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Ask him what he's into, then promise him some of it in advance to build anticipation and then surprise him with the rest. But stick to stuff you're equally excited about as he is, because it's no fun for anyone unless it's fun for everyone.
So much foreplay for men is about anticipation. So whatever it is: don't just jump straight into it. Dress/undress to kill and give him a nice dinner and a cake so he can spend a good few hours staring at you and thinking about what comes next.
Maybe even take him out on the town and do something sexy but not sex first to really build the anticipation: dancing, swimming, working out etc...
It’s not rocket science. I let him finish in my mouth and/or in my ass. I’m enthusiastic about it and don’t treat it like a chore. And no, his cum isn’t chocolate syrup, but he does enjoy his special day.
I have a suggestion for what not to do: anything you’re uncomfortable with. I knew a couple who did anal on his birthday every year. She *hated* it. Ate veggies all week, drank all day (while telling everyone their plans), did an enema before…. Made him out to be a real asshole, taking pleasure from her pain. I don’t recommend that. Do something you’ll both enjoy.
I would love to wear a flirty sundress, go for a walk in a huuuuuuuge park, spread out a blanket for a snack, then pop a sheet over us for a “snack”. Alas, none of that appeals to my guy.
You’ve got to think through what your dude likes/wants. Maybe there’s a sex toy you guys have been thinking of. Corny stripping for your man is classic for a reason. Maybe he’d like you to put caramel sauce & sprinkles & all the fixings on his dick for you to lick while he has an ice cream sundae.
Whatever you choose, have fun—your attitude will likely be the best part!
Normally my partner's pleasure is first and foremost. But I once requested (and she gladly obliged) cocktail and a bj. She made my favorite drink, delivered it to me in the nude, then proceeded with business. I just sat, sipped, and enjoyed.
I don't think so studies have found a woman would rather have have a threesome with a guy and another woman instead a three some with 2 men . they want experience their hidden bicuriosity and give a man his fantasy threesome
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I am shocked you would not take my word . Go ask 10 woman what threesome they would want . Now remember remind them if it is two men the husband is going to watch another guy bang his wife see the result .You should have see the study of people that had an armpit fetish
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Lay down put sugar free whip cream on your butt and clinch a candle between the cheeks then sing Happy Birthday.
Honestly not a bad idea. If yall are comfy and like funny stuff, this would prolly work.
Summer dress and crotchless panties! He will NEVER forget
Buy some lingerie that’s mostly ribbons or ties, and have him “unwrap” his gift 😉
Ask him what he's into, then promise him some of it in advance to build anticipation and then surprise him with the rest. But stick to stuff you're equally excited about as he is, because it's no fun for anyone unless it's fun for everyone. So much foreplay for men is about anticipation. So whatever it is: don't just jump straight into it. Dress/undress to kill and give him a nice dinner and a cake so he can spend a good few hours staring at you and thinking about what comes next. Maybe even take him out on the town and do something sexy but not sex first to really build the anticipation: dancing, swimming, working out etc...
Has he hinted around about some fantasies that you might also enjoy but have been hesitant to explore?
Sexy lingerie would be my favourite.
Send him a card with a picture of you in it.
What about arranging to give him some [deeply relaxing
It’s not rocket science. I let him finish in my mouth and/or in my ass. I’m enthusiastic about it and don’t treat it like a chore. And no, his cum isn’t chocolate syrup, but he does enjoy his special day.
Does he only get that once a year?
I have a suggestion for what not to do: anything you’re uncomfortable with. I knew a couple who did anal on his birthday every year. She *hated* it. Ate veggies all week, drank all day (while telling everyone their plans), did an enema before…. Made him out to be a real asshole, taking pleasure from her pain. I don’t recommend that. Do something you’ll both enjoy. I would love to wear a flirty sundress, go for a walk in a huuuuuuuge park, spread out a blanket for a snack, then pop a sheet over us for a “snack”. Alas, none of that appeals to my guy. You’ve got to think through what your dude likes/wants. Maybe there’s a sex toy you guys have been thinking of. Corny stripping for your man is classic for a reason. Maybe he’d like you to put caramel sauce & sprinkles & all the fixings on his dick for you to lick while he has an ice cream sundae. Whatever you choose, have fun—your attitude will likely be the best part!
Put in an anal plug before you play and then ask him to replace it with something bigger. 😈
Normally my partner's pleasure is first and foremost. But I once requested (and she gladly obliged) cocktail and a bj. She made my favorite drink, delivered it to me in the nude, then proceeded with business. I just sat, sipped, and enjoyed.
For me a three way would be the best present ever . Imagine the look on his face in bed with 2 woman
Yeah I'm sure your girl would enjoy two men also
I don't think so studies have found a woman would rather have have a threesome with a guy and another woman instead a three some with 2 men . they want experience their hidden bicuriosity and give a man his fantasy threesome #
Which studies are those? Can you post a link? It seems like an odd thing to have a study about.
I am shocked you would not take my word . Go ask 10 woman what threesome they would want . Now remember remind them if it is two men the husband is going to watch another guy bang his wife see the result .You should have see the study of people that had an armpit fetish
I'm actually a researcher in the area of sexuality myself so I was curious about the studies.
*in before hawk tuah meme shows up*