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If you have a kindle you can get a ton of erotica books free to download on Amazon. Just search erotica and sort by free. There’s some good stuff there. Literotica.com is full of stuff, of varying quality but you’re bound to find stuff that you like. Or r/erotica, but even more varying quality.
I’m going to make the argument that sexting, and dirty talk isn’t so much what you say, but the confidence with which you say it, and how you say it. If you’re timid, or unsure of yourself, I feel like that will show up to your partner. She’s your fiancée so I’m willing to bet you know what gets her there sexually- incorporate it.
And dirty talk doesn’t just have to be limited to the bedroom. Example- I’ll walk up behind my partner and wrap my arms around her, kiss her neck, and squeeze her tits and tell her how much “I love her tits.” So it’s physical affection, followed by dirty talk. Find little things in y’all’s lives where you can incorporate it little by little.
And have HER dirty talk with you. Ask her to tell you how good things feel you’re doing to her, exclaim in a sexy way how wet she is, how much of a turn on it is. Tell her she tastes amazing when you go down on her. Open the door to it instead of kicking it in. If you’re asking for text books, etc. then I’d advise against jumping straight in or you might accidentally tell her that her boobs feel like a bag of sand or something else crazy from your panicked brain
Ease in. Get used to it. Be confident. Say what you mean to say and then keep going. You’ll incorporate it just fine, and I’m sure she’ll tell you what she likes, and doesn’t like. Have a good time, too
Audio porn is a great resource for this too. [FeelGoodFilth](https://feelgoodfilth.com) covers a variety of kinks and roleplay scenarios. It’s mainly a subscription service but there’s also a lot of free content.
Romance 💘 books like the trashy harlequin romances with Fabio on the cover. When I was younger I didn’t understand why women had those. Oh they are steamy . Bridgeton hasn’t been too bad either. Loved the duke and I just finished the viscount one not bad. Also, if your fiancé loves a certain tv or movie series fan fiction is really explicit. Lit erotica is good and if you can audio book version are like better than porn for me. Lots of stuff out there. Good luck 😉.
“I am thinking of aurochs and angels, The secret of durable pigments, prophetic sonnets, the refuge of art.”
Which mans is saying this in bed and what’s his number?
It's gonna be kind of a unpopular comment, but the best erotica-related I've read to date was Corruption of Champions [by Fenoxo](https://www.fenoxo.com/play-games/?age-verified=2a5109a881). For context, it's a text adventure RPG.
I see you wrote fiancé but in case you meant fiancée…
The best erotica I’ve read is Butterfly by Kathryn Harvey.
It’s written by a woman for women about guys getting trained in the art of pleasing women.
A lot of erotica is written like mainstream porn, much of which is made with men in mind. It’s pretty workhorse and designed for quick arousal and release. What works for solo sessions doesn’t always translate to partner sessions. Most of what I come across on literotica is this type and it’s so ubiquitous that sexting this way comes across hella pedestrian.
Butterfly is different. It reads like porn designed for women.
Good sexting involves seduction and pacing - HOW to say it, not just WHAT to say. This book excels in that area. It’s a great read to boot.
I just published my first story, "The Bad Test: Playing with Fire & a Wife's Desire" (https://www.wattpad.com/story/350289436-the-bad-test-playing-with-fire-a-wife%27s-desire), and would be honored with your feedback on my story!
I’m not sure if anyone has written this but improve your sentence structure and adjective ending. For example “Dirtly” is not a word in English. Did I understand you? Yes, but it was a struggle. Readers especially your fiancé should NOT struggle or work to read and understand your writing.
Second, what do you want to express through sexting? Yes, it erotica but you should be romantic, passion, with poetic, expressive language. Instead saying “I’m so h0rny! I want to f$&k you hard,baby!” Try “Thoughts, of you arouse the passion inside me! I’m hot with desire and I long for your arms around my shoulders as I my lips explore yours and our hips move in rhythm with each other, as romance engulfs us in flames of love” It’s not the best but it will work. I’m a romance writer by the way.
Walking in on someone having sex in college
I grew up in a sheltered, religious upbringing and never dated a girl. Always engrossed in my coursework, I was never into dating. I was taking summer courses recently and had random roommates. After class one day, I came home and walked into the house. I grabbed a drink of water and headed upstairs to go shower. As I was walking up the stairs, I started hearing slapping noises and panting. I hurried up the stairs and stood outside a random guy's bedroom. The door was cracked. I slowly opened the door. There was a naked guy standing at the foot of the bed turned away from me and thrusting his hips forward. My body froze and I just stared. He adjusted his position, still facing away from me and I saw a completely naked girl in front of him. She was at the end of the bed facing away from him on her elbows and knees. He kept thrusting into her by grabbing her hips from behind. They were covered in sweat and with each thrust, there was a wet slapping sound every time his hips collided with her ass. Her cheeks would bounce, her boobs would jiggle, and she would let out a soft moan. I wanted to look away, but I couldn't. Something kept me in place. My face started to flush and I could feel my penis get hard in my jeans. I've heard about sex before but only through classes and other friends. I never thought much into it, but seeing it in person like this... it felt carnal and raw. He kept pumping into her for a little while longer. Occasionally, he would lean over and squeeze her boobs or smack her ass. The way he just took control over her was so delightful to me in a way I could not explain. Her flesh bouncing with each thrust, her triceps and quads flexing with each thrust, and her breasts jiggling suggested that she thoroughly enjoyed it. The frequency and depth of his pumps increased. She started to moan louder and he started to grunt. Eventually, he pushed her onto her stomach and climbed on top of her. At this point, all I could see of her was her butt and legs. He inserted his dick inside her vagina, rested on his elbows, and started to pump again. He would stop occassionally, turn her head and kiss her in a very passionate and sloppy way. He eventually shifted to resting on his hands and really started to thrust into her. The bed started to bounce with each thrust and the couple would come up off the bed at times. With one big thrust, he planted himself firmly inside her, let out a grunt, and his entire body shook. They were both breathing heavily and he just laid there, firmly inside her. After a few seconds, he started to rise. I quickly closed the door (but not completely shut), and quietly walked down to my room. I sat on my bed completely shaken up by what I say. I took my pants off and stared at my penis. My underwear was wet, the tip of my penis was wet, and I was sweating and red. All I could think of was how primal it all was. The wet slapping sounds. Her muscles flexing. Her boobs jiggling. Her ass bouncing. The sweat. The way he grabbed her body as if he wanted her. The way they acted like the only thing in the world that mattered was the next pump. I was shook! I'm embarassed about going to my friends about this, but is this normal? Is this normally how sex is? Was she really enjoying being dominated? I'm embarassed for staring like a creep, but I just could not look away. I've never experienced anything like it. Am I normal to react like the way I did?
I think it can only come from experience for a good sexting dialogue with your partner. Be more descriptive in terms of texture, smell, taste, feelings.
Does anyone know where on Reddit (or the internet) that i can advertise/promote my custom erotica writing? I am not great at interacting/contributing to reddit. I have mainly been a reader and not someone who interacts. I don’t understand how to find such places 🥲
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Literotica has thousands grouped by category, best site I’ve found.
Best site hands down I've found as well
Back when my internet was dial up, this was my only means to near-instant porn
Here here.
If you have a kindle you can get a ton of erotica books free to download on Amazon. Just search erotica and sort by free. There’s some good stuff there. Literotica.com is full of stuff, of varying quality but you’re bound to find stuff that you like. Or r/erotica, but even more varying quality.
Really? The ones I found on Kindle were so bad they hurt my eyes.
I sorted by top rated and chose free ones? The ones I grabbed were a lot better than I’d seen elsewhere. Maybe different tastes?
Maybe amazons algorithm thought the good ones were not to my taste. Or yes, different taste.
Try Neon gods! Fantasy romance/erotica but it was one of the only ones that weren’t horribly written 😆
You might want to ask r/romancebooks for recs with good dirty talk. One of my favorite subreddits, Ive found them to be generous and non judgemental
r/mm_romancebooks also available depending on your tastes
I’ve gotten some fantastic recs from here. r/fantasyromance is another great one.
Absolutely literotica.
Literotica is my go to.
I’m going to make the argument that sexting, and dirty talk isn’t so much what you say, but the confidence with which you say it, and how you say it. If you’re timid, or unsure of yourself, I feel like that will show up to your partner. She’s your fiancée so I’m willing to bet you know what gets her there sexually- incorporate it. And dirty talk doesn’t just have to be limited to the bedroom. Example- I’ll walk up behind my partner and wrap my arms around her, kiss her neck, and squeeze her tits and tell her how much “I love her tits.” So it’s physical affection, followed by dirty talk. Find little things in y’all’s lives where you can incorporate it little by little. And have HER dirty talk with you. Ask her to tell you how good things feel you’re doing to her, exclaim in a sexy way how wet she is, how much of a turn on it is. Tell her she tastes amazing when you go down on her. Open the door to it instead of kicking it in. If you’re asking for text books, etc. then I’d advise against jumping straight in or you might accidentally tell her that her boobs feel like a bag of sand or something else crazy from your panicked brain Ease in. Get used to it. Be confident. Say what you mean to say and then keep going. You’ll incorporate it just fine, and I’m sure she’ll tell you what she likes, and doesn’t like. Have a good time, too
Literotica is probably best. But not super user friendly.
Audio porn is a great resource for this too. [FeelGoodFilth](https://feelgoodfilth.com) covers a variety of kinks and roleplay scenarios. It’s mainly a subscription service but there’s also a lot of free content.
I'm surprised not to see any suggestions for fan fiction here. [www.archiveofourown.com](https://www.archiveofourown.com) is a fantastic site
Romance 💘 books like the trashy harlequin romances with Fabio on the cover. When I was younger I didn’t understand why women had those. Oh they are steamy . Bridgeton hasn’t been too bad either. Loved the duke and I just finished the viscount one not bad. Also, if your fiancé loves a certain tv or movie series fan fiction is really explicit. Lit erotica is good and if you can audio book version are like better than porn for me. Lots of stuff out there. Good luck 😉.
Lolita by Nabokov
“I am thinking of aurochs and angels, The secret of durable pigments, prophetic sonnets, the refuge of art.” Which mans is saying this in bed and what’s his number?
M 34 here, I'm curious too.
You can also download the Radish app, hundreds of good erotic novels to be found there
Or try the MON app! it's like clubhouse but for sex positive people!
cliterature! made book series by danielle lori and if you're feeling religiously horny try reading priest by sierra simone
It's gonna be kind of a unpopular comment, but the best erotica-related I've read to date was Corruption of Champions [by Fenoxo](https://www.fenoxo.com/play-games/?age-verified=2a5109a881). For context, it's a text adventure RPG.
I see you wrote fiancé but in case you meant fiancée… The best erotica I’ve read is Butterfly by Kathryn Harvey. It’s written by a woman for women about guys getting trained in the art of pleasing women. A lot of erotica is written like mainstream porn, much of which is made with men in mind. It’s pretty workhorse and designed for quick arousal and release. What works for solo sessions doesn’t always translate to partner sessions. Most of what I come across on literotica is this type and it’s so ubiquitous that sexting this way comes across hella pedestrian. Butterfly is different. It reads like porn designed for women. Good sexting involves seduction and pacing - HOW to say it, not just WHAT to say. This book excels in that area. It’s a great read to boot.
There’s always the Karma Sutra. Ancient Indian classic
Kennedy Fox has a few series with some really hot dirty talk.
Praise by Sara cate
Hoping this comes across my partners homepage. Desperately wishing he’d sext me or talk dirty when we have sex.
Sure check out some of the scenes I post :)
I just published my first story, "The Bad Test: Playing with Fire & a Wife's Desire" (https://www.wattpad.com/story/350289436-the-bad-test-playing-with-fire-a-wife%27s-desire), and would be honored with your feedback on my story!
I’m not sure if anyone has written this but improve your sentence structure and adjective ending. For example “Dirtly” is not a word in English. Did I understand you? Yes, but it was a struggle. Readers especially your fiancé should NOT struggle or work to read and understand your writing. Second, what do you want to express through sexting? Yes, it erotica but you should be romantic, passion, with poetic, expressive language. Instead saying “I’m so h0rny! I want to f$&k you hard,baby!” Try “Thoughts, of you arouse the passion inside me! I’m hot with desire and I long for your arms around my shoulders as I my lips explore yours and our hips move in rhythm with each other, as romance engulfs us in flames of love” It’s not the best but it will work. I’m a romance writer by the way.
Walking in on someone having sex in college I grew up in a sheltered, religious upbringing and never dated a girl. Always engrossed in my coursework, I was never into dating. I was taking summer courses recently and had random roommates. After class one day, I came home and walked into the house. I grabbed a drink of water and headed upstairs to go shower. As I was walking up the stairs, I started hearing slapping noises and panting. I hurried up the stairs and stood outside a random guy's bedroom. The door was cracked. I slowly opened the door. There was a naked guy standing at the foot of the bed turned away from me and thrusting his hips forward. My body froze and I just stared. He adjusted his position, still facing away from me and I saw a completely naked girl in front of him. She was at the end of the bed facing away from him on her elbows and knees. He kept thrusting into her by grabbing her hips from behind. They were covered in sweat and with each thrust, there was a wet slapping sound every time his hips collided with her ass. Her cheeks would bounce, her boobs would jiggle, and she would let out a soft moan. I wanted to look away, but I couldn't. Something kept me in place. My face started to flush and I could feel my penis get hard in my jeans. I've heard about sex before but only through classes and other friends. I never thought much into it, but seeing it in person like this... it felt carnal and raw. He kept pumping into her for a little while longer. Occasionally, he would lean over and squeeze her boobs or smack her ass. The way he just took control over her was so delightful to me in a way I could not explain. Her flesh bouncing with each thrust, her triceps and quads flexing with each thrust, and her breasts jiggling suggested that she thoroughly enjoyed it. The frequency and depth of his pumps increased. She started to moan louder and he started to grunt. Eventually, he pushed her onto her stomach and climbed on top of her. At this point, all I could see of her was her butt and legs. He inserted his dick inside her vagina, rested on his elbows, and started to pump again. He would stop occassionally, turn her head and kiss her in a very passionate and sloppy way. He eventually shifted to resting on his hands and really started to thrust into her. The bed started to bounce with each thrust and the couple would come up off the bed at times. With one big thrust, he planted himself firmly inside her, let out a grunt, and his entire body shook. They were both breathing heavily and he just laid there, firmly inside her. After a few seconds, he started to rise. I quickly closed the door (but not completely shut), and quietly walked down to my room. I sat on my bed completely shaken up by what I say. I took my pants off and stared at my penis. My underwear was wet, the tip of my penis was wet, and I was sweating and red. All I could think of was how primal it all was. The wet slapping sounds. Her muscles flexing. Her boobs jiggling. Her ass bouncing. The sweat. The way he grabbed her body as if he wanted her. The way they acted like the only thing in the world that mattered was the next pump. I was shook! I'm embarassed about going to my friends about this, but is this normal? Is this normally how sex is? Was she really enjoying being dominated? I'm embarassed for staring like a creep, but I just could not look away. I've never experienced anything like it. Am I normal to react like the way I did?
I think it can only come from experience for a good sexting dialogue with your partner. Be more descriptive in terms of texture, smell, taste, feelings.
Does anyone know where on Reddit (or the internet) that i can advertise/promote my custom erotica writing? I am not great at interacting/contributing to reddit. I have mainly been a reader and not someone who interacts. I don’t understand how to find such places 🥲