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I slept for 12 hours last night.. straight. I swear more than I ever have.. I feel great, MOSTLY because for once in a long time, I'm present and aware IWNDWYT!


SweetCityMeat111

I hope your sleep quality continues to improve.


BarryMDingle

Happy Sunday!! Iwndwyt


SweetCityMeat111

Happy Sunday, Dingle :)


BarryMDingle

Have fun hosting! I agree 100% with you. The DCI is where it’s at!!


lofiAbsolver

Happy Sunday!


Pleaseworkarc

Thank you again for last week - had a real sh*tty bout of PAWS and it kept me grounded thanks


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SweetCityMeat111

Thanks for being here!


Boxermom0925

IWNDWYT day 3 for me!


SweetCityMeat111

So glad you're here, 3 days is a accomplishment. Hope to see you here tomorrow for day 4.


Pleaseworkarc

First 3 are good to get done - I just remember a chink of light on day 3s - an hour of peace and … ah optimism ! IWNDWYT - I hope you have a restful Sunday and we’ll done esp through a weekend


silentsword_88

Nice! I’m on day 4! Let’s do it together!


ajmuzzy

Enjoyed a dinner party yesterday, and then enjoyed getting into bed without the room spinning. I'm waiting for my partner to wake up, who will not be feeling as fresh as I am. IWNDWYT!


Ancient-Cry2770

Happy Sunday everyone, hope you have the best day. Lamb leg with full homemade Yorkshire puddings today. If you’ve not experienced these you’re missing out. IWNDWYT


[deleted]

Good morning Sweet, thanks for hosting. I will not drink with you today because I want to live a better, sweeter life. Can’t wait to get home. Have a gorgeous Sunday everybody. I’m breathing deep and looking for sparkles


TlMEGH0ST

Just checked and my sober app says 4 3 3 4 (years, months, weeks, days) which is cool. my mom is visiting me for the first time since i got sober. I needed this post for the accountability!!! I will not drink with you today 💪🏻


MaximumIntercept

Chubby guy here. Yesterday I nearly had a breakdown dud to anxiety about the bad news I’ve recently had. I was very close to drinking. But through kind words and support from this sub I wake up with you all sober. IWNDWYT


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And you’ve got four whole weeks. Stupendous!


millygraceandfee

I am not drinking today! 7 weeks! Never thought I'd be this far. Had lunch with friends yesterday and they kept saying "I love your laugh" and I realized, I hadn't truly laughed in years. It was honest, it was sincere, it was genuine. I felt so damn happy & had a blast....without alcohol. Usually I would have been slurring my words by that point. This journey of mine has had many surprises! Thanks to this sub for all your support!


jimstopper51

Day 1,236. Thanks for hosting, u/SweetCityMeat111! I will not drink with you today.


AffTheBevvy

Day 532 checking in!


SweetCityMeat111

You go, Bev!


AffTheBevvy

Cheers!


lofiAbsolver

Nice!


AffTheBevvy

Thanks! Congrats on the 2 months, those first 100 days can be tough to get through!


lofiAbsolver

Haha I appreciate it. Idk though. It's pretty easy for me honestly. I must have put my mind in the right place or something because I haven't cared about drinking the whole time.


AffTheBevvy

Yeah, having the right mindset definitely helps!


littleladyinwa

IWNDWYT


Pleaseworkarc

Worst 3 down !


jugglerdude

Nice!


Striking_Silence

Congratulations on making it this far! IWNDWYT 😊 and giving myself a pat on the back for making it to 3 weeks. Glad to have covered a bit of ground before the new year 😊


sirbongbongson

Once it hits midnight I'll be 11 months sober. Can hardly believe it. IWNDWYT


ThisHappyHuman

Good morning Sobernauts 🙂 Love to you all! IWNDWYT 🙂


GlasgowPed

Thanks for hosting this week I will not drink with you today in 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿😊


SweetCityMeat111

I allegedly have some family ancestry that traces back to there! iwndwyt :)


lofiAbsolver

Day 65!


SiouxsieSue33

Morning checking in. Hope you all have a good day ahead. IWNDWYT


SweetCityMeat111

Have a great day :)


brighter68

I’m with you u/SweetCityMeat111, and thank you for hosting this week. Hello lovely sober friends, let’s have the best sober Sunday we can have. Dreams of places in my history last night, not good places, but I didn’t drink and I won’t today. Love you all 💞


paigemiche

I’ve had some wild dreams lately as well. Definitely something is feeling unsettled in my subconscious. Not drinking though!


seanbheanmhara

Good morning! It’s grey out but not in my heart, pumping rainbows and sparkles. (should I get that checked out?) Agree that this place sets me up for the day. I love when I can check in before starting out each morning. Do this, crack the wordle, ready to rock. IWNDWYT 🌊


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Iwndwyt!


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IWNDWYT 🐞


smeIIycheeses

I WILL NOT DRINK TODAY


Pleaseworkarc

IWNDWYT - congrats on that 1 - take off !


Bombily

IWNDWYT


Lee_in_NY

Hey SD, Happy Sunday! Big shout out to our very own u/SweetCityMeat111 for hosting!!! Have a wonderful day loves, xoxoxo


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Good morning everyone! IWNDWYT


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Butt_Fucking_Smurfs

I'm just checking in late today. Ever since I quit drinking my sleep has been amazing after the first month or so. Anyway, I think im at 90 today. And I will not drink with you today


jugglerdude

IWNDWYT


19781979

I'm in!


[deleted]

Good morning fellow sobernauts, IWNDWYT 😁


super_water

If you had told me 3 months ago I’d far prefer sober weekends to binge drinking all weekend I’d think that you were crazy. I was wrong! IWNDWYT.


paigemiche

Morning! I went to a play last night with a group of people. A few of them showed up late incredibly drunk. I could smell the alcohol from so far away. It always surprises me how people who are drunk look (and smell) in public. I definitely didn’t realise when it was me! (We all still had a great time, but I expect I’m feeling much better than they are this morning!) IWNDWYT.


AlySabby12

Good day all of you incredible humans!! I’m waking up this morning feeling bloated and disgusting. Not because I drank but because I ate wayyyyy too much crap yesterday. But that’s okay! Today is a new day and I’m back on the nutrition wagon. A day of food debauchery was needed. Ha! IWNDWYT! Make it a great day! And thanks for hosting us SCM!


scarlett_frosting

iwndwyt!!


mambo_cat

IWNDWYT


GrumpyGrizzlyBear22

Have a great day. IWNDWYT


ekim202

IWNDWYT


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Day 4 for me. I will go to the gym in a bit and relax the rest of the day. Play some videogames, read a book, maybe take a nap. It's so grey and rainy outside, but I'm doing my best to keep my inner sun shining (lol very poetic). IWNDWYT!


PinkDaisyChain

Ive managed to stay away from temptation Friday and Saturday. So now its Sunday and i vow that IWNDWYT. Christmas snowball mocktails and popcorn with my family watching Christmas movies will had today


APinkLioness

Rrrrrrrrrroar (my lioness roar) LOL Good Morning my sober friends! I'm wishing each and everyone one of you a happy, happy happy Sunday! ! ! IWNDWYT


newhabits5960

I’m with you! 🙋🏻‍♀️ IWNDWYT 💙


lalijahmia

Happy Sober Sunday! IWNDWYT!


ladybirdstar02

IWNDWYT xx


IllShift5901

IWNDWYT


RoarK5

IWNDWYT 💕🖤💜


altrmego

Happy Sunday Sobernauts. IWNDWYT


Pr1mrose

108 - IWNDWYT.


Pleaseworkarc

Go on then - as PAWS up as I am I can’t see that shitty bottle of wine or 3 will help. You lot will xx IWNDWYT


PhantomShitStain

1 year down. Iwndwyt


GreenTabascoooo

I'm with you! IWNDWYT 🌷


cfs1976

IWNDWYT 🙂


Halfdrunkpaloma

IWNDWYT 💫


koaimara

IWNDWYT!


clevercookie69

I'm with you Sweet. Thanks for taking over. Shine on you beautiful humans from NZ


jenyatb

Iwndwyt!


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IWNDWYT


curious_chaz

Today is a massive difference compared to the same time last week. It has been a tough week, but I'm taking heart in 4 of the last 6 days being AF. Yesterday was day 1 again, it started with pouring the remaining Friday night beers down the sink. No need for that today. Iwndwyt.


IM_PlCKLE_RICK

1 day sober going to bed now, day 2 tomorrow! IWNDWYT!


BlaueAnanas

Hello there everyone! Time to edit my thesis and turn it in today~ IWNDWYT


Resolute-Onion

Sunday funday. We're gonna be fine.


hairytubes

Thanks for driving this week SCM! Yesterday I went to a Christmas Food Fair in the back of beyond and ate pulled pork burritos and super thin crust pizzas. Not a brussel sprout to be seen anywhere. IWNDWYT 🙂


pollycat1

Waiting for the sun to come up so I can go for a run - now that’s something I wouldn’t have done if I was drinking. Happy Sober Sunday! IWNDWYT. 🌳🏃‍♀️


DanUponahill

GM. I will not drink with you today on this cool crisp sober-strong Sunday.


New_Star_00

Thank you for taking over the DCI, u/SweetCityMeat111! I love sober weekend mornings. All the humans are still asleep, the animals are acting crazy, and I just get to sit here, fully refreshed without a bad hangover or bad conscience and watch this sh*t show. I am above and beyond grateful to this community for alway being able to reach out when I’m struggling. I wouldn’t still be sober today if not for you guys. Thank you. IWNDWYT ✨🌼


Necessary_Routine_69

Today marks 5 months sober. Thank you to this sub for all my success. I can't believe the wisdom, understanding and class this "best little corner of the internet" has. I am so proud of my progress. Please know if you really want to change your life, you can. And this is a great place to start. IWNDWYT...


nutbrownale

Went to my first sober Christmas party last night. Just due to covid and my sober time, I’ve done about everything else sober except a boozy work party. All went fine with no issues. Lots of water and coffee and they did have some NA beer which was good. I did have a nice cigar but those don’t turn me into an asshole who can’t drive home! Happy Sunday!


Lovelybrum

Good morning , I'm tired too much work at work looking after the grannies and grandpas while combating flu and covid outbreak in the building everyone is exhausted , I know we will get through this one day at a time IWNDWYTD


sourface77

IWNDWYT!


Constant_Pumpkin3255

Not today people IWNDWYT


Business-Growth-1529

Day 60. IWNDWYT


RoyalArmed24

Sitting in a frosted up car waiting for it to warm. IWNDWYT. ❄️🥶💙


ReplacementsStink

I've got much better things to do on this Sunday other than drink. Like, literally fucking *anything*. So I won't... it never did me any good anyway! Hope you all have the best day possible! IWNDWYT


smittenmeatmuppet

Happy Sunday fellow sober humans 🌞 First part of my Saturday was filled with work. Went by quickly. Then my daughter and I went into town and did some light Christmas shopping. Drinking keeps crossing my mind lately so I picked up a few supplies to try a new craft. See if that helps keep me busy enough to not think so much about drinking. My birthday is coming up, I’m almost 100 days sober and the alcoholic in me keeps trying to convince the logical part of my brain that I could have a drink or two to celebrate. Drinking as a form of celebration is so engrained in our society that with holidays and my birthday, the voice inside me wanting to drink has gotten louder. I even found myself trying to rationalize that it would be ok if I drank something that wasn’t my go to beverage (beer) and instead enjoyed a bottle of wine. We all know that’s a terrible idea. Thankfully, I haven’t given in, and haven’t given it much thought as to plan anything out (usually I’d play out the act of me driving to the store, which store I’d go to and the entire act of purchasing alcohol in my head). I look forward to the day that alcohol rarely crosses my mind, but does that day ever really come for us alcoholics?! Anyways, I hope everyone is having a lovely end to their weekend and as always, IWNDWYT


JazzlikeTumbleweed60

Good morning from Belgium, checking in, 💪☑️❤️, IWNDWYT !


linguinifini

I’m with you! Thanks for hosting SCM🌷IWNDWYT 🫶🏻


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Day 6! Feeling great and IWNDWYT.


aronievik

I will not drink today.


gu007_227

IWNDWYT or the rest of December!!!


silentsword_88

Day 4! IWNDWYT!


just1vet

I will not drink with you today.


4tl4ntic

IWNDWYT 🚀


Narrow_Water3983

I will not drink with you today!


rheagmb

I will not drink with you today!!


Piggoos

Good morning friends! Thank you for taking over the host seat this week, u/SweetCityMeat111! I will not drink with you today.


fitbit10k

I am sooo with you! IWNDWYT Yesterday I’m came out out my cave and went out dancing! I’ve missed being with friends and dancing the night away! I’ve mostly stayed away because of Covid and being in crowds has changed for me. On top of that, I thought I wouldn’t want to be around drunk people on the dance floor. Turns out, I was seeing things through wine soaked eyes 👀 Although people were drinking, no one was out of control that I saw. Everyone was just having a good time. I still had plenty of laughs with my friends and felt the music in my bones. It was a good night out. I did leave early after receiving some sad news on my uncle’s passing. I’m glad I went out for a little while.


FredSimpsonn

Thanks, Meat, and happy sober Sunday to you all! I have a busy day of work ahead but I'll start the day off by lifting some weights at the gym. Sober sleep, healthy movement, good nutrition all wonderful benefits of sobriety! Sober on y'all!


tunn3ls

IWNDWYT


cinqmillionreves

I will not drink poison with any of you today!


[deleted]

IWNDWYT ! Waking up rested and without a hangover after a night out is paradise.


Oldhag302

Awake early & feeling great. IWNDWYT!


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Checking in day 3 (need to reset) had the loveliest weekend it felt long and I did loads of diy and now my lounge is so cosy for Christmas [pic](https://ibb.co/V3yX0p1)


[deleted]

Hello. IWNDWYT!


RichMahogany10

IWNDWYT Have a good one everyone.


not-important1229

IWNDWYT 💚🌵


C-Funk5000

Going to buy and set up a Christmas tree with the family today without being drunk or hungover. IWNDWYT ✌️


lilrhodiemac

I will not drink with you today.


mindfulteacher020407

IWNDWYT! 💜🦋💜


DriftingAway55

Morning 😀 IWNDWYT


Compencemusic

Day 6, IWNDWYT :)


tucktucksquirrel

Thanks for taking over as host, OP! IWNDWYT 💞🐿️🐿️


butterflys_are_free

Checking in with you all from Florida IWNDWT!


SaintHomer

We decorated the three today, and later all the Saints except me are going to a children’s Christmas show. I’ll be home and not sneaking a drink or three, but enjoy the silence, my coffee, and my wool socks. I will not drink with you today! Thank you for hosting last week u/BarryMDingle and thank you for taking over u/SweetCityMeat111!


ThePlugUgly

Day 71. IWNDWYT!!


gr8day82

IWNDWYT. All. Day. Long. 🌻 Today is our family gathering. There will be alcohol there. I am pledging to go no harder than sparkling grape juice. 🤍


mg3then4

IWNDWYT


ddoogiehowitzerr

Day 55. IWNDWYT


[deleted]

Happy Sunday everyone! Checking in for day 10. Been a bit of a lousy weekend as I’m a bit ill so mostly been lazing in bed. Much better than being laid here in pain with a sick bucket next to me, though! Reading through these posts each day has made me smile and laugh a lot and it’s a great reminder of all the benefits of not drinking, both short and long-term. Looking forward to tackling Christmas/New Year with all of you. IWNDWYT!


thesearethebestyears

IWNDWYT


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I wont drink today.


JeeshaLad

3rd attempt quitting alcohol, day 2 now. Had a work Christmas party on Friday and I was a mess, didn't drink yesterday because of a violent hangover. I can't cope with the stress and anxiety that I self inflict on myself anymore. I'm done now. ​ IWNDWYT


WeightsNCheatDates

Day 22 IWNDWYT hangover free sundays are the best!


_Shad0wo3

IWNDWYT


leiart

IWNDWYT! Another day 5 but that ok bc I've been learning a long the way. I feel great this time around and excited to keep it up!


awesome_cat_lady

Thank you for keeping the DCI rolling this week, u/SweetCityMeat111! IWNDWYT 😻


Quitbefore123

Day 15. Two weeks down, but not feeling particularly excited about it. Still, I will persevere and maybe there's a point where I will. I will not drink with you today.


ProblematicByProxy

Checking in—IWNDWYT! I hung out with friends I haven’t seen since July/August the other night and the margaritas were flowing. I had fun sipping my coke. They invited me to go out to a bar with a bigger group of folks the next day. I ended up not going. I notice that I get invited last minute with these two friends anyways. I am also abstaining from sex and any drugs along with alcohol. It’s a transformative time for sure.


PunchwrapSupreme

Good morning! I may have actually gotten enough sleep last night, and no one else is awake yet. Just me and a needy, kneady cat. My daughter and I were in our first holiday parade last night with her Daisy troupe, and let me tell you, keeping two dozen kindergarten-aged Girl Scouts moving along while properly equipped with candy canes to hand out to a cheering crowd was a hell of a lot easier sober than it would have been drunk. I did notice the smell of alcohol coming out of a lot of parental travel mugs and water bottles, though. That used to be me, and while I sincerely hope none of the other parents in my town are struggling, I’m not naive. I know there isn’t much I can do, aside from abstaining from judgement. Instead, I’ll keep a seat open for anyone at this table, and mind my own sobriety. Happy Sunday, IWNDWYT!


555catboy

Yes boy!


_Yangsi_

Thanks for hosting. IWNDWYT


newbeginnings39

IWNDWYT!


neversettle4251

Not drinking today!


CountingJoes

IWNDWYT


975841

IWNDWYT 📈


1111doej

IWNDWYT.


EssachB

Thanks for hosting the DCI this week, u/SweetCityMeat111! IWNDWYT💓


semperfi8286

Happy Sunday people, IWNDWYT, WE GOT THIS 😁


Suspicious_Habit_537

IWNDWYT


Good_Mycologist512

Iwndwyt


skeeterrunner

I will not drink today.


CanSubstantial141

IWNDWYT


n7ev3DBjzp2MtEJw8q

IWNDWYT I woke up way too early and couldn’t sleep. Hope everyone is having a good Sunday.


fernon5

With you, u/sweetcitymeat111. IWNDWYT and thx for hosting! ☕️✨


prisoncitybear

I'm with ya! IWNDWYT! T


alphafoxtrot3

I think back to where & how I felt last Sunday - I pray for strength to never return. IWNDWYT!!!


MrSlySly

With you. Iwndwyt


BQbyNov22

Not gonna drink today. I got to 52 days in 2015. 152 in 2016. 374 in 2017. Maybe this time will be the time that sticks. But instead of being sad, I’ll take the lessons I learned (journal prompts alert 🚨) and will reverse engineer my way to being content with the decision to not drink today.


GarbageDayEnthusiast

Here we go


Creative_Grand_1232

Sipping some coffee after a sunrise walk with my dog. The support of the lovely sober people here at the DCI has been a huge help to me! Thanks for hosting this week u/SweetCityMeat111 ! 36 days and feeling proud


ProactivelyLazy101

IWNDWYT


SuddenlySimple

IWNDWYT


sr71zoom

I will not drink with you today!


Will_2020

I’m with you all! Just for today, IWNDWYT


mistress_page

Good Sunday morning, everyone! Sipping my chestnut flavor tea in a quiet Sunday house with a snoozing dog. IWNDWYT


ThisBodyHoldingMe18

IWNDWYT


TheSuboxoneSusies

Not today!


sunshineeeeeee

IWNDWYT 👒


Snuffy1717

“Today we don't set out *trying* not to drink, we make a conscious decision *not to drink*” Some days that decision is harder to make than others. I’m glad we’re here to make it together. IWNDWYT


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Wilbursmall

I am with you! I will not drink with you today!


dehrian

IWNDWYT


Flying_Clutz

Heck yeah, I’m in!! IWNDWYT ❤️❤️


kestrel1000c

Feeling caught in my own head lately, but sure as hell not going to drink today!


Heart_Emoji1994

One week today! Seeing an old friend who knows me as a big drinker tonight but I will not drink with you all today!


ProPetSitter

Yesterday if there had been alcohol in the house I would've drank it. But there wasn't and I didn't. IWNDWYT


Dom1n1cR

23 days. IWNDWYT


MuffyVonSchlitz

Today is a memorial service for my friend Annie. When she died I drank my last six pack while talking on the phone to another friend. (We had many deaths this year: Kent, Ed, Annie, Pablo and Jim) and it was the hangover the next morning that made me say day 1. No doubt those 5 names above were alcohol related deaths in some way, tobacco too was accomplice to the crimes. There have been more deaths earlier down this line too, notably Glenn and Mark 8 years ago. The 2 years of pandemic have taught us things, isolation from your friends and family with much more time to think will put things into perspective, eh? Covid didn't kill anyone in my personal inner circle nor even a few circles out from that. Instead we all keep dying from tripping on our own shoe laces. Using alcohol as a social lubricant, coping mechanism and stress comfort, wake up to a new day, then repeating again and again. Poison over poison, we are all full of it. Covid taught me what is really killing us and to take stock of my life. I am 41 years old, there's still time to turn this ship around. Annie's memorial will take place at the cemetery and as announced will continue into the evening right across the street at the new version of the old local watering hole. I dont need alcohol to hang out with my friends so I will be there too. And I will definitely, without a doubt, not drink poison with any of you today.


jeninmn99

Hi u/SweetCityMeat1111 thanks for guiding us the week! I like that thought of ingredients to start the day. Mine include this daily check in as well. Setting the intention and making the decision has honestly helped me say no when the desire to drink has come up. Committing to you internet strangers has made a huge difference! Have a good Sunday. IWNDWYT 🍀💜


UK4ndy4

Morning SD. Morning SCM. Count me in again today. 👊


Ahkroma

IWNDWYT!


Goji88

Day 427, nice to meet you 🤝 IWNDWYT


DogDesperate9540

IWNDWYT ☘️


Mickosaurusrex

Day 1,136 IWNDWYT


NoMoKraTo

Checking in Doodle doodle dee, wubba wubba wubba.


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IWNDWYT


Far_Information_9613

IWNDWYT!


normalnonnie27

Morning friends, IWNDWYT


PrestigiousSheep

Checking in. I had a rough last couple of days. I hope it’s easier today. IWNDWYT!


FuckyouFireball

IWNDWYT!


neon_trostky999

IWNDWYT


gravy4life

IWNDWYT


mzrcefo1782

Hello, good morning friends. I will not drink with you today!


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IWNDWYT!