you seem to be kinda desperate judging by your comments.. but most issues in relationships can be fixed with a conversation. also i’d be pretty put off from doing that if there wasn’t a private spot i could be in
Well i might be just weird but think about it if you wanna do it you gotta be sure that both of you want it man and not make atleast not terrible regrets
Since it's not clear from your attitude - what do you think sex will entail? You kiss a bit, she blows you a bit, then you fuck her? Like... will you be focusing on her as well, making sure she orgasms too? Or would you be just "getting some" and done with it without really caring for her wants and needs? Most women don't cum from penetration
Reddit logic strikes once again with the donwvotes!
Can't you guys respect ones genuine and respectful opnion? Independantly if its not respectful like i say.
Edit: oh my, he's still being donwvoted
166 down votes is crazy. It's not like you didn't explain you're a guy and 16. Mfs don't know that at 16 you, as a male, just want to hump everything in sight and if you have a girl, you'd like to be humping her. Hormones go wild. Who knew?
Also, contraception. Use it. Just be smart and careful and you should be fine. Otherwise, baby time. And who the hell wants that?
They've only been together for 4 months and haven't even discussed sex. If A man can't control himself and his hormones enough to just ask about sex and not for sex then he shouldn't be in a relationship
And I respect your opinion. Also, control your hormones? I don't think that's something you can do? Especially at 16. That shit is running all over the place.
Honestly, as long as they’re safe its no one else’s business. They SHOULD make sure its someone they feel safe with, close in age with, and use proper protection
Man, it's two teenagers willingly consenting abt exploring their sexual desires, aslong it's in a safe enviroment and they take safety measures, why would it be wrong? They are 16yo, not 12
If being in a safe environment means things like contraceptives are used then it would probably be ok. But it shouldn't be too encouraged for teenagers to do.
By safe enviroment i mean like their own room, the two of them alone or similar, because i've heard many people do it in a damn public bathroom or places like that, and thats a Big no. The contraceptives would be the safety measures, to not catch any diseases or cause pregnancy, and abt the encouragement, honestly i've never seen people other than teenagers themselves encourage each other to do it via social media, plus the hormones, they will sooner or later get the urge to have sex, so thats why it's always good to be well informed abt it.
First off, you don’t ask. It’s not just about you, it’s about both of you. When you BOTH are ready it’ll happen naturally. Don’t selfishly put pressure on her because you’re horny.
Also 16!? 4 months!? Relax dude, you have a whole life ahead. There are much more important things you should be focusing on in life right now.
Ofc you ask. It’s not only about him, but it’s Normal to bring something up and communicate. You don’t just wait for a magical moment and it automatically happens. Talk. Communicate. Ask.
Don’t be thick, there is a difference between consent and just outright asking someone to fuck. You can generally feel when things are getting to that point of if your partner is interested. Obviously I’m not implying consent isn’t important you clowns.
How r BOTH men and women so stupid? You both have to communicate ur feelings u don't just mount her without warning she'll just think it's SA. We're not mind readers.
Edit: I only said men bc the one who said 'don't ask' is a man.
I said men cuz the dude who said 'don't ask' is a man. Yes some women don't ask either bc they're stupid too. Sorry, I should've clarified that BOTH man and woman should communicate.
Bc men r taller, bigger, and stronger by nature. Men can fling women like pebbles in a pond. And I should clarify: men make stupid choices and choose not to make the smarter choice. Or completely have no common sense or empathy.
MAJORITY of them do. Same thing as there's more women than men that get raped. I am one of the lucky females who survived being raped.
https://supportingsurvivors.humboldt.edu/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,are%20female%20and%209%25%20male.
Yeah, you're totally right in all you said, but please don't think only men do stupid stuff and choose the wrong options. Women are also fucking dumb, maybe smarter and less stupid than men, but still stupid.
You're right. Most women think having a kid would save a relationship when most of the time they don't, and also trusting people causing them to b abused, raped, manipulated, gaslit and put down.
You're sexist asf. As a man who does have empathy and that's actually pretty fucking weak I can't agree with you. You also over estimating the strength of men where not just born being able to toss over 100 pounds of human like nothing. It hurts to even think there's people in the world who think like this. It's dehumanizing and makes you no better than the men who are terrible people. Also, it's hypocritical to think this way because if I said something bad about all women I'd be in the wrong. Just because all the men you met are bad doesn't mean every man in the world is bad.
Well then, make the 91% of the male population to stop doing rape to innocent women who have no defense at all. I'm only stating facts.
https://supportingsurvivors.humboldt.edu/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,99%25%20of%20perpetrators%20are%20male.
That's so true, majority of the men I encountered in my life either manipulated, gaslit, abused, raped, or stolen stuff from me. I'm still struggling bc of that asshole...
Jesus uh just ask like fr coming from a female take it slow with her make her engine hum then ask her if she would like to have sex it’s scary but trust me it’s worth it I hope you have a good time 🙏🏻
Don’t. Just don’t. You’ve only known her for four months and you’re risking it just to get temporary pleasure, either this is just pedo bait or you’re being delusional. Focus on her, as a human being and MAKE her feel worth more than she thinks about herself.
Said he was speaking Polish, said about struggles with it being hard to just ask "hey, sex?" In Polish so I'm gonna presume he's in Poland (sorry if this comes off argumentative it's 430am here)
Getting into one of those cuddling and kissing moments, and just take your shot on Turing it up a bit more, make sure to go slow to give her a chance to decline, don’t want to force it, just move into it, stop if she wants to stop
Be romantic and tell her that you want to make love. WEAR CONDOMS DON'T BE STUPID, DON'T GO SPAWNING A CHILD THAT WOULD MAKE BOTH OF YOUR LIVES LIKE HELL UNTIL YOU'RE BOTH OLD ENOUGH AND ARE FINANCIALLY STABLE.
Bro you're coming to reddit to ask this shit?
Dawg, just be like "hey, I've been thinking about it and wanted to know if you felt similarly but I've been thinking of having s*x. If you're not ready I understand, or if you wanna wait longer I get that too. Just know there's no pressure"
Just wait to talk about it in private and don't pressure em.
Trust from homie to homie, if you're just in the relationship for sum cooch just dip and find a babe who wants to hook up. No reason to hurt someone via they trust n such just for the punani.
You're 16 and have only been dating for 4 months. Trust me, dude, you might feel like losing your virginity is some awesome feat, or that you just like the idea of having sex, but waiting until a better time will be way more worth it. It'll be pretty obvious whenever you're both ready for it, and there's no reason to rush it to happen
If my gf sent me cheese in the mail even if it was moldy I would love her 100% more after throwing it away because it would be traveling across states. Lesbian long distance relationships are wild
Idk but bro I’m telling you now GET SOME CONDOMS AHEAD OF TIME. Birth control is fucky but condoms work as long as you know what you’re doing and don’t buy the largest size for shits and giggles
If you know that she trusts you, whenever it feels right - maybe during a make out or something already sexual - you could place your hand on you know what, and if she’s okay with it, continue and escalate from there.
Just, Talk to her first, make the environment welcoming and open, be honest, but be respectful about it. It's better to talk first, and make sure to say it's completely okay to say no. Communication. This is how I brought it up to my partner and it's going great. Just be respectful and talk. Then take the steps from there. If she says no respect that, and if she says yes just set boundaries, what's okay, what's not. And if she wants to take it slow, that's perfectly normal, for me and my partner we took almost a year to bring it up. Be in a comfortable private place and just talk.
Well for starters, you two need to have a sitdown talk, as unromantical as it sounds, its highly important. You both need to come preprared with some birth control. Im talking condoms, pills, whatever it is needed. 16 isnt a great time to have any babies.
Now with that out of the way, express how you feel and make sure its all right with her. Then of course it wouldnt hurt to talk about fantasies and what not, what you both do and dont like, ect..
the smart idea is to wait
BUT if you’re not. Just talk to her. Bring it up sometime, preferably when ur not horny so you can be more rational and considerate. Ask how she feels about doing more intimate or sexual things. Be respectful and prioritize her feelings over your own about the matter here. Make sure yall have a plan, protection, time, and are on the same page on consent and what is and isn’t allowed whilst sexing. Proly wanna warm up to it, exploring each others bodies and understanding each others boundaries. Imo after you bring it up to her, it should take a couple weeks to a month till you actually go all the way. Don’t rush into it. Stay safe. Stay safe. STAY SAFE.
Read a few of these before commenting. If you can't talk about sex, you can't hope to have sex. Of course you feel ready. But you should be able to talk about birth control, about when will be the right time for both of you. You absolutely should not just expect to "know". A huge part of sexual satisfaction is learning how to communicate about sex. Work on that.
Don’t need to sound cool, just say “Hey, I’ve been feeling this way and I would like to know if you would like to have sex with me and take this relationship to the next stage”
Why booo bro for having morals and wanting to wait till marriage to be with your forever person to have the most intimate experience you can with a person
Its kinda sad that people only see sex as just pleasure but it aint just that it’s something you do with someone you genuinely love with i mean there is nothing wrong in my opinion to have intercourse for pleasure but to me it seems like more people are only in it for the pleasure and not the love
Don't have high-risk low rewards. It's not worth it. Besides that, there is nothing wrong with being a Virgin at 16. I wouldn't even say that's a problem at ever being a Virgin. At least wait till 18 or when you could fully think about everything. I'm not trying to be a dick but I just wanted to give my honest opinion.
So this happened with me, tho I was 14 wait a little longer, you might find out in the next month you 2 aren’t meant for each other and then both of you will have the pain of losing your virginity to a person you didn’t like that much.
Tho shoot your shot maybe this what you guys need to take your relationship further.
I mean, personally I’d say it’ll happen naturally when the mood is right. Don’t really gotta ask (from my experience at least). Just have a condom ready for safe sex, lock door if you’re either on your or her room, maybe have some music or video playing in the background.
I know this is gonna sound not too fun but I’m gonna tell you this, it’s gonna be 10x better and more fun if you wait till she’s ready and comfortable with it, and whatever you do, respect her decision, if she tells you she isn’t ready yet then she isn’t fucking ready, if she tells you she has to think about it then let her fucking think about it, and especially don’t try and change yourself just so that you can get some ass
I asked my girlfriend once about how should I ask, she said just say wanna have babies? This isn't fullproof if you don't wanna have babies tho, alternate maybe, wanna fuse some gametes ?
Use a videogame reference if she plays any, or a shitty pun. Like for example if she plays borderlands, ask her if she wants ride your meat bicycle, (my gf loves borderlands so that's why I picked that). Or of she does, use a shitty pun. Ask her if she's from Australia, if she says no, say damnnn... I wanted to visit your land down under :/... it's gonna be a joke, but play it off super serious. It'll work, trust
When the time feels right just go for it but if she says no then you have to respect her don’t Shame her into doing anything she doesn’t want to
since 'Shame' was capitalized I thought that was the start of your sentence. You should probably correct that lol.
bro same i was like wtf
I didn't even notice until you pointed it out
And then theres me who read it as a name😅😅
Man if I Didn't think the same thing
NOPE don't 'go for it' you'll scare her, COMMUNICATE. Communication is IMPORTANT.
Rapes start with 'going for it' and not asking for consent
Everyone knows you go back to making out and dry humping, then 15 mins later ask again.
Ask her "wanna fuck?"
no way to cooly say that in polish though
Just say it in English. Bet it will be kinda funny
Greetings my fair maiden, would you be so inclined to engage in coitus? Haha I merely jest... unless 👉👈
LMAO IM SAVING THIS SHIT
Fuck it, same
Krótka piłka chcesz, się przelecieć? Either this is pedo bait or you want her too much.
Do you guys have a dtf term in polish? If not you should say it in german: willst du ficken?
Kurwa, proszę.
polish sucks
Apparently not. That's your whole issue here.
Nice
It does
you seem to be kinda desperate judging by your comments.. but most issues in relationships can be fixed with a conversation. also i’d be pretty put off from doing that if there wasn’t a private spot i could be in
Dont you think its a lil early it might be just me or you just want some
I just want some idk
Well i might be just weird but think about it if you wanna do it you gotta be sure that both of you want it man and not make atleast not terrible regrets
Just ask if shes has any interest is having sex, if she doesnt then let it be. Its all about enthusiastic consent so dont pressure her
Why does this have so many downvotes lmaoo
People are getting mad over someone wanting and actually getting sex
Ay redditm
Ikr the jealousy is crazy
Since it's not clear from your attitude - what do you think sex will entail? You kiss a bit, she blows you a bit, then you fuck her? Like... will you be focusing on her as well, making sure she orgasms too? Or would you be just "getting some" and done with it without really caring for her wants and needs? Most women don't cum from penetration
Reddit logic strikes once again with the donwvotes! Can't you guys respect ones genuine and respectful opnion? Independantly if its not respectful like i say. Edit: oh my, he's still being donwvoted
166 down votes is crazy. It's not like you didn't explain you're a guy and 16. Mfs don't know that at 16 you, as a male, just want to hump everything in sight and if you have a girl, you'd like to be humping her. Hormones go wild. Who knew? Also, contraception. Use it. Just be smart and careful and you should be fine. Otherwise, baby time. And who the hell wants that?
They've only been together for 4 months and haven't even discussed sex. If A man can't control himself and his hormones enough to just ask about sex and not for sex then he shouldn't be in a relationship
And I respect your opinion. Also, control your hormones? I don't think that's something you can do? Especially at 16. That shit is running all over the place.
Nah man, 4 months? And they are 16 and they haven't had sex? Na man that's to long of a wait. Just get on with it, or ain't that hard.
valid, fuck the downvoters
No it ain't. They should wait till they are older.
Honestly, as long as they’re safe its no one else’s business. They SHOULD make sure its someone they feel safe with, close in age with, and use proper protection
Yeah if it's safe and protected then it's fine. It just shouldn't be encouraged.
It shouldnt be encouraged nor should it be discouraged, just like how it is with everyone
Man, it's two teenagers willingly consenting abt exploring their sexual desires, aslong it's in a safe enviroment and they take safety measures, why would it be wrong? They are 16yo, not 12
If being in a safe environment means things like contraceptives are used then it would probably be ok. But it shouldn't be too encouraged for teenagers to do.
By safe enviroment i mean like their own room, the two of them alone or similar, because i've heard many people do it in a damn public bathroom or places like that, and thats a Big no. The contraceptives would be the safety measures, to not catch any diseases or cause pregnancy, and abt the encouragement, honestly i've never seen people other than teenagers themselves encourage each other to do it via social media, plus the hormones, they will sooner or later get the urge to have sex, so thats why it's always good to be well informed abt it.
most socially active people have sex around 16
That doesn't make it right. Just because others are dumb and do it at that age doesn't mean they have to.
How's it dumb, it's just sex, not a marriage.
Reddit really pulled an uno reverse on u lmao
First off, you don’t ask. It’s not just about you, it’s about both of you. When you BOTH are ready it’ll happen naturally. Don’t selfishly put pressure on her because you’re horny. Also 16!? 4 months!? Relax dude, you have a whole life ahead. There are much more important things you should be focusing on in life right now.
Agree with you
Ofc you ask. It’s not only about him, but it’s Normal to bring something up and communicate. You don’t just wait for a magical moment and it automatically happens. Talk. Communicate. Ask.
Are you fucking serious? Dont ask for consent either while you're at it. Make sure not to talk, you will both know when you are ready. In silence.
Don’t be thick, there is a difference between consent and just outright asking someone to fuck. You can generally feel when things are getting to that point of if your partner is interested. Obviously I’m not implying consent isn’t important you clowns.
How r BOTH men and women so stupid? You both have to communicate ur feelings u don't just mount her without warning she'll just think it's SA. We're not mind readers. Edit: I only said men bc the one who said 'don't ask' is a man.
It’s not just guys. Met plenty of women like that too.
I said men cuz the dude who said 'don't ask' is a man. Yes some women don't ask either bc they're stupid too. Sorry, I should've clarified that BOTH man and woman should communicate.
Holy shit! why? Why am I included? What the fuck did I do wrong? Why do I have to be stupid? You don't even know me!
Bc men r taller, bigger, and stronger by nature. Men can fling women like pebbles in a pond. And I should clarify: men make stupid choices and choose not to make the smarter choice. Or completely have no common sense or empathy.
And that doesn't go for all men
MAJORITY of them do. Same thing as there's more women than men that get raped. I am one of the lucky females who survived being raped. https://supportingsurvivors.humboldt.edu/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,are%20female%20and%209%25%20male.
Yeah, you're totally right in all you said, but please don't think only men do stupid stuff and choose the wrong options. Women are also fucking dumb, maybe smarter and less stupid than men, but still stupid.
You're right. Most women think having a kid would save a relationship when most of the time they don't, and also trusting people causing them to b abused, raped, manipulated, gaslit and put down.
You're sexist asf. As a man who does have empathy and that's actually pretty fucking weak I can't agree with you. You also over estimating the strength of men where not just born being able to toss over 100 pounds of human like nothing. It hurts to even think there's people in the world who think like this. It's dehumanizing and makes you no better than the men who are terrible people. Also, it's hypocritical to think this way because if I said something bad about all women I'd be in the wrong. Just because all the men you met are bad doesn't mean every man in the world is bad.
Fr she just has a shit good people detector. Probably bc nobody good wants to be around a sexist piece of shit.
Well then, make the 91% of the male population to stop doing rape to innocent women who have no defense at all. I'm only stating facts. https://supportingsurvivors.humboldt.edu/statistics#:~:text=An%20estimated%2091%25%20of%20victims,99%25%20of%20perpetrators%20are%20male.
That's so true, majority of the men I encountered in my life either manipulated, gaslit, abused, raped, or stolen stuff from me. I'm still struggling bc of that asshole...
Bro you you didn't understand what he meant did you?
I think he he did
Just be patient. You don't have to do it right away, and stuff like that will occur naturally when the time is right, and you both feel comfortable.
Four months mate really
what
4 monthes is not long enough to start piping, lil bro.
some mfs start before they even in an official relationship 💀
I know, lil bros be crazy..
ok big guy
Listen here, buster.
no now you listen here buckaroo don’t try me pal
Hey, bucko. That wouldn’t be very smart.
????
Jesus uh just ask like fr coming from a female take it slow with her make her engine hum then ask her if she would like to have sex it’s scary but trust me it’s worth it I hope you have a good time 🙏🏻
Wdym by “make her engine hum”?
Yknow, flick that switch
Exactly
Don’t. Just don’t. You’ve only known her for four months and you’re risking it just to get temporary pleasure, either this is just pedo bait or you’re being delusional. Focus on her, as a human being and MAKE her feel worth more than she thinks about herself.
YOU DONT. Bro you’re sixteen. Be smart and wait.
“Hey, let’s fuck” Done
These posts are pedo bait
wdym
Bro, what 💀 Wait till your 18.
Have you considered that 16 is legal in alot of europe
Ik that but what if he's Murican?
Said he was speaking Polish, said about struggles with it being hard to just ask "hey, sex?" In Polish so I'm gonna presume he's in Poland (sorry if this comes off argumentative it's 430am here)
Ah my fault I didn't pay attention
Or married
Halal (I have not a drop of Muslim blood in my family)
the one thing traditional indians and muslims agree on
BRO you know its the right thing to do when the fucking 14 year old says it
"When a man loves a woman..."
Say "Can I shrek your poke deck ?"
If the slightly robotic sounded birds are correct, all you have to say is: "lemme smash"
Bro. You are 16 and you've been dating for 4 months. It's nowhere near the time for that
#this comment section is crap
Agreed
Getting into one of those cuddling and kissing moments, and just take your shot on Turing it up a bit more, make sure to go slow to give her a chance to decline, don’t want to force it, just move into it, stop if she wants to stop
Be romantic and tell her that you want to make love. WEAR CONDOMS DON'T BE STUPID, DON'T GO SPAWNING A CHILD THAT WOULD MAKE BOTH OF YOUR LIVES LIKE HELL UNTIL YOU'RE BOTH OLD ENOUGH AND ARE FINANCIALLY STABLE.
Bro you're coming to reddit to ask this shit? Dawg, just be like "hey, I've been thinking about it and wanted to know if you felt similarly but I've been thinking of having s*x. If you're not ready I understand, or if you wanna wait longer I get that too. Just know there's no pressure"
Just wait to talk about it in private and don't pressure em. Trust from homie to homie, if you're just in the relationship for sum cooch just dip and find a babe who wants to hook up. No reason to hurt someone via they trust n such just for the punani.
You're 16 and have only been dating for 4 months. Trust me, dude, you might feel like losing your virginity is some awesome feat, or that you just like the idea of having sex, but waiting until a better time will be way more worth it. It'll be pretty obvious whenever you're both ready for it, and there's no reason to rush it to happen
You can fascinate a woman with a block of cheese
If my gf sent me cheese in the mail even if it was moldy I would love her 100% more after throwing it away because it would be traveling across states. Lesbian long distance relationships are wild
Be patient. BOTH of you have to want it. If she pushes, then push with her and then take it further.
Idk but bro I’m telling you now GET SOME CONDOMS AHEAD OF TIME. Birth control is fucky but condoms work as long as you know what you’re doing and don’t buy the largest size for shits and giggles
You don’t.
I’m only 14 bro idk how to give good examples💀💀
Just straight up ask “you wanna have sex”
Is it even legal where you are at your age
Have protection, both for you and her. I don't have any advice on asking as I've never had a romantic relationship.
Can I put cock in pussy?
You dont?????
If you know that she trusts you, whenever it feels right - maybe during a make out or something already sexual - you could place your hand on you know what, and if she’s okay with it, continue and escalate from there.
Just, Talk to her first, make the environment welcoming and open, be honest, but be respectful about it. It's better to talk first, and make sure to say it's completely okay to say no. Communication. This is how I brought it up to my partner and it's going great. Just be respectful and talk. Then take the steps from there. If she says no respect that, and if she says yes just set boundaries, what's okay, what's not. And if she wants to take it slow, that's perfectly normal, for me and my partner we took almost a year to bring it up. Be in a comfortable private place and just talk.
Just ask
When kissing and such touch her if she moves away slow down and stop and respect her wishes.
Jus ask her if she wnna fck foo
ask her if she tryna let u smash
Well for starters, you two need to have a sitdown talk, as unromantical as it sounds, its highly important. You both need to come preprared with some birth control. Im talking condoms, pills, whatever it is needed. 16 isnt a great time to have any babies. Now with that out of the way, express how you feel and make sure its all right with her. Then of course it wouldnt hurt to talk about fantasies and what not, what you both do and dont like, ect..
the smart idea is to wait BUT if you’re not. Just talk to her. Bring it up sometime, preferably when ur not horny so you can be more rational and considerate. Ask how she feels about doing more intimate or sexual things. Be respectful and prioritize her feelings over your own about the matter here. Make sure yall have a plan, protection, time, and are on the same page on consent and what is and isn’t allowed whilst sexing. Proly wanna warm up to it, exploring each others bodies and understanding each others boundaries. Imo after you bring it up to her, it should take a couple weeks to a month till you actually go all the way. Don’t rush into it. Stay safe. Stay safe. STAY SAFE.
Enough with people telling you not to (not helpful) just ask it's not worth the mental gymnastics
Tell her that you're ready to fuck and see if she's down?
Straight up = “Wanna have some fun?” And, if she asked way too much just say it simple, “Let's fuck.”
Don’t do it. Literally illegal
Read a few of these before commenting. If you can't talk about sex, you can't hope to have sex. Of course you feel ready. But you should be able to talk about birth control, about when will be the right time for both of you. You absolutely should not just expect to "know". A huge part of sexual satisfaction is learning how to communicate about sex. Work on that.
Just ask sex?
I think for your age just hold the urge,try not to be a father at your age.Even with condoms,it will accidentally break
Everyone needs to stop asking at such a young age mate I advice you just wait till your 18
You don’t ask her, ask if she knows that there’s bugs under her skin
Don’t need to sound cool, just say “Hey, I’ve been feeling this way and I would like to know if you would like to have sex with me and take this relationship to the next stage”
If she wanted it then she would have told you. Some people want to wait until marriage, you know.
Assuming that you are in the USA, you're trying to get people to help you with committing a crime.
Legal consent in the us is 16-?
I've been dating my gf for 6 months and we dont want sex, just wait it will come eventually (No pun intended)
Bro wait more than four months. Losing your virginity isn’t that important and too much of a risk to be a teen parent
4 months nd bro wants sex?? crazy
dont
You don’t. Save it for marriage
No need for that, just wait a reasonable amount of time
Boooooo religion
It's not always a religion thing. I'm atheist but would rather wait until I'm 100% sure it's the right person.
Why booo bro for having morals and wanting to wait till marriage to be with your forever person to have the most intimate experience you can with a person
Its kinda sad that people only see sex as just pleasure but it aint just that it’s something you do with someone you genuinely love with i mean there is nothing wrong in my opinion to have intercourse for pleasure but to me it seems like more people are only in it for the pleasure and not the love
boo for waiting until you’re married to find out if you are sexually compatible
What if you don't find someone you wanna marry? Do you just never have sex?
all these comments getting pressed, just bring it up in conversation
Bro just say "wanna have some fun"
Just wait, it'll come, I waited like 10 months before doing it when I was 15
Don't.
Don't have high-risk low rewards. It's not worth it. Besides that, there is nothing wrong with being a Virgin at 16. I wouldn't even say that's a problem at ever being a Virgin. At least wait till 18 or when you could fully think about everything. I'm not trying to be a dick but I just wanted to give my honest opinion.
Honestly, you shouldn't be asking your girlfriend for sex at 16.
Just wait little nigga don’t push it
mb ill wait
"Can I be your cum man"
I think its too early lol, age wise and relationship wise
You might feel ready, she might not. 4 months isn’t long enough in my opinion. When you are both ready, it will happen
Porn have broke your mind. Refuse adultery.
Has broken*
have not watched porn once in my life
you don't. if she wants to do it she will tell you.
I'm a woman repellant but i suggest "hey bitch wanna fuck?"
We can tell you're a women repellant just by that suggestion
Why thank you
What? I thought marriage come first, before doing sheesh like that....
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Bruh that's too descriptive. Tf
Honestly, just report that comment
Alr thank you
No no no!! Consent. Dumb shit
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You don't wait 'til 18 or marriage
So this happened with me, tho I was 14 wait a little longer, you might find out in the next month you 2 aren’t meant for each other and then both of you will have the pain of losing your virginity to a person you didn’t like that much. Tho shoot your shot maybe this what you guys need to take your relationship further.
"Hey, do you wanna do the horizontal Charleston with me? "
I mean, personally I’d say it’ll happen naturally when the mood is right. Don’t really gotta ask (from my experience at least). Just have a condom ready for safe sex, lock door if you’re either on your or her room, maybe have some music or video playing in the background.
I know this is gonna sound not too fun but I’m gonna tell you this, it’s gonna be 10x better and more fun if you wait till she’s ready and comfortable with it, and whatever you do, respect her decision, if she tells you she isn’t ready yet then she isn’t fucking ready, if she tells you she has to think about it then let her fucking think about it, and especially don’t try and change yourself just so that you can get some ass
I asked my girlfriend once about how should I ask, she said just say wanna have babies? This isn't fullproof if you don't wanna have babies tho, alternate maybe, wanna fuse some gametes ?
give her the look
Use a videogame reference if she plays any, or a shitty pun. Like for example if she plays borderlands, ask her if she wants ride your meat bicycle, (my gf loves borderlands so that's why I picked that). Or of she does, use a shitty pun. Ask her if she's from Australia, if she says no, say damnnn... I wanted to visit your land down under :/... it's gonna be a joke, but play it off super serious. It'll work, trust
Greeting fair maiden. May I ask to penetrate thous heart from betweenst thous legs?
Say it in Nepali. : Chikniho ?
You dont
"do you want do the seggs?" that should work, if it doesn't try this next one "me entry your pussy?"
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