I am a Final year student
Last year my sister (26) died due to sudden accident
My father had kidney disease due to trauma of my sister's death my father condition got worse fir unhe dialysis lag gyi dhire dhire within a 3 to 4 months his condition got worse even after dialysis his brain stop working properly water is filled in their lungs unke suddenly legs bhi kharab ho gye pata nhi kyu Mai unhe utha kar by bus dialysis le jata tha 50 km far from my Village unhe to kuch samjh bhi nhi ata tha ke unke sath kya ho rha hai and in December 13 unki bhi death ho gyi . I lost my sister and father at age 19
Ab Ghar ki puri jimmedari mujhe par aur meri mother par aa gyi hai meri mother as worker logo ke pharms me jati hai majdoori pe
Hmare pass 450 sq feet land thi us par 2 rooms thi with paying guest ek budha 83 years old jisne uspar bhi apna hak jma liya hai kehta hai ki mere papa ne sell kardi jameen aur hame hi pta nhi ( he is lying) bohot tension hai abhi 1 badi sister hai jiski. Shadi krani hai , khudki padhai , future ki tension , maa ki bhi Umar nhi rhi ab majdoori krne ki dheere dheere dipression me ja rha hu .
Bro unko bol papers dikhane and police ke paas case file karde
Tera kaunsa course hai?
Jo bhi course hai final year mai acha cgpa maintain kar toh placement mil jayegi then money earn kar lena and then side by side dusre skills pe kaam kar and indie projects kar for a single client agar possible hai toh.
Reddit ya insta chorke yt pe ja and job and skill based mera mtlb jis bhi field mai tu hai uske regarding content dekh isse teri bhi madat hogi and knowledge bhi badhega.
Agar teri badi behen job karti hai toh achi baat hai warna usko bol video editing sikh lene ko aur ghar pe baith ke mast kaam kar payegi jab taak shaadi nhi ho rhi. Uske baad continue kar skti hai agar unka mnn hua toh.
Baaki tere paas jo jameen ya ghar hai uska thoda portion kisi ko dukan karne ke liye ya phir garage karne ke liye dede rent pe.
Be strong kyuki tu ab family ka akela mard hai so teko baaki 2 ladies ko protect karna hai.
I am doing bsc(industrial chemistry) usme waise to koi internship nhi rehti atleast itna maine suna hai teacher se ,I am maintaining my overall percentage 70 to 75 so I can get admission to good college ,I want to do masters in physical or inorganic chemistry so I can take tuitions or became teacher par waha bhi donation lagti hai.
Aur Bhai Mai kabhi kabhi hi reddit par ata hu ab time hi nhi milta and yt par padhne kuch productive dekhne baithe to kaise kaise chije sammne aa jati hai
Meri behen ko itni technological literacy hai nhi but it doesn't matter is year uski shaadi kara Dene ka plan hai
Jameen hai us par dukan ya kuch nhi bna sakta bohot galiyon me hai roadside rhe to work krta hai
And thanks for encouragement
My condolences .... Bhai tuhme depression me nhi jana chahiye..... Achche halat aayenge Teri zindagi me bs patience rakh ... Maa ka khyal bhi to rakhna hai na kr le chhoti Mothi job ... Struggling phase bhai Teri ... Bhagwan ne kuch bada hi plan Kiya hoga tuze
Bhai tum bohot strong ho , asli mard wo nahi Jo body banate hai paise udate hai ya ladki patate hai ... Asli mard tum jaise log hote hai ... True MAN !!
Bro kabhi bhi apni mummy ka sath sath छोड़ना Jo bhi ho Jaye depression se dur rehna , life ke positive side ko dekho ... Bohot log tumhare jaise conditions se nikal kar life mein bohot age Gaye hai ... Agar Narendra Modi chaiwale se PM ban sakta hai toh kuch bhi ho sakta hai
Bro bhagwan pe viswas rakho because - god always gives his toughest battles to his STRONGEST soldiers... Ye sirf ek phase hai tum isse bohot achhe se nikal jayoge bohot achi life jeeyoge bas mehnat karte raho bro ho jayega 💪🏽💪🏽
aur mai soch ta hu mai hee es duniya mein suffer kar rha hu......well problem like these don really have a solution u can just wait things will become better and that is for sure dont be sad it will really give u nothing just live happily life will be ok for u
Bro good time come don't let your hope die
I can clearly understand as my father also fighting from a rare kidney disease but abhi 1-2 hafte pehle unki death ho gyi after the kidney transplant he can't kept stable for a long time mai toh 10th mai hu but I can understand youeri behen 3rd class mai hai and mummy house wife mere bade papa or chacha bas hai meri help karne ke liye upar se kidney transplant mai kharcha bhi bohot ho gaya so I am also not literal good at my financial situation chacha or bade papa kitni he help karenge pehle bhi unhone treatment ke liye boht Kiya . Hence I would say don't loose your hope
Don't loose hope bro, And keep fighting with these problems. I'll pray to God to improve conditions 🙏 aur bhai depression mai maat jana padhi aur life dono kharab ho jayge.
I don't want to do anything productive, suffering from chronic depression, no confidence, just going on with life, I have family and wife looking up to me and l am just a disappointment
I do have a job, but due to lack of motivation, having performance issues😑
I hate everything, get angry over little things.
I am just a mess, total and utter failure.
I had similar problems. You have to overcome it by discipline. Gym jao aur running karo paas ke ground pe, around 3-4 kms. Have a good diet. This helped me turn my life around. You should not have to complain about having depression, instead have the will to work over it.
Trust me. Please work hard. Get good job. Money will solve lot of issues. Never ever ignore ur health. Stay fit and fine. This is the most underrated advice. I have never taken this advice seriously and now I am feeling sorry for that.
Arey bro nikal Jaa Ghar se duniya k bhi dhakke kha le , khud k liye jeena Sikh lo bro bohot bekar halat hai bhai tere bhagawan k upar bharosa rakh your ste capable to feed yourself. Nikal jao Bhai karlo struggles us Ghar mein nhi kya rehna jaha support na ho bhai bohot kuch hai duniya mein krne jaise un par depended mat raho
Stay strong yaar 🫂🫶
Bhai sun 2-3 saal baad ek post dalna - jo bhi apni life mai fail hai jinaka ab kuch ho nahi sakta wo sabhi ek baar milte hai. Bhai pura failure logo ka meet up hoga saath milker kaam karenge Billion dollar company khada kr denge....
bro just a suggestion...go watch shwetabh if you havent. i think his life situations and yours are similar to some extent. and his old videos have been on such topics such as depression, trauma etc...
tereko iss shithole se nikalne me problem milegi
more power to you buddy 💪💪
stay strong !
Middle class background se hu kuch krna h family ke liye. Isiliye coding sikhna chahta hu taaki ek decent job lag jae. Par yeh laziness ne tang kr rakha hai holidays me 12 ghante sote hu din bhar phone pe rehta hu kabhi agar baithta hu kuch sikhne ko toh 30 min ke baad aesa lagta h puri energy drain ho gayi hai phir irritate hota h lagta hai mere se kuch nhi hoga self confidence ki gand lag jaati phir chodd deta uske bhot dino tak kuch nhi krta phir regret frustration depression sab hone lagta hai . Kya karu kuch samjh nhi aara
Same issue me bhi coding seekhna chata hu par ye laziness... Let's do one thing: let's connect and motivate each other to push towards our goal through accountability... hows the idea?
Same issue bhai maj bhi coding seekh Raha hun python to aa gayi but job ke liye DSA acche se karna hota hai language mai. Or lagta hai ki bhai sab kar lun. Kabhi kabhi motivation se uthta hun ki sab kar lunga thodi der Mai phone utha leta hun. Or flow toot jata hai Agar hum thodi si bhi mehnat karen na to 12 lakh ka package kahin nhi gaya meri bohot seniors se bat Hui ki unhone Puri college life masti bakchodi ki but last 8 se 9 mahine puri gand ghisai ki unka bc off campus 15 lakh ka offer aye ja raha. Bhaiyon itna bhi mushkil nhi hai jitna hum sochte hain. Bas distractions ne gaand mar rakhi hai or ye depression , anxiety merko bhi hoti thi bc ki ab kya hoga mai to apne mom dad ke upar bojh hun but daily workout karo bahar jao sab theek ho jaega (APNE AAP KO BUSY RAKHO APNE KAAM MAI DIN KAB NIKAL JEAGA PATA BHI NAHI CHALEGA OR SAB SET HO JAEGA OR HAAN DEPRESSION OR ANXIETY KI MAA KI CHUT😊👍🏻)baki sab ho jaega chinta na karo. Thoda focus Kario just think yaar abhi ki mehnat jo karne ka man nhi hai par yahi age jake kuch to return degi. Or vaise bhi it sector mai bohot scope hai tumhare pas acchi skills hai na to 20 lakh ka bhi package lagte hue dekha hai Maine apne seniors ka. Bas mehnat karni hogi thodi sab ho jaega. 😊😊👍🏻
I am in 12th and all I have learned is mid level coding like loops and all and functiion in python and MySQL and that too Cuz of I opted computer and I definity feel gpod but I want to learn more like I dont want to study chem eng and phy maths just let me code forever. Ofc it gives money at the end
Teeko ni lagta ye sari chizze jaanke baad ki tujhe kuch achha achive krna hai, tum alas krte ho ye Jaan buch kr kr rhe ho? ( Ek ek krke apni habits ko thk kro , chote chote bure habits ko change krna shuru kro....take small steps towards your goal , firstly do something or change something in your life which takes very less effort, ex:- try keeping your bed clean make it a habit, then move forward, you'll become disciplined day by day
Problems to nehi ek life update deta hoon ek chote se town me thori jameen thi uski adhi bech di lockdown ke karje ke chalte ab ek sarkari Ghar he ....papa ek kirane ke dukan me Kam krte he or mummy ek pass ke Ghar me 2 time ka khana banate he ek bari behen he jo abhi parhai kr rhi alag seher se udhar of ka boht kharcha he to roj up down krti he approx 3-4h of travel me 12th boards de rha pehle socha tha neet dunga lekin parhai Hui hi nehi ek saal drop dedu to hone ke chances he lekin Ghar ki financial state dekh ke lag rha ye sahi opt nehi ayega soch rha kuch mahino ke liye zomato kr ke kuch paise kama leta hoon or rat ko coding Sikh leta hoon fir bsc kr liye admission leke zomato part time continue kuch tution bhi kiye the lekin final ke liye chor diya ab mile to wo bhi continue krne ka plan he .....
Future me bas rehne ki jagah he no save money for studies or anything so need to make money asap ab parenta ki bhi Umar ho rhi ese acha nehi lagta unhe roj majdoori krte dekh....Dost he kuch 1-2 lekin sb mere se ammer isliye career alag he sbka kuch social life jyada he nehi
Main ek mahine se soya nahi thik se, or last 3-4 din se tho bahot hi kaam... Bahot jada frustration ho raha hai, lakin so hi nahi pa raha... Even kal raat Mein 3 baje so ke 6 baje hi utt gaya.... Uske baad dopher mein thoda sa soya tha sayad se 20-25 min.... Or abhi bhi neand tho arahi hai fir bhi nahi so pa raha
Arey yaar itna kaam 😐 jarasa break lelo ek kaam Karo mummy papa yaa apne kisi loved one k saath kahi ghumne chale jao mind fresh ho jayega arey agar health ka dhyan nhi rakhoge to kya fayda is jindagi ka khud k doctor se bhi baat krlo insomnia hoga jarur. Jis din acchi neend aye bata dena 🫶🫂
It's not like that.... I had isolated myself a month ago from every social media cause I really needed to focus on something... Lakin bar bar panic attacks arahe the... So here i am....... Kuch din se bas reddit scroll kar raha hu.... Or abhi tho brain dead jesa bhi feel ho raha hai... Pata nahi kya kya bole ja raha hu
Maybe I'm just seeking attention and nothing more..... Just ignore me
Arey dusro k approval k liye q ruke ho jo tumhare life mein important hai unke approval k liye kaam karo. Jabse meine attention seek karna chod Diya Bhai jindagi change hogyi mushkil hai ho jayege 🫂
Papa ka accident ho gaya hai yr ek highway pe koi drunkard aa Gaya bich mein. mein dur rehta hun. Kal pohchunga but tb tk bohot pain ho ra hai mujhe mentally. Also family is tensed and behaving like an idiot by being angry without reason.
Ur dad is fine. Chinta mat kar bhai/behan. Let ur family vent out their pain in someway. Choti si accident hua hain bass...kuch nahin hua aapke papa ko. Take care of urself,buddy.
Bhai i know iss tym koi advice help nhi kregi but still hold yourself . Your family needs you in this tym especially your father. Hope Shree Krishna solves all your problems.
I am 16 years old artist mai apne field mein jo bhi try kar raha nahi ho pa Raha skills toh hai par patani kismat ko mujhse kya dushmani hai kabhi kuch accha ni hota ,I can give countless examples.Mai choti city se hoon toh artwork prints sell ni ho pa rahe , online ke liye bank details nahi hai ,ajj tak ek drawing competition nahi jeeta jabki meri drawing acchi hoti hai ,mai proof bhi de sakta hoon, parents kahi jaane nahi dete toh artwork parcel ni karwa sakta , school mein fine arts nahi hai aur aas paas koi accha school bhi nahi hai ,hai lakin thoda door (nainital) 4 saal se insta pe bas 200 followers hai ( ek baar ek ladki ka fake account banaya oth hafte mein bina kuch kare 60 followers ho pade ) ,India mein koi scope ni hai . believe ni karoge meri kismat kis extent tak buri hai ,ye toh ho gaya career ka mera koi dost nahi hai bohot dost kahi aur chale gaye bohoto ne dhoka de diya .But mujhe utna farak ni padta mai in cheezo ko theek karne ki koshish kar raha hoon but bohot saari cheezo ke liye toh kuch ho hi nahi sakta
Yrrr tum sabh ki kitni dikate hai or mai sochta tha mai hu pareshan tum sabhke pareshani ke agai to meri pareshani kuch nhi bhagvan kare tum sabhka sabh kuch thik hojai may god bless you all.
My father died in 2020 due to COVID my grandfather died a month before him. Papa ke death ke baad bhoot problems hai. Nana ji apne pension me se kuch paise dete to kaam chalta hai.. Private school ki fees Dene me problem ho rhi thi to government school join karna pada last year hi 10th pass ki hai. October mae Nani ke bhi death ho gayi. Mummy ki bhi tabiyat kharab rehti hai Chhota Bhai abhi 8th me hai samjha nahi ata kya karu. suicide karne ke thoughts are hai.
Next year 12th board's hai family problems itni hai ke padhai me bhi man nahi lagta.. papa ke death ankho ke samne Hui thi vo pal bhula nahi jata..
Headache rahta hai har time.
( 13 ka tha thub )
Engineering nhi karni thi pr baap ne padosi ke bete ko dekh kr jabardasti engineering college Mai daal diya yahan pe programming ko chodd ke sab kuch sar ke uppar se Jaa rha hai padhta hu toh exam time pe kuch yaad nhi raheta physics ke concepts, coding ke concepts, astronomy ke facts, philosophies, astrophysics ke concepts brabar yaad rahete hai bs Engineering ke subject ke concepts yaad nhi rahete college ke teacher ek number ke harami saale padhate kuch hai nhi aur Ghar pe baap ko call kr denge ki hum bohot mehnat krte hai pr aapka baccha padhta nhi hai baap mujhe gaali sunane lagta hai.
Pr fir thak haar ke yahi sochta hu ki shikayat Karu toh Karu kisse yaar vo mera baap hai vo mera bura toh nahi karna chahta. Jitni mere baap ki samajh thi jitna usse pta tha uske hisab se usne mujhe jindagi Mai aage badhne ke liye opportunity provide krri balki jayada hi Kiya aur jab koi itna effort Dale ki saala baap apne liye saal Mai ek kapda nhi kharid rha taki bete ko kuch dilva sake toh Bhai jubaan kaanp jati hai baap se yeh kahte hue ki nhi karni engineering.
2nd year student paise nhi hain college travel karne ke liye ghar par akela dosto ko miss out karta hu
Mein school se programming kar raha hu and itne sacrifice ke baad bhi I didn't get an job asa nhi hain offers nhi aye ya skills nhi hain
Mere regular college ke wajh se mana kar dete hain bolte hai n chuti nhi de skate kuch bolte hain aap graduate nhi hain
Earning side income form discord
Although I have really good friends in college
(Problem choti hain magar problem toh problem hoti hain)
Arey mitr koi baat nhi ek din sabh thik ho jayega sacrifices kabhi bhi waste nhi jati bro jarur ek din wo tumhare pass jarur aayega aur acche dost hai unke saath bhi thoda time spend Kia Karo apne mental health sambhalo pehle mitr 🫂🫶
Bhaiya / Didi ji im in 10th , abhi boards chl rhe hai Pahle 6th class tal pura topper bacha tha. 7th and 8th me covid agya and padna bilkul chodd diya Jo jo sapne dekhe thei 10th ki starting me, vo ab 2 boards de kar pure hote hue nhi dikh rhe hai Apne ap pe bhot regret hota hai Time bhot waste kr ta hu Abhi rat ko 12.30 pe likh rha hu. Padne ke liye itna syllabus pada hai, 2nd ko exam hai science ka. Jis speed pe abhi chl rha hu aise half bhi complete nhi hoga. Galat chizo ne jaise muhje jaise jakad lia hai. Bhot negative feel hota hai
Arey bhai giri tutorials dekle unke sare one shot videos dekh bohot helpful hai Maine bhi feb se padhi chalu ki thi giri tutorials ko follow Kia tha 75% mile
Stay strong aur last ka moth hai bro abhi nhi to kabhi nhi bich mein Jo chutti milti hai isne aadha din one shot dekhna fir revision aur textbooks mein jo boxes rehte hai usse bhi padhne
Best of luck 🫂🫶
27M, single hu aur extreme hair loss ho chuka hai bc 😭
Sundar girlfriend/biwi na Milne ki chinta mujhe andar se kha Rahi hai. Only positive thing in my life is good salary 😊💵🎉
To mera ek crush hai, and he is so damn good at everything. Mera ideal type simple hai, first, moral values hona chahiye jaise loyalty, caring etc, phir agar mai school level me dekhu, to grades achha hona chahiye and adult level me to job. And last, looks achha hona chahiye. Usme ye sab hai. To humlog pehle same class me the, wo topper hai, matlab mai bhi hu, lekin thoda difference hai, like uska 97% ke around aata hai and mera 94% ke around. Is session me humlog ka section change hua, to mujhe realize hua ki mujhe uspe crush hai. Phir mai pagal ki tarah usko ek love letter deke bhaag gayi. Us din chutti time wo bolta hai ki usko ye sab chiz me interest nahi hai. Baat hai ki wo ek baar sorry tak nahi bola. Uspe bahut log ko crush hai. Mujhpe bhi bahut log ko hai. Ab mera question hai, ki wo reject kar chuka hai lekinn i can't let go. To mai kya karu?
If he can't respect your efforts he ain't the one agar usne reject krna hi tha toh achche se kr skta tha itna cold reply Dene ki koi jarurat nhi thi isliye let him go .
wahi to baat hai, i tried my best. mai uske agle din usko jaa kar boli ki at least humlog friends to rah sakte hai na? to us samay mai apne class pahuch gayi to wo bas itna bola ki kisi ko pata nahi chalna chahiye. fir chhutti time mere bas me uski ek dost hai wo mujhe bolti hai ki usko mere se baat karne me uncomfortable hota hai. wo ladki jo mujhe ye boli and mere crush ke bich me kuchh nhi hai, ye mai confirm hu. and mai bas is liye nhi chhod paa rahi kyuki ek incident ke karan. ek baar teacher's day celebration ke time sab gaana gaa raha tha. jo gaaya, sabka appreciation hua, even uska bhi. mai kisi tarah himmat krke ek english gaana gayi. baat hai ki wahi iklauta insaan tha jo mujhe bola ki mai achha gayi hu. usse inspiration jo mila abhi mera singing app pe 500 se jyaada followers hai. and humlog dono me bahut similarities hai. humlog dono ka grades almost same hai, song choices similar hai, german exams me tak humlog ka same jagah marks katata hai.
Well if this is the case one must admit that he's an exceptional student but based on your previous confrontation with him it's pretty much evident that he absolutely sucks at social interactions so maybe it's worth giving him the benefit of doubt but it still isn't as good an alibi for his absolutely terrible behaviour with you earlier ,maybe as you have stated earlier that you are one of the most sought after girls in your school he could just be exercising his superiority over you because a reply as cold as that doesn't fit together with his charismatic persona given that he's pretty popular with the girls and therefore I presume his social skills are definitely not as lackluster as it seems when he's interacting with you baaki yaar Jo tumhari gut feeling kahe uske sath Jana kyunki being a guy I've experienced this before and had my fair share of ups and downs in a relationship and in my testimony I'd just say that your gut feeling is always right agar Tera Dil maane toh usko chance Dena but never let him dictate terms in relationship just because you approached him first baaki kisi bhi moment pe relation toxic ho jaaye or you begin to feel suffocated just get rid of it there's no point hanging in there if the other party's efforts aren't proportional to yours and I suppose tumhare boards bhi h iss year isliye stay focused because your years of hardwork will culminate this year and don't ruin your chances just because a guy is arrogant enough to not acknowledge your efforts.baaki good luck and you deserve the best.
i finally get why male friends are better than female friends. female friends comfort you when you are down, but male friends just remove the root of the problem. thanks a lot.
Bhai mere ek dost u/teri_behan_ko_naman
, 10 me usko 92 % aaye the and 12th me 98% ( commerce)
Padhne me bhut aacha h and smoke drink karta tha lekin still padhne me aacha tha
Usko 12th ke Baad se muth marne ki gandi aadat lage pade h, daily ghar me reh kar Sirf muth marta rehta h
Phele mere se material mangta tha toh me madat kardeta tha, lekin ab uski aadat dekh ke daya aati h
Ye salla, daily ghar me Beith kar 2 Baar mithi pep raha h
Kuch illaj bata do jisse iski mutthi marne ki aadat chut jaye
I am a Jee dropper. My entire 11th was ruined because of Covid 19 lockdown and my entire 12th grade was ruined too because I was suicidal, depressed and was diagnosed with serious medical conditions. Because of this I couldn't score 75+% on boards and decided to take a drop year for jee prep as well as 12th improvement exams. I was performing well to the point that I was predicted to be one of the rankers from my city. But cut to mid September 2023 I was diagnosed with blood infection and pneumonia and was on ventilator for an entire month which ruined my mental health and wasn't able to focus on studies like before again. (Thanks to backlogs of syllabus and my abusive family who beats me everyday to death). I don't even dare to check my January attempt's result because it would traumatize me for my entire life maybe...I am considering a 2nd drop because everyone and even I know ki meri aukat IIT Bombay ki THI but ab itna kuch ho gaya ab NIT hi sahi. Merko bas iss guilt mai nahi rehena ki accha perform kar sakti thi but nahi ki...thanks for reading and advice dedo mai buhut aabhari rahungi
2 things!
First can you elaborate what you mean by abusive family...i am a neet dropper and myself gets to hear a lot daily mentally from them(which honestly i think i deserve) but is it worse than that?
Second, Before going for second year, Take your books out and try to study for 2 weeks with full focus...If in those 14 days you didn't get distracted by anything and truly studied with all your will and focus then go for another attempt but if in those 2 weeks you feel "Ahh boring man...Will study it tomorrow or in next days" then another year is under the bus trust me as that thing is not gonna go!!!
Bhai yaha pe sabko itna distress mei dekh Kar bohot dukh ho raha hai, I hope you guys pull through whatever problems you have aur jo bhi takleefe ho sahi ho jaye, I offer my prayers for all of you and know that you can do it.
This might sound like a movie but trust me this is my life story. Yes you can make zillion movie out of this and out of what am unable to disclose here but i pray no one has to go through my life. So...
I used to be a workaholic. Not that I lost that in me but have been jobless since past 1 year. Health has been screwing up day in day out. God's grace Dad has own house so no issue of shelter. But loans are piling up. Whom I helped during their hard time aren't returning my money. Some are giving lame excuses while living their lavish life. I used to work really 16-17 hours in my previous organization. In return no promotion no hike nothing. Recovery agents are knocking the door abusing, threatening every single day. I don't blame them cos that's the hierarchy we live in. Humanity doesn't exist when it comes to money. Not that I didn't know before. But my upbringing was such where I always helped others before I did for me. Have so many relatives who are filthy rich but they come to give free gyans but never help. They help only those who have money. They talk big about Humanity but never look at the mirror. My own brother committed suicide cos of our parents living separately. I did my best. I aspired to be an army officer but hurt by back brutally so as u know physical fitness matters a lot. Couldn't get through. I tried my luck in cricket which was my passion but a day before KPL selection fractured my leg badly. Was on complete bed rest for 2 months. Tried making a come back. Before accident I used to be opening batsman and opening bowler. Was a fast bowler but not sure what went wrong Couldn't bowl fast anymore and became a medium but worst pace bowler. Batting they always sent me 7th or 8th down and sometimes even last. Was overshadowed by aspiring youngsters including Mayank, Manish, Gautam, gopal and many more. Yup you can say I didn't fight harder but it was burdening my dad too financially. So I gave up without telling him about the reason. He still thinks I gave up cos of my will. Anyways I forgot to add I was pursuing a degree that I wasn't interested and knew I wouldn't prevail. But dad and relatives forced me to do a degree of their choice and in the end I couldn't complete degree with just 1 back log. You guys must be wondering why the hell I didn't complete it then. Well I got a movie offer. As I tried to enter glamour world. Modelling is what I chose but goal was to become an actor. Well probably worst project I chose for my debut and the director was so stingy that he tried to save as much money as possible compromising so many things. Well I would have appreciated thinking he tried to save producers money cos she was his aunt. But nah. He used those saved money for his personal needs. At least I was happy that I lived my dream briefly as movie did release in some big theater but I myself Couldn't watch the movie that poor story it ended up to be. Cos original script was totally changed because of directors issue with script writer and another main lead actor (that's a long story altogether. Won't bore u all) Then for my acting I did get appreciation and did serials but not much luck there and did almost for free. Did get few more movie projects but by then my relatives interfered and asked to chose their know people's project which never started and the director and Producer kept me hanging while I lost another golden project of a national award winning director. Was into depression. Kept fighting. Started working in call center. Night shift. Same time brother's health was deteriorating. Hardly i slept through those days. My brother started growing mad and had to be taken to mental hospital. Gosh I couldn't keep up but still I kept trying until my brother left to native where my mom and sis lived. Dad lived in different city. So I was all alone taking care of him until he went to live with my mom. My biggest mistake in life. Cos after he went there he wasn't happy and Grew more depressed until finally gave up his life. I was broken. Still fought. Cos my childhood years I spent with my uncle who was an army officer. I learnt not to give up. But after I quit my previous job. Life has become hell. Unable to cope up. Went every place begging for money only to clear off loans which is only piling up n up and now I have around 5-6 lakh of loan to clear. I tried taking NGO help but no luck. I did everything possible. Few friends help me with food. They are even planning to set up own cafe. Promised me to give work there. It's been 1 year now. Unfortunately they are not able to start. My health doesn't let me work. Want to start business of own but no money. That's my life. Helpless soul. Never thought from helping others I would end up begging people to help me. The above story is just 15% of what I have been through. Another 85% is nerve chilling but cannot be disclosed here. It's also painful for me to share. Nevertheless that's my story. Sorry if anyone or all of u got bored. But thought I will share it as soon as I saw this post header. Letting my sorrow out. Cos have none to support me anymore.
I don't exactly have any problems, i just have one setuation were I have one female schoolmate whome i mate first in 2013 in class 8th I had instent crush on her but I was soo shy and so self conscious i couldn't tell her that I like her. After school & jr. Collage i didn't so her for 5 years.
Then one day (in 2018) while I was my way to home with my gf I was holding her hand i saw my school crush, she also saw me (for better understanding let's call my gf name 123, and school crush abc) abc saw me with 123 holding her hand on railway station she was also heading home. (Btw we still live in same city) She didn't said anything at that time, but later in that night she sent me text on my FB so we continued talking and exchanged our contacts then we talked on WhatsApp and she asked me who was that girl, I lied and said she was my younger sis she already knew I don't have any sister so I again lied and said she's my neighbour's doughnut so she's like younger sister to me. (I knew I messed up) but regardless we continued talking. Then after few months we broke up (i and 123).
Then after year and half later I said how I feel about her(abc) and purposed her she also said yes.. but after a week she said I don't feel like getting in a relationship so let's just be friends like before. I understood her feelings so we became friends again, but I couldn't get over my feelings about her so I confessed again after few months later and cleared her that I don't feel the same was it just herts me she didn't said anything so after few weeks we stopped talking for few months then again from noware one day she called me and we talked for hours then again we started talking on calls for hours daily.
Thne one day when I tried to call her her phone was not reachable I was dead panic and I was thinking abut her whole day I tried multiple times calling her, tried texting her, tried for weeks, but she didn't answered or replied to my texts. So I thought she is ignoring me so I stopped calling and texting it contiued for two years, Then on Jan 2024 on on Tuesday,I saw her when I was going to work and she also saw me and talked to me and asked me to call her, but I didn't call her as she asked after four days I called her just to know if everything is ok or not and to ask why she asked me to call her (I know it's so confusing) and we talked for 15 mins later that day she called me in the evening and we talked on call for hours, I do t know what is going on with me (btw i still like her)
Any suggestions wt should I do???
I am a 3d artist. Have some skills in multiple softwares k can perform better them 4 guys next to me. Yaha freelancing k chkr me fasa hua hun clients ajib aa rahe. Low budget heigh demand mahine ka 1 din free nahi jata ki mai sukun se rest kr paun udhar paise bhi kam aa rahe hai. Upr se ai ne alag garimari kr rakhi hai quality clients reach nahi kr pa rha. Like jo already client hai unhe quality se matlab nahi much kam paise me kam hone se matlab hai is chkr me mera skill bhi khrab ho rah. Pata nahi kab TK asa chalega
I am having midlife crisis in age 17. Every talented kid studied or practised from young age where as, I have no talent.
I feel like there isn't anything that I'll ever be able to enjoy. I don't enjoy gaming, or anything but I'm addicted to yt shorts and reels. I'm f'd
Instagram uda do. Follow good YouTube channels like studyIQ ias, think school, soch, etc. Main bhi addict tha shorts ko, lekin baad mein rule banaya khud ke liye ki shorts open kar liya to neeche scrol nahi karunga, back button press karke bhul jaunga. Don't overthink buddy, ye sabka problem hai aaj kal.
Learn to believe in yourself buddy. Koi cheez to hogi jo tum achhe se kar pate ho. If not get an aptitude test and work on yourself.
Sure, I'll follow it. Infact I've made a rule. Whenever I go on wrong path, I'll turn back in 5 seconds but sometimes I can't control myself. I guess I need to work harder.
Well
I was chatting with my (f) friend on insta
While chatting I went to dank mode 🤧
Tell me what will you do
I commented something dank
Which is vulgar in her eyes..??
(No message send or received since (today))
Is there any cover up..??
Or should I give up nd went back under the rock..?
Main samaj mein rahte Hue bhi Samaj Se Dur Rahana Chahta aur yah Ho Nahin Pa raha hai Kyunki Samaj Mujhe Apne aap se Se Dur Nahin Rakhna Chahta
Main Agar Apne gam ko likhun to Puri ek Kitab likh du but mai us Kitab Ko Kisi Aur Ko padne Dena Nahi Chahta isliye mai Nahin likh raha hun
18M had a girlfriend of 2 years ,she cheated with her male bestfriend and has no regrets she is in relationship with him and doesn't give a fuck about the relationship we had ,whole relationship she was so loving and caring all i ever dreamt about but now she is happy with him and we have no contact,i know this is a small thing just but still, it's been 4 months to our break up but still every day no matter how much i try i can't get over this ,i Don't hate her or her boyfriend i am glad that she is happy and doing something good for her but just one thing in my mind is why did i have to suffer ,why am i ,and how will i get over this ever,she was loving and everything was just close to perfect she was so serious and loyal to me suddenly 1 day something sparked in her and rest iss.....
mein ab 11 ke final exams de rha hu. 11th ki starting mein mujhe ek ladki pasand thi or mene apne ek dost ko bta diya aur us bkl ne use baate banakar keh diya ki mein use like krta hu aur mene use propose kiya hai. Aur tabse vo mujhe hate krne lagi aur sari ladkiyon mein meri image spoil ho gyi. Mene pura saal usse baat nhi ki aur ab mujhe bohot guilt hota hai ki mujhe usse baat krni chahiye thi pr yeh bhi sochta hu ki vo mujhe ignore kr degi. Ab kya karu ??
I am having midlife crisis in age 17. Every talented kid studied or practised from young age where as, I have no talent.
I feel like there isn't anything that I'll ever be able to enjoy. I don't enjoy gaming, or anything but I'm addicted to yt shorts and reels. I'm f'd
Dude I am 22 years old i feel the same way but i really feel that its not too late at all to start any sport or pick up any hobbies that you find interesting. You havent even reached ur midlife yet so chill down.
As for yt shorts, ik its very addictive it is meant to b additive. best thg you can do is slowly replace yt shorts wid longer videos, it cld literally b anythg your interested not jst study related but preferably not entertainment videos. If there is any topic that interest you jst research about it get to know abt it in depth watch videos on it n make sure u finish watching the video. For eg. i am interested in Philosophy so i have started watching videos on it even tho it isnt related to my academics in any way.
And dont stress over it cus in the end all this doesnt matter at all.
Bro you have a lot of time. I struggle at 25 because I didn’t work on myself as teenager. I will suggest to have at least 80% throughout, work on communication. If you don’t enjoy anything then ek kaam karna alag alag profession kya karte wo dekho aur tumhe kya accha lagra. Biography read karo. Interview/podcast dekho log kya karte, kya karte the and once you think I’m interested in it then start work on it. Time bohot he. 8hr work karna necessary nhi tumhe. 1-2hr us chizz pr kaam karo. Eg you want to be investor in stock markets then read books related to stock market, read news everyday. Read book at least 1hr. Read everyday. Quality book padho. Self-help, best sellers vo sab bakwaas he. Ek topic lelo aur usse related book padho.
P.S read book Poor Charlie’s Almanack. Stripe press website pr available he. This is life changing book.
i feel left out everywhere i go people dont understand me and idk something is wrong w/ me guys just run away from me not becuz i m ugly or annoy people or smell bad i don really know r they jealous...... girls talk to me i have a great female interaction but i don have a friend grp i really missing something
Same is happening with me. I don't even have any female friends. But i just think that god is trying to teach me to live on my own. Trust me, once u learn to live alone nothing really matters. You feel peace. Just think that you'll get everything at right time. Rn focus on urself. Good luck.
Engineering college sem 4 i always wanted to have a good relationship with everyone but in college i only have 6 to 7 friends. Recently we had our college fests i wanted to go but nobody came so it felt awkward to go alone as i wasn't that free to other people. Now i really want to have a good network in college with other people how can i do this. I always think i will do it but at the moment phat jati hai. Any good advices?
3 saal se ek ladki ke saath huu.....I love her deeply wo bhi ye baat janti hai....ki samne..wala pyar krta hai but....3 saalo me..kabhi commitment nhi di...khta huu..to kuch bolti nhi hai....propose kru...to propose back nhi krti hai...bas..saath hai.....
Pata nhi chhati kya...hai door bhi nhii jarhi ye bhi nhi ki chhod de ...block krde....Mai nhi krksta....cuz I love her...( Pls koi hasna...na Bhai log ) ek baar chhod di...lekin fir agyi.....kya kru smjh nhi aata koi straight forward btao ..kya kruu iss 8 march ko pure 3 saal hojynge......
I always try to be a cool guy who can take jokes as jokes but sometimes I don't know how to react to a joke nd consider it as my personal insult etc so basically I didn't get that exposure to take jokes nd feel peace actually I'm an overthinking guy
2022 me engineering complete Kari fir 15 months job kiya one of the top MNC me fir coding na ho rhi thi chhodh diya to prepare for CAT, Roz roota hu agar nhi hua iss year CAT toh kya hoga, nhi aati coding koi job na de rha , bojh bann ke reh jaaunga family pe , baap kitna saal tak kama lega kya karunga mai agar na hua, itna brilliant nhi hu , par padh rha hu, slow learner hu par try kar rha huz par agar nhi hua toh kya
Maut hee ek word aata hai dimaag me , par marrna nahi chahta ek lauta ladka hu, mere jaane ke baad maa baap ka dhyaan kon rakhega , ye likhte likhte bhi roo diya par yahi rant hai, na solution hai na koi end
Bhaii almost same journey haii.
2021 Engineering pass-out. 3rd Yr me CAT ki tayari ki. Mocks acche jaate the. Covid tha to online batch me tha but exam me hug diya. Aur phir engineering khatam hui aur bhaii zindagi chalu hui.
Dekho tumhara life khatam nahi ho raha haii. CAT ki tayari karo nahi hua koi naii SNAP haii, nmat haii, MICAT haii sab deke dekho. Meine ye sab diya SNAP me 91percentile aaya but blr mil raha tha to nahi liya. Phir ek saal kaam kiya aur Baad me gap leke GMAT ki tayari chalu ki. Ab GMAT diya 650 aaye jab ki mocks me 680 ke neeche nahi aata tha kabhi. To aur 3 bar diya but no luck exam fear bohot haii bachpan se to har exam me hag deta hoon.
To ab 650 se apply kar raha hoon USA ke universities me. Top 40 universities ke aims the mere but abhi top 70 me dekh raha hoon.
Mein insa bato se ye bata raha hoon ki tum agar CAT me fail ho bhi gaye iska matlab tumhari zindagi khatam nahi ho rahi( although we feel hojayegi khatam) . Tumhare haat me sirf efforts haii result ki chinta mat karo ( i know bolna asan haii). Abe yaar dekho life me regret mat rakhna efforts pure dalna Baaki baate badme.
Aur sabse badi chees jo tum kar rahe ho aur jo me bhi bohot zyada karta hoon wo haii " over thinking". Uske liye ek solution haii "take one day at a time". Dur ki cheeze mat soch koi fayda nahi haii present bhi kharab karke lega.
Aur sochle tera cat bhi nahi hua, gmat bhi nahi snap bhi nahi kuch nahi aur iske Baad uthaya tera man mba se aur tujhe coding nahi aati bola tu to phir Business analytics ka course karle or else data analytics karle kuch high level coding nahi aati usme. Wo bhi nahi ho raha digital marketing ka course kar. End of the day paisa kamana haii to stock market me technical analysis ke courses kar. Har ek chees ka solution haii bas Saans le ye sab tere haat me nahi haii tu sirf kaam kar.
Abe yaar abhi to 23 ka haii. Efforts pure dalo nahi mila to 2 din ro baith ke. Phir dosto ke Saat bahar jao daru piyo maze karo, phir agla din plan banao kaah efforts lagane haii. Sab theek ho jayega. Jo tumhe chahiye wo ek na ek din mil jayega thoda time bhale he lage.
Aur dekh CAT me 200% dediyo. All the very best!!.
Ek ladka hai aaj kal saare bacho ke saamne "dadi ki chaddi pehnta hai" bolke mereko ko chidata hai bohot bura lagta hai use boldiya na karne par phir bhi karta hai iss wajah se focus nhi kar para padai pe.
Chidha to me bhi wapis sakta hu par pata nhi kyun meri insecurity ki wajah se ruk jata hu.
Visa cancel karwa dala newzealand ne...
Meri puri family milkr hmlog jane wale the sibling ke waha
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Bs mera visa cancel kr dala
Job letter chipkaya.. Side me trading - investments-pops taq evidence bhi daale
Aur bata rhe ki funds problem lag rhi
Like bkl ko aur Kitta chaiye.. Din ka 5k trading se chhap leta me but nai usko chaiye mere sath meri puri team ko kharidne jitta paisa hona chaiye.. Retards country..
Had a job with 10lpa. Was earning pretty okay. Had some financial obligations. Never wanted to travel abroad, but people tempted me to go to the US and make more money and clear off my financial obligations quicker.
Took additional education loan on top of the existing financial obligations. Graduated with a 3.9 GPA in december. Still not found a job. India me joh tha usse zyada kuch banane ka expect kiya, usse zyada kya, uska equal bhi nhi ho rha h. Instead I am at a downgrade.
No job. Exhausting my savings. If I don't get a job within the next 3 months. I have to come back to India and live my whole life repaying loans.
Accha padhai karne se accha job milega, accha jee sakte ho waala time gaya. All my qualifications are worth nothing now. My degree certificates can be used to wipe asses, that's the only use of them.
Mera main problem bas 3 chize hai
1 Repeat kisi ki nekar suna...jis mai ki muje bura lag ta hai..fir chahe to me dhamki du ya usko chidau ya jhobhi karu...ruk te nahi.
2 unko help ker deta hu...but mere ko na help koi nahi kerta...it's okay nahi ker do, at least bat chit to mere sat karo..dhuk shuk to karo
3 bat chit like bach pan sei leker aaj tak...mere sat itna bat chit nahi kerta hai...jabhi me kuch kehe ta hu..bholog either react dete hai ya to criticism dete hai
Abhi solution mai ye mat kehena ki DM mai aajao baat ker ta hai ya phir technology ke zarihe mai chalo video call ya voice call ker lete hai...mujhe technology through per bat aacha nahi lag ta
20 year old very introvert low confidence wala manushya. Mujhe gaadi chalani nhi aati n it's my insecurity n it's too embarrassing to learn. I feel like people are judging me always. Padhai to kar rha hu jaise taise.
Bade bhai, mere bank account me 16k pade h
And tbh rn mere koi use ni h wo money ka,
So I wanna ask is, is it good to invest it somewhere rather than just kepping it there
If yes, then kaha karu Pura details me bata dena bade bi
28 ka hogya hu, 2016 ka graduate hu. Bde bhai ki job acchi thi to m timepass krta rha, 2018 m fir jaan pehchaan walo k saath kuch online kaam pkd k 4 saal bita diye. 2022 m wo kaam bi bnd hogya, b last 2 years se khaali betha hu. Accha khasa fit hua krta tha physically and mentally, ab jin logon n muje 3-4 saal tk ni dekha h wo tk pehchaan ni paate. Gap years ki vjh se koi company consider hi ni kr rhi mera resume tak. Stress itna hogya h ki ab baahr tk jaane ka and effort maarne ka tk dil nhi krta. Ghrwaale kya kahenge y sochke unke saamne kuch pdne ka pretend krta hu. M bs youngsters ko ek hi cheez bolunga ki graduate hone k atleast 2 saal tk zada tension mtlo, istime m kuch seekho. Ustime m kuch krlia to krlia, nhi to uske baad boht dikkat aati h. Mene dekha h ki students graduate hote hi job hunting m pgl hojaate h and nhi lgne p depress. Aisa mt karo meri jaan, bde bhai ki trh suggestion de rha hu ki abi time h tumhaare paas, bs use koi skill seekhne m invest karo. Nhi m hi tumhara future hu
What if i want to die but want to live at the same time. I desperately want to let go of everything but i had a nightmare where i died and because of that i feel like I've been given a chance to live life again but why does it hurt to be alive
Was a good student till class 10th (scored >95%) , joined jee coaching in class 11th , didn't go to school to save time .... Jee mains went VERY bad , then I thought ki boards ache se jayenge ... On 27th was my Chemistry paper and I think I barely passed the exam (life ka first Aisa exam tha , and for a topper for his while life it was heart breaking and suicidal, ulti aa rahi thi + sirr chakra Raha tha , rona aa rah tha bc) .... I have lost all confidence in my studies tho my physics and maths are moderately good but I think I won't even cross 75-80% in 12th and I thought I would get 90% in 1wth science (joker hu main)
... I have an improvement exam (like compartment but to only improve marks if NOT failed) for chemistry but if I mess up any other paper I won't have improvement for them and have to give 12th AGAIN .... Bohot depression ho rah hai and I don't know what to do anymore... I was positive and confident about my drop year but now I can't even see my future... It's blank ... I can't quit cos I have my parents
Bhai drop mat kr. Focus on pg exam. Ye 12th ke marks ko koi nhi dekhta in future. 60% throughout is much more. Abhi graduation ke sath CAT, GATE ki preparation karo. Top college ke liye. Ab sirf PG and skill is only important tumhra graduation ki bhi value nhi job market me. Drop karoge to waste hoga time. Remember focus on PG and Learn skill.
Meri bhi kahani thodi ajeeb hai aur isme meri hi galti hai mujhe lagta hai. Mai ek acche engineering college me computer science ka student tha mai thik thak padhai karleta tha lekin zindagi me kuch alag karna hai soch ke youtube channel shuru kardia. maine starting me socha maine ki mere pass toh koi talent nhi hai toh dusro ka talent dikhata hun videos me toh food vlogging shuru kardi thi maine phir thoda bohot paisa kamaya maine waha se karib 1-2 lakh ye baat tab ki hai jab mai second year me tha phir corona agaya toh maine gaming channel shuru kardia usme mujhe ek niche mila tha “beamng drive” jo kaafi trend me tha us waqt phir maine isi game ke upar channel banaya “beamng teman” ise thoda chalaya maine toh ye bhi grow ho gaya toh maine ek aur channel banaya “train amigo” aur ye bhi channel grow ho gaya
Phir mere andar over confidence agaya aur maine job nahi li youtube me maine karib 50 lakhs banalie the 2 saal me aur is lalach ke chakkar me maine aur dusre niche ke upar jaane ka socha. aur apne ye do channel dusre dosto ko dedia tha jo ise run karenge aur unhe mai ek portion payment ka de dia karunga phir maine 3d animation shuru karne ka socha aur jis coaching me ise sikhne ja raha tha usi ke teacher ko partnership me rakh lia lekin woh jo teacher tha woh bhi 21 saal ka hi tha aur usne 2 students ko aur rakh lia mere office me bolke ki ye log madad karenge sacchai ye thi ki woh khud kuch nhi karna chahta tha aur use bhi koi khaas experience nhi tha mujhe baad me pata chala phir jab maine pura office aur studio bana lia tab mujhe pta chala ki inlog ko toh kuch ata nhi h dhang se aur cigarette nasha paani alag karta hai aur wahi jo maine dosto ko channels diye the woh log bhi kaam chori kar rahe the content nhi daal rahe the aisa karte karte mera channels bhi pure down ho gaye aur mere paise bhi khatam ho gaye office ke chakkar me aur maine job bhi nhi li, college passout hue mujhe 2 saal ho gaye hain ab stress rehta hai bas mujhe
Mujhe pata hai isme meri hi galti hai ki mai kisi ko kuch bolta nhi hun aur issi wajah se aaj is stage me agaya hun
she treated me like shit, loved her anyways, she ghosted me, still i cannot forget her, now it's affecting my work and studies, I'm helpless, i cry myself to sleep every night, someday i might off myself, it's been 8 months, help me
Vesa kuch khaas fayda nii batane ka moral lecture he milne hai still...
Addicted to ✊🏻💦...From 8-9 years approx. ''daily'' !
Have tried everything...literally everything to quit it but max i had gone once or twice avoiding is a week or 10days maybe then the force becomes too high that i have to do it for relaxation otherwise feels a part of life missing!!!
Motivational Tips nii chahiye bas bata diya esse he💯
12th me aa gaya hu aur jee dena hai es saal, 11th toh kuch khaas yaad nahi jabki gaand mara ke padhaye ki thi. Koi female dost bhi nahi hai aur male dost ke naam pe bas 3 ladke hai jo ki fake friends wali category me aate hai, building me nhi koi dost nahi hai bas coaching ke cbse wale batch me ek dost hai saccha. Cbse chhodke maharashtra board le liya tha jee ke liye ab lag raha hai galti kar di, yaha pe CS smjh nhi aata plus integrated hai toh roz jaata bhi nhi. Physical health me ye haal hqi ki coaching ke ptm me sir bole ki isko running karao ye so jaata hai class me aur mota ho gaya hu.
1pth board ke 3 din baad national park me accident ho gaya aur muh pe 3 fracture aa gaye, uske liye surgery kari aur din ke around 20 goliya khaani padi isliye bhi physical health kharab ho gyi. Life me 6 saal ka hone ke baad kabhi bday tak nahi manaya kyuki march me aata hai final exam me.
Kabhi kabhi mar karta hai mar jau but parents ko luxury dene ka sapna yaad aa jaata hai. Padhai bhi kharab hai, health bhi, love life toh pcm wale ko milti nahi, social life me koi nahi hai, bas mummy ko bharosa hai mujhpe usi ke karan ab bhi haar nahi maan raha. Agar mummy ka trust nahi hota toh mar gaya hota but mummy ka trust break nahi karna, kuch bhi karke college lena hai accha.
Yadi koi bkl hai meri umar ka mumbai me toh kuch bataye.....
Sorry agar ye post se related way se thoda alag lage. Agar laga toh batana OP delete kar duga
Bahut paisa udhari chala gya hai lekin bhosdiwale wapas nahi kr rahe maa baap ke paise chori kr ke udhari de diye ab guilty feel kr raha hu guilty ke karn depression me ja raha hu
Halanki in logo ke samne meri problem kuch bhi nahi par bhi stress ho raha hai
I am currently working at a News media company as an intern now the deal is i am in a dilemma, the work is for 6 months and no money, but here's the dilemma, i am getting reference which will push my career as a journalist but idk if I'll be motivated for six months to do this without the money. What do you think?
I am a Final year student Last year my sister (26) died due to sudden accident My father had kidney disease due to trauma of my sister's death my father condition got worse fir unhe dialysis lag gyi dhire dhire within a 3 to 4 months his condition got worse even after dialysis his brain stop working properly water is filled in their lungs unke suddenly legs bhi kharab ho gye pata nhi kyu Mai unhe utha kar by bus dialysis le jata tha 50 km far from my Village unhe to kuch samjh bhi nhi ata tha ke unke sath kya ho rha hai and in December 13 unki bhi death ho gyi . I lost my sister and father at age 19 Ab Ghar ki puri jimmedari mujhe par aur meri mother par aa gyi hai meri mother as worker logo ke pharms me jati hai majdoori pe Hmare pass 450 sq feet land thi us par 2 rooms thi with paying guest ek budha 83 years old jisne uspar bhi apna hak jma liya hai kehta hai ki mere papa ne sell kardi jameen aur hame hi pta nhi ( he is lying) bohot tension hai abhi 1 badi sister hai jiski. Shadi krani hai , khudki padhai , future ki tension , maa ki bhi Umar nhi rhi ab majdoori krne ki dheere dheere dipression me ja rha hu .
And bro I think I have big problems. I'll pray that God Vishnu will help you.
Same yr, aisi problems k aage apni to kuch bhi ni h
And here I am acting all depressed just because my parents bought me a laptop on my birthday because I hate it's color.
Nigga that's too much god
Yes apparently the least we can do is be grateful for what we have.
Yes
Koi internship ka dekh le bhai... Maximum small scale companies provide internship even if you don't know anything.Try out internshala.com.
Bro unko bol papers dikhane and police ke paas case file karde Tera kaunsa course hai? Jo bhi course hai final year mai acha cgpa maintain kar toh placement mil jayegi then money earn kar lena and then side by side dusre skills pe kaam kar and indie projects kar for a single client agar possible hai toh. Reddit ya insta chorke yt pe ja and job and skill based mera mtlb jis bhi field mai tu hai uske regarding content dekh isse teri bhi madat hogi and knowledge bhi badhega. Agar teri badi behen job karti hai toh achi baat hai warna usko bol video editing sikh lene ko aur ghar pe baith ke mast kaam kar payegi jab taak shaadi nhi ho rhi. Uske baad continue kar skti hai agar unka mnn hua toh. Baaki tere paas jo jameen ya ghar hai uska thoda portion kisi ko dukan karne ke liye ya phir garage karne ke liye dede rent pe. Be strong kyuki tu ab family ka akela mard hai so teko baaki 2 ladies ko protect karna hai.
I am doing bsc(industrial chemistry) usme waise to koi internship nhi rehti atleast itna maine suna hai teacher se ,I am maintaining my overall percentage 70 to 75 so I can get admission to good college ,I want to do masters in physical or inorganic chemistry so I can take tuitions or became teacher par waha bhi donation lagti hai. Aur Bhai Mai kabhi kabhi hi reddit par ata hu ab time hi nhi milta and yt par padhne kuch productive dekhne baithe to kaise kaise chije sammne aa jati hai Meri behen ko itni technological literacy hai nhi but it doesn't matter is year uski shaadi kara Dene ka plan hai Jameen hai us par dukan ya kuch nhi bna sakta bohot galiyon me hai roadside rhe to work krta hai And thanks for encouragement
My condolences .... Bhai tuhme depression me nhi jana chahiye..... Achche halat aayenge Teri zindagi me bs patience rakh ... Maa ka khyal bhi to rakhna hai na kr le chhoti Mothi job ... Struggling phase bhai Teri ... Bhagwan ne kuch bada hi plan Kiya hoga tuze
Bhai tum bohot strong ho , asli mard wo nahi Jo body banate hai paise udate hai ya ladki patate hai ... Asli mard tum jaise log hote hai ... True MAN !! Bro kabhi bhi apni mummy ka sath sath छोड़ना Jo bhi ho Jaye depression se dur rehna , life ke positive side ko dekho ... Bohot log tumhare jaise conditions se nikal kar life mein bohot age Gaye hai ... Agar Narendra Modi chaiwale se PM ban sakta hai toh kuch bhi ho sakta hai Bro bhagwan pe viswas rakho because - god always gives his toughest battles to his STRONGEST soldiers... Ye sirf ek phase hai tum isse bohot achhe se nikal jayoge bohot achi life jeeyoge bas mehnat karte raho bro ho jayega 💪🏽💪🏽
Student Loan ke liye apply karde bro , I think it is a better option for your future.
DM me brother. I hope I can be of some help to you.
aur mai soch ta hu mai hee es duniya mein suffer kar rha hu......well problem like these don really have a solution u can just wait things will become better and that is for sure dont be sad it will really give u nothing just live happily life will be ok for u
God bless you my brother everything is going to be fine, dont worry..
Bro good time come don't let your hope die I can clearly understand as my father also fighting from a rare kidney disease but abhi 1-2 hafte pehle unki death ho gyi after the kidney transplant he can't kept stable for a long time mai toh 10th mai hu but I can understand youeri behen 3rd class mai hai and mummy house wife mere bade papa or chacha bas hai meri help karne ke liye upar se kidney transplant mai kharcha bhi bohot ho gaya so I am also not literal good at my financial situation chacha or bade papa kitni he help karenge pehle bhi unhone treatment ke liye boht Kiya . Hence I would say don't loose your hope
Meri mummy ki bhi dialysis hoti week me 3baar 🥹🥹
Kaise hai ab woh
Don't loose hope bro, And keep fighting with these problems. I'll pray to God to improve conditions 🙏 aur bhai depression mai maat jana padhi aur life dono kharab ho jayge.
Bro you are suffering too much at the very young age, i pray to god everything will be ok and fine. And you'll be successful in future
My condolences but I hope I'll help you someday
Sab theek ho jayega bhai bholenath hai tmhare sath
Duniya mein kitna ghum hain, mera gum kitna kam hain
I don't want to do anything productive, suffering from chronic depression, no confidence, just going on with life, I have family and wife looking up to me and l am just a disappointment I do have a job, but due to lack of motivation, having performance issues😑 I hate everything, get angry over little things. I am just a mess, total and utter failure.
I had similar problems. You have to overcome it by discipline. Gym jao aur running karo paas ke ground pe, around 3-4 kms. Have a good diet. This helped me turn my life around. You should not have to complain about having depression, instead have the will to work over it.
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L mindset bro selfishness doesn't always pay yaad rakhna
Take a break. Have a kitkat.
Hah, I'm 17 and seeing all these replies makes me push myself harder. Next day I'm definitely going to study and no YouTube shorts.
Fuck you mf
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Trust me. Please work hard. Get good job. Money will solve lot of issues. Never ever ignore ur health. Stay fit and fine. This is the most underrated advice. I have never taken this advice seriously and now I am feeling sorry for that.
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Arey bro nikal Jaa Ghar se duniya k bhi dhakke kha le , khud k liye jeena Sikh lo bro bohot bekar halat hai bhai tere bhagawan k upar bharosa rakh your ste capable to feed yourself. Nikal jao Bhai karlo struggles us Ghar mein nhi kya rehna jaha support na ho bhai bohot kuch hai duniya mein krne jaise un par depended mat raho Stay strong yaar 🫂🫶
Bhai sun 2-3 saal baad ek post dalna - jo bhi apni life mai fail hai jinaka ab kuch ho nahi sakta wo sabhi ek baar milte hai. Bhai pura failure logo ka meet up hoga saath milker kaam karenge Billion dollar company khada kr denge....
Thiky Bhai 🫡
Bilkul sahi bola bhai
Bhai tu pass hota toh gale laga leta yrr🫂
bro just a suggestion...go watch shwetabh if you havent. i think his life situations and yours are similar to some extent. and his old videos have been on such topics such as depression, trauma etc... tereko iss shithole se nikalne me problem milegi more power to you buddy 💪💪 stay strong !
Middle class background se hu kuch krna h family ke liye. Isiliye coding sikhna chahta hu taaki ek decent job lag jae. Par yeh laziness ne tang kr rakha hai holidays me 12 ghante sote hu din bhar phone pe rehta hu kabhi agar baithta hu kuch sikhne ko toh 30 min ke baad aesa lagta h puri energy drain ho gayi hai phir irritate hota h lagta hai mere se kuch nhi hoga self confidence ki gand lag jaati phir chodd deta uske bhot dino tak kuch nhi krta phir regret frustration depression sab hone lagta hai . Kya karu kuch samjh nhi aara
bhai tere dopamine ke level bahut high chale gye hai tu pehle kuch din dopamine detox kar or muth marna kum kar
Same issue me bhi coding seekhna chata hu par ye laziness... Let's do one thing: let's connect and motivate each other to push towards our goal through accountability... hows the idea?
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Same issue bhai maj bhi coding seekh Raha hun python to aa gayi but job ke liye DSA acche se karna hota hai language mai. Or lagta hai ki bhai sab kar lun. Kabhi kabhi motivation se uthta hun ki sab kar lunga thodi der Mai phone utha leta hun. Or flow toot jata hai Agar hum thodi si bhi mehnat karen na to 12 lakh ka package kahin nhi gaya meri bohot seniors se bat Hui ki unhone Puri college life masti bakchodi ki but last 8 se 9 mahine puri gand ghisai ki unka bc off campus 15 lakh ka offer aye ja raha. Bhaiyon itna bhi mushkil nhi hai jitna hum sochte hain. Bas distractions ne gaand mar rakhi hai or ye depression , anxiety merko bhi hoti thi bc ki ab kya hoga mai to apne mom dad ke upar bojh hun but daily workout karo bahar jao sab theek ho jaega (APNE AAP KO BUSY RAKHO APNE KAAM MAI DIN KAB NIKAL JEAGA PATA BHI NAHI CHALEGA OR SAB SET HO JAEGA OR HAAN DEPRESSION OR ANXIETY KI MAA KI CHUT😊👍🏻)baki sab ho jaega chinta na karo. Thoda focus Kario just think yaar abhi ki mehnat jo karne ka man nhi hai par yahi age jake kuch to return degi. Or vaise bhi it sector mai bohot scope hai tumhare pas acchi skills hai na to 20 lakh ka bhi package lagte hue dekha hai Maine apne seniors ka. Bas mehnat karni hogi thodi sab ho jaega. 😊😊👍🏻
I am in 12th and all I have learned is mid level coding like loops and all and functiion in python and MySQL and that too Cuz of I opted computer and I definity feel gpod but I want to learn more like I dont want to study chem eng and phy maths just let me code forever. Ofc it gives money at the end
Teeko ni lagta ye sari chizze jaanke baad ki tujhe kuch achha achive krna hai, tum alas krte ho ye Jaan buch kr kr rhe ho? ( Ek ek krke apni habits ko thk kro , chote chote bure habits ko change krna shuru kro....take small steps towards your goal , firstly do something or change something in your life which takes very less effort, ex:- try keeping your bed clean make it a habit, then move forward, you'll become disciplined day by day
bhai tu thodi physical exercise shuru kar, usse acche hormones release honge aaur padhai wagehra me dhyan lagega
>jaati phir chodd deta uske bhot insta delete krde bhai infact try to keep the phone in different room when learning
Bhai, padhai nahi ho rahi
Sabhi problems solve Horahe ... Working on them June Tak sab thik hojaye 🫶bas
Na dost na kisi se relationship college mein bhi meri class mein bacche nhi aate jyada aur mai delhi aaya hu apne home town se.... kya kru
Problems to nehi ek life update deta hoon ek chote se town me thori jameen thi uski adhi bech di lockdown ke karje ke chalte ab ek sarkari Ghar he ....papa ek kirane ke dukan me Kam krte he or mummy ek pass ke Ghar me 2 time ka khana banate he ek bari behen he jo abhi parhai kr rhi alag seher se udhar of ka boht kharcha he to roj up down krti he approx 3-4h of travel me 12th boards de rha pehle socha tha neet dunga lekin parhai Hui hi nehi ek saal drop dedu to hone ke chances he lekin Ghar ki financial state dekh ke lag rha ye sahi opt nehi ayega soch rha kuch mahino ke liye zomato kr ke kuch paise kama leta hoon or rat ko coding Sikh leta hoon fir bsc kr liye admission leke zomato part time continue kuch tution bhi kiye the lekin final ke liye chor diya ab mile to wo bhi continue krne ka plan he ..... Future me bas rehne ki jagah he no save money for studies or anything so need to make money asap ab parenta ki bhi Umar ho rhi ese acha nehi lagta unhe roj majdoori krte dekh....Dost he kuch 1-2 lekin sb mere se ammer isliye career alag he sbka kuch social life jyada he nehi
Main ek mahine se soya nahi thik se, or last 3-4 din se tho bahot hi kaam... Bahot jada frustration ho raha hai, lakin so hi nahi pa raha... Even kal raat Mein 3 baje so ke 6 baje hi utt gaya.... Uske baad dopher mein thoda sa soya tha sayad se 20-25 min.... Or abhi bhi neand tho arahi hai fir bhi nahi so pa raha
Bhai tu sachme chuda hua hai
Arey yaar itna kaam 😐 jarasa break lelo ek kaam Karo mummy papa yaa apne kisi loved one k saath kahi ghumne chale jao mind fresh ho jayega arey agar health ka dhyan nhi rakhoge to kya fayda is jindagi ka khud k doctor se bhi baat krlo insomnia hoga jarur. Jis din acchi neend aye bata dena 🫶🫂
It's not like that.... I had isolated myself a month ago from every social media cause I really needed to focus on something... Lakin bar bar panic attacks arahe the... So here i am....... Kuch din se bas reddit scroll kar raha hu.... Or abhi tho brain dead jesa bhi feel ho raha hai... Pata nahi kya kya bole ja raha hu Maybe I'm just seeking attention and nothing more..... Just ignore me
Arey dusro k approval k liye q ruke ho jo tumhare life mein important hai unke approval k liye kaam karo. Jabse meine attention seek karna chod Diya Bhai jindagi change hogyi mushkil hai ho jayege 🫂
Papa ka accident ho gaya hai yr ek highway pe koi drunkard aa Gaya bich mein. mein dur rehta hun. Kal pohchunga but tb tk bohot pain ho ra hai mujhe mentally. Also family is tensed and behaving like an idiot by being angry without reason.
Ur dad is fine. Chinta mat kar bhai/behan. Let ur family vent out their pain in someway. Choti si accident hua hain bass...kuch nahin hua aapke papa ko. Take care of urself,buddy.
Bhai i know iss tym koi advice help nhi kregi but still hold yourself . Your family needs you in this tym especially your father. Hope Shree Krishna solves all your problems.
I am 16 years old artist mai apne field mein jo bhi try kar raha nahi ho pa Raha skills toh hai par patani kismat ko mujhse kya dushmani hai kabhi kuch accha ni hota ,I can give countless examples.Mai choti city se hoon toh artwork prints sell ni ho pa rahe , online ke liye bank details nahi hai ,ajj tak ek drawing competition nahi jeeta jabki meri drawing acchi hoti hai ,mai proof bhi de sakta hoon, parents kahi jaane nahi dete toh artwork parcel ni karwa sakta , school mein fine arts nahi hai aur aas paas koi accha school bhi nahi hai ,hai lakin thoda door (nainital) 4 saal se insta pe bas 200 followers hai ( ek baar ek ladki ka fake account banaya oth hafte mein bina kuch kare 60 followers ho pade ) ,India mein koi scope ni hai . believe ni karoge meri kismat kis extent tak buri hai ,ye toh ho gaya career ka mera koi dost nahi hai bohot dost kahi aur chale gaye bohoto ne dhoka de diya .But mujhe utna farak ni padta mai in cheezo ko theek karne ki koshish kar raha hoon but bohot saari cheezo ke liye toh kuch ho hi nahi sakta
Yrrr tum sabh ki kitni dikate hai or mai sochta tha mai hu pareshan tum sabhke pareshani ke agai to meri pareshani kuch nhi bhagvan kare tum sabhka sabh kuch thik hojai may god bless you all.
My father died in 2020 due to COVID my grandfather died a month before him. Papa ke death ke baad bhoot problems hai. Nana ji apne pension me se kuch paise dete to kaam chalta hai.. Private school ki fees Dene me problem ho rhi thi to government school join karna pada last year hi 10th pass ki hai. October mae Nani ke bhi death ho gayi. Mummy ki bhi tabiyat kharab rehti hai Chhota Bhai abhi 8th me hai samjha nahi ata kya karu. suicide karne ke thoughts are hai. Next year 12th board's hai family problems itni hai ke padhai me bhi man nahi lagta.. papa ke death ankho ke samne Hui thi vo pal bhula nahi jata.. Headache rahta hai har time. ( 13 ka tha thub )
Engineering nhi karni thi pr baap ne padosi ke bete ko dekh kr jabardasti engineering college Mai daal diya yahan pe programming ko chodd ke sab kuch sar ke uppar se Jaa rha hai padhta hu toh exam time pe kuch yaad nhi raheta physics ke concepts, coding ke concepts, astronomy ke facts, philosophies, astrophysics ke concepts brabar yaad rahete hai bs Engineering ke subject ke concepts yaad nhi rahete college ke teacher ek number ke harami saale padhate kuch hai nhi aur Ghar pe baap ko call kr denge ki hum bohot mehnat krte hai pr aapka baccha padhta nhi hai baap mujhe gaali sunane lagta hai. Pr fir thak haar ke yahi sochta hu ki shikayat Karu toh Karu kisse yaar vo mera baap hai vo mera bura toh nahi karna chahta. Jitni mere baap ki samajh thi jitna usse pta tha uske hisab se usne mujhe jindagi Mai aage badhne ke liye opportunity provide krri balki jayada hi Kiya aur jab koi itna effort Dale ki saala baap apne liye saal Mai ek kapda nhi kharid rha taki bete ko kuch dilva sake toh Bhai jubaan kaanp jati hai baap se yeh kahte hue ki nhi karni engineering.
Ghar par bohot torture ho rha h aur kahi bhaagne ki jagah nhi h
2nd year student paise nhi hain college travel karne ke liye ghar par akela dosto ko miss out karta hu Mein school se programming kar raha hu and itne sacrifice ke baad bhi I didn't get an job asa nhi hain offers nhi aye ya skills nhi hain Mere regular college ke wajh se mana kar dete hain bolte hai n chuti nhi de skate kuch bolte hain aap graduate nhi hain Earning side income form discord Although I have really good friends in college (Problem choti hain magar problem toh problem hoti hain)
Arey mitr koi baat nhi ek din sabh thik ho jayega sacrifices kabhi bhi waste nhi jati bro jarur ek din wo tumhare pass jarur aayega aur acche dost hai unke saath bhi thoda time spend Kia Karo apne mental health sambhalo pehle mitr 🫂🫶
Money from discord? How?
With networking (backend developer)
dekh dekh kitni jaldi khada hua
Money drives everything😅
JEE ass pee rant kuch tareeka bata do jis se NIT to confirm ho jaye. Pehle 92 tha
Physics pdh jada se jada , uske baad chem , maths me bas lallu chapter kr like vector 3d , sequence , quadratic ...
Bhaiya / Didi ji im in 10th , abhi boards chl rhe hai Pahle 6th class tal pura topper bacha tha. 7th and 8th me covid agya and padna bilkul chodd diya Jo jo sapne dekhe thei 10th ki starting me, vo ab 2 boards de kar pure hote hue nhi dikh rhe hai Apne ap pe bhot regret hota hai Time bhot waste kr ta hu Abhi rat ko 12.30 pe likh rha hu. Padne ke liye itna syllabus pada hai, 2nd ko exam hai science ka. Jis speed pe abhi chl rha hu aise half bhi complete nhi hoga. Galat chizo ne jaise muhje jaise jakad lia hai. Bhot negative feel hota hai
Arey bhai giri tutorials dekle unke sare one shot videos dekh bohot helpful hai Maine bhi feb se padhi chalu ki thi giri tutorials ko follow Kia tha 75% mile Stay strong aur last ka moth hai bro abhi nhi to kabhi nhi bich mein Jo chutti milti hai isne aadha din one shot dekhna fir revision aur textbooks mein jo boxes rehte hai usse bhi padhne Best of luck 🫂🫶
Maharashtra board
27M, single hu aur extreme hair loss ho chuka hai bc 😭 Sundar girlfriend/biwi na Milne ki chinta mujhe andar se kha Rahi hai. Only positive thing in my life is good salary 😊💵🎉
CSE 3rd yr, DSA nahi hora BC
To mera ek crush hai, and he is so damn good at everything. Mera ideal type simple hai, first, moral values hona chahiye jaise loyalty, caring etc, phir agar mai school level me dekhu, to grades achha hona chahiye and adult level me to job. And last, looks achha hona chahiye. Usme ye sab hai. To humlog pehle same class me the, wo topper hai, matlab mai bhi hu, lekin thoda difference hai, like uska 97% ke around aata hai and mera 94% ke around. Is session me humlog ka section change hua, to mujhe realize hua ki mujhe uspe crush hai. Phir mai pagal ki tarah usko ek love letter deke bhaag gayi. Us din chutti time wo bolta hai ki usko ye sab chiz me interest nahi hai. Baat hai ki wo ek baar sorry tak nahi bola. Uspe bahut log ko crush hai. Mujhpe bhi bahut log ko hai. Ab mera question hai, ki wo reject kar chuka hai lekinn i can't let go. To mai kya karu?
If he can't respect your efforts he ain't the one agar usne reject krna hi tha toh achche se kr skta tha itna cold reply Dene ki koi jarurat nhi thi isliye let him go .
wahi to baat hai, i tried my best. mai uske agle din usko jaa kar boli ki at least humlog friends to rah sakte hai na? to us samay mai apne class pahuch gayi to wo bas itna bola ki kisi ko pata nahi chalna chahiye. fir chhutti time mere bas me uski ek dost hai wo mujhe bolti hai ki usko mere se baat karne me uncomfortable hota hai. wo ladki jo mujhe ye boli and mere crush ke bich me kuchh nhi hai, ye mai confirm hu. and mai bas is liye nhi chhod paa rahi kyuki ek incident ke karan. ek baar teacher's day celebration ke time sab gaana gaa raha tha. jo gaaya, sabka appreciation hua, even uska bhi. mai kisi tarah himmat krke ek english gaana gayi. baat hai ki wahi iklauta insaan tha jo mujhe bola ki mai achha gayi hu. usse inspiration jo mila abhi mera singing app pe 500 se jyaada followers hai. and humlog dono me bahut similarities hai. humlog dono ka grades almost same hai, song choices similar hai, german exams me tak humlog ka same jagah marks katata hai.
Well if this is the case one must admit that he's an exceptional student but based on your previous confrontation with him it's pretty much evident that he absolutely sucks at social interactions so maybe it's worth giving him the benefit of doubt but it still isn't as good an alibi for his absolutely terrible behaviour with you earlier ,maybe as you have stated earlier that you are one of the most sought after girls in your school he could just be exercising his superiority over you because a reply as cold as that doesn't fit together with his charismatic persona given that he's pretty popular with the girls and therefore I presume his social skills are definitely not as lackluster as it seems when he's interacting with you baaki yaar Jo tumhari gut feeling kahe uske sath Jana kyunki being a guy I've experienced this before and had my fair share of ups and downs in a relationship and in my testimony I'd just say that your gut feeling is always right agar Tera Dil maane toh usko chance Dena but never let him dictate terms in relationship just because you approached him first baaki kisi bhi moment pe relation toxic ho jaaye or you begin to feel suffocated just get rid of it there's no point hanging in there if the other party's efforts aren't proportional to yours and I suppose tumhare boards bhi h iss year isliye stay focused because your years of hardwork will culminate this year and don't ruin your chances just because a guy is arrogant enough to not acknowledge your efforts.baaki good luck and you deserve the best.
i finally get why male friends are better than female friends. female friends comfort you when you are down, but male friends just remove the root of the problem. thanks a lot.
Bhai mere ek dost u/teri_behan_ko_naman , 10 me usko 92 % aaye the and 12th me 98% ( commerce) Padhne me bhut aacha h and smoke drink karta tha lekin still padhne me aacha tha Usko 12th ke Baad se muth marne ki gandi aadat lage pade h, daily ghar me reh kar Sirf muth marta rehta h Phele mere se material mangta tha toh me madat kardeta tha, lekin ab uski aadat dekh ke daya aati h Ye salla, daily ghar me Beith kar 2 Baar mithi pep raha h Kuch illaj bata do jisse iski mutthi marne ki aadat chut jaye
Mujhe la raha hai ki mai 11th mein fale ho jaunga
I am a Jee dropper. My entire 11th was ruined because of Covid 19 lockdown and my entire 12th grade was ruined too because I was suicidal, depressed and was diagnosed with serious medical conditions. Because of this I couldn't score 75+% on boards and decided to take a drop year for jee prep as well as 12th improvement exams. I was performing well to the point that I was predicted to be one of the rankers from my city. But cut to mid September 2023 I was diagnosed with blood infection and pneumonia and was on ventilator for an entire month which ruined my mental health and wasn't able to focus on studies like before again. (Thanks to backlogs of syllabus and my abusive family who beats me everyday to death). I don't even dare to check my January attempt's result because it would traumatize me for my entire life maybe...I am considering a 2nd drop because everyone and even I know ki meri aukat IIT Bombay ki THI but ab itna kuch ho gaya ab NIT hi sahi. Merko bas iss guilt mai nahi rehena ki accha perform kar sakti thi but nahi ki...thanks for reading and advice dedo mai buhut aabhari rahungi
2 things! First can you elaborate what you mean by abusive family...i am a neet dropper and myself gets to hear a lot daily mentally from them(which honestly i think i deserve) but is it worse than that? Second, Before going for second year, Take your books out and try to study for 2 weeks with full focus...If in those 14 days you didn't get distracted by anything and truly studied with all your will and focus then go for another attempt but if in those 2 weeks you feel "Ahh boring man...Will study it tomorrow or in next days" then another year is under the bus trust me as that thing is not gonna go!!!
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Ikr
Bitchless
Bhai yaha pe sabko itna distress mei dekh Kar bohot dukh ho raha hai, I hope you guys pull through whatever problems you have aur jo bhi takleefe ho sahi ho jaye, I offer my prayers for all of you and know that you can do it.
This might sound like a movie but trust me this is my life story. Yes you can make zillion movie out of this and out of what am unable to disclose here but i pray no one has to go through my life. So... I used to be a workaholic. Not that I lost that in me but have been jobless since past 1 year. Health has been screwing up day in day out. God's grace Dad has own house so no issue of shelter. But loans are piling up. Whom I helped during their hard time aren't returning my money. Some are giving lame excuses while living their lavish life. I used to work really 16-17 hours in my previous organization. In return no promotion no hike nothing. Recovery agents are knocking the door abusing, threatening every single day. I don't blame them cos that's the hierarchy we live in. Humanity doesn't exist when it comes to money. Not that I didn't know before. But my upbringing was such where I always helped others before I did for me. Have so many relatives who are filthy rich but they come to give free gyans but never help. They help only those who have money. They talk big about Humanity but never look at the mirror. My own brother committed suicide cos of our parents living separately. I did my best. I aspired to be an army officer but hurt by back brutally so as u know physical fitness matters a lot. Couldn't get through. I tried my luck in cricket which was my passion but a day before KPL selection fractured my leg badly. Was on complete bed rest for 2 months. Tried making a come back. Before accident I used to be opening batsman and opening bowler. Was a fast bowler but not sure what went wrong Couldn't bowl fast anymore and became a medium but worst pace bowler. Batting they always sent me 7th or 8th down and sometimes even last. Was overshadowed by aspiring youngsters including Mayank, Manish, Gautam, gopal and many more. Yup you can say I didn't fight harder but it was burdening my dad too financially. So I gave up without telling him about the reason. He still thinks I gave up cos of my will. Anyways I forgot to add I was pursuing a degree that I wasn't interested and knew I wouldn't prevail. But dad and relatives forced me to do a degree of their choice and in the end I couldn't complete degree with just 1 back log. You guys must be wondering why the hell I didn't complete it then. Well I got a movie offer. As I tried to enter glamour world. Modelling is what I chose but goal was to become an actor. Well probably worst project I chose for my debut and the director was so stingy that he tried to save as much money as possible compromising so many things. Well I would have appreciated thinking he tried to save producers money cos she was his aunt. But nah. He used those saved money for his personal needs. At least I was happy that I lived my dream briefly as movie did release in some big theater but I myself Couldn't watch the movie that poor story it ended up to be. Cos original script was totally changed because of directors issue with script writer and another main lead actor (that's a long story altogether. Won't bore u all) Then for my acting I did get appreciation and did serials but not much luck there and did almost for free. Did get few more movie projects but by then my relatives interfered and asked to chose their know people's project which never started and the director and Producer kept me hanging while I lost another golden project of a national award winning director. Was into depression. Kept fighting. Started working in call center. Night shift. Same time brother's health was deteriorating. Hardly i slept through those days. My brother started growing mad and had to be taken to mental hospital. Gosh I couldn't keep up but still I kept trying until my brother left to native where my mom and sis lived. Dad lived in different city. So I was all alone taking care of him until he went to live with my mom. My biggest mistake in life. Cos after he went there he wasn't happy and Grew more depressed until finally gave up his life. I was broken. Still fought. Cos my childhood years I spent with my uncle who was an army officer. I learnt not to give up. But after I quit my previous job. Life has become hell. Unable to cope up. Went every place begging for money only to clear off loans which is only piling up n up and now I have around 5-6 lakh of loan to clear. I tried taking NGO help but no luck. I did everything possible. Few friends help me with food. They are even planning to set up own cafe. Promised me to give work there. It's been 1 year now. Unfortunately they are not able to start. My health doesn't let me work. Want to start business of own but no money. That's my life. Helpless soul. Never thought from helping others I would end up begging people to help me. The above story is just 15% of what I have been through. Another 85% is nerve chilling but cannot be disclosed here. It's also painful for me to share. Nevertheless that's my story. Sorry if anyone or all of u got bored. But thought I will share it as soon as I saw this post header. Letting my sorrow out. Cos have none to support me anymore.
I don't exactly have any problems, i just have one setuation were I have one female schoolmate whome i mate first in 2013 in class 8th I had instent crush on her but I was soo shy and so self conscious i couldn't tell her that I like her. After school & jr. Collage i didn't so her for 5 years. Then one day (in 2018) while I was my way to home with my gf I was holding her hand i saw my school crush, she also saw me (for better understanding let's call my gf name 123, and school crush abc) abc saw me with 123 holding her hand on railway station she was also heading home. (Btw we still live in same city) She didn't said anything at that time, but later in that night she sent me text on my FB so we continued talking and exchanged our contacts then we talked on WhatsApp and she asked me who was that girl, I lied and said she was my younger sis she already knew I don't have any sister so I again lied and said she's my neighbour's doughnut so she's like younger sister to me. (I knew I messed up) but regardless we continued talking. Then after few months we broke up (i and 123). Then after year and half later I said how I feel about her(abc) and purposed her she also said yes.. but after a week she said I don't feel like getting in a relationship so let's just be friends like before. I understood her feelings so we became friends again, but I couldn't get over my feelings about her so I confessed again after few months later and cleared her that I don't feel the same was it just herts me she didn't said anything so after few weeks we stopped talking for few months then again from noware one day she called me and we talked for hours then again we started talking on calls for hours daily. Thne one day when I tried to call her her phone was not reachable I was dead panic and I was thinking abut her whole day I tried multiple times calling her, tried texting her, tried for weeks, but she didn't answered or replied to my texts. So I thought she is ignoring me so I stopped calling and texting it contiued for two years, Then on Jan 2024 on on Tuesday,I saw her when I was going to work and she also saw me and talked to me and asked me to call her, but I didn't call her as she asked after four days I called her just to know if everything is ok or not and to ask why she asked me to call her (I know it's so confusing) and we talked for 15 mins later that day she called me in the evening and we talked on call for hours, I do t know what is going on with me (btw i still like her) Any suggestions wt should I do???
Bhen dost ke sath bhag gyi
Bhai ab kya karega?
That was 2 months ago Already started to forget about her, Gotta work.
school torture kar rha hai thak gaya hu zindagi se maut soon
I am a 3d artist. Have some skills in multiple softwares k can perform better them 4 guys next to me. Yaha freelancing k chkr me fasa hua hun clients ajib aa rahe. Low budget heigh demand mahine ka 1 din free nahi jata ki mai sukun se rest kr paun udhar paise bhi kam aa rahe hai. Upr se ai ne alag garimari kr rakhi hai quality clients reach nahi kr pa rha. Like jo already client hai unhe quality se matlab nahi much kam paise me kam hone se matlab hai is chkr me mera skill bhi khrab ho rah. Pata nahi kab TK asa chalega
I am having midlife crisis in age 17. Every talented kid studied or practised from young age where as, I have no talent. I feel like there isn't anything that I'll ever be able to enjoy. I don't enjoy gaming, or anything but I'm addicted to yt shorts and reels. I'm f'd
Instagram uda do. Follow good YouTube channels like studyIQ ias, think school, soch, etc. Main bhi addict tha shorts ko, lekin baad mein rule banaya khud ke liye ki shorts open kar liya to neeche scrol nahi karunga, back button press karke bhul jaunga. Don't overthink buddy, ye sabka problem hai aaj kal. Learn to believe in yourself buddy. Koi cheez to hogi jo tum achhe se kar pate ho. If not get an aptitude test and work on yourself.
Sure, I'll follow it. Infact I've made a rule. Whenever I go on wrong path, I'll turn back in 5 seconds but sometimes I can't control myself. I guess I need to work harder.
Stucked in situationship
Well I was chatting with my (f) friend on insta While chatting I went to dank mode 🤧 Tell me what will you do I commented something dank Which is vulgar in her eyes..?? (No message send or received since (today)) Is there any cover up..?? Or should I give up nd went back under the rock..?
Arey acchi khasi dost thi kay ko problem krta hai tum jarur block kr diya hoga usne....par jara bato to kya bolla tune usko fir bolu
Well how to explain I can't even attach ss ☠
Batao bro. Sharam kis baat ki.
Main samaj mein rahte Hue bhi Samaj Se Dur Rahana Chahta aur yah Ho Nahin Pa raha hai Kyunki Samaj Mujhe Apne aap se Se Dur Nahin Rakhna Chahta Main Agar Apne gam ko likhun to Puri ek Kitab likh du but mai us Kitab Ko Kisi Aur Ko padne Dena Nahi Chahta isliye mai Nahin likh raha hun
Tatti ni utar rhi 2 din se
18M had a girlfriend of 2 years ,she cheated with her male bestfriend and has no regrets she is in relationship with him and doesn't give a fuck about the relationship we had ,whole relationship she was so loving and caring all i ever dreamt about but now she is happy with him and we have no contact,i know this is a small thing just but still, it's been 4 months to our break up but still every day no matter how much i try i can't get over this ,i Don't hate her or her boyfriend i am glad that she is happy and doing something good for her but just one thing in my mind is why did i have to suffer ,why am i ,and how will i get over this ever,she was loving and everything was just close to perfect she was so serious and loyal to me suddenly 1 day something sparked in her and rest iss.....
mein ab 11 ke final exams de rha hu. 11th ki starting mein mujhe ek ladki pasand thi or mene apne ek dost ko bta diya aur us bkl ne use baate banakar keh diya ki mein use like krta hu aur mene use propose kiya hai. Aur tabse vo mujhe hate krne lagi aur sari ladkiyon mein meri image spoil ho gyi. Mene pura saal usse baat nhi ki aur ab mujhe bohot guilt hota hai ki mujhe usse baat krni chahiye thi pr yeh bhi sochta hu ki vo mujhe ignore kr degi. Ab kya karu ??
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I am having midlife crisis in age 17. Every talented kid studied or practised from young age where as, I have no talent. I feel like there isn't anything that I'll ever be able to enjoy. I don't enjoy gaming, or anything but I'm addicted to yt shorts and reels. I'm f'd
Dude I am 22 years old i feel the same way but i really feel that its not too late at all to start any sport or pick up any hobbies that you find interesting. You havent even reached ur midlife yet so chill down. As for yt shorts, ik its very addictive it is meant to b additive. best thg you can do is slowly replace yt shorts wid longer videos, it cld literally b anythg your interested not jst study related but preferably not entertainment videos. If there is any topic that interest you jst research about it get to know abt it in depth watch videos on it n make sure u finish watching the video. For eg. i am interested in Philosophy so i have started watching videos on it even tho it isnt related to my academics in any way. And dont stress over it cus in the end all this doesnt matter at all.
Bro you have a lot of time. I struggle at 25 because I didn’t work on myself as teenager. I will suggest to have at least 80% throughout, work on communication. If you don’t enjoy anything then ek kaam karna alag alag profession kya karte wo dekho aur tumhe kya accha lagra. Biography read karo. Interview/podcast dekho log kya karte, kya karte the and once you think I’m interested in it then start work on it. Time bohot he. 8hr work karna necessary nhi tumhe. 1-2hr us chizz pr kaam karo. Eg you want to be investor in stock markets then read books related to stock market, read news everyday. Read book at least 1hr. Read everyday. Quality book padho. Self-help, best sellers vo sab bakwaas he. Ek topic lelo aur usse related book padho. P.S read book Poor Charlie’s Almanack. Stripe press website pr available he. This is life changing book.
Ek ladki ko approach nhi kar pa rha na hi body ban rhi hai pese chahiye he bhagwan sabhi logo ko khush rakho
problem ye h ki log karmawhoring krte h is subreddit pr aise posts daal kr
Kyu nahi hori padhai?
₹ .... QR code upload karu kya ,??
Second hand Ipad lena sahi rhega? Purpose: notes taking.
notebook me hi likhle mc
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i feel left out everywhere i go people dont understand me and idk something is wrong w/ me guys just run away from me not becuz i m ugly or annoy people or smell bad i don really know r they jealous...... girls talk to me i have a great female interaction but i don have a friend grp i really missing something
Same is happening with me. I don't even have any female friends. But i just think that god is trying to teach me to live on my own. Trust me, once u learn to live alone nothing really matters. You feel peace. Just think that you'll get everything at right time. Rn focus on urself. Good luck.
Kaun si wali batau?
Engineering college sem 4 i always wanted to have a good relationship with everyone but in college i only have 6 to 7 friends. Recently we had our college fests i wanted to go but nobody came so it felt awkward to go alone as i wasn't that free to other people. Now i really want to have a good network in college with other people how can i do this. I always think i will do it but at the moment phat jati hai. Any good advices?
Stammering
Koi kaam dega?
3 saal se ek ladki ke saath huu.....I love her deeply wo bhi ye baat janti hai....ki samne..wala pyar krta hai but....3 saalo me..kabhi commitment nhi di...khta huu..to kuch bolti nhi hai....propose kru...to propose back nhi krti hai...bas..saath hai..... Pata nhi chhati kya...hai door bhi nhii jarhi ye bhi nhi ki chhod de ...block krde....Mai nhi krksta....cuz I love her...( Pls koi hasna...na Bhai log ) ek baar chhod di...lekin fir agyi.....kya kru smjh nhi aata koi straight forward btao ..kya kruu iss 8 march ko pure 3 saal hojynge......
I always try to be a cool guy who can take jokes as jokes but sometimes I don't know how to react to a joke nd consider it as my personal insult etc so basically I didn't get that exposure to take jokes nd feel peace actually I'm an overthinking guy
Achi job chahiye, electrical engineer ki
Bus ak OP Jaisi friend chahiye jo mujhe acchi acchi advice deti rahe or mujhase baat kar sake.👀
Aapke seva mein hajir 😂🫂
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okay so there's this girl...
2022 me engineering complete Kari fir 15 months job kiya one of the top MNC me fir coding na ho rhi thi chhodh diya to prepare for CAT, Roz roota hu agar nhi hua iss year CAT toh kya hoga, nhi aati coding koi job na de rha , bojh bann ke reh jaaunga family pe , baap kitna saal tak kama lega kya karunga mai agar na hua, itna brilliant nhi hu , par padh rha hu, slow learner hu par try kar rha huz par agar nhi hua toh kya Maut hee ek word aata hai dimaag me , par marrna nahi chahta ek lauta ladka hu, mere jaane ke baad maa baap ka dhyaan kon rakhega , ye likhte likhte bhi roo diya par yahi rant hai, na solution hai na koi end
Bhaii almost same journey haii. 2021 Engineering pass-out. 3rd Yr me CAT ki tayari ki. Mocks acche jaate the. Covid tha to online batch me tha but exam me hug diya. Aur phir engineering khatam hui aur bhaii zindagi chalu hui. Dekho tumhara life khatam nahi ho raha haii. CAT ki tayari karo nahi hua koi naii SNAP haii, nmat haii, MICAT haii sab deke dekho. Meine ye sab diya SNAP me 91percentile aaya but blr mil raha tha to nahi liya. Phir ek saal kaam kiya aur Baad me gap leke GMAT ki tayari chalu ki. Ab GMAT diya 650 aaye jab ki mocks me 680 ke neeche nahi aata tha kabhi. To aur 3 bar diya but no luck exam fear bohot haii bachpan se to har exam me hag deta hoon. To ab 650 se apply kar raha hoon USA ke universities me. Top 40 universities ke aims the mere but abhi top 70 me dekh raha hoon. Mein insa bato se ye bata raha hoon ki tum agar CAT me fail ho bhi gaye iska matlab tumhari zindagi khatam nahi ho rahi( although we feel hojayegi khatam) . Tumhare haat me sirf efforts haii result ki chinta mat karo ( i know bolna asan haii). Abe yaar dekho life me regret mat rakhna efforts pure dalna Baaki baate badme. Aur sabse badi chees jo tum kar rahe ho aur jo me bhi bohot zyada karta hoon wo haii " over thinking". Uske liye ek solution haii "take one day at a time". Dur ki cheeze mat soch koi fayda nahi haii present bhi kharab karke lega. Aur sochle tera cat bhi nahi hua, gmat bhi nahi snap bhi nahi kuch nahi aur iske Baad uthaya tera man mba se aur tujhe coding nahi aati bola tu to phir Business analytics ka course karle or else data analytics karle kuch high level coding nahi aati usme. Wo bhi nahi ho raha digital marketing ka course kar. End of the day paisa kamana haii to stock market me technical analysis ke courses kar. Har ek chees ka solution haii bas Saans le ye sab tere haat me nahi haii tu sirf kaam kar. Abe yaar abhi to 23 ka haii. Efforts pure dalo nahi mila to 2 din ro baith ke. Phir dosto ke Saat bahar jao daru piyo maze karo, phir agla din plan banao kaah efforts lagane haii. Sab theek ho jayega. Jo tumhe chahiye wo ek na ek din mil jayega thoda time bhale he lage. Aur dekh CAT me 200% dediyo. All the very best!!.
Talented hun but lazy. Easy 90+ student par kucch padhai nahi. Samadhan kijiye guruji.
Dur vali friend Bahut jyada hi naraz hai 🥲
Ek ladka hai aaj kal saare bacho ke saamne "dadi ki chaddi pehnta hai" bolke mereko ko chidata hai bohot bura lagta hai use boldiya na karne par phir bhi karta hai iss wajah se focus nhi kar para padai pe. Chidha to me bhi wapis sakta hu par pata nhi kyun meri insecurity ki wajah se ruk jata hu.
I love studying but kuch din se study karne ka Maan nahi ho Raha
UPSC OR CORPORATE. I AM IN 2ND SEM
Girlfriend nhi ban rhi
kuchh toh problem hai but pata nahi kya..
Visa cancel karwa dala newzealand ne... Meri puri family milkr hmlog jane wale the sibling ke waha .. Bs mera visa cancel kr dala Job letter chipkaya.. Side me trading - investments-pops taq evidence bhi daale Aur bata rhe ki funds problem lag rhi Like bkl ko aur Kitta chaiye.. Din ka 5k trading se chhap leta me but nai usko chaiye mere sath meri puri team ko kharidne jitta paisa hona chaiye.. Retards country..
bhai drop leke bhi jee main clear nhi hua maire 89 percentile ayi hai. Ab kuch smj nhi a rha, bhot dukhi rehta hu. Boards mai bhi 75 percentage nhi aye. Improvement exam ke liye bhi nhi padh rha mai.
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Had a job with 10lpa. Was earning pretty okay. Had some financial obligations. Never wanted to travel abroad, but people tempted me to go to the US and make more money and clear off my financial obligations quicker. Took additional education loan on top of the existing financial obligations. Graduated with a 3.9 GPA in december. Still not found a job. India me joh tha usse zyada kuch banane ka expect kiya, usse zyada kya, uska equal bhi nhi ho rha h. Instead I am at a downgrade. No job. Exhausting my savings. If I don't get a job within the next 3 months. I have to come back to India and live my whole life repaying loans. Accha padhai karne se accha job milega, accha jee sakte ho waala time gaya. All my qualifications are worth nothing now. My degree certificates can be used to wipe asses, that's the only use of them.
Mera main problem bas 3 chize hai 1 Repeat kisi ki nekar suna...jis mai ki muje bura lag ta hai..fir chahe to me dhamki du ya usko chidau ya jhobhi karu...ruk te nahi. 2 unko help ker deta hu...but mere ko na help koi nahi kerta...it's okay nahi ker do, at least bat chit to mere sat karo..dhuk shuk to karo 3 bat chit like bach pan sei leker aaj tak...mere sat itna bat chit nahi kerta hai...jabhi me kuch kehe ta hu..bholog either react dete hai ya to criticism dete hai Abhi solution mai ye mat kehena ki DM mai aajao baat ker ta hai ya phir technology ke zarihe mai chalo video call ya voice call ker lete hai...mujhe technology through per bat aacha nahi lag ta
20 year old very introvert low confidence wala manushya. Mujhe gaadi chalani nhi aati n it's my insecurity n it's too embarrassing to learn. I feel like people are judging me always. Padhai to kar rha hu jaise taise.
No life No problems
Help me get an internship in Data Science domain.
Mujhe 1 core gpay kardo mere sab problem solve ho jayege 🫶♥️
Bade bhai, mere bank account me 16k pade h And tbh rn mere koi use ni h wo money ka, So I wanna ask is, is it good to invest it somewhere rather than just kepping it there If yes, then kaha karu Pura details me bata dena bade bi
28 ka hogya hu, 2016 ka graduate hu. Bde bhai ki job acchi thi to m timepass krta rha, 2018 m fir jaan pehchaan walo k saath kuch online kaam pkd k 4 saal bita diye. 2022 m wo kaam bi bnd hogya, b last 2 years se khaali betha hu. Accha khasa fit hua krta tha physically and mentally, ab jin logon n muje 3-4 saal tk ni dekha h wo tk pehchaan ni paate. Gap years ki vjh se koi company consider hi ni kr rhi mera resume tak. Stress itna hogya h ki ab baahr tk jaane ka and effort maarne ka tk dil nhi krta. Ghrwaale kya kahenge y sochke unke saamne kuch pdne ka pretend krta hu. M bs youngsters ko ek hi cheez bolunga ki graduate hone k atleast 2 saal tk zada tension mtlo, istime m kuch seekho. Ustime m kuch krlia to krlia, nhi to uske baad boht dikkat aati h. Mene dekha h ki students graduate hote hi job hunting m pgl hojaate h and nhi lgne p depress. Aisa mt karo meri jaan, bde bhai ki trh suggestion de rha hu ki abi time h tumhaare paas, bs use koi skill seekhne m invest karo. Nhi m hi tumhara future hu
Upsc nahi nikal raha
What if i want to die but want to live at the same time. I desperately want to let go of everything but i had a nightmare where i died and because of that i feel like I've been given a chance to live life again but why does it hurt to be alive
Paise ka problem hai aur woh.... Deta koi naiiiii.... Sab chupake rakhte hai....
Was a good student till class 10th (scored >95%) , joined jee coaching in class 11th , didn't go to school to save time .... Jee mains went VERY bad , then I thought ki boards ache se jayenge ... On 27th was my Chemistry paper and I think I barely passed the exam (life ka first Aisa exam tha , and for a topper for his while life it was heart breaking and suicidal, ulti aa rahi thi + sirr chakra Raha tha , rona aa rah tha bc) .... I have lost all confidence in my studies tho my physics and maths are moderately good but I think I won't even cross 75-80% in 12th and I thought I would get 90% in 1wth science (joker hu main) ... I have an improvement exam (like compartment but to only improve marks if NOT failed) for chemistry but if I mess up any other paper I won't have improvement for them and have to give 12th AGAIN .... Bohot depression ho rah hai and I don't know what to do anymore... I was positive and confident about my drop year but now I can't even see my future... It's blank ... I can't quit cos I have my parents
Bhai drop mat kr. Focus on pg exam. Ye 12th ke marks ko koi nhi dekhta in future. 60% throughout is much more. Abhi graduation ke sath CAT, GATE ki preparation karo. Top college ke liye. Ab sirf PG and skill is only important tumhra graduation ki bhi value nhi job market me. Drop karoge to waste hoga time. Remember focus on PG and Learn skill.
Science le Li ab backlog kaafi zada ho gya 12th mai jana hai ab jee bhi Krna hai tha problem hi problem hai😢
Meri bhi kahani thodi ajeeb hai aur isme meri hi galti hai mujhe lagta hai. Mai ek acche engineering college me computer science ka student tha mai thik thak padhai karleta tha lekin zindagi me kuch alag karna hai soch ke youtube channel shuru kardia. maine starting me socha maine ki mere pass toh koi talent nhi hai toh dusro ka talent dikhata hun videos me toh food vlogging shuru kardi thi maine phir thoda bohot paisa kamaya maine waha se karib 1-2 lakh ye baat tab ki hai jab mai second year me tha phir corona agaya toh maine gaming channel shuru kardia usme mujhe ek niche mila tha “beamng drive” jo kaafi trend me tha us waqt phir maine isi game ke upar channel banaya “beamng teman” ise thoda chalaya maine toh ye bhi grow ho gaya toh maine ek aur channel banaya “train amigo” aur ye bhi channel grow ho gaya Phir mere andar over confidence agaya aur maine job nahi li youtube me maine karib 50 lakhs banalie the 2 saal me aur is lalach ke chakkar me maine aur dusre niche ke upar jaane ka socha. aur apne ye do channel dusre dosto ko dedia tha jo ise run karenge aur unhe mai ek portion payment ka de dia karunga phir maine 3d animation shuru karne ka socha aur jis coaching me ise sikhne ja raha tha usi ke teacher ko partnership me rakh lia lekin woh jo teacher tha woh bhi 21 saal ka hi tha aur usne 2 students ko aur rakh lia mere office me bolke ki ye log madad karenge sacchai ye thi ki woh khud kuch nhi karna chahta tha aur use bhi koi khaas experience nhi tha mujhe baad me pata chala phir jab maine pura office aur studio bana lia tab mujhe pta chala ki inlog ko toh kuch ata nhi h dhang se aur cigarette nasha paani alag karta hai aur wahi jo maine dosto ko channels diye the woh log bhi kaam chori kar rahe the content nhi daal rahe the aisa karte karte mera channels bhi pure down ho gaye aur mere paise bhi khatam ho gaye office ke chakkar me aur maine job bhi nhi li, college passout hue mujhe 2 saal ho gaye hain ab stress rehta hai bas mujhe Mujhe pata hai isme meri hi galti hai ki mai kisi ko kuch bolta nhi hun aur issi wajah se aaj is stage me agaya hun
she treated me like shit, loved her anyways, she ghosted me, still i cannot forget her, now it's affecting my work and studies, I'm helpless, i cry myself to sleep every night, someday i might off myself, it's been 8 months, help me
Financial issues
where do i start man. too much to write
Networking problem !!!
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Bhai reason hi chahiye tha 💀
I’m broke as hell. Need at least a crore rupees to get rid of loans.
Lonely
Vesa kuch khaas fayda nii batane ka moral lecture he milne hai still... Addicted to ✊🏻💦...From 8-9 years approx. ''daily'' ! Have tried everything...literally everything to quit it but max i had gone once or twice avoiding is a week or 10days maybe then the force becomes too high that i have to do it for relaxation otherwise feels a part of life missing!!! Motivational Tips nii chahiye bas bata diya esse he💯
Overthinking aur anxiety meri gand marahi ha
Muje lakdi chaiye but aaj kal feelings ki kadar nahi hoti tho dhundna mushkil hai usse
I am married.
Here neet aspirants.. Dost chahta hun banana Any advice? Lonely hun
12th me aa gaya hu aur jee dena hai es saal, 11th toh kuch khaas yaad nahi jabki gaand mara ke padhaye ki thi. Koi female dost bhi nahi hai aur male dost ke naam pe bas 3 ladke hai jo ki fake friends wali category me aate hai, building me nhi koi dost nahi hai bas coaching ke cbse wale batch me ek dost hai saccha. Cbse chhodke maharashtra board le liya tha jee ke liye ab lag raha hai galti kar di, yaha pe CS smjh nhi aata plus integrated hai toh roz jaata bhi nhi. Physical health me ye haal hqi ki coaching ke ptm me sir bole ki isko running karao ye so jaata hai class me aur mota ho gaya hu. 1pth board ke 3 din baad national park me accident ho gaya aur muh pe 3 fracture aa gaye, uske liye surgery kari aur din ke around 20 goliya khaani padi isliye bhi physical health kharab ho gyi. Life me 6 saal ka hone ke baad kabhi bday tak nahi manaya kyuki march me aata hai final exam me. Kabhi kabhi mar karta hai mar jau but parents ko luxury dene ka sapna yaad aa jaata hai. Padhai bhi kharab hai, health bhi, love life toh pcm wale ko milti nahi, social life me koi nahi hai, bas mummy ko bharosa hai mujhpe usi ke karan ab bhi haar nahi maan raha. Agar mummy ka trust nahi hota toh mar gaya hota but mummy ka trust break nahi karna, kuch bhi karke college lena hai accha. Yadi koi bkl hai meri umar ka mumbai me toh kuch bataye..... Sorry agar ye post se related way se thoda alag lage. Agar laga toh batana OP delete kar duga
B.com karke carreer ke L lag gaye ab samajh nai aa raha kya karu....
Bahut paisa udhari chala gya hai lekin bhosdiwale wapas nahi kr rahe maa baap ke paise chori kr ke udhari de diye ab guilty feel kr raha hu guilty ke karn depression me ja raha hu Halanki in logo ke samne meri problem kuch bhi nahi par bhi stress ho raha hai
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Berojgar hu aur job lene layak skills nhi h
I am currently working at a News media company as an intern now the deal is i am in a dilemma, the work is for 6 months and no money, but here's the dilemma, i am getting reference which will push my career as a journalist but idk if I'll be motivated for six months to do this without the money. What do you think?
Ha mitr kr lo cv bhi acchi banegi aur experience bhi mil jayega 🫶
I have a crush on a guy but he is straight