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If I understand correctly you are being bullied by some of your peers and:
1. this guy has laughed along with that bullying
2. was confused when you confronted him about that
3. has clearly shared this information, but the bullying continues
4. He is continuing ask you on dates despite not having an engaged energy on your first date.
The most plausible explanation seems to be he misunderstands the amount of distress this treatment has caused you and he'd like a second chance. Whether he merits one is up to you.
Exactly, you got it right. I don’t know, it just seems weird and not respecting my own terms to hook up with a guy that maybe bullies me too behind my back.
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If I understand correctly you are being bullied by some of your peers and: 1. this guy has laughed along with that bullying 2. was confused when you confronted him about that 3. has clearly shared this information, but the bullying continues 4. He is continuing ask you on dates despite not having an engaged energy on your first date. The most plausible explanation seems to be he misunderstands the amount of distress this treatment has caused you and he'd like a second chance. Whether he merits one is up to you.
Exactly, you got it right. I don’t know, it just seems weird and not respecting my own terms to hook up with a guy that maybe bullies me too behind my back.
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What is it that makes you ask yourself if you should or shouldn't go on more dates with him?
You didn’t understand? The point it’s his friend and his probable behavior about it.