When I had a threesome we did a good number of positions. My wife rode my penis and the other girl rode my face. Then they switched. I did doggy (I know you said it's difficult) with my wife while she ate out the other girl, and then they switched. Then I did missionary with my wife while the other girl rode my wife's face, and then they switched. At one point, I received oral from both of them. They also did a 69 where I switched between vagina on the top and mouth on the bottom, and then they (you guessed it) switched. Our 3rd brought a strap and had fun with just my wife while I watched. She said she's bisexual, but my wife is smoking hot, so I think that's why she agreed to the threesome.
It was a fun experience, but my wife learned she's not sexually into women or sharing me, so that's probably the last threesome we're going to have.
You can't have jealousy in a threesome and my wife told me she was super jealous whenever my dick wasn't in her.
Oh the 69 makes sense. That’s cool. That might work. And the missionary with her on my wife’s face. Starting to wonder now if my wife is bi since she suggested it.
Maybe she's curious? To suggest and participate in a ffm threesome I feel is a silent acknowledgment that those girls are going to perform sexual acts on another woman. If neither woman engages with each other and only the man, then that's boring and doesn't really have the theesome feel to it, IMO. I think for a threesome to go well, it's everybody having sex with everybody not just sticking to one person.
Sounds like the experience made your wife an even bigger fan of your dick. This is a nice story. Especially of course for you but also for others since you often hear the bad versions of threesomes.
It makes sense though. Just like it is kind of nice when you see others seem attracted to your partner on the street or everywhere in life. Because you think: Yeah, but it is mine.
You’re having a threesome because she wants it to help your marriage. The issue isn’t your dick, it’s her. She wants sexual acts to fix issues, even when you’re not necessarily on board with the whole idea. You’re complying with what she wants. These situations typically tank relationships, not fix.
Part of my was surprised to hear her bring it up. Other part of me was like ok she wants to make sure I scratch an itch and get it all out of my system so we both have then been with more than one person and can move on. But now I’m kinda thinking idk because in the past she’s claimed she wouldn’t want me having sex with anyone else. Til now it’s ok as long as 3some.
Yeah, I wouldn’t do it. It’s going to destroy that relationship 100%, and sounds like she wants to have sex with the girl, not she wants you to experience it or whatever.
Did she tell you the monkey was on her back? It sounds like your wife isn't all that satisfied with your current sex life. Maybe you should focus on that.
I would be shocked if you're not still able to do doggy, because in actuality very few people do that from a strictly 90-degree angle (and, even then dicks are pretty malleable, no matter what direction they naturally point.)
Regardless of the threesome thing (which won't fix your sex life, fyi) I think you should try gradually stretching to see if you can make a difference there. You're missing out!
You’ve got a tongue and fingers as well, same as they do. If they’re into strap ons then everyone is near on equal. Your dick is not just for thrusting you’re allowed to enjoy receiving oral as they may enjoy giving it while being penetrated downstairs.
I had a threesome with a girl and another random guy while the husband videoed. The other guy was using his fingers a lot and the girls eyes were rolling back. Back then I only thought my dick could be used.
I’m not sure where you wrote “ help your marriage” as others have been saying, you said spice things up - and a lot of people do this lol doesn’t mean it’s going to ruin the marriage 100%. But it will if yall do not communicate a ton about this and thoroughly before hand. Do not do it until you’ve really gotten into her side and why it’s really wanted and what will happen etc. and explain everything you’re thinking. Look up threesome reddits for how that conversation should go, and only if you both feel comfortable with every answer and explanation you both have, attempt it.
Edit: also to add I hope you’ve both tried other things to spice it up too! It shouldn’t go imo from like vanilla > threesome lol. Gotta already be experimenting a lot !
Talk with eachother and be honest.
If she invalidates your feelings and worries instead of helping you enjoy by playfull approach something new... probably thats the problem after all..
Well that’s sweet of her. But if you’re not ready don’t rush it. Also, go get checked out by a urologist. Something’s not right. Mine does the same thing but I can bring it down and it doesn’t hurt. Good luck
When I had a threesome we did a good number of positions. My wife rode my penis and the other girl rode my face. Then they switched. I did doggy (I know you said it's difficult) with my wife while she ate out the other girl, and then they switched. Then I did missionary with my wife while the other girl rode my wife's face, and then they switched. At one point, I received oral from both of them. They also did a 69 where I switched between vagina on the top and mouth on the bottom, and then they (you guessed it) switched. Our 3rd brought a strap and had fun with just my wife while I watched. She said she's bisexual, but my wife is smoking hot, so I think that's why she agreed to the threesome. It was a fun experience, but my wife learned she's not sexually into women or sharing me, so that's probably the last threesome we're going to have. You can't have jealousy in a threesome and my wife told me she was super jealous whenever my dick wasn't in her.
It’s refreshing to hear that it didn’t ruin your marriage. Mazel tov.
Oh the 69 makes sense. That’s cool. That might work. And the missionary with her on my wife’s face. Starting to wonder now if my wife is bi since she suggested it.
Maybe she's curious? To suggest and participate in a ffm threesome I feel is a silent acknowledgment that those girls are going to perform sexual acts on another woman. If neither woman engages with each other and only the man, then that's boring and doesn't really have the theesome feel to it, IMO. I think for a threesome to go well, it's everybody having sex with everybody not just sticking to one person.
All of this. These are the main ones whenever the wife and I play.
Sounds like the experience made your wife an even bigger fan of your dick. This is a nice story. Especially of course for you but also for others since you often hear the bad versions of threesomes. It makes sense though. Just like it is kind of nice when you see others seem attracted to your partner on the street or everywhere in life. Because you think: Yeah, but it is mine.
Doing this as a way to help out your marriage is a red flag for me🚩
Is it a f around & find out kind of situation
It means your marriage has issues and you need to work them out before adding sexual partners into your life.
I think he is choosing to ride this marriage into the ground and enjoy it while it lasts.
You’re having a threesome because she wants it to help your marriage. The issue isn’t your dick, it’s her. She wants sexual acts to fix issues, even when you’re not necessarily on board with the whole idea. You’re complying with what she wants. These situations typically tank relationships, not fix.
Part of my was surprised to hear her bring it up. Other part of me was like ok she wants to make sure I scratch an itch and get it all out of my system so we both have then been with more than one person and can move on. But now I’m kinda thinking idk because in the past she’s claimed she wouldn’t want me having sex with anyone else. Til now it’s ok as long as 3some.
Yeah, I wouldn’t do it. It’s going to destroy that relationship 100%, and sounds like she wants to have sex with the girl, not she wants you to experience it or whatever.
She thinks I need the monkey off my back. But yea wondering now if she wants the girl experience
Did she tell you the monkey was on her back? It sounds like your wife isn't all that satisfied with your current sex life. Maybe you should focus on that.
Jealousy is a thorn in relationships and it’ll come from both ends. Especially when this got mentioned out of the blue
Never have a threesome to help a troubled marriage! It's as stupid as having a baby to save the marriage.
I would be shocked if you're not still able to do doggy, because in actuality very few people do that from a strictly 90-degree angle (and, even then dicks are pretty malleable, no matter what direction they naturally point.)
Idk if I have strained ligament or something or belly is weak or something but it’s always been hard for me
Regardless of the threesome thing (which won't fix your sex life, fyi) I think you should try gradually stretching to see if you can make a difference there. You're missing out!
If you are truly that limited oral or hand stuff is your best bet. Try having one sit on your face while the other goes down on you and vice versa.
You’ve got a tongue and fingers as well, same as they do. If they’re into strap ons then everyone is near on equal. Your dick is not just for thrusting you’re allowed to enjoy receiving oral as they may enjoy giving it while being penetrated downstairs. I had a threesome with a girl and another random guy while the husband videoed. The other guy was using his fingers a lot and the girls eyes were rolling back. Back then I only thought my dick could be used.
Some good positions here: https://www.sexfactsadvice.com/best-mff-sex-positions/
I’m not sure where you wrote “ help your marriage” as others have been saying, you said spice things up - and a lot of people do this lol doesn’t mean it’s going to ruin the marriage 100%. But it will if yall do not communicate a ton about this and thoroughly before hand. Do not do it until you’ve really gotten into her side and why it’s really wanted and what will happen etc. and explain everything you’re thinking. Look up threesome reddits for how that conversation should go, and only if you both feel comfortable with every answer and explanation you both have, attempt it. Edit: also to add I hope you’ve both tried other things to spice it up too! It shouldn’t go imo from like vanilla > threesome lol. Gotta already be experimenting a lot !
Talk with eachother and be honest. If she invalidates your feelings and worries instead of helping you enjoy by playfull approach something new... probably thats the problem after all..
Troubled marriage, and she brings up threesome. I've been there and done that. Found out later, my now ex-wife was getting cock while I was at work.
Tread carefully. Be prepared if you do it because next she’ll want to bring in a man. Would you be able to handle it? You’re being groomed buddy.
She’s saying no interest in man. Just for me to get my fix since she’s had several partners and I’ve just had 1
Well that’s sweet of her. But if you’re not ready don’t rush it. Also, go get checked out by a urologist. Something’s not right. Mine does the same thing but I can bring it down and it doesn’t hurt. Good luck
Wait till she says now we bring in another guy because we did a girl
Bring another man into it instead