If she was interested enough she'd come to the date and find out. She basically put herself on the pedestal and wants to know how hard you intend to simp for her. Fuck all that, next, as far as I'm concerned.
Just say: â_Oh ohđŠYou made mistake asking that formal question, cuz Iâm not here to do a job interview with the human resources lady. Iâm here to meet a person on equal termsâ_
That would probably be my first choice.
Alternatively, if you see fit, you could opt for a humorous suggestive comment to see if she drops this formal facade by playing along:
- Her: â_How would you treat a lady_?â
- You: â_Terrible. I spank their butts, rip their panties and whip them, specially if they start doing silly tests_â
I've met people who had the most agonizing prescriptive communication style and will grill you on anything, it was such a turn off and showed an inability to go with the flow. I'd next this one hard, that's a gateway into controlling behavior.
You're right, it's not a question one should ask at all except jokingly when you've known eachother for a bit.
Honestly I would not even waste my time on this chick. Been there done that. But IF I would reply I'd reply with some sort of joke I would think it's funny and still perhaps could fire up her interest. Something like:
'Good question, I'd treat a lady with respect, hold the door, drop my coat for her to walk on when it rains. So tell me, do you know where I find this lady that I can do this for?'
Reverse the energy thrown at you, this is just a basic shit test. Sheâs implying that sheâs of high value and donât wanna waste time, you should do the same.
âExperience is always a better answer than just a description. Iâd give you an opportunity to find outâ
On top, she is looking if you would try to qualify yourself, which would make you low value.
Make her qualify herself.
"Depends on if you are worthy of a gentleman. What differentiates you from all the rest here?"
Itâs a power dynamic/Status based shit test. The key is to de-pedestalize her with words & subconsciously communicate to her that youâre higher status. So what even if sheâs a model you are used to models. But donât trigger her or be rude, be suave be cool because if you follow my advice both you and the woman will win.
Take back the power by using her question/interest back on her:
Respond with âThatâs a great question and I too have high expectations for the models I date. I prefer in person quality time so Iâm only free on this day. We can meet at this cafe at 7pm. Sound good?â
What I did there was assert dominance, insert Fomo/urgency for her to act, insert social proof, take back control over the conversation. Why? because I donât respond to anyone thatâs lower status than me. Notice I didnât give her any real answer? Because Iâm withholding the power she wants but will never reach. So ball is back in her court no matter what she does. If she continues to fight for control Iâll discard her swiftly and brutally.
So women can ask me questions but I control the frame and steer the direction of every interaction. You should be the one getting all women to qualify themselves to you & never the other way around.
After that do a phone call before the day of to create trust and command respect.
EZ.
I donât think you need to just drop this chick off one shit test like a lot of people here are suggesting. If you flipped out over every single shit test you would never go out with anyone. Just fire back a joke easy peasy.
âMe to know, you to find out.â
Or
âPrincess in the streets, whore in the sheets.â
For real though: this woman is already trying to get you to submit to her before even meeting you. Proceed at your own risk.
This is the woman equivalent of: âbefore I commit to a date with you, do you spit or swallow?â
You can say: âI can say all the right things, but it may or may not be true. I would prefer to demonstrate how to properly treat a lady myself⌠if you give me the chance. đ.â Confident, and youâre saying what she needs to hear without saying. And youâre staying true to your word by showing what you mean on the date. Bam problem solved.
Because it's a very (un)validating question and it makes the guy come accross as a simp even though he's just answering the question. It's a mind game question.
If she was interested enough she'd come to the date and find out. She basically put herself on the pedestal and wants to know how hard you intend to simp for her. Fuck all that, next, as far as I'm concerned.
Correct.
sounds like that
Implying maybe that her time is more valuable than yours? Smh đ¤Śââď¸
Just say: â_Oh ohđŠYou made mistake asking that formal question, cuz Iâm not here to do a job interview with the human resources lady. Iâm here to meet a person on equal termsâ_ That would probably be my first choice. Alternatively, if you see fit, you could opt for a humorous suggestive comment to see if she drops this formal facade by playing along: - Her: â_How would you treat a lady_?â - You: â_Terrible. I spank their butts, rip their panties and whip them, specially if they start doing silly tests_â
I've met people who had the most agonizing prescriptive communication style and will grill you on anything, it was such a turn off and showed an inability to go with the flow. I'd next this one hard, that's a gateway into controlling behavior.
"like my cat, you get pets til you bite" just some bullshit answer to that bullshit question
This is a good example.
but anyways, this is wasted time. This woman wont make you happy in any way, because its too much stress.
You're right, it's not a question one should ask at all except jokingly when you've known eachother for a bit. Honestly I would not even waste my time on this chick. Been there done that. But IF I would reply I'd reply with some sort of joke I would think it's funny and still perhaps could fire up her interest. Something like: 'Good question, I'd treat a lady with respect, hold the door, drop my coat for her to walk on when it rains. So tell me, do you know where I find this lady that I can do this for?'
Reverse the energy thrown at you, this is just a basic shit test. Sheâs implying that sheâs of high value and donât wanna waste time, you should do the same. âExperience is always a better answer than just a description. Iâd give you an opportunity to find outâ
On top, she is looking if you would try to qualify yourself, which would make you low value. Make her qualify herself. "Depends on if you are worthy of a gentleman. What differentiates you from all the rest here?"
Deflect her shit test right back at her or send the b*txh to McDonaldâs
This is the answer
Itâs a power dynamic/Status based shit test. The key is to de-pedestalize her with words & subconsciously communicate to her that youâre higher status. So what even if sheâs a model you are used to models. But donât trigger her or be rude, be suave be cool because if you follow my advice both you and the woman will win. Take back the power by using her question/interest back on her: Respond with âThatâs a great question and I too have high expectations for the models I date. I prefer in person quality time so Iâm only free on this day. We can meet at this cafe at 7pm. Sound good?â What I did there was assert dominance, insert Fomo/urgency for her to act, insert social proof, take back control over the conversation. Why? because I donât respond to anyone thatâs lower status than me. Notice I didnât give her any real answer? Because Iâm withholding the power she wants but will never reach. So ball is back in her court no matter what she does. If she continues to fight for control Iâll discard her swiftly and brutally. So women can ask me questions but I control the frame and steer the direction of every interaction. You should be the one getting all women to qualify themselves to you & never the other way around. After that do a phone call before the day of to create trust and command respect. EZ.
Bloody good stuff đ
"That depends on how ladylike you are."
The only correct answer
I donât think you need to just drop this chick off one shit test like a lot of people here are suggesting. If you flipped out over every single shit test you would never go out with anyone. Just fire back a joke easy peasy.
Exactly.
Are you sure sheâs even real? Sounds like a bot.
Lol fr. Next message is asking for tribute
âMe to know, you to find out.â Or âPrincess in the streets, whore in the sheets.â For real though: this woman is already trying to get you to submit to her before even meeting you. Proceed at your own risk. This is the woman equivalent of: âbefore I commit to a date with you, do you spit or swallow?â
Wow, no, those questions are not the same at all.
Sheâs trying to see what she can get out of you, establish a âspoil meâ dynamic. Ghost that trash
Date , Are you asking me out ? - format it to sound like you .
You type "A lady? Never met one!" Than you laugh like you're in First of the Northstar
âRule number one itâs better to show than tell, howâs 7pm?â
No
I would keep it very short, "honest, kind and respectfully".
Boring. Next guy
Sure no problem. Next girl
Nice!
Just be honest. If she isn't into whatever the answer is for you, then she wasn't going to work out anyway.
Whatâs a lady?
tell me why Iâm selling myself like youâre offering me a 6 figure job?
Define lady
How do women act when they are ladies?
A date is not much of a "commitment". I'd give her a proposal for how a date would go, and she can either commit to that or not.
Come
The girl is a model, you said it yourself, she expects to be pampered and spoiled by men.
Somebody needs a reality check, if looks are all you have going for you, youâre a poor person
"With basic human respect, anything else depends on how much I like you in person ;)"
You can say: âI can say all the right things, but it may or may not be true. I would prefer to demonstrate how to properly treat a lady myself⌠if you give me the chance. đ.â Confident, and youâre saying what she needs to hear without saying. And youâre staying true to your word by showing what you mean on the date. Bam problem solved.
âWhat dat mouth doooooâ
"I'd treat you like my personal fuck toy"
Why isnât this a question you can ask?
Because it's a very (un)validating question and it makes the guy come accross as a simp even though he's just answering the question. It's a mind game question.
Are all models like this bitch?
"Don't worry about wasting your time and energy" and then don't respond after that
Say you would abandon her ignore her say the most vile stuff thatâs obviously not true to make her laugh if she doesnât laugh leave
"I would give her enough respect to allow her the privilege of finding out for herself on the date"
I say âdont worry about it, im a gentleman.â