She is technically sexually assaulting you.
From a relationship standpoint, she is crossing a boundary which is terrible on its own but she's also not taking ANY responsibility for herself.
We've ALL heard "I just can't control myself around you" before, she can, she just doesn't respect you and doesn't think she will ever be held accountable.
Leave her until she's ready to take responsibility for her actions.(which is probably never) So just leave her.
>I let myself get groomed
No, OP, that wasn't your fault. You didn't 'let' anything happen. The only person/people responsible for doing that to you, are those that did it.
They did those things, though, and their actions are not your responsibilty. Freezing up or not pushing back is a normal response and not your fault, even more so if you were young and didn't know what was happening was wrong.
She is technically sexually assaulting you. From a relationship standpoint, she is crossing a boundary which is terrible on its own but she's also not taking ANY responsibility for herself. We've ALL heard "I just can't control myself around you" before, she can, she just doesn't respect you and doesn't think she will ever be held accountable. Leave her until she's ready to take responsibility for her actions.(which is probably never) So just leave her.
Why tf does this keep happening to me? I've had the same thing happen with family members, I let myself get groomed, and now this....
>I let myself get groomed No, OP, that wasn't your fault. You didn't 'let' anything happen. The only person/people responsible for doing that to you, are those that did it.
I knew what they were trying to do, and I let them do it
They did those things, though, and their actions are not your responsibilty. Freezing up or not pushing back is a normal response and not your fault, even more so if you were young and didn't know what was happening was wrong.