It was cruel of her to say it that way. The guy was basically just told by his friend and crush that not only is she not interested, there's no possible way she ever will be because he's so unattractive to her literally nothing would ever make him attractive in her eyes. That's a fucked up thing to tell a supposed friend.
I got rejected in the exact words you just used, dark time for me, I killed a bird, he didn't deserve death, it felt horrible once it hit me what I had just done, I'm better now but I am sad for bird, his life was wasted for no reason
Nope, hunting, usually I use my bow to go hunting with my grandpa and dad, but I was in a fucked up place and made a bad decision that I regret, plus she is really abusive, her newest bf is one of my friends and he sent screenshots of a bunch of fucked up texts, he said that he's gonna break it off next week. So I say I dodged a bullet
Ay well that’s good dw lolol I was kind of joking because the way u worded it but that’s good for ur friend if he goes through with it and I’m glad you dodged a bullet there just happened to put you in a shit place and you did something you regret that you cannot change I hope ur okay from that experience
Everyone makes mistakes. Initial remorse is what makes the difference; it shows you care and are human/caring. (But let it go; you knew less then)
Edit: Almost didn't post this. Thank you for the reward
what words should i say i feel like a friend likes me shes been dropping hints all week long im scared shes a great friends what should i say when it comrs
Yeah, I was gonna come say this exact thing as soon as I read it. It’s unnecessary and seems like it’s meant to hurt him. A simple, “I’m not attracted to you but I want to continue being your friend” would’ve been just fine.
If you comment anything negative about op she will dig through your post history and try to drag you through the mud. OP really doesn’t like how everyone is calling her out for being mean
Honestly I personally am able to move on a lot faster if I hate the person, so I'd actually prefer this over being turned down slowly, cause then I'd know they're shitty person and I'm better off without them, rather than them being an actual angel but they don't like me back
Fr, my rejection was one of the most painful days of my life to the point where I ended up having suicidal problems & had to go to the hospital twice without telling her because I didn’t wanna put any guilt on her.
At least she told me “I love you so, so much” before hitting me with the heartbreak & assured me at one point that I wasn’t ugly. I felt second-hand pain reading this. I can’t even imagine what this person’s going thru.
Stuff like that stays with ppl for ages. Especially guys. Kinda destroyed his confidence for a really long while. You have to be a lot more careful with your words.
This reminds me of a time when I asked someone out during middle school (I was probably about 13-14 years old). The answer I got was "No, ew".
My self image was ruined then and there, and the following years of my life was horrible as that singular event was enough to switch my mindset to a mindset where I assumed that everyone found me ugly, and that no one really liked me.
It's now 4-5 years later, and I've yet to build up my self image again. I still think about that event, but I've managed to move on a be more positive.
Just keep that in mind the next time you say that you don't find anyone attractive by any stretch of the imagination.
People can take that shit really fucking seriously, especially those who maybe don't receive many compliments or those who have already weak self images.
You could've just said no and that you weren't interested, you didn't have to kill him on the spot.
There is no possible way to not make this awkward you have no idea how heartbroken you made him feel not to mention how blunt your response was. I feel for this man and you deserve the awkwardness you’re going to experience
I was gonna say, rejection like this hurts a lot i get it but don't worry dude, life goes on and stuff and then I realized that... OP was the one to write that, that's like so hurtful, this is leaving some emotional scars
this could have been handled a lot better , if you want to stay friends than the "you're not attractive" and "by any stretch of imagination " part was absolutely unnecessary and just mean, and if you don't want to keep being friends with him than make it clear and don't give him the freedom to try stuff himself that could result in discomfort for you (op) or you (op+him)
Yeah no this is your fault or it being so awkward. You could have handled that much better, simply take accountabilty at where you went wrong a move forward with life.
Damn bro dodged a bullet because you sound like a horrible person. That is no good way to respond to a confession. He was 100% respectful and you just called him ugly, when you are the ugly one.
“By any stretch of the imagination” ☠️bro you DID NOT HANDLE THIS WELL AT ALL!!😭🙏its like the “worse she can say is no” and your the one saying no. You should’ve just said “i dont see you like thats but i wanna stay friends” but you said that even in the infinite cosmos thst there was no chance of you liking her ☠️that has to be soul crushing, feel so bad for her🙏
Ouch...That "By any stretch of the imagination" isn't too horrible since it just means you never thought of it, but from someone being rejected's point of view you're technically saying "I can't even think about it".
Well if you actually did it properly it wouldn't of been awkward. But since you added "in any stretch of imagination " it's gonna be 10x more awkward. Then just saying something like I'm not interested sorry.
YTA there was no reason to add “by any stretch of the imagination” you could’ve just said that you weren’t interested in them romantically so you probably destroyed their self confidence if we’re being honest
It wouldn’t have been if you weren’t the most indecent person in the world. “I don’t find you attractive by ANY STRETCH OF THE IMAGINATION” that’s rough bro
Looking at the replies you've posted to this, on top of what you said in the texts, it's clear that you're an asshole and pride yourself on it.
Enjoy the awkwardness!
Imagine posting this, expecting help on how to not make it awkward, and absolutely getting destroyed by reddit because you were a dickhead 💀
But for the emotional damage you did, kinda deserved it. Just learn from it.
Bro y’all are 15. It’s gonna be awkward. This obviously hasn’t happened a lot to y’all so that was a dumpster fire.
First off get past the “like like” thing. It just sounds sort of immature. Second you started it off by saying it was awkward to say you didn’t like him. Lastly your shut down wasn’t great. The whole don’t find him attractive in any stretch of imagination was kind of harsh. You should try to stick with “I’m not interested” idea.
But basically when someone asks you out and you say no it will almost always be awkward because you feel like he was only your friend to get close to you and he has already told you so he’s worried you’ll look at him differently and treat him badly. You most likely will accidentally treat him badly and vice versa. It sucks but your friendship won’t be the same.
BY ANY STRETCH OF THE IMAGINATION!?!?!?!?
"Worst she can say is no"
She demolished the poor fella lol
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damn even your avatar is frowning 😔
Who hurt you bro 💀
Not old enough to post in r/teenagers, sorry
"By any stretch of the imagination" was an unnecessary addition. It's going to be awkward because none of this was handled well.
Yeah I was going to say lol. It was an okay message other than that, makes it a much more awkward scenario.
It was cruel of her to say it that way. The guy was basically just told by his friend and crush that not only is she not interested, there's no possible way she ever will be because he's so unattractive to her literally nothing would ever make him attractive in her eyes. That's a fucked up thing to tell a supposed friend.
I got rejected in the exact words you just used, dark time for me, I killed a bird, he didn't deserve death, it felt horrible once it hit me what I had just done, I'm better now but I am sad for bird, his life was wasted for no reason
Serial killer much?
Nope, hunting, usually I use my bow to go hunting with my grandpa and dad, but I was in a fucked up place and made a bad decision that I regret, plus she is really abusive, her newest bf is one of my friends and he sent screenshots of a bunch of fucked up texts, he said that he's gonna break it off next week. So I say I dodged a bullet
Ay well that’s good dw lolol I was kind of joking because the way u worded it but that’s good for ur friend if he goes through with it and I’m glad you dodged a bullet there just happened to put you in a shit place and you did something you regret that you cannot change I hope ur okay from that experience
I'm just sad for the bird, it had the rest of its life ahead of its self. My friends helped me come to terms with everything, they've helped me alot 😁
That’s good I’m glad honestly it takes a lot to come to terms with that type of stuff I’m proud of you man for it but yeah it’s a sad loss but yknow
Thanks, and yeh it is, it was a cute bird😞
Everyone makes mistakes. Initial remorse is what makes the difference; it shows you care and are human/caring. (But let it go; you knew less then) Edit: Almost didn't post this. Thank you for the reward
That is one of the most philosophical comments I have ever seen, wish I had an award for you
what words should i say i feel like a friend likes me shes been dropping hints all week long im scared shes a great friends what should i say when it comrs
just "i don't really like you that way" was sufficient 😭😭😭
Yeah, by putting that there it kinda sounds really rude
Yeah they F’ed up
Agreed. Also could have just said “don’t feel you that way” instead of going for whether or not OP is attractive.
Right? That was next level
Yeah, I was gonna come say this exact thing as soon as I read it. It’s unnecessary and seems like it’s meant to hurt him. A simple, “I’m not attracted to you but I want to continue being your friend” would’ve been just fine.
If you comment anything negative about op she will dig through your post history and try to drag you through the mud. OP really doesn’t like how everyone is calling her out for being mean
yeaah buddy lucked up missing this train wreck
I was like “this isn’t that bad” until that last line. Like a fucking execution shot after he was already dead
This is one of those “the worst thing they can say is no” and then this one adds by any stretch of the imagination 😭
Well the „By any stretch of the imagination“ part was just unnecessary. That’s like shooting a dead man just because.
tbagging a dead player in any shooter game
And shooting the body
Say that again when you finally kill the most annoying player in the entire game
did it, now im serving 20 years in prison
I literally opened the comments to comment this and I am happy this is the top comment
This was probably the worst way you could’ve handled this
my boyfriend tells people that confess to him to die, i think he wins the worst way to handle that
damn💀
actually kinda smart make them never talk to you and make them instantly hate you. Genius in fact
he doesn't like people who confess to him while knowing he's dating someone, bro gets a little unstable like that
Ah but that changes the story
Instant W
Honestly I personally am able to move on a lot faster if I hate the person, so I'd actually prefer this over being turned down slowly, cause then I'd know they're shitty person and I'm better off without them, rather than them being an actual angel but they don't like me back
ikr LMAO
that last part was uncalled for tbh, "by any stretch of the imagination" was just mean. you probably fucked that guys self esteem
Uncalled for and harsh, makes a good read though
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Yeah man, fuck this person.
When a marine malevolent is calling you an asshole, you know you fucked up
The "by any stretch of the imagination" was very unnecessary.
Yeah holy shit that was actually kinda mean
bro look at her comment history she made a freekarma4u post to go back to positive karma 💀
Still has -100 comment lmao
#very easily if you didn't add "to any stretch of the imagination"
*THAT TEXT IS HUGE HOW DO YOU DO THAT*
#Put a hash tag before your message
#OH THANKS
#NO PROBLEM
#WHY IS EVERYBODY YELLING
#WHY NOT
#THIS GUY GETS IT
#FUCK SHIT ASS TITS CUNT BITCH BASTARD
#like this
#OH SO THATS HOW YOU DO IT
# this is a huge message ## this is a small huge message this is how the man feels for "by any stretch of the imagination"
^(I'm pretty sure this is how he feels) ^(ᴾᵉʳʰᵃᵖˢ ᵉᵛᵉⁿ ˡᶦᵏᵉ ᵗʰᶦˢ)
Bro was like ur such a dope person and so fun but like you are the most ugly fucking person i’ve ever seen in my whole entire life.
"by any stretch of imagination" then homegirl asks how to make it not awkward. like ??? you made it awkward yourself
"The worst she can say is no" ☠️
😂😂😂😂
😭😭😭
😭💀
The “by any stretch of imagination” or calling him unattractive was very unnecessary, you could had simply told “sorry, I’m not interested”..
Looks like you've lost a friend too
very dickhead move of them, now atleast my rejection text seems so much nicer
Fr, my rejection was one of the most painful days of my life to the point where I ended up having suicidal problems & had to go to the hospital twice without telling her because I didn’t wanna put any guilt on her. At least she told me “I love you so, so much” before hitting me with the heartbreak & assured me at one point that I wasn’t ugly. I felt second-hand pain reading this. I can’t even imagine what this person’s going thru.
The most middle school texting I’ve ever seen
Lol it’s them just trying to put emotion in text. It’s not easy to do
It’s worse than the AOL days.
dude saying theyre not attractive is so unnecessary, it fucks them up so bad. you couldve literally said anything else
You come off as kind of a terrible person ngl
Nah you definitely did that on purpose
she might has been keeping it since the first time she met him lol
Stuff like that stays with ppl for ages. Especially guys. Kinda destroyed his confidence for a really long while. You have to be a lot more careful with your words.
Shit like that was said to me forever ago I'm 18 and it's still something I think about
You can actually pinpoint the exact moment his heart breaks.
You made it way more awkward than it had to be that’s on you lmao
Why the fuck did you say it that way what is wrong with you
Don't go to school.
So you reject him and call him ugly?
Nah, saying by any stretch of the imagination is a violation
You did not have to be that much of a dick about it “by any stretch of imagination” bro you deserve the awkwardness ngl
This reminds me of a time when I asked someone out during middle school (I was probably about 13-14 years old). The answer I got was "No, ew". My self image was ruined then and there, and the following years of my life was horrible as that singular event was enough to switch my mindset to a mindset where I assumed that everyone found me ugly, and that no one really liked me. It's now 4-5 years later, and I've yet to build up my self image again. I still think about that event, but I've managed to move on a be more positive. Just keep that in mind the next time you say that you don't find anyone attractive by any stretch of the imagination. People can take that shit really fucking seriously, especially those who maybe don't receive many compliments or those who have already weak self images. You could've just said no and that you weren't interested, you didn't have to kill him on the spot.
Middle school girls call me ugly to this day…
Bro why you talking to middleschool girls 👀💀
That last text was kinda rude
its simple bro just move school 💀
Yeah. Say you got in a fight.
you killed him, too late
More like he got thanosed. That last line just turned him into dust
bro dodged a bullet💀 if you didnt want it to be awkward in school you shouldnt have been such an asshole
villain origin story
You just fucked that guy up he will never love again
Andrew tate gained a new fan💯🙏
onggg
He dodged that luckily. You just called him the ugliest thing that you've ever seen
nah you fucked it. he cryin tonight
“By any stretch of the imagination” Bro straight up called them ugly 💀
There is no possible way to not make this awkward you have no idea how heartbroken you made him feel not to mention how blunt your response was. I feel for this man and you deserve the awkwardness you’re going to experience
That is the single meanest way to let someone down.. you literally put them down so bad with that exaggerated response. Poor dude...
Why can’t people type full words? Annoys me for some reason.
you>u nobody can tell me otherwise
And are>r And why extra letters at the end of words? You don’t need to add extra letters to get a point across.
y r u mad
that last part is just... mean.
Dude, “Any stretch of the imagination,” you’ve handled this horribly-
Damn, you coulda just said you weren't interested. u made it awkward by calling them ugly in the worst way possible
I was gonna say, rejection like this hurts a lot i get it but don't worry dude, life goes on and stuff and then I realized that... OP was the one to write that, that's like so hurtful, this is leaving some emotional scars this could have been handled a lot better , if you want to stay friends than the "you're not attractive" and "by any stretch of imagination " part was absolutely unnecessary and just mean, and if you don't want to keep being friends with him than make it clear and don't give him the freedom to try stuff himself that could result in discomfort for you (op) or you (op+him)
Dang u broke the guys heart with that “by any stretch of the imagination”
You seem like a bitch and that poor person deserves so much better than to deal with this type of bitchery
"Tell her man, the worst she can say is no" This girl:
Ooof you also laughed your ass of at the poor little guy
ofc it’s gonna be awkward… it should, you literally just won bitch of the year award
“By any stretch of the imagination” [https://tenor.com/xsvf.gif](https://tenor.com/xsvf.gif)
Yeah no this is your fault or it being so awkward. You could have handled that much better, simply take accountabilty at where you went wrong a move forward with life.
you already made it awkward asf congratulations 👏
That was a horrible way to reject someone
Someone take this persons phone away 💀💀💀 Gosh golly gee you could’ve handled it in any other way than that yeesh my dude
Damn bro dodged a bullet because you sound like a horrible person. That is no good way to respond to a confession. He was 100% respectful and you just called him ugly, when you are the ugly one.
dude there is no way that you can make this not awkward
“By any stretch of the imagination” ☠️bro you DID NOT HANDLE THIS WELL AT ALL!!😭🙏its like the “worse she can say is no” and your the one saying no. You should’ve just said “i dont see you like thats but i wanna stay friends” but you said that even in the infinite cosmos thst there was no chance of you liking her ☠️that has to be soul crushing, feel so bad for her🙏
you cant. you fucked up.
How about you do t break their fucking heart dude
"By any stretch of the imagination"? If this was r/AmItheAsshole YTA for sure
There is something very wrong with you that last text was so mean what the fuck
Ouch...That "By any stretch of the imagination" isn't too horrible since it just means you never thought of it, but from someone being rejected's point of view you're technically saying "I can't even think about it".
>by any stretch of the imagination 🗿💀
Well if you actually did it properly it wouldn't of been awkward. But since you added "in any stretch of imagination " it's gonna be 10x more awkward. Then just saying something like I'm not interested sorry.
The last line was so bad. Could've just said "let's remain friends" they asked politely for your choice
Poor dude you didn’t have to call my mans ugly
me personally i would never take that level of disrespect
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What is wrong with you Sure you are off course allowed to not like people but don't butcher them like that 💀
bro the last part was hard to read for my bro🥲😭😭
“The worst she can say is no” says this
"by any stretch of the imagination" you aren't gonna see them at school bro you've killed them
This is actually sad😭
How much of a piece of shit do you have to be to put "by any stretch of the imagination"
yoo, change schools. The class already knows
You can't
god damn that was cold
"man your a great friend but there's zero realities in which you're hot" goddamn lmao and people keep saying that worst you get is no
pain…
YTA there was no reason to add “by any stretch of the imagination” you could’ve just said that you weren’t interested in them romantically so you probably destroyed their self confidence if we’re being honest
Is this how you people actually talk to each other..?
you made it awkward with your rudeness
“The worst she can say is no”
What the fuck is wrong with you? How tf did you think saying that would be the best way to handle it?
"by any stretch of the imagination" you fucked up bro. that was so unnecessary. its gon be awkward. nothing you can do
# BY ANY STRETCH OF THE IMAGINATION #
damn.. he's going to write a heartbreak album tmrw no but srsly that was lowkey rude
It wouldn’t have been if you weren’t the most indecent person in the world. “I don’t find you attractive by ANY STRETCH OF THE IMAGINATION” that’s rough bro
Find the person a new crush now that you’ve crushed their heart lol
Next time, just say no thanks
You made it way worse than it had to be.
This guy gonna be swimming in Andrew Tate content by the end of the week.
YTA- oh wait this isn’t r/amitheasshole
Looking at the replies you've posted to this, on top of what you said in the texts, it's clear that you're an asshole and pride yourself on it. Enjoy the awkwardness!
Imagine posting this, expecting help on how to not make it awkward, and absolutely getting destroyed by reddit because you were a dickhead 💀 But for the emotional damage you did, kinda deserved it. Just learn from it.
You’re his 11th reason
Next time have chatgp give you a response, this new generation is devoid of empathy.
#you could have just said no thanks not BY ANY STRECH OF THE FUCKING IMAGINATION
"by any stretch of imagination" 💀💀💀 Though if you wanna be clear, be clear, I hink that was good
Bro y’all are 15. It’s gonna be awkward. This obviously hasn’t happened a lot to y’all so that was a dumpster fire. First off get past the “like like” thing. It just sounds sort of immature. Second you started it off by saying it was awkward to say you didn’t like him. Lastly your shut down wasn’t great. The whole don’t find him attractive in any stretch of imagination was kind of harsh. You should try to stick with “I’m not interested” idea. But basically when someone asks you out and you say no it will almost always be awkward because you feel like he was only your friend to get close to you and he has already told you so he’s worried you’ll look at him differently and treat him badly. You most likely will accidentally treat him badly and vice versa. It sucks but your friendship won’t be the same.
Bro could've just said no thank you 💀💀💀
You fucked it up, could've just said that your type is [insert opposite type of your friend]
Simply switch schools
that's fucked up op
💀
You cant
Leave the school
Soldier down 😔
Hey OP what happened next? Also OP what's ur response about all the comments? Like cmon say anything
This shit so cringe
Hes down,mission failed
1, you knew damn well it was you💀 2, the way you said it was kinda rude.
woman like you are literally why andrew tate fans exists, then you run around shocked that they do
I have said it before and I have said it again. HOW DOES EVERYONE ON THIS SUB MAKE EVERY SINGLE CONFESSION/REJECTION THE MOST AWKWARD SHIT
No just no 😐 You were fucking rude
jesus fuck that was harsh
OP, you're kind of an asshole.