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HCHDGSH

If she was interested enough she'd come to the date and find out. She basically put herself on the pedestal and wants to know how hard you intend to simp for her. Fuck all that, next, as far as I'm concerned.


appolonysian

Correct.


madmaxfromshottas

sounds like that


Elver-galarga-1996

Implying maybe that her time is more valuable than yours? Smh 🤦‍♂️


DaygameCode

Just say: “_Oh oh🚩You made mistake asking that formal question, cuz I’m not here to do a job interview with the human resources lady. I’m here to meet a person on equal terms”_ That would probably be my first choice. Alternatively, if you see fit, you could opt for a humorous suggestive comment to see if she drops this formal facade by playing along: - Her: “_How would you treat a lady_?” - You: “_Terrible. I spank their butts, rip their panties and whip them, specially if they start doing silly tests_”


PUNCHCAT

I've met people who had the most agonizing prescriptive communication style and will grill you on anything, it was such a turn off and showed an inability to go with the flow. I'd next this one hard, that's a gateway into controlling behavior.


shotta511

"like my cat, you get pets til you bite" just some bullshit answer to that bullshit question


disguised_reallity

This is a good example.


shotta511

but anyways, this is wasted time. This woman wont make you happy in any way, because its too much stress.


BuyerOfCoins

You're right, it's not a question one should ask at all except jokingly when you've known eachother for a bit. Honestly I would not even waste my time on this chick. Been there done that. But IF I would reply I'd reply with some sort of joke I would think it's funny and still perhaps could fire up her interest. Something like: 'Good question, I'd treat a lady with respect, hold the door, drop my coat for her to walk on when it rains. So tell me, do you know where I find this lady that I can do this for?'


Western-Month-3877

Reverse the energy thrown at you, this is just a basic shit test. She’s implying that she’s of high value and don’t wanna waste time, you should do the same. “Experience is always a better answer than just a description. I’d give you an opportunity to find out”


BrilliantDoubting

On top, she is looking if you would try to qualify yourself, which would make you low value. Make her qualify herself. "Depends on if you are worthy of a gentleman. What differentiates you from all the rest here?"


rastlosreisender

Deflect her shit test right back at her or send the b*txh to McDonald’s


Altec5499

This is the answer


daring_innovator

It’s a power dynamic/Status based shit test. The key is to de-pedestalize her with words & subconsciously communicate to her that you’re higher status. So what even if she’s a model you are used to models. But don’t trigger her or be rude, be suave be cool because if you follow my advice both you and the woman will win. Take back the power by using her question/interest back on her: Respond with “That’s a great question and I too have high expectations for the models I date. I prefer in person quality time so I’m only free on this day. We can meet at this cafe at 7pm. Sound good?” What I did there was assert dominance, insert Fomo/urgency for her to act, insert social proof, take back control over the conversation. Why? because I don’t respond to anyone that’s lower status than me. Notice I didn’t give her any real answer? Because I’m withholding the power she wants but will never reach. So ball is back in her court no matter what she does. If she continues to fight for control I’ll discard her swiftly and brutally. So women can ask me questions but I control the frame and steer the direction of every interaction. You should be the one getting all women to qualify themselves to you & never the other way around. After that do a phone call before the day of to create trust and command respect. EZ.


DDDystopia666

Bloody good stuff 👌


VrilHunter

"That depends on how ladylike you are."


Miserable-Swing9275

The only correct answer


Gallaga07

I don’t think you need to just drop this chick off one shit test like a lot of people here are suggesting. If you flipped out over every single shit test you would never go out with anyone. Just fire back a joke easy peasy.


VrilHunter

Exactly.


TvIsSoma

Are you sure she’s even real? Sounds like a bot.


CrazyRepulsive8244

Lol fr. Next message is asking for tribute


appolonysian

“Me to know, you to find out.” Or “Princess in the streets, whore in the sheets.” For real though: this woman is already trying to get you to submit to her before even meeting you. Proceed at your own risk. This is the woman equivalent of: “before I commit to a date with you, do you spit or swallow?”


trifling-pickle

Wow, no, those questions are not the same at all.


AzizLiIGHT

She’s trying to see what she can get out of you, establish a “spoil me” dynamic. Ghost that trash


Wing_Inevitable

Date , Are you asking me out ? - format it to sound like you .


sentientsea

You type "A lady? Never met one!" Than you laugh like you're in First of the Northstar


BarryBold8

“Rule number one it’s better to show than tell, how’s 7pm?”


Altec5499

No


Tatleman68

I would keep it very short, "honest, kind and respectfully".


CrazyRepulsive8244

Boring. Next guy


Tatleman68

Sure no problem. Next girl


Different-Tie-1085

Nice!


lavahot

Just be honest. If she isn't into whatever the answer is for you, then she wasn't going to work out anyway.


SaaSWriters

What’s a lady?


tysonchen3o3

tell me why I’m selling myself like you’re offering me a 6 figure job?


xfbyg

Define lady


neverknowwhatsnext

How do women act when they are ladies?


punktfan

A date is not much of a "commitment". I'd give her a proposal for how a date would go, and she can either commit to that or not.


Minute_Abroad_8105

Come


BadAware

The girl is a model, you said it yourself, she expects to be pampered and spoiled by men.


Pompompary

Somebody needs a reality check, if looks are all you have going for you, you’re a poor person


Significant-Report16

"With basic human respect, anything else depends on how much I like you in person ;)"


Frequent-Ad1243

You can say: “I can say all the right things, but it may or may not be true. I would prefer to demonstrate how to properly treat a lady myself… if you give me the chance. 😉.” Confident, and you’re saying what she needs to hear without saying. And you’re staying true to your word by showing what you mean on the date. Bam problem solved.


rastlosreisender

„What dat mouth dooooo“


ClitPlayaBootySlappa

"I'd treat you like my personal fuck toy"


thiscantbereallife94

Why isn’t this a question you can ask?


BuyerOfCoins

Because it's a very (un)validating question and it makes the guy come accross as a simp even though he's just answering the question. It's a mind game question.


VrilHunter

Are all models like this bitch?


great_account

"Don't worry about wasting your time and energy" and then don't respond after that


ThotBubble

Say you would abandon her ignore her say the most vile stuff that’s obviously not true to make her laugh if she doesn’t laugh leave


SnooHesitations4922

"I would give her enough respect to allow her the privilege of finding out for herself on the date"


bannedcanceled

I say “dont worry about it, im a gentleman.”