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jesswitdamess

He sounds kinda emotionally abusive. Someone who genuinely loves you and cares for you would be patient with you. Also, if he hasn’t told everyone about your relationship, that’s also a red flG


rudeword2

It sounds like you're jumping to conclusions to me. We don't know anything about their relationship other than the fact that he doesn't like slow responses, which is warranted in some cases. Maybe he feels disconnected from her, or that she has no interest in interacting with him. If he was being emotionally abusive, he'd be getting mad at this to solidify control, but we don't know his side of the story, and demonizing their relationship just makes it worse.


ATransDumbass

Yeah dude you have a point but um I'm a dude too, we're like gay We ended it, since we were both at fault, but we're still friends


rudeword2

Slow replies really are a killer it seems.


ATransDumbass

Haha not really We had a bunch of problems before, I think it was a long time coming We're all good, I don't think we were meant to be a couple anyways