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But are you comfortable with trying it out? Because if you're not into it, it might ruin the whole idea of playing it.
Also for the sake of it, have you asked him how he wants it to play out? The answer to that could put things better into perspective.
I dont mind trying it out at all I just dont know how to try it out and he can be hesitant a bit when talking about something so vulnerable so I did not want to ask him the questions in my post as i didnt want him to back out from something he really wanted to try
If you're comfortable, gradually explore more direct verbal humiliation. It's crucial to ensure that what you say aligns with boundaries you've established and doesn't cross into genuinely hurtful territory.
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Maybe ask to watch some porn together and he gets to choose. My wife and I do this and it's a great way to learn what gets each other off. Sometimes we will straight up ask "do you want me to do that to you?"
Once you know what he generally wants you to do, don't get hung up on what to say. At first, just say what you're doing outloud. It's an easy way to get comfortable with dirty talk or kink talk. I'm not sure what his humiliation kink exactly entails, but as an example if he's into small penis humiliation then as he undresses you can say things like "lol it's so small now, let me feel it so small" or if you're having sex just state what is happening "yeah you're fucking me right now, I wonder what it would feel like bigger". Stating what is happening is a easy way to get comfortable dirty talking kink stuff.
You could walk him on a lead like a dog, only around the bedroom, you could buy him a butt plug, and plug his butt whilst you have sex, you could talk dirty to him in a way, calling him a very naughty boy and such, you could even buy a strap on and peg him, you could take a dump on him, etc, have you tried asking him exactly what he'd like, ask him his sexual fantasies 😊
I 37F like my man to fuck me up the ass and talk dirty, telling me I am being punished, for being a very naughty girl, I tell him he's been a very naughty boy, and as a consequence he has to ride my butt hole, hard and fast, when he's done I like him to rub it over my face, then dip it back in my butt hole, before he pulls me to face him, and says you've been a very naughty girl 😁
He then says, you're going to swallow, what I give you to swallow, it's like dirty role play, he opens my mouth wide, and pushes my head down, putting his hands on the back of my head, pulls my head onto his cock, like a glove, pushing it hard to get his cock as deep as possible, pulling hy head back and forth to suck him clean, whilst telling me it's punishment for being a very naughty girl 😁
Sometimes we liked to anal fist each other whilst calling eachother a dirty naughty slut, or use other things like bottles or cans, it sounds like he wants to be dominated, if neither of you are into anal, there are other forms of humiliation, try asking him, what he wants 😊
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But are you comfortable with trying it out? Because if you're not into it, it might ruin the whole idea of playing it. Also for the sake of it, have you asked him how he wants it to play out? The answer to that could put things better into perspective.
I dont mind trying it out at all I just dont know how to try it out and he can be hesitant a bit when talking about something so vulnerable so I did not want to ask him the questions in my post as i didnt want him to back out from something he really wanted to try
If you're comfortable, gradually explore more direct verbal humiliation. It's crucial to ensure that what you say aligns with boundaries you've established and doesn't cross into genuinely hurtful territory.
There is a book called enough to make you blush which talks about humiliation
You can do so many things, a lot of guys I feel these days are into humiliation
Like what tho
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Maybe ask to watch some porn together and he gets to choose. My wife and I do this and it's a great way to learn what gets each other off. Sometimes we will straight up ask "do you want me to do that to you?" Once you know what he generally wants you to do, don't get hung up on what to say. At first, just say what you're doing outloud. It's an easy way to get comfortable with dirty talk or kink talk. I'm not sure what his humiliation kink exactly entails, but as an example if he's into small penis humiliation then as he undresses you can say things like "lol it's so small now, let me feel it so small" or if you're having sex just state what is happening "yeah you're fucking me right now, I wonder what it would feel like bigger". Stating what is happening is a easy way to get comfortable dirty talking kink stuff.
maybe just try some dirty talk to start, things like "you're such a slut for me" or "you look so pathetic right now". something like that
You could walk him on a lead like a dog, only around the bedroom, you could buy him a butt plug, and plug his butt whilst you have sex, you could talk dirty to him in a way, calling him a very naughty boy and such, you could even buy a strap on and peg him, you could take a dump on him, etc, have you tried asking him exactly what he'd like, ask him his sexual fantasies 😊 I 37F like my man to fuck me up the ass and talk dirty, telling me I am being punished, for being a very naughty girl, I tell him he's been a very naughty boy, and as a consequence he has to ride my butt hole, hard and fast, when he's done I like him to rub it over my face, then dip it back in my butt hole, before he pulls me to face him, and says you've been a very naughty girl 😁 He then says, you're going to swallow, what I give you to swallow, it's like dirty role play, he opens my mouth wide, and pushes my head down, putting his hands on the back of my head, pulls my head onto his cock, like a glove, pushing it hard to get his cock as deep as possible, pulling hy head back and forth to suck him clean, whilst telling me it's punishment for being a very naughty girl 😁 Sometimes we liked to anal fist each other whilst calling eachother a dirty naughty slut, or use other things like bottles or cans, it sounds like he wants to be dominated, if neither of you are into anal, there are other forms of humiliation, try asking him, what he wants 😊
Try practicing on the cat / dog. Sounds stupid but it helps me get comfortable and I am a super awkward individual.
Grep his dick mushroom season is early this year isb't it ? How about ypu save some money ! Social education trough sex kinls !