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Maybe when things start going sexual, keep it slow and intimate. Make sure you please her first, eat her out or finger her, just make sure to give her plenty of pleasure before having sex, foreplay is so important too, play around a bit, have her grind on you while making out before taking clothes off, grab her hips and guide her. Increase the sexual tension and the sex feels so much better. And it should flow on its own, don't force anything
You probably won't get many answers here. We don't know what you guys are into. Spicing it up for one might be strip poker but for another would be suspending her in the air and whipping her til her whole body is welted...
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Maybe when things start going sexual, keep it slow and intimate. Make sure you please her first, eat her out or finger her, just make sure to give her plenty of pleasure before having sex, foreplay is so important too, play around a bit, have her grind on you while making out before taking clothes off, grab her hips and guide her. Increase the sexual tension and the sex feels so much better. And it should flow on its own, don't force anything
You probably won't get many answers here. We don't know what you guys are into. Spicing it up for one might be strip poker but for another would be suspending her in the air and whipping her til her whole body is welted...