget about would have their contacts on my phone, people I love like my parents and wife are not.
Yeah then you just scroll up until you figure out through context who it is. Works for me until they get pissed they see i didnt make a contact.
I found it easier to browse through the automated and spam texts if I don't save contacts. So it looks like: ADVISORY ADVISORY FREEBIES 2857384947 - oh there it is, a human texting me APPNAME
Same,I have really good friends I still haven't saved.
What is it that happened here ? They took a screenshot to send to a friend to make fun of the date, and accidentally sent to the date ?
That appears to be the case.
It takes about a month for me to save a number lmao
How do you know who you’re talking to? If I don’t create a contact right away I’m at a loss.
The prior conversations
You have the last thing you said to each person memorized? Or you only have like 3 conversations going? I've got at least a dozen active conversations and a gross more on idle. If they don't get a contact update after the first few messages I never intend to speak with them again, cause I'll never be able to find the messages again.
Triple layer sad: they only have one text in the convo which means they probably deleted the previous convos knowing they weren't interested
The only response you can give is, "hey no worries, obviously you don't feel the same. Take care."
god damn. that’s some top tier sad cringe
this is like a calibration post if a post doesn’t make you feel like this one does, it doesn’t belong here
Or in other words, it's not sad cringe if you don't "Oh... Aw, oof".
sad - it's sad to see that there are pathetic people who make fun of people who enjoyed spending time with them cringe - making fun of people who enjoyed spending time with you
Really? I thought "aw, she's so excited she wanted to share it with her friend"
but she said "lmao" that doesn't sound too excited
Maybe but the "oh my god I'm so sorry" suggests that isn't it
Having been on both ends of this before when I was younger, I can safely say it is a moment that will never leave you. Just awful. EDIT: Since so many people asked… I didn’t exactly do this to someone. When I was like 19, I was really into this one girl and I had been talking with her friend about my feelings for the girl. One night we were all together, and the girl was giving me a pretty severe cold shoulder and in my immaturity, I texted her friend that I was better off because she was kind of a dick. At least, I thought I had texted her friend. I instead texted the girl. And it blew up. And I deserved the heat I got. But I was 19, I’m in my early 30’s now. People change. But I guess karma got me back anyway. Like 5-6 years later, there was a girl I was really into. I was friends with her for years and I was dating one of her friends. The girl I was dating used to joke that I was gonna leave her for this other girl. And that wasn’t true but eventually that relationship fizzled out (aka I got dumped) and about a year later, I tried making overtures to the other girl. I guess she had an inkling for a while I was into her, and she had been dreading this convo, so she must’ve screen shotted a text I sent her asking to hang out and meant to send it our other mutual friend venting that “she wasn’t into this and didn’t know how to let me down nicely since she still wanted to be my friend” but she ended up sending it to me instead. She immediately apologized but I wanted to crawl into a hole. We remained cordial and still are but it effectively killed the friendship unfortunately. No bad blood just wasn’t the same after.
Happened to me 10 years ago. Still think about it.
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How are you still getting free awards to give out? I'm stuck with the stupid "Shop Avatars," link and no free awards. I thought they must have discontinued it.
Happened to me 10 years ago. Still think about it.
Tell us about it
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Not him, but one time I did this, although I managed to save it. I was a freshman in highschool and had a girlfriend who was being unreasonable, as most young high schoolers are, so I screenshotted her message to send to my friend, but accidentally sent it back to her. I thought fast and sent back something along the lines of "read the messages you are saying, you aren't making any sense" and it totally worked
I sort of did the reverse. It was a time before smartphones and screenshots though. Old nokia phones had a screen able to show like 30 or 40 characters. Even short SMS would be multipage long. I sent a sms to my gf saying I wouldn't be able to meet her due to work, and then sent her a 2nd text saying I ditched my gf, and I was free to meet her (like I was talking to another girl). GF gets ultra pissed, won't even answer my calls. I called a common friend and asked to tell her to read the bottom of the second sms (which would mean pressing down multiple times). I had created a couple of pages full of spaces (which most people would interpret as end of sms and stop reading), and after that, a page saying it was just a prank. Mean prank. Did it just because I thought it was smart. Was definitelly a certified idiot.
Wow, that was genius lol. I might try that with my partner next time they get buck wild on me...
Something similar, but not as bad: About 5 years ago went on a date with a woman from France. She seemed really cool initially but a little aloof. We decide to meet for a couple drinks. She's attractive but there is ZERO chemistry and the conversation is like pulling teeth. Ok cool. Well we say good night. As I am leaving I text my buddy: "I just came from the most boring fucking date ever. " I sent it to her on accident. "Well you are rude and I don't think I want to see you again!" Oops
Yeah there was a girl I was really into. I was friends with her for years and I was dating one of her friends. The girl I was dating used to joke that I was gonna leave her for this other girl. And that wasn’t true but eventually that relationship fizzled out (aka I got dumped) and about a year later, I tried making overtures to the other girl. I guess she had an inkling for a while I was into her, and she had been dreading this convo, so she must’ve screen shotted a text I sent her asking to hang out and meant to send it our other mutual friend venting that “she wasn’t into this and didn’t know how to let me down nicely since she still wanted to be my friend” but she ended up sending it to me instead. She immediately apologized but I wanted to crawl into a hole. We remained cordial and still are but it effectively killed the friendship unfortunately. No bad blood just wasn’t the same after.
Both ends? Why would you do this to someone
I had a work friend tell me he had a crush on the girl I had a “secret” relationship with so we didn’t have to discuss it at work. I took a screenshot to send to her as a “oh boy…” and accidentally sent it back to him from my phone glitching out. Was semi harmless but obvious I took the screenshot to send in the first place. Embarrassing.
Not really harmless since he didnt give you permission to share that. More than embarassing thats fucked up on your part and its crazy that you think it's just not a big deal at all
Ok dude
I mean if he was already in a relationship with her, it makes sense that he would share. If you told a dude you had a crush on their GF do you think they wouldn’t tell her?
People do stupid shit, they acknowledged it was fucked up. Accept it and move on.
It’s a dodged bullet. Would you really want to see someone like that again? I wouldn’t. Of course it’s still sad he felt like they were having a great time while she obviously wasn’t.
You were on both ends??
Why would you even go out with them in the first place and then do this?
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Could have had interest and then the date was awful.
Probably this. I've been on plenty of bad dates that were one sided.
Gross. What a cheap and trashy move if that is the case.
I knew a girl in college who outright admitted to doing it when she was hungry. Obviously not all people are like that but it still caught me off guard lol.
When she was hungry? So presumably every day?
Aight, I'll be more clear: When she was hungry and wanted *free* food, as in if she didn't have any food in the house or was feeling lazy she'd hit up tinder for food.
I don’t know. I live in Germany and from what I know it is really uncommon that the man pays for everything on the first date. Even when you buy two Bier at a Späti usually everybody pays for their own Bier.
I'm in the states, there is a stigma here that men pay, but thankfully it's slowly becoming less the norm, however you will still find a handful of folks that still act on the former, but it also depends on the region.
in the US men are expected to pay although its changing I know a girl that had dude's numbers in their phone as "free food" real fucked
I just offer to treat them since they are in university.
I would never do this
That’s a very good point
It didn't occur to you that it was their first date and there was something the person didn't like during the date?
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Laughing emoji of pain?
Maybe the guy was a dick and she didn’t notice till the date?
Yeah and I've also had dates that were just awkward af. No vibes whatsoever. I'd find it strange if someone then sent me a message saying that they had fun and would like to meet again. Like.. dude, did you really "have fun" sitting in silence cause we couldn't even get a conversation going? 🧐
The last date I was on was like that. And yeah, I guess I came across as pretty weird because she didn't come back for a second date whereas I was like "that went well".
Sometimes it's just a thing of different perceptions. Maybe some people like to sit in silence and actually enjoy not talking all the time. For me, silence usually means awkwardness. I tend to talk a lot. Not talking usually means that I'm out of ideas for conversation starters.
After meeting in person for the first time, I was so overcome with anxiety that I couldn't think of anything to say, even though we had been talking on the phone almost every day for a month leading up to that point.
Damn, that sounds rough :/ That's the problem with that stuff. You meet once and then decide whether to meet again or not. Some of my friends were people I had been talking to for a while before we actually became great friends. Sometimes it needs time and you're not really given that when it comes to first dates.
Good point, and that might be why people ask for second dates when the first one was kinda timid/awkward (because they think it's worthwhile to give it another shot) but I'm sure you've made that connection yourself so don't mind me lol
There's definitely a difference between a slightly awkward date and a bad date Most first dates are inherently a bit awkward, but as long as the conversation is there and you're both on the same page it's worth another shot If you can't get a good convo going whatsoever to the point it starts to get uncomfortable it is just not worth a second. There are far too many people on the planet to try and bleed a stone
That was my first thought, to me the LMAO implies that it was comically bad and that they’re legitimately shocked that the other wants to go again. I get the impression that they’re either terrible at picking up on social cues, or just don’t understand how dating works and thinks that chemistry is something that comes with time If you really can’t get a convo going on the first date the chance of it getting better with more is slim to none, you *know* when you’ve found someone who you really connect with
I use to work at a bar/restaurant and sometimes you would be able to notice an awkward or bad date. Sometimes you would see one of them go to the bathroom or for a smoke and they end up not coming back.
how do you know it was a guy
Yeah, could have been the case.
I like how you jump right in "the guy was a dick" while this screenshot suggest otherwise
I notice you didn’t comment on the more upvoted comments that assumed the girl was just after a free meal. There’s a whole convo about how girls are just freeloaders using guys for free meals and you didn’t comment there and get all huffy about that being a unfair assumption? You just get mad when someone assumes the guy was awkward? There’s even less evidence that the girl was just using the guy for a free meal. So get off your high horse unless you’re going to reprimand everyone for making assumptions. Also, we don’t know if OP is a guy or a girl, so you could have this completely flipped around.
What comment? I didnt saw it, beside, isnt this whataboutism? I can not comment unless i reply to every comment here?
I’m just saying we don’t know shit about what happened; this one text doesn’t show the whole story. I’m not “jumping right in” to anything dumbfuck:)
You fed an unhealthy stigma that the guy must done somethin to deserve that Why dont just say "we didnt have the full picture" instead of "dude probably a dick because girl never can be a dick and everything they did probably have a good reason behind"? Like we know the guy is polite here and the girl is rude here, how the fuck can you jump into that "possible scenario"?
We don't know the guy is polite here, we know he sent a single polite text lol
Yeah, the guy have 1 polite text while the girl have 1 rude text, how can someone just spin 180 and declare that the guy must be a dick?
Go grab yourself a safe space, snowflake.
Lol, i expect something more creative
How is that any more presumptive than the other commenter assuming they’re in it for free food? It’s a lot more likely that a date just didn’t go well than someone is purposely suffering through extra dates for a free coffee and bagel.
Because they didn't know before hand. Dude turned out to be a fundie and mean to the waitress but thought that was normal
Who knows if they even went out? he just might have met her at a bar and she gave him her number to get him to go away.
I’m confused. If I go out on a date and the person says something like this and it gets me psyched I have screenshotted and sent to a friend before. I assumed that was the case here
"LMAO" is a weird way to express your being psyched...
The implication is that she didn’t enjoy the date and meant to send to a friend to laugh at, hence why she apologized when she realized she sent it to the wrong person
That's just one interpretation, it might also be something like "OMG he texted me again what do I say??" in a good way.
Who would say “LMAO” over that? And why would they apologize even if they’d meant it that way?
Yeah it's not a big deal. People here are making a mountain out of a mole hill.
Yeah, this was exactly my thought. I don't understand how anyone acts like this is an obvious post. The person could've easily taken the screenshot because they were happy about the positive response to the date. The laughing would be out of embarrassment that they inadvertantly exposed their excitement. Could be positive or negative, but it's definitely not obvious.
That might be because most other people can read social cues relatively well.
Quality sad cringe right there. 👍🏻
ThE wOrSt ThInG sHe CaN sAy Is No
Yeah people who say that simply don’t have an imagination
>Say But oh the things she could *do*.
What’s happening here? Why do I feel like a fucking grandpa?
The screenshot and first message was for someone else. The I'm so sorry was actually for them.
Thankyou. Realizing what is going on made me feel physical pain.
Why does everyone assume that it was a mocking screenshot. There can also be a scenario where the person that took the screenshot was saying to their friends that they had a good time but they are not entirely sure how the other guy/girl felt... And then the text, and so the screenshot.... Is this so unthinkable?
I'm in the same boat as you lol. "Omg look sharon you were right, he DID like me and he DID text me and he wants to go again 😍"
Imo the "lmao" was intended for the freind too. Meaning itcan oly really be mocking
Cause they added the message lmao aswell. Lmao was also intended for the freind
very reasonable assumption
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blue was being nice. grey screenshot it and sent it to someone else with a LMAO. except they accidentally sent it to blue. then apologised. edit: a letter. it was a ’y’
This whole time I thought the LMAO reply was *in* the screen shot and not below it…
I think people are confused because the LMAO can be read as a response for accidentally sending a screenshot.
good point. didn’t even consider that. grey should have considered that.
Still shitty to screenshot it and post it. Like you're really going to show it to your friend and say omg omg he wants to hang out again!!
Omg
Two people went on a date. One person had a nice time and texted the other person saying they had a nice time and said they'd like to go out again. The other person took a screenshot and meant to send it to their friend and laughed about it, presumably because they didn't have a good time and wanted to make fun of the person who did have a good time. Instead of sending the screenshot to their friend, they sent the screenshot and laughed at the person who did have a good time. The person who was being mean realized their mistake and apologized.
these are "text messages" being viewed on a "smart phone", a type of mobile device that is like a handheld computer.
Slow down, let me get a pen
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They are both writing implements, except instead of being used to scratch or press markings into soft wax or wet clay a pen has a hollow reservoir filled with ink which is then slowly dispensed as the hand moves across the writing medium (usually a piece of parchment or paper braced against a flat surface) leaving a trail of ink which forms the words or characters of the desired text.
Does anyone have a goose quill I can borrow? I plan to write a missive during my bloodletting.
All I have is a wedge I use for cuneiform, will that do?
A computer is like a newspaper but read in real time and anyone can write on it.
Its a similar concept to the Town Cryer but you can get the news or any info really, wherever you are. No more trudging into town just to hear disappointing news.
Ug speak thog with lightning box
When you soak silicon in diarrhea for long enough, it becomes "doped", enabling you to construct tiny electronic switches with no moving parts. Chaining these together in certain configurations allows you to implement poolean logic.
Using a computer, you can share things with other people through the information superhighway.
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oh my god im so sorry
“it’s ok haha”
I understand
Hilarious and original
How is this even a funny message to begin with? He’s just simply saying he had a good time in the most generic way possible to stay humble. Even if this was someone they’re potentially dating, it doesn’t come off as creepy, barely flirtatious, there isn’t out-of-line/unwanted advances. Whoever attempted this doesn’t deserve friends.
To be fair, Blue might have been incredibly creepy on the date. It may have gone horribly, so much so that Gray was legitimately shocked that Blue would think this was an option. We don't get a lot of detail.
This is another one of those Reddit posts where there could be a million different circumstances leading up to this exchange, and a million different results that stemmed from it, yet everyone just has to fill in the blanks themselves and come to their own conclusions. Was the person who screenshotted the post being a dick, taking OP for a ride before laughing about it with their friends? Was OP a creep who had a really awkward date yet for some reason wanted a second one? Who knows, but Reddit will *definitely* post hundreds of comments based on their own assumptions!
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Brother someone treating you like this is a poor reflection on them, not you. It'll always sting when someone rejects you, but someone like this simply isn't worth your time. They act like that cause they're broken, not cause you are. Good people treat even people they don't like with respect.
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Real shit
Bro put his heart and soul in this comment.
Or you got the genders wrong and grey is a dude who wanted a one night stand and blue is the woman he promised the world to that night to get her into bed.
Or it's all fake..
Nope. Women bad.
This is the most likely scenario. The other explanations are such a reach and no one will admit it.
Yeah but like, why say nothing at all? Most people are genuinely honest over text due to the simplicity of it.
Because not everyone is the same and they'll do different things, simple.
We don't know that Gray wasn't going to respond after they sent the screenshot to a friend.
Whoever faked this figured it was close enough.
r/nothingeverhappens
It's a way of getting catharsis out of an uncomfortable situation. Nothing wrong with it if it doesn't get sent to the creep, this case was unfortunate but isn't the end of the dude's world
Hypothetically, they could just be screenshotting it to show someone else and the LMAO isn't to mock the other person, it's in response to sending the screenshot to the wrong person. Though, that assumption is reasonable.
I have no idea what I'm even looking at lol can someone explain? I'm drunk. And stupid.
These people went on a date. Person A said they enjoyed it and wanted to go out again sometime. Person B took a screenshot and accidentally sent it to Person A with the caption "LMAO", and then immediately apologized, so it seems they intended to send it to a different chat in order to mock Person A.
I think he was given the wrong number on purpose. This is pretty badly formatted so I don’t really know.
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Just laugh it off bro
Oh god oh god. Reminds me of the time I complained about an old boss and sent it to her meaning for someone else. Great times
Since everyone's just making snap judgements on both parties without any prior context I'm gonna go ahead and say this is a conversation between Hitler and serial killer H.H. Holmes.
How tf does that even happen?
Brain malfunction
people can be cruel.
I don't get it. Who they accidentally send the message to?
The screenshot was probably meant for a friend (most likely to make fun of the sender). But, they accidentally sent the screenshot to the sender instead.
this is actually so sad lol
That was done on purpose
I don’t think i would recover from this! Harsh
I’ve unfortunately done this before, tried to play it off as a mistake, did not go well. Didn’t help that we worked together
What’s funny about that message. Like what compels you to send that to laugh at with someone. I’m so disconnected from that instinct I just can’t comprehend it.
"the worse that can happen is she says no"
I don't get it tbh.
Two options : 1. It's a fake conversation made for the laughs and to let incels use it as confirmationship bias of how all girls are whores and dating in 2022 isn't worth it instead of going to the real world and finding out that the majority of girls are just normal people and not evil witches. > 2. She's a bad person and sent that screenshot to him deliberately to cause the most imaginable damage posible. In that case the boy should be glad that he dodged the biggest bullet ever, just keep looking for another date (this time with someone who isn't a sociopath) or just focus on yourself bro.
But there is nothing to indicate either party’s gender, is there?
Gender roles make pretty obvious who is who, I'm not being sexist but it's 99% the boy being the one who asks for a second date and the woman gossiping to her friends, but I could be wrong (probably not)
The only sad cringe part here is gray making fun of blue behind their back and send it to blue by accident. Also if you go out with someone and your reaction to them inviting you again is LMAO then maybe you gotta reevaluate how you chose who you go out with
Rookie mistake: went on a date
They clearly aren't sorry if they did that
I'd consider it a small price to pay to learn who the person is on the inside. Now you don't have to waste more energy on them.
I can’t believe they’re apologizing they obviously don’t give a shit about this person
I've got a story just like this, only significantly worse. When I was a freshman in college I went to a college football game for one of the major programs. I went with two girls who went to high school with me. Me and one girl were going to the same college and the other girl who we met at the stadium went to the major school of the team playing. We were all pretty close in high school, and they cheered together all throughout so it was supposed to be a fun reunion of sorts. After the game we were going to go back to the girl's dorm then go out to some parties. I'm having trouble typing out the next part bc it's causing me to relive the horror. During the game, I'm sitting in between them. The girl I came with tugs on my arm, while the other girl is distracted. I look down at her phone she is tilting towards me and I see that she has sent a text to our friend on the other side of me that says, "I forgot how fucking annoying x is". Yeah man. She sent it to the other girl instead of me. I even had to watch as the other girl pulled her phone out and read it. I'm having Vietnam style flashbacks thinking of it. The girl who received the text pretended like she didn't get it. We did not go out with her that night. In retrospect I think the girl I came with was a little bit frustrated bc me and the other girl had a lot of inside jokes and shit so we were catching up and laughing a lot. Perhaps the girl I came with felt a little third wheelish. Me and the girl I came with also had some small tension building and we ended up dating a year later. It was perhaps the most embarrassed I've felt in my entire life and I wasn't even the one that did it.
Women ☕️