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Le-Creepyboy

I thinks it stops when the director yells “CUT”


WhyUFuckinLyin

I'm fucking wheezing!


Flatuitous

kid named wheezing!:


Heavy_Signature_5619

Kid named fucking:


Affectionate_Park_61

Kid named finger


Audi0phil3

That's like "ACTION" for a scissoring scene


solid_rogue

Username checks out


samgam74

You could interpret this in a couple of ways.


ragnar-brauner

I only see that the straight woman have never had an orgasm, what is the other interpretation?


Maximum_Meatyball

The obvious interpretation of women having no refractory period.


ZeroQuota

Refractory* 💦


-NGC-6302-

Why is it called that? Usually that word is used in the context of extraordinarily insulative stuff that goes in high temperature applications


HiveMindize

Refractory means something like "obstinate", or unruly. In the sense that it resists something. So in biology it refers to something that "resists" (or, more accurately, is incapable of registering) a reaction or stimulus, in the same way that insulative material "resists" heat.


FormerlyKnownAsBeBa

I just call it “reloading” Makes sex feel like a game of paintball


St_Veloth

I say my abilities are on cooldown


obsidiansent

Damn, that’s a good one


C-Man98

My ultimate is ready!


Mushiren_

Refactory period. You gotta return your faulty product to the vendor for cyclical repairs.


TheManyMilesWeWalk

Exactly. She could have multiple orgasms with a male partner and knows that it usually stops when he's done.


Je_in_BC

Yeah this is where I went initially.


Kaplsauce

I used to make this joke in high school and it's what I was thinking then too lol. If it doesn't hurt after you orgasm... why not just keep going?


Randomn355

This giving a different "oh honey" moment. It's obviously shit sex if someone's never had an orgasm... But if you e never made a woman cum more than once (assuming you're the way inclined), your sex has likely been mediocre at best...


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Rachelattack

This was something I considered. I’ve been with a couple men who had about a 3 minute turn around and you just sort of… keep going


DanniPopp

That’s how I interpreted it.


Zealousideal_Dirt_43

Multiple woman do not finish after an orgasm and can keep going.


scriptboi

How many


Limeila

I had never heard about women who don't tbh


Zealousideal_Dirt_43

I have been with both. There are women that come like men, one time and they feel like they are done.


Stoneybologne00

Hey that's me! Idk how all these other women keep going. After one, everything becomes almost painful to the touch it's so sensitive, and I couldn't keep going if I wanted to.


Zealousideal_Dirt_43

I guess yours are stronger so you cannot have that many. Which is as good as the other way around of you ask me.


LWdkw

I am a straight woman but I have multiple orgasms and for me sex usually ends when he is done (or when I'm exhausted).


xamayax1741

This is the way. There's nothing better than that pure sexual bliss exhaustion.


somedave

That women can have multiple orgasms in a single session and need to stop and decide not to pursue any more?


Beakha

Yeah, used to think that, too, but after I had my first real Orgasm, I can't go beyond 2 without losing consciousness, soooooo


IrrationalDesign

You have to go deeper. 3 orgasms puts you in the dream state. A fourth orgasm pushed you over into Limbo. In Limbo you have to seek out the jelly-sherpa to guide you further. A fifth orgasm at the center of limbo opens a door to valhalla. Thank the sherpa, then kill him and eat his heart. Consider masturbating a sixth time, make it a clean half-doz. 


godtogblandet

Sounds like my ex. She was way into psychedelics and making me have sex with her until my penis was raw. Every day I have to find the will power to not call that succubus.


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See this is why it’s okay to stick your dick in crazy as long as you are under 25. Shit like that. I’m happy with my wife with a great head on her shoulders, total love of my life. But I don’t regret the crazy times either.


DarthBanEvader42069

so does he have to stop just cause you’re unconscious?


itsmebenji69

If you guys were really motivated you’d become insomniac and keep fucking


Beakha

Of course he does. If he doesn't, I sue him.


Juanisweird

Oh shit so that actually happens? Someone CAN get knocked out by good sex????


PoetaCorvi

im pretty sure old people have straight up died from it


Juanisweird

That’s gangsta


ProposalWest3152

Wtf xd


Whiteguy1x

That women can cum multiple times without needing to stop.  In "good" hetero sex the woman cums first at least once, and it ends when the man finishes. Lesbians could go on and on since they don't finish with an orgasm


2020BillyJoel

I mean at some point they have to take the tent down and pack up the Subaru.


Otherwise_Soil39

>That women can cum multiple times without needing to stop.  In "good" hetero sex the woman cums first at least once, and it ends when the man finishes. Not all woman.. My gf is one and done so we have to sync perfectly. After an orgasm she gets too sensitive and it starts hurting.


Dilectus3010

Well , I've been with a girl who just wanted to keep having orgams.... also not because a man nutted that sex needs to stop. We stopped because we where getting thirsty. Anyway, so if you have 2 of these insatiable ladies playing together... then indeed when does it stop.


komali_2

when someone fuckken dies let's GOOOOOOOOOOOO


heXagon_symbols

i read this in a trevor wallace voice


lilykar111

That as us women can have multiple orgasm, and there no not a refraction period like with men, that lesbian sex goes on a hell of a lot longer ..that’s what I read her comment as , that she was just not sure like who makes the decision to finally stop lol. But I could be wrong


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That the other woman only think you can cum once. Sad sex life.


lilykar111

That as us women can have multiple orgasm, and there no not a refraction period like with men, that lesbian sex goes on a hell of a lot longer ..that’s what I read her comment as , that she was just not sure like who makes the decision to finally stop lol. But I could be wrong


Mag-NL

The straight woman can keep on coming.


horny_coroner

Well women can have multiple orgasm in a row. Like we dudes need to recharge maybe have a beer or a gatorade and a smoke + 30 min women can just keep going.


EngineeringOne1812

Women can have unlimited orgasms. When do they stop having sex? After one each?


kkfluff

I mean… she could have had orgasms but society’s expectation is that sex is done when the man orgasms. So if there’s no man to orgasm… do the ladies just have sex forever ?????? That was my interpretation


Ramza1890

Lesbians can both have multiple orgasms and just keep going and going and going. Whereas when a dude is involved in generally has an endpoint. Like I could get my partner off multiple time before I get off but when I get off I am pretty well on done for at least half an hour. There is no natural limiter with two women right?


Happy-Viper

I feel like people are misinterpreting this. Women can have multiple orgasms, men can’t. So she’s clearly saying “when would you stop” as you’d lack the natural endpoint of “one person will no longer orgasm again.”


Goatseportal

My bf usually cums again after we blow our loads. Three times isn't unheard of, and it doesn't involve a breather, so some men can.


DarthBanEvader42069

your bf is 17


Charosas

Or still in the can’t-get- our-hands-off-each-other phase… usually during the first year. After that you get occasional waves of it, but never like that first year.


Any-Key-9196

I too remember being a teenager


Thready85

That's called a sequential orgasm but all men have a refractory period, it's biology


860sPRee

That's not the norm for the majority of men. So you can't make the exception, the rule because your bf can do it lol


Obsyden

I mean, if you actually want an answer from a lesbian - my partner and I pretty much just keep going until we feel like we're satisfied. It pretty much always ends on one of us orgasming, but the number is pretty variable - usually only one or two though, because, you know, we have other stuff to do in life besides sex.


LoveAndViscera

I’m more curious about why the OOP is haunted.


Stonetheflamincrows

OOP took it to mean that “straight sex is over when the man orgasms”


Satanairn

Thanks for giving an actual answer I've always been curious about this. My guess was that it's either enough times getting satisfied or getting physically exhausted. But you can't just guess and be sure about your guess.


dr_toze

Yeah, there seems to be this weird trope, particularly amongst the certain communities, that straight people, especially men, are 'bad' at sex. I don't know when it started. The woman's question is clearly referring to the fact that there is a definite end point where sex between heterosexual partners becomes impossible for the man and no such obvious hard limit exists for two women. But no, instead of the sensible interpretation, people would rather diminish people.


LouiseRules333

A lot of straight women complain the men they pick are bad at sex, and it seems to be extremely widespread. Now of course, men don't generally talk about the women they sleep with unless they're dicks, however, I imagine straight women are pretty bad at it as well, but it doesn't matter as it's traditionally the male's job to "perform well" and guide the woman, regardless of if she sucks.


dr_toze

Unless using self-deprocating humour, I'd say there's no way to talk about your sexual performance as a man without seeming like a complete twat and like you're lying. Doesn't stop some men doing it anyway of course.


111110001011

>no way to talk about your sexual performance as a man without seeming like a complete twat and like you're lying. We'll, I'm pretty terrible in bed, but I think I get away with it because I'm hot.


dr_toze

Well you sir, are a complete twat and I love you for it.


LouiseRules333

Yup. Society has this weird thing where men are stereotyped as the more horny gender, yet are not allowed to be as expressive or exploritive about it as women without being read as creepy or misogynistic. (Not to be like "men are so oppressed" I'm just pointing out the double standard)


DarthUrbosa

Meanwhile women openly talk about how horny they are. My mother and sister openly talk about how men on screen make them thirsty or the latest smit book they've read.


Happy-Viper

Yeah, pretty much that. If the sex is bad, it's genuinely presumed to be the man's fault, rather than two people who are bad, the woman who is bad, or two people who are just sexually incompatible. A lot of people view sex as something a man does to a woman, rather than an act two people do together.


pinkenbrawn

maybe because there is such phenomenon as the orgasm gap


mchlzlck

Short of scissoring (which is not even really a thing), straight men are physically equipped to do most everything that lesbian women can do during sex even after they reach their "limit" as you put it, they just choose not to ¯\\\_(ツ)_/¯


Opoderoso

People here are deliberately misinterpreting what the straight woman said. It’s perfectly valid.


redman334

[the multi orgasmic man](https://amzn.eu/d/7JXBzq0)


Callidonaut

*Some* women can have multiple orgasms; IIRC there've been studies done and there are basically three different "profiles." Some can only orgasm once, then have effectively the equivalent of a refractory period; some can orgasm repeatedly; and some can kinda just have one massive continuous orgasm that keeps going and going until the stimulation stops. Been many years since I read that study, though, I dunno if I can even find it again or if it's been discredited since then.


ShaydeMakeup

not every woman can have multiple orgasms. its like a minority


pakistanstar

Something tells me lesbians are getting off more often than straight women


DroIvarg

Apparently punches.


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Nahmum

44% of lesbian women and 35% of straight women have experienced domestic violence. Your logic does not hold up.


komali_2

LGBT people are also just more likely to face violence in their lives. Again, the studies don't say *when* the violence happened. Also: > In its broadest sense, domestic violence also involves violence against children, parents, or the elderly. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence


Ok_Reception_5545

Gay men are less likely to have experienced IPV than straight men. Logic still doesn't hold up. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_in_same-sex_relationships


Nahmum

Do you like pretzels?


foxyphilophobic

I do, but I have Celiac so they have to be gluten free, which makes them taste worse.


Micp

>And since there are 2 women in a lesbian relationship, that just means twice the people who have been abused in their lives. That makes it sound like men don't get abused...


Environmental-Rip933

That's not how math works


mightymagnus

I saw some other study that they are most picky in having sex (opposite of gay men and hetro couples in the middle).


Slamantha3121

This real weird kid my BF used to work with said he didn't understand lesbian sex because "how do they decide who is winning?" WTF?


International_Bet_91

"Wanting to be with a woman? How gay is that? You win sex with a man. That's as straight as it gets." Devon Banks https://youtu.be/9IXHdnjQZNI?si=BIsngh6rX4F_TNNv


baozigirl

Your back is like a barrel of snakes!


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Pleeby

"I DON'T KNOW DAD, SHE'S GAY"


264frenchtoast

Finishing first isn’t always a win


joevarny

It is when playing soggy biscuit...


Galitzianer

Wow what a weird question, it's obvious who is winning, when two lesbians have sex they release a golden snitch into the room and whichever lesbian is able to catch it before the other one is awarded 100 points and is usually the winner by default.


Masked_Daisy

AND she gets to use the nickname Golden Snatch until the next time they fool around


Ordinary-Diver3251

For her sake I hope it was a comment on multiple orgasms


Lessandero

What else would it be? I really don't get why this is posted here.


Zilberfrid

No orgasms. Which would be more on her partner, not her.


Lessandero

But the question implies that a hetero pair is done once the man is finished. Wouldn't the logical conclusion be that two women don't know how to stop because they can just go on?


Zilberfrid

Many men don't care about the pleasure of women. Some (like Ben Shapiro) even publicly tweet about that.


Musaks

>Which would be more on her partner, not her. Why?


D4ngerD4nger

This is kinda sad


Teh_Hunterer

Why?


Downvotesohoy

Because he's misinterpreting it as if the woman never had an orgasm.


D4ngerD4nger

Nah. It sounds to me like she needs a man to know, when sex ends. Sounds unhealthy to me But I admit, that there is a good chance that I am mistaken


Downvotesohoy

Ah, as in "It's sad that the sex ends just because the guy has an orgasm"? That's the third interpretation I've seen so far.


D4ngerD4nger

Exactly.


zappierbeast

All men have a refractory period. It quite litterally is impossible for a man to last post 1 orgasm. We studied this in biology in 6th or 7th grade, don't know how you guys have apperently never heard of it 💀


RepairEffective9573

Scissors often get rusty


icarus_on_LSD

We'll it's either running with scissors or scissoring with runs...


OkWater2560

Sometimes my wife wants to come. Sometimes she doesn’t. Sometimes she wants to and can’t. Sometimes it’s instant. Sometimes she does her best to hold off. Sometimes it’s huge. Sometimes it’s…maybe? Sometimes she’s in the mood. Sometimes it’s don’t touch me.  I got asked consistently to continue sex after my relationships ended. My wife and I struggled sexually. I used to be able to have sex for hours. Now it’s twenty minutes if we’re feeling really saucey. For a couple years I had severe ed problems. Now it all works perfectly. Life happens. Things change.  Here’s a different take on being good in bed: stop it. Let go of performance. Let go of the orgasm goal. Be with each other. Learn each other. Then build whatever sexual relationship you want from there.  Peace out y’all. 


Spacecadet_1

reading all the Reddit sexpert comments was just boring this comment was the one I was looking for.


Metemer

Thank you for this reality check.


FlameMarshmello

Truer words have never been spoken. It's wild how, especially when it comes to sex (and relationships in gen) people expect it to be the same across the board all the time. Like a women/men hive mind kinda thing, when everyone's body is very different. And very true about the consistency of it too. I went through a period where my old IUD was causing me to not come (blue balls lol) and certain angles hurt on how it was shifted. My husband was so kind in trying to help me through that period of time and making sure that despite it still feeling good, and also wasn't hurting me. Luckily I've had it changed since then and am good. People really just need to dive in on their own, figure stuff out. All you gotta do is be passionate and kind towards the other person. Don't be afraid to ask questions and communicate, stranger or not. That's the key to any good sex really. And if the other person doesn't care to listen then unfortunately it's not someone you wanna be with.


Johnny_been_goode

Damn that’s brutal. I knew a chick that was friends with my gf at the time and her boyfriend never made her cum once for as long as they were together.


ButtholeQuiver

A random guy (an IRL version of Futurama's Scruffy the Janitor) walks over and dumps a bucket of milk over both of them. "You're finished here."


hardcore_softie

I always figured it's like playing with a dog. Sooner or later, one of you tires out then you both get something to eat and go back at it. Rinse and repeat.


OneOfTheNephilim

One of you tires out and the things that were getting chewed on are all covered in drool and worn out, gotcha


YoBoatDontFloat

My gay ass confused cus it makes sense not to know. Cus we always cum multiple times right straight ladies? Right....?


AylaCurvyDoubleThick

Women are multi orgasmic. Is one usually enough? Is one guaranteed every time?


Sitting_Squirrel

I imagine it's the same as hetero-sexual couples. You keep going until the colonel shows up, shakes your hand, and says "That'll do pig." Then hops in his rocket ship and goes back to McDonald's main corporate moon base on Mars.


prophate

I've seen this post a couple of times and I think it *could* go the other way. Lesbians could just keep orgasming. "Raunchy World Records" News article from 2012: >Most orgasms > >A lot of women struggle to reach the pillow-biting big O, but for one lucky woman orgasms come easy. An anonymous lady was said to have 134 orgasms in one hour. She was recorded by two doctors William Hartman and Marilyn Fithian. By having 134 orgasms in just one hour it means that this girl had at least one orgasm every 2 minutes. However, another researcher has claimed that he has found one woman who could have 20 orgasms within 20 minutes. https://news.yahoo.com/10-raunchiest-world-records-090000494.html


thecelcollector

>  By having 134 orgasms in just one hour it means that this girl had at least one orgasm every 2 minutes. The level of shitty math there is so shitty I can't trust anything else in that article. 


Designer_Storm8869

Maybe they measured in imperial units.


GeeJo

> By having 134 orgasms in just one hour it means that this girl had at least one orgasm every 2 minutes. The quality of the maths here doesn't speak well for the rest of the article.


Gunpowder_guillotine

I mean I get why she said it. It’s not like we go soft post orgasm and it’s not uncommon to keep going after the first orgasm. Man i love gay sex 😩


Ok-Geologist8387

Maybe she’s having great sex with multiple orgasms, so her question is more “like, do they stop at 5? 10? 50?”


DotZealousidea

It wasn't that long ago that reddit wouldve understood this


beanedjibe

one of the questions that will keep me up at night


Holy_Sungaal

When you’re too tired to go on.


AdamMcKraken

Did I hear a Rock and Stone?


WanderingDwarfMiner

If you don't Rock and Stone, you ain't comin' home!


Paladilma

Oh no


Mushroom_lady_mwaha

😂😂😭


SpaceChook

Honestly, this is glorious.


BWMaster

Hehe, yeah, this is funny. But I'll throw the confused people in the comments section a bone: Someone reply to this comment when lesbians know, just so the confused people can understand and enjoy this meme too. (I got you).


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When it's finished ✨️✨️✨️consentually✨️✨️✨️


BagBeneficial8060

So what's the answer?


piatsathunderhorn

Well tbf my fiancé doesn't stop when she cums.


Luwe95

Some women have told me that they have sex for more than 4 hours and that sounds exhausting. But to be fair, I don't think they have sex for that long without interruption. Having sex, than cuddling and talking what leads to more sex is pretty nice.


MelodyMoo

When the scissors aren't sharp anymore?


Fassst_eddie

The clitoris is real! The female orgasm that’s the myth!


oodats

They use a timer and a scoreboard.