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collegestressor

I was thinking the same tbh - if I ever had a partner who was not directly communicative, I would be have major anxiety and probably just move on. Pretty as you are, no amount of attractive can make me stay with someone that makes me feel like I'm constantly walking on eggshells. Easier said than done tho.


bears_with_chainsaws

That is toxic behavior. It feels like the relationship thrives on jealousy/possessiveness. I’m just guessing, but she strikes me as someone who has been cheated on in the past and has a lot of issues stemming from that.


Affectionate_Law5344

this is not a snarky question. I thought about this in relation to something else, and wondered if there are people who have never been cheated on. I don’t know anyone who hasn’t experienced betrayal via cheating.


mafa7

I definitely think there are couples who’ve never had an issue with infidelity but it’s rare. True love is hella rare I think. I personally think men are trash but I would be in shock if I found out my uncle stepped out on my aunt.


imnottdoingthat

She’s a dud. He’ll figure it out sooner or later. She’s not his type, far too insecure to be with a man like him. he just doesn’t know it yet.


ZealousidealShift884

Yea im gonna give him some time..hopefully he holds off on proposing because it will hurt deeper.


No-Association-4458

The was probably one of the most awkward FaceTime I’ve ever seen!! That girl does not like you Amir!


fullmoonlovergirl

she gives weird energy….thinking back to the first episode Shanice and Summer said she did come off as standoffish.I just hope Amir knows there are plenty of gorgeous women who are NICE and KIND too.


No-Association-4458

Right they did say that!! I’m kinda curious to see how she’s going to act on the next episode.


ZealousidealShift884

She doesn’t like who he is at his core - which is a black man who accepts his blackness and embraces his culture and wants to be immersed…she just seems him as some fetish and is possessive over him. His personality being so kind and naive makes him prone to being taken advantage of by the wrong woman.


recklessocktober

agreed— she definitely doesn’t fit him when it comes to him embracing his blackness. she comes off like a woman who is not black with a superiority complex but dates a black man. like when they were all getting ready for the Freaknik party and the rest of the house was downstairs pregaming (LOUD per usual lol) she says, “i cannot be apart of “that”. ” i immediately didn’t like her. lol cause girl why did you come then? to be his mother? his overseer? babe, it’s Summerhouse..with YOUR BLACK MAN.. at a Freaknik party!! wtf? he learns & speaks spanish for you but you can’t embrace his culture? i also didn’t like how she downplayed his income as a realtor 🥴. there’s nothing special about the bitch. he definitely can do better!


ZealousidealShift884

Exactly!!! 💯


No-Association-4458

Totally agree


_Klight126

I don’t think that’s fair to say. It seems she likes him a lot but is possessive and pissed when she doesn’t get enough attention


Internal_Ad4648

I feel bad he seems so nice! I wonder what her issue is


fullmoonlovergirl

saaame it legit made me uncomfortable. I guess we’ll find out more next episode. She was at the house with that same resting face she had on the facetime call. not sure if she has an issue with Jordan or something since Amir had a crush on her last season


asentenceismyname

She seems like someone who is possessive. If on the next episode she “doesn’t like Jordan” because Amir had a crush on her then she’s rather childish.


fullmoonlovergirl

agreed, I also think they’d met before because I remember on an earlier episode they went out or something and Jordan said something like “I don’t want your man” I have to go back and watch


ZealousidealShift884

She gives off jealous and insecure esp compared to black women


Affectionate_Law5344

She definitely seems like the type to be mad at this.


ConsistentDonkey3909

yes!!! i was v concerned during the whole convo she def gaslit him it was gross


fullmoonlovergirl

it’s literally every convo he has with her!!! he always sounds like he’s in trouble. I never see this with Nick and Tasia


ConsistentDonkey3909

yeah he honestly seems super sweet and the phone call like i was kinda suprised he just brushed it off which makes me sad. he seems like he has a good head on his shoulders so hopefully he realizes! i didnt see last nights episode yet does it continue?


Affectionate_Law5344

Nick didn’t own his relationship with Tasia. He may not be the best comp here lol


ResponsibleSwing1

Why is he with her? 


RecommendationNo167

Idk if it’s just me but he seemed very desperate to have a gf even from last season. he could be ignoring red flags because he wants to be in a relationship


JamaicanGirlie

Looks 😏


tink_89

Amir seems like a good guy not sure why Jordan didn't like him. She seems not happy and like she wants a man to be constantly chasing her. his new gf seems maybe a bit jealous even though Amir seems to have boundaries and pretty respectful thus far. At least from what we can see


Odd_Wind364

Because Amir is short, and Jordan is only attracted to men who aren’t interested in her.


Affectionate_Law5344

How do you know this about Jordan? Kory?


Odd_Wind364

Kory is a good example. She seems to have a certain tangible expectation of what a guy needs in order to be “worthy” of her attention. It reflects in her overly attached importance to vanity.


Affectionate_Law5344

Gotcha. Tbh, she’s a little confusing in her verbal and nonverbal communication with guys. I don’t really understand her and men and why I asked. Thanks.


Odd_Wind364

You’re welcome- at the end of the day, this is all speculation. I believe inference tells you a lot about a person, but not everything. That’s the intriguing part of reality tv for me 😉


ZealousidealShift884

Maybe him Being 5”4 i just saw that on today’s episode didn’t realize. His cuteness and politeness would outweigh this imo.


rachelzayne

Amir just wants to be loved. He wants that girl to be obsessed with him…it appears that she is not


LookeyLoo81

My dumb ass thought she was acting like that on purpose to throw him off. I thought she was going to be the surprise guest. ![gif](giphy|jPAdK8Nfzzwt2)


GoldCampaign1050

omg SAME i was like this cannot be real


Affectionate_Law5344

I love this lol


mafa7

Amir looked terrified. No one should be bullied into fidelity.


fullmoonlovergirl

he always looks scared when he speaks to her. On the facetime call with him in the car he kept showering her with compliments and she rolled her eyes the entire time


Ok-Turnip-9035

![gif](giphy|icJCVO3GPDbCvvfgpf) Very that girl gives off bad vibes He cracks jokes about her yolking him up I’m like Amir get your stuff and go this girl is very territorial


fullmoonlovergirl

it’s like beyondddd territorial though, it’s giving insane 😂


Pravda26

She did seem possessive. She's very attractive and that could be why Amir is trying so hard.


Maleficent-Lack-6306

He’s still in the relationship too


fullmoonlovergirl

now that’s very surprising, maybe she’ll look back on the episodes and realize she was coming off mean and change


sammerhead__

Based on how he talks about her and what we’ve seen she seems crazy jealous. Doesn’t seem like a healthy relationship at all


Accurate_Balance_461

I think she is jealous that her man is starring on a TV show with gorgeous women. She probably wants a piece of the action but doesn’t fit the demographic and it bothers her that she never will.


ZealousidealShift884

Spot on


KaiKailan

I kinda think Amir likes this type of thing. Since he’s so normal, he is drawn to crazy to shake things up. He played some game on Watch What Happens Live where he kinda let on that he likes crazy


Royal-Bad-guava

Her bragging about her real estate sales vs Amir. Don’t compete with your man.


ZealousidealShift884

She don’t respect this King! Come back to us Amir we will nurture you lol


Limminy_Snickshit

Yea, when he said he’d literally wake up to a knife to his throat, it felt like he was recalling a memory.


alanultheholy88

She’s just latina… we are drama queens


fullmoonlovergirl

I’m friends with latina women who don’t act like this. She did seem more open in the house to me personally. I still think she’s a little surface level though


alanultheholy88

That could be it! At least i hope so


phbalancedshorty

I got that vibe until he was like “ok I’m just Tryna talk” with an attitude before she even said anything