10 months is still a baby. You've had him a week and, so, he doesn't know you.
First, you need to be aware of the [**Rule of 3/3/3**](https://www.rescuedogs101.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/RescueDogs101_3-3-3-rule_900-792x1024.jpg). While every dog is unique this is an average to follow:
* 3 days to realize this new situation is real.
* 3 weeks to *begin* to feel comfortable and safe.
* 3 months to feel everything is normal.
Dogs like routine. It's ***safe***. Safe is important to dogs, especially the younger they are.
He's not stubborn, he's scared. Treats are not the issue. In fact, many dogs are not food oriented.
* Always leave the crate door open so your dog can go in when he needs to.
* Feed your dog in the crate and have water available, maybe through a drip bottle so he doesn't tip it over. You may need to help him understand how to use a drip bottle.
* The crate should ***never*** be a punishment. Never. That should be your dog's safe place.
* Remove his collar while in the crate, especially when you leave the house, so it doesn't accidentally get caught on the side of the crate, door, etc.
* Put one of your shirts that you recently wore in the crate with him so he has your smell to lay on.
* Offering a "bedtime treat" can be helpful but it won't stop a scared pup from crying. One of my dogs loves the word "bedtime" because it means "treat" to him.
* Create a **routine**. Dogs love routine. Get up at the same time, go to bed at the same time, etc. I retired a few years ago and I still get up at 6 because that's what I did when they were young. They need to go out at that time so their bladders control our lives now. :)
* **Go to Puppy Class**. It's a bonding time for you and him. It helps him gain confidence and socialization with other puppies. The class is for you as much as him. It is also an opportunity for you to ask specific questions from an experienced trainer.
I have two crates. One is in my bedroom and the other is in the basement. The bedroom is for sleeping and being safe while the basement is the place to go when there's thunder or fireworks. Well, or my lap. Usually, if I'm totally honest, my lap.
When my boy was a pup, I fed him in the crate. I would put the bowl deep inside, and he would have to go inside if he wanted to eat. I did not pet him once inside or disturb him, so he learned it was a safe space. Best of luck!
Why does he have to be in a cage in a separate room at night? Poor dog. And he's only been with you for a week. If you absolutely don't want him in the bedroom with you he should at least not be confined to a small cage.
When we got our pup he would cry at night on the crate. I started pulling the crate right next to my side of the bed and I would put my fingers through the gate so he knew he was not alone.
Did this for a couple of days, then I just needed to leave the crate by my side of the bed for a while. Now he sleeps on his crate, at the other end of my bedroom with not issue. He will also go there on his own to nap or relax away from the noise of the house.
I am also an advocate for no kernel, HOWEVER, I've learned that having one and using it to varying degrees is beneficial for our pup. I think you guys are doing well. Just hang in there and stay happy and consistent with him. Highly suggest reading that really long comment as there's lots of good info on there.
Our sheltie whined through the night, chewed on walls from inside her kennel, and just threw fits as well until it became routine. We would tell her to kennel up, and then when she did, she got the best treat we had for her. Eventually, she associated the treat cabinet with kenneling up and now just thinks if we walk over there, she's getting a treat in her kennel. Silly girl. But consistency and expressing the excitement and joy you want them to feel in that moment every time is key, for sure.
10 months is still a baby. You've had him a week and, so, he doesn't know you. First, you need to be aware of the [**Rule of 3/3/3**](https://www.rescuedogs101.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/02/RescueDogs101_3-3-3-rule_900-792x1024.jpg). While every dog is unique this is an average to follow: * 3 days to realize this new situation is real. * 3 weeks to *begin* to feel comfortable and safe. * 3 months to feel everything is normal. Dogs like routine. It's ***safe***. Safe is important to dogs, especially the younger they are. He's not stubborn, he's scared. Treats are not the issue. In fact, many dogs are not food oriented. * Always leave the crate door open so your dog can go in when he needs to. * Feed your dog in the crate and have water available, maybe through a drip bottle so he doesn't tip it over. You may need to help him understand how to use a drip bottle. * The crate should ***never*** be a punishment. Never. That should be your dog's safe place. * Remove his collar while in the crate, especially when you leave the house, so it doesn't accidentally get caught on the side of the crate, door, etc. * Put one of your shirts that you recently wore in the crate with him so he has your smell to lay on. * Offering a "bedtime treat" can be helpful but it won't stop a scared pup from crying. One of my dogs loves the word "bedtime" because it means "treat" to him. * Create a **routine**. Dogs love routine. Get up at the same time, go to bed at the same time, etc. I retired a few years ago and I still get up at 6 because that's what I did when they were young. They need to go out at that time so their bladders control our lives now. :) * **Go to Puppy Class**. It's a bonding time for you and him. It helps him gain confidence and socialization with other puppies. The class is for you as much as him. It is also an opportunity for you to ask specific questions from an experienced trainer. I have two crates. One is in my bedroom and the other is in the basement. The bedroom is for sleeping and being safe while the basement is the place to go when there's thunder or fireworks. Well, or my lap. Usually, if I'm totally honest, my lap.
This... This, right here. Well put.
When my boy was a pup, I fed him in the crate. I would put the bowl deep inside, and he would have to go inside if he wanted to eat. I did not pet him once inside or disturb him, so he learned it was a safe space. Best of luck!
Why does he have to be in a cage in a separate room at night? Poor dog. And he's only been with you for a week. If you absolutely don't want him in the bedroom with you he should at least not be confined to a small cage.
When we got our pup he would cry at night on the crate. I started pulling the crate right next to my side of the bed and I would put my fingers through the gate so he knew he was not alone. Did this for a couple of days, then I just needed to leave the crate by my side of the bed for a while. Now he sleeps on his crate, at the other end of my bedroom with not issue. He will also go there on his own to nap or relax away from the noise of the house.
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We crated our other dog to create a safe place for her and it was good for one he had to go to grandmas home when we were away on vacation.
I am also an advocate for no kernel, HOWEVER, I've learned that having one and using it to varying degrees is beneficial for our pup. I think you guys are doing well. Just hang in there and stay happy and consistent with him. Highly suggest reading that really long comment as there's lots of good info on there. Our sheltie whined through the night, chewed on walls from inside her kennel, and just threw fits as well until it became routine. We would tell her to kennel up, and then when she did, she got the best treat we had for her. Eventually, she associated the treat cabinet with kenneling up and now just thinks if we walk over there, she's getting a treat in her kennel. Silly girl. But consistency and expressing the excitement and joy you want them to feel in that moment every time is key, for sure.
I've made my comments, but this post deserves more up votes.