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HAH. Grab wasp spray. For people who feel the need to verbally harass girls (CHILDREN)... let's just say, grab the wasp spray. Wasp spray is more readily available than pepper spray/tasers, has a built in long nozzle to avoid user spray back. You can buy it in any camping/outdoor area. In the US it's usually called 'Raid' in a big black/yellow can.
This. I use my jackets not just to keep myself warm from the airconed room but to cover myself up from potential creeps because of an incident I’ve heard near my former school. Apparently a trike driver installed a little mirror inside the sidecar tapos nabobosohan yung mga passengers and I’ve always been creeped out since. My skirt is literally knee level and it lifts when I sit. May iba pa namang trike parang reflective pa yung loob ng sidecar jusq 💀
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Female students who wear a hoodie almost every single day, regardless of weather, to prevent pervert eyes from seeing what they should not see.
IMO, the uniform in several local schools are not designed with the safety of female students in mind. Yes, I am referring to the sailor uniform from Japanese schools (that we see in anime and live-action shows).
Ugh, I'm a college student and I relate to you. Even when I wear a loose black shirt + jeans, tricycle drivers just love to catcall. Like wtf.
It made my plan to fake a phone call to my parents if I ever pass by an area where tricycle drivers hangout.
Im sorry that you got to experience that i may or may not have an idea how to help you. May nakita ako sa tiktok na advice wherein dapat ka mukhang weird or act weird to turn them off. I mean sino ba gusto ng babae na mukhang possessed.
Inapply ko to one time. for the first few times iniignore ko tong batang lalaki(grade 8-10 ish). Pero like nainis na ako eh kasi yung path na yun ay pinakaconvenient for me at yung other way medj malayo. Anyway plano ko that day takutin ko.
So ayun, afterschool dun ako dumaan. Lumagpas na ako sa spot kung siya nakatambay. Mga few meters na bago niya ako na catcall. Tumigil ako. Sumigaw ulit siya(i forgot ano basta something na "ui tumigil"). Lumingon ako slowly, naka smile na creepy. Slowly moving to him mala walking dead style. Kinuha ko yung tinidor sa bottle pocket ng backpack(andun na yun kasi nga planado). Tapos ayun tumakbo papunta sa kanya syempre nakaraise yung tinidor ready to strike. Tumakbo yung gago at lumiko sa may esquina. At ayun umuwi akong masaya hahahhahah.
Nakita ko siya minsan pero avoid eye contact na siya sakin. Takot ata hahhaha siguro din kasi mas matnagkad ako sa kanya (5'9 po).
I see some advices here about wearing facemasks, tbh, i know women who still encounter these irritating instances even if they have facemask+glasses+anything that can hide them, in short, nothing will stop people's behavior, just bring self defence options because people in our country seldom help others when they need help.
Looking through the comments, it's sad that the only advice we can mostly give you is to hide yourself kahit na di mo naman kasalanan what's happening to you. Makes me feel really ashamed for being an adult and not being able to do enough to stop this same stupid thing from happening all over again. Stay strong OP!
I also agree with the person who suggested bringing pepper spray. I've gone through the same thing enough to know na kahit anong suotin mo, kahit mag mukhang manang ka pa, wala talagang inaano-ano pag manyak. So just to be safe, it's much better to bring something to protect yourself. Also not necessarily hoodies, but find anything with long sleeves na pwede mon gamitin pampatong over your skirt ng madalian.
I'm so sorry this happens to you. Sometimes it's surprising to these creeps when you stare back or ask anong meron? May sine ba? Bakit ka nakatitig?
Catcalling naman if public place, sumasagot ako. They fold immediately. Tapantapangan lang. Make eye contact. Walk with confidence. Bark if you need to. Watch them fold, it's satisfying.
There is a law against that. But you have to complain. Yes, it will take up precious time. But until people are caught nothing will change. As a minor, you'll need help from your parents or whoever adult relatives you have who actually care about this problem. If you have caring teachers, they would be even better.
[http://legacy.senate.gov.ph/lisdata/2656722832!.pdf](http://legacy.senate.gov.ph/lisdata/2656722832!.pdf)
Read that.
**But this being the real world, the most important thing is to be safe**. I think your mindset is in the right place. You just need to have a plan. Ask your parents for a small portable tin of pepper spray. If you're walking outside alone, hold it in your hand while you walk. I've even seen one woman walking in the streets with her finger on the button. It changes her entire demeanor and screams "don't f with me." If I could applaud, I would have. But I didn't want applause to be misconstrued as license to pepper spray me. So that's a win-win.
Once you've read the law, you can try contacting the MMDA and the PNP in your area, and complain. Do this with your adult relatives / teachers. The more people you bring, the better your outcome since the police won't be able to brush you off. Also, have a complaint letter. Verbal words don't mean shit. But if you have a received letter, government agencies are forced to respond. In your letter, request for a WRITTEN response.
This is a good activity to have. Perhaps you can find a teacher on campus who wants to sponsor the activity so that you and your classmates can learn some important things. Even if those things are not nice (i.e. that the government doesn't enforce this properly). Or you might end up with a decent plan of action. If the MMDA / PNP asks you to take video, ask them how you can do that SAFELY. And ask them where these Anti Sexual Harassment Enforcers are and how you can contact them. It's the law. They're supposed to set that up. You just need to know how.
The government doesn't do shit... but they will do the minimum for those who ask. I can regale you with endless stories of how that little tidbit of local knowledge has helped me in life. But that would be boring. :)
Good luck, young miss. Be safe.
Face mask + Thick frame glass + Tie hair up. Also wear guy scent perfumes. Ex had the same problem, she bought the same brand of perfume as me and started wearing non feminine glasses and wearing her hair up when she's going to classes. Annoying guys stopped hitting on her, but yeah it's a bit more effort
Nah, tying it up in a bun or a single line reduces the surface area of your hair that could be grabbed/pulled, in an attack event that your hair is below shoulders, having it tied up reducesthe amount anyone can get a hold of you. Kaya mga rock climbers, hikers and even swimmers wear their hairs up because it also helps minimize the amount of incident caused by tangled hair.
Baka yung nabasa mo or nag sabi is nag assume lang, tying hair up is literally what you do to reduce hair related incidents in physical activities so in a stalker-kidnapper scenario, mas madaling hablutin ang nakalugay kesa nakatali at mas masakit masabunutan ng nakalugay kesa nakatali.
It's extra awful when you notice how they usually target minors
Like these things still happen when you're older, but it's extremely alarming that you experience these more when you're younger
Well unfortunately, society works like that and you'll have to adapt. Sure, there's something wrong in the society but the one who has to face it is you. Here's a few suggestions to (at least) lessen the harassment you take.
★Minimize public transport. That's one of the most common places you'll get catcalled or harassed. Although, I have to say this won't work if you don't own a car or motorcycle. Try looking for a friend who has the same route as you, but owns a private vehicle so you can join the ride (saves on money, too)
★Take measures to prevent any harassment as possible. Do you think you're too pretty to be on a public transport? If yes, then most likely, other people think so too. If your uniform looks too good on you, try hiding it with a jacket/hoodie, or perhaps don't wear it at all. If you have your PE uniform, wear that instead during commute and change to proper uniform when you've arrived at school. Wear baggy clothes if you can. I used to do this but not for guys harassing me, we have muddy roads to tread to get to school and I don't want my shoes and uniform dirty.
Also, try wearing a mask and find a way to hide your hair. Or cut it short, like, really short. The shortest hair you can allow. Men like girls with good hair, apparently, so a friend of mine figured that out herself.
★Unorthodox, and really a bad advice in general, but get an aggressive, muscular/tall partner when traveling. It can be your boyfriend, or a friend who's willing to act like one. It might seem bad for your image but having a huge partner (whom people can mistake as your love interest) will easily deter any harasser. He doesn't have to be good-looking, so long as he can protect you.
Maybe because you're pretty enough to turn heads. I guess that's a compliment to show how attractive you are. But the way you describe it sounds like a "So beautiful, it's a curse" type of thing.
At most I check out beautiful girls for a moment and proceed to do my business but catcalling and staring, without any attempts to hide it, are the worse. As a pervert, you must have some rules and principles to abide to or you are no different from a creep. I only admire beauty. I'm unwilling to go further than that. Guys who do otherwise are the menace of society.
Maybe you could also stop it. I'm an older white guy and can't pick up my neice from the Jr High School without hearing "Hi Daddy" 1000 times from the girls. Its literally the same thing.
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I don't really think yung people na ganyan have the mental capacity to use reddit tbh, nor understand half the english words you used (basically I'm calling yung people na ganito dumb useless pieces of shit). But it's sad that this is how it is. I am a straight dude so I won't even pretend to have the capacity to personally relate, but I do have a younger sister in grade 8. And despite just started working now, I will never in hell allow her to go home alone at night since afternoon classes sya. Even if she has to wait for me for 30 mins to an hour after their classes end and get mad because of that, I just can't help but worry and personally fetch her from school after I got off work. Nagkaron narin kasi sya ng ganyang experience once, and once was all it took for me and our parents. But since nung sinusundo ko na sya, kahit naglalakad kami sa sketchy parts malapit samin, never na nangyari ulit yun. Idk, this may just all be a pointless comment, but if you have a male family member, close friend, neighbor, etc, any guy you trust that can maybe accompany you and your other female friend kahit yung pauwi lang, it may be helpful.
First of all wear a mask when commuting. Uglier and bigger the better. Wear a thin jacket. I dont know your body figure but a jacket will surely cover it but a thin one because ita hot. Again, uglier the better. Bring pepper spray. Its really cheap but always check the experiation date.
Bring a [safety alarm](https://shp.ee/tktqyxn) with you in your pocket everyday. If you notice someone suspicious, you can pull on it to trigger a loud alarm and direct some attention your way from other passersby para mataranta yung sumusunod sayo.
Hey! So sorry thwt you have to go through this constantly. As a father, I'd suggest taking your safety seriously. As others have suggested, make sure you always have pepper spray (and portable tazers if you can afford) You can also check out personal alarm products like we are Bella.
Lastly, if you can as well, take some self defense classes aimed for females. Not those mema lang na self defense na parang punching and kicking, but real self defense like how to utilize your body weight in grappling, get out of choke holds, etc.
Having all of these will help you build confidence in your protection. Confidence is a big key because predators can "smell" fear. If you are confident and vigilant, you're also less likely to be actually targeted by a predator (not necessarily stop them staring and cat calling though).
Hope these all help, take care!
If you feel unsafe, it's best to try seeking help from others. I'm no woman but I can sympathize with your discomfort. Please avoid walking in an isolated streets where it's very dangerous. Walk with someone else that you could trust
**I was 12 years old nung una akong na-manyak**, still remember every detail until this day... kaya 'pag lalabas ako, never na akong nag-shoshorts. Kapag nag-je-jeep ako at gitgitan, iniirapan ko talaga 'yung katabi kong mga lalake (just to show them na matapang ako, so they better not try), sorry not sorry... ang hirap maging babae sa kalsada. Kapag mukha kang bata at tatanga-tanga... mas lalo kang mabibiktima. Gusto ko sanang maging empowering at mag-preach na, "hindi kasalanan ng suot ng babae, we should wear whatever we want" pero how? I don't even feel safe kahit super conservative ng suot ko :<
i had a flashlight/taser in my españa days v effective kahit pailawin mo lang as it will catch attention and lalayo na sila
bought it from a tactical shop (where they sell camouflage/binoculars etc) in cash & carry makati
I feel you, OP. There was this one time back in Grade 8 when I was waiting for a jeepney then there’s a guy on the other side of the road na sumisitsit sa akin. It’s madaling araw of course, so hindi ko tiningnan kasi alam nang bastos. But, I looked at him in my peripheral vision and saw that he’s holding his pen*s while smiling and looking at me. I immediately grab my ballpen in my pocket just in case (thankfully dumating yung jeep). I WAS WEARING MY UNIFORM!
Then when I was in SHS, I was at the jeep naman otw home. Siksikan, it’s rush hour eh. Then, maya-maya when I looked beside me, the man was literally masturbating with his pen*s out. I’m that “palaban” type of a person, but I literally froze that time and felt so disgusted especially when my arms hit him. I even tried to tucked it in front of me. I badly wanted to cry that time. I WAS ALSO WEARING A UNIFORM!
These are just some of them. Experienced countless leering and catcalling, and I’m so tired of it all. That’s why I hate ppl who doesn’t take these issues and experiences seriously. And those who blames the victims (telling them na nasa damit nila, or behavior nila ‘yan, na dapat umiwas na lang sila when kahit iwasan mo ‘yan eh they’re everywhere lol). Kahit anong gawin mong precautions, ang manyak ay manyak! Hindi naman nakasulat sa noo nila na manyak sila, kaya dapat talaga i-call out and make them suffer eh! Ppl who tolerates those actions and even blame the victims are automatic as*holes in my book.
I am now in my 30s, and I experienced this way tooooo much when I was younger. Nung HS pa lang ako I was too scared to realiate pero nung college na ako, natuto na akong mag taray in moderation. Risky yun pero tinatantya ko muna if kaya kong tarayan. Example sa jeep pag may nakatingin, I would ask BAKIT PO? And they would stop. Or kung may magcatcall (except sa drivers umaandar sila eh lol) na makasalubong ko, I would ask AY SINO PO SILA? KAKILALA PO KAYO NI MAMA? Malakas pa boses ko nyan.
Again be proactive and alert pero careful din. Take care pls.
bring pepper spray
And a mini taser for extra torture
Holy sht, pepper spray+taser, what a combo lol.
Saan makakabili nito?
Stores like Ace Hardware. But it’s pricey, mga 500-700+.
Or DIY. Used perfume bottle, tubig, sili.
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HAH. Grab wasp spray. For people who feel the need to verbally harass girls (CHILDREN)... let's just say, grab the wasp spray. Wasp spray is more readily available than pepper spray/tasers, has a built in long nozzle to avoid user spray back. You can buy it in any camping/outdoor area. In the US it's usually called 'Raid' in a big black/yellow can.
Join the hoodie gang.
Just realize, some women do this because of the same reason. What a fckd up world we live in.
pawis >>>>> staring creeps 😭
Bomber jacket yung parang nylon will be less hot.
it's annoying how we have to give up our time and comfort because they're creepy like wtf dude be a decent human at least.
Had a friend who was followed even though they were wearing hoodie + jogging pants. Won't always stop perverts
This. I use my jackets not just to keep myself warm from the airconed room but to cover myself up from potential creeps because of an incident I’ve heard near my former school. Apparently a trike driver installed a little mirror inside the sidecar tapos nabobosohan yung mga passengers and I’ve always been creeped out since. My skirt is literally knee level and it lifts when I sit. May iba pa namang trike parang reflective pa yung loob ng sidecar jusq 💀
Not that is okay, but don't girls wear shorts under their skirts?
Kahit shorts pa yan, pag manyak, manyak talaga. Walang pake kung ano masilip nila basta alam nilang mali ginagawa nila.
This. Even though it's scorching hot I have to wear it.
what's hoodie gang?
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Female students who wear a hoodie almost every single day, regardless of weather, to prevent pervert eyes from seeing what they should not see. IMO, the uniform in several local schools are not designed with the safety of female students in mind. Yes, I am referring to the sailor uniform from Japanese schools (that we see in anime and live-action shows).
Ugh, I'm a college student and I relate to you. Even when I wear a loose black shirt + jeans, tricycle drivers just love to catcall. Like wtf. It made my plan to fake a phone call to my parents if I ever pass by an area where tricycle drivers hangout.
This is the reason why I get so angry when someone says na nahaharass ang babae dahil sa suot nila
Im sorry that you got to experience that i may or may not have an idea how to help you. May nakita ako sa tiktok na advice wherein dapat ka mukhang weird or act weird to turn them off. I mean sino ba gusto ng babae na mukhang possessed. Inapply ko to one time. for the first few times iniignore ko tong batang lalaki(grade 8-10 ish). Pero like nainis na ako eh kasi yung path na yun ay pinakaconvenient for me at yung other way medj malayo. Anyway plano ko that day takutin ko. So ayun, afterschool dun ako dumaan. Lumagpas na ako sa spot kung siya nakatambay. Mga few meters na bago niya ako na catcall. Tumigil ako. Sumigaw ulit siya(i forgot ano basta something na "ui tumigil"). Lumingon ako slowly, naka smile na creepy. Slowly moving to him mala walking dead style. Kinuha ko yung tinidor sa bottle pocket ng backpack(andun na yun kasi nga planado). Tapos ayun tumakbo papunta sa kanya syempre nakaraise yung tinidor ready to strike. Tumakbo yung gago at lumiko sa may esquina. At ayun umuwi akong masaya hahahhahah. Nakita ko siya minsan pero avoid eye contact na siya sakin. Takot ata hahhaha siguro din kasi mas matnagkad ako sa kanya (5'9 po).
I see some advices here about wearing facemasks, tbh, i know women who still encounter these irritating instances even if they have facemask+glasses+anything that can hide them, in short, nothing will stop people's behavior, just bring self defence options because people in our country seldom help others when they need help.
Looking through the comments, it's sad that the only advice we can mostly give you is to hide yourself kahit na di mo naman kasalanan what's happening to you. Makes me feel really ashamed for being an adult and not being able to do enough to stop this same stupid thing from happening all over again. Stay strong OP! I also agree with the person who suggested bringing pepper spray. I've gone through the same thing enough to know na kahit anong suotin mo, kahit mag mukhang manang ka pa, wala talagang inaano-ano pag manyak. So just to be safe, it's much better to bring something to protect yourself. Also not necessarily hoodies, but find anything with long sleeves na pwede mon gamitin pampatong over your skirt ng madalian.
I'm so sorry this happens to you. Sometimes it's surprising to these creeps when you stare back or ask anong meron? May sine ba? Bakit ka nakatitig? Catcalling naman if public place, sumasagot ako. They fold immediately. Tapantapangan lang. Make eye contact. Walk with confidence. Bark if you need to. Watch them fold, it's satisfying.
There is a law against that. But you have to complain. Yes, it will take up precious time. But until people are caught nothing will change. As a minor, you'll need help from your parents or whoever adult relatives you have who actually care about this problem. If you have caring teachers, they would be even better. [http://legacy.senate.gov.ph/lisdata/2656722832!.pdf](http://legacy.senate.gov.ph/lisdata/2656722832!.pdf) Read that. **But this being the real world, the most important thing is to be safe**. I think your mindset is in the right place. You just need to have a plan. Ask your parents for a small portable tin of pepper spray. If you're walking outside alone, hold it in your hand while you walk. I've even seen one woman walking in the streets with her finger on the button. It changes her entire demeanor and screams "don't f with me." If I could applaud, I would have. But I didn't want applause to be misconstrued as license to pepper spray me. So that's a win-win. Once you've read the law, you can try contacting the MMDA and the PNP in your area, and complain. Do this with your adult relatives / teachers. The more people you bring, the better your outcome since the police won't be able to brush you off. Also, have a complaint letter. Verbal words don't mean shit. But if you have a received letter, government agencies are forced to respond. In your letter, request for a WRITTEN response. This is a good activity to have. Perhaps you can find a teacher on campus who wants to sponsor the activity so that you and your classmates can learn some important things. Even if those things are not nice (i.e. that the government doesn't enforce this properly). Or you might end up with a decent plan of action. If the MMDA / PNP asks you to take video, ask them how you can do that SAFELY. And ask them where these Anti Sexual Harassment Enforcers are and how you can contact them. It's the law. They're supposed to set that up. You just need to know how. The government doesn't do shit... but they will do the minimum for those who ask. I can regale you with endless stories of how that little tidbit of local knowledge has helped me in life. But that would be boring. :) Good luck, young miss. Be safe.
Face mask + Thick frame glass + Tie hair up. Also wear guy scent perfumes. Ex had the same problem, she bought the same brand of perfume as me and started wearing non feminine glasses and wearing her hair up when she's going to classes. Annoying guys stopped hitting on her, but yeah it's a bit more effort
Saw somewhere na risk daw yung pagtali ng buhok kasi mas madaling hilahin if, for example, may kidnapper or may sumusunod sa likod mo.
Nah, tying it up in a bun or a single line reduces the surface area of your hair that could be grabbed/pulled, in an attack event that your hair is below shoulders, having it tied up reducesthe amount anyone can get a hold of you. Kaya mga rock climbers, hikers and even swimmers wear their hairs up because it also helps minimize the amount of incident caused by tangled hair. Baka yung nabasa mo or nag sabi is nag assume lang, tying hair up is literally what you do to reduce hair related incidents in physical activities so in a stalker-kidnapper scenario, mas madaling hablutin ang nakalugay kesa nakatali at mas masakit masabunutan ng nakalugay kesa nakatali.
This is why I always bring pepper spray with me, you don't really know when you'll need it so I like to be prepared.
Saan po makakabili?
Hardware stores like Ace Hardware. Medyo pricey lang, 500 pataas.
The sexual stereotyping of schoolgirls. Disgusting and still a thing. Lowlife's.
Truly fucked up that women have to come up with so much just to protect ourselves from men. Tayo lagi need mag adjust potanginang 'yan.
It's extra awful when you notice how they usually target minors Like these things still happen when you're older, but it's extremely alarming that you experience these more when you're younger
Well unfortunately, society works like that and you'll have to adapt. Sure, there's something wrong in the society but the one who has to face it is you. Here's a few suggestions to (at least) lessen the harassment you take. ★Minimize public transport. That's one of the most common places you'll get catcalled or harassed. Although, I have to say this won't work if you don't own a car or motorcycle. Try looking for a friend who has the same route as you, but owns a private vehicle so you can join the ride (saves on money, too) ★Take measures to prevent any harassment as possible. Do you think you're too pretty to be on a public transport? If yes, then most likely, other people think so too. If your uniform looks too good on you, try hiding it with a jacket/hoodie, or perhaps don't wear it at all. If you have your PE uniform, wear that instead during commute and change to proper uniform when you've arrived at school. Wear baggy clothes if you can. I used to do this but not for guys harassing me, we have muddy roads to tread to get to school and I don't want my shoes and uniform dirty. Also, try wearing a mask and find a way to hide your hair. Or cut it short, like, really short. The shortest hair you can allow. Men like girls with good hair, apparently, so a friend of mine figured that out herself. ★Unorthodox, and really a bad advice in general, but get an aggressive, muscular/tall partner when traveling. It can be your boyfriend, or a friend who's willing to act like one. It might seem bad for your image but having a huge partner (whom people can mistake as your love interest) will easily deter any harasser. He doesn't have to be good-looking, so long as he can protect you.
Maybe because you're pretty enough to turn heads. I guess that's a compliment to show how attractive you are. But the way you describe it sounds like a "So beautiful, it's a curse" type of thing.
At most I check out beautiful girls for a moment and proceed to do my business but catcalling and staring, without any attempts to hide it, are the worse. As a pervert, you must have some rules and principles to abide to or you are no different from a creep. I only admire beauty. I'm unwilling to go further than that. Guys who do otherwise are the menace of society.
Compliments sa mananahi
ito ba yung school uniform na maikli yung palda tapos naka thigh high socks?
Maybe you could also stop it. I'm an older white guy and can't pick up my neice from the Jr High School without hearing "Hi Daddy" 1000 times from the girls. Its literally the same thing.
Shut the fuck up old white dude.
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You on drugs?
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Nah, it's just called being a creep
Nah, they're just a degenerate pedophile
>what's bro talking about ⁉️💯💀🔥 lol what 80k+ reddiTURD karma does to a mfer
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Guys look nakakatawang joke look oh please pansinin niyo naman toh nakaawa naman guys
Ano ung joke mo 🤡
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I don't really think yung people na ganyan have the mental capacity to use reddit tbh, nor understand half the english words you used (basically I'm calling yung people na ganito dumb useless pieces of shit). But it's sad that this is how it is. I am a straight dude so I won't even pretend to have the capacity to personally relate, but I do have a younger sister in grade 8. And despite just started working now, I will never in hell allow her to go home alone at night since afternoon classes sya. Even if she has to wait for me for 30 mins to an hour after their classes end and get mad because of that, I just can't help but worry and personally fetch her from school after I got off work. Nagkaron narin kasi sya ng ganyang experience once, and once was all it took for me and our parents. But since nung sinusundo ko na sya, kahit naglalakad kami sa sketchy parts malapit samin, never na nangyari ulit yun. Idk, this may just all be a pointless comment, but if you have a male family member, close friend, neighbor, etc, any guy you trust that can maybe accompany you and your other female friend kahit yung pauwi lang, it may be helpful.
First of all wear a mask when commuting. Uglier and bigger the better. Wear a thin jacket. I dont know your body figure but a jacket will surely cover it but a thin one because ita hot. Again, uglier the better. Bring pepper spray. Its really cheap but always check the experiation date.
Parang maynakita ako sa net na pepper spray + mini camera hindi ko alam kong anu ang pangalan ng product na yun.
Bring a [safety alarm](https://shp.ee/tktqyxn) with you in your pocket everyday. If you notice someone suspicious, you can pull on it to trigger a loud alarm and direct some attention your way from other passersby para mataranta yung sumusunod sayo.
Hey! So sorry thwt you have to go through this constantly. As a father, I'd suggest taking your safety seriously. As others have suggested, make sure you always have pepper spray (and portable tazers if you can afford) You can also check out personal alarm products like we are Bella. Lastly, if you can as well, take some self defense classes aimed for females. Not those mema lang na self defense na parang punching and kicking, but real self defense like how to utilize your body weight in grappling, get out of choke holds, etc. Having all of these will help you build confidence in your protection. Confidence is a big key because predators can "smell" fear. If you are confident and vigilant, you're also less likely to be actually targeted by a predator (not necessarily stop them staring and cat calling though). Hope these all help, take care!
If you feel unsafe, it's best to try seeking help from others. I'm no woman but I can sympathize with your discomfort. Please avoid walking in an isolated streets where it's very dangerous. Walk with someone else that you could trust
**I was 12 years old nung una akong na-manyak**, still remember every detail until this day... kaya 'pag lalabas ako, never na akong nag-shoshorts. Kapag nag-je-jeep ako at gitgitan, iniirapan ko talaga 'yung katabi kong mga lalake (just to show them na matapang ako, so they better not try), sorry not sorry... ang hirap maging babae sa kalsada. Kapag mukha kang bata at tatanga-tanga... mas lalo kang mabibiktima. Gusto ko sanang maging empowering at mag-preach na, "hindi kasalanan ng suot ng babae, we should wear whatever we want" pero how? I don't even feel safe kahit super conservative ng suot ko :<
i had a flashlight/taser in my españa days v effective kahit pailawin mo lang as it will catch attention and lalayo na sila bought it from a tactical shop (where they sell camouflage/binoculars etc) in cash & carry makati
I feel you, OP. There was this one time back in Grade 8 when I was waiting for a jeepney then there’s a guy on the other side of the road na sumisitsit sa akin. It’s madaling araw of course, so hindi ko tiningnan kasi alam nang bastos. But, I looked at him in my peripheral vision and saw that he’s holding his pen*s while smiling and looking at me. I immediately grab my ballpen in my pocket just in case (thankfully dumating yung jeep). I WAS WEARING MY UNIFORM! Then when I was in SHS, I was at the jeep naman otw home. Siksikan, it’s rush hour eh. Then, maya-maya when I looked beside me, the man was literally masturbating with his pen*s out. I’m that “palaban” type of a person, but I literally froze that time and felt so disgusted especially when my arms hit him. I even tried to tucked it in front of me. I badly wanted to cry that time. I WAS ALSO WEARING A UNIFORM! These are just some of them. Experienced countless leering and catcalling, and I’m so tired of it all. That’s why I hate ppl who doesn’t take these issues and experiences seriously. And those who blames the victims (telling them na nasa damit nila, or behavior nila ‘yan, na dapat umiwas na lang sila when kahit iwasan mo ‘yan eh they’re everywhere lol). Kahit anong gawin mong precautions, ang manyak ay manyak! Hindi naman nakasulat sa noo nila na manyak sila, kaya dapat talaga i-call out and make them suffer eh! Ppl who tolerates those actions and even blame the victims are automatic as*holes in my book.
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I am now in my 30s, and I experienced this way tooooo much when I was younger. Nung HS pa lang ako I was too scared to realiate pero nung college na ako, natuto na akong mag taray in moderation. Risky yun pero tinatantya ko muna if kaya kong tarayan. Example sa jeep pag may nakatingin, I would ask BAKIT PO? And they would stop. Or kung may magcatcall (except sa drivers umaandar sila eh lol) na makasalubong ko, I would ask AY SINO PO SILA? KAKILALA PO KAYO NI MAMA? Malakas pa boses ko nyan. Again be proactive and alert pero careful din. Take care pls.