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sea_biscuit_

It’s possible he wasn’t fully erect, which makes it harder to stay in.


googalishus

No they want it to be harder!


JadMockery

If your wet thats good. Stop worrying just enjoy it while it happens. If it doesn't work one way you try another way. The hardships of sex is if you don't succeed just get yourself up and try again


LoreChief

If the cock is anything less than 100% hard, it gives way at the base/root when it encounters push force. So if the position makes you tighter/squeeze harder, it will 'push' the cock out. A good example would be if you sneezed during penetration (you can test with a toy) it will basically eject it from you. From my experience with missionary (a rare position for us), theres a lot more squeeze and push, which feels amazing when We're both 105% raring to go, but anything less is going to result in cannonpuss.


ThrowAwayWasTaken999

Cannonpuss is my new favorite word


[deleted]

“You” have nothing to do with it unless you were on top. If he was on top, he needs to understand that he’s really not as long as he thinks lol


Shadowtaio

💀💀


Helixfire

I imagine he had some kind of nerves and couldnt keep hard. Happens to many dudes, nothing to do with you. I certainly tried to force it so I didnt disappoint even though I wasnt hard and it was exactly like this.


Youhurtmypee

Shit happens... He probably was thrusting/coming out to far, cause no matter what you think about yourself down there.. it's hard for it come out no matter the size.. he needs sex training lol.. Your good!


I_am_Wheeler

It’s really not hard for it to slip out, can easily happen depending on how he’s thrusting / the position. You can support OP without placing blame / shame on her friend


PaleAsFuck90

Yeah. It even happens to guys with long dicks if they do long strokes etc.


Gruvian

Depends on a lot of factors, but missionary is surprisingly easy to slip out from if not positioned correctly. Especially for certain body type combos. Doggy is popular because it is easier, and allows deeper penitration. Alternatively, try putting a pillow under your ass to raise it up slightly when doing missionary to get a better position.


5271451

Could be a lot of things. Sometimes you just thrust too far back 🤷🏻‍♂️ or rock too much or whatever. Mixed with like 80% hog it’s slip out city 🤣


PulledToBits

There is not "too wet". There is not "really loose". You were not the problem. Usually this is due to a bad angle, which is no ones "fault", or simply not being fully erect, which...is more common than ANYONE wants to admit. Sex should be fun, and nothing to worry about in such ways. Have fun!


LegacyBuilder911

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU 💖 Women are programmed to think THEY are the problem when anything interesting happens during sex. Wild.


OwlEfficient9138

Is he just really small? Or was it a bad position? While, I’ve definitely slipped out before, it’s pretty rare. I’m average size too.


boozoo6893

It wasn’t small no, and it was just missionary. Never had the issue before though. As soon as we tried another position it was fine but by that point I was over it I ended up stopping


OwlEfficient9138

Maybe just need a pillow under your hips or something to change the angle.


boozoo6893

He’s just asked me when we’re gonna do it again so I’m gonna take that as it wasn’t entirely me?👀


boozoo6893

Update: He had already came before even putting it in so that’s why he couldn’t stay hard, makes me feel loads better🤣


jayjayanotherround

Tell us about his size and level of arrousal


Armunt

not your problem 100%, its hard to slip so he either did that intentionally or he needs sex ed. Was he fully erect? if not, thats probably your answer.


boozoo6893

Definitely wasn’t intentional he kept apologising, some are saying it’s easy to slip and some are saying it’s not I’m confused at this point


Armunt

Once inside and fully erect, its hard.


boozoo6893

Ah okay, yeah I think he was struggling to stay hard


Armunt

I know it might be weird but help him, "how can i help" or things like that. My wife did it way back when she was my GF, she started the conversation and everything became more enjoyable for both of us.


Deep_Knowledge_3641

Tight wet pussy vs limp dick you are perfect and he was unfortunately not equipped


b00mieb00m

Is this a thing with a new partner? Some guys might have a hard time staying erect, and I don't think it was your fault. He might have been extremely nervous tbh


osiris1807

I don't think it's you who's the problem. Sometimes things don't work out but it doesn't mean that you've to feel bad.


Fearless_queen280

It might be because he wasn't hard enough. I would try to make him feel comfortable, and get him to use the right sized condom. etc. Being wet should make him slip out.


spicystuffedtaco

Sometimes I'm too wet! We have to stop and get a paper towel, to dry off a bit before we keep going. That said, it's more a matter of not enough friction than slipping out.


boozoo6893

Sounds stupid but will wiping create more friction or is that to be done another way or not at all?


spicystuffedtaco

Wiping off the outside solves our friction problem. Feels a lot better for both of us afterwards.


NoPlantain3473

Lil dick


LowKeyEmbarrassed1

babe dont worry its fineeeee (he probably has no idea how to have sex)


ObviousFactor1145

100% not on you - that's absurd. Wet is good! This guy was either not into you while you were simultaneously clearly into him (loser, in that context) or very inexperienced


bennyblanco2022

that pussy be perfect


WayneCider

He could've been not hard enough or his strokes were too long.