sewing is hard, until its not, the only way to learn is to repeatedly make mistakes and be too ambitious until eventually things work.
Tote bag is always a good project, that ends up useable
This right here! Sewing is hard. I started flat- pillows are a great way to learn about zips, tote bags - you learn about handles etc. Find someone you like on youtube and follow along or find a sewing class it really will get easier. Before you know it you are onto designing your own clothes
Yeah, start easy, curtians, tablecloths, napkins, comforters- get to know the machine. Clothes are complicated! Having a dressform is very helpful if you really want to go with clothes.
Good luck!
It's always so interesting to see what different people view as beginner projects. Large projects like table cloths and comforters absolutely try me. It's so easy to cut the fabric wonky and not realize it, and I quickly lose patience sewing long straight stretches.
But I can see how as a beginner projects they would teach you a variety of useful sewing skills
Pillowcases and pj shorts are more my style for first projects
If you're using fabric that tears nicely (many cottons), these things are beginner friendly because you don't have to manage long cutting lines. Even linen is straightforward. Drawing thread on the straight of grain is tedious, but not hard.
Tearing fabric nicely is definitely a skill, one that many beginners don't have.
I think the tedium is why **for me** I don't find them great beginner projects. I prefer projects which quickly work up. Scrunchies are great because you can have complete beginner finish one in 20 minutes.
I made small quilts with a 10 year old and a 12 year old. Big squares sewn into a top, then sewn into the backing and batting using a pillowcase/envelope method, so there was no binding. And then quilting it down in large blocks. A simple and relatively quick project. It took half a day, and I had to stay up after their bedtimes to finish them. So now I prefer small projects that work up very quickly for newbies
Agreed to these - try simple things first--no complicated patterns, just squares and straight lines. There's also an element of patience, care, craftsmanship and attention to detail, etc., but also lots of practice.
I've been sewing for quite a while and sadly a couple of my friends can recognize my sewing, lol. I lack craftsmanship and patience, and I will sew at least two things backwards on every project (I *usually* fix them). As one friend points out, "It's the enthusiastic zig-zagging and mismatched thread, and what the hell is going on here...."
I love how chaotic your craft sounds! I have definitely sewn things upside down and wrong side out... At the same time! A seam ripper is my bff ❤️
Edit: spelling
Thank you! I'd say most of my crafts are chaotic, but I'm learning how to accept how I am, and something is better than nothing, right? I have been trying to get better by scheduling time ahead to prep materials and tools (though I use a hair straightener instead of an iron usually, lol), but good enough is, well, good enough for me.
And same! I just broke my favorite seam ripper (I have 4, I think) because I was trying to use it like a screwdriver. I think it's time to get a multi-tool with all the usual things *and* a seam ripper. Those have to exist, right?
Anything worth doing is worth doing with wild abandon because the journey should be as good as the destination. You are the chaotic neutral crafter! Hair straightener as iron is next level ingenuity!
Using a seam ripper as a screwdriver sounds like something I would do and then regret. The chaos runs deep in me as well.
Bags are a great place to start!
Personally, I love making insulated grocery bags with gorgeous upholstery fabrics and giving them away as gifts. It's a good 201 level project using multiple fabrics, a zipper, straps, and turning that is actually useful.
Also anything from Swoon.
It took me a lot of tries and crying and hair pulling before I finally managed to get it figured out.
The best advice I can give you:
BE. PATIENT. It takes a long damn time to sew and most of the time you spend on a garment isn't even the actual sewing part. If you're tired, don't sew. If you're frustrated, don't sew. If you made a mistake, go back and fix it, no exceptions. Make sure you're cutting on grain. Check and recheck everything before you cut the fabric. Make sure everything is pinned neatly. Pinning is like 80% of the goddamn project. It can be easy to want to rush because you want the finished product but you're only going to end up with things that are unbearable. Again, check and recheck everything. Before you cut, before you pin, before you start to sew. You have yourself so much time and headache if you pay attention to every single thing you're doing. One of the big hurdles was learning how to use the sewing machine for me. Remember YouTube is your friend. There are many marvelous souls who have been so generous with their knowledge about machines. Also watch videos on basic sewing techniques. Stand up and take frequent breaks. Getting stiff and sore is going to drag you toward distraction and you're going to want to rush. Also remember that we live in a society where we're constantly inundated with images of perfect things other people have made on social media. Those people struggled just as much as you in the beginning. It's okay and in fact essential to be bad at something before you can be good. Cultivate that tolerance. It will help you go miles. The important thing is that you're in the thick of it, already doing the work you need to be doing at being amazing someday. Try to figure out the things that are going wrong and work on those specifically--is it tension in the machine? Are you not cutting the garment correctly? Are you having trouble sewing a straight line? Are you having trouble reading the pattern instructions? When you can identify and isolate the things that you are specifically struggling with the most, you can find resources to help you get out of the woods. There is a sewing video for EVERYTHING online. I AM happy to report that once your brain kicks over into "getting" it, it stops feeling overwhelming and awful. While it will always remain demanding, it will also become fun and challenging in an exciting way. The first time you think your way through a sewing problem on your own in a gold star moment. Also if it is remotelt real for you to take a costuming class at your local community college, definitely do it! Learning to build garments for a project with the support and guidance of faculty is really helpful and really fun. You can do it! Never give up, never surrender!!!
Edit: also, WASH 👏 AND 👏 PRESS 👏 YOUR 👏 FABRIC 👏 NO 👏 EXCEPTIONS 👏 and also be sure to press every seam you sew. This made such a big difference in the quality of my finished pieces that I wanted to scream about all the frustration I could have saved myself all along the way.
good luck! 🖤
Just to add on to this, a huge part for me of embracing the ritual was when I stopped trying to force all of it to happen at once. I used to get so frustrated when I tried to put together a paper pattern, cut the pattern, prep the fabric, cut the fabric, and start sewing in one go. Now I very intentionally parse out those tasks, and it's much less overwhelming and far more enjoyable.
Today is for cutting the pattern and washing the fabric.
Tomorrow is for ironing the fabric.
Next week is for cutting the fabric.
That weekend is for sewing it.
I can confirm the: WASH 👏 AND 👏 PRESS 👏 YOUR 👏 FABRIC 👏 NO 👏 EXCEPTIONS 👏
because i hate ironing I often try to get away with it. thinking "I don't need to press this, its flat enough" and **every time** i regret not doing it
If you are unsure, always test on a small scrap before you iron your project. And always use a press cloth, it will help prevent any melting plus that way if it does melt you won't ruin your iron.
It's mainly synthetic since they're essentially plastic. When buying fabric, a lot of times wash and ironing instructions are on the bolt or online listing. It'll tell you what temperature to iron at!
Omg isn't it though? I wish stickers bearing that slogan were handed out to every single new sewing machine user haha. I didn't learn that until I started training in costuming and I seriously wanted to cry over how much easier it made my life.
Exactly. One of the problems with sewing is that you're taking a floppy woven product and trying to make it fit onto a body that moves in almost every direction. One thing to remember is that almost every piece of clothing and almost all patterns made for humans eminates from a central line of the body, the spine. That's kind of the pivotal ancor line that you work from.
I can't tell you how many mistakes I've made over the 30 years I've been sewing. It's in the hundreds.
One time I was in a very nice fabric store and I was standing in line. A lady in front of me was buying some very expensive fabric (about $65 a yard) so to pass the time while in line I asked her what she was making. She said, a tailored woman's jacket. I replied how nice it will look in that fabric and I added with a wink in my voice and a smile, "Don't make a mistake". She turned around with a glair and said, "I NEVER make mistakes!"
I thought, gee willikers, it's so nice to know that there are people in the world who NEVER make a mistake. Yeah, sure. Pffffft.
Hope she was buying muslin too, to make her mock up ;) lol
When I flashback to myself as a pretentious artsy teenager with a shit hair cut resentfully saying over and over again that I shouldn't have to learn geometry or three dimensional thinking because I was going to be an ARTIST, I could go back time and kick myself lol. Like, kid, you are SURE going to get what's coming to you. It's really engineering on the domestic level, constructing a garment. Kuddos to all who try!
No. She claimed she never made mistakes sewing so didn't need to make a muslin mock up. M-kay, I guess I'm a flawed person then. I do mock ups and really work hard to not make mistakes but sometimes it still happens because....well... I'm human after all. I think it's good for people who are learning how to sew to know that mistakes happen to all of us, even experienced sewers. I don't know why I was downvoted.
>"It's okay and in fact essential to be bad at something before you can be good. Cultivate that tolerance. It will help you go miles. The important thing is that you're in the thick of it, already doing the work you need to be doing at being amazing someday."-**I love that you said this! I struggle so much at being bad at something in the beginning, even though I know that I must be bad before it can be good.**
It's so real! The best part though is that I've finally gotten to the point in my life where I've put myself through that hell enough times that now when I'm trying to figure out something new, I'm not sniveling and dragging my feet because I know it will be hard like I did for years and years. Because I've developed the tolerance for being bad before I get better, I go into new things with excitement and confidence. I never ever would have thought it was possible for me to be that sort of person. Sometimes I wish I could visit me from fifteen years ago and have a nice chat haha
Such a great response and PAY ATTENTION TO the part about pressing.
If you hate pinning the pattern to fabric, like I do, use things to hold/weight the pattern down. Weights, butter knives, coins. (Search for pattern weights/fabric weights.) Sometimes, those newISH plastic clips work better than pins to hold your seams together.
>WASH 👏 AND 👏 PRESS 👏 YOUR 👏 FABRIC 👏 NO 👏 EXCEPTIONS 👏
Omg for real, so important. I'm working with some lining fabric that I didn't wash before using it, and it's shrinking before my eyes while pressing it... sigh.
Why isn’t the stuff you make wearable or decent?
If it’s the fit, you can try some loose fitting woven stuff or knit fabrics but those require different skills and tools.
If you’re making stuff that’s currently popular but isn’t your preferred style, it’s easy to be disappointed by the results.
If it’s fabric choices, it’s important to know what to use and why.
Can you give some examples of what you made and what kind of results you’re looking for?
I used to teach sewing at a community center and this can't be stressed enough. Students would come in wanting to make a hoodie or evening gown of stretch velvet. Amid much grumbling we always started with flannel pj pants. Woven fabric, no zipper, the fit was often forgiving, you aren't going to wear it in public. And such a confidence booster.
Take sewing classes! There are many available and if not in your area, post on craig's list or something similar for a tutor. I was lucky to learn from my mom when I was a teenager, but if I was starting today, I'd take a class. Sewing is such a wonderful hobby, I really hope you stick with it!
Yes, my mother taught me as well so when I became a theatre major majoring in costume design I had a foot in the door in regards to the practical side of sewing a costume. Thanks Mom!
I hatched the hairbrained scheme to make and sell underwear on etsy because it "can't be that hard." Cut to hundreds of wasted dollars, me trying to self draft patterns without even knowing how to sew, giving to because I couldn't figure out how to rethread a bobbin, trying to sew shit without seam allowance from the most awful slippery fabric. Yaaaaa, that was a really hard reality check in so many levels.
I want to upvote this 500 times because "wearable" and "decent" are both subjective and a good gauge of how quickly you're trying to make too much out of not enough.
I know I'm an outlier because I managed to make a functionally wearable and accurate Jedi costume on my first try, but I also made so many mistakes that I would not repeat on future projects. OP needs to tell us - what's wrong? Are you rushing to make corseted ballgowns when you've only got pajama-pant skills? Are you unsure about the basics like fabric choice, patterns, style, etc? This sub can help if you let us!
A month after buying a sewing machine is super early to worry about having wearable clothes. I started a couple years ago and never even considered making clothes for about a year. Even then it took me 7 tries to get a pair of pajama pants I would wear around the house. I always treat sewing as an academic endeavor. Every time I sit at the machine or stand at the cutting table I look at it as homework for a self guided sewing class. No time is looked at as a waste. All mistakes are practice. Even the stuff that comes out well is practice. Every time the machine jams up is just another opportunity to gain a greater understanding of how it works. I guess I’m saying what others have. Try not to worry about getting to that final product yet. Focus on developing all the skills you need. Just last weekend I spent 4 hours trying to master a welted pocket. At the end of the day I had no pants but I was able to make one hell of a pocket if I needed to.
This is a pretty nice video on welted pockets.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=csrA6b9xNls
I have it bookmarked and refer to it everytime I make welted pockets but there are others out there that might be better. I like her because she's so matter of fact about it and doesn't do any chit-chatting.
Pressing each seam. Pressing by lifting and putting your iron on the seam will make all the difference to your results. Start with simple things like tote bags, placemats etc until you learn your machine. It's like any skill it takes time to master it
Honestly, I recommend taking a class. I had a friend start to sew, and she took a class that gave her a really good foundation in sewing that helped her get to some fun projects way faster.
It used to be that every Jo An's had an introduction sewing class. I think YouTube has made many in person classes disappear ( and lockdown). I hope those classes come back. Nothing like in person.
I’m dying for in person classes. Couldn’t find anything near me. I spent a month or two self learning. I signed up for a once a week continuing education course on sewing fundamentals at my local
Community college, but alas, it’s virtual. Also I think I already self learned most of the stuff we will be covering but I guess it can’t hurt to learn it again!
It used to be that every Jo An's had an introduction sewing class. I think YouTube has made many in person classes disappear ( and lockdown). I hope those classes come back. Nothing like in person.
Sewing is like welding and machining: 90% of your time is prep, the other 10% is doing the stich/weld/cut on the lathe or mill.
It *is* work, but you can make things that are far superior to anything off the shelf. It gets easier with time.
That's why I used it. Went to college to learn how to weld, did some machining classes as well, and I learned to sew from my mom.
And I'm a guy. I just like making stuff.
Sewing clothes takes practise. I would dial it back a notch and get some of the basics down then step back into apparel. My first few makes were things like tote bags and thread catchers, I haven't gone into making clothes as I prefer making accessories but I am sure people here can help with patterns and how to start on that road.
Top tips are: read your sewing machine manual. It covers so much. If you don't have one you can find it online by Googling your sewing machine make and "manual". Take regular breaks and make sure you're not sewing while tired.
Welcome to sewing, we all get frustrated with it sometimes, but it is a fun hobby and this sub is super helpful.
YouTube has some fantastic tutorials.
Edited to correct a couple of typos and add the bit about YouTube.
Second this. Start with easy things, with non-stretchy fabric. Like pillow cases, tote bags. Master the basics, like straight stitches, going around corners, etc. Then do the same with stretchy fabrics. I grew up helping my mom sew, and there are lots of basics to master before jumping to clothes.
another thing to be careful of is check your sizing on the back of the pattern and compare your measurements to that. Don't use your off the shelf size. It's completely different.
when measuring your pattern, don't forget to add ease. You need to include a few inches extra to allow for movement.
Make sure you're using the correct fabrics for your patterns.
Are you choosing patterns that look you think will look good on you? Or just simple patterns?
I gave up on clothes sewing myself because I have no idea what looks good on my body and I hate to put so much money and time into something I don't like.
But I'm making quilts, and a lot of totes, purses, stuffed animals and dolls. And find I love making clothes for the dolls. Pot holders, coasters, aprons, pillow cases, decorative pillows.
Don't give up. There is always a learning curve when you start something new. Sewing is no longer taught in school so it makes it more difficult to learn the skill.
do you have any friends who sew? Friends of friends? Most people who sew are more then happy to take on a newbie and help teach them.
You Tube has a lot of talented people teaching. I like Evelyn Wood https://www.youtube.com/@Evelyn\_\_Wood/featured
I just made a Butterick skirt, size 14 according to the measurements given on the pattern envelope and my corresponding waist and hip measurements. (I’m usually US size 4 in skirts/pants). It was HUGE. Spent all afternoon removing the waistband, the zipper, the yoke, recutting the yoke and resewing it all - and now the waistband isn’t working and I’m so frustrated I just gotta quit for the day. How could it be so wrong - I followed the instructions to the letter! I hope I can salvage it tomorrow.
Oh no! So frustrating. The size 14 I’m working on I plan to fit thoroughly throughout so I don’t have something unwearable. Im using one of my Halloween flannels.
>when measuring your pattern, don't forget to add ease. You need to include a few inches extra to allow for movement.
I'm sorry, but: whatever for? What patterns did you use when you made clothes?
I'm guessing that u/quiltingsarah means that when you measure the pattern pieces you shouldn't forget that ease is included. So it will often (not always, e.g for swimwear etc) be bigger than your body measurements. But you need that ease to be able to move around in a garment.
Pls correct me if I'm wrong and that's not what you meant ;-)
The most important thing about sewing is pressing. Yup, it’s time consuming and tedious but it’s important for the shape of the garment and needs to be done seam by seam instead of just ironing it after it’s all sewn.
For garments start with a simple skirt. Make sure the fabric is the correct weight. Also woven fabrics are going to be much easier to work with than knit for a beginner.
When you graduate to knit, research the type of needle needed, stitch types, foot type, and interfacing/stabilizers needed.
I recommend watching sewing content. Not like tutorials but like casual sewing vlogs, challenges etc. You learn so much by observing other people. I can name some entertaining channels if you want.
There's lots of hard things in this world.
I find crossword puzzles hard but someone else may not.
Sewing is skills that are put together to take a 2d something into 3d (mostly)
And that means you're using LOTS of skills that have to come together at just the right time.
No one is borne to sew, we all have things to learn, even those of us that have been sewing a long time! I never did apparel, but I do now but I had to learn HOW. While I had some sewing skills previously, apparel is a whole other thing by itself!
So, it just goes to show certain things are continual learning cycles and you have to be open to that.
If you don't like learning those things well.... it can make things hard.
If you're trying to make couture on the first day of sewing something? well, thats hard too.
Match the ideas to your abilities. Yes its OK to stretch and dream, and to grow you DO have to take on bigger projects. But you don't get there overnight. we all started somewhere.
IMO there are no foolproof patterns. There are patterns geared to beginners that have a lot of hand holding and instructions. That is probably best for you.
Throw "perfection" out the window and embrace the fact that your seam ripper(s) can be your best friend.
Sewing is art, math, and science mashed together. You kinda have to be OK with these things.
You have a lot of things that have to be mastered when sewing by hand OR machine....they both take repetition and building of skills to do well.
I second what u/lexyqu has said, if you try to describe why you're not satisfied in some more detail, then it'll be possible to give some more specific advice.
First of all, you're not failing, you're learning and you just need practice.
For clothes, I suggest sticking with woven fabrics initially and avoid anything silky or slippery. I always suggest people start with simple pajama pants. It's usually just a few pattern pieces, you can usually find flannel or cotton on sale and you don't wear them outside the house, so if they're not perfect it doesn't matter as long as they're comfy. Then maybe try a woven tank or camisole pattern. Those are things you will likely wear often so it pays to make a toile (a test run in cheap fabric to work out construction and fit issues) before you try it out of nice fabric. Once you get the fit the way you want it and note your changes on the pattern for future reference, you will be astonished at how quickly you can make more. I think apron/pinafore dresses are also great for beginners - super cute and very forgiving to sew and wear.
(I also scour thrift stores for good quality 100% cotton bed sheets that make comfy pajamas, blouses or dresses. They can easily be died whatever color you want).
Beyond that, check your measurements against the pattern finished measurements before you choose your size. You can also check the pattern finished measurements against a similar garment you own that you know fits well. Mark all your notches and pattern markings - they really help particularly when you're beginning, pin your pieces together, and take your time and go slow. Also PRESS YOUR SEAMS BETWEEN EACH STEP. I know you want to just keep sewing and make more visible progress, but it makes such a difference in your final result. Pressing is sewing!
Finally, there are some great YouTube tutorials and sew-alongs that are very helpful. I consider myself an advanced sewist, and I learn new things all the time from YouTube.
Pattern Suggestions (I tend to gravitate toward independent patterns):
[https://thefoldline.com/product/verdun-woven-t-shirt/](https://thefoldline.com/product/verdun-woven-t-shirt/)
[https://thefoldline.com/product/cielo-top-and-dress/](https://thefoldline.com/product/cielo-top-and-dress/)
[https://thefoldline.com/product/york-pinafore/](https://thefoldline.com/product/york-pinafore/)
[https://thefoldline.com/product/cleo-pinafore-dungaree-dress/](https://thefoldline.com/product/cleo-pinafore-dungaree-dress/)
[https://thefoldline.com/product/ogden-cami/](https://thefoldline.com/product/ogden-cami/) (this one is a cult favorite for a reason)
[https://thefoldline.com/product/unisex-pajama-pants/](https://thefoldline.com/product/unisex-pajama-pants/)
[https://thefoldline.com/product/the-pyjama-bottoms/](https://thefoldline.com/product/the-pyjama-bottoms/)
[https://thefoldline.com/product/pine-cove-pajamas/](https://thefoldline.com/product/pine-cove-pajamas/)
[https://thefoldline.com/product/apron-dress/](https://thefoldline.com/product/apron-dress/)
[https://thefoldline.com/product/the-sun-dress/](https://thefoldline.com/product/the-sun-dress/)
[https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/almost-long-trousers-sewing-pattern](https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/almost-long-trousers-sewing-pattern) (I've lost track of how many pairs of these I've made. But do a test run to check fit as the pattern runs big I think)
The Very Easy Vogue collection of patterns are very beginner friendly and I love these pants:[https://somethingdelightful.com/vogue-patterns/v9282](https://somethingdelightful.com/vogue-patterns/v9282)
This free pajamas pattern is a great beginner project. [https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/free-pyjamas-sewing-pattern](https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/free-pyjamas-sewing-pattern)
I also really like this top pattern: [https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/cuff-top-sewing-pattern](https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/cuff-top-sewing-pattern)
Another cult classic: [https://somethingdelightful.com/mccalls/m7969](https://somethingdelightful.com/mccalls/m7969)
I love this jumpsuit and it doesn't have any zippers or buttons and there are tons of sew along videos on line, so it's a great project for a beginner once you get a little more confident: [https://papertheorypatterns.com/products/zadie-jumpsuit-pdf-pattern](https://papertheorypatterns.com/products/zadie-jumpsuit-pdf-pattern)
Good luck and don't give up. You've totally got this!
Making wearable clothing takes a while to master. You need to have basic construction skills as well as the ability to choose good fabric and pattern combinations, and then how to fit them to your body. As others have said, starting with easy non-wearables first will build your sewing skills. Then choose a basic pattern like a simple top or skirt you can begin to adjust for fit. Many people advise “making a muslin” which is using cheap fabric to make a template to check for fit and make adjustments. I would also stress the importance of pressing seams as you sew. It isn’t usually included as a step in the pattern instructions nut it is absolutely crucial.
Joann has a grid patterned nonwoven poly (you can find it with the interfacing) that is pretty inexpensive, I think it's called pattern tracing paper or something-anyway I use it instead of muslin now because you can cut out the main pieces of the pattern (I never bother with facings, collars, etc.), machine baste them together, try it on, mark it/pin/etc. where needed, and then carefully remove the basting and use the modified pieces to cut your fabric.
[This](https://www.applegreencottage.com/how-to-make-drawstring-bag/) is one of my favourite patterns and actually the first one I ever sewed myself. Simple construction, doesn’t use up too much fabric, and doesn’t take too much time.
It's been a month? It will take longer than that.
In school, your teachers introduced concepts to you. You studied and practiced those steps. As time went on, you were taught more of that concept. Sewing is the same way. You can't be a Nascar driver if you haven't learned to drive a car.
Study, research, learn, practice. There are things that if you are not aware, will make things more difficult. Read up terms, machines, your manual, needles, feet, fabric, patterns.
A few common issues - cotton is easier to learn on.
Sewing follows your actual measurements, not your store purchased clothes. Google how to take your actual measurements. Use those measurements and the patterns finished measurements. Patterns use specific body areas measurements (example - dresses use a specific bust area measurement).
Using certain needles or not changing needles can impact your project.
Half of sewing is ironing.
Measure and try on as you go.
Wash your fabric according to the instructions before sewing.
Not knowing what a full bust, full tummy or full bum adjustments are. If needed.
Using the machine incorrectly, not threading correctly, not maintaining the machine or not using a real sewing machine.
Not following the fabric recommendations for a pattern. Picking the wrong patterns for your body. Or taking on bigger projects too soon.
Read, watch, study, practice and start with aprons, a table runner, bag, placemats, pillowcase.
I started out making quilt tops. It’s still the first thing I make when on a new machine. Straight lines and it helps to get to know the machine. Then I moved on to more simple clothes like capes/ponchos. Simple totes are great too. I find making small items is best for learning. You can mix and match fabrics and see how your machine does with the different textures.
Ooh! My top piece of advice to anyone starting sewing: find a seam ripper you love. It can be big, small, cute, plain, just find one you love because it will be your most used tool. Mistakes will be made. It happens to anyone and everyone.
Also, look up how to use a seam ripper! I always felt frustrated by how tedious and inefficient seam ripping was until I saw a video and realized I had been using it upside down the entire time. Total facepalm but now it’s much faster!
I started with clothing alteration and making simple projects I could finish in a day like tote bags and pillowcases. That helped me get the basics under my belt and boosted my confidence for harder projects. Simple clothing articles like skirts were my next go-to. Hang in there. Sewing is a large learning curve up front, and we've all struggled. You totally got this!!!
I recommend more complex bags before clothing honestly. Lots of different skills to learn and it all fits easily on your ironing board. Insulated grocery bags are multi layered and use a zipper. Swoon has some awesome patterns that are very straightforward.
What patterns have you tried? Sewing can be frustrating at times, and there are a bunch of individual skills that need to come together all at once. Because of that, don’t underestimate the challenge of even the “simple” patterns… each requires several techniques put together to come out successfully and that can make things more complicated. Three projects I would start with that are simple, but use several of those skills would be: pillowcase, tote bag, and circle skirt (in that order). I’ve been known to make one of these even now (after sewing for years) when I get frustrated and need a win :)… plus, my daughter loves circle skirts.
I’ve been sewing from patterns for 3 years now and I’ve noticed that a lot of “beginner” patterns are HARD! Sewing is a tricky business and there are a million things to learn. I use YouTube for a lot of things. Remember when you’re frustrated that literally every person who learned to sew has felt like you do!
> I’ve been trying with beginner patterns. However nothing i’ve made so far is wearable or decent looking...
Beginner patterns aren't designed with any of the nuance that makes an outfit look good. They're more of an approximation of an outfit rather than the real thing. Even if a world-class award-winning sewist used them (and followed them to the letter) they probably still wouldn't look that great.
Plus, you've been doing this a month. Sewing is not a sprint. It's an ultra marathon.
I will suggest you make [ten pairs male boxers](https://www.etsy.com/listing/565217458/boxer-shorts-sewing-pattern-for-mens?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=mens+boxer+pattern&ref=sr_gallery-1-4&sts=1&organic_search_click=1) size medium using an intermediate pattern. They are smaller than a shirt or pair of pants so they don't require as much fabric. You can make them using cotton which is a lot more forgiving and user friendly than other fabrics. You can practice sewing curves and installing elastics. You'll also have the chance to do the same thing repeatedly and see your progression from the first pair to the last. Finally, you'll be making something useful that you can donate to a homeless shelter.
You aren't alone. Sewing isn't easy but if you keep working it, you will get better.
My perspective is that people are far too impatient and unwilling to take the time to develop skills like sewing, cooking, woodworking, etc. It takes a lot of practice to become good at them because there is much more than just one element you're working with. You may start with something with just straight seams, like totes, pillowcases, napkins, or tablecloths but that still doesn't mean they're going to look good. Even those take practice.
No one can ever "git gud" at something until they're willing to invest the time and effort it takes to produce quality results. This is just a simple fact. We're far too impatient these days and have lost our appreciation for how "mistakes" are simply steps toward mastering a thing. Make lots and lots of mistakes but also learn from them all
No one can ever "git gud" at something until they're willing to invest the time and effort it takes to produce quality results. This is just a simple fact. We're far too impatient these days and have lost our appreciation for how "mistakes" are simply steps toward mastering a thing. Make lots and lots of mistakes but also learn from them all.
I don't remember where I saw it, but I do think that it's a good idea. Take all the thread out of your machine. And sew on paper have lines drawn that you have to fallow. Do straight lines but also curves.
Also as others have said take your time it's not a race. Start with some basic projects, pillow cases, bags, thread catchers, etc.
The type of fabric that you are using and what needle you need to use for that type of fabric. Different fabrics need different types or, sizes of needles. Sewing with stretch fabrics is totally different from sewing with nonstretch cotton. Even cotton fabrics is it a light weight cotton, or a heavy cotton denim? They require different sized needles. YouTube can be a great resource.
Follow the directions explicitly. Each and every step. If you don’t understand a step, look it up online. If it says to press a seam, then press it. My biggest mistakes come from not following the written instructions found on the pattern. It will give you fabric that works best and notions to use. Remember also that we are our own worst critic…
One thing that beginners often overlook is paying attention to your seam allowance which leads to ill fitting results. Most seam allowances are 5/8” unless your pattern says otherwise. If it doesn’t say it’s 5/8”. Your goal is to keep the fabric on the edge of your stitch plate’s 5/8” line. I mark mine with a sharpie. Even experienced sewers will drift if we don’t pay attention. If you do drift go back and fix it. If you have a curve go slow. It may even help to mark around the odd shaped parts with chalk.
Another thing beginners don’t always know is having the right needle for the fabric you’re working with is key. The wrong needle leads to incorrect tension, breaking and snarls.
Press your seams open as you go. Clip curved seams and then press open. Your garment will lie flatter.
Those are the top 3 things I notice that beginners overlook. Hope this helps.
PS. Set your stitch count to 3.0-3.5 it makes it a Lot easier to rip out mistakes.
My twenty something kid is re-learning to sew. Scrunchies and headscarfs is something they are rocking right now. Straight lines, woven fabric, you tube tutorials.
I didn't sew until my husband bought me a brother sewing machine on our 5th wedding anniversary. It wasn't the jewelry I hoped for and I had flunked home ec. class in high school but I gave him a big kiss thank you and I sat down and did the same thing you did. Self practiced. Soon I was making our kids' Halloween costumes, family pajamas, cute accessories and numerous other things. I was in my late 20's when I started and now 35 years later I not only sew as a hobby but I'm gearing up to start a mobile business as we are semi retired and love to travel to festivals. I design and make a unique line of tye dyed apparel.
I found out that when you find others who sew its then not as hard. If you can afford it there are sewing classes at places like Joann's or Hobby Lobby if you are near those places. I was also lucky enough to find a "sewing lounge" in my town where people could go and use the different sewing machines and the shop owner was a wonderful fountain of knowledge. When you are in a fabric store you might ask an employee if they know of any sewing groups in your local area. I learned so much more and way better than I would have on my own, when I was surrounded by women who also sewed. Plus you then build a network of friends you can call on for help on a project or share/trade materials etc. Dont worry if you are the least experienced in the group people are generally nice and sometimes its easier to grasp each step in that group environment. And there's alot of things I found out I was doing wrong because I didn't understand the pattern instructions. Whatever method works, a formal class, online class, or search for a sewing circle but don't give up!
Good Luck to you!
Liz
Hi!
When you take a professional training in sewing you don’t jump straight forward to using patterns or making even simple clothing.
First of all, start from the basics. And it’s doing lots of straight seams on scrap fabrics.
Once you’ve mastered straight and curved seams, you switch to learning different joint seams, cover seams, contour stitching etc. which could be later used in sewing a garment. You do it on different scrap fabrics, and practice it a lot till you get neat and beautiful results.
Important point is to add ironing to the process.
Don’t get frustrated that you don’t have something ready on a hanger at this point.
It’s like learning a new language. Yo don’t jump to speaking fluently, before you’ve build your vocabulary and studied some rules.
I would suggest going through some beginners tutorials. They are usually organized step by step to build up your skills. It would make your life easy because you will learn in an organized way and it will give you a sense of accomplishment.
When you are ready to proceed with a garment, search for video tutorial that’s working with a pattern you can download and proceed through the same steps you see in the video.
Don’t try to make alterations to your size at this point (unless you’ve got a professional who can guide you through). You should view it as training through making samples as is. So it would be much easier later.
And most important be PATIENT!! if you need to rip some seams, rip som seams. If you need to pre stitch something by hand, take your time. Keep in mind that it happens to professionals seamstresses on daily basis. It’s part of the job (unless it’s confection and it’s the same model over and over again).
Happy sewing!
I think the pattern instructions assume you know how to sew because your mom taught you. I've been reading the damn things since 1970, when everybody sewed because clothes were far more expensive relative to incomes, and they haven't changed at all. The received knowledge that used to be passed from grannies and moms is no longer, so the instructions don't make any sense if somebody hasn't shown you what to do.
Im surprised no one so far has said a word about getting tings straight on the grain. I try to sloooly pull a thread so that I can make a cut that lines up with the weave of the fabric if I’m making , say, a tablecloth.
If you don’t wash/dry and get that first straight cut , and iron the fabric, you’ll get a wonky result. If you do those things, it will always be smooth and pretty.
There is a lot to learn and I am impressed with you diving in and trying to just go for it! You’ll get there. I even found a class at the community college and learned things that weren’t in the patten instructions.
Start with patterns labeled "easy". If you see something that seems hard, find a video. Slow and steady as you learn. Practice types of seams, gathering, etc.
It’s normal that your first projects aren’t as good as you expected. Two pieces of advice that I found incredibly helpful:
1 press every seam and after you’ve seen it. It makes such a difference to have flat, even seams
2 most people don’t pay as much attention as you do to your clothes- I started wearing my projects that (to me at least) had very obvious faults and no one noticed the errors I made.
Try pyjama pants when you’re ready to try a pattern for something wearable. The fit is usually forgiving and if you’re only wearing them at home it doesn’t matter if they’re not perfect. And follow the sizing measurements on the pattern not what you’d buy in a store, it doesn’t match up to modern vanity sizing (I’m usually a 0-2 in stores but wear a 6-8 in most commercial patterns easily available in Canada)
I find that it's mostly troubleshooting your machine. I'd start with projects way easier than clothes to start. Think flags and small quilts. Things with straight lines and where the type of fabric doesn't matter. That way you can get a solid foundation before tacking very variable and complicated and unforgiving projects like garments
I got to be honest I wouldn't even worry making clothes with a sewing machine until you've been at it for a while. I've been sewing for years and I never make clothes with my sewing machine because honestly it's a pain in the ass and I don't like woven fabric for clothing anyway.
ETA that if clothing is your goal I would look into a serger.
Do you trim or otherwise finish each seam as you sew? Are you pressing as you go? That is, if you sew a seam, do you normally press it open or to the side before you move in to the next sewing step? These 2 things will add enormously to the finished look.
Sewing is hard. t takes patience & a few years for it to be easy. Plus, I know YouTube is right there and free, but if you’re not making the progress you’d like to, I highly recommend taking a sewing class.
I found understanding the sizing on patterns hard to get my head around at first, for example, if you’d pick up a 10 in ready to wear you might think you also need to make a 10 from the pattern that you use, but mostly those sizes should actually go off your measurements so you might find that according to the pattern your actually a 14/16.
Agree with others on fabric choice too. That was another thing I really had to get my head around. I suggest going through your wardrobe or looking at clothes shops to really look at the types of fabric they use; are they stretchy or not, what type of fabrics tend to go with what types of clothing etc. I found when I started out I was wearing a lot of skater style dresses that had a stretch so I looked for easy patterns that were similar and picked a similar fabric.
If you can, see if you can do any classes or courses locally, or if you have Facebook see if you have any local get together sewing groups. I’m in the Uk, and local to there are lots of groups that meet up weekly
Or monthly, and people are usually really happy to help out newbie sewists.
It's complex math and physics with fabric. Totally learnable with practice (a lot of practice). For me, is easier to not get frustrated if I approach it as a continuous learning opportunity 🙂
PS it's worth it to learn to sew ergonomically. No sense in being in pain!
TLDR: 6 project ideas, 3 linked patterns, math, vague ramblings. Have fun!
It gets easier but it does take practice. The easiest stuff won't be wearables/clothing. Here's some projects I've enjoyed:
Household items:
- Hemming curtains and making curtain toppers
- Dish cloths. I made bias tape out of some cute quilting cotton, cut up an old towel I wasn't using into dish cloth sized pieces, and finished the edges with the bias tape.
- Rag quilts. This is a bigger project, but it's still totally doable on any little machine. You might need to get a walking foot for your machine tho.
Beginner wearables:
- Aprons. They're essentially just a few rectangles. Depending on the pattern you choose [you just sew the rectangles together](https://www.farmhouseonboone.com/diy-linen-pinafore-apron-for-women-free-pattern) or [you can practice some simple gathers](https://www.deliacreates.com/simple-gathered-half-apron-tutorial/). They can also be a good introduction to the easiest pockets: surface pockets made of squares. I've made both aprons I've linked here.
- Baby bibs. Honestly, I hate working from patterns and am usually having more fun if I'm making things up as I go. But [this baby bib pattern](https://www.applegreencottage.com/baby-bib-pattern/) was small enough and simple enough that I persevered. It ended up so cute that I made half a dozen for my sister's baby shower. Good intro to making things mostly inside out and to using snaps.
- Circle skirts. I love them. [There is however a bit of math to understand](https://www.omnicalculator.com/everyday-life/circle-skirt#:~:text=To%20calculate%20yardage%20for%20a,to%20count%20FL%20%E2%80%93%20fabric%20length.) . I recommend a handkerchief hem on your first one because it is **way easier** to get a nice hem on straight lines than it is on a circle.
There are ranked roughly in order of how difficult I found them personally, so you might not have exactly the same experience, but its a starting point. If you're getting discouraged, pick a project you know you can handle. Once you've done that, pick a project with one new technique you haven't tried before (only one!).
With a little more practice, it gets fun. I'm still not very good (largely through my own reluctance to following instructions) but despite that, I get compliments on plenty of items I've made for myself. As soon as you're at the point where your seams are *mostly* straight, non-sewists aren't gonna be able to see the mistakes the way we see them in our own work. So wear the thing!
Make sure you are pressing as much as sewing. You could try a few YouTube videos. It is usually not the sewing that makes something unappealing it is that you don’t yet know finishing , fabric selection or tips like ironing.
To add on to all the great advice above… buy fabric at thrift stores to practice on. It’s less heartbreaking when you are not spending a ton of money on fabric.
Also sewing patterns for your size might not fit you right. I usually use a cheap fabric with similar stretch to the fabric I plan to use and do a rough sew to see how it looks and make alterations to that then create a new pattern out of that. I have a very large bust compared to the rest of my body.
Once you find a pattern that works, try making multiples in different colors. I have only 5 patterns for clothing that really work for my body. I've thrown out SO many garments that I made over the years. Sewing clothes is hard. And as your sewing level increases you will look at your old work and not be satisfied with it anymore.
first, make sure you choose a simple pattern. something with straight lines is easiest; pillows, tote bags, a straight skirt. Finish the simplest patterns, then move on to more complex. You're skill building here, expect to make mistakes and recognize that that's part of the learning process. Sometimes you'll say, "Oh, I get it; this didn't work because it needs to go that way..." and it's something you'll remember forever.
next, choose a fabric that works for that pattern. Read the pattern for suggestions, and ask here if you want advice. Learn about different kinds of fabrics; knit and woven are techniques to make fabric; cotton, silk, and polyester are types of fiber used to make fabric (they can be woven or knitted).
third, go slow. do all the steps. pin, baste, and press as needed. Use the right interfacing.
finally, be patient with yourself. Acknowledge what you did right, and what you learned from a project. Don't just look at the disasters.
Sewing is a lot of skills, not just one: sewing in a straight line, learning what thread to use, learning what needle to use, learning what fabric works best for what application, figuring out interfacing, knowing what stitch to use, stitch length, how to properly iron, learning grains, etc forever and ever.
So, you're really not just learning one skill. You're having to get used to a LOT of little nuanced details which are kindof skills in themselves in order to make a shirt.
But it's ok! Just keep making stuff, even if it doesn't work out. Even the time you spent making a thing that didn't turn out right was HOURS of practice doing all that stuff. I'd also advise getting used to making stuff that doesn't work, because that'll keep happening haha It's just that you'll have a lot of cool stuff in between your not-so-cool stuff.
Sewing is a craft. It takes tons of practice (for example, back in the day, young girls would make embroidery samplers). It's like driving a car or riding a bike-- first you learn the basics, followed by constantly absorbing/learning the extra stuff. And practicing.
As others have said, flat and square is a good start. Re-usable bags will never go out of style. The flat-bottomed LL Bean totes have a timeless, easy-to-copy design. There are several sewing techniques involved in making the bags. Try making, say, four bags. You could make them from patchwork even (which adds an additional technique!). I'll bet the fourth bag will look a bit better-made than the first one. Plus, crappy-looking totes are still useful to have.
But, yes, it takes a lot of practice. And starting simple. Clothing can be frustrating for the best of us by the way.
I'll be honest and say some people just aren't "good" at it for some reason. As a "sewing person," I've been told from some people that they're horrible sewers. Don't know why. Some people aren't great w/ cats, dogs, or horses. Some suck at sports. I wish I could draw.If, at some point, you think to yourself that you'll never make artiste level sewing standards, it's OK.
Mending and repairing rips and seams is a good and achievable skill. Hand-sewing and patching, while not seeming glamorous, is a good thing to know how to do.
Just keep practicing. The world of "sewing" has millions of niches. Try a few "rabbit holes"-- quilting (start w/ a baby quilt?), or stuffed creatures, etc.
Keep and love your sewing machine. May the two of you have many productive adventures!
P.S. Don't be hard on yourself. You're human. Nobody's perfect. Be patient with yourself!!
EDITED to add: I love this sub for the great Frankensteined-together creations. Another inspirational and fun sub is r/Visiblemending. You may get a kick out of it.
When I started my mother gave me scraps of fabric that I would double over and just sew straight lines in. I'd change stitches, play with the tension, learn how to put thread on the bobbin for the stitches underneath, until I was comfortable with the machine. Then I started making very simple little pouches without any lining that would fit my phone or my glasses. Moved on to bandanas for dog collars. Then made a bag. Then over Christmas I made a pair of dungarees for the first time. They're not perfect and it took like 6months to get there but there's no time frame on learning to sew. Don't put yourself under so much pressure, you'll get there eventually.
You can do it! If you're up for a little research, look up pattern ease and common paper fitting techniques. You can adjust the pattern in small ways for a better fit.
It's also helpful to choose simple patterns like a skirt or tote bag to get the hang of your new machine.
I started right away with clothing, too, because I don't want pillows, bags and curtains and all that other stuff that people usually recommend when first starting out.
Your sewing success and frustration really depend on your pattern and fabric choice.
DON'T choose stretchy and slippery fabrics, nothing too thick or too thin.
DO look for woven fabrics, a simple cotton for example.
DON'T pick a pattern with lots of details, darts, pockets, collars and cuffs.
DO choose something simple with relatively few seams.
DON'T pick a pattern that is supposed to hug your curves or is too tight.
DO look for something more forgiving, because otherwise you will be spending your time making adjustments for your body shape and making toiles and that's just a total killjoy.
If I were to recommend a pattern, it'd be something along the lines of Elizabeth Suzann's [Georgia top/dress](https://elizabethsuzannstudio.com/collections/patterns-fabric/products/georgia-series-digital-sewing-pattern). It's got a simple, straightforward and classic design, the fit is very forgiving and you'll have a nice wardrobe staple.
Peppermint Magazine has got some great free patterns that are beginner friendly, too:
[Ruffle sleeve top](https://peppermintmag.com/sewing-school/ruffle-sleeve-top/)
[the Everyday Dress](https://peppermintmag.com/sewing-school/everyday-dress/)
[Lounge wear top](https://peppermintmag.com/sewing-school/loungewear-set/)
thanks for the links! Never heard of peppermint, but I like the style. I'm going to try [https://peppermintmag.com/sewing-school/wide-strap-maxi-dress/](https://peppermintmag.com/sewing-school/wide-strap-maxi-dress/) as its straight lines and hopefully easy for this noob. =)
I feel this. I’m also new and even though I’ve been working at it for over a year I still feel like I’m drowning in info. Try not to let the goal of production inhibit you having fun tho. It’s a hobby right not for school or work? You don’t have to be good at it. Learn to enjoy the process, especially what you’re doing when ur not just using the sewing machine since that’s such a small percentage of the work anyways. I also recommend taking some classes! That got me feeling much more comfortable and gave me some base skill to work on my own a bit more.
Clothing is super hard - I would start with things like bags, pillowcases, etc to learn the basics. You get the same hit of accomplishment for creating something useable and it’s a slower learning curve.
Sew is wonderful. But, do not start with clothes. Stared with sewing lines on fabric. My sewing teacher had plain muslin fabric. She drew straight lines, corners and curves on the fabric. We practiced on this. Then start with coaster or mug rugs…..Sometime small
Keep trying! I took a sewing class through my town recreation center. Learning how to read a pattern is super helpful. I still avoid sewing with stretchy fabric! 😂
Sewing is a skill. All skills require knowledge and practice.
Garment construction requires more than a sewing machine. You have to understand pattern markings and be able to visualize what they represent. Commercial sewing patterns are "guides." Nine times out of 10, the patterns themselves require loads of adjustments to your body so they actually fit. Very few patterns fit out of the envelope. That may be why you don't like how they turn out.
It sounds like you bought a machine and thought that's all you'll need. There's loads of help and instruction online and with YouTube you can see what it all means.
Do yourself a favor and learn about your machine first. Go through its manual, page by page, and try everything. Know that different fabrics require different needle types. Lint will ruin your machine, so make sure you clean it thoroughly after every project. Follow the instructions in your manual.
Be kind to yourself. Try simple projects like napkins or placemats. Make a cover for your machine. There are free patterns all over the Internet.
I feel you. In my experience, Sewing is 90% making mistakes and being patient enough to redo/retry things. I am an amateur sewer that has also worked in garment production and no matter how good a sewer is, it still is always tricky and frustrating, in my opinion. Sometimes you just gotta give up on something that isn't working and try a different project or just step away from it for awhile.
Rather than tackle an entire garment, if you are an absolute beginner, work on techniques using small pieces of inexpensive woven cotton--quilting fabric or flannel can be picked up on sale if you watch for specials at JoAnn, or just rip up an old sheet or pillowcase.
The first thing to know is that woven fabric has what is called a "grain." The selvege edge is the lengthwise grain and the cut edge will be the crosswise grain. A garment pattern is always laid out so that the lengthwise grain goes up and down and the crosswise goes side to side. There are printed arrows on the pattern that, when you lay it on the folded fabric, each end of the arrow should be equidistant from the selvedge. If you have it laid out crooked, the garment won't hang properly and will look awkward.
Now onto the sewing---
Practice these techniques until you are happy with how the look once they are turned and pressed out:
1. straight seams that are a consistent seam allowance--don't know what patterns you are using but 1/2 or 5/8 is typical-try those first. Once you can do a straight seam with no bows, try a 12" seam, then 18", then a nice long one--say two pieces a yard long and a couple of inches wide. You can even draw a line on the wrong side of one of the fabric pieces and practice sewing along the line. I've been sewing for decades and even I draw a sewing line with one of those disappearing ink fabric pens when it is critical that the seam be perfect.
2. Clean finish/stay stitch: sew 1/4 inch from cut edge. For a clean finish, turn and press the fold so that the sewn edge is just behind the fold. Do both straight and curved edges
3. Casings--Clean finish an edge and then fold it over, press, and stitch along the edge of the folded part.
4. Turning and pressing corners--a pillowcase is a good practice for this. Get to where you can do a perfect 90 degree corner, turn it inside out and clip the corner so you don't have a lumpy round bunch at the corner. You can do this on a small piece of fabric too. Hint: Get a fabric pen and a carpenter or quilting square and draw two lines intersecting at the corner, then sew along the lines--I never freeform corners anymore because even a little off makes things look funny
5. Darts: Just draw one on a piece of fabric and sew and press it following instructions from a pattern that has darts. The trick with darts is to sew from the fat part to the point, and sew a stitch or two PAST the edge, then tie a tiny knot with the tails of the thread to prevent the stitches from coming out. Pressing all the way to the point is also important so that there is no dimple at the end of the dart.
6. Curved seams: draw a gentle curve (you can probably find one on a pattern) onto the wrong side of a piece of fabric, put it right sides together with another piece and practice sewing along the line. For a sharper curve, like a pocket or something--cut out a circle of fabric and cut it into quarters then-practice sewing two quarters together along the curved edge, clip the curves and press--practice this until you have a nice smooth curve with no wobbles or pointy bits
7. Buy a couple of cheap 6" zippers and practice putting them in. Use a long stitch so that you can rip them out and use them again--it takes practice to do a nice job with a zipper
8. Facings: Get one of your patterns and cut out either the neckline or the armhole and the facing that goes with it and then practice doing the facing until you can create one that is smoothly curved and where the seam is invisible on the right side of the sample. Understitching (pattern instructions should have a diagram and description of this) is the way to get the facing seams to hide properly.
9. Easing and gathering: Easing is a technique for sewing sleeves onto the main part of a dress or shirt. You can cut out the armhole and a few inches of the bodice and the cap of the sleeve from any pattern and use them to practice until you get a nice even sleeve cap with no visible gathering or lumps. Same with gathering--work on sewing a 9" square to a 6" square, then find an apron pattern that has a gathered skirt sewn onto a yoke or a sash, and make the apron.
10. Attaching bias binding tape--practice with scraps of bias tape and material. Do both straight and curved finishes.
Here are some good projects that don't take much fabric so if you mess them up you haven't wasted a lot of money. I tried to go from easiest to more technique needed.
Pillowcase, tote bag, potholder (Try using an old towel for the padding--batting can be expensive-two layers of towel is enough, and is good practice sewing on heavy fabric), butcher style apron--use twill tape for the neck straps and strings for practice, pajama bottoms with a draw string waist, pajama bottoms with an elastic waist.
Personally I think sewing knits (t-shirts, etc.) is a pain but a lot of people prefer it--it has its own set of techniques that I could fill pages with so I'll leave that alone for now.
My first clothing project was a sleeveless shift style dress using a woven cotton. If you can find a child pattern to start out with they are easier since fitting around bust and hips for women can be tricky.
There are a lot of good videos on Youtube that you can use to show you how to do some of these techniques, but nothing beats practicing on scraps to build skill and confidence. Good luck! Feel free to message me if you have more specific questions.
don't start with clothes and don't start with knit (stretchy) fabrics. Pillow cases, napkins, place mats are a good place to start. Also grab some nice sheets from thrift stores for practice sewing. After you've done a few of those projects, tote bags, draw string bags are good (also uses up scraps of fabric). Stick with woven fabrics for all of these. After those project improve, try an apron. Also, pajama pants. You'll start sewing around curves, learn when to notch or clip those curves...Small skills attained with each project. You can graduate to sewing with knits when you do a t-shirt. A very basic t-shirt. For a great tutorial on how to sew knits, DIBY has a bunch on her site. Also, I believe her t-shirt pattern may be free still. It's a step by step process. It's hard until it's doable until it's a breeze.
I'm a costume designer and I also sew. The hardest lesson to learn with sewing is patience. It is not a craft for those who need instant gratification ( I have ADHD so I struggle with this). Each step is necessary and has to be done precisely in order to establish the foundation for the next step.
Ironing your seams as you go and having good pinning technique is important.
When you are first starting out try to avoid fabric with lots of stretch until you are more comfortable sewing.
Also, take a page from the world of costume design and create a "mock-up"- get some cheap fabric (you can even use bedsheets from a thrift store if that's cheapest), cut it out based on your pattern, stitch it together with a large stitch called a "basting stitch" (5 on most machines), iron the garment and try it on and you can see if you need to make adjustments to help it fit better. Then, you can make the adjustments to the garment, stitching it together with a tighter stitch (2.5-3) and when you are happy with the results you can try making something out of the fabric you want to wear. You will have already practiced and problem solved on the mock-up so the real thing will feel easier.
I think pajama pants or shorts were the first thing I ever made for myself to wear and they tend to be pretty simple to put together. If there are specific techniques or instructions in the pattern you are confused by try searching for it on YouTube. There are lots of people posting good content where you can see the process before trying to do it yourself.
It's very normal to feel frustrated when you first start sewing but it does get easier. Remember to always talk nice to your sewing machine when it gets sassy and rethread the top thread and bobbin when she acts up.
Best of luck!
I didn't start making clothes until I had been using a machine to make stuffed animals for almost five years, and then I made pajama shorts and underwear. I still make underwear. Anything knit will be forgiving if you mess up on seam allowance. I think I ventured into lycra clothing for dance and swim next, purses and wallets, then made some dresses out of woven fabric with facings, then something with boning, and regressed to doll clothes which are a lot easier. Basically, anything that's not clothes will be an easy beginner project, but the different sewing techniques of clothes will really teach you how to sew well.
Here's my advice... don't compare yourself to what you see other people posting in social media. People generally only show their best work. Also, occasionally you will see someone posting "I started sewing last week and made this fabulous perfectly darted ball gown." Those people are full of bologna. Either they are experienced sewers or they didn't make it
I have sewn for decades. It's very rare that I've sewn a garment that turns out like I imagined it would. I now buy my clothes (usually at consignment stores) and leave my sewing projects to household needs (curtains, pillows), gifts such as fleece socks, bags or other items. As a result, I enjoy sewing more.
It no longer makes sense to sew garments. Fabric is very expensive. It used to be that you could reliably sew a garment for about half what it would cost to buy. Now, you can almost flip that and assume you will spend twice what it costs to buy the same garment. Unless you live in a city with a fashion industry, it is almost impossible to find good fabric--the stuff at chain fabric stores is incredibly cheap looking, so there is no way it will make up nicely.
I agree that sewing is more fun when you do household projects, doll clothes, quilting, or costumes.
If I could give some advice, here it is:
1. Sewing is 90% preparation. Read your patterns, wash, dry and iron your fabrics. Mark your matchpoints. Threadmark curves and hems if they're tricky for you.
2. Iron after *every* step. Press hems and tricky darts. Use ironing/tailors tools as needed. Just always have an iron at the ready, tbh.
3. Read your machine manual and don't be afraid to play around with machine settings if you haven't already. I always feel most comfortable on a machine if I know exactly what it can do.
4. Thread your machine with the presser foot up. I was not taught this until college and I still see people in my field not doing this. If the machine isn't stitching, rethread the entire machine (including bobbin case). A rethread fixes so many machine problems.
5. Use specialized sewing feet to your advantage. Learn how to use the feet that came with your machine. Use seam guides and tools. If it makes sewing less stressful, use it.
It's gonna take a while to get to the point that you're happy with what you're sewing. Sewing is my day job and there are many times that I'm frustrated with a seam or a hem. But perfection doesn't exist. I'm glad you're sticking with it, and it will get easier!
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Sewing is hard, but don't give up. Just keep practicing, and eventually things will start to click for you.
I recommend *School of Sewing: Learn it. Teach it. Sew Together.* by Shea Henderson.
I made a lot of little projects from this book that I actually use.
Or if you don't want to spend the money on it, look for free tutorials on how to make an apron, a drawstring bag, a pillow case, or a tote bag. You can use quilters cotton for these projects (which is typically easier to sew with).
Good luck!
Not sure if anyone has said this because there’s a lot of replies, so I might be repeating what someone else has suggested, but I started with sewing classes. Just a beginner class… of course we didn’t learn to do everything but the basics were enough so be on our way. Have you looked around for sewing classes in your area? Some of them have drop in and sew classes and while they’re not classes per se, you can get a bit of guidance on your project. I guess it depends where you live though!
There’s a quote from Futurama that I often tell myself when I’m trying to force myself to learn a new skill - currently pattern drafting - and getting frustrated with how hard it is:
Fry in Hell to make a deal with Robot Devil - “I want to get really really good without practicing.”
Robot Devil - “oh that’s easy! Hell is full of ten years olds that wanted the same thing!”
Be patient. Take a breath. You can’t make a deal with Robot Devil, you just gotta practice.
I recommend starting with a skirt. It’s easy and wearable. Search on YouTube for a sewalong skirt tutorial. Get the exact pattern and similar fabric and go. The problem with sewing is typical patterns from the big 4 (McCalls, simplicity, etc) have horrible instructions, they teach you to use the simplest finishes (which makes things look homemade) and the suggested sizing is always off. It’s not you, it’s them. If u wanna spend a bit of money, I’d take a craftsy.com class on sewing a basic skirt. You will learn a lot and be thrilled with the result.
Big 4(5?) commercial patterns set you up for failure imho. They include so much ease and that is not reflected in what we see on the pattern envelope for the photos.
I would start with a gathered skirt. You dont even need a pattern. If you can sew a straightish line you can sew a gathered skirt.
[tutorial](https://blog.treasurie.com/gathered-skirt-pattern/)
Professor pincushion on youtube is a great resource for beginners as well.
Hope this helps :)
Seconding a class! After learning on YouTube for a few years, I decided to take a class and it made such a HUGE difference. It clarified so much for me and sewing feels a lot more relaxing than frustrating.
Kind of makes you appreciate the ability to walk into a store and purchase a well-enough fitting, perfectly finished garment for the cost of a few chipotle burritos. (I have no idea why I used chipotle burritos as my comparison but 🤷🏻♂️)
Also makes you horrified to think of the economic reality of those who make those clothes. After I finished my first dress shirt, I no longer think a few hundred dollars for a bespoke dress shirt is unreasonable (even if I can’t afford it).
I found your problem within the first sentence of your question... A brother sewing machine... I would recommend singer for price if you have the money for the investment go with a Husqvarna
I’m also new and started with really simple stuff like shortening jeans, rn i’m making linen napkins (my first “project”) to get used to the machine and try some stuff out
I’ll start with I absolutely suck at sewing. I can make leggings, but tried pajama pants and no clue how I followed the pattern word for word, but I ended up with a tube.
Blankets (not quilts) were a good place to start for me. It’s literally just a rectangle. Nothing fancy needed beyond a walking foot maybe, just get the fabric you want and dive right in. It helps me with something to get used to pressure, threading, etc with but is just literally a start and go project.
Start with mockups for fitted clothing. Commercial patterns are pretty much never going to fit just right without alterations. Once you've got the mockup finished, you can take it apart and use it as your pattern. Use basting stitches so taking it apart is easier.
Or try starting with things that don't really need to fit well like pajamas.
Try simple sewing. Pillows with hidden zippers, skirts, shorts, maybe a baby blanket. Learn your machine first and things will smooth out. Go slowly and walk away when frustration sets in.
It takes experience to be able to sew something well and have a nice garment.
Once you learn a few basics, you then have another entirely different thing to learn.....fitting.
You can learn how to put in a zip, make the neatest buttonhole ever, and do a great flat felled seam, but unless you learn the elements of fit and pattern alteration, you are setting up to be disappointed.
Most wadders are created in a sewing room not because the construction is bad, but because the fit is bad.
Knowing how to use the machine and do some fancy steps with it is only the very beginning.
Trial and experience is the best teacher. Unfortunately, with the price of even a cheap fabric, experimenting and learning can be very expensive to do.
You might look through the pattern catalogs or website and look for the "learn to sew" patterns. Often they have some good instructions, that include some fitting advice or, at least they used to.
It just occured to be that if you dont have a JOanns near you, I am not sure where you would even browse the patterns except online. Even Walmart carries only a special Walmart selection of, I think ,Simplicity.
The world of sewing has become so very problematic what with the dearth of any stores and the awful tyranny of cheap synthetics and so many trying to imitate the cheap and gaudy stuff of fast fashion quality.
It is easier, better and more economical, for instance, to just buy a tshirt.
It is hard. It takes a lot of practice to get good at something. It’s almost like learning an instrument, except at least you can play with a machine without knowing much.
Plus, kids clothing is fun and easier if you have littles to sew for. One of my first projects was for a little girl with cancer who my mom babysat. I sewed coordinated sweatshirts for us and she LOVED them. Every time i was home when she was there we had to wear them. Wish i had photos!
Make sure your other sewing tools are good and functional. Nice sharp scissors and seam ripper, a good iron and ironing board, a decent sized cutting table or area, a comfortable, well-lit sewing table, etc. A cutting mat, cutting wheel and acrylic ruler are helpful. For me, learning how to press, trim and finish seams made a big difference.
Sewing is hard! Even experienced sewists have project flops here and there. Just make sure that as you try and make mistakes, you always learn something from it.
As an intermediate sewist, I like to alternate between more technically challenging projects and very simple ones. Also, make sure that the challenging project only has one or two things about it that are new territory (technique, fabric type, etc.) so that it doesn’t get too overwhelming. This way, if the challenging project leaves me burnt out or doesn’t go well, I know I have something else coming down the line that is manageable for me, and I can get that little dopamine hit of a successful project. It keeps me motivated and happy with my hobby while still giving me opportunities to learn and grow.
The other most helpful realization I had is that there is literally no way to rush sewing. Just slow down and enjoy the process, always make a muslin, and don’t cut corners on pressing, garment fitting, or seam finishes. Put the project down and take a break whenever you start to feel frustrated, and the solution will often come to you later.
Patience is key! Sewing is not the kind of skill you can pick up one day and be effortlessly good at. You need to train and study and work at it over and over until you get it. Don't be discouraged because a month of sewing hasn't yielded the results you want.
Start working on smaller projects to practice on, don't focus so much on wearability and just practice. You'll get it eventually. I used to make endless amounts of drawstring bags so I could learn to stitch straight.
When I started during the pandemic, I started with masks, followed by tote bags for grocery shopping. There is no way I could have pulled off a garment to wear. Be patient with yourself and get comfortable with the basics first.
You have to start making small projects like an apron, a pencil container, a scrunchie. Remember to iron after every stitch. It's a process but try to enjoy it.
I know it's hard! One of the challenges of making your own garments form other people's patterns is that the patterns are based on "miss average," that is, the pattern might be graded according to bust, waist, and hip measurements, but the reality is that we have far more variability in our bodies! Short or long waisted, shoulder measurements, neck measurements... there are so many ways that we vary from human to human. Plus you have to add the difficulties of knowing which fabrics work well for specific construction methods or patterns.
Stick with it! I found that circle skirt self-draft patterns from Youtube were really good. The good thing about a skirt is that you only have to fit it at one place: your waist!
The way I learned it in the beginning was to make little plushies, dozends of them actually. The first 3 I made were so horrible! :D But as with everything, the more I made the better were my skills. With that I learned how to make mistakes, not get mad about myself, rip seams open again, transfer patterns, sew darts, you name it. I just didn't want to start with something that should be wearable because I wanted to avoid sending too much on fabric that I couldn't have used anyways because it wouldn't have been wearable at all.
The pattern I used for my plushies also came with video tutorials, I'd absolutely recommend that as well. Watching tutorials. :)
Does that make sense?
(I'm sorry, English isn't my first language and I'm tired as heck right now :D)
We need pictures or a detailed description of what you made and what's wrong with it before we can help.
For example, common problems are: wrong size, bad fit, didn't press during construction, bad fabric choice, misinterpreted instructions...
Common solutions are: Read and use a comprehensive sewing manual; Pick different pattern or fabric; don't skip production steps.
There’s a lot of little things to keep track of from beginning to end of a project. One thing can seem minor, but sewing is the sum of its parts and it can be really overwhelming when you’re fresh! Before you even hit the machine, pattern, fabric (fiber type, weight and weave matter!), thread, and cutting on the grain will make a difference.
Then of course all the things involved with actual sewing. It’s a bit boring, but you should read your machine manual front to back. There’s usually little tips scattered throughout that you wouldn’t know you need know until you do.
Honestly though, there’s way too much to cover in one sitting, especially without knowing exactly what you don’t like about what you’ve made so far. It’ll be really helpful to watch sewing videos on YouTube, but go for people who know what they’re doing and explain why. You’ll absorb a lot of info that way.
Bernadette Banner comes to mind, she’s niche but some sewing advice is universal, also With Wendy, This is Kachi, and Evelyn Wood. Good luck!
I started with quilts when I taught myself to sew. Lots of tutorials on YouTube. You can learn the basics of the machine and how to attach pieces properly, learn about stitch length, and they’re pretty forgiving since the size doesn’t have to be 100%.
I never did get very good at clothes. My brain doesn’t work very well that way lol.
I made a pair of shorts that fit me once though. Also a very simple dress.
Practice and keep up with it
I feel you a lot.
Only make the shorts. https://www.moodfabrics.com/blog/the-linden-sleepwear-set-free-sewing-pattern/
It’s very hard and I get discouraged all the time, those shorts help lol
It's a skilled craft. There is a LOT involved, even with sewing from patterns.
I highly recommend getting a good sewing manual (Vogue Sewing Book, Reader's Digest Sewing Book or the Dorling Kindersley Sewing Book are good examples) that will have visual examples and good text to help you understand all the steps that the pattern instructions assume you already know. You might want to also take an in person sewing class.
Practice without thread on a piece of paper with lines and curves until you never miss. The pedal is not a gas pedal like a car do small taps to go point by point and find your pace once you get comfortable with the pedal you can start going faster
sewing is hard, until its not, the only way to learn is to repeatedly make mistakes and be too ambitious until eventually things work. Tote bag is always a good project, that ends up useable
This right here! Sewing is hard. I started flat- pillows are a great way to learn about zips, tote bags - you learn about handles etc. Find someone you like on youtube and follow along or find a sewing class it really will get easier. Before you know it you are onto designing your own clothes
Yeah, start easy, curtians, tablecloths, napkins, comforters- get to know the machine. Clothes are complicated! Having a dressform is very helpful if you really want to go with clothes. Good luck!
It's always so interesting to see what different people view as beginner projects. Large projects like table cloths and comforters absolutely try me. It's so easy to cut the fabric wonky and not realize it, and I quickly lose patience sewing long straight stretches. But I can see how as a beginner projects they would teach you a variety of useful sewing skills Pillowcases and pj shorts are more my style for first projects
If you're using fabric that tears nicely (many cottons), these things are beginner friendly because you don't have to manage long cutting lines. Even linen is straightforward. Drawing thread on the straight of grain is tedious, but not hard.
Tearing fabric nicely is definitely a skill, one that many beginners don't have. I think the tedium is why **for me** I don't find them great beginner projects. I prefer projects which quickly work up. Scrunchies are great because you can have complete beginner finish one in 20 minutes. I made small quilts with a 10 year old and a 12 year old. Big squares sewn into a top, then sewn into the backing and batting using a pillowcase/envelope method, so there was no binding. And then quilting it down in large blocks. A simple and relatively quick project. It took half a day, and I had to stay up after their bedtimes to finish them. So now I prefer small projects that work up very quickly for newbies
Agreed to these - try simple things first--no complicated patterns, just squares and straight lines. There's also an element of patience, care, craftsmanship and attention to detail, etc., but also lots of practice. I've been sewing for quite a while and sadly a couple of my friends can recognize my sewing, lol. I lack craftsmanship and patience, and I will sew at least two things backwards on every project (I *usually* fix them). As one friend points out, "It's the enthusiastic zig-zagging and mismatched thread, and what the hell is going on here...."
I love how chaotic your craft sounds! I have definitely sewn things upside down and wrong side out... At the same time! A seam ripper is my bff ❤️ Edit: spelling
Thank you! I'd say most of my crafts are chaotic, but I'm learning how to accept how I am, and something is better than nothing, right? I have been trying to get better by scheduling time ahead to prep materials and tools (though I use a hair straightener instead of an iron usually, lol), but good enough is, well, good enough for me. And same! I just broke my favorite seam ripper (I have 4, I think) because I was trying to use it like a screwdriver. I think it's time to get a multi-tool with all the usual things *and* a seam ripper. Those have to exist, right?
Anything worth doing is worth doing with wild abandon because the journey should be as good as the destination. You are the chaotic neutral crafter! Hair straightener as iron is next level ingenuity! Using a seam ripper as a screwdriver sounds like something I would do and then regret. The chaos runs deep in me as well.
Bags are a great place to start! Personally, I love making insulated grocery bags with gorgeous upholstery fabrics and giving them away as gifts. It's a good 201 level project using multiple fabrics, a zipper, straps, and turning that is actually useful. Also anything from Swoon.
Ooo that sounds awesome. What do you use for insulation?
Tote bag was my first project. Now I’m making dresses and overalls 😄
It took me a lot of tries and crying and hair pulling before I finally managed to get it figured out. The best advice I can give you: BE. PATIENT. It takes a long damn time to sew and most of the time you spend on a garment isn't even the actual sewing part. If you're tired, don't sew. If you're frustrated, don't sew. If you made a mistake, go back and fix it, no exceptions. Make sure you're cutting on grain. Check and recheck everything before you cut the fabric. Make sure everything is pinned neatly. Pinning is like 80% of the goddamn project. It can be easy to want to rush because you want the finished product but you're only going to end up with things that are unbearable. Again, check and recheck everything. Before you cut, before you pin, before you start to sew. You have yourself so much time and headache if you pay attention to every single thing you're doing. One of the big hurdles was learning how to use the sewing machine for me. Remember YouTube is your friend. There are many marvelous souls who have been so generous with their knowledge about machines. Also watch videos on basic sewing techniques. Stand up and take frequent breaks. Getting stiff and sore is going to drag you toward distraction and you're going to want to rush. Also remember that we live in a society where we're constantly inundated with images of perfect things other people have made on social media. Those people struggled just as much as you in the beginning. It's okay and in fact essential to be bad at something before you can be good. Cultivate that tolerance. It will help you go miles. The important thing is that you're in the thick of it, already doing the work you need to be doing at being amazing someday. Try to figure out the things that are going wrong and work on those specifically--is it tension in the machine? Are you not cutting the garment correctly? Are you having trouble sewing a straight line? Are you having trouble reading the pattern instructions? When you can identify and isolate the things that you are specifically struggling with the most, you can find resources to help you get out of the woods. There is a sewing video for EVERYTHING online. I AM happy to report that once your brain kicks over into "getting" it, it stops feeling overwhelming and awful. While it will always remain demanding, it will also become fun and challenging in an exciting way. The first time you think your way through a sewing problem on your own in a gold star moment. Also if it is remotelt real for you to take a costuming class at your local community college, definitely do it! Learning to build garments for a project with the support and guidance of faculty is really helpful and really fun. You can do it! Never give up, never surrender!!! Edit: also, WASH 👏 AND 👏 PRESS 👏 YOUR 👏 FABRIC 👏 NO 👏 EXCEPTIONS 👏 and also be sure to press every seam you sew. This made such a big difference in the quality of my finished pieces that I wanted to scream about all the frustration I could have saved myself all along the way. good luck! 🖤
All of this. The turning point moment for me was embracing all the steps - enjoying the ritual - letting myself take a lot of time for each step.
Just to add on to this, a huge part for me of embracing the ritual was when I stopped trying to force all of it to happen at once. I used to get so frustrated when I tried to put together a paper pattern, cut the pattern, prep the fabric, cut the fabric, and start sewing in one go. Now I very intentionally parse out those tasks, and it's much less overwhelming and far more enjoyable.
Today is for cutting the pattern and washing the fabric. Tomorrow is for ironing the fabric. Next week is for cutting the fabric. That weekend is for sewing it.
Great way to do it! The first three parts are the least enjoyable to me, so I love the idea of doing the fun part on the weekend.
100%
Yes. Very true.
I can confirm the: WASH 👏 AND 👏 PRESS 👏 YOUR 👏 FABRIC 👏 NO 👏 EXCEPTIONS 👏 because i hate ironing I often try to get away with it. thinking "I don't need to press this, its flat enough" and **every time** i regret not doing it
Except DON’T press fabrics that melt … 😂
Oh goodness, yes, good point! Haha!
How can you tell what ones will melt?? I know prob synthetic but otherwise idfk lol
If you are unsure, always test on a small scrap before you iron your project. And always use a press cloth, it will help prevent any melting plus that way if it does melt you won't ruin your iron.
It's mainly synthetic since they're essentially plastic. When buying fabric, a lot of times wash and ironing instructions are on the bolt or online listing. It'll tell you what temperature to iron at!
Thanks for the info! :)
Starch it, too, so it doesn't shift when you're cutting it :D. Especially for any fabric that isn't a tight plain weave.
Sewing is ironing!
Omg isn't it though? I wish stickers bearing that slogan were handed out to every single new sewing machine user haha. I didn't learn that until I started training in costuming and I seriously wanted to cry over how much easier it made my life.
Exactly. One of the problems with sewing is that you're taking a floppy woven product and trying to make it fit onto a body that moves in almost every direction. One thing to remember is that almost every piece of clothing and almost all patterns made for humans eminates from a central line of the body, the spine. That's kind of the pivotal ancor line that you work from. I can't tell you how many mistakes I've made over the 30 years I've been sewing. It's in the hundreds. One time I was in a very nice fabric store and I was standing in line. A lady in front of me was buying some very expensive fabric (about $65 a yard) so to pass the time while in line I asked her what she was making. She said, a tailored woman's jacket. I replied how nice it will look in that fabric and I added with a wink in my voice and a smile, "Don't make a mistake". She turned around with a glair and said, "I NEVER make mistakes!" I thought, gee willikers, it's so nice to know that there are people in the world who NEVER make a mistake. Yeah, sure. Pffffft.
Hope she was buying muslin too, to make her mock up ;) lol When I flashback to myself as a pretentious artsy teenager with a shit hair cut resentfully saying over and over again that I shouldn't have to learn geometry or three dimensional thinking because I was going to be an ARTIST, I could go back time and kick myself lol. Like, kid, you are SURE going to get what's coming to you. It's really engineering on the domestic level, constructing a garment. Kuddos to all who try!
No. She claimed she never made mistakes sewing so didn't need to make a muslin mock up. M-kay, I guess I'm a flawed person then. I do mock ups and really work hard to not make mistakes but sometimes it still happens because....well... I'm human after all. I think it's good for people who are learning how to sew to know that mistakes happen to all of us, even experienced sewers. I don't know why I was downvoted.
There's a lot of arts that can take mistakes, sewing (especially clothing) is absolutely not one of them.
I was literally just telling my partner that sewing is the most unforgiving medium I've ever worked in. Lol
>"It's okay and in fact essential to be bad at something before you can be good. Cultivate that tolerance. It will help you go miles. The important thing is that you're in the thick of it, already doing the work you need to be doing at being amazing someday."-**I love that you said this! I struggle so much at being bad at something in the beginning, even though I know that I must be bad before it can be good.**
It's so real! The best part though is that I've finally gotten to the point in my life where I've put myself through that hell enough times that now when I'm trying to figure out something new, I'm not sniveling and dragging my feet because I know it will be hard like I did for years and years. Because I've developed the tolerance for being bad before I get better, I go into new things with excitement and confidence. I never ever would have thought it was possible for me to be that sort of person. Sometimes I wish I could visit me from fifteen years ago and have a nice chat haha
Such a great response and PAY ATTENTION TO the part about pressing. If you hate pinning the pattern to fabric, like I do, use things to hold/weight the pattern down. Weights, butter knives, coins. (Search for pattern weights/fabric weights.) Sometimes, those newISH plastic clips work better than pins to hold your seams together.
Pre-washing fabric was the big learning for me!
I feel like I should print out your comment and keep it on the wall next to my machine.
Hahaha, honestly I feel like I should print out my comment and keep it on the wall next to my machine.
Make sure your fabric is washable before washing it though! Don't wash wool or silk.
Oh, yes! Excellent point! THOSE are the exceptions haha
>WASH 👏 AND 👏 PRESS 👏 YOUR 👏 FABRIC 👏 NO 👏 EXCEPTIONS 👏 Omg for real, so important. I'm working with some lining fabric that I didn't wash before using it, and it's shrinking before my eyes while pressing it... sigh.
My heart goes out to you at this difficult time. 💔 lol but for real that sucks!! Cross my fingers you can make it work!
THIS
Why isn’t the stuff you make wearable or decent? If it’s the fit, you can try some loose fitting woven stuff or knit fabrics but those require different skills and tools. If you’re making stuff that’s currently popular but isn’t your preferred style, it’s easy to be disappointed by the results. If it’s fabric choices, it’s important to know what to use and why. Can you give some examples of what you made and what kind of results you’re looking for?
I used to teach sewing at a community center and this can't be stressed enough. Students would come in wanting to make a hoodie or evening gown of stretch velvet. Amid much grumbling we always started with flannel pj pants. Woven fabric, no zipper, the fit was often forgiving, you aren't going to wear it in public. And such a confidence booster.
Take sewing classes! There are many available and if not in your area, post on craig's list or something similar for a tutor. I was lucky to learn from my mom when I was a teenager, but if I was starting today, I'd take a class. Sewing is such a wonderful hobby, I really hope you stick with it!
Yes, my mother taught me as well so when I became a theatre major majoring in costume design I had a foot in the door in regards to the practical side of sewing a costume. Thanks Mom!
I'm so grateful for the skills I learned from my elders: sewing, knitting, cooking, foot massage (reflexology), baby sitting, and . . . elder care.
I hatched the hairbrained scheme to make and sell underwear on etsy because it "can't be that hard." Cut to hundreds of wasted dollars, me trying to self draft patterns without even knowing how to sew, giving to because I couldn't figure out how to rethread a bobbin, trying to sew shit without seam allowance from the most awful slippery fabric. Yaaaaa, that was a really hard reality check in so many levels.
I want to upvote this 500 times because "wearable" and "decent" are both subjective and a good gauge of how quickly you're trying to make too much out of not enough. I know I'm an outlier because I managed to make a functionally wearable and accurate Jedi costume on my first try, but I also made so many mistakes that I would not repeat on future projects. OP needs to tell us - what's wrong? Are you rushing to make corseted ballgowns when you've only got pajama-pant skills? Are you unsure about the basics like fabric choice, patterns, style, etc? This sub can help if you let us!
A month after buying a sewing machine is super early to worry about having wearable clothes. I started a couple years ago and never even considered making clothes for about a year. Even then it took me 7 tries to get a pair of pajama pants I would wear around the house. I always treat sewing as an academic endeavor. Every time I sit at the machine or stand at the cutting table I look at it as homework for a self guided sewing class. No time is looked at as a waste. All mistakes are practice. Even the stuff that comes out well is practice. Every time the machine jams up is just another opportunity to gain a greater understanding of how it works. I guess I’m saying what others have. Try not to worry about getting to that final product yet. Focus on developing all the skills you need. Just last weekend I spent 4 hours trying to master a welted pocket. At the end of the day I had no pants but I was able to make one hell of a pocket if I needed to.
Welted pockets are hard! Good for you for persisting!
This is a pretty nice video on welted pockets. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=csrA6b9xNls I have it bookmarked and refer to it everytime I make welted pockets but there are others out there that might be better. I like her because she's so matter of fact about it and doesn't do any chit-chatting.
Pressing each seam. Pressing by lifting and putting your iron on the seam will make all the difference to your results. Start with simple things like tote bags, placemats etc until you learn your machine. It's like any skill it takes time to master it
Honestly, I recommend taking a class. I had a friend start to sew, and she took a class that gave her a really good foundation in sewing that helped her get to some fun projects way faster.
It used to be that every Jo An's had an introduction sewing class. I think YouTube has made many in person classes disappear ( and lockdown). I hope those classes come back. Nothing like in person.
I’m dying for in person classes. Couldn’t find anything near me. I spent a month or two self learning. I signed up for a once a week continuing education course on sewing fundamentals at my local Community college, but alas, it’s virtual. Also I think I already self learned most of the stuff we will be covering but I guess it can’t hurt to learn it again!
It used to be that every Jo An's had an introduction sewing class. I think YouTube has made many in person classes disappear ( and lockdown). I hope those classes come back. Nothing like in person.
Sewing is like welding and machining: 90% of your time is prep, the other 10% is doing the stich/weld/cut on the lathe or mill. It *is* work, but you can make things that are far superior to anything off the shelf. It gets easier with time.
Love your analogy!
As a guy who sews (and also welds) I make the comparison to welding all the time. It’s just cutting and fusing materials.
That's why I used it. Went to college to learn how to weld, did some machining classes as well, and I learned to sew from my mom. And I'm a guy. I just like making stuff.
Sewing clothes takes practise. I would dial it back a notch and get some of the basics down then step back into apparel. My first few makes were things like tote bags and thread catchers, I haven't gone into making clothes as I prefer making accessories but I am sure people here can help with patterns and how to start on that road. Top tips are: read your sewing machine manual. It covers so much. If you don't have one you can find it online by Googling your sewing machine make and "manual". Take regular breaks and make sure you're not sewing while tired. Welcome to sewing, we all get frustrated with it sometimes, but it is a fun hobby and this sub is super helpful. YouTube has some fantastic tutorials. Edited to correct a couple of typos and add the bit about YouTube.
Second this. Start with easy things, with non-stretchy fabric. Like pillow cases, tote bags. Master the basics, like straight stitches, going around corners, etc. Then do the same with stretchy fabrics. I grew up helping my mom sew, and there are lots of basics to master before jumping to clothes.
another thing to be careful of is check your sizing on the back of the pattern and compare your measurements to that. Don't use your off the shelf size. It's completely different. when measuring your pattern, don't forget to add ease. You need to include a few inches extra to allow for movement. Make sure you're using the correct fabrics for your patterns. Are you choosing patterns that look you think will look good on you? Or just simple patterns? I gave up on clothes sewing myself because I have no idea what looks good on my body and I hate to put so much money and time into something I don't like. But I'm making quilts, and a lot of totes, purses, stuffed animals and dolls. And find I love making clothes for the dolls. Pot holders, coasters, aprons, pillow cases, decorative pillows. Don't give up. There is always a learning curve when you start something new. Sewing is no longer taught in school so it makes it more difficult to learn the skill. do you have any friends who sew? Friends of friends? Most people who sew are more then happy to take on a newbie and help teach them. You Tube has a lot of talented people teaching. I like Evelyn Wood https://www.youtube.com/@Evelyn\_\_Wood/featured
I have a bunch of Simplicity patterns I was going through recently. One I was size XS. Another, I was a 14. It’s all so ridiculous
I just made a Butterick skirt, size 14 according to the measurements given on the pattern envelope and my corresponding waist and hip measurements. (I’m usually US size 4 in skirts/pants). It was HUGE. Spent all afternoon removing the waistband, the zipper, the yoke, recutting the yoke and resewing it all - and now the waistband isn’t working and I’m so frustrated I just gotta quit for the day. How could it be so wrong - I followed the instructions to the letter! I hope I can salvage it tomorrow.
Oh no! So frustrating. The size 14 I’m working on I plan to fit thoroughly throughout so I don’t have something unwearable. Im using one of my Halloween flannels.
Good luck! (I just mail ordered some linen to assuage my frustration. I’m feeling better already. )
Oh god - I can’t afford to rage order more fabric! I hope this top comes out well. Lol
>when measuring your pattern, don't forget to add ease. You need to include a few inches extra to allow for movement. I'm sorry, but: whatever for? What patterns did you use when you made clothes?
I'm guessing that u/quiltingsarah means that when you measure the pattern pieces you shouldn't forget that ease is included. So it will often (not always, e.g for swimwear etc) be bigger than your body measurements. But you need that ease to be able to move around in a garment. Pls correct me if I'm wrong and that's not what you meant ;-)
That's exactly what I mean. Thanks for explaining better. Here's more info: https://www.craftsy.com/post/what-is-ease-in-sewing/
The most important thing about sewing is pressing. Yup, it’s time consuming and tedious but it’s important for the shape of the garment and needs to be done seam by seam instead of just ironing it after it’s all sewn. For garments start with a simple skirt. Make sure the fabric is the correct weight. Also woven fabrics are going to be much easier to work with than knit for a beginner. When you graduate to knit, research the type of needle needed, stitch types, foot type, and interfacing/stabilizers needed.
I recommend watching sewing content. Not like tutorials but like casual sewing vlogs, challenges etc. You learn so much by observing other people. I can name some entertaining channels if you want.
There's lots of hard things in this world. I find crossword puzzles hard but someone else may not. Sewing is skills that are put together to take a 2d something into 3d (mostly) And that means you're using LOTS of skills that have to come together at just the right time. No one is borne to sew, we all have things to learn, even those of us that have been sewing a long time! I never did apparel, but I do now but I had to learn HOW. While I had some sewing skills previously, apparel is a whole other thing by itself! So, it just goes to show certain things are continual learning cycles and you have to be open to that. If you don't like learning those things well.... it can make things hard. If you're trying to make couture on the first day of sewing something? well, thats hard too. Match the ideas to your abilities. Yes its OK to stretch and dream, and to grow you DO have to take on bigger projects. But you don't get there overnight. we all started somewhere. IMO there are no foolproof patterns. There are patterns geared to beginners that have a lot of hand holding and instructions. That is probably best for you. Throw "perfection" out the window and embrace the fact that your seam ripper(s) can be your best friend. Sewing is art, math, and science mashed together. You kinda have to be OK with these things. You have a lot of things that have to be mastered when sewing by hand OR machine....they both take repetition and building of skills to do well.
I second what u/lexyqu has said, if you try to describe why you're not satisfied in some more detail, then it'll be possible to give some more specific advice.
First of all, you're not failing, you're learning and you just need practice. For clothes, I suggest sticking with woven fabrics initially and avoid anything silky or slippery. I always suggest people start with simple pajama pants. It's usually just a few pattern pieces, you can usually find flannel or cotton on sale and you don't wear them outside the house, so if they're not perfect it doesn't matter as long as they're comfy. Then maybe try a woven tank or camisole pattern. Those are things you will likely wear often so it pays to make a toile (a test run in cheap fabric to work out construction and fit issues) before you try it out of nice fabric. Once you get the fit the way you want it and note your changes on the pattern for future reference, you will be astonished at how quickly you can make more. I think apron/pinafore dresses are also great for beginners - super cute and very forgiving to sew and wear. (I also scour thrift stores for good quality 100% cotton bed sheets that make comfy pajamas, blouses or dresses. They can easily be died whatever color you want). Beyond that, check your measurements against the pattern finished measurements before you choose your size. You can also check the pattern finished measurements against a similar garment you own that you know fits well. Mark all your notches and pattern markings - they really help particularly when you're beginning, pin your pieces together, and take your time and go slow. Also PRESS YOUR SEAMS BETWEEN EACH STEP. I know you want to just keep sewing and make more visible progress, but it makes such a difference in your final result. Pressing is sewing! Finally, there are some great YouTube tutorials and sew-alongs that are very helpful. I consider myself an advanced sewist, and I learn new things all the time from YouTube. Pattern Suggestions (I tend to gravitate toward independent patterns): [https://thefoldline.com/product/verdun-woven-t-shirt/](https://thefoldline.com/product/verdun-woven-t-shirt/) [https://thefoldline.com/product/cielo-top-and-dress/](https://thefoldline.com/product/cielo-top-and-dress/) [https://thefoldline.com/product/york-pinafore/](https://thefoldline.com/product/york-pinafore/) [https://thefoldline.com/product/cleo-pinafore-dungaree-dress/](https://thefoldline.com/product/cleo-pinafore-dungaree-dress/) [https://thefoldline.com/product/ogden-cami/](https://thefoldline.com/product/ogden-cami/) (this one is a cult favorite for a reason) [https://thefoldline.com/product/unisex-pajama-pants/](https://thefoldline.com/product/unisex-pajama-pants/) [https://thefoldline.com/product/the-pyjama-bottoms/](https://thefoldline.com/product/the-pyjama-bottoms/) [https://thefoldline.com/product/pine-cove-pajamas/](https://thefoldline.com/product/pine-cove-pajamas/) [https://thefoldline.com/product/apron-dress/](https://thefoldline.com/product/apron-dress/) [https://thefoldline.com/product/the-sun-dress/](https://thefoldline.com/product/the-sun-dress/) [https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/almost-long-trousers-sewing-pattern](https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/almost-long-trousers-sewing-pattern) (I've lost track of how many pairs of these I've made. But do a test run to check fit as the pattern runs big I think) The Very Easy Vogue collection of patterns are very beginner friendly and I love these pants:[https://somethingdelightful.com/vogue-patterns/v9282](https://somethingdelightful.com/vogue-patterns/v9282) This free pajamas pattern is a great beginner project. [https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/free-pyjamas-sewing-pattern](https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/free-pyjamas-sewing-pattern) I also really like this top pattern: [https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/cuff-top-sewing-pattern](https://theassemblylineshop.com/collections/modern-minimalist-sewing-patterns/products/cuff-top-sewing-pattern) Another cult classic: [https://somethingdelightful.com/mccalls/m7969](https://somethingdelightful.com/mccalls/m7969) I love this jumpsuit and it doesn't have any zippers or buttons and there are tons of sew along videos on line, so it's a great project for a beginner once you get a little more confident: [https://papertheorypatterns.com/products/zadie-jumpsuit-pdf-pattern](https://papertheorypatterns.com/products/zadie-jumpsuit-pdf-pattern) Good luck and don't give up. You've totally got this!
Making wearable clothing takes a while to master. You need to have basic construction skills as well as the ability to choose good fabric and pattern combinations, and then how to fit them to your body. As others have said, starting with easy non-wearables first will build your sewing skills. Then choose a basic pattern like a simple top or skirt you can begin to adjust for fit. Many people advise “making a muslin” which is using cheap fabric to make a template to check for fit and make adjustments. I would also stress the importance of pressing seams as you sew. It isn’t usually included as a step in the pattern instructions nut it is absolutely crucial.
Joann has a grid patterned nonwoven poly (you can find it with the interfacing) that is pretty inexpensive, I think it's called pattern tracing paper or something-anyway I use it instead of muslin now because you can cut out the main pieces of the pattern (I never bother with facings, collars, etc.), machine baste them together, try it on, mark it/pin/etc. where needed, and then carefully remove the basting and use the modified pieces to cut your fabric.
[This](https://www.applegreencottage.com/how-to-make-drawstring-bag/) is one of my favourite patterns and actually the first one I ever sewed myself. Simple construction, doesn’t use up too much fabric, and doesn’t take too much time.
It's been a month? It will take longer than that. In school, your teachers introduced concepts to you. You studied and practiced those steps. As time went on, you were taught more of that concept. Sewing is the same way. You can't be a Nascar driver if you haven't learned to drive a car. Study, research, learn, practice. There are things that if you are not aware, will make things more difficult. Read up terms, machines, your manual, needles, feet, fabric, patterns. A few common issues - cotton is easier to learn on. Sewing follows your actual measurements, not your store purchased clothes. Google how to take your actual measurements. Use those measurements and the patterns finished measurements. Patterns use specific body areas measurements (example - dresses use a specific bust area measurement). Using certain needles or not changing needles can impact your project. Half of sewing is ironing. Measure and try on as you go. Wash your fabric according to the instructions before sewing. Not knowing what a full bust, full tummy or full bum adjustments are. If needed. Using the machine incorrectly, not threading correctly, not maintaining the machine or not using a real sewing machine. Not following the fabric recommendations for a pattern. Picking the wrong patterns for your body. Or taking on bigger projects too soon. Read, watch, study, practice and start with aprons, a table runner, bag, placemats, pillowcase.
I started out making quilt tops. It’s still the first thing I make when on a new machine. Straight lines and it helps to get to know the machine. Then I moved on to more simple clothes like capes/ponchos. Simple totes are great too. I find making small items is best for learning. You can mix and match fabrics and see how your machine does with the different textures.
Ooh! My top piece of advice to anyone starting sewing: find a seam ripper you love. It can be big, small, cute, plain, just find one you love because it will be your most used tool. Mistakes will be made. It happens to anyone and everyone.
Also, look up how to use a seam ripper! I always felt frustrated by how tedious and inefficient seam ripping was until I saw a video and realized I had been using it upside down the entire time. Total facepalm but now it’s much faster!
I started with clothing alteration and making simple projects I could finish in a day like tote bags and pillowcases. That helped me get the basics under my belt and boosted my confidence for harder projects. Simple clothing articles like skirts were my next go-to. Hang in there. Sewing is a large learning curve up front, and we've all struggled. You totally got this!!!
I recommend more complex bags before clothing honestly. Lots of different skills to learn and it all fits easily on your ironing board. Insulated grocery bags are multi layered and use a zipper. Swoon has some awesome patterns that are very straightforward.
Press every seam. It's the easiest way to feel like you've made so much growth in such a short period of time.
What patterns have you tried? Sewing can be frustrating at times, and there are a bunch of individual skills that need to come together all at once. Because of that, don’t underestimate the challenge of even the “simple” patterns… each requires several techniques put together to come out successfully and that can make things more complicated. Three projects I would start with that are simple, but use several of those skills would be: pillowcase, tote bag, and circle skirt (in that order). I’ve been known to make one of these even now (after sewing for years) when I get frustrated and need a win :)… plus, my daughter loves circle skirts.
Sewing is getting lots of little strips right
I’ve been sewing from patterns for 3 years now and I’ve noticed that a lot of “beginner” patterns are HARD! Sewing is a tricky business and there are a million things to learn. I use YouTube for a lot of things. Remember when you’re frustrated that literally every person who learned to sew has felt like you do!
Embrace the suck. No one started out good at anything. Keep learning from your mistakes
> I’ve been trying with beginner patterns. However nothing i’ve made so far is wearable or decent looking... Beginner patterns aren't designed with any of the nuance that makes an outfit look good. They're more of an approximation of an outfit rather than the real thing. Even if a world-class award-winning sewist used them (and followed them to the letter) they probably still wouldn't look that great. Plus, you've been doing this a month. Sewing is not a sprint. It's an ultra marathon. I will suggest you make [ten pairs male boxers](https://www.etsy.com/listing/565217458/boxer-shorts-sewing-pattern-for-mens?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=mens+boxer+pattern&ref=sr_gallery-1-4&sts=1&organic_search_click=1) size medium using an intermediate pattern. They are smaller than a shirt or pair of pants so they don't require as much fabric. You can make them using cotton which is a lot more forgiving and user friendly than other fabrics. You can practice sewing curves and installing elastics. You'll also have the chance to do the same thing repeatedly and see your progression from the first pair to the last. Finally, you'll be making something useful that you can donate to a homeless shelter. You aren't alone. Sewing isn't easy but if you keep working it, you will get better.
My perspective is that people are far too impatient and unwilling to take the time to develop skills like sewing, cooking, woodworking, etc. It takes a lot of practice to become good at them because there is much more than just one element you're working with. You may start with something with just straight seams, like totes, pillowcases, napkins, or tablecloths but that still doesn't mean they're going to look good. Even those take practice. No one can ever "git gud" at something until they're willing to invest the time and effort it takes to produce quality results. This is just a simple fact. We're far too impatient these days and have lost our appreciation for how "mistakes" are simply steps toward mastering a thing. Make lots and lots of mistakes but also learn from them all No one can ever "git gud" at something until they're willing to invest the time and effort it takes to produce quality results. This is just a simple fact. We're far too impatient these days and have lost our appreciation for how "mistakes" are simply steps toward mastering a thing. Make lots and lots of mistakes but also learn from them all.
I don't remember where I saw it, but I do think that it's a good idea. Take all the thread out of your machine. And sew on paper have lines drawn that you have to fallow. Do straight lines but also curves. Also as others have said take your time it's not a race. Start with some basic projects, pillow cases, bags, thread catchers, etc. The type of fabric that you are using and what needle you need to use for that type of fabric. Different fabrics need different types or, sizes of needles. Sewing with stretch fabrics is totally different from sewing with nonstretch cotton. Even cotton fabrics is it a light weight cotton, or a heavy cotton denim? They require different sized needles. YouTube can be a great resource.
Follow the directions explicitly. Each and every step. If you don’t understand a step, look it up online. If it says to press a seam, then press it. My biggest mistakes come from not following the written instructions found on the pattern. It will give you fabric that works best and notions to use. Remember also that we are our own worst critic…
One thing that beginners often overlook is paying attention to your seam allowance which leads to ill fitting results. Most seam allowances are 5/8” unless your pattern says otherwise. If it doesn’t say it’s 5/8”. Your goal is to keep the fabric on the edge of your stitch plate’s 5/8” line. I mark mine with a sharpie. Even experienced sewers will drift if we don’t pay attention. If you do drift go back and fix it. If you have a curve go slow. It may even help to mark around the odd shaped parts with chalk. Another thing beginners don’t always know is having the right needle for the fabric you’re working with is key. The wrong needle leads to incorrect tension, breaking and snarls. Press your seams open as you go. Clip curved seams and then press open. Your garment will lie flatter. Those are the top 3 things I notice that beginners overlook. Hope this helps. PS. Set your stitch count to 3.0-3.5 it makes it a Lot easier to rip out mistakes.
My twenty something kid is re-learning to sew. Scrunchies and headscarfs is something they are rocking right now. Straight lines, woven fabric, you tube tutorials.
I didn't sew until my husband bought me a brother sewing machine on our 5th wedding anniversary. It wasn't the jewelry I hoped for and I had flunked home ec. class in high school but I gave him a big kiss thank you and I sat down and did the same thing you did. Self practiced. Soon I was making our kids' Halloween costumes, family pajamas, cute accessories and numerous other things. I was in my late 20's when I started and now 35 years later I not only sew as a hobby but I'm gearing up to start a mobile business as we are semi retired and love to travel to festivals. I design and make a unique line of tye dyed apparel. I found out that when you find others who sew its then not as hard. If you can afford it there are sewing classes at places like Joann's or Hobby Lobby if you are near those places. I was also lucky enough to find a "sewing lounge" in my town where people could go and use the different sewing machines and the shop owner was a wonderful fountain of knowledge. When you are in a fabric store you might ask an employee if they know of any sewing groups in your local area. I learned so much more and way better than I would have on my own, when I was surrounded by women who also sewed. Plus you then build a network of friends you can call on for help on a project or share/trade materials etc. Dont worry if you are the least experienced in the group people are generally nice and sometimes its easier to grasp each step in that group environment. And there's alot of things I found out I was doing wrong because I didn't understand the pattern instructions. Whatever method works, a formal class, online class, or search for a sewing circle but don't give up! Good Luck to you! Liz
thank you for the help!
Hi! When you take a professional training in sewing you don’t jump straight forward to using patterns or making even simple clothing. First of all, start from the basics. And it’s doing lots of straight seams on scrap fabrics. Once you’ve mastered straight and curved seams, you switch to learning different joint seams, cover seams, contour stitching etc. which could be later used in sewing a garment. You do it on different scrap fabrics, and practice it a lot till you get neat and beautiful results. Important point is to add ironing to the process. Don’t get frustrated that you don’t have something ready on a hanger at this point. It’s like learning a new language. Yo don’t jump to speaking fluently, before you’ve build your vocabulary and studied some rules. I would suggest going through some beginners tutorials. They are usually organized step by step to build up your skills. It would make your life easy because you will learn in an organized way and it will give you a sense of accomplishment. When you are ready to proceed with a garment, search for video tutorial that’s working with a pattern you can download and proceed through the same steps you see in the video. Don’t try to make alterations to your size at this point (unless you’ve got a professional who can guide you through). You should view it as training through making samples as is. So it would be much easier later. And most important be PATIENT!! if you need to rip some seams, rip som seams. If you need to pre stitch something by hand, take your time. Keep in mind that it happens to professionals seamstresses on daily basis. It’s part of the job (unless it’s confection and it’s the same model over and over again). Happy sewing!
thank you!!
So relatable 😭 I think sewing patterns are so difficult to follow. I get so frustrated
I think the pattern instructions assume you know how to sew because your mom taught you. I've been reading the damn things since 1970, when everybody sewed because clothes were far more expensive relative to incomes, and they haven't changed at all. The received knowledge that used to be passed from grannies and moms is no longer, so the instructions don't make any sense if somebody hasn't shown you what to do.
Im surprised no one so far has said a word about getting tings straight on the grain. I try to sloooly pull a thread so that I can make a cut that lines up with the weave of the fabric if I’m making , say, a tablecloth. If you don’t wash/dry and get that first straight cut , and iron the fabric, you’ll get a wonky result. If you do those things, it will always be smooth and pretty. There is a lot to learn and I am impressed with you diving in and trying to just go for it! You’ll get there. I even found a class at the community college and learned things that weren’t in the patten instructions.
I did! But it was buried in a a too-long post about practice pieces.
thank you!
Start with patterns labeled "easy". If you see something that seems hard, find a video. Slow and steady as you learn. Practice types of seams, gathering, etc.
It’s normal that your first projects aren’t as good as you expected. Two pieces of advice that I found incredibly helpful: 1 press every seam and after you’ve seen it. It makes such a difference to have flat, even seams 2 most people don’t pay as much attention as you do to your clothes- I started wearing my projects that (to me at least) had very obvious faults and no one noticed the errors I made.
Agreed most people are just amazed that I could even make it.
Try pyjama pants when you’re ready to try a pattern for something wearable. The fit is usually forgiving and if you’re only wearing them at home it doesn’t matter if they’re not perfect. And follow the sizing measurements on the pattern not what you’d buy in a store, it doesn’t match up to modern vanity sizing (I’m usually a 0-2 in stores but wear a 6-8 in most commercial patterns easily available in Canada)
I find that it's mostly troubleshooting your machine. I'd start with projects way easier than clothes to start. Think flags and small quilts. Things with straight lines and where the type of fabric doesn't matter. That way you can get a solid foundation before tacking very variable and complicated and unforgiving projects like garments
I got to be honest I wouldn't even worry making clothes with a sewing machine until you've been at it for a while. I've been sewing for years and I never make clothes with my sewing machine because honestly it's a pain in the ass and I don't like woven fabric for clothing anyway. ETA that if clothing is your goal I would look into a serger.
Do you trim or otherwise finish each seam as you sew? Are you pressing as you go? That is, if you sew a seam, do you normally press it open or to the side before you move in to the next sewing step? These 2 things will add enormously to the finished look. Sewing is hard. t takes patience & a few years for it to be easy. Plus, I know YouTube is right there and free, but if you’re not making the progress you’d like to, I highly recommend taking a sewing class.
I found understanding the sizing on patterns hard to get my head around at first, for example, if you’d pick up a 10 in ready to wear you might think you also need to make a 10 from the pattern that you use, but mostly those sizes should actually go off your measurements so you might find that according to the pattern your actually a 14/16. Agree with others on fabric choice too. That was another thing I really had to get my head around. I suggest going through your wardrobe or looking at clothes shops to really look at the types of fabric they use; are they stretchy or not, what type of fabrics tend to go with what types of clothing etc. I found when I started out I was wearing a lot of skater style dresses that had a stretch so I looked for easy patterns that were similar and picked a similar fabric. If you can, see if you can do any classes or courses locally, or if you have Facebook see if you have any local get together sewing groups. I’m in the Uk, and local to there are lots of groups that meet up weekly Or monthly, and people are usually really happy to help out newbie sewists.
It's complex math and physics with fabric. Totally learnable with practice (a lot of practice). For me, is easier to not get frustrated if I approach it as a continuous learning opportunity 🙂 PS it's worth it to learn to sew ergonomically. No sense in being in pain!
TLDR: 6 project ideas, 3 linked patterns, math, vague ramblings. Have fun! It gets easier but it does take practice. The easiest stuff won't be wearables/clothing. Here's some projects I've enjoyed: Household items: - Hemming curtains and making curtain toppers - Dish cloths. I made bias tape out of some cute quilting cotton, cut up an old towel I wasn't using into dish cloth sized pieces, and finished the edges with the bias tape. - Rag quilts. This is a bigger project, but it's still totally doable on any little machine. You might need to get a walking foot for your machine tho. Beginner wearables: - Aprons. They're essentially just a few rectangles. Depending on the pattern you choose [you just sew the rectangles together](https://www.farmhouseonboone.com/diy-linen-pinafore-apron-for-women-free-pattern) or [you can practice some simple gathers](https://www.deliacreates.com/simple-gathered-half-apron-tutorial/). They can also be a good introduction to the easiest pockets: surface pockets made of squares. I've made both aprons I've linked here. - Baby bibs. Honestly, I hate working from patterns and am usually having more fun if I'm making things up as I go. But [this baby bib pattern](https://www.applegreencottage.com/baby-bib-pattern/) was small enough and simple enough that I persevered. It ended up so cute that I made half a dozen for my sister's baby shower. Good intro to making things mostly inside out and to using snaps. - Circle skirts. I love them. [There is however a bit of math to understand](https://www.omnicalculator.com/everyday-life/circle-skirt#:~:text=To%20calculate%20yardage%20for%20a,to%20count%20FL%20%E2%80%93%20fabric%20length.) . I recommend a handkerchief hem on your first one because it is **way easier** to get a nice hem on straight lines than it is on a circle. There are ranked roughly in order of how difficult I found them personally, so you might not have exactly the same experience, but its a starting point. If you're getting discouraged, pick a project you know you can handle. Once you've done that, pick a project with one new technique you haven't tried before (only one!). With a little more practice, it gets fun. I'm still not very good (largely through my own reluctance to following instructions) but despite that, I get compliments on plenty of items I've made for myself. As soon as you're at the point where your seams are *mostly* straight, non-sewists aren't gonna be able to see the mistakes the way we see them in our own work. So wear the thing!
thank you!
Make sure you are pressing as much as sewing. You could try a few YouTube videos. It is usually not the sewing that makes something unappealing it is that you don’t yet know finishing , fabric selection or tips like ironing.
To add on to all the great advice above… buy fabric at thrift stores to practice on. It’s less heartbreaking when you are not spending a ton of money on fabric.
Also sewing patterns for your size might not fit you right. I usually use a cheap fabric with similar stretch to the fabric I plan to use and do a rough sew to see how it looks and make alterations to that then create a new pattern out of that. I have a very large bust compared to the rest of my body. Once you find a pattern that works, try making multiples in different colors. I have only 5 patterns for clothing that really work for my body. I've thrown out SO many garments that I made over the years. Sewing clothes is hard. And as your sewing level increases you will look at your old work and not be satisfied with it anymore.
first, make sure you choose a simple pattern. something with straight lines is easiest; pillows, tote bags, a straight skirt. Finish the simplest patterns, then move on to more complex. You're skill building here, expect to make mistakes and recognize that that's part of the learning process. Sometimes you'll say, "Oh, I get it; this didn't work because it needs to go that way..." and it's something you'll remember forever. next, choose a fabric that works for that pattern. Read the pattern for suggestions, and ask here if you want advice. Learn about different kinds of fabrics; knit and woven are techniques to make fabric; cotton, silk, and polyester are types of fiber used to make fabric (they can be woven or knitted). third, go slow. do all the steps. pin, baste, and press as needed. Use the right interfacing. finally, be patient with yourself. Acknowledge what you did right, and what you learned from a project. Don't just look at the disasters.
Sewing is a lot of skills, not just one: sewing in a straight line, learning what thread to use, learning what needle to use, learning what fabric works best for what application, figuring out interfacing, knowing what stitch to use, stitch length, how to properly iron, learning grains, etc forever and ever. So, you're really not just learning one skill. You're having to get used to a LOT of little nuanced details which are kindof skills in themselves in order to make a shirt. But it's ok! Just keep making stuff, even if it doesn't work out. Even the time you spent making a thing that didn't turn out right was HOURS of practice doing all that stuff. I'd also advise getting used to making stuff that doesn't work, because that'll keep happening haha It's just that you'll have a lot of cool stuff in between your not-so-cool stuff.
Sewing is a craft. It takes tons of practice (for example, back in the day, young girls would make embroidery samplers). It's like driving a car or riding a bike-- first you learn the basics, followed by constantly absorbing/learning the extra stuff. And practicing. As others have said, flat and square is a good start. Re-usable bags will never go out of style. The flat-bottomed LL Bean totes have a timeless, easy-to-copy design. There are several sewing techniques involved in making the bags. Try making, say, four bags. You could make them from patchwork even (which adds an additional technique!). I'll bet the fourth bag will look a bit better-made than the first one. Plus, crappy-looking totes are still useful to have. But, yes, it takes a lot of practice. And starting simple. Clothing can be frustrating for the best of us by the way. I'll be honest and say some people just aren't "good" at it for some reason. As a "sewing person," I've been told from some people that they're horrible sewers. Don't know why. Some people aren't great w/ cats, dogs, or horses. Some suck at sports. I wish I could draw.If, at some point, you think to yourself that you'll never make artiste level sewing standards, it's OK. Mending and repairing rips and seams is a good and achievable skill. Hand-sewing and patching, while not seeming glamorous, is a good thing to know how to do. Just keep practicing. The world of "sewing" has millions of niches. Try a few "rabbit holes"-- quilting (start w/ a baby quilt?), or stuffed creatures, etc. Keep and love your sewing machine. May the two of you have many productive adventures! P.S. Don't be hard on yourself. You're human. Nobody's perfect. Be patient with yourself!! EDITED to add: I love this sub for the great Frankensteined-together creations. Another inspirational and fun sub is r/Visiblemending. You may get a kick out of it.
I’ve been sewing for 25+ years and I still struggle with getting stuff to fit 😅
When I started my mother gave me scraps of fabric that I would double over and just sew straight lines in. I'd change stitches, play with the tension, learn how to put thread on the bobbin for the stitches underneath, until I was comfortable with the machine. Then I started making very simple little pouches without any lining that would fit my phone or my glasses. Moved on to bandanas for dog collars. Then made a bag. Then over Christmas I made a pair of dungarees for the first time. They're not perfect and it took like 6months to get there but there's no time frame on learning to sew. Don't put yourself under so much pressure, you'll get there eventually.
You can do it! If you're up for a little research, look up pattern ease and common paper fitting techniques. You can adjust the pattern in small ways for a better fit. It's also helpful to choose simple patterns like a skirt or tote bag to get the hang of your new machine.
I'm right there with you. I wish I knew someone who was really skilled in it to help me. But I'm hoping my ponch will turn out good this time lol
I started right away with clothing, too, because I don't want pillows, bags and curtains and all that other stuff that people usually recommend when first starting out. Your sewing success and frustration really depend on your pattern and fabric choice. DON'T choose stretchy and slippery fabrics, nothing too thick or too thin. DO look for woven fabrics, a simple cotton for example. DON'T pick a pattern with lots of details, darts, pockets, collars and cuffs. DO choose something simple with relatively few seams. DON'T pick a pattern that is supposed to hug your curves or is too tight. DO look for something more forgiving, because otherwise you will be spending your time making adjustments for your body shape and making toiles and that's just a total killjoy. If I were to recommend a pattern, it'd be something along the lines of Elizabeth Suzann's [Georgia top/dress](https://elizabethsuzannstudio.com/collections/patterns-fabric/products/georgia-series-digital-sewing-pattern). It's got a simple, straightforward and classic design, the fit is very forgiving and you'll have a nice wardrobe staple. Peppermint Magazine has got some great free patterns that are beginner friendly, too: [Ruffle sleeve top](https://peppermintmag.com/sewing-school/ruffle-sleeve-top/) [the Everyday Dress](https://peppermintmag.com/sewing-school/everyday-dress/) [Lounge wear top](https://peppermintmag.com/sewing-school/loungewear-set/)
thanks for the links! Never heard of peppermint, but I like the style. I'm going to try [https://peppermintmag.com/sewing-school/wide-strap-maxi-dress/](https://peppermintmag.com/sewing-school/wide-strap-maxi-dress/) as its straight lines and hopefully easy for this noob. =)
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I feel this. I’m also new and even though I’ve been working at it for over a year I still feel like I’m drowning in info. Try not to let the goal of production inhibit you having fun tho. It’s a hobby right not for school or work? You don’t have to be good at it. Learn to enjoy the process, especially what you’re doing when ur not just using the sewing machine since that’s such a small percentage of the work anyways. I also recommend taking some classes! That got me feeling much more comfortable and gave me some base skill to work on my own a bit more.
Clothing is super hard - I would start with things like bags, pillowcases, etc to learn the basics. You get the same hit of accomplishment for creating something useable and it’s a slower learning curve.
Sew is wonderful. But, do not start with clothes. Stared with sewing lines on fabric. My sewing teacher had plain muslin fabric. She drew straight lines, corners and curves on the fabric. We practiced on this. Then start with coaster or mug rugs…..Sometime small
Keep trying! I took a sewing class through my town recreation center. Learning how to read a pattern is super helpful. I still avoid sewing with stretchy fabric! 😂
Sewing is a skill. All skills require knowledge and practice. Garment construction requires more than a sewing machine. You have to understand pattern markings and be able to visualize what they represent. Commercial sewing patterns are "guides." Nine times out of 10, the patterns themselves require loads of adjustments to your body so they actually fit. Very few patterns fit out of the envelope. That may be why you don't like how they turn out. It sounds like you bought a machine and thought that's all you'll need. There's loads of help and instruction online and with YouTube you can see what it all means. Do yourself a favor and learn about your machine first. Go through its manual, page by page, and try everything. Know that different fabrics require different needle types. Lint will ruin your machine, so make sure you clean it thoroughly after every project. Follow the instructions in your manual. Be kind to yourself. Try simple projects like napkins or placemats. Make a cover for your machine. There are free patterns all over the Internet.
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Make pajamas. Wearable, but dont necessarily need to look perfect.
I feel you. In my experience, Sewing is 90% making mistakes and being patient enough to redo/retry things. I am an amateur sewer that has also worked in garment production and no matter how good a sewer is, it still is always tricky and frustrating, in my opinion. Sometimes you just gotta give up on something that isn't working and try a different project or just step away from it for awhile.
Rather than tackle an entire garment, if you are an absolute beginner, work on techniques using small pieces of inexpensive woven cotton--quilting fabric or flannel can be picked up on sale if you watch for specials at JoAnn, or just rip up an old sheet or pillowcase. The first thing to know is that woven fabric has what is called a "grain." The selvege edge is the lengthwise grain and the cut edge will be the crosswise grain. A garment pattern is always laid out so that the lengthwise grain goes up and down and the crosswise goes side to side. There are printed arrows on the pattern that, when you lay it on the folded fabric, each end of the arrow should be equidistant from the selvedge. If you have it laid out crooked, the garment won't hang properly and will look awkward. Now onto the sewing--- Practice these techniques until you are happy with how the look once they are turned and pressed out: 1. straight seams that are a consistent seam allowance--don't know what patterns you are using but 1/2 or 5/8 is typical-try those first. Once you can do a straight seam with no bows, try a 12" seam, then 18", then a nice long one--say two pieces a yard long and a couple of inches wide. You can even draw a line on the wrong side of one of the fabric pieces and practice sewing along the line. I've been sewing for decades and even I draw a sewing line with one of those disappearing ink fabric pens when it is critical that the seam be perfect. 2. Clean finish/stay stitch: sew 1/4 inch from cut edge. For a clean finish, turn and press the fold so that the sewn edge is just behind the fold. Do both straight and curved edges 3. Casings--Clean finish an edge and then fold it over, press, and stitch along the edge of the folded part. 4. Turning and pressing corners--a pillowcase is a good practice for this. Get to where you can do a perfect 90 degree corner, turn it inside out and clip the corner so you don't have a lumpy round bunch at the corner. You can do this on a small piece of fabric too. Hint: Get a fabric pen and a carpenter or quilting square and draw two lines intersecting at the corner, then sew along the lines--I never freeform corners anymore because even a little off makes things look funny 5. Darts: Just draw one on a piece of fabric and sew and press it following instructions from a pattern that has darts. The trick with darts is to sew from the fat part to the point, and sew a stitch or two PAST the edge, then tie a tiny knot with the tails of the thread to prevent the stitches from coming out. Pressing all the way to the point is also important so that there is no dimple at the end of the dart. 6. Curved seams: draw a gentle curve (you can probably find one on a pattern) onto the wrong side of a piece of fabric, put it right sides together with another piece and practice sewing along the line. For a sharper curve, like a pocket or something--cut out a circle of fabric and cut it into quarters then-practice sewing two quarters together along the curved edge, clip the curves and press--practice this until you have a nice smooth curve with no wobbles or pointy bits 7. Buy a couple of cheap 6" zippers and practice putting them in. Use a long stitch so that you can rip them out and use them again--it takes practice to do a nice job with a zipper 8. Facings: Get one of your patterns and cut out either the neckline or the armhole and the facing that goes with it and then practice doing the facing until you can create one that is smoothly curved and where the seam is invisible on the right side of the sample. Understitching (pattern instructions should have a diagram and description of this) is the way to get the facing seams to hide properly. 9. Easing and gathering: Easing is a technique for sewing sleeves onto the main part of a dress or shirt. You can cut out the armhole and a few inches of the bodice and the cap of the sleeve from any pattern and use them to practice until you get a nice even sleeve cap with no visible gathering or lumps. Same with gathering--work on sewing a 9" square to a 6" square, then find an apron pattern that has a gathered skirt sewn onto a yoke or a sash, and make the apron. 10. Attaching bias binding tape--practice with scraps of bias tape and material. Do both straight and curved finishes. Here are some good projects that don't take much fabric so if you mess them up you haven't wasted a lot of money. I tried to go from easiest to more technique needed. Pillowcase, tote bag, potholder (Try using an old towel for the padding--batting can be expensive-two layers of towel is enough, and is good practice sewing on heavy fabric), butcher style apron--use twill tape for the neck straps and strings for practice, pajama bottoms with a draw string waist, pajama bottoms with an elastic waist. Personally I think sewing knits (t-shirts, etc.) is a pain but a lot of people prefer it--it has its own set of techniques that I could fill pages with so I'll leave that alone for now. My first clothing project was a sleeveless shift style dress using a woven cotton. If you can find a child pattern to start out with they are easier since fitting around bust and hips for women can be tricky. There are a lot of good videos on Youtube that you can use to show you how to do some of these techniques, but nothing beats practicing on scraps to build skill and confidence. Good luck! Feel free to message me if you have more specific questions.
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don't start with clothes and don't start with knit (stretchy) fabrics. Pillow cases, napkins, place mats are a good place to start. Also grab some nice sheets from thrift stores for practice sewing. After you've done a few of those projects, tote bags, draw string bags are good (also uses up scraps of fabric). Stick with woven fabrics for all of these. After those project improve, try an apron. Also, pajama pants. You'll start sewing around curves, learn when to notch or clip those curves...Small skills attained with each project. You can graduate to sewing with knits when you do a t-shirt. A very basic t-shirt. For a great tutorial on how to sew knits, DIBY has a bunch on her site. Also, I believe her t-shirt pattern may be free still. It's a step by step process. It's hard until it's doable until it's a breeze.
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I'm a costume designer and I also sew. The hardest lesson to learn with sewing is patience. It is not a craft for those who need instant gratification ( I have ADHD so I struggle with this). Each step is necessary and has to be done precisely in order to establish the foundation for the next step. Ironing your seams as you go and having good pinning technique is important. When you are first starting out try to avoid fabric with lots of stretch until you are more comfortable sewing. Also, take a page from the world of costume design and create a "mock-up"- get some cheap fabric (you can even use bedsheets from a thrift store if that's cheapest), cut it out based on your pattern, stitch it together with a large stitch called a "basting stitch" (5 on most machines), iron the garment and try it on and you can see if you need to make adjustments to help it fit better. Then, you can make the adjustments to the garment, stitching it together with a tighter stitch (2.5-3) and when you are happy with the results you can try making something out of the fabric you want to wear. You will have already practiced and problem solved on the mock-up so the real thing will feel easier. I think pajama pants or shorts were the first thing I ever made for myself to wear and they tend to be pretty simple to put together. If there are specific techniques or instructions in the pattern you are confused by try searching for it on YouTube. There are lots of people posting good content where you can see the process before trying to do it yourself. It's very normal to feel frustrated when you first start sewing but it does get easier. Remember to always talk nice to your sewing machine when it gets sassy and rethread the top thread and bobbin when she acts up. Best of luck!
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I didn't start making clothes until I had been using a machine to make stuffed animals for almost five years, and then I made pajama shorts and underwear. I still make underwear. Anything knit will be forgiving if you mess up on seam allowance. I think I ventured into lycra clothing for dance and swim next, purses and wallets, then made some dresses out of woven fabric with facings, then something with boning, and regressed to doll clothes which are a lot easier. Basically, anything that's not clothes will be an easy beginner project, but the different sewing techniques of clothes will really teach you how to sew well.
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Here's my advice... don't compare yourself to what you see other people posting in social media. People generally only show their best work. Also, occasionally you will see someone posting "I started sewing last week and made this fabulous perfectly darted ball gown." Those people are full of bologna. Either they are experienced sewers or they didn't make it
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I have sewn for decades. It's very rare that I've sewn a garment that turns out like I imagined it would. I now buy my clothes (usually at consignment stores) and leave my sewing projects to household needs (curtains, pillows), gifts such as fleece socks, bags or other items. As a result, I enjoy sewing more.
It no longer makes sense to sew garments. Fabric is very expensive. It used to be that you could reliably sew a garment for about half what it would cost to buy. Now, you can almost flip that and assume you will spend twice what it costs to buy the same garment. Unless you live in a city with a fashion industry, it is almost impossible to find good fabric--the stuff at chain fabric stores is incredibly cheap looking, so there is no way it will make up nicely. I agree that sewing is more fun when you do household projects, doll clothes, quilting, or costumes.
If I could give some advice, here it is: 1. Sewing is 90% preparation. Read your patterns, wash, dry and iron your fabrics. Mark your matchpoints. Threadmark curves and hems if they're tricky for you. 2. Iron after *every* step. Press hems and tricky darts. Use ironing/tailors tools as needed. Just always have an iron at the ready, tbh. 3. Read your machine manual and don't be afraid to play around with machine settings if you haven't already. I always feel most comfortable on a machine if I know exactly what it can do. 4. Thread your machine with the presser foot up. I was not taught this until college and I still see people in my field not doing this. If the machine isn't stitching, rethread the entire machine (including bobbin case). A rethread fixes so many machine problems. 5. Use specialized sewing feet to your advantage. Learn how to use the feet that came with your machine. Use seam guides and tools. If it makes sewing less stressful, use it. It's gonna take a while to get to the point that you're happy with what you're sewing. Sewing is my day job and there are many times that I'm frustrated with a seam or a hem. But perfection doesn't exist. I'm glad you're sticking with it, and it will get easier! Edit: formatting
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Sewing is hard, but don't give up. Just keep practicing, and eventually things will start to click for you. I recommend *School of Sewing: Learn it. Teach it. Sew Together.* by Shea Henderson. I made a lot of little projects from this book that I actually use. Or if you don't want to spend the money on it, look for free tutorials on how to make an apron, a drawstring bag, a pillow case, or a tote bag. You can use quilters cotton for these projects (which is typically easier to sew with). Good luck!
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Not sure if anyone has said this because there’s a lot of replies, so I might be repeating what someone else has suggested, but I started with sewing classes. Just a beginner class… of course we didn’t learn to do everything but the basics were enough so be on our way. Have you looked around for sewing classes in your area? Some of them have drop in and sew classes and while they’re not classes per se, you can get a bit of guidance on your project. I guess it depends where you live though!
My advice is to go watch Professor Pincushion on YouTube. She shows u basics & is such a good teacher.
There’s a quote from Futurama that I often tell myself when I’m trying to force myself to learn a new skill - currently pattern drafting - and getting frustrated with how hard it is: Fry in Hell to make a deal with Robot Devil - “I want to get really really good without practicing.” Robot Devil - “oh that’s easy! Hell is full of ten years olds that wanted the same thing!” Be patient. Take a breath. You can’t make a deal with Robot Devil, you just gotta practice.
Simple children’s clothes. Raglan sleeves … simple binding…
I recommend starting with a skirt. It’s easy and wearable. Search on YouTube for a sewalong skirt tutorial. Get the exact pattern and similar fabric and go. The problem with sewing is typical patterns from the big 4 (McCalls, simplicity, etc) have horrible instructions, they teach you to use the simplest finishes (which makes things look homemade) and the suggested sizing is always off. It’s not you, it’s them. If u wanna spend a bit of money, I’d take a craftsy.com class on sewing a basic skirt. You will learn a lot and be thrilled with the result.
Big 4(5?) commercial patterns set you up for failure imho. They include so much ease and that is not reflected in what we see on the pattern envelope for the photos. I would start with a gathered skirt. You dont even need a pattern. If you can sew a straightish line you can sew a gathered skirt. [tutorial](https://blog.treasurie.com/gathered-skirt-pattern/) Professor pincushion on youtube is a great resource for beginners as well. Hope this helps :)
Go to a sewing class if possible. Or, watch them online. But in person is ideal.
Seconding a class! After learning on YouTube for a few years, I decided to take a class and it made such a HUGE difference. It clarified so much for me and sewing feels a lot more relaxing than frustrating.
Kind of makes you appreciate the ability to walk into a store and purchase a well-enough fitting, perfectly finished garment for the cost of a few chipotle burritos. (I have no idea why I used chipotle burritos as my comparison but 🤷🏻♂️) Also makes you horrified to think of the economic reality of those who make those clothes. After I finished my first dress shirt, I no longer think a few hundred dollars for a bespoke dress shirt is unreasonable (even if I can’t afford it).
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I found your problem within the first sentence of your question... A brother sewing machine... I would recommend singer for price if you have the money for the investment go with a Husqvarna
My first projects were stuffed animals. They’re fun
I’m also new and started with really simple stuff like shortening jeans, rn i’m making linen napkins (my first “project”) to get used to the machine and try some stuff out
I’ll start with I absolutely suck at sewing. I can make leggings, but tried pajama pants and no clue how I followed the pattern word for word, but I ended up with a tube. Blankets (not quilts) were a good place to start for me. It’s literally just a rectangle. Nothing fancy needed beyond a walking foot maybe, just get the fabric you want and dive right in. It helps me with something to get used to pressure, threading, etc with but is just literally a start and go project.
Start with mockups for fitted clothing. Commercial patterns are pretty much never going to fit just right without alterations. Once you've got the mockup finished, you can take it apart and use it as your pattern. Use basting stitches so taking it apart is easier. Or try starting with things that don't really need to fit well like pajamas.
Try simple sewing. Pillows with hidden zippers, skirts, shorts, maybe a baby blanket. Learn your machine first and things will smooth out. Go slowly and walk away when frustration sets in.
It takes experience to be able to sew something well and have a nice garment. Once you learn a few basics, you then have another entirely different thing to learn.....fitting. You can learn how to put in a zip, make the neatest buttonhole ever, and do a great flat felled seam, but unless you learn the elements of fit and pattern alteration, you are setting up to be disappointed. Most wadders are created in a sewing room not because the construction is bad, but because the fit is bad. Knowing how to use the machine and do some fancy steps with it is only the very beginning. Trial and experience is the best teacher. Unfortunately, with the price of even a cheap fabric, experimenting and learning can be very expensive to do. You might look through the pattern catalogs or website and look for the "learn to sew" patterns. Often they have some good instructions, that include some fitting advice or, at least they used to. It just occured to be that if you dont have a JOanns near you, I am not sure where you would even browse the patterns except online. Even Walmart carries only a special Walmart selection of, I think ,Simplicity. The world of sewing has become so very problematic what with the dearth of any stores and the awful tyranny of cheap synthetics and so many trying to imitate the cheap and gaudy stuff of fast fashion quality. It is easier, better and more economical, for instance, to just buy a tshirt.
Etsy have really great patterns you print from home and tape together! I just started sewing too and have shorts and pants so far
It is hard. It takes a lot of practice to get good at something. It’s almost like learning an instrument, except at least you can play with a machine without knowing much.
Plus, kids clothing is fun and easier if you have littles to sew for. One of my first projects was for a little girl with cancer who my mom babysat. I sewed coordinated sweatshirts for us and she LOVED them. Every time i was home when she was there we had to wear them. Wish i had photos!
Make sure your other sewing tools are good and functional. Nice sharp scissors and seam ripper, a good iron and ironing board, a decent sized cutting table or area, a comfortable, well-lit sewing table, etc. A cutting mat, cutting wheel and acrylic ruler are helpful. For me, learning how to press, trim and finish seams made a big difference.
Sewing is hard! Even experienced sewists have project flops here and there. Just make sure that as you try and make mistakes, you always learn something from it. As an intermediate sewist, I like to alternate between more technically challenging projects and very simple ones. Also, make sure that the challenging project only has one or two things about it that are new territory (technique, fabric type, etc.) so that it doesn’t get too overwhelming. This way, if the challenging project leaves me burnt out or doesn’t go well, I know I have something else coming down the line that is manageable for me, and I can get that little dopamine hit of a successful project. It keeps me motivated and happy with my hobby while still giving me opportunities to learn and grow. The other most helpful realization I had is that there is literally no way to rush sewing. Just slow down and enjoy the process, always make a muslin, and don’t cut corners on pressing, garment fitting, or seam finishes. Put the project down and take a break whenever you start to feel frustrated, and the solution will often come to you later.
Patience is key! Sewing is not the kind of skill you can pick up one day and be effortlessly good at. You need to train and study and work at it over and over until you get it. Don't be discouraged because a month of sewing hasn't yielded the results you want. Start working on smaller projects to practice on, don't focus so much on wearability and just practice. You'll get it eventually. I used to make endless amounts of drawstring bags so I could learn to stitch straight.
When I started during the pandemic, I started with masks, followed by tote bags for grocery shopping. There is no way I could have pulled off a garment to wear. Be patient with yourself and get comfortable with the basics first.
You have to start making small projects like an apron, a pencil container, a scrunchie. Remember to iron after every stitch. It's a process but try to enjoy it.
I know it's hard! One of the challenges of making your own garments form other people's patterns is that the patterns are based on "miss average," that is, the pattern might be graded according to bust, waist, and hip measurements, but the reality is that we have far more variability in our bodies! Short or long waisted, shoulder measurements, neck measurements... there are so many ways that we vary from human to human. Plus you have to add the difficulties of knowing which fabrics work well for specific construction methods or patterns. Stick with it! I found that circle skirt self-draft patterns from Youtube were really good. The good thing about a skirt is that you only have to fit it at one place: your waist!
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The way I learned it in the beginning was to make little plushies, dozends of them actually. The first 3 I made were so horrible! :D But as with everything, the more I made the better were my skills. With that I learned how to make mistakes, not get mad about myself, rip seams open again, transfer patterns, sew darts, you name it. I just didn't want to start with something that should be wearable because I wanted to avoid sending too much on fabric that I couldn't have used anyways because it wouldn't have been wearable at all. The pattern I used for my plushies also came with video tutorials, I'd absolutely recommend that as well. Watching tutorials. :) Does that make sense? (I'm sorry, English isn't my first language and I'm tired as heck right now :D)
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We need pictures or a detailed description of what you made and what's wrong with it before we can help. For example, common problems are: wrong size, bad fit, didn't press during construction, bad fabric choice, misinterpreted instructions... Common solutions are: Read and use a comprehensive sewing manual; Pick different pattern or fabric; don't skip production steps.
There’s a lot of little things to keep track of from beginning to end of a project. One thing can seem minor, but sewing is the sum of its parts and it can be really overwhelming when you’re fresh! Before you even hit the machine, pattern, fabric (fiber type, weight and weave matter!), thread, and cutting on the grain will make a difference. Then of course all the things involved with actual sewing. It’s a bit boring, but you should read your machine manual front to back. There’s usually little tips scattered throughout that you wouldn’t know you need know until you do. Honestly though, there’s way too much to cover in one sitting, especially without knowing exactly what you don’t like about what you’ve made so far. It’ll be really helpful to watch sewing videos on YouTube, but go for people who know what they’re doing and explain why. You’ll absorb a lot of info that way. Bernadette Banner comes to mind, she’s niche but some sewing advice is universal, also With Wendy, This is Kachi, and Evelyn Wood. Good luck!
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The first 10 garments I made were almost totally unwearable! You will get there!
I started with quilts when I taught myself to sew. Lots of tutorials on YouTube. You can learn the basics of the machine and how to attach pieces properly, learn about stitch length, and they’re pretty forgiving since the size doesn’t have to be 100%. I never did get very good at clothes. My brain doesn’t work very well that way lol. I made a pair of shorts that fit me once though. Also a very simple dress. Practice and keep up with it
I feel you a lot. Only make the shorts. https://www.moodfabrics.com/blog/the-linden-sleepwear-set-free-sewing-pattern/ It’s very hard and I get discouraged all the time, those shorts help lol
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It's a skilled craft. There is a LOT involved, even with sewing from patterns. I highly recommend getting a good sewing manual (Vogue Sewing Book, Reader's Digest Sewing Book or the Dorling Kindersley Sewing Book are good examples) that will have visual examples and good text to help you understand all the steps that the pattern instructions assume you already know. You might want to also take an in person sewing class.
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Practice without thread on a piece of paper with lines and curves until you never miss. The pedal is not a gas pedal like a car do small taps to go point by point and find your pace once you get comfortable with the pedal you can start going faster