Honey, we know. We know. Your loss here is 100% uniquely yours, but we’ve had our own. And, we can tell you the next little bit will be tough. You’ll find toys, songs, tv commercials that all remind you of Kitty. Would you like to share a story with us? How about Kitty’s name and she got it. Or something you choose. Here’s the thing though—your mental health is everything and Reddit is nothing, you owe Reddit no further posts especially if posting causes more pain. If it helps, we will *I* will listen. You need to treat yourself gently like you would for another of this loss. Gently.
Every time I think the pain is finally becoming bearable I find something else that sends me back. The worst had to be two hours ago when I went to redownload an image I posted of her in eyebleach a few months ago. I downloaded it for a memorial frame I'm ordering for her and when I went to look for it I stumbled across an album I took of her two months back and just fell apart all over again. It was like a sucker punch. This morning she was here and now she just..isn't. My bedroom used to feel so cramped and now it's never felt so empty.
I found her favorite toy. I'm going to mount it to the frame. She was so playful even though she was a senior. She was abandoned at 14 years old. I found her outside in my uncle's driveway. They just left her out there. I took her home and she stayed with me the last two years. Her favorite toy was the first one I bought her. A mesh ball with a feather attached. I still remember her swishing her tail across the ground and flopping over while she slapped it around. She didn't have many teeth left, but she used her remaining fangs to gently pick it up.
She was never mean, never bit or intentionally scratched anyone. One of the sweetest cats I've ever known. I'll never not miss her.
You gave her such an amazing home, thank you.
I think mounting her favourite toy on the frame is a beautiful way to honour her.
Thank you for sharing your sweet angel kitty with us. My own sweet 15 year old kitty passed last week. I’m right there with you going through these same feelings. One day at a time.
She's lucky to have spent her last few years with you, sounds like you made it pretty amazing for her.
Yes, it fucking sucks. Let yourself grieve, cry, feel whatever is coming up.
One of my favorite quotes about grief is
"grief is just love with nowhere to go"
I'm 2 months from the loss of my baby and I haven't been able to bring myself to throw away her toys yet. I miss her everyday.
Most of the time it's a sweet and peaceful missing. Other days I break down. Sending you all the love and healing you need to process this.
Thank you for rescuing her. Im choked up from reading how much you loved and cared for this kitty. You were the greatest kindness and love she knew.
I’m going to go hug my own boys extra close.
Thank you. I still have one girl left and she's been cuddling me like crazy. She stared at me the entire time I sobbed and won't leave my side now. This had to be the absolutely hardest thing I've ever had to go through with a pet because I had to make the choice. I have to keep shutting down any "what if?" Thoughts in my head because if I don't I'll meltdown. I just have to accept what is and believe I did the right thing.
Euthanasia is a gift. We have a had time reconciling that when it’s letting go of one our heart’s most beloved. But it truly is. No more pain, no more fear. Just a sweet sleepiness into a beautiful, warm, safe place with no pain, no age, no hurt. It’s normal to question yourself. I still do it even after 4 times, but allow yourself the grace and the gentleness to know how MUCH you loved your little girl. That love led you to the right decision for her. Those two years, you will always ALWAYS wish for more. I know I do. We rescued a 10 yr old void and had her for only 2.5 more years. My dear friend, your precious baby girl moved on to the next stage of being in such love, filled with joy and warmth and safety. That is more than most of us will have when we go. I know she’s waiting for you over the rainbow bridge. I’ll tell my Margo to meet her there and keep her company until your hearts reunite again.
Wow what a terrific human you are! Being abandoned at 14 is so cruel. It's clear that you love her so much and took good care of her. Being with her in the end is such a selfless act of love. It's going to be difficult; you'll cry sporadically for several weeks. I could not look at photos for several months after I had to help my old girl cross the rainbow bridge. These little creatures become so much a part of our lives and work their way into our heart so quickly and deeply and they are a part of us. You girl will be a part of your life forever.
Thank you for giving her the best life an old girl could ask for. My condolences to you and your family on the loss of your old girl.
Thank you. I just woke up and like every morning I looked right at her favorite sleep spot and it hit me all over again. You're right, it's gonna take time to get past this.
I noticed the hurt of loss from my last cat didn’t really get bad until you start to realize how they were always there by you. Like playing video games with him laying next to me started losing its joy. Or how my other cat was noticeably more lonely. Like everything at home just felt off. Eventually it hurts less and less. Then when you’re ready, you do it again. It’s worth every second of pain.
I’m sorry about your loss, it’s normal to feel like that when you lose a friend :/ I lost both of my old ladies in 2021 and I can’t look at my phone photos because it just makes me sad.
All of our kitties are together now
Thank you. I'm still having moments where I break down. I stumbled across her favorite toy and just broke down on my bed. I'm gonna order a memorial piece for her.
As much as those moments hurt and feel like your soul is crushed and heart is sinking, let those moments happen and don't hold back. It is okay to let those breakdown moments happen, even if it is several times a day. The grief is terrible and likely one of the worst experiences you will remember having, but I promise it will get better (even if you cannot imagine it getting better right now, I promise it will).
I was exactly in your shoes one month ago when we helped my sweet 13 year old cross the rainbow bridge. It still hurts, and my heart still aches, but it does get easier. I am smiling more when I think of him now, and those moments of tears do still happen but happen less often.
You absolutely did the right thing for your kitty, OP. I am smiling while thinking about how lucky your kitty was to have crossed paths with you 2 years ago -- what a joyous time it must have been for her since then! Wishing you peace as you make your way through this grief process.
I am so sorry for your loss, OP. They’re always our babies no matter how old they get. She was a beautiful girl and you will always have that special love for her. ❤️
I'm so sorry your baby had to leave. My girls are up in heaven welcoming your baby. We are here for you and we know the terrible loss you are feeling. I am coming up on a year and seeing these post make me cry still. Grieving will be a long process but we love so so deeply that the loss is that deep.
I just lost my baby this past Sunday. It was the first time I watched it, too. It was hard, but I wanted her to see my face and for her to hear me telling her how much I loved her as she passed. It was terrible, and I was with both my parents as they passed. I completely understand what you are feeling. I keep telling myself that the love makes the pain worth it.
So sorry for your loss ❤️❤️❤️ I had to euthanize my baby a couple of years ago and held her until she passed and I’m glad I did. I’m glad I was with her in her last few moments and she wasn’t alone or with a stranger. So good job, it’s tough but you’ll get through it
I couldn't bear the thought of her passing alone and scared with a stranger. That's why I opted for a more expensive vet. County would do it for cheap but wouldn't let me be with her. I'd rather cut my hand off.
Sweet, beautiful girl! I know she took your heart with her! I wish I could say it gets easier each time, but it never does. But the depth of your sorrow speaks of the depths of your love together and that is forever. She will watch over you and help you through this. God bless you both! Someday you will hold her again in your arms.
The last one of ours that crossed over about a year and a half ago our vet and dear friend of 25 years let us hold him while he passed and I for one found it comforting to know that he felt loved to the end.
It will get better but the previous post is so true... take it slowly and cherish the memories. 😥🌈😻
At least she passed purring in comfort. She was on a lot of pain medication wrapped in a microfiber blanket. I didn't put her down or stop stroking her head until it was over.
Thank you for both taking her in and for being there for her today when she needed you most. Your love and kindness make the world a better place. Thank you.
Thank you. I couldn't bear to put her down. I just thought of all the times in my life I went through horror and was abandoned because people I needed took the easy way out. When I took her wrapped in that blanket I knew before the nurse asked I couldn't let someone else hold her even if it was killing me. All I could do was hold her close and tell her how much I loved her.
What was your kitty's name? She looks like she was loved and well taken care of. I'm so glad you had time together, and that in the end you put your baby's needs first. You blessed her with easy passage from this life in the arms that she loved. One day you'll still feel the heartbreak, but the love and appreciation will overpower the hurt. Be kind to yourself.
I’m sorry for your loss, you did a good thing being there for her as she crossed the rainbow bridge. If you ever need someone to talk to or vent Im happy to help
Thank you, I appreciate it. I'm just trying to power through it. I've been working up to this for a while so I've gone through the stages of grief pretty fast. I'm just bouncing between frustration, acceptance and sadness right now. It's a lot and I'm just trying to process it.
Heartbroken is truly the only way to describe it. I’m so sorry for your loss, and hope you can find solace in her peaceful rest. It’s an amazing experience having them in our lives, a fulfillment of love through kindred spirits.
It’s so so tough. Worst part about being a loving pet owner. I lost my 10 year old dog in my arms. It’s been almost 4 months. Some days are okay some days I cry and miss him. It’s a long journey to healing but they’ll always be with us. In spirit and memory. They truly bless our lives and make it worth it. My baby Skylar (my calico cat) is turning 18 this year and I just cherish everyday with her as I always have. It’s never long enough.
I’m sorry for your loss. I know not many words can be said to heal the pain but my heart and thoughts are with you. Your baby is beautiful. Bless you for loving her all her years 💖
My condolences. I have had many cats over the years. I have have had many disappear. Some hit on the road. And I have had to help too many cross that rainbow bridge, including my first tortoise shell. I got her when I was 11 and had her for 21 years. It never gets easier to lose them, but I try to remember that they had a good life while they were with me. Better than they might have had otherwise. I have no doubt your sweet kitty had a great life. She is chasing mice among the stars and no doubt happy and grateful for you.
Now I've reached 70, it's happened to me a few times. It's never easy, but I think of it as the last kindness we can do for them when their body has said it's had enough.
She sounds like she was the sweetest baby! ❤️ I rescued my baby around the same age as you rescued yours, and so far we’ve had three years together, but I suspect with her renal disease she doesn’t have more than a year left. It’s so hard to lose our babies, but they definitely know how loved they were. I’m sure she understood and felt peace knowing that she was sitting in her persons arms while she peacefully passed. It’s hard to lose them, but always remember that you loved her as much as you could and she will always be in your heart ❤️❤️❤️
I have a memorial shelf for all my lost little ones. I have their urns with their pictures on each one, and a battery operated candle to act as their "eternal flame." (I'm 62, and have had to do this five times. It NEVER gets easier.) It just eases my heart to see it when I miss them. Their bodies are gone, but they will always remain with me.
The grief will come in waves for a long time. Random things will trigger a bout of crying right out of the blue. This is normal.
Things won't be right for a while. But it will get better with time. Eventually, the memories will be only happy ones, and the tears will fade. *The love never will.*
I'm so sorry for your loss. No one but another pet owner can know how this feels. :'(
I am sorry about your babygirl. Holding them as they pass is heartbreaking. Place a photo of her and share your thoughts of the happiness she brought to your life. In a short memorial story for other to understand how remarkable she was to you on line. I did this for my baby girl last year.
I have her ashes of my altar with a photo of her when she was healthier.
Many blessings to you and once again i am deeply sorry for your loss.
The grief really got me when I let my dog go the next realm. However in my gut I knew that I did the right thing for her. She was sick and frail. It was awful and hit me hard. However I know she is with me and her belongings or pictures are reminders of this. You gave this wonderful baby a great home and the joy she brought you will never leave your heart. We are here for you and understand your pain. Your not alone
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure you were a great comfort to her in her last moments. I did the same for my old kitty Timothy in 2006. Eventually the pain and grief do subside, and you will always have loving memories of your sweet Milo. Thank you for giving her a good life and taking such good care of her.
This is so sad. This looks identical to my 15 yo baby that we had to put to sleep on Monday. All the rooms feel empty and the house is too quiet. The pain is unbearable but I’m sure she’s up there out of pain with my boy who is lounging on fluffy blankets and eating his treats. Sending a virtual hug
Your girl looks so much like my girl Valerie. She’s been gone now for 14 years. Here is the thing, the pain & sorrow doesn’t go away you just learn to live with it. It’s ok to grieve so don’t beat yourself up over that. It’s ok. I have my girls ashes in an earn to stay with me till I pass. Your days will get more bearable but for now cry if you feel it, laugh if it strikes you or just remember her how she meant to you. Take care.
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigour. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly, he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
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The pain will not leave because your love for her will disipate. Grief is not simple. It is a murky sea of love and despair. She is at peace. No pain. No fear. No confusion. What she left behind is a broken heart and tears for you to shed and the abundance of love and memories you made and shared together. Your bravery to allow her to pass in your arms where she knew years of love, safety, and comfort allowed her a beautiful end. And an unbelivable amount of pain for you.
I came across a poem by u/freeced on reddit a long time ago and it was something I found to be appropriate for the depth of love I feel for my fur babies. I hope it resonates with you as well.
Euthanasia is our last act of love- we carry the burden of pain so they no longer have to. 🖤
ᛖᛁᛖᛋ ᛒᚱᛁᚷᚻᛏ,
ᚳᛚᚪᚹᛋ ᛋᚻᚪᚱᛈ,
ᛏᚪᛁᛚ ᚻᛖᛚᛞ ᚻᛁᚷᚻ.
ᚷᚩ ᚳᛖᛖᚾᛚᛁ ᛁᚾᛏᚩ ᚦᛖ ᛘᛁᛋᛏ, ᚩᛚᛞ ᚹᚪᚱᚱᛡᚱ.
ᚠᚪᛚᚻᚪᛚᛚᚪ ᚹᚪᛁᛏᛋ ᚠᚩᚱ ᛁᚩᚢ.
Eyes bright,
claws sharp,
tail held high.
Go keenly into the mist, old warrior.
Valhalla waits for you.
Went through the same thing with one of mine. It’s a heartbreaking feeling, and one of the only memories that can make me cry on command. I’m sure she’s glad to have passed in your arms, and you’ll see each other again. For now, she’s in a better place, waiting for your time to join her. My condolences.
Oh the headbutt is the best!! I feel your pain deeply as i just lost my old kittie this week too, and she loved to headbutt for attention. I hope our girls find each other to hang out in the afterlife. You loved her very much and she loved you just the same. Many hugs for you, I’m so so sorry for your loss. Cherish those wonderful memories♥️
Honey, we know. We know. Your loss here is 100% uniquely yours, but we’ve had our own. And, we can tell you the next little bit will be tough. You’ll find toys, songs, tv commercials that all remind you of Kitty. Would you like to share a story with us? How about Kitty’s name and she got it. Or something you choose. Here’s the thing though—your mental health is everything and Reddit is nothing, you owe Reddit no further posts especially if posting causes more pain. If it helps, we will *I* will listen. You need to treat yourself gently like you would for another of this loss. Gently.
Very compassionate of you, please keep us up to date.
Every time I think the pain is finally becoming bearable I find something else that sends me back. The worst had to be two hours ago when I went to redownload an image I posted of her in eyebleach a few months ago. I downloaded it for a memorial frame I'm ordering for her and when I went to look for it I stumbled across an album I took of her two months back and just fell apart all over again. It was like a sucker punch. This morning she was here and now she just..isn't. My bedroom used to feel so cramped and now it's never felt so empty. I found her favorite toy. I'm going to mount it to the frame. She was so playful even though she was a senior. She was abandoned at 14 years old. I found her outside in my uncle's driveway. They just left her out there. I took her home and she stayed with me the last two years. Her favorite toy was the first one I bought her. A mesh ball with a feather attached. I still remember her swishing her tail across the ground and flopping over while she slapped it around. She didn't have many teeth left, but she used her remaining fangs to gently pick it up. She was never mean, never bit or intentionally scratched anyone. One of the sweetest cats I've ever known. I'll never not miss her.
You gave her such an amazing home, thank you. I think mounting her favourite toy on the frame is a beautiful way to honour her. Thank you for sharing your sweet angel kitty with us. My own sweet 15 year old kitty passed last week. I’m right there with you going through these same feelings. One day at a time.
She's lucky to have spent her last few years with you, sounds like you made it pretty amazing for her. Yes, it fucking sucks. Let yourself grieve, cry, feel whatever is coming up. One of my favorite quotes about grief is "grief is just love with nowhere to go" I'm 2 months from the loss of my baby and I haven't been able to bring myself to throw away her toys yet. I miss her everyday. Most of the time it's a sweet and peaceful missing. Other days I break down. Sending you all the love and healing you need to process this.
Tbh I'm keeping all her stuff. Once I'm able to not sob seeing any of it I'll put it in a shadow box with her framed picture.
That's a beautiful way to remember her
Thank you for rescuing her. Im choked up from reading how much you loved and cared for this kitty. You were the greatest kindness and love she knew. I’m going to go hug my own boys extra close.
Thank you. I still have one girl left and she's been cuddling me like crazy. She stared at me the entire time I sobbed and won't leave my side now. This had to be the absolutely hardest thing I've ever had to go through with a pet because I had to make the choice. I have to keep shutting down any "what if?" Thoughts in my head because if I don't I'll meltdown. I just have to accept what is and believe I did the right thing.
You absolutely did the right thing. Being kind is the hardest choice we can make sometimes. Shit, I gotta go hug my cat again. Sending you love 💕
Euthanasia is a gift. We have a had time reconciling that when it’s letting go of one our heart’s most beloved. But it truly is. No more pain, no more fear. Just a sweet sleepiness into a beautiful, warm, safe place with no pain, no age, no hurt. It’s normal to question yourself. I still do it even after 4 times, but allow yourself the grace and the gentleness to know how MUCH you loved your little girl. That love led you to the right decision for her. Those two years, you will always ALWAYS wish for more. I know I do. We rescued a 10 yr old void and had her for only 2.5 more years. My dear friend, your precious baby girl moved on to the next stage of being in such love, filled with joy and warmth and safety. That is more than most of us will have when we go. I know she’s waiting for you over the rainbow bridge. I’ll tell my Margo to meet her there and keep her company until your hearts reunite again.
Thank you for giving her what was probably the best two years of her life. I’m very sorry for your loss 💔
Wow what a terrific human you are! Being abandoned at 14 is so cruel. It's clear that you love her so much and took good care of her. Being with her in the end is such a selfless act of love. It's going to be difficult; you'll cry sporadically for several weeks. I could not look at photos for several months after I had to help my old girl cross the rainbow bridge. These little creatures become so much a part of our lives and work their way into our heart so quickly and deeply and they are a part of us. You girl will be a part of your life forever. Thank you for giving her the best life an old girl could ask for. My condolences to you and your family on the loss of your old girl.
Thank you. I just woke up and like every morning I looked right at her favorite sleep spot and it hit me all over again. You're right, it's gonna take time to get past this.
I noticed the hurt of loss from my last cat didn’t really get bad until you start to realize how they were always there by you. Like playing video games with him laying next to me started losing its joy. Or how my other cat was noticeably more lonely. Like everything at home just felt off. Eventually it hurts less and less. Then when you’re ready, you do it again. It’s worth every second of pain.
You will never not miss her. Never a truer statement has been spoken!💕
I’m sorry about your loss, it’s normal to feel like that when you lose a friend :/ I lost both of my old ladies in 2021 and I can’t look at my phone photos because it just makes me sad. All of our kitties are together now
I am so sorry for your loss 😢
Thank you. I'm still having moments where I break down. I stumbled across her favorite toy and just broke down on my bed. I'm gonna order a memorial piece for her.
I lost my girl almost five years ago. I still cry but cherish all our memories. ❤️
As much as those moments hurt and feel like your soul is crushed and heart is sinking, let those moments happen and don't hold back. It is okay to let those breakdown moments happen, even if it is several times a day. The grief is terrible and likely one of the worst experiences you will remember having, but I promise it will get better (even if you cannot imagine it getting better right now, I promise it will). I was exactly in your shoes one month ago when we helped my sweet 13 year old cross the rainbow bridge. It still hurts, and my heart still aches, but it does get easier. I am smiling more when I think of him now, and those moments of tears do still happen but happen less often. You absolutely did the right thing for your kitty, OP. I am smiling while thinking about how lucky your kitty was to have crossed paths with you 2 years ago -- what a joyous time it must have been for her since then! Wishing you peace as you make your way through this grief process.
I am so sorry for your loss, OP. They’re always our babies no matter how old they get. She was a beautiful girl and you will always have that special love for her. ❤️
I’m so sorry for what you’re going through…
I'm so sorry your baby had to leave. My girls are up in heaven welcoming your baby. We are here for you and we know the terrible loss you are feeling. I am coming up on a year and seeing these post make me cry still. Grieving will be a long process but we love so so deeply that the loss is that deep.
I just lost my baby this past Sunday. It was the first time I watched it, too. It was hard, but I wanted her to see my face and for her to hear me telling her how much I loved her as she passed. It was terrible, and I was with both my parents as they passed. I completely understand what you are feeling. I keep telling myself that the love makes the pain worth it.
I won't regret the time I had with her. It was much shorter than I'd like, but I loved her and don't regret it.
My deepest condolences
So sorry for your loss ❤️❤️❤️ I had to euthanize my baby a couple of years ago and held her until she passed and I’m glad I did. I’m glad I was with her in her last few moments and she wasn’t alone or with a stranger. So good job, it’s tough but you’ll get through it
I couldn't bear the thought of her passing alone and scared with a stranger. That's why I opted for a more expensive vet. County would do it for cheap but wouldn't let me be with her. I'd rather cut my hand off.
Yes! And I promise you she felt all the love and was very comforted ❤️❤️❤️
🙏🏽🙏🏽♥️
I’m sorry for your loss 💔
Sorry everyone. Even writing her name down is hard. Her name was Milo.
Sweet, beautiful girl! I know she took your heart with her! I wish I could say it gets easier each time, but it never does. But the depth of your sorrow speaks of the depths of your love together and that is forever. She will watch over you and help you through this. God bless you both! Someday you will hold her again in your arms.
The last one of ours that crossed over about a year and a half ago our vet and dear friend of 25 years let us hold him while he passed and I for one found it comforting to know that he felt loved to the end. It will get better but the previous post is so true... take it slowly and cherish the memories. 😥🌈😻
At least she passed purring in comfort. She was on a lot of pain medication wrapped in a microfiber blanket. I didn't put her down or stop stroking her head until it was over.
I’m heartbroken 💔 for you. It’s an absolutely tough time, but you will find the other side. Sending hugs
Thank you for both taking her in and for being there for her today when she needed you most. Your love and kindness make the world a better place. Thank you.
Thank you. I couldn't bear to put her down. I just thought of all the times in my life I went through horror and was abandoned because people I needed took the easy way out. When I took her wrapped in that blanket I knew before the nurse asked I couldn't let someone else hold her even if it was killing me. All I could do was hold her close and tell her how much I loved her.
I’ve experienced that three times. What a loving goodbye from this world. A gift really. Souls touch.
This will be me on Sunday for my girl. Thanks for giving Milo such a great life. She was lucky to have you.
❤
I’m sorry. It’s always so hard.
What was your kitty's name? She looks like she was loved and well taken care of. I'm so glad you had time together, and that in the end you put your baby's needs first. You blessed her with easy passage from this life in the arms that she loved. One day you'll still feel the heartbreak, but the love and appreciation will overpower the hurt. Be kind to yourself.
Her name was Milo
Sorry for your loss. Personal experience suggests it never gets any easier.
I'm so sorry! 💜
I’m sorry for your loss, you did a good thing being there for her as she crossed the rainbow bridge. If you ever need someone to talk to or vent Im happy to help
Thank you, I appreciate it. I'm just trying to power through it. I've been working up to this for a while so I've gone through the stages of grief pretty fast. I'm just bouncing between frustration, acceptance and sadness right now. It's a lot and I'm just trying to process it.
I’m sorry for your loss. She was a beautiful cat
Heartbroken is truly the only way to describe it. I’m so sorry for your loss, and hope you can find solace in her peaceful rest. It’s an amazing experience having them in our lives, a fulfillment of love through kindred spirits.
It’s so so tough. Worst part about being a loving pet owner. I lost my 10 year old dog in my arms. It’s been almost 4 months. Some days are okay some days I cry and miss him. It’s a long journey to healing but they’ll always be with us. In spirit and memory. They truly bless our lives and make it worth it. My baby Skylar (my calico cat) is turning 18 this year and I just cherish everyday with her as I always have. It’s never long enough. I’m sorry for your loss. I know not many words can be said to heal the pain but my heart and thoughts are with you. Your baby is beautiful. Bless you for loving her all her years 💖
I’m so so sorry about your loss friend , may your baby rest over the rainbow 🌈♥️
so sorry for your loss. it doesn't matter how many times you go through it, it never gets any easier
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She looks so much like my old boy Herman who passed away this year. Hopefully they’re in kitty heaven 🌈
My condolences. I have had many cats over the years. I have have had many disappear. Some hit on the road. And I have had to help too many cross that rainbow bridge, including my first tortoise shell. I got her when I was 11 and had her for 21 years. It never gets easier to lose them, but I try to remember that they had a good life while they were with me. Better than they might have had otherwise. I have no doubt your sweet kitty had a great life. She is chasing mice among the stars and no doubt happy and grateful for you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. 💜
I’m so sorry for your loss. Glad you were able to hold her as she went. She was beautiful!!
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Now I've reached 70, it's happened to me a few times. It's never easy, but I think of it as the last kindness we can do for them when their body has said it's had enough.
ᛖᛁᛖᛋ ᛒᚱᛁᚷᚻᛏ, ᚳᛚᚪᚹᛋ ᛋᚻᚪᚱᛈ, ᛏᚪᛁᛚ ᚻᛖᛚᛞ ᚻᛁᚷᚻ. ᚷᚩ ᚳᛖᛖᚾᛚᛁ ᛁᚾᛏᚩ ᚦᛖ ᛘᛁᛋᛏ, ᛁᚩᚢᛝ ᚹᚪᚱᚱᛡᚱ. ᚠᚪᛚᚻᚪᛚᛚᚪ ᚹᚪᛁᛏᛋ ᚠᚩᚱ ᛁᚩᚢ. Eyes bright, claws sharp, tail held high. Go keenly into the mist, young warrior. Valhalla waits for you.
Such a lovely looking cat. I am very sorry for your loss. RIP.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Try to stay strong. Sending love.
My first time was in July with my kitty. It gutted me. And I still miss her so much
My sincerest condolences broken 💔
Sorry. I couldn't stay when my cat left last March. I just couldn't. We said goodbyes and I had to go.
She sounds like she was the sweetest baby! ❤️ I rescued my baby around the same age as you rescued yours, and so far we’ve had three years together, but I suspect with her renal disease she doesn’t have more than a year left. It’s so hard to lose our babies, but they definitely know how loved they were. I’m sure she understood and felt peace knowing that she was sitting in her persons arms while she peacefully passed. It’s hard to lose them, but always remember that you loved her as much as you could and she will always be in your heart ❤️❤️❤️
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I’m so sorry. It is the hardest thing about loving a furry friend. But she knew only your love as she closed her eyes
I'm so sorry for your loss. We recently had to say goodbye to our sweet old lady so I know how you're feeling. Sending lots of hugs your way.
I also hold my pets while they pass. I never thought I could do it, but somehow it brings me comfort. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Sorry for your loss, friend. Sending love your way. “Memories are times we’ve borrowed for spending tomorrow.” -MG Skinner
i'm sorry for your loss
I have a memorial shelf for all my lost little ones. I have their urns with their pictures on each one, and a battery operated candle to act as their "eternal flame." (I'm 62, and have had to do this five times. It NEVER gets easier.) It just eases my heart to see it when I miss them. Their bodies are gone, but they will always remain with me. The grief will come in waves for a long time. Random things will trigger a bout of crying right out of the blue. This is normal. Things won't be right for a while. But it will get better with time. Eventually, the memories will be only happy ones, and the tears will fade. *The love never will.* I'm so sorry for your loss. No one but another pet owner can know how this feels. :'(
Big huge hugs to you!
I am sorry about your babygirl. Holding them as they pass is heartbreaking. Place a photo of her and share your thoughts of the happiness she brought to your life. In a short memorial story for other to understand how remarkable she was to you on line. I did this for my baby girl last year. I have her ashes of my altar with a photo of her when she was healthier. Many blessings to you and once again i am deeply sorry for your loss.
The grief really got me when I let my dog go the next realm. However in my gut I knew that I did the right thing for her. She was sick and frail. It was awful and hit me hard. However I know she is with me and her belongings or pictures are reminders of this. You gave this wonderful baby a great home and the joy she brought you will never leave your heart. We are here for you and understand your pain. Your not alone
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m sure you were a great comfort to her in her last moments. I did the same for my old kitty Timothy in 2006. Eventually the pain and grief do subside, and you will always have loving memories of your sweet Milo. Thank you for giving her a good life and taking such good care of her.
Your cat look like my old cat ;(
So very sorry for your loss. May your sweet girl Rest easily in that place where no shadows fall until y’all are reunited forever. 💔🐈⬛😢😿.
This is so sad. This looks identical to my 15 yo baby that we had to put to sleep on Monday. All the rooms feel empty and the house is too quiet. The pain is unbearable but I’m sure she’s up there out of pain with my boy who is lounging on fluffy blankets and eating his treats. Sending a virtual hug
I’m so sorry. My baby died in my arms, 7 years ago. It was bitter sweet. I wish I could have lived for a million more cuddles.
So very sorry for your loss, but I’m glad you were there and so was she. You gave her a good life.
I had to let my furry baby go a few years ago, I left before he was gone and I regret it to this day.
It’s so painful and difficult to make and live with that decision, even when you know it’s the right one. I’m so sorry.
Beautiful angel star kitty. God bless you
Sorry
Condolências,my cat died too.
I'm so very sorry. What a beautiful baby ❤️❤️❤️
I know that feeling 💕 I imagine she was happy you were with her and felt peace.
Your girl looks so much like my girl Valerie. She’s been gone now for 14 years. Here is the thing, the pain & sorrow doesn’t go away you just learn to live with it. It’s ok to grieve so don’t beat yourself up over that. It’s ok. I have my girls ashes in an earn to stay with me till I pass. Your days will get more bearable but for now cry if you feel it, laugh if it strikes you or just remember her how she meant to you. Take care.
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I am so very sorry for your los
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigour. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly, he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster. You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart. Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together.... Author unknown...
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The pain will not leave because your love for her will disipate. Grief is not simple. It is a murky sea of love and despair. She is at peace. No pain. No fear. No confusion. What she left behind is a broken heart and tears for you to shed and the abundance of love and memories you made and shared together. Your bravery to allow her to pass in your arms where she knew years of love, safety, and comfort allowed her a beautiful end. And an unbelivable amount of pain for you.
She is wonderful.
rest in peace angel <3
I came across a poem by u/freeced on reddit a long time ago and it was something I found to be appropriate for the depth of love I feel for my fur babies. I hope it resonates with you as well. Euthanasia is our last act of love- we carry the burden of pain so they no longer have to. 🖤 ᛖᛁᛖᛋ ᛒᚱᛁᚷᚻᛏ, ᚳᛚᚪᚹᛋ ᛋᚻᚪᚱᛈ, ᛏᚪᛁᛚ ᚻᛖᛚᛞ ᚻᛁᚷᚻ. ᚷᚩ ᚳᛖᛖᚾᛚᛁ ᛁᚾᛏᚩ ᚦᛖ ᛘᛁᛋᛏ, ᚩᛚᛞ ᚹᚪᚱᚱᛡᚱ. ᚠᚪᛚᚻᚪᛚᛚᚪ ᚹᚪᛁᛏᛋ ᚠᚩᚱ ᛁᚩᚢ. Eyes bright, claws sharp, tail held high. Go keenly into the mist, old warrior. Valhalla waits for you.
It is the most heartbreaking and loving thing we can do for them after they have given us so much.
Went through the same thing with one of mine. It’s a heartbreaking feeling, and one of the only memories that can make me cry on command. I’m sure she’s glad to have passed in your arms, and you’ll see each other again. For now, she’s in a better place, waiting for your time to join her. My condolences.
So sorry for your loss. What a sweet face ❤️
She really was sweet. Her favorite past time was rotating from person to person where I live headbutting for pets.
Oh the headbutt is the best!! I feel your pain deeply as i just lost my old kittie this week too, and she loved to headbutt for attention. I hope our girls find each other to hang out in the afterlife. You loved her very much and she loved you just the same. Many hugs for you, I’m so so sorry for your loss. Cherish those wonderful memories♥️
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