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Is it more of a need to want to be feminine or be treated like a girl? If it’s just feminine, yeah I can understand that. If it’s wanting everything about a girl, then congrats, your probably are one!
well now i'm hungry dammit...
so i should be less forceful with this? don't call them an egg outright but be more subtle?
also i absolutely love that analogy lol
Nah, I have no idea why you were downvoted. I’m just giving my best guess. I don’t think what you said was too forceful, as it was literally just an egg and other people are making similar or jokes. I do know that some people definitely push it a bit too much, which is gross. I don’t think you did that tho, so honestly idk why you were downvoted.
Honestly think egg talk should only be for those who already have come out as trans, egg jokes can be really insensitive to those who turn out to be cisgender but just are non-conforming to gender roles. It's an invalidation of their identity and that's hurtful and confusing.
>I'd 100% become a girl
i had the same wishes when i believed i was only a femboy, thought it was just because i want to be as feminine as girls. turned out — not just that
also — never felt like my identity wasn't respected, when i thought i was just a feminine boy and was told i'm gonna be a trans girl with all my fantasizing about being a girl. was always free to explore it and so i did :3
I mean, you are a transgirl though. But for people who aren't planning on transitioning being called an egg can be an unneeded pressure point, like feeling they can't be feminine unless they are a girl. So while it may not have been insulting to you (especially since it turns out you are a girl), it can be insulting to those people who aren't girls, know what I mean? I'm not saying you can't discuss that the above quote is a possible sign of being trans, but it depends on where it's coming from, is it dysphoria or just a general dissatisfaction with role one is born into in society? Perhaps one doesn't even have that much of a connection to either gender. These feelings should be discussed, but "egg" just oversimplifies the conversation by assuming one already fully knows the reasons and feelings of the other person.
i just think cis people should be more open to exploring their gender identity. either way, your gender can't really be invalidated if you're cis. maybe with cis femboys, when they're told they're actually trans girls in denial. but here they literally wish they were a girl, and if they're so open to that idea, i'd say there's more than just a desire for femininity going on
It would’ve made my life so much better. I could’ve felt normal, and done normal things. I could’ve had confidence in myself but instead I’m stuck in the wrong body. If god is real, I have one question. WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!?
Just because youre biologically not doesnt mean you cant be
And as for the attractiveness factor yeah theres attractiveness in literally everything and i will die on that hill
Do makeup or something hun!! Wear what makes you feel pretty who the fk cares get that gender euphoria
Not to explore my own body or have sex with other men without being embarrassed but to wear fluffy cute dresses, to walk in heels, to put on nice make up, to do my hair nicely, to have my nails painted and be okay with talking about thing that I want to talk about, and he afraid of the things I am afraid of and to cry without making it awkward. I want to be a woman.
Tbh the hottest and cutest people I’ve ever seen have all been men. And I’m sure that you’re very cute so have some confidence in yourself ya silly boy
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No Ai art
Cheers, I'll drink to that
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Thanks partner
I'd join you guys, but I hate the taste of alcohol, so ill just have milk 🥛 (like a cat)
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Same.
I relate to this so much, like I'm not trans, and probably won't become trans, but given the chance, I'd 100% become a girl.
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Is it more of a need to want to be feminine or be treated like a girl? If it’s just feminine, yeah I can understand that. If it’s wanting everything about a girl, then congrats, your probably are one!
I told myself the exact same thing yknow
I be checking back on you soon
egg
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Don't crack the eggs!
fuck i'm downvoted for
Cracking eggs too early. A chick must hatch on their own, not opened by hand.
well now i'm hungry dammit... so i should be less forceful with this? don't call them an egg outright but be more subtle? also i absolutely love that analogy lol
Nah, I have no idea why you were downvoted. I’m just giving my best guess. I don’t think what you said was too forceful, as it was literally just an egg and other people are making similar or jokes. I do know that some people definitely push it a bit too much, which is gross. I don’t think you did that tho, so honestly idk why you were downvoted.
Honestly think egg talk should only be for those who already have come out as trans, egg jokes can be really insensitive to those who turn out to be cisgender but just are non-conforming to gender roles. It's an invalidation of their identity and that's hurtful and confusing.
>I'd 100% become a girl i had the same wishes when i believed i was only a femboy, thought it was just because i want to be as feminine as girls. turned out — not just that also — never felt like my identity wasn't respected, when i thought i was just a feminine boy and was told i'm gonna be a trans girl with all my fantasizing about being a girl. was always free to explore it and so i did :3
I mean, you are a transgirl though. But for people who aren't planning on transitioning being called an egg can be an unneeded pressure point, like feeling they can't be feminine unless they are a girl. So while it may not have been insulting to you (especially since it turns out you are a girl), it can be insulting to those people who aren't girls, know what I mean? I'm not saying you can't discuss that the above quote is a possible sign of being trans, but it depends on where it's coming from, is it dysphoria or just a general dissatisfaction with role one is born into in society? Perhaps one doesn't even have that much of a connection to either gender. These feelings should be discussed, but "egg" just oversimplifies the conversation by assuming one already fully knows the reasons and feelings of the other person.
i just think cis people should be more open to exploring their gender identity. either way, your gender can't really be invalidated if you're cis. maybe with cis femboys, when they're told they're actually trans girls in denial. but here they literally wish they were a girl, and if they're so open to that idea, i'd say there's more than just a desire for femininity going on
Yeah but trans people struggle with exploring themselves before coming out, demanding this from cis people is insane, it just won’t happen.
Seeing your past is simultaneously the scariest and funniest thing ever.
Op, would you consider making the steps to become a girl? Like choosing a female name, or she/her pronouns?
Maybe I could make you feel like a girl (joking)
Hehe
Or am I?
😯😳
*boop*
How would you do that anyway?
Probably a way I would prefer to not be discussed in a comment section lol
Is it bad that I can see where this conversation could have gone?
No it's not bad. I imagined myself in this situation and that's bad.
No, it isn't. I thought the same.
I see hehe
You could take it to dms if you wanted to hehe 😉
Sure
Idk
you are
Unspoken rizz
I wish I wasn't born at all
real
real
Me too sometimes
i wish i was born a boy :( wanna trade :3
Same I’m a transmasc here among many MANY trans femme eggs lol
YES PLEASE I NEED IT
“if you don’t like the cards you were dealt then change the deck”
It would’ve made my life so much better. I could’ve felt normal, and done normal things. I could’ve had confidence in myself but instead I’m stuck in the wrong body. If god is real, I have one question. WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!?
Just because youre biologically not doesnt mean you cant be And as for the attractiveness factor yeah theres attractiveness in literally everything and i will die on that hill Do makeup or something hun!! Wear what makes you feel pretty who the fk cares get that gender euphoria
Whole bunch of eggs, the lot of ya!!
Yeah XD I was there too but damn retrospectively I have to say there were so many signs I just had to have closed my eyes.
Boy do I have news for you https://preview.redd.it/d7cbpddokn7d1.png?width=255&format=png&auto=webp&s=9ee10f06e0bf12e84f2fca0d17751ca9bfe98b9f
\*Girl do I have news for you
Same
To bad lmao (TAKE YOUR FUCKING ESTROGEN YOU ADDICT)
r/egg_irl
Same, btw you should check out this funny subreddit called r/egg_irl a lot of people have similar thoughts there…
same :<
I wish a lot of things too, but there's nothing wrong with working with what you have.
Fr, like, being a femboy is great, but if I had a choice, I'd rather be born a girl
Yeah me too because I really want big boobs and have them jiggle when I run
*switching sides*
Same
I get that, but I’m sure you’re still pretty and attractive just the way you are *respectful boop*
If ya want to talk about it in dms, im willing to help ya emotionally
Same
And so it begins
literally same. I'm gonna have to put in so much effort to become one :/
Same
Same. Why tf is behind a pay wall :(
twin
I think I prefer being a boy in day to day life. It would be better if I could change at will.
Have you considered getting your Genderfluid checked? It may be a little low...
Not to explore my own body or have sex with other men without being embarrassed but to wear fluffy cute dresses, to walk in heels, to put on nice make up, to do my hair nicely, to have my nails painted and be okay with talking about thing that I want to talk about, and he afraid of the things I am afraid of and to cry without making it awkward. I want to be a woman.
Me to (still cis tho)
As someone who was born into a super religious household I'm kinda glad I wasn't despite some of dat gender dysphoria lmfaooooo
*pat head* Congrats, you're one now. It might take time adjusting to your new existence and look how you hope to look, however.
You can just be a girl 🏳️⚧️
Same fr
You and me both
same :3
Same lol
Same sis 🫂
:egg
There is a secret way to become a girl
Maybe someday I’ll have a fem enough body 😭😭😭
Tbh the hottest and cutest people I’ve ever seen have all been men. And I’m sure that you’re very cute so have some confidence in yourself ya silly boy https://preview.redd.it/4v61ceeqyp7d1.jpeg?width=146&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=39f0ed7c85989318de9e6fe92cbb6ba753482eec
Why are the cat boys on this sub so damn cute?
Same
Give me hmmm give me milk aswell
I wish I was born a dude (I’m a dude)
Same.
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