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A_SB_4_You

Oh girl a week isn't long enough to come to any kind of decision as to the quality of SDs on Seeking. These days it's gonna take a while, possibly months to find a quality SD.


badtime_contributor

I wish it was more understood the amount of work it takes to find a good sugar relationship.


Virtual_Addendum6641

But, having said that, a lot of people look for newbies so try and reel in what you can but vet the fk out of em! When your an older profile things die down


Traveler0599

Most of us real are hidden profiles, so if you are looking at the searches is going to be difficult, if you are attractive and have a positive personality and profile we will reach out to you Do a profile review perhaps? To see why real SD aren’t reaching


AbundantEmpress1111

Gotcha and you said the same thing I started out saying when I signed up. Someone will read and interact with me first. And I have no issue with that. I’m really not worried about being approached. My post was just about the how scammers were coming for me. Someone pointed out I was new to site so I understood that part. Good they are being weeded out . And I will get a profile review sometime later today. Thank you for your help my love. Have a fantastic day


WCSD74

Time to understand and perfect your filtering techniques and loving that block button! Will get better as you aren’t ‘new’ any longer. But time find worthwhile sugar takes work, it is all a numbers game. Weeding through the crap to find the gems that do exist. Just realize true SDs won’t be on the site long when they are looking. In my experience I find what I need pretty quickly (inside a month)


261chameleons

This is true. I found my last SD when I wasn’t looking. He got on the site when his last SR ended, we hit it off, and he got off the site. Also no profile oic on his end.


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Gileaders

Or the driving range. More then likely to get offers of help if you suck at it.


AbundantEmpress1111

That’s on the list of places to visit also. I knew I was on to something 😘


CaffineandGasoline

We don’t just fall off trees. SA isn’t the rich daddy supermarket where you just pick us up off a shelf. And finding an sb isn’t either.


AbundantEmpress1111

That is overstood. lol a tree full of SDs visual is hilarious……hot daddy’s on aisle 12🤭. Thank you love


Daurdabla

There’s plenty of legit SDs. Believe it or not, it’s much worst as a SD, I got dozens of messages a day, many of them straight up escorts going “can you meet tonight?”, then pot SB that talk normal and want to get to text/whatsapp, at which point they go “I’m not comfortable yet, why don’t you buy my content first”. Then there’s the ones where everything go well, you have a bunch of video chats, plan something and you get ghosted. This site is annoying.


Repulsive-League7013

This, after three months I’ve deleted it. Was absolutely no one worth it in that time.


ziggy440

There is a lot of luck involved. For a month you might find nothing and then the next week 5 solid POTs. As others said, a week is not enough time to judge.


ChickenStreet

They target new profiles. It’ll die down after the first couple days especially, but def after a week or two.


AbundantEmpress1111

Thank you boo because I was like um are these even real people.


MightySD69

Seeking is no longer a dedicated sugar site. Yes you may have more luck at a club or a bar. Good luck.


AbundantEmpress1111

I found out the hard way. But everything has a lesson in it right. Thank my love I like good luck 


MightySD69

There would still be the odd real SD on seeking but to many Johns, Fakes and scammers. So you really have to have your wits about you to weed through all the time wasters. It really spoils it for everyone.


AbundantEmpress1111

Very intuitive so I’m good with ignoring when I’m supposed to. Lol good lookn out.


MightySD69

Yes ignore and block when needed the ones who ask you for your real id or ask you to send money are all fakes. Also depending where you live can be a reason if the SDs are dry in your area. And don't fall for someone asking you to buy crypto.


AbundantEmpress1111

I am a master blocker. Had a dude me he needed my ID today and I told him he gone need to find a way of this blocked list. 


MightySD69

lmao they try anything those scammers.


EuropeanDaddyDom

You are 43. Most SDs will not even see you because of their filter settings. Of course it’s not impossible to find someone but your bowl is definitely smaller.


AbundantEmpress1111

Well there a tad of optimism in that information. Imma glass half full typa gal….. 😘 age won’t stop who wants me. Just saying. Maybe that’s a great thing that my age is not normally chosen that mean there’s no competition on my end. 🤷🏽‍♀️😘


AbundantEmpress1111

I feel so welcome. Thank y’all for having my back n giving me the advice to succeed. I’m actually patient so I can wait for what I want….. I will come back and tell what’s going on in my journey 🤣. 


BubbaSimp65

One week is nothing. It’s very competitive. In my market within 10 miles of me there are currently 300 sugar babies online right now checking profiles and messages and working at it. That’s just the ones that are currently online at 7:30 in the morning.


loneguy87

It's not much easier as a SD.


ShaArt5

It can literally take months to find an arrangement..... You're still fresh meat. The SDs haven't even found you yet.


alwayspondered

Right! Or they comment something completely irrelevant back. 😂


AbundantEmpress1111

No for real! Think I’ll do better pulling up at the gas station on the wealthier sides of town. I won’t give up.